“My name is not Chocolate.... It’s Tiramisu” - best quote yet

@TheSecondAdam

3 жыл бұрын

Book title for sure.

@jessicaran148

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheSecondAdam 🤣

@Anti-Social_Socialite

3 жыл бұрын

FOR REAL ☠

@chrissy2u

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anti-Social_Socialite or milk shake ;)

@sarahu.38

3 жыл бұрын

I came here to comment the same thing. HILARITY.

the worst feeling in the world is when a man grabs ur wrist like I can't explain how much it deeply unsettles my soul

@imnotsurewhatmyusernamesho1348

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's...mm..no ma'am 😬

@CMYX

3 жыл бұрын

Pls I'll probably pass out

@beepboop5445

3 жыл бұрын

Or when they like, put their arm over/on your shoulders. It’s honestly so...uncomfortable

@JordannGeorge

3 жыл бұрын

for real. and they think it's ok or romantic (partially because of the movie/etc. industry. thanks for that) but it's not. don't fucking restrain me.

@CMYX

3 жыл бұрын

@@JordannGeorge that's tru!! Same as 'saying no' meant to keep trying when it's not. Might be romantic on tv but reality isnt

"you're too skinny you need to eat" sums up what my entire filipino side of my family tells me......

@xemiiklera

3 жыл бұрын

I saw you comment on Garret’s video and now here, I love your videos and the idea that we watch the same stuff makes it even better

@spacebars9677

3 жыл бұрын

I literally just got finished watching your video

@lunacorn8012

3 жыл бұрын

Hey boo, Pinay sistah here!!! Lol

@resevebruker1330

3 жыл бұрын

SAMEEE! I'm also Filipino and everytime i go back to my house in the Philippines my relatives are like "You need to eat more!!!" and they'll make a shitton of food that i have to eat ahh

@lunacorn8012

3 жыл бұрын

@@resevebruker1330 hahahah 😆 🤣 😂 why are we the way we are!?!? Sometimes when im chunky the familia will tell me im getting bupis but then ask me why I didn't eat more lumpia and adobo lmfao hulllooooo?!?!?!?! Hqhqha

"Why does being a woman have to be a part time job?" Very well said.

@browneyez13098

3 жыл бұрын

without any pay!

@Deenique16

3 жыл бұрын

@@browneyez13098 this is hilarious

"I feel like I'm either ignored in society or lusted over. There's no inbetween whatsoever." The unfortunate reality of existing as a woman.

@LK-yb2mj

3 жыл бұрын

we gotta stand up against these terrible men! revolution is NOW

@agathachris9722

3 жыл бұрын

Most people see strangers especially in polarized way. Its not really a sex issue. Only the people who truly know us give us the full range of humanity we deserve.

@agathachris9722

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering sex meaning gender.

@ojaymami

3 жыл бұрын

And black women in particular.

@daughterofsarah2793

3 жыл бұрын

Kelly's experience as a woman and a black woman has extra burdens that most black women can relate to and most (not all) white women can not relate to.. White women have more of a middle ground than black women. Generalizations dilute and disregard experiences that are personal to the individual. There is a clear difference in how white women are treated compared to how black women are treated. Most women has had experiences like Kelly's. Some more than others.

I really hate when these men who are way older think they can "flirt" with younger women, when they're being annoying and making it hard for us to step outside 🙄

@EmilyDickmesome

3 жыл бұрын

Cuz you know how they say "Men get better with age uhuhuh bullshit bullshit Young girls love older men bullshit bullshit" 🙄

@adassaweekly9967

3 жыл бұрын

@@EmilyDickmesome It's all bs, I had a married man who could have been my father try to use money to get me into some type of situationship with him. I also know his wife personally 😭

@EmilyDickmesome

3 жыл бұрын

@@adassaweekly9967 Idk who fills their brains with this stupidity tbh. And idk why some women themselves encourage this mentality by proclaiming the "supremacy" of older men in dating. Experimenting is ok but imo it's healthier for everybody to stay around their age when dating. I still think it's pretty disgusting that is still so widespread even nowadays that older men are allowed to want to date and flirt with young girls whereas women their age are considered undesirable by them even when they are beautiful. Like ... 😩

@orchardjpg

3 жыл бұрын

I agree it’s so gross. I hate the whole “biology” argument with men thinking it’s okay to go for younger women. It’s gross.

