“Your daughter is depressed because of your actions!!” HER MOTHER IS COMPLETELY BROKEN BECAUSE OF YOUR ACTIONS WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN

@caffeinedelusions

Ай бұрын

Yeah, the daughter blaming her mother for not wanting the person that literally S A'd her in her life is very much a 'fuck around, find out' sort of move.

@iraari7706

29 күн бұрын

You are so right if I what's in that posishin I who'd just tell my boy friends

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

EXACTLY!!

@pingupleb8945

24 күн бұрын

LITERALLY!

@tsandhage

19 күн бұрын

Actually, the daughter is depressed because of his, the (g)rapists actions. The grapist still isn’t taking responsibility for his actions which means his apologies were not sincere.

The daughter made her choice. She chose her mothers rapist over her mom and step dad.

@CJ-sketches

27 күн бұрын

Non even step dad, that man raised her for her entire childhood

@jessicathompson236

27 күн бұрын

@@CJ-sketches , He was the dad that stepped up. That's more than just a father or a step father.

@poolwench4564

26 күн бұрын

Some kids have no loyalty

@dekrus

18 күн бұрын

​@@jessicathompson236 not to mention the bio dad likely never even paid child support, so he REALLY didnt contribute to her upbringing whatsoever. Couldn't imagine siding with anyone who would hurt my mom... i don't even talk to my dad anymore because he was emotionally abusive to my mom during their marriage

@lindiweportiashongwe

15 күн бұрын

Thank GOD your wonderful hubby is on his feet

Delusional doesn't even start to describe the youngest daughter. I know he's your bio dad, but how could you side with your mother's rapist? How could you look yourself in the mirror knowing you are forcing your mom and her rapist together? It's honestly refreshing that the would be groom and his family sided with and supported OP. That man will find a woman worth putting a ring on!

@Commandooriginal12

Ай бұрын

Ngl Op should forget the daughter because she put her through pain and still decides to blame her for being at fault

@nemiw4429

Ай бұрын

Almost like a made up story right?

@joelcoady

29 күн бұрын

Honestly I wonder if the daughter is doing this because she doesn't want to think of the bio dad as a rapist and somehow believes that if the relationship between her mother and bio dad gets better then the rape just somehow goes away meaning she doesn't have to feel like an unwanted child.

@derrickdemetz393

29 күн бұрын

Probably because she hasn't told her she is a SA baby

@Commandooriginal12

29 күн бұрын

@@derrickdemetz393 she did 💀💀💀

For her safety and the safety of her future children and her new in-laws, the daughter should know that her father is a rapist and gaslighter. Apparently, her daughter doesn’t have empathy for her mom’s experience and the daughter doesn’t understand the potential dangerous impact of interacting with a rapist!

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

Exactly like op should have made it clear she shouldn't interact with such a man

@Strawberrykoal

23 күн бұрын

Even when she did it, she didn’t believe her at first, and then after she finally believed her she tricked her into meeting her rapist is a secluded area.

@jalenc1997

20 күн бұрын

I'm certain the rapist is manipulating and gaslighted the daughter... she should have never been in contact with that man and honestly her mother should have stopped her from ever meeting him in the first place.. I'm not saying the daughter is totally blameless but I am saying now that rapist has ruined two lives

@Jinjajamie

18 күн бұрын

This is the product of her being spoilt as a child when the parents were compensating. Major case of main character sund😅

@janisblack2183

11 күн бұрын

Who can be your friend for years to gain your trust then rape you after he got you drunk? He feels entitled and is comfortable with it. The proof is that he wanted to force your forgiveness by grabbing your hand when you tried to leave, and that action caused you to have PTSD. Rape is not just physical assault, but a mental and emotional assault which the perpetrators feel are warranted punishment towards the victim. Carnal in nature, it is not uncommon for the perpetrator to want to repeat the offence to the same victim like a lion feeding on its prey by going back for more, even if it were just the mental and emotional assault. This is the greatest fear and chagrin of the victim, the subject of their living nightmares Hence the reason that your youngest daughter is not safe with the rapist, her biological father. He respects no boundaries if he violated the boundary of trust and friendship and will cross that boundary with his daughter, even as if to indirectly “feed” his lions kill by violating your daughter to destroy you mentally. There is evidence in this “method of operation” (M/O) in recent news with the actions of Rex Heuermann, accused serial rapist/killer (LISK) where he contacted a deceased victim’s relatives by phone and taunted them by describing the rape and murder of their loved one. He wanted to relive the experience by inflicting more pain. Rapists do not stop at one victim, if they had normal thought processes they wouldn’t commit the crime in the first place. Get her out of there ASAP!

