The audacity of Mark to "fix their marriage" when he, not only Believe his ex-gf who doesn't even know op that well, try to make op choose between him or the baby, and he also try to get with his ex-gf again. The therapist might be right about Mark projecting about cheating.

@xenaguy01

9 күн бұрын

Marc is somehow convinced that you've been cheating, and his baby is Jake's. He seems incapable of getting around that thought. I can't see any way of fixing your marriage. Continue your therapy, to keep yourself sane, and begin to face your future as a single mom.

@lilogonzales6625

8 күн бұрын

The marriage is over when confidence is lost

@sharkboy0311

7 күн бұрын

Before she left she should have showed him the notebook

@ExcitedAlbatross-nc7fr

7 күн бұрын

I would just get a paternity test show him then you decide wether to stay with him or not

@patriciafix6626

3 күн бұрын

​@@ExcitedAlbatross-nc7fr Exactly. This woman is not too bright.

Mark is having an affair. Cheaters always think their partner is cheating too.

@GabrielleHayes1921

9 күн бұрын

Even if he isn't, the moment my spouse says "me or the child", nope it's over. My children will always come first, they're most important, anyone else can f off and doesn't need to be in my child's life.

@lilogonzales6625

8 күн бұрын

I don't understand why she hasn't gone to a private investigator

@eliashuapilla

3 күн бұрын

​@GabrielleHayes1921 I agree. Personally, the only reason why I would want a paternity test is so that I can shove the results in the faces of those who were questioning it.

The fact he believes an ex over her is a huge red flag

@redditstoriesrelationshipsusa

8 күн бұрын

And nowadays there are many men who always think that their ex-lover is better than their wife or current lover.

@robertnoble6661

8 күн бұрын

Men get's dumber when feelings are involve, be it love or betrayal. I'm not sure about women though.

The OP's ex husband's ex girlfriend should be sued by the op for dissolution of marriage and alienation of affection thanks to her actions and be made to compensate the op big time for good measure because regardless if the ex husband believe it, the ex girlfriend made it a reality down the line, so destroy a marriage,pay for it.

@JBTFan124

8 күн бұрын

Alienation of affection exists in like 6 states. It's unlikely it applies.

@claytonthomas1980

8 күн бұрын

@@JBTFan124maybe true but that doesn't excuse the fact that what the OP's ex husband's ex girlfriend did any less shameless and disrespectful in more ways than one and she should be punished for it,even if it's by alternative means period.

@pretzelicious4200

7 күн бұрын

Jake should sue for defamation

@JBTFan124

7 күн бұрын

@@claytonthomas1980 They suck, but the law is the law. Also, this story reads like a bad "romance" novel. I'm going to give this one like a 5% chance of being real.

@claytonthomas1980

7 күн бұрын

@@JBTFan124 that maybe true but if the roles were reversed and the op was spreading rumors on the ex girlfriend, she would have gone after her with that lawsuit and it wouldn't have reached the courtroom based on what you have stated,so the ex girlfriend should count her lucky stars that the op didn't decide to go after her by legal or violent means down the line for sure.

He thinks she’s cheating-yet he was most likely emotionally cheating with his EX!? If you are married, then you should never talk to your exes again.

If I ever found myself in this situation I'd just throw it back in their face with something like "Okay, I'll take the paternity test. How do you plan to apologize when it shows it's yours?"

@mrguccitrump8764

6 күн бұрын

I’m a firm believer of mandatory paternity tests there are to many cases of guys raising kids that they either don’t find out or find out later is not theirs and if it goes on long enough aka you raised the kid at all she can sue you for child support even if you find out the kid isn’t yours.

plot twist: mark was cheating all along

@FallenMystNYX

9 күн бұрын

That is almost not a plot twist anymore, but a fact

@netheritesalt5708

8 күн бұрын

This whole story it lowkey felt like he was projecting

Husband is either hella dumb or really insecure and Sarah knew it coz she claims to have seen them having private meetings and even saw them kissing in a car but didn't take pictures or anything but instead shows him pictures from the company's social media accounts and makes them seem more salacious. Anyone with even a modicum of critical thinking skills would have wondered why she didn't have more evidence. I think the therapist may be right and she was giving him all this info in the bedroom lol

@robertnoble6661

8 күн бұрын

Wait till it happens to you then let's see if your words hold true. With A.I. images/video being so realistic or just graphic artist doing the job well, anyone can be fooled, rising emotions makes people dumb, it always has and always will.