@adassaweekly9967

3 жыл бұрын

@@EmilyDickmesome exaaactly, that's why they keep thinking it's okay cause some women allows it, which makes it hard for us now to fend them off. Most of them have daughters, don't they be thinking about them? Is that what you want your daughter to he doing out there? Either way they need to leave us the f**k alone🤬

as a latina I can relate so hard to the being sexualized just for being a shade darker

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

I hate it lol

@drachin8595

3 жыл бұрын

oh my god yes this is the most horrible thing! especially older men just love to stare and obsess. I hate it

@tink6225

3 жыл бұрын

@@drachin8595 this! i feel like theres a weird pattern with old men fetishizing different women of color

@ogoochukwu9807

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps If you are reading this and is willing to help me buy a computer to at least try new skills I'm learning and make money as I haven't been able to get a job please reply this. Thank you

@Tojoj22

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps Kelly why not get a pet cat or dog to keep you company😻 ☺️🕊

“My name is not chocolate...it’s Tiramisu” KNOW 👏🏽 YOUR 👏🏽 WORTH👏🏽

@chicnoir29

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Kelly you have an interesting life

@brielogan8315

3 жыл бұрын

This type of stuff happenes to a lot of women sadly

@juliannanichols

3 жыл бұрын

This is weekly for me 😅

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Ooh you're cute. Buy me some lentil soup.

@PortraitofAsha

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps following this relationship in the making...

@jacobsed8432

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps commenting to watch the start of dis relationship

The sad part is that people see these uncomfortable situations and say nothing.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah and the cashier guy looked like this has happened before. The bystander effect drives me crazy. I would definitely hope to come to somebody’s help if that ever happened.

@Nwadiogo

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I somehow thought the cashier would at least eventually step in but he didn’t. So frustrating. Especially because he had to be there anyway so he might as well help where he can.. 😤

@asparrow5505

3 жыл бұрын

If that ever happens again get all Karen and say you need that meal remade

@shelocsher2396

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nwadiogo It sucks that ppl can’t just take a hint and know boundaries. That cashier has to consider their job. They could’ve requested help from the manager, and we don’t know that they didn’t.

@unionkn7998

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

That restaurant saw you in potential danger and did NOTHING to help you. That's messed up.

@MPPG663

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Men of nearly all ages never cease to be predators. And what the hell was he thinking grabbing your wrist like that?! UGH, I'm so sorry, Kelly.

@Feminazi1dc

3 жыл бұрын

@Love Like Lia Literally, what was the point in this comment huh? U have no idea how old she is and either way it's true??? Like what? Shut up

@Deenique16

3 жыл бұрын

When she said he had a daughter I hate to admit it but dark thoughts came to my mind 😬 Probably sexualized his daughter

“I’m either ignored in society or lusted after” smh too relatable 😖😷😩

@excelsweird6466

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😩

@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663

3 жыл бұрын

RIGHT 👏🏽 👏🏽❤.✅

@marlenedelgado2634

3 жыл бұрын

Same.🙄

@ladycontrarian

3 жыл бұрын

@@MikeBTek your struggles are absolutely valid. This is a different conversation at hand though. I’m sure there’s a someone somewhere discussing issues relatable to yours ina KZread video, unfortunately this is not the one.

@sevehrsevehr6001

3 жыл бұрын

@@MikeBTek lol

“Why is being a woman a part time job” 😩 so much truth

this is so upsetting.. they should rly grow up 😭

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

HULLO RAIN

@mariajones9102

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps Hi Kelly! This is my first time watching your channel and your videos are very informative and humorous! One day many rains ago, )way before cell phones) I was at a neighborhood gas station and had to use the pay phone. So, I’m talking on the phone with my then 11month old son on my hip and my back turned. All of the sudden someone grabs my arm and I turned around, scared as hell. It was an OLD man that worked as a jitney at the local market. I tried to pull away from him screaming No!! He said I was going to be him woman and tried to pull me into his car. I started screaming “help,” and a couple of guys from the gas station (that I was familiar with ) came out and started running towards him yelling and cursing. He hurried up, jumped in his car and got out of there. Old men have always given me the creeps, and even though this is was 30 something years ago, I still feel weird when they try to get “ friendly.”

@algon6599

3 жыл бұрын

Next time take me I’ll scare those old buzzards away I know 🥋

@jaky411

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariajones9102 thanks for sharing. I found it very disgusting and also disrespectful that this old man also thought it was okay to treat you like a piece of meat while your kid was next to you in public like how shameless can a human be.

I'm about 10 years older than you but I've learned you have to be firm and never be afraid to be rude to strange men. I realized years ago that I don't owe a stranger my time even if they complement me.

@blue_sky_bright_sun7599

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Firm more than rude. Some people can be nuts and unless u got a gun with you, being rude could become being unsafe. Unfortunately.

@MPPG663

3 жыл бұрын

@@blue_sky_bright_sun7599 Right. Times have changed and these crazy men will not hesitate to respond to your dismissal with violence.