Your daughter chose her path with her eyes wide open. You should not feel guilty for her consequences. She got what she wanted. And this is the result.

@daricetaylor786

14 күн бұрын

Nurture vs Nature. Despite a loving family (nurture), half her chromosomes came from him (nature). He's a narcissist. It is impossible to have a healthy relationship with a narcissist. If in the future she realizes he is and she recognizes the error of her ways, look for fruits of repentance. If they are there, try to open the doors of renewed relationship. If they aren't there, don't. Go your separate way. You don't need 2 narcissists gaslighting you - because you know she'll keep him informed and involved. Nope, if you are telling the truth, all of the truth, and nothing other than the truth, you deserve better. You can't have her heart anyway if she, too, has a narcissistic personality.

This daughter is like, the worst. First, you don't want your own father, the man who raised you, walking you because he is in a wheelchair and "doesn't fit the picture", then you organise a meeting between your mom and her rapist without even asking??

@caffeinedelusions

Ай бұрын

"Let's rip the psychological wounds open again so that you can 'begin your healing journey', never mind that you've literally been healing for the two decades it took me to go from conception to adulthood, and exposing you to your assailant is going to rip away progress you've already made."

@OptimalOwl

28 күн бұрын

The word for a man who raises another man's child isn't "father."

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

AND You shouldn't ask even such a thing to hegin with

@andrejmicic5192

27 күн бұрын

@@OptimalOwla father isn’t necessarily a man who conceived you it is a man who took care of you and protected you and raised you all your life,family isn’t just about blood,if you found out you weren’t related to your dad,which would you call dad,the person who raised you or someone that r worded your mom

@OptimalOwl

27 күн бұрын

@@andrejmicic5192 It wouldn't invalidate any feelings of gratitude or fondness I had for him, but I would feel sorry for him for having been tricked or coerced. Or if I found out that he walked into it willingly, then that would lower my opinion of him considerably.

The moment I saw the OP and daughter going to a restaurant, I knew what was gonna happen next. I'm glad the other kids dragged the youngest through the mud, even if that wasn't what the OP wanted.

@caffeinedelusions

Ай бұрын

Youngest very much needs a reality check. She created this problem, and she could solve it by dropping her bio dad as the trash he is with no difficulty, but somehow she doesn't see how many of these issues are the direct consequence of her choices.

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

The bio dad is a tuipidsay atray fay ay umanhay nay ay itchbay, uckfay imhay.

@roabarton7962

23 күн бұрын

As soon as I heard surprise. I would have turned right the heck around and buggered off.

How dare the bio dad say thats his daughter is depressed because of op's action but he doesnt realize that what he did traumatized op for her whole life..

@Franzifii

15 күн бұрын

It can't make sense because people like him don't understand these kinds of things anyway.

@janelcottrell838

14 күн бұрын

I don't believe this story is real. I've seen this exact situation on several TV shows over the past 10 years

@NaturalTiger

11 күн бұрын

​@@janelcottrell838what is it about this that makes you not believe it happened? Just because you've seen similar stories on TV doesn't invalidate someone's experience. I too became pregnant from a date rape situation. My doctor tried to talk me into getting an abortion. I couldn't do it. I 100% support a woman's right to choose. But for me it just wasn't something I could do. I was single with an 8 year old child and about to start my honours year in university. My head was in a fog that whole year. All I knew was that my child was innocent and shouldn't be blamed for the action of her biological father. I didn't get the chance to tell her about it. When she was about 12 or so she went through some papers of mine where I told someone about what happened to me. Later she told me about that. She knew that I loved her very much. She never wanted to meet him. Today she's a beautiful person, highly educated, compassionate and open-minded. She has a great career, a loving husband and 2 beautiful children. She is very supportive of all of her friends and family. I'm so very proud of her and so grateful that I did not allow my doctor to talk me into something I would have regretted all my life. So many people may not be here today if I had chosen abortion. I also could not have given her up for adoption. That was the right choice for me. However, it may not be the right choice for someone else so I fully support abortion rights.

Disgrace of a daughter. Even I who has a very strain relationship with my mother would never do this to her. Awful person to try and force your mom to talk with the man that SA her. The daughter should honestly be publicly shamed for such disgusting behaviour.

I knew exactly what was going to happen when OP's daughter invited her out to lunch.

