Without consent. Without consent. Without selfreflection on his lack of bond with his stepbaby. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. You and your baby must get away now. GO

@daniellemitchell3118

Ай бұрын

She did. And she's covering all her bases.

@DenarWasTaken

22 күн бұрын

me imagining the fall guys song over this comment

@SunnieDIY

8 күн бұрын

Hed have been out the door telling me kiddo wasnt good enough and worse makes him angry at the sight and thinks its ok then to push me to have a baby. Nope he would be kicked out or I would have left then. I know I put up with a lot if shite when its me but fk if you are going to treat my kiddo that way.

Bro thinks having babies is like collecting Monopoly money💀💀

@slayerwytch2032

27 күн бұрын

I think op’s husband voted for maga

The fact he wasnt accepting and said he gets angry by just looking at her other son should be enough for her to leave him...

@WaryJester

Ай бұрын

Exactly, step parents are more likely to "delete" unrelated children out of jealousy, and that's a major red flag. Her first question should be "why do you want a kid with me if you don't like my child now?" And leave regardless of his answer.

@daniellemitchell3118

Ай бұрын

She only has one son.

@jayvee1387

Ай бұрын

came here just to say this! The lunacy on display on his part is almost outdone by the negligence to her son that she put on display. I would NEVER leave my baby around someone who said they were angry at and/or hated them, let alone for something they literally CANNOT CONTROL! Complete insanity.

@zombinosh

Ай бұрын

​@@WaryJester100 times more likely to delete.

See ladies, I believe this is what we call "attempted baby trapping." He only wanted that kid to tie her down and always have her with him one way or another.

@TheVeiledMonarch

22 күн бұрын

Sexual coercion

0:57 for everyone who came from the short

@MadzNotHere

Ай бұрын

Thanks, man! I was a little confused in where I was in the video 😅

@daflaminporg2454

Ай бұрын

Thx man

@shaiminchalas8536

Ай бұрын

Thx

@user-fb8dq9sy4m

Ай бұрын

Thanks

@liwo2790

Ай бұрын

You're so sweet! thank you!

im scared this man will find me, let me publicly say where i am to strangers online on a site that gets its posts shared everywhere online.

@ShadowBladee1

Ай бұрын

🤣

@zeauthorofcheese

Ай бұрын

she is using a different account so no one knows

@michie666

Ай бұрын

You'd think this was written yesterday??

@ShadowBladee1

Ай бұрын

@@zeauthorofcheese yes, but if her fiance comes across this post or any of this friends they would immediately know its her.

@zeauthorofcheese

Ай бұрын

@@ShadowBladee1 true but like yea you got a point

I feel like op is his first victim. After this, he may hide and start again, but this time he learned to pretend nice and loving longer, to cut his victim from their family and friends firstly, to manipulate better, to use stronger pills... Now i'm scared for the next one he date. He failed once, he'll win next time.😢😢😢

The way he views OPs son is enough for her to run for the hills. Who wants to have a baby with someone who sees their child that way??

I'm just happy that she has a supportive family who cares and protects one another. Also you don't need to apologize for the rambling.

What was his plan? Like even if she didn’t wake up when he was trying to cut it out and somehow she slept through him cutting it out she would still wake up the next morning with a cut in her arm, and she would probably figure out the birth control was missing while messing with the wound. Plus it would be suspicious how intentional a sudden wound like that would be since if she never woke up it would seem like it just happened out of nowhere. Did he think that she would suddenly be ecstatic to have a child? Did he just think that if he got rid of the birth control then she would just agree and not even question the sudden wound and missing birth control.

@laevateinn4144

29 күн бұрын

I fear that he might have tried to SA her while she was asleep after taking the implant, to get her pregnant ASAP and baby-trap her? As to impose his own beliefs upon hers and there was nothing left to do. He just saw tutorials on how to remove it and went ahead with a box cutter (that might not even be clean, to begin with), he wasn't thinking at all.

The convo was done when he expressed his feelings about my son. He'd not be a fiance after that and call the police when he tried removing the birth control. Creep!

I wouldn't forgive him after he said that he has no connection to your child and that it makes him angry just to look at him and then he tried to cut your arm open with a box cutter take your stuff and go before he hurts you or your kid

@daniellemitchell3118

Ай бұрын

She did. You should listen to the full story instead of just the short.