@drebugsita

3 жыл бұрын

So glad you already know this. Too many of us are conditioned to be polite no matter what, which is complete BS and disastrous for our safety.

@frenchgirl5878

2 жыл бұрын

Thé thing is, these men could be dangerous. I try not to be rude because I don’t want to end up with a broken jaw or car. Some me. Are violent even when you are being nice.

the lack of self awareness in older men makes me sick

@deathstroke7394

3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@ChandlerJuliet

3 жыл бұрын

facts

@indrinita

3 жыл бұрын

It’s privilege

@coleengoodell3550

3 жыл бұрын

When men of any age start telling me how much wealth they have right off the get go. My response is plain and clear, "I'm not for sale". That normally bursts their bubble and they leave me alone. The braggers about wealth I learned early on are the biggest cheap skates of them all and are normally lying. At the very least they have no class and assume that you are for sale. Nope, that's a nope nope.

@kissit012

3 жыл бұрын

“Older”. It’s every age

"I want to move to outer space” is the most relatableshit ever

@felicia_rm

3 жыл бұрын

Right?!

@kindred42

3 жыл бұрын

The way she's progressing she may have enough money to do it in the future. Please make a space colony stamps and take us with you.

@mogetit5999

3 жыл бұрын

My 6 year old says this every week I swear

@scoobysnax8127

3 жыл бұрын

I often think this. Take me home to Mars!

“I don’t want the Chaka khan” 😂😭

@karinr5168

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha i noticed that too

@VJolie3

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo

@tinachristine4573

3 жыл бұрын

That part made my snort in laughter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kimberlyhess993

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@Chocolate_Curry88

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

"why does being a woman have to be a part-time job?" i could write a whole essay on the gems in this video

"Why does being a woman have to be a part-time job" OKAY...Felt that

@kanek4042

3 жыл бұрын

Are you not a woman all the time?

@Zarouge

3 жыл бұрын

@@kanek4042 yes. But it shouldn't be a job to just exist.

I love that she titled it vol.1 because she knows there are going to be multiple volumes of Florida men.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

HAHAHA

@asparrow5505

3 жыл бұрын

😂 I'm so sorry if the stereotype is true

@velvetbiscuit7621

3 жыл бұрын

Yasssss

The reenactment is very entertaining. However, being a woman can be very taxing. We should NOT have to deal with mini panic/anxiety attacks every time we walk past a group of men!

I'm a black woman living in FL for almost 3 years now and I've noticed that creepy-ass old dudes love acting up toward me like it's too much to let me mind my own business. It blows my mind.

Her Imitations of creepy old men are so good it's sad

My name is not chocolate,... It's tiramisu✨

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

*hair flip*

@roselenses5532

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps flips hair in oreo tiramisu cookies

@lauraelizabethbrown

3 жыл бұрын

Dude...I lost it right there. Why is our stamp queen such an icon?

@ChandlerJuliet

3 жыл бұрын

I wanna be named after a delectable dessert too!!!!!

@Kwesi-Nimako

3 жыл бұрын

Not me waiting for to say Kelly! And then she said that...😂😂😂

“All of them at the same time just turned their heads w/o moving their bodies...like a shark”😭😭😭😭the visual of that! 🗣Relatable content!!

this is my trigger. i’ve learned purposely misunderstanding their perverted comments is the key to making them just as uncomfortable as they make me 🙂🙂🙂

Kelly i felt that one “Either im ignored in society or heavily lusted over, there is no in between” 😭

@justinaacorn5721

3 жыл бұрын

I feel your pain, it’s weird.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

@@justinaacorn5721 I'll be wearing a sweatshirt and pajama pants and get sexualized somehow LOL. I think it's just a being-a-woman thing. It's weird.

@justinaacorn5721

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps 🤣 💯

@HappyHawthorn

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps 1 Woman, 2 Young, 3 Beautiful, 4 Not Enough Self-defence Vibes

@just1desi

3 жыл бұрын

I hate to body police but we need BW to reduce the excessive twerking online. It is not helping. Some women say random folks in china ask them to twerk now while they’re on vacay.

Honestly I don’t know a single woman that doesn’t have a creepy man story like this. It frustrates me that no one stood up and said back off. Straight up I would’ve pretended to be your best friend and stole that man’s seat until he backed tf off. Also as a child with an N/parent I get you lol

@uncutjems

3 жыл бұрын

Wanted to say having lived in America 5 years that back in Australia, people do defend a woman - well they use - society just rapidly declined in recent years- but in other countries I see far less of this. We girls really need to look out for each other many of these men that approach you are predators or have a plan. Stay on guard, always.