The Bio father is completely manipulating her but she still sided with him but I feel like I'm not the only person here thinking the bio father might do something to the daughter.

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

Bo

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

OMG are you thinking what I'm thinking??? 🤔

@Anonymousflufapilcumber

29 күн бұрын

Oh hell nah I already do not like to think about that

@Cool_guy_5

29 күн бұрын

@@Anonymousflufapilcumber neither do I but it feels like it he's extremely manipulative it's a possibility

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

Oh he will mark my words, old habits die hard

"Daughter" = ENTITLED BRIDEZILLA 💯😖

@Irondrakeshield

Ай бұрын

True absolutely Not only giving her mother a heart attack and blaming her when karma gets back but also the lack of disrespect to her father I mean come on

@Galaxifi

Ай бұрын

@@Irondrakeshield* panic attack

@danacarter9147

Ай бұрын

A major league bridezilla 😒

@Irondrakeshield

Ай бұрын

@@Galaxifi same thing both attacks

@unusuariocualquiera2149

29 күн бұрын

​@@Irondrakeshield2+2=6 I know it's wrong but same thing, it's math

Impregnating a woman doesn’t make you a father! Raising and loving a child does! (Same for mothers) What a jerk the daughter is for chosing a man she barely knows, who literally attacked her mother, over the man who raised her her entire life and loved her and her mother despite the circumstances.

The bio father and the youngest daughter really are cut from the same cloth.

HOW THE 🦆 CAN THE DAUGHTER LACK SO MUCH EMPATHY?!😮

@Desanirain

Ай бұрын

Like Father like Daughter in this case. Neither respect boundaries of those around them!!

@unusuariocualquiera2149

29 күн бұрын

How the fuck are you scared of saying fuck

@id10tguy

28 күн бұрын

Gets it from her dad

@ShadowBladee1

27 күн бұрын

@@Band-Of-The-Falcon-1111 you don't inherit such shit, she brought it on herself...

@akitkat-1225

26 күн бұрын

​@@ShadowBladee1 No, but people do tend to copy the people they talk to and spend time with, as well as people they like and look up to.

Everyone always goes to the person they wronged and tells them they "ruined my life" when they ruined their own life by wronging that person.

The fact that the daughter disrespected her father by not allowing him to walk her down the isle and also pushed her mother to trigger her trauma, it’s truly one of the most awful things I’ve heard of. The daughter is one of the most selfish and self absorbed humans, the daughter does not deserve her those parents.

I watched the whole video but for aome reason I cannot comment there so here I am. That daughter is no daughter of this woman. The way she went straight to not care about such a huge fucked up thing and side with the rapist is unbelievable. It was unbelievable when she didn't know but what she did once she knew about is disgusting. Good riddance for you ma'am.

The daughter is rude

@wardragon1474

Ай бұрын

That’s a understatement

@unusuariocualquiera2149

29 күн бұрын

No shit sherlock

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

You're disrespecting rude people

@ShadowBladee1

27 күн бұрын

@@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami -_-

The "father" has some audacity to even talk to his victim like that. The amount of trauma he has inflicted upon his own close friend is horrible and then he turned her own people against her?! Disgusting, i tell you.

The daughter is not okay

I can imagine the pain that this brings but I really think it’s a shame she would disregard her father for a stranger. Especially one who assaulted her mother. Even if she wasn’t that close it doesn’t matter because she took to stranger based on a DNA test. I hope she gets therapy too and I don’t wish her ill. I just don’t think someone who could identify with her mother’s attacker and abandon her dad because he doesn’t fit her idea of a wedding day is someone you should distance yourself from. She is making terrible decisions but young people often do. There are no instant fixes and until she respects your boundaries especially concerning your r*pist. She needs to stay away. The biological father sounds like a jerk. I noticed that he attacked you on the phone and made the daughter the only victim. He’s bad news it really is a shame he escaped justice.

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

I'm young and I make... A lot as in probably too many mistakes.

That daughter is a sociopath with 0 empathy for her mother

0:57 for those coming from shorts😊

I was saed by a friend if a friend, and pregnancy occurred because of the vile moment. Thankfully i had a gloriously eccentric grammy who tended flowers, and herbs, she had a beautiful midnight garden that had moonflowers as big as dinner plates. She brewed balms, and rubs, teas and the such. Sge brewed me a cup of tea one midnight, the honey coverd up the slight bitterness of that wonderful little flower that my tea was produced from. The next morning shortly after the dawn cramps rolled over me like waves, and a slight time later the matter was discharged. A warm bath, a day of rest and my body was ok, my mind still relives the night that monster took what he wanted while laughing about the "she cat" fighting occasionally. Ladies, there will always be some men out there who will take what you dont want to give. Tend your gardens well, weed them, mist them, talk to them, there may come a time and i pray not, when you'll need to brew a tea.

