from boyhood to manhood: the mindset that changed everything

This mindset changed my life forever.. I usually describe videos in the description, but i don't want to spoil it for you.. this video will change your life, let's continue being the Purpose Driven Men that I know we can be. God bless you.
Become a purpose driven member today:
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To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve.
Connect with me on social media for one on one help @maliquedlewis on instagram/tiktok/X
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email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations
I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.

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  • @PurposeDrivenMen
    @PurposeDrivenMen2 ай бұрын

    This mindset changed my life forever.. I usually describe videos in the description, but i don't want to spoil it for you.. this video will change your life, let's continue being the Purpose Driven Men that I know we can be. God bless you. Become a purpose driven member today: kzread.info/dron/f8gbZ4ZyNcc9WIOOEEfpSQ.htmljoin To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve. Connect with me on social media for one on one help @maliquedlewis on instagram/tiktok/X OR email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.

  • @user-hr8fe5rs7r

    @user-hr8fe5rs7r

    Ай бұрын

    Amen brotha 🙏🏾

  • @tylermitchell8425

    @tylermitchell8425

    Ай бұрын

    aye man love the message, this type of stuff is good for young men everywhere but i would just say while i do agree with not being satisfied of who we are right now. It is also important that we take some time to reflect on how far you have come and be at peace with who you are at this moment. Life is short we may never see our “future”, God forbid so i feel it’s important to give yourself your flowers while you’re here. Be your best supporter and critic

  • @kenyelleadams

    @kenyelleadams

    Ай бұрын

    Keep doing you brother 💯👑🙏

  • @bentleybee3006

    @bentleybee3006

    Ай бұрын

    Let’s get it god sun ☀️ appreciation to you god peace !!!!💯💯

  • @HR02

    @HR02

    20 күн бұрын

    @@tylermitchell8425 bro that so true appareciate live Everyday like if it was your last

  • @dujoin.
    @dujoin.Ай бұрын

    23 years old (currently) when I realized I needed to be a man. Jumping job to job since 18. Living check to check at my parents house where I wasn’t charged rent so no real pressure on me. Driving the car my parents gave me, then when the insurance ran out I just drove my girls car. Then Living at my girls house for half a year. I one day looked at myself in the mirror & realized I was a loser. I got me a legit career job in sales and told myself ima get a car and my own place. That was 2 months ago. I just got my new car. Apartment is next.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Let’s gooo!! Keep it up fam

  • @BronxEmperor

    @BronxEmperor

    18 күн бұрын

    Keep it up brother 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mauricethomas714

    @mauricethomas714

    15 күн бұрын

    Yooo. Can i ask what kinda sales job did you get into. I’m interested in going into sales but have zero background

  • @zeemioosworldd2196

    @zeemioosworldd2196

    14 күн бұрын

    Keep it up broski

  • @kmars3

    @kmars3

    9 күн бұрын

    Congratulations brother God will continue to bless I’m doing the same thing myself

  • @luisnunez5017
    @luisnunez5017Ай бұрын

    "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Action! 🎬

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Marcus is one of my favorite philosophers

  • @BusinessWolf1

    @BusinessWolf1

    Ай бұрын

    Yea yea, the problem is he meant that philosophy-wise, he wasn't talking to an international audience of financially disenfranchised young men in one of the most fatherless generations ever who lost THE most formative years of their lives to a worldwide pandemic, in the middle of the stupidest social studies research experiment ever called social media which has caused culture to flip sideways globally in most developed countries, during a mental health crysis that's only getting worse, while also no one's having sex which exacerbates a lot of the issues young men face at all facets. Listen, I ain't no doomer, not by a long shot. I'm a realist tilting towards optimist actually. But god damn you can't just ignore ALL that shit I said up there.

  • @plushboii7162

    @plushboii7162

    Ай бұрын

    @@BusinessWolf1 Ain't no words that can fully express where i am from what i just then read up there, though i will stretch myself & say: Unapologetically & Worldly ingored Truce

  • @thomasblevins5787

    @thomasblevins5787

    6 күн бұрын

    But first you must waste a little, or how else would you know?

  • @muhammad1604
    @muhammad1604Ай бұрын

    “As a man, your biggest motivation is your future”. That statement hit deep because it’s so true for me. There’s light at the end of the tunnel just keep at it brothers

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I agree 100%! That light is there we just have to believe in ourselves. Thank you for sharing that quote with the brotherhood 💯

  • @watersv1072

    @watersv1072

    Ай бұрын

    ts cap

  • @imsae8435

    @imsae8435

    Ай бұрын

    @@watersv1072ong always talking about “light” nah bruh you just learn to live with it

  • @MarshawnDixon

    @MarshawnDixon

    Ай бұрын

    @@PurposeDrivenMen Thanks man, I be needing videos like this🙏🏾

  • @Prof.Dr.Markus-Ruehl

    @Prof.Dr.Markus-Ruehl

    Ай бұрын

    You accept and get stronger. Mistakes are here to be done but the question is if you learn out of it and get better​ @@imsae8435

  • @alando3193
    @alando3193Ай бұрын

    Leaving my comment here so that every likes can bring me back here and remind myself

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I believe in you brother 🙏🏽

  • @applecideriscool9455

    @applecideriscool9455

    Ай бұрын

    God bless brother

  • @Bruddaman556

    @Bruddaman556

    Ай бұрын

    Same

  • @d1sfunction188

    @d1sfunction188

    Ай бұрын

    Stay strong bro 💪 🙏 💙

  • @Jusjojoplays

    @Jusjojoplays

    27 күн бұрын

    You got good intentions my bro keep ya head up

  • @cadeneasley3293
    @cadeneasley3293Ай бұрын

    May the person watching this be surrounded by positive energy. God bless our souls.

  • @ElusivEnigma

    @ElusivEnigma

    Ай бұрын

    How?

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    God bless you brother thank you for the positive energy! 🙏🏽

  • @NewbeginningsX

    @NewbeginningsX

    29 күн бұрын

    Likewise 🫡

  • @YTNCrew
    @YTNCrewАй бұрын

    “As a man only childish thing I’m still holding onto is my dreams “ shi hit fr

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts!! 💯💯 never lose that

  • @kekelp5516

    @kekelp5516

    Ай бұрын

    That hit deep

  • @MrDabkk

    @MrDabkk

    Ай бұрын

    “As a man the only childish thing I’m still holding onto is my dreams”

  • @Dreazzyy

    @Dreazzyy

    Ай бұрын

    Facts remembering that “little me” is still watching & seeing if you stick to your word 💯

  • @Fuzionspeaker

    @Fuzionspeaker

    18 күн бұрын

    Dreams are imaginary make the dream a goal

  • @lukaslutolli9439
    @lukaslutolli9439Ай бұрын

    No cuts, no acting just talking straight from the heart. love to see there's still good people.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Yessir! Thank you brother 🙏🏽 I’ll always talk from the heart

  • @platosfavoritestudent6509
    @platosfavoritestudent6509Ай бұрын

    We need more like you. Not just black men or white men. Not just Christian men or theist men. We need GOOD men. Men who understand the fact that every circumstance is different, and that at the end of the day, no matter your roots, race, or religion, a man makes himself, and a man is only as good as his word and manners. How he treats others is simply a reflection of the man.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    This is facts! every single word I couldn’t agree more. 🙏🏽 I’m grateful to be in this position and I hope to inspire more people and share this wisdom of God. Every situation is different, we all just need to make sure we’re never giving up and we’re all moving forward someway somehow. Thank you for your support. May God bless you.

  • @Twizzyjr

    @Twizzyjr

    Ай бұрын

    a REAL Christian