@ericscott4225

3 жыл бұрын

@@uncutjems then don't let him buy you lunch or take his money that's what she gets

@DanceParis

3 жыл бұрын

@@ericscott4225 He forced it on her. She didn't know what else to do. Be a real gentleman, and put yourself in her shoes!

@nizvkfb7vsbvrsct723

3 жыл бұрын

@@ericscott4225 sometimes going along can be the safer option that resisting.

@Bubblies005

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering Have fun talking with HR and losing your job one day because of your behavior. Joking or not it’s not funny, and it’s not cute. If you smack a woman’s butt for no reason I hope one day you smack the wrong woman and get pepper sprayed.

It sucks that this happens so much. I work at a library and the harassment was so bad in the my first few years that I've resorted to being very clipped and surly to men who look like they're going to chat me up. It sucks because especially in the South, there are some men who are just nice and polite without wanting anything in return but I've learned my lesson from being nice and polite myself and how it can be taken the wrong way.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

Hi miss Tiramisu 🥰 we certainly have similar stories haha ily.😂😘

@EntertainmentLand4ALL

3 жыл бұрын

🤣 this comment is just as great as the video “hi miss tiramisu” 😂😂😂🥰

@htttps809

3 жыл бұрын

Nice cakes

As a black woman growing up and living in Florida, I’ve mastered a few ways, but the best way I ignore and keep those thirsty FL men to leave me alone, is to have both AirPods in my ears, listening to music or holding my phone up watching a video/movie playing, or make a phone call. Some still don’t care and still trying to talk to you. I just point to my ear and phone indicating I’m busy, and continue ignoring them.

@FreeSpiritMom

3 жыл бұрын

Looking at your picture, I can tell your ignore game strong 😂😂😂 (I mean that in a positive way- you’re beautiful 💖)

@laurynwambui_

3 жыл бұрын

I'm usually just rude, plain and simple.

@kitkatt6357

3 жыл бұрын

but isn't that dangerous , because these pple can become violent or touchy in any second , shouldn't u be on high alert to try and defend yourself ? not hating on u ,just worried lol

@nikam4167

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurynwambui_ Being rude will get you killed nowadays.. Please be careful, these men be psycho

@ak6046

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurynwambui_ same here. just keep power walking past them

This is why I'm glad I'm tall. I'm 5'9", and I'm usually wearing heels, so men are too intimidated by my height a lot of times to ever do crap like this. I live in Louisiana, and practically every bar I go to I deal with creeps like this, but then all I do is stand up and they leave. It's honestly a blessing.

@shreyanayak7896

3 жыл бұрын

omg thats so smart

@BeastlyBeauty

3 жыл бұрын

@@shreyanayak7896 I don't play with my safety 😂

@coleengoodell3550

3 жыл бұрын

I may be little, but I'm mean. F off! works great.

@ClearlyCat

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I love that

@sms1511

3 жыл бұрын

I am only 5’6 but maybe this an idea for me to get massive platform shoes? You’re on to something here...

Do (clap) NOT (clap) ENGAGE (CLAP). Ignore them. Take nothing from them. If they start to bother you, say I DON'T KNOW YOU. LEAVE ME ALONE. loudly. Creeps are everywhere, I swear.

@deebestest100

3 жыл бұрын

That’s the first mistake. NEVER ENGAGE those creeps. I have learned to say “you are making me uncomfortable” loudly.

@vliciouss

3 жыл бұрын

Perfect response

as a black girl who feels like people sexualize me bc of my dark skin color this spoke VOLUMES. why are we either loved or hated wtf 😭

"No I don't want the Chaka Khan I just want my lentil soup" She said what she said and how are we not suppose to stan her...

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@CrystalRose1111

3 жыл бұрын

The line that took me out

@Mirror_My_Ambition

3 жыл бұрын

Took me all the way OUT 🤣. I'm dead but I'm still typing...ROTF

@JoannaRoxanne

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

"I put my moms number for all the years she yelled at me for leaving a fork in the sink" LMAOOOOO

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

She said she never got a text lmao I'm disappointed

@giana6068

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps omg 😭

@Mirror_My_Ambition

3 жыл бұрын

Listen, I died at Chaka Khan only to be resurrected for this. I'm dead again🤣😂😭😭

@asmrblizzz

3 жыл бұрын

Another idea is to go give your EX’s number

“Why does being a women have to be a part-time job?” I felt that so much

@LisePlansandJournals

3 жыл бұрын

A women? 😂

“no i don’t want chakka khan-“ 😭😭😭

Girl I get catcalled all the time and guys approach me all the time, I don’t even respond at all when they talk to me. Once they see you respond, they think it’s an okay to freakin talk to you as if you known each other for years. Next time Kelly, give them your back and don’t respond. How embarrassing that some men are like this.