It's not your fault it's your friends fault because they salted you and made you pregnant and they should pay for their actions and go to jail for what they did to you and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and your entire bright it on herself.

@pieceofshoot

28 күн бұрын

reading your comment gave me a stroke

I don't believe in God, but I prayed after I heard this story. You are not at fault here whatsoever. As someone who IS a product of a rape, I am ashamed of your daughter for taking this so lightly and even more so at your parents. I hope you live a happy, and long fulfilling life. The best advice I can give you is to go NO contact with her for the time being.

@unusuariocualquiera2149

29 күн бұрын

Ok, cool

@MiaMaraa

29 күн бұрын

Amen!

@Timon-77

29 күн бұрын

Who did you pray to 🤨

@greatnate9492

29 күн бұрын

@Timon-77 I specifically said "to whatever God is out there" and continued with my prayers. So i guess whichever God cares about a sinner like me. To me a true God answers all prayers for peace and love so I don't care if it was Buda Jesus or a Greek God.

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

I believe in God and am fine if you don't believe, bcuz my big sis and dad don't believe in God, but my dad believes in aliens.

why would you not tell YOUR DAUGHTER that she’s INVITING A RAPIST TO HER WEDDING??? idk man the moment she tried to make contact i would have laid it into her that he was a rapist because that just puts the daughter at risk edit: i finished the story and jesus christ that daughter is just as bad as her fsther

Nah the daughter is a monster

If she doesn’t know what she’s the product of then tell her as much. Edit half way through. Good on op for telling the truth. To hell with this kid. She wants to be with her father after knowing all that, let her.

@lorettarussell3235

17 күн бұрын

The biological father(rapist) most likely lied/s to the daughter & is manipulating the daughter. The daughter needs therapy to help her understand the consequences of SA & help her understand what her mother has & still is going through. SA affects you for the rest of your life. The fiancée dogged a bullet when he called of the wedding.

Her daughter is depressed because of her bio father’s actions

It’s not your fault he probably told her a lie and said he wanted to apologize but what she doesn’t know is that she is probably a living reminder even though she never treated her differently she is hope all is well

You are a very strong woman. And you don't need to ashamed of anything that happened to you. It was not your fault

It,s really as simple as you should've told her the moment she reconnected with her father and explained that you never want to be in any kind of contact with him. Stop protecting predators!

I don’t think it’s fair to blame the daughter… she started a relationship with her bio dad before knowing the story. She got close to him and probably faster than she should have because of her mom not being close with her her entire life. She was born with a messed up backstory but her siblings doing that to her just wasn’t ok

That is a horrible daughter. Sometimes blood is not thicker than water. You should ask her if she would be ok if you asked her Assaulter to family functions.

pour laxetives in the cake

@Hoseamatthewsrdr

Ай бұрын

NAHHH bro 💀💀😈😈 that’d be crazy

@CalmEditss

Ай бұрын

Then lock the bathroom

@Hex_the_hexagon

Ай бұрын

Guys I found satan

@pieceofshoot

28 күн бұрын

real

Tell her the truth and nothing but the truth it isn’t something to be ashamed about. She is old enough to know. Don’t go if its that bad but just be aware that it might ruin your relationship.

@DarnComputer

29 күн бұрын

If you would have listened to the entire story she did just that.

@PoozialianPizzlePee

29 күн бұрын

꧁꧂🤪𒇫𒆙𒂝꧁𒌧𖣁𒁎𖠍𖠏𒅌😢𖧷𖠌𖠏𖠑𖠡𖠛𖠚𖠫𖠨𖠺𖠻𖡎𖡑𖡖𖡘𖡚

I guess it’s an example of nature versus nurture. OP done nothing wrong but I hope daughter realizes her mistakes and apologized to her mom before it’s too late or before her bio father harms her 🍀

Mother shouldve treated the daughter way colder the moment she still wanted to be with bio dad even after she knew what she was the product of

I've never been happier to see a marriage get blown up before it even became official before lmao

Can we talk about OP's mother for a second? How can you believe someone else OVER YOUR OWN CHILD

@KathrynElizabethJaneway

17 күн бұрын

Like grandma, the kid didn't believe her at first. Both are horrible.