@robertnoble6661

8 күн бұрын

Also at 14:14 she made it clear that she's not interest with her coworker other than friendship to him, meaning there could've been, just reading between the lines.

Lady's lil reminder getting a paternity test is not a sign of not setting boundaries. Throw they're accusations right back at they're face with the proof and get them to fess up or they're getting the divorce they "wanted".

Bruh wtffff he tried rekindle wuth sarah😂😂

@robertnoble6661

8 күн бұрын

Either due to spiting OP or just surrendering to fate.

Just get the divorce and move on.

@redditstoriesrelationshipsusa

8 күн бұрын

Sure, the first solution is to get a divorce before taking the next steps.

Nah i bet he was cheating, and my reason for thinking this outside of the other factors is that after op said ok divorce after awhile he tried to rekindle things with the very woman that helped cause the wedge and help him fuck over his life. No well adjusted person wouldve even listened to them but especially not go after them after this shit so i call cheating

I’m sorry but did nobody see the elephant 😭😭 it was so random

@familylopez7001

9 күн бұрын

Ikr

@TopCeilingYT

9 күн бұрын

I saw it and looked in the comments right away

People who randomly get obsessed with their partner cheating typically are the cheater.

My advice: take the paternity test and divorce his pathetic ass anyways. You then have proof he’s the father for your divorce proceedings, because otherwise his lawyers will absolutely use his blind accusations against you and you’ll get zero child support.

0:59For people here from the short. It might be a little off

Well well well, if it isn’t the consequences of our actions. Mark is a lame in every sense of the word.

OP should have listened to her therapist. Mark was probably cheating.

I would start a paternity test and the divorce😂

Op needs to divorce him immediately. If I were her just to make him regret what he did I’d get a paternity test

F the guy. 1. He believe his ex gf 2. he went abortion and not paternity test

Honestly I would just date Jake after the divorce I'd be like Hey Jake do you maybe want to date me because while my husband or my ex-husband is being a total brat and unreasonable and you supported me

I also suspect that the ex GF still obsessed over him and hated op for getting to be with him. She just saw a chance to get her claws in him

THAT WAS HONESTLY SO SAD MAN. THE WAY THE TRUST SLOWLY CRUMBLED BRO

Mark is foolish to believe his ex so blindly, almost as if he wanted an excuse to end things with you and I’m sure he was missing around with her during those times, especially especially since he was so quick to get back with her after the divorce.

He wanted a reason to get back with the ex because I’m sure he was nailing her when he was giving you the cold shoulder because he got back with her right away when you moved out and got a divorce.

Your writing has such depth and emotion

Never ask for the paternity test, if you're right you've given the entire game away, and if you're wrong you just hit the self destruct button on your relationship over a hunch, one which you're not actually assuaging by confirming paternity anyways since lack of an affair child doesn't prove lack of an affair. There is an exceedingly rare set of situations where asking for the paternity test is anything but a bull headed attempt to start a fight that won't go anywhere. If you're suspicious, do the test behind her back.

@JCC_1975

9 күн бұрын

Agreed. But I absolutely believe that paternity testing should be mandatory at birth, done as part of delivery.

9:40 scenic videos and then a random elephant 😂

Why is no one talking abt this part 9:31 😭? The flying elephant😭

He’s definitely cheating and projecting it onto you

I donno if the video is fake or true i have been seeing a lot of fake ai generated ai post but someone pls help me

@sugarbeef

8 күн бұрын

Red flags for AI written include overly descriptive writing and too much detail. Also, insisting on giving every character a name, no matter how minor.