@lauram7929

3 жыл бұрын

This is the way

@zoegwynn

3 жыл бұрын

i second this

@shahjhaawn

3 жыл бұрын

yuh pretty much

@ismahanm1118

3 жыл бұрын

right!! u give them a centimeter these men will run a marathon smh.

@SkullsAndSugar

3 жыл бұрын

Ive had way too many men get violent with me when I ignore them. It sucks. You can't win

Honestly the old man noises when rummaging for money is hilariously accurate

@Star-zr4ls

3 жыл бұрын

Felt that specially when they’re trying to tip, they go through it over and over to pull out like $2. No one asked for tip just move along already.

The background music and Kelly's story really grabs my heart. Kelly is a natural story teller. Good job!

I am going through a heart break right now so I’m hurting. This channel really helps me get through the day. Thank you so much for making me laugh and smile. You really belong in television

Why is this Chanel designer trying to buy you lentil soup when he has a wife and thinks like you look like his daughter??! You can’t make this up 😫

@jacquelinegiraldo

3 жыл бұрын

It's gross AF

@rara1739

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Apparently I met Karl Lagerfield himself lmao

@Jen18812

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps lol!

@Jen18812

3 жыл бұрын

Seriously. It’s unreal! Ugh I was fuming as I listened.

Best course of action I find is to completely ignore them, not engage in any kind of conversation with them. They might say "Are you deaf? You didn't learn how to talk?" but soon they will get tired and leave. It's insane that we have to daily manage and think what to say, and what would the best course of action be to keep ourselves safe.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to start speaking in Swahili or something to make them go away

@enfleuri

3 жыл бұрын

@Supermodel Chick yes!! avoiding eye contact is another great tip.

@AriesMYCookie

3 жыл бұрын

I've done the same thing lmao and for some reason one time some old man kept trying to guess my name and bother me I remained silent for a 30 min maybe more and he gave up

No I don’t want the “chaka khan” 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

“I don’t want the Chaka Khan”😂😂😂 this wiped me out. But actually as a Floridian I can testify some of these men out here are on another level and it doesn’t matter what you are wearing or how u present yourself some men just wanna harass us

"Dont be discouraged from moving to Florida, you;'ll just have to throw hand at some point" Best advice for anyone going to Florida ever.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

100%

“Once you go black you’ll never never go back, heh heh, Hyuck, hyuck, heh, heh”. Made my skin crawl.

@minanathan4944

3 жыл бұрын

Read this exactly as she was saying it 😭

“I don’t want the Chaka Khan” 😂😂😂 bahahaha I cannot with you Kelly!!

I don't know anything about Florida, I have no idea about the culture, but as a female I can relate to this and I love the way you convert the stressful situation to a storytelling video💕

“I’m either ignored in society or lusted over.” EVERY BLACK WOMAN EVER.

@mylifeasjessio

3 жыл бұрын

unfortunately true. the plight to exotify and objectify minority women.

@TheQueenIsWithin

3 жыл бұрын

I find this to be very common and I live in the caribbean

@vestigal5073

3 жыл бұрын

THAT PART!!!!!

@potentialrizing1949

3 жыл бұрын

🗣 FACTS!

@Ravenpriestess

3 жыл бұрын

💯

I felt that when Kelly said "being a woman is a part time job" 😓 Living in Brooklyn, NY as a woman sucks when you need to run errands alone. Brooklyn men are a different breed and I don't always feel safe

@justinaacorn5721

3 жыл бұрын

Craven

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Brooklyn men will yell at you and call you ugly if you don't reply. Glad I'm out of there lol

@ln1299

3 жыл бұрын

I live in Brooklyn. I feel you.

@kilimanjaro5537

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve heard about brooklyn men 😬.

"i just feel like everyday i get progressively more angry at humanity and i have to ask myself, is it me or is it everyone else? it's everyone else" my entire life summarized. you're so relatable

You are an impeccable actress.. I mean really, I can just see this whole interaction just by the way you acted it😂

I've heard that line so many times its actually so disturbing. 'Wow you look so much like my daughter... Anyways what's your number?' Like how gross can you be.

@emeraldeyes8688

3 жыл бұрын

He sounds like Trump! Lol

@iridescentraindrop

3 жыл бұрын

Old men are especially creepy. I blame Hollywood and society for normalizing these old man/ young girl relationships. They think they have a shot with women 40 years younger than them and that they can buy them. I'm sick of it.