Although I truly feel that, once she found out what the bio father did to her mother, the daughter should have stopped all communication with the bio dad, I also think this mother is not blameless here. She's had 24 years to deal with this and hasn't. She's lied to her daughter about her conception because she didn't want to be judged, but she expects her daughter to know how to deal with this after only a few months. Imagine admittedly treating one child differently than the rest of your children for circumstances out of her control, so much so that her dad has to overcompensate for you lack of mothering, and then being shocked that she's out looking for the love of a biological parent. The delusion is astounding.

Why would you keep a baby that triggers your ptsd every so often when you look at them, just put up for adoption.

@mrjaidenlo

Ай бұрын

Idk i think she might be a little autistic

@Nichu_Sshaiju

Ай бұрын

She might not want an Innocent child to go to adoption as it usually is a cruel, toxic environment

@Snakebite105

Ай бұрын

As someone who went to an orphanage, I'd have preferred to have been thrown on a busy highway than to have lived through it. Ever see a pet shelter? Ever see happy families go and pick their favorite pup out and then brag about it on social media? Well, the ones who don't get adopted generally get put down. With humans, they just suffer, so imagine American Idol, except if you don't win, you'll never be happy.

@epicgamer3915

Ай бұрын

Just because the child was a product of a terrible incident doesn’t mean the mother would not love or want the child still because in the end it is still the mothers child

@l-l-l-l-l-l-l

Ай бұрын

Op's husband is an enabler who does anything his wife said no matter how bad it is. Trusting a traumatised person to make the right decision is pure dumb move by him.

One thing I learned in life is that people only say half the story

As for her rapist saying her daughter was depressed because of her actions NO she is depressed because of his action 😡😡 what a lowlife

and u get sweet revenge

This story. Wow

For short bros 0:53

@MexicanCountrybaIl

Ай бұрын

THANK YOU BROTHA

😢 Sorry 😞 i Would have given it up , for adoption . Seriously why didn't she give it up for adoption. Knowing why day truth will all come out are even cause her to have issues with her daughter. Whole situation bad .

Thank God for where i live abortions are legal Because if I ever ended up getting graped by someone who I do or do not know I am not keeping that baby And from what I saw and someone's comment yes you can get PTSD from looking at a child Especially from a child that came about from grape You constantly remember how that child was conceived A child can give you PTSD And I wouldn't want to give birth to a child that would cause me those problems Especially since I would not be able to fully take care of that child Because of how that child was conceived And you people can say what you want But if I can't take responsibility for a kid financially I'm not going to keep it And if the baby is a high risk baby Then I'm not going to keep it Because if he gets to the point where the doctors tell me that it's either you or the baby Then I'm not going to keep it I'm not going to give birth to a kid that I'm incapable of taking responsibility for If I'm going to have a kid I'm going to make sure I take responsibility for it Because it is my child and nobody else is so I should be taking responsibility for my kid if I decide to give birth to it nobody should be taking responsibility for my kid These are just my choices and what I have for myself If I can't take care of it I'm not going to keep it I'll only keep it if I can take care of it Adoption is out of the question I'm not going to give my child up for adoption and let other people take care of my responsibility

OP I’m with you 1M %. If your daughter had the sensitivity even of a rabid hyena, she should have sat down and asked/begged you for the truth. If she couldn’t get all the truth, she should have had the inner sense to know something was wrong and tried to understand your pain. And for the issue of her stepfather (although real father) and his disability, a motorized wheelchair could be rented for the day. It could even be decorated with flowers and ribbons to go with the bridal colors. Your husband could then motor himself down the aisle next to your daughter. A daughter who loved her parents would do something like this. I hate to say this, but your daughter does not love either of you. This isn’t always true but sometimes blood will out. Despite being raised well, your daughter is displaying the characteristics of her father, a violent criminal. If you and your husband are paying for the wedding, I’d cancel everything that hasn’t been paid in full. Then I’d cut ties with your daughter and continue on with your life. And if you haven’t seen a mental health doctor for your severe, untreated ptsd, I’d do it asap. It’s never too late and you deserve to live surrounded by love. God bless and keep you safe.

Going through your childs whole life dreading the day they find out how they were conceived is terrible

If the bio dad is serious about apoligizing, he needs to give her room, talk to her gradually, and not try to intrude into her relationship. the daughter is the real trouble, she seems go be causing everything. I say, when the mother is ready to forgive, if she ever will be, she will, at her own pace. And not at anyone else's.

plus destroy all toilets

@unusuariocualquiera2149

29 күн бұрын

The actual shitty fuck?