@YourAvarageNederlander

7 күн бұрын

@@sugarbeef Dank je wel

The elephant got me 💀

NTA. Get the paternity test and leave that AH.

Damn karma hit back hard

Why in the hell wouldn’t op take the paternity test?

@mariecherrytree

8 күн бұрын

Sounds like the dude just don't want a baby.

@nunyabusiness2945

8 күн бұрын

Folks think you can/should do that testing before the baby is born. They watch too much TV. The tech isn’t there to do the testing noninvasively until after delivery. It’s just not a good idea.

Just take a paternity test and show him he's wrong

@richardestrada4982

9 күн бұрын

Fr it's just that simple

@jayewrite1256

9 күн бұрын

Can I ask how you do that before the pregnancy as well as what the risk would be. Also I’m a guy but I don’t feel you need to take a paternity test to prove your the parent should be obvious especially as there’s no way she could fully hide a child belonging to another person.

@hazelmary

9 күн бұрын

Why should she have to prove to him wrong when he the one who should trust her

He's cheating with the ex.

bro what is up with elephant photoshoot😭.

This guy got karma. You always ask your partner, accusations are stupid

Should've taken the paternity test and then talked it out so you could've been happily ever after.... He was stupid but us men are dumb and a fear of raising another man's child is most men's fear

9:31 so nobody is going to talk about the elephant

9:14 op's blatent denial is infuriating

If you came form the short skip to 1:00

break up with him if he actually cares he will be hurt

Is this even a question?

get the test prove it’s his child and leave

All life is precious ❤

He’s cheating…

How to destroy my marriage 101😂😂by mark

I’m sorry if this is rude to say but if I have suspicion your words wont prove shit only a test would and you not being sure if you want to take that test shows this conflict has essentially ruined your relationship just get the divorce. It sounded like nothing but praise from you about Jake.

What part of this channel has been seen on Netflix?

Do schizophrenics write every story on reddit? This story is so fake. Your sister happens to work with his ex and she heard her say she's going to break the 2 up? Is this a real story or some lame disney movie from the early 2000s?

I wonder why she thinks she is rid of him because they are divorced? He's probably going to take her to court for joint custody. She's always going to be tied to him. They just have to figure out how to coparent.

Just get the paternity test, for cripes sake.

I'm not agreeing to either side but just my 2 cents....No guy and women could ever be "just friends." Whether it be with your ex, a new acquaintance, or a stranger. Feelings would eventually get involved and the relationship will surely fail. For me, it is a red flag if my significant other has the opposite sex as a "good friend." Like I said, not blaming either side but there should've been more communication here...

@gothcsm

2 күн бұрын

This is blatantly false. I have dozens of guy friends and we are not attracted to each other. It’s almost like we’re decent people whose lives don’t revolve around always being in a relationship!

Hi. im first.

@wildones9339

9 күн бұрын

Hello first, I’m second.

@kofoowonikoko1960

9 күн бұрын

Hello second, I’m third

@moxee33

9 күн бұрын

Congrats 💐

@user-kd9fd9sc6m

9 күн бұрын

Hello third I'm fourth

@user-kd9fd9sc6m

9 күн бұрын

Four

Im sure no one agrees with me, but i think divorcing was a mistake. When you make that vow, its for better or for worse. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, some make shitty mistakes. But the woman didnt want a divorce or abortion that whole time, but then just changed her mind when she found out it wasnt all just random or for nothing. The moment she finally got her answers and sees he made a mistake, thats when she gave up. Obviously i get its not easy, but that would have been the time to look into counseling. Now the problem is a little girl is gonna be growing up without their father around. Sometimes we have to swollow our pride and do whats best for our children, even if we have a hard time doing it. Cause i promise if they truly loved each other in the beginning up until the moment he thought adultery was committed they would be able to fix things. Im sure people will read this thinking im stupid and wrong, and you can have that opinion but divorce is almost never a good option. And i say that as a divorced man. My wife committed adultery so i am familiar with this kind of issue. I had for a moment considered counseling to see if she could be saved, after all i chose her. But unfortunately she was a piece of trash and she knew it. Afterwards shes became a whore to try to justify herself. But for these two, if neither of them did cheat, their marriage is worth attempting to save, for their daughters sake. Assuming no one is being abused of course.