"Being ignored in society or deeply lusted over" Really hit me. HARD.

“Be prepared to throw hands at some point “ .... she didn’t lie 🥴😭

"I wanna move to outer space" is the most relatable thing I've ever heard

I just don't understand why some men think it's okay to harass women in this way. It's totally unacceptable. The fact he's married with kids but still looking for girls' numbers is just horrendous!! Stay safe x

@maameyaa7053

3 жыл бұрын

The horrendous part is that he was flirting with her while acknowledging that she looked just like his daughter!!!!

@getgot3461

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering ok, as long as the woman gets fine ass men on the side too :))

@caribanna1865

3 жыл бұрын

@@getgot3461 and hurt the man’s fragile ego? How can we ever think of such things, my oh my 😲🤭😂

@haribhandari5309

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering you are kind of guy to shame a woman for having a side man but approve of a man's cheating.

@yunginyungin7412

3 жыл бұрын

I dont but judging by social media most women like that when it come to a guy they like but when its a guy they don't like they think its creepy

“My name is not chocolate, its Tiramisu”face expression and all knocked me out LOL

@JoannaRoxanne

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss!!! 👏👏👏

“Is it me or everyone else, it’s every one else” 😭😭😭 earth is ghetto

Kellyyy, your dry humor is killlingggg me...in a good way, because I TOTALLY understand you!

Hi Kelly - No woman should have to experience this, this perverse predatory behaviour is unacceptable. I commend you for sharing and hope that at some stage in time this doesn't have to be the reality for women all around the world.

@rosetealatte9282

3 жыл бұрын

It is predatory. Its easy to spot these creeps too. What woman hasn't been out somewhere and suddenly sensed that some old creep is watching you and trying to make his way over to approach you? Its disgusting.

@maja__5047

3 жыл бұрын

@@rosetealatte9282 So freaking gross, it especially makes me furious when it happens to my younger sister🤮

Damn, being a women of color is DEFINITELY a pt job. I felt that in my soul.

@Alyssaa948

3 жыл бұрын

YES. No matter where you go

@KeiyaHood

3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly why I started my other channel @justsaynotomen

@icouldntthinkofaname8916

3 жыл бұрын

Being a black woman*

@candidlymargi

3 жыл бұрын

FULL TIME job.

@tyraverified

3 жыл бұрын

AND we’re doing this for free-fifty 🥴

this story is 1. very relatable and 2. a great lentil soup ad, it must’ve been good to deal with all that and now im gonna get some for lunch today

The sound effects always send me! The fact that this scenario wasn't and won't be the last time is what is nuts. You are hilarious!

When men talk to me I just look at them dead pan and say, “nope. No, no, no. NOPE!” I’ve been told so many times how rude I am. I don’t care. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@greenytaddict

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@DreamNationZz

3 жыл бұрын

Let them think your rude, men always want to waste our time with their bullshit

@SparkVERSE1

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering Forreal, girls nowadays am I right?

@veronicanegronfranco

3 жыл бұрын

You need to be, tho!!!

@Tiff-vi9kx

3 жыл бұрын

@Andrew Goering if a man CONTINUES to talk to you, despite your continued DISINTEREST and initial no, ,then YESSSS , he absolutely is a creep who doesn't respect boundaries. Gtfoh.

When I worked at a health food store there was a customer who every female coworker were afraid of. He would say things like 'oh that's 5 dollar? are YOU included? 😏' ...or lean tooooo much over the counter to comment on our clothes. Every time I think back, I wonder why we never said anything, but once you're in that moment it's so difficult to speak up. Disgusting!

@coleengoodell3550

3 жыл бұрын

We have to learn. We have to learn to not be nice to these creeps and prepare in advance what to do and what to say. Yes, the gropers are counting on our shock to get away with it. I yell, "Don't touch me!" if they somehow many my sideways stand and distancing technique.

This has happened to me before. The thing is, I was like 17. The first time I’ve encountered something creepy. Thankfully I have maybe 2 or 3 creepy encounters. I’ve been very blessed to be away from the creeps. I also had a female be the absolute CREEPIEST 🤦🏾‍♀️ People don’t understand boundaries‼️

The humor, yet seriousness of this. Sends me🥲😀😀😀. This video also made me progressively get mad because the man just refused to take a hinttttttt😫😫

Girl, put earphones on when you’re outside so even if someone talks to to annoy you, you can pretend you didn’t hear him. I do that all the time whem im alone outside because other people are intrusive and sh*t. I’m introvert too and i prefer my space. (Or you can pretend to talk to someone else while having your earphones on haha) Sometimes If someone is really annoying and approaches. I say, “can you please give me space? I just wanted to be alone and to relax today. Thanks for understanding.” Then I smile a little. They back off. I usually also have a book with me when i go outside when i go to a cafe or my ipad so people know i am doing something but sometimes we can’t avoid annoying people😅