Personality can be genetic. Please be careful with whom you have children. So sorry to the mom. The dad and daughter can go to 🔥

I really hope this story is fake because damn

I’m so confused. She was married with 3 children and went drinking at a friends house and he assaulted her? And everyone just thought she cheated?

You did the right thing to keep your baby. God bless your husband for raising her as his own. What I see missing from your life is a relationship with God. He created that child, and to know Him is to be able to heal and forgive and so much more. Praying for His guidance and for your Salvation. 🙏❤️

Here is the problem in this OP should have sought help from the beginning. She just buried her trauma and ignored her daughter’s need to know who her true father was growing up and now she wants her daughter to choose her over him because she raised her and he is a horrible human being. The daughter is told after 20+ years she wasn’t conceived accidentally but by her mom getting violated by her best friend but mom was too scared and embarrassed so she decided not to tell her until after daughter has been in contact with him for 2 years where he has treated daughter with respect and love and so mom must be lying

OP should have just told the daughter 🤦🏻‍♀️ but also… why keep the baby that just reminds you of being assaulted and will just have resentment towards the child. The daughter is an absolute POS.

Your daughter was cold selfish. It was her day and she could not care any less about anyone. She would have ruined the man who called off their wedding.

daughter is 100% in the wrong. the fact that she forgave her mother's rapist so quickly and even tried to get her mother to meet with him (after being told repeatedly that her mother did not want to be anywhere near him) is absolutely disgusting. she is a selfish person and deserved every bit of karma she got in the end.

Wana know why cause during raising her you probably neglected her and don’t realize it and with him she feels accepted congrats you played your self

You probably should have told her about the sexual assault

@micahadcock7671

Ай бұрын

This situation probably would have been different if you had

@heretics_archive

Ай бұрын

Thank you I see all these comments calling out the daughter when she literally didn’t know she was a product of assault and only knew what the mother told her which was just a bad altercation

@alejandroroman888

Ай бұрын

The update says that she was told, and then the daughter tried to foece OP with her r*pist in the same room... That is not ok

@heretics_archive

Ай бұрын

@@alejandroroman888 I feel like if she told her before she got in contact with the biological father things would have played out very differently

@ehtishamkhan2004

Ай бұрын

​@@heretics_archiveit doesn't matter if she told her before or after meeting the bio father. The daughter should've cut contact with the man after finding out. Instead, she decided to blindside her mother with a physical meeting with her attacker and triggering her panic attack.

There are 2 types of people in the world people who handle their problems and face them head on and do not let it dictate their life or there’s people who push their problems away act like they never happen and they end up taking hold of their life. They say if you take the easy way out earlier it’s gonna be hard down the line. If you take the hard way in the beginning, it’s gonna be easier down the line and obviously you can see what has happened and what transpired, I just really hope things get better for your situation and you come to the realization that you are more than what has happened to you. You can’t change the past. There’s things you should’ve done differently, but you can continue to do better in the future.

It’s not your fault and it’s not her fault if you don’t want her biological dad then just don’t go but she’ll be upset and if she does tell her the truth before you tell her you’re not going

Like wtf? That daughter has some nerve..

How is she your youngest daughter??? If she was your first daughter???

@arfbarkbark

27 күн бұрын

she wasnt the first daughter, op was already married with kids when she was assaulted

Like father like daughter, horrible people

Mother can't expect anything different from her daughter without telling her. Daughter has no reason to have anything against bio father, if he never hurt her. Mother's PTSD is her own responsibility and absolutely not daughter's job to tip-toe around.

I won’t lie that’s fucked up 😓

This is the time to tell her. Tell her! She is old enough now to process this, and she needs to know how special the love of her "adopted" father is ... and what a jerk her biological father is.

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*

0:58 if you’re here from the short

@Nuh_uh568

29 күн бұрын

W

I understand your daughter wanting to know her biological father but she should have excepted how you felt. Having that man in her life, separate from you is fine, but some trauma is just not that easy to get over. After hearing how you felt about him, she should have been willing to do things separately. Could have done the wedding with you and your family, then the next day spent with her father. Instead she is losing the whole experience. I'm sad for you both

@LouisCasas

13 күн бұрын

Once Luna sent off for that 23andMe or whatever DNA ancestry service kit then she opened the literal Pandora's box to everything that could have possibly gone wrong. Luna's birth father is also exploiting her desire to know him and the situation just like he had planned all along. Luna's stepfather (AKA her REAL dad) and mother hopefully do not give up on her 🙏

Your daughter isn’t depressed because of your actions. Your daughter is depressed because of her own actions.

