The one thing that demotivates me the most is the voice in my head that tells me "even when you get there, you still won't be happy, so why bother putting in the effort anyway"

@ryanbryancyan

Ай бұрын

I learned this from Dr. Scott Eilers here on KZread… If you don’t feel happy either way, why not just do the healthier option?

@ColdBaltBlue

Ай бұрын

Happiness is different from contentment. Happiness is a temporary and fleeting feeling we get from accomplishing a short term goal, whereas contentment is being able to live with the choices you’ve made and feel fulfilled going down the path you’re going down. The ticking of life’s clock makes you feel like you have to do everything all at once, but that impossible in a lifetime.

@user-ei8ht9cs9l

Ай бұрын

Find your purpose . Prayers and meditation.

@lepancho8122

Ай бұрын

@@ryanbryancyanbecause the less healthier option is easier.

@ctrodriguez111ent

Ай бұрын

Its about the journey not the destination

I just turned 24 this month and this is exactly how I feel. Been in a panic and stress because I feel like I’m Running out of time. All I do is go to work and home, that’s it. No friends , no relationship , no sense of direction on what I wanna do with my life. Feel like I’m so behind

@Neversink47

16 күн бұрын

In the same boat bro :/ shit sucks

@joeybortolotto3795

13 күн бұрын

Same your not alone

@FADEDElement

13 күн бұрын

I have this same problem, it sucks I wanna feel like I have more in life then just work

@AMG1edition

13 күн бұрын

Same, work, home, tired of the same routine

@KapilRajan658

11 күн бұрын

Hi

Im 23. 2 years off meth. I'm not interested in coding or being at a computer much at all BUT your content is still super relatable as I try to become a nurse.

@__Shun

7 ай бұрын

im trying to become a lawyer,good luck bro

@optimusmaximus56

7 ай бұрын

Congratulations stay of it.

@JohnStockton7459

7 ай бұрын

Congrats on staying sober, its never easy

@jacquelinevigil2951

7 ай бұрын

Good job 👏 2 years is an amazing achievement- keep going !

@slayer2608

4 ай бұрын

I’m last year biomed but I now suffering from mental illness and I’m failing my last year. And if I fail I resit but I get capped at 40% in the uk making my degree almost useless for what I want my life currently sucks but it is what it is. I know meth ain’t the same but your not the only one whose having a bad time so good to know your not alone

21 here, didn’t go to college but seeing all my high school mates going to college and already graduating or other friends that didn’t go to college knowing what they want being the same age as me does something to me and feels pretty shitty. I was directionless up until late February of 24, gonna finally start doing what I think is best for me. Let’s see where life takes me by the end of the year. Good luck to you all out there, you’ll find your path just keep pushing through. May God bless you all

@Dee_Dee794

Ай бұрын

I am twenty one as well! I took the college route & still feel lost. I am glad youu are taking steps for change. I am doing the same since my recent break up & also found a career that I believe I will enjoy 🥰. Good luck, youu got this, & God has youu 💗.

@PrincipitoCuler17

Ай бұрын

@@Dee_Dee794 oh wow I’m also going through a recently break up at the start of the year. Glad to hear you found something for yourself. Good luck to you on your career journey

@swaveknight

Ай бұрын

Im 20, dropped out of highschool when I was 17 but honestly that doesn’t matter because I have a clear vision of what I’m going to do in the future. God lives within you. You are God. And as long as you put in the work and manifest, you’ll attract anything you want. I’m already living the life I want even tho I don’t have it rn. It’s the feeling of having it, it’s what’s going to help attract the life you want.

@andrea-gp8qv

Ай бұрын

i'm 21 and i've always wanted to be an artist and a musician. i didnt go to college. right after high school, during the pandemic, my dad started getting sick due to parkinson's. i was at home working and saving money, and 3 1/2 years of this went by. during this time i watched my parents' dynamic more closely and realized my dad was very controlling and manipulative. in the middle of it we moved states and i was hundreds of miles away from my friends that were helping me through it. i just watched him get worse and watched my parents make each other miserable, and had no hope for myself or my family. now my parents are divorced and my dad's in an assisted living home with professional carers, and it's just me, my mom, and my little sister at home. i feel like my head's still spinning from all of it and i compare myself to my friends graduating college and i feel so behind. i'm also just now learning how to drive and that's been challenging. i feel like every day's just a stumble in the dark. it's nice to read your comment and remember that i'm not the only one feeling this way, and i admire your resolve to make a change. i wish you the best, this will be a better year for both of us :)

@PrincipitoCuler17

Ай бұрын

@@swaveknight I wish you the best in your future, I’m glad you found what’s best for you and I hope you succeed in life!

my advice at 31 is get living, dont rot in one place if you're doing so

@Riverburke8170

Ай бұрын

Thank you

@bruhhh_4203

Ай бұрын

As a 31 year old… great advice. Thank you.