I'm only 25 seconds in and I feel so uncomfortable already. My arms are starting to hurt just thinking about what he's going to do 😅

@Ilove_Skzoos

Ай бұрын

im rn 7 minutes and smth in this, and its giving me chills

@QueenMizu

Ай бұрын

@@Ilove_Skzoos right?! When it got to the box cutter part my arms tightened so much 😖 the thought of something being cut out of you like that is just disturbed. And the fact he thought it was ok/a sane thing to do is wild

@I-am-invisible

Ай бұрын

​@@QueenMizuat that part I could literally feel my arm tightening...🤮 this whole story was so uncomfortable, especially since he thought it was fine because he "researched" how to take it out, which most likely just means he saw a 5 minute KZread video of how to cut skin. Also from the sounds of it, he's doing it horribly. (not sterile, a blunt blade, severely undertrained, etc.) This is a huge break of trust, and an even bigger risk, what would he have done if he pulled it off, but she got an infection? Try to explain he cut her implant out? Nope, he'd make up some bs excuse.

she dodged a huge bullet... i hope OP and her son are safe and well

why is OP even considering staying with the BF? .. you did "see his side" .. you were going to let the birth control run its course and have a child with BF then. he was the one who chose to perform amateur surgery in order to get his way

Girl, don’t walk, FUCKING RUN

That is unbelievably scary. I'm glad that she got out of there.

Stay safe and far away from your ex fiance because that is totally messed up big time and be a good mom to your son.

I have a feeling that this guy is a Narcsisst and her family has already realized he's bad news and he was still in the live bombing phase. Or two he's already dropped a bunch of little red flags and she didn't think they were serious at the time. Either way I'm glad she got out and I'm hoping that the restraining order will show his roll a bit. Also ladies if he says his ex was crazy but she successfully got a restraining order. You need to take a step back. Do some mire serious looking into and soul searching because 99% of the time you have to have something very very serious to get a restraining order.

Divorce him run away from him with your son op!

@Googilymoogily69

Ай бұрын

1MIN?!

@Imnotpistachio

Ай бұрын

@@Googilymoogily69 ???

@BrotherBozeman

Ай бұрын

They aren’t married

@Sera-tv7xy

25 күн бұрын

​@@BrotherBozemanyes and it's lucky they aren't he's gotten to the point where he's the fiance I'm glad he wasn't able to get her to marry him before he tried that stunt

see, this is what we commonly call a "red flag"... actually lots of them

@lily-if8ir

28 күн бұрын

No at this point that not a red flag it worse

Beyoncé was mad😮

@Mawpawz

Ай бұрын

Beyonce?? What dous she have to do with this lmao

@Silacrat

Ай бұрын

Beyoncé 😭

@jinxx117

Ай бұрын

​@@Mawpawz 0:42

@Sugaboo0705

4 күн бұрын

lmao💀

1:07 relationship would have been over the moment he said that.

@mr.figgly747

Ай бұрын

101%

@league-of-shadows

Ай бұрын

This!! She should never have even wanted to have a child with a man who speaks about her son that way.

@TC-vq6yz

Күн бұрын

OP needs to move out before this guy "resents" her son to the point of causing him injury (or worse.) This is not a guy with whom to have a family. Further, (I have a serious Momma Bear protective streak) there's NO way I would take "serious sleep meds" with a child in my care. If a sleep aid makes sleep so deep I don't hear and respond to movement and abnormal sounds in the night, I don't take it.

That mom is a HERO!

Yeah, so… anyone out there …. If he’s willing to take a box cuter to you to change something this time, what about next time? What if one of the kids has something he doesn’t like, will he take a box cutter to him?

I feel so bad for this girl who rlly loved this man and she is so confused and im scared that this man will hurt other girls also great job to her family for helping her and protecting her

Say it with me 😃 Jesus Christ wth 😟

@MadzNotHere

Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ WTH 😳

@growingterror76

Ай бұрын

*jesus* _christ_ -wth-

@Sera-tv7xy

25 күн бұрын

I'm not religious if there is a god that man is going to hell

@MadzNotHere

25 күн бұрын

@@Sera-tv7xy I’m not religious either, but I %100 agree. That man is a monster

“I’m not ready for a baby” “Oh ok let me force one on you”

The moment he said he that shhit about my kid ID be gone that night without a notice!!!!

I completely understand why a woman would just assume that she should just go to bed and try to work it out tomorrow. There’s the shock factor and the assumption that sleeping on it will make cooler heads prevail. Plus there’s the fact that the fiancé has probably been ratcheting up the pressure on her without her even being aware that things have been getting worse and that she needs to get out, and when she’s noticed that things are wrong, she has almost certainly just dismissed her own thoughts & feelings because her boyfriend has been making her question herself for so long that it wasn’t even something that she was actually aware of in the moment. This kind of thing is insidious.