@Hallelujur

3 жыл бұрын

Actually, that's not a good idea. I once saw an interview with jailed predators and one way they choose their victim is to look for girls/women with earphones in (because distracted). 😕

@aerielp.4513

3 жыл бұрын

@Bloom what if I told you, you can have headphones in… with nothing playing 😉. No distractions

@Avenelle77

3 жыл бұрын

@@aerielp.4513 Yes! I use earphones without music playing as a decoy! It works :-)

@toonmili03

3 жыл бұрын

I used to do that

@shenieces7839

3 жыл бұрын

For me that doesn't work, the guys just get more aggressive🥲

My policy in these kinds of situations is smile and pretend you have stuff to do and never reply to anything. Don't encourage them.

@maryann6800

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. She's young, still learning, but she'll get there!

@EmilyDickmesome

3 жыл бұрын

@@maryann6800 True. I used to reply to any nonsense tbh that's why I say this 😅

@riannatripp6594

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I am the same.

@ButterflyGoddessMoe

3 жыл бұрын

THIS DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK! I’ve used this, been called bitches and hoes... I’ve tried wearing a fake wedding ring that doesn’t work either. Being a black Woman is exhausting

@SusannahPerri

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Any other decision leads to a parasite you can’t get rid of.

the reenactment of the story makes this vid just that more entertaining

Omg yesssssss Kelly telling the story of every black girl when she decides to go out in society looking nice 😭 I was cringing and laughing, great storytime 💕

As a Black woman, I 100% felt what you said about being ignored or lusted after. Going out and being drooled over like a pack of wolves finding their dinner is....🥴 and it happens so often.

@tacrewgirl

3 жыл бұрын

Whew, this hit my soul. So truthful. We’re either invisible or lusted after. I used to work as a waitress in my 20s and it was very noticeable. It was ALWAYS older, married white men.

@TmHudsonArt

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a white woman and felt exactly the same lol...

@sheeniebeanie2597

3 жыл бұрын

Yep...

*I feel like I'm either ignored in society or lusted after* as a black woman I felt that 👏🏿👏🏿

@kristajennings4015

3 жыл бұрын

That’s deep

@kaybee1025

3 жыл бұрын

Shoot....amen!

@k.lorraine

3 жыл бұрын

a damn shame.. humans can be disgustingly wicked

@uncutjems

3 жыл бұрын

As a white woman I feel exactly the same. I guess I could go on social media and get attention. I am get concerned of the consequences and it has held me back but here goes since I am pretty much almost over the hill. No one cares, people are mean, society is a nasty machine that destroys ones confidence and morals if you are not really strong and resilient. LIfe can be an awful harsh reality with all sorts of horror no matter how pretty or white you may be. So we just count our blessings and carry on. Rant over. The end.

@atinuke6932

3 жыл бұрын

@@uncutjems Why did you have to comment this?

I'm mixed race..... and the amount of times I have a man asking me "Where are you from?" "You're so exotic" "Middle Eastern women are soooooo exotic" etc etc 😩 being a woman is a part time job

@marnadanyelle

3 жыл бұрын

😩😩

Kelly Stamps is the G.O.A.T, love these stories!

I’m so sorry that happened to you Kelly 😕 The part you said about people lusting after dark skinned women is so true. Either you’re treated like the gum on the bottom of someone’s shoe or you’re treated like a vessel made only for sex. I’m so mad no one around you tried to help. Sending you lots of love Kelly♥️♥️

@Sammyyaam

3 жыл бұрын

this

@adeponol

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't call her dark skinned ngl

@JamieBleu

3 жыл бұрын

@@adeponol brown skinned is considered dark skin to literally every other race

@mojisolashabi

3 жыл бұрын

@@adeponol They mean not white.

@jazharris2903

3 жыл бұрын

@@JamieBleu she's not dark skinned to black people.

Florida men are built DIFFERENT. I swear they be doing the most lol

@dawnmatthews9281

3 жыл бұрын

More story time please

@SavvyQuirkTarotandAstrology

3 жыл бұрын

💯 agree 🤣

@han3wmanwukong125

3 жыл бұрын

The dude is from Israel, though.

@ANikkiB210

3 жыл бұрын

@@han3wmanwukong125 I said what I said.

@han3wmanwukong125

3 жыл бұрын

@@ANikkiB210 technically you wrote what you wrote.

The humor is ON POINT, and also yes, it's always a good day to listen to the Book of Mormon soundtrack (or any musical for that matter!)