@Dtrader671

Ай бұрын

Where to go what to do?

@xbinzur6956

Ай бұрын

@@Dtrader671anything stop looking for answers go fuckin find em!!! Get out there

@ryvcy

Ай бұрын

I'm 21, I live in Ukraine. My own counrty locked me inside its borders. I received an internship abroad, but couldn't cross the border for obvious reasons. Sucks so much. I wish i could get living but i just can't right now

Never thought I'd be getting life advice from johnny sims

@Chris40112

Ай бұрын

Bro😂😂😂😂😂

@dgelo3816

29 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@SouzaGualter

28 күн бұрын

damn🤣

@thedrunkronin4550

15 күн бұрын

Tbf, he is a well rounded individual, lol.

Then you turned into Johnny sins

@AndrewNkrumah

23 күн бұрын

Grow up mate

@oldv1288

21 күн бұрын

Your mind could be better, but right now it isn't.

@Demonvii7

21 күн бұрын

Haha Im mid 30s I do what I want

@erickpecina5213

20 күн бұрын

@@AndrewNkrumahbro said that w manchester as his pfp🤡

@Newdoolz-19

15 күн бұрын

Idk I thought that shit was funny asf😂 guess ur a bad guy for having a sense of humor?

I’m 26. this month makes it a year of being out of prison. Went in when I was 23. lost a lot of hope in achieving my goals. Lies were put against me and the justice system failed to see my innocence. recently I regained hope learning from the experience. I learned you have to play the cards you are dealt, smart. love your videos. They are really inspiring.

I'm 35 years old and just started an apprenticeship in mechanical engineering.

@TherealBigblue22

2 ай бұрын

I didn’t know you could do that, like no college required?

@4BCJesus

2 ай бұрын

@@TherealBigblue22It's a training scheme, so I go to college once per week, which for me will be a Friday. The other 4 days I work for a company. You just need to accept that you will be on bad money for at least the first year and then from the second year on, at least in the UK you are entitled to national living wage for your age group, so not too bad.

@TherealBigblue22

2 ай бұрын

@@4BCJesus yeah that’s pretty slick learn and work and learn working not bad

@zwalker2000

Ай бұрын

@@4BCJesus I'm in the U.K. too, could you please provide some more info on where to find these types of schemes?

@4BCJesus

Ай бұрын

@@zwalker2000 www.gov.uk/apply-apprenticeship Or go into your local college and have a look at their apprenticeships. Get yourself signed up to your college and have your name down for apprenticeships, go to their open evenings and meet people and talk to people there, they will help too. They will contact you and see if you are interested when they become available. Depending on your age, it might take a year or 2 to find one. That Gov site is very good though. My advice would be to fire off CVs to people, fill in the forms and maybe try and get the companies number and ring them. Good luck.

I wasted a lot of my 20th working and working and working it didn't get me anywhere, single, no career , living with my parents

@firemontana1284

Ай бұрын

Ur fucked

@stevenratton6032

Ай бұрын

I’m going through this exact same thing rn

@yasminessam6899

Ай бұрын

@stevenratton6032 I'm sorry to hear that. Someone told me that maybe i will bloom in my 30th ! I hope you do too. May Allah guide us to the right path 🙏

@rogermoore3991

Ай бұрын

Im in the same situation. I can guarantee your priorities have been wrong. You didnt save, you gambled your money away, drank them away, smoked them away etc. Am i right?