You can tell buy the fact he gets made looking at his stepson he is gonna favor the youngest or his child more then prioritizing both of them equally all kids deserve parents but not all adults deserve kids

omfg. I really hope she gets a restraining order and that she never has any further contact with him again, at least not where she is alone and vulnerable with him. This guy is a danger to her and her child.

So like, was he gonna try to stitch her back up after also?

Cut the implant out is insanity💀

4:49 Speech: At 7 in the morning Text: At 11 in the morning

Beyoncé was mad 😂😂😂

Girl…. RUN!!!!!

If he tries to hurt you once, who says he won’t do it again?

Why would you go to sleep in the same house as him after he said he resents you and your son???? Cutting out the implant was just icing on the cake

I think they could’ve looked at the box cutter at it touched her skin and would probably have her dna/ skin cells (idk how that works) to show how it was touched to her skin

@shelliblossom8953

Ай бұрын

It didnt his fingers was touching her he was feeling for the thing he wanted to cut out

Its a little worrying how lifelike AI voices are becoming

Div-vorce

@Nfk2224

Ай бұрын

Divorce

@Goldie22

Ай бұрын

You don't divorce a fiance???? You just break up

@Goldie22

Ай бұрын

You can't divorce someone you're not married too

@IdrisLehu

Ай бұрын

marry him then divorce him? sounds like a plan!

@-Siatama-

Ай бұрын

@@IdrisLehuyeah and get literally nothing

Call the cops on that man!!!

CALL THE COPS !

Why even want to stay with him after what he said about your son? What kind of mother is that?

holy shit💀💀

One thing that I will never understand about people that get legit issues as adults, like schizophrenia, or like a brain tumor that makes them aggressive and want to do bad things is how they don’t realize something is wrong. Idk if it’s just their brain that makes them think everything is normal, but I feel like if I was all the sudden thinking or doing something horrible like cutting into my fiancé (also she would literally find out the next day anyway even if she didn’t wake up and get back on birth control at the very least, and they you would have caused pain, risked infection, also could have easily hit a vein/artery and made her bleed out, so how would you not realize something is wrong with you and go talk to a doctor. I feel I would know okay I’ve never had these thoughts and this is not something that is okay to do, I really need to talk to someone.

This is why we choose the bear

The second the guy said he gets mad when he looks at my kid, he'd be gone

He needs to get an mri this could be a sign of a brain tumour

The pauses at 2:56 😭

5:04 huh?

@dilute5885

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY BRO I WAS LIKE WHAT WAS THAT LOLLLLLLL

Beyoncé was mad😂

I. Am. ~Livid.~

Im so sorry girl

Assault. Press charges!!

I just learned you have to renew restrain orders with the person it is against being able to appeal and i am enraged

Bruh he tried to cut into u

Run

Sure my fiancé clearly hates my son, but that’s fine. But when he comes for ME, MY ARM…I draw the line. No wonder she doesn’t want more kids, she’s a horrible mother. Any woman who would pick a guy who very clearly states “I get angry when I look at your son and he doesn’t feel like my kid” is a horrible mother.

And some people will still be like “you shouldn’t divorce over something so frivolous” like BRUH😂😭 If they were married, of course.

I wonder how many people have commented on posts made about themselves without realizing it I know it ain’t about the story but it’s honestly a good question 😂

How he gonna say he wants a baby now like she can just get pregnant and go into labor it still takes 9 months 😭😂

I Am Livid😡 I’m sorry I had to it was funny-

I feel bad for the kid he saw that guy is his dad and he will likely never see him again. Yes, he’ll eventually forget about it but it could Subconsciously affect him as he grows up or emotionally affect him when he’s older, even if he doesn’t remember it

Yeah idk. If this happened to me with the man I love I understand her going to stay with her mom and even breaking it off. But idk if I could just ignore then and not talk to them at all. I would have met with him somewhere very public the next day and talked about his behavior and tell him that I no longer feel safe with him and that he isn’t the man I thought. 8 months goes by so fast. He could have literally just waited 8 months. I would have told him I want him to see a doctor and if it turned out something like people suggested was going on I would have tried to help him through it. I would just need to know if he had been hiding his true self from me or if something else was going on. I feel like going no contact is good in situations or straight up abuse that been going on for a while. But something like this if he was having a mental break shutting him out would just make it worse and make him more dangerous. If I love someone I’m going to try and help them and get to the root of the problem. I wouldn’t let me child around them or be alone with them but I also wouldn’t try to anger him even more before knowing for sure what’s going on with him. Him wanting to cut that out isn’t at all normal behavior and if he had always been very level headed and then all the sudden saw nothing wrong with that I would know either something isn’t right or he was always faking how he acted before.