@jako_the_maned_wolf3133

9 күн бұрын

Nah that trust has been broken. He believed his ex over his wife. The baby can grow up with their father, just not together with mommy. That's his fault, not her.

@DoubleT813

8 күн бұрын

He made his bed when he didn’t talk to her about it but gave her the ultimate ultimatum, yeah, right. Marriage over!! He isn’t marriage material, much less father material. Now he can father the child that wouldn’t be here if it was up to him, from outside of the same house. Every action has a equal and opposite reaction. He took action, and she did too.

@miserimuslovestarvus6587

8 күн бұрын

He's already cheating. Talking secretly to an ex without telling your wife and meeting in secret is bad enough, but he wouldn't accuse her if he wasn't at least tempted.

bro she is the mayor of yapville has a degree in yapgenering like bro she the same thing like 20 times

As soon as she turned the table she lost interest on her husband, WOMEN! ahahahaha.

@miau5878

8 сағат бұрын

Do you even see the “man” in this story?

@robertnoble6661

4 сағат бұрын

@@miau5878 I'm pro choice so nah I don't see anything wrong with what the husband ask for, clearly at the end she has interest in her co worker she just got traumatized from her husband, I have no doubt she will cheat with him if things didn't occur as they did.

Idk man. To me, the fact that she was willing to do anything but the DNA test says a lot to me. But idk, I'm not a scientist lol

@nibby10

9 күн бұрын

What says a lot to me is going off to hang out with your ex-girlfriend without telling your wife about especially if you aren't planning to cheat. Then keeping his friendship with his ex and the lying he must have done to be able to hang out with her...he was just projecting what he was guilty of.

@kikiwilson9871

9 күн бұрын

@nibby10 while I do agree. The entire situation seemed sus to me. Like there were some details that weren't being shared or the whole truth wasn't told. But then again. It's a reddit story, so it might not even be true at all.

@nibby10

9 күн бұрын

@@kikiwilson9871 If I'm being honest I always look at these like stories inspired by life, especially when it sounds this messy. I do agree with you all she had to say was alright I'll do it even though it's over because if he's dumb enough to believe the word of his ex he's gullible enough to believe anything.

@DoubleT813

8 күн бұрын

Obviously 🙄. She never said that she wouldn’t take the DNA test, just that she shouldn’t have to because she’s never given him a reason to think he needs one, which, the ultimatum that he gave her was abort, or divorce -with a DNA test, she didn’t want to have to divorce just to get a DNA test that would have just proved him to be the father anyway because who wants to divorce for no real reason?? Just to prove a point. Once we divorce, it’s over anyway.

@kikiwilson9871

8 күн бұрын

@DoubleT813 do you always get this aggressive at random people online? You must be fun to hang out with lol especially when it's obvious this is a bullshit reddit story written for shock value?

Yes, let him see the baby, he won't harm her or be hurtful to her. He was an idiot to believe her, but she's his and he has that right.

There are so many cases where wife cheated on there husband and gave birth to the child of affair partner and stay silent about the true father of the child from there husband. So, it become quite obvious for husband to doubt on there wife.

@yukikitsune7366

9 күн бұрын

Found Sarah's KZread account.

@Misseria

9 күн бұрын

Please, don't ever get married.

@jako_the_maned_wolf3133

9 күн бұрын

I mean it sucks but there are definitely consequences to asking your spouse for a paternity test out of the blue. On one hand they could be right and the baby isn't his. On the other hand, the baby is his but the trust is broken within the relationship and divorce is asked anyway. It's a sucky reality.