@yasminessam6899

Ай бұрын

@rogermoore3991 wrong , I gave it to my family because they are in need ! I'm a Muslim i don't do these kind of sins ! I just happened to be born in a house without a supporting father. Also, I'm in a third-world country where you have to work your ass off in a call center for 300 dollars a month . And I'm unable to find a partner who can help . It's just destiny

Im 26, was an opioid and heroin addict for 7 Years. Clean since 1,5 years and Fullstack Spring Boot Developer since 7 Months. But still struggle with relapses every few months and still not feeling "healed". But there is no other direction than to keep fighting for me.

@epicgamer0007

7 ай бұрын

God bless you I'll pray for you tonight

@A_Good_Boy.

4 ай бұрын

god bless you sir

@imdurgesh9430

2 ай бұрын

How do you feel now, sir?

@JonasXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

2 ай бұрын

@@imdurgesh9430 Its getting better slowly everyday. I think a new Hobby I am passionate about helps also lot

@nathanokolo940

Ай бұрын

Try one more thing bro. Try Jesus bro. Try him for a month. Your life will change after. How? Just get the Bible app, read the book of Romans in the msg translation. Only read one verse a day. Sit and ponder on what you’ve read when you are done. I promise your life will change.

This is the whole idea of being comfortable with being uncomfortable. If you make sure to step out your comfort zone every day, doing so will give you satisfaction and in the end build a resilience towards the uncomfortableness, often times small things can translate to some of the biggest moves in the future. If you get used to stepping out your comfort zone and you get used to failing it will only make doing new things that much easier and that much more beneficial for you. I try to tell my ‘anti social’ friends that its possible no matter who or what you claim you are , go out and step out your comfort zone even if its just saying hi to a crush.

@ragingsaviorkami9862

14 күн бұрын

Can confirm this. Don't get me wrong, I still don't have my life fixed, but having suffered from bad depression, self-esteem and anxiety from the age of 13 all the way into my adulthood - until I almost killed myself when I was 24 - stepping out of the comfort zone makes a huge change. Starting with just going outside daily and sweating balls when I take my dog for a walk and some strangers stop by to pet her(not even kidding, this would geve me severe panic attacks), to saying hi and trying to make small talks with cashiers, to going to the gym, going back to work from office and so on. I still remember the first time I went to work from office after Covid. My voice was muffled and I was choking from anxiety, and all I could think was "Holy shit, everyone is listening to me speak right now". But the thing is, you adjust quickly, and every next challenge is that much easier after a while. You absolutely have to build resilience If you don't have it already. I'm now getting my driver's license at 27, something I've been terrified of for years. But in the end I was so mad at myself that I just decided to save some money, go out there and apply for driving lessons. Naturally, I was sweating balls when I went to the first lecture, but by the time I sat behind the wheel for the first time, I was like "Ehh, whatever, lets just do this." I'm about a week away from the final exam, when I'll be driving for real to get my license. I'm not even stressed about it. Main lesson learned: JUST DO IT.

@truongquangduy6090

11 күн бұрын

@@ragingsaviorkami9862 Very cool story bro. You inspired me to step out of my comfort zone. I will talk to a stranger tomorrow!

@ragingsaviorkami9862

4 күн бұрын

@@truongquangduy6090 Wow, I'm glaf I motivated someone! Did you do it? :D

I'm 27 and still have no idea what I am doing, and I think about to get fired from my job.

@sasan7606

6 күн бұрын

24, just graduated college from English Translation ( which has nothing to do with learning or translating English, you just memorize theories.) I'm freaking lost too. I feel y golden perioed of learning and career path choosing is fading away and I can't decide how nor I hae the money to learn new skills

@kevinboueri1051

6 күн бұрын

I am 27 too and I am in the same situation

@alygomez4768

6 күн бұрын

Im 21 I and I stress myself out thinking all I’m doing is waste my time, it’s everyday in my mind, what am I gonna do? How much more time I’m going to waste?

@mariosaldana1053

4 күн бұрын

Im 27 too, I got kicked put of my public health career at school last year. I was 6 classes away from graduating. I was cancelled and I know it was unfair. Im studying and taking nursing classes because I mostly have science classes but devoting time into this career is making me more depressed and angry everyday. It takes time away from my music writing, from going to the gym, and from cooking healthy meals. Before the semester I was working with my dad getting paid $500 a week and I was managing life like that, I was more happy because I had time to do the things I wanted to do. Now I don’t have time and im constantly reminded that im studying nursing because public health was unfair to me. The worst thing is I busted my ass in fall 2023 and I got $2,000 from financial aid for the spring but I decided not to enter school in the spring and I had to return that money which was a bonus for getting good grades in the fall. Now in the summer I have to pay $70 instead of getting those $2,000 that were mine to begin with. I hate this school dude, each day im closer to dropping out and pursuing my personal goals more and more, I feel they can turn into work goals, I don’t need a certificate, just the common knowledge.