Message the parents your son pulled a boxcutter on me while i was asleep get him help

He tried to cut into your arm with a box cutter because he couldn't wait 8 MONTHS!!!

"stibile"

Bro if you he hated that kid why did you darlte that lady to begin with. Tf kinda situation is thus. This is the first time for me .

5:04 wtf happened with the audio lmao

wtf you mean you don’t want to leave he tried to cup you open in your sleep and you want to stay what about you kid

Another horrible story where the “perfect” love partner (almost always a man) suddenly relieves his true self & almost end the other person’s life… And yet everyone of these stories makes me so sad for the a*used partner, essentially when children are involved too 😭💔 I’m just happy that they actually survived & then also being able to write these stories, completely bodily ok (mentally & emotionally are much more difficult… I can’t even imagine how they feel afterwards, but their courage & the strong will to both be able to continue to live & fight & also being able to share their stories with us that are reading/listening ❤️❤️❤️ The AI-voice didn’t seem to be able to say the correct name of her sleeping med? Since I also have had very severe (& several different parts of) insomnia for about 25 years now, I really would want to know which medication she uses? Can anyone kindly help me? I’d really appreciate that ❤️

Girl time stamp everything buy cameras and don’t look back

I think she overreacted by alot and running and hiding seemed wat dramatized for what he might have done.... should have just broken it off.... was no need for dramatic hiding.

Is the ai drunk

I see too many idk❤❤❤❤

Police

You being selfish

Dude must be going through it to be ready with a damn box cutter.

@daniellemitchell3118

Ай бұрын

Sympathy for attempted murder, or at assault with a deadly weapon?

@-lunar_shadow-3542

Ай бұрын

⁠@@daniellemitchell3118I don't think it's sympathy, I think they mean going through it as in possibly going into a psychotic state and brain is doing something very very very very very extremely wrong that it shouldn't be. (Either that or they're saying he's getting possessed)

Damn still one comment now two tho

The OP needs BC, needs drugs for sleeping, stays with another guy without the benefit of marriage. The OP is all kinds of dependent and is shocked by her bad decision making skills regarding the ex after her ex. The BF is a bad guy and it’s a guarantee that the signs were always there and the OP just needed her sleeping pills and BC. It’s all about choices and people need to choose wisely.

Half of her story is yap about something else entirely

@DarkQueen619

Ай бұрын

No its not.... get lost

Womp Womp

@Uhvejkdbsfiuebfiuvvr

Ай бұрын

???

So very clear that there is no dad in her life She is messed up and her brothers are embarrassing.

@user-dr8sl8vk9f

Ай бұрын

How is she messed up and her brothers embarrassing

@DarkQueen619

Ай бұрын

Yes she doesn't have a father in her life. Her brothers aren't messed up they are doing a great job protecting her. And for all we know her father has passed.

@sadeevans9537

Ай бұрын

Did we listen to the same story? You are defended a potential abuser who wanted to use a knife to get what they want from their partner. This does not have anything to do with her family or parentage.

And this is why you don't marry single moms

@thetireddragon

Ай бұрын

And this is why you get no bi**es.

@katrose5179

Ай бұрын

Because…that’s what makes you a psycho with a box cutter?

@CaseohMenzbathroom

Ай бұрын

It wasn’t her fault she made a line and he crossed it

@weronikaduak5215

Ай бұрын

​@@nemanjajankovic5772 wtf ? XD

@thetireddragon

Ай бұрын

@@nemanjajankovic5772 and its a reason to cut out her implant. Your a genius.

"Father figure" Say it with me boys: STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS

@KimmySaurusRex44

Ай бұрын

The guy literally tried to slice her arm open while she was asleep and you think shes the problem? Incel pos.

@arfbarkbark

Ай бұрын

this is such an incel response jesus christ

@DarkQueen619

Ай бұрын

Ah yes been dating a single mother automatically makes you a phsyco willing to mutualate your gf to get your way faster. SMH WTF

@DarkQueen619

Ай бұрын

​@@arfbarkbarkamen!

@Tappuswaterus

Ай бұрын

R u slow do u not know what father figure means 💀