If I had been there eyewitnessing this incident, I would have pretended we were friends who accidentally bumped into each other. As a man I find this disgraceful.

@Feminazi1dc

3 жыл бұрын

I would've just straight up been like do u know her? Then leave her TF alone weirdo. Just straight insult that man

As soon as you see Florida man you know it will be a good one, they’re built different 😩✋🏾

@itsmeShannyofficial

3 жыл бұрын

I should try that when i get there sis 💞🥰😁😍

@NameFirst-jv9gj

3 жыл бұрын

I hear this quite a lot about the men in Florida.

@NetworkBruh

3 жыл бұрын

Yes we are... Hey chocolate lmfao

@Rainjojo

3 жыл бұрын

My name is also Imani omg 😭

@Meeynz

3 жыл бұрын

I see no lies.

Ugh, I can’t stand when people tell skinny people “you need to eat” or “ you’re too skinny”. 😒😒 If I got paid every time someone said something like this too me, I’d be able to retire young and never work again. Also, love your story times. Please do more ☺️

@TheCottons

3 жыл бұрын

I always say it’s just as rude to call someone skinny as it is to say someone is fat. People should just not comment on someone’s weight at all🤷🏻‍♀️

@mindyourbusinessandrelax1323

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheCottons yes, I totally agree. It’s rude both ways.

@spicypeppy

3 жыл бұрын

People just like the ideal version of you. Nobody likes the real you. Imagine being thick and curvy yet they be like you need to lose weight.🙄😔

@mindyourbusinessandrelax1323

3 жыл бұрын

@@spicypeppy yes, that’s very true. If you don’t fit the expectations they have for you then they make comments like that 😒

@spicypeppy

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheCottons exactly my point but nobody learns at the end of the day.

You know I almost didn’t watch this video, but I’m glad I did. It’s really reassuring to hear the same socially-off interactions happen to other women too. I hate how I don’t respond these inappropriate weirdos irl, the way I do in my head. I’m too busy trying to be nice while they cross my boundaries and social norms!!

crying... thank you for sharing this

Its the same when you're Asian American. Either invisible or men literally smacking their lips. I'm is sorry you had to experience this. I'm getting made for you cause I've experienced this shit

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Thank god I have a goldfish to keep me company LOL

You are SO right about every woman knowing the "Oh No" look when they are walking past a group of dudes. 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

‘I’m either ignored in society or lusted over.’ man this hits hard....

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

Mhmmmm

This is so freaking relevant. Gosh darn you’ve done it again Kelly Stamps.

Him: "Oh you busy? Then just give me your number" (*sits there waiting as if it's his RIGHT to have your number*) Why are some men always acting out of pocket??? THE AUDACITY

@ohshesjihan7105

3 жыл бұрын

You should’ve put in 911

@modelsupplies

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss!!!

@LadyAstarionAncunin

Жыл бұрын

It’s her giving him a number anyway for me. Every time a woman gives a pushy man their info to appease them, all it does is “prove” to them that you want their pursuit and are just playing hard to get and they were right to demand it. Whether true or not, that’s their narrative.

"why does being a woman have to be a part time job" 👏👏

Kelly! That was an HILARIOUS STORY! Yeah!

Love Your Storytime & Channel 🥰

And yet men NEVER believe us when we tell them that shit like this happens ALL THE DAMN TIME.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

I got some old men emailing me saying I made this up and I’ve “never been harassed by a man” 💀

@morganonawhim

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps Appalling. Also appalling is the fact that no one in the whole place gave you an assist. I would have squared up with that dude if I saw this happening, I ain't afraid to bop a senior.

@deepikamsolanki

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps they are probably part of it and annoy women on a daily basis too :/

Did I understand the title? No. Did I still click like my life depended on it? Yes.

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

hahaha

@dietitianmanisha

3 жыл бұрын

That's a funny one !

@KeiyaHood

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps @7:24 why you show the pictures of YOURSELF as the WIFE and the CHILDREN? Girl you are hilarious!😂🤣😂🤣

@KellyStamps

3 жыл бұрын

@@KeiyaHood I'm a mess LOL

@Fari-100

3 жыл бұрын

@@KellyStamps meshy 😅

Thats why i am a feminist. Woman get treated so poorly and no boundaries are seen.. we have to do something about it. Thanks for speaking up 💙

@franz3810

2 жыл бұрын

and people give a woman's attention for granted as if we owed them something! the nerve of these people

Kelly I love your videos! I need you to know. I lived in Israel for a year and FEEL YOUR PAIN -- the accent, on point. Keep on with the lentil soup. xx