@Jvanzterr

4 күн бұрын

Hi 5 bro i have two jobs and i want one to fire me but they wont 😫

I'm 25. I'm a patient advocate at a hospital and get paid good money. I always wanted to be in the film industry but working full time dwindled my inspiration for making short films again. Thank for you planting the seed that'll motivate me again to do what I love.

@obitobetancourt3138

10 күн бұрын

As a rapper, I work at a hotel & same thing. But not letting that stop me bro

24. Barely getting my shit together. Got into a good music school (first semester) and I want to be a teacher and conductor. Studying with a famous opera singer. At 18 I had no idea what the hell I wanted to do. I never had guidance. Most of my teachers said I’d be a loser. Sometimes I feel so lost and discouraged but things take time. I’m also 4 hours away from all my family and friends for the first time living on my own. It sucks and it’s scary but I’m here for a reason.

@XDrunkenPandaX

Ай бұрын

You're going to go down a deep and dark path trying to pursue music lmao. You'll have to learn the hard way when no one's hiring for your ideal job.

@sablesasquatchproductions6395

Ай бұрын

dont listen to drunken panda, if you work towards your goal without stopping and stick to it you'll make big achievements, the key is to not give up.

@highwayboyjon9517

Ай бұрын

@@XDrunkenPandaX I said I wanted to be a teacher right? In my state they’re paid more than normal teachers even in the small towns and yes there’s openings.

@XDrunkenPandaX

Ай бұрын

@@highwayboyjon9517 regular teacher sure, there are alot of jobs. music teacher? No chance lmao

@highwayboyjon9517

Ай бұрын

@@XDrunkenPandaX you’re not in the music world so your opinion is useless.

I'm 27 in an Eastern European homeless shelter. I'm lucky to have internet and a phone. At 22 I was an intern in a tech company as a frontend dev. It doesn't work out for everybody. I tried and grinded for 3 years to make it, ended up addicted on amphetamine and MDMA to be able to study as much as I can to catch up to the real programmers and it ruined my life. I'm not that guy who study every stack and uni sh!t, grit isn't enough, this is the truth. You are talented and an entrepenuer inside. I could never record my face giving advice or start a company. I suck at business and wages here are so low you just can't make ends meet alone by yourself. I lost my passion after realizing the soul sucking reality of the corporate cubicle work, paired with their greed to manipulate you into doing 3 positions for the wage for 1. I wish others to achieve their IT dream, but I'm one of those self made devs who silently failed.

@cowboyup6744

7 ай бұрын

You have so much of your life left to live. It's not failure unless you give up. You can still make it, don't give up.

@jsunn315

7 ай бұрын

@@cowboyup6744 Thank you for the encouragement, I genuinely glad I have some in these tough times. I may give up on webdev, but not on life itself. I don't have what it takes. If I did, in these past 5 years I should have been achieved my goal. Have a nice day!

@nhatan2511

7 ай бұрын

may I ask what's your plan for the future might be?

@cowboyup6744

7 ай бұрын

@@nhatan2511 Survive the coming economic collapse in th west

@nhatan2511

7 ай бұрын

fair@@cowboyup6744

I’m 23 and I work a car battery manufacturing plant as a simple operator and I just became realtor right as soon as I turned 23 (back in December 2023) I still feel somewhat lost here and their but I recently started to change my diet cutting out free sugars for good ones and doing what I can to gain my confidence back and take control of what I eat and take control of myself again and I’m hoping this helps out along in my career and hopefully push my mind to grow some more. I’ve been trying to implement good habits… it’s still hard and I still feel empty and especially lost but man I appreciate this video. I just tell myself to keep going and good things happen to those who wait

25 years old. Just lost my job. I have 2 college degrees but yet I feel like a failure. So much I want to do, and that I know I can do. But it’s just hard for me right now.