That daughter is cruel. Disown her. It’s not her fault she was born from SA, but she forced you to be around your attacker, knowing exactly what it would do to your mental state. Your daughter doesn’t care about you at all. I’m so sorry that earlier in your life, the legal system worked in his favor rather than yours. He deserves jail. I hope you can find peace and happiness with your family.

@DogLover1463

9 күн бұрын

And I’m so sorry it’s so unusual for you to receive support from your community 😢

I could NEVER side with someone who hurt my Mother so badly😔I was VERY close to my Mother, especially after she received a terminal cancer diagnosis. Missing you still Mommy🥺💔💋

She made her choice, a rapist over her loving family. She now has to go through life alone . I can't wrap my head around her decision I wouldn't have wanted anything to do with him.

11:06 womp to the biggest mother f,ing womp ever talking about the daughter, not the mother so please don’t get mad at me

For those who want to know its *53* second's to follow on from the short!

@Cynthia-iz5qp

7 күн бұрын

I tried to post on the main page but couldn't. All I wanted to say "drama" such as this is because of all the secrecy, all the lies. Family needs to know the unvarnished, ugly truth from the beginning. In the beginning, if you came out with the truth, nobody but the rapist would be disowned. As it should be. Now, because it is so late in the game, people will be hurt. But even so be brave, be strong & tell the truth. You were brave once when you kept your beautiful baby. Be brave again. I know it's hard. I have done this. Kept documents, court records, pictures, ER visits, doctor visits in my file cabinets so that my youngest knows the reason why I had to divorce his father. And because of the documentation, I have a restraining order for life. I was also able to have his father's supervised visitation with him revoked because of his noncompliance. It was more for me because I didn't want him hurt, dead, or kidnapped. Yes he threatened & he tried. I guess he thought I was too embarrassed that I believed that he was a nice guy & wouldn't talk. He was wrong. My children are my blessings, my life, my everything. Always tell the truth to your children so they will always know you tell the truth & so they can cone to you with their truth & won't judge them but direct them because you love them. My children are from 25 to 45 & we are truthful even when we think badly of ourselves. That's family.

It is not your daughter's fault that you didn't tell her the truth. Don't blame her for 'disrespecting' the man who raised her. If you had told the truth she probably would have understood that you didn't want to be near him.

Both of you, the man who raised her and you should stay home!! Let her know she is in charge of her decisions and she must live with it!

Daughters dad didn't just SA 1 woman, most likely he has a long string of victims and the possibility of him attacking his daughter or op is high at this point.

Thanking God that the abortion was illegal 🙏

To primacloth: Why would you do that to a child who is completely innocent in all aspects and make them suffer for something their Father did to their Mother?

I watched the vid You didn’t wanna tell cuz ur “ashamed” I get that it would make her feel different from the rest of family But still just cuz it feels shameful doesn’t mean u can’t tell her:/

@Neoduck60

Ай бұрын

Trauma makes you feel like you’re the bad guy when you try to explain what happened, it makes you disgusted with yourself and your mind convinces you that you wanted whatever happened to you, especially in sa cases

@ergfbszdfg

Ай бұрын

The mom is not entitled to tell her what happened, the fact the daughter tried to force her and her biological dad to get in the same room when he literally graped her

@Lollll842

29 күн бұрын

@@ergfbszdfg both of y’all are fair

@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami

28 күн бұрын

And telling her she did and even after that she chose the grapist

That whole story was full of emotions

I think it's easier for the daughter to believe her bio dad isn't this horrible rapist. Easier to see him as remorseful than to see him as mother does. It's unfair to place all the fault on her. She grew up with a totally different narrative. Now she has her own trauma to work through. The mother did her a disservice by keeping the truth from her for so long. I think all are trying to do the best with what they've been given. I suspect the daughter is also realizing the mother treated her differently for this reason. It's a lot to process. I'm glad Mom & Stepdad are in therapy. I hope the daughter gets to a place where she seeks it too. I've worked with many kids who have grown up in families as a product of rape or incest. It's ugly & mentally damaging for the child. I hope this family can find a way to be a family again. This just makes me sad for all involved.