@tastyanthoney

Ай бұрын

do what you can

@millerrepin4452

Ай бұрын

Stop caring so much. Ask yourself what is the lifestyle you need to have to be your ideal self. Just act towards that goal. Luck is preparedness plus opportunity. You will be ready when the situation arises.

Brother, I’m 24 years old, and I feel so alone and scared of life at times. There days when I feel highly motivated, and my actions reflect that and I accomplish things and behave in ways that I’m proud of, but the uncertainty of the consequences of my behaviors always frightens me, the questioning if “am i on the right path?” But hearing your story really puts into perspective that action with the intent of learning and growth is always greater than inaction. And to act and fail is better than to not have acted at all. Thank you for this video. I can’t say I’ll never feel down, alone or scared again, but this video pushed me a step further today. Thank you.

Thank you for sharing this man 🙏 Have grit and don't give up on yourself, amen 🔥

Thanks for your honesty and authenticity Dorian!

mid 20s been watching your vids for a little while now. I am similar to you in the sense I am a HS dropout and grew up in a unfortunate household. these videos are very valuable.

29 and hella directionless 🙈 but I'm breathing, taking life day but day and trying not to fxck up my life any further. Great advice though, thanks Dorian!!

Thanks for the advice on hard work and risk taking!

I’m not really one to comment under KZread videos, but I wanted to take the liberty to pay my regards to your efforts. I somehow connect with every single word you convey, which gives me a sense of sincerity coming from your side. It feels like you’re an older brother who genuinely wants good for us. Thank you.

Man I’m grateful for finding your channel I’m 24 and feel like you’re the older brother I’ve never had

22 and I'm watching this.

@WhyWorryUrOnwMistakes

Ай бұрын

It's all good Sancho u ain't alone either doing drugs is not a best opinion to make it ur hobby cuz that's what am going thru

@idealysss

Ай бұрын

I didnt know what to major in university nothing seemed interesting so i majored in business administration cuz its good to know those things

@tilin9658

Ай бұрын

Im 19 and really dont know how 2 get my money up rn i left my old friendships Who hold me Back i was feeling Directionless now i thanks 2 this video i feel more confident

@moonriversou

Ай бұрын

I'm turning 22 this year and feel so lost sometimes.

@LonelyxTony

Ай бұрын

21 but I'ma be 22 soon 😳

28 and directionless.

@DorianDevelops

7 ай бұрын

You still have time!

@rakib17874

7 ай бұрын

Same😂😂😂

@isorozco511

6 ай бұрын

Try being 30. I have some direction but i think i got work to do. I dont think that feeling ever goes completely away

@mesmeroot9

2 ай бұрын

Same

@huiliyang6783

2 ай бұрын

Same

I'm 29. And this video was GOLD

THIS WAS THE TYPE OF VIDEO I NEED AT A PERFECT TIME THANK YOU

I appreciate this man and everyone in the comments willing to share. You realize you’re not alone, some people struggle earlier in life and later. I’m 29 I’ve been saying I was 30 since I was 27 because I felt like it was a mile stone and in severe decline it just felt like a blur that I really messed up the cut off. You get this idea that you are the only one you’re just not. Everything is figure out able. You may have doubts again in the future that’s ok. Keep pressing like a mantra.

Excellent framing, very relatable.

this video is honestly what i needed to hear thank you

It was about 30 for me, but then unfortunately was injured quite badly and spent first half of 30's in a not so great state. I then learned to code and just landed software gig and now I guess i'm finally getting things in order.

Love this! Thank you Dorian 💙👊

Thank you I am 20 year old in early 20s one precious thing I learn from a video is my cost of failure is nothing so I must do whatever I never had done and explore different different branches of life tree

This hit me hard. Thank you for making this video.

I went out to Kansas when I was 20 to learn some DIY skills and when I came back to Colorado I started a new business using the skills I learned at that job working for a family friend.

Thank you. I hope to come back after a while and thank you again. I needed that badly, your sincere brother from Kuwait

Thank you Dorian, you are amazing

I’m 21 and this really motivated me to push harder, love the content bro

Seriously man THANK YOU for this advise this is really helping me clear up my mind

21 with no job, no friends, no driving experience, dropout, and struggling with physical & mental issues… but yet everyday as i bed rot at home all day i always imagine how my life could be in the next 5 years like im self awareness that right now given my living situation that this is the perfect time to start my own life by slowly learning how to drive, getting a car, finding a stable job, meeting new people, and just earning my freedom to do what i always imagined but… the fear of taking risk and having to take more responsibilities scares me like im always overthinking the negatives and i know it’s myself holding myself back…! like deep down inside the real me knows if i take those risk it will be beneficial in the long run even if it’s bumpy the whole way and i know it’s true since i already experienced certain life events and succeeding for a bit! thank you for this message and it just verifies the real self inside of me that im always ignoring, now i know for sure that i should take more risk and even if i fall down i can always recover quickly since im young and have so much free time on my hands

@luvvreni

26 күн бұрын

I’m the same age as you and I also don’t have friends or my drivers license. I used to be so scared to drive, but I’m slowly getting over it. You got this :)

@sensurzz4580

14 күн бұрын

@@luvvrenithe bed rotting is so real:(

@mariokartking7105

9 күн бұрын

@@luvvreni you got this too! just gotta keep up the consistency and you’ll get there soon enough, just have to be patient with yourself 👍

27 and directionless would be the title to my autobiography 🤣 Even tho I have some great great qualities, its so easy to feel far behind in life, thank you :)

@ChokoBigdawgg

2 ай бұрын

Agreed same boat

@prodbycapri3081

Ай бұрын

there's no such thing as being far behind if you're trying to figure things out along the way, keep your chin up brother.

@ItsPerennial

Ай бұрын

Same here. 27 male, currently planning to start school for IT or HVAC so I can get my life started

@realcapper1235

Ай бұрын

Best thing is your not starving

19 years old here and I have always felt much older. Now it feels like I want to go to the next stage in my life which is getting out of the house and building something for myself and my girlfriend. Just to realise I am at my first year of studying and still have multiple years to go. Just feeling stuck in life rn, trying to just stay fit by going to the gym almost every day and really trying to get off of my nicotine addiction and drinking/smoking weed habits. While at the same time you gotta enjoy life right? Hope things will get better and I will start to enjoy the basics of life (again) Thx for reading have a wonderful day🤙

this video means a lot to me.thank you very much❤

It's all about that! Take the risks to live a life better!

Thank you s much for your videos. Even if you cant see it, you really do help people Dorian!

One thing I heard from a mail lady when I went to the post office that stuck with me “you have to be young and dumb so you can become old and wise” like he said you aren’t failing if you learned something

30 years old here and still rent, no wife or girlfriend, no kids, no degree (but have 3 certificates from community college in IT), and don't have a job at the moment. Hoping that by 38 I finished my degree, have a girlfriend/fiance/wife, have a good job, and own a house. Also, I've worked a bunch of minimum-wage jobs between 17 and now. In Colorado, luckily, the minimum wage went up to $13 an hour, but not everywhere has that luxury.

@lj9970

Ай бұрын

Hello, Do you still live in Colorado do you like the state still do you live there?

@BenJohnston21

Ай бұрын

@@lj9970 yes i still live here though the jacked up prices of literally everything here is making me consider moving to another state. i love the views here but not the people really.

Very valuable insight, subscribed!

Thanks for the advice 💪🔥

Wow. A video that actually adds value that isn’t just trying to sell me something? A video that offers advice I can actually implement the second after watching? I can’t believe it! Thank you sir!

Thanks a lot, was much needed. Right now 21 but feeling like everything is going downhill

@millerrepin4452

Ай бұрын

don't worry it can always get worse. As you get older things like your health will get worse. People's belief that you can change and improve will be lost. Employers look for young people not older people. Your time to build interest is lost when you're older.

29… I’ll be 30 this month. Don’t let the past make you!! Just live and learn brothers!!! I’m finally starting my career and on a great path making more money and networking with amazing ppl!

I loved the guy-with-the-trucks story because it hits VERY close to home. I had a friend who similarly was one year older than me and it looked like he was 3x as successful as I was. The worst part is that he would show up and tell me about how well he did in a random videogame. He literally beat me both in the virtual and in the real world.

@presidualist4587

2 ай бұрын

Reminds me of the movie tron lol

I'm a 27 year old women and unfortunately in the times where I know I have to get my shit together, I suffer from great depression & PTSD. Everything I have started, I didn't finish. I worked as a DJ, event manager, booker, audio book speaker, dancer.... Finding myself today falling for flowers. God help me to stick with something. Discipline, continuity and resilience are traits that are so hard to learn when it is a very strange thing to you.