I noticed you said put “it” up for adoption or abort “the child”. You also complained about the child not looking like you or your husband and seemed to put a lot of emphasis on how YOU felt about people “thinking you had been unfaithful” and what a hard time you had with her looking like her bio father. You don’t think she couldn’t feel your resentment? Anyone listening to you for a few minutes can tell. It’s no wonder she was closer to your husband, who wouldn’t be? With your attitude and secrecy it’s completely understandable that she would go looking for her bio dad. GET OVER YOURSELF. None of this is her fault and your obvious resentment, failure to disclose, and apparent distrust of her created this mess. You CHOOSE to keep blaming all of your mishandling of the situation and self indulgence on her bio dad’s wrongdoing, while also manifesting your anger at her. Put your big-girl panties on and take some accountability for what you’ve done to an innocent child. She doesn’t realize it but she dodged a true bullet by your boycott of her wedding, honestly you don’t have the right to stand up for her as a mother and if you think I’m just theorizing and that I don’t know what I’m talking about, you’re wrong. I know numerous women who found themselves in the same position as you and have never, not once, resented their children for it. They have too much of the character you apparently lack. I wish your daughter well and pray the damage you’ve caused doesn’t affect her future relationships, and the way she’s been taught (by YOU) as to how a mother should feel toward her children. Btw, I’m not sure I believe you about the bit about her not wanting your husband to stand up for her as well as they seem to have a good relationship by your own account. It sounds like you’re, once again, reading the situation like the ultimate victim. And how dare you say that the whole family would disown her if they found out she was a victim of rape and how she handled her wedding. You just sound vindictive because you don’t know that, it sounds like you’re making threats. You made yourself the main, and only important, character in the family. You’re not stunned by the “support” your family has given you. No you’re not, you set it up this way. Your therapist either didn’t really say your daughter was wrong and you are right or she’s not much of a therapist letting you wallow in your perceived feelings of injustice. Get over it and quit bringing misery to everyone around you. There are a lot of us “me too” women out there who have worked through it, gotten through it, and wouldn’t dream of causing the kind of pain and chaos to anyone else over it, much less those we love. Ugh 🤦‍♀️

She can join Jason (abandoned child with homophobic bio parents) in the Bad Bio, Bad Kid club.

I think the youngest the one that dislikes you is just to spoiled

Your daughter is so selfish, even though she doesn't know about her father who is your.. but this is too much from the daughter.

For people who came from the short 0:58

Time to tell her the truth.

It sounds like this child felt the disdain around her , just in general.. You might not know,but she felt it. Might not have been able to put her finger on it ,but it was there… Your trauma should not have over shadowed a baby’s ,life you chose for…, 24 years of her life she did not know and lived a life with an underlying covert rejection, for 1 trauma you endured once. 24 years ago..She just learned of her origin story.. I’m sure she is reevaluating her whole identity, who she is and why ? You dropped a big emotional,mess on her during her wedding. It’s her wedding & what she wants & all over picking someone You didn’t want walking her down the isle , So you dumped something she had no knowledge of or involvement in..Over who’s walking her down the isle .. I’m confused.. The dad that stepped up , obviously seen you , not able to bond or even blame her for your trauma .. SURE , she should have him walking her down the isle. But what is her side of the story? BLAME THE Product of R, , AND PITTED the whole family against this child who did nothing but be born .. UNREAL.. THAT POOR GIRL. She lost everyone ,because of direct result of YOU & your in ability, to heal from a decades-old trauma.. INTURN .Making your youngest daughter, your permanent scape goat … & what part does your family take accountability & STOP being blind to you are victimizing this daughter for something that happened to you .. I don’t believe a therapist would ever say what you claimed either . How can you sit up on pedestal claiming worry for her, when you took EVERYTHING FROM HER including the safety you claim to worry about ,leaving her NOBODY…BUT YOUR accused ATTACKER .. SMH

I would advise you focus on yourself and be happy. As for your daughter, she is selfish. it will be better she gets to know her genetic dad and experience who he is for herself so she learns lesson for life.

I mean I’m kinda feeling a little bit bad for both of them and here is why- The mom had a traumatic horrible experience and was very traumatized as she had every right to be. She didn’t want to see him for a good reason and she made that very clear. But the daughter at first didn’t know what had happened with her bio dad and just might have wanted to meet him or something. When she found out, what she did was absolutely wrong but maybe she thought she was helping you. I don’t think your other kids should have dragged her name through the mud and ruined her happy relationship and wedding. My silly ahhhhh opinion 😝

I would tell my daughter to go live with him.