@jordynbateman8441

2 ай бұрын

27 and can relate ❤

@warmdatastudio

Ай бұрын

turning 30, I can relate, too!

@User98681

16 күн бұрын

Look into microdosing pscilosibin mushrooms it has greatly helped me

This video is very inspiring and motivational for me. Thank you, and God bless Dorian!

this is really great and helpful, 21 trying to figure out how do to all the things I want. thanks so much

@TherealBigblue22

2 ай бұрын

24 here, do things anything but do not stay stagnant hop job learn new things and quit when you stop benefiting and stop learning when you feel stuck upgrade. Since I was 15 I’ve worked and only switched jobs when I found better pay and only took a pay cut when I wanted the experience and knowledge that came with the new job but whatever you do never get stuck learn enough about money read books I’m 24 and spent all that time not knowing what I wanted out of a career but had a burning desire to be financially wealthy and able to provide for those who have provided for me. At 24 I’ve learned all I needed to upgrade to the biggest leap yet and got the balls to risk it on a valuable skill I believe will let me run my future full throttle. Truth is never stop figuring it out you’ll never figure it out but that’s the trick your always finding the new way forward is the way to go keep moving never stay still never get stuck

I’ve been putting off watching this video. I really needed to hear everything you said thank you

I pray we all accomplish what we want to , Godspeed ❤

I feel like most of the goals/dreams I come up with are very mundane, things like getting a good job,good house or finding a great parter. To be completely honest they feel like goals I need to have rather than things I want to have due to societal preassure/physicical and emotional needs. The part that gets me feeling really lost is that im not sure what I can achieve that would accualy have greater meaning, so that when Im at the end I know I lived a fulfilling life.

I'd had a lot of struggles early in university because I was so directionless. Job hopping around led me back to university after I really got passionate about software engineering. It does suck because I had full scholarships originally for college and could have gotten my degree pretty much debt free, but I blew my chance and had to get student loans anyway after going back. The loans suck, but I was able to get through it and it's better than working some of the crappy jobs I used to work before my degree.

Good video man ty for the help!

28 in the exact same position he said, just now starting to get my shit together and actually trying to do better, I've always had dreams and goals in music but was always a heavy procrastinator and anxious about it, and spent a lot of my early 20s drinking, doing drugs and trying too hard to live in the moment, thinking I was working on my future when I really stalemated myself, I need to hear all of this

Youre the older brother i never had thanks for this video im 23 years old still lost this kind of guided me

im 26. i barely remembered my teenage years or my twenties. all i knew is that i never had a parent who stuck with me or guided me. i always did dumb shit going out late at night, smoking weed and drinking while playing video games. didnt go to college or uni but graduated high school. i always moved provinces and houses. now i feel stuck and forced in life and scared cause i have no direction in life or goal. i basically been living with the flow and trying things out in life see what opportunities are there for me at this moment. but i just still feel stuck. im glad i stopped by and saw this video. ❤❤❤❤

Thank you for your prospective eye opening for real

Interesting life story and good advice!

This video really calmed my nerves to stay focused, I felt like I wasted 3 years of my life and money on something that’s not even beneficial for me in long term. But I’m back on track and moving towards great things but I’m impatient about the success that’s in the future😭

When i was 11, my self esteem and depression was so low i accepted that i was going to be a loser all my life so i didnt try with education. Now in my late 20s i am still not ambitious, but i have a job with upwards mobility, no passion but it's something.

Dorian Develops you beautiful bastard. I am 19 and I feel directionless. I dropped out of university and lost my job and was unemployed for a while. I recently started working again which is good but I'm not earning enough and I just feel like garbage almost all the time because I know I could have done better. My goal is to work in IT in some capacity because I love computers and most of all I love software. I would love to help people with software problems, whether it is physically walking to their computer and fixing the problem for them, or what ever it may be. I just want to get in to IT so bad and this video has helped me so much. I will forever be grateful for the words of wisdom man because I finally found my drive for greatness. I will make something out of myself I promise.

@joshgarca17

Ай бұрын

Messing up early might be a blessing in disguise! Just learn & grow as much as you can and you’ll get a head start bro. I’m 23, gonna be finishing university by the end of the year & sometimes I wish I had dropped out around 19 to start pursuing something I was more passionate about. I’m confident able to land a decent job with my BA. Look into product management & quality assurance, super lucrative fields that you get into it with cheap course certifications / self-taught KZread knowledge instead of a degree. They work in the software field too

"Thank you for sharing your life story and your experiences! I've gained some insights for myself.

i needed this… thank you sir

Damn man this definitely hits different, just hope to be able to make the change.

18:50 I’m 21 and what I’ve learned is that you can do whatever it is you want to you literally have to set your mind on “it” and nothing else should matter more to you thank progress towards that goal

Thank you so much man you really make me realize a lot thank u so much ❤️

Thanks for the words man

I always knew I was holding myself back. I wouldn’t get a girlfriend because I already imagined the rejection in my mind, I wouldn’t take school seriously, instead of using gaming as a hobby I used it as an escape to ignore my responsibilities. I’m getting better, and I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one. I’m still young (21) I got plenty of time. This video is very inspiring, helps me push forward. Thank you.

Wow. This video is very informative. Subscribed

Thank you for this video, this helps me clears out my mind.

I’m 21, I’m trying to succeed as much as possible in many areas. I even try my hardest to be the best person I could be even though I fuck up with relationships. Thanks for the video 🙏🏽

Damn man this is the video I needed to watch I’m so glad to have stumbled across your channel. I’m 25 making around 80-90k a year and I feel like I spend most of my money on liabilities instead of saving/ investing. I want to change and this is the video that is going to do it for me.

Great video!!

Gonna turn 23 soon, thanks for the messages man

I’m 23, and I’m just starting my journey. I, like a lot of you I assume, am highly competitive which also means I compare myself and base my success on everyone around me, which I believe is a bad thing (comparison is the thief of joy). But, if you think how I do and are always comparing yourself to others, think of it this way: me watching this video gives me miles in front of alot of other 23 yo. Same if you’re 25, 26, 28, the point is the fact that you are CONSCIOUS that you don’t have much time even tho in reality we have more than most, already puts you in a much better place compared to if you WEREN’T aware of your time. Keep grinding and take it one day at a time, be present and don’t overthink it 🙏

23 here turning 24 in 6 months.. I have a good mentor and the past month I have learned so much and learning that I have to keep learning from everything and everyone so yeah this video is 🔥!! Free game right here!

Thank you. I appreciate this.

you are going to be a positive change in my life,just two videos already i see myself in you...personality traits

thank you so mutch! ❣

The first 30 seconds was already helping fr

Thank you for this. Sometimes I am my worst enemy.

21 here and I love this video. Thanks for the advice,

I’m 32 years of age and I just started going back to school to study for Cyber Security and get my bachelor’s. I’ve been stuck truck driving for 10 years jumping companies. It’s enough to pay my bills and live on my own in a small apartment.

I’m in my 40s. My 20s were confused and poor. Of course now I’m wishing I had started investing in the S&P. I would have retired by now.

@evb2065

Ай бұрын

What’s s&p

@liuvel1817

14 күн бұрын

what’s s&p

@mvloz113

11 күн бұрын

S&P 500, look into an ETF called SPY

@sanielevated4530

8 күн бұрын

@@liuvel1817s&p 500 . Basket of company’s for stock

I needed this thank you

I needed this. I broke down crying earlier since I’ve been unemployed for about 2 months and for the 2nd time since I got fired from my last job. I’ve been 2 years out of college and lot of things I tried they didn’t work and I still have no idea what to do as a career. But I’m still trying though.

"the hability to do something that sucks" gotta be one of the best phrases I've ever heard

Its crazy how similar we are... I am a high school dropout currently working on my GED and Im learning to code on the side of being a car salesman and I have been doing jiu jitsu for 4 years now. The algorithm did its thing!!

Hey man I appreciate the advice. I'm 26 going on 27 and I have felt this way for a while now. A lot of people on my Facebook have nice cars, good jobs and are married with kids. But I know that's all subjective. I tried real estate but got screwed over by the guy I was working with in December. And buying and selling cars which I'm going to start doing again soon. With rising inflation and the taxes going up it's been rough out here. I just don't know what to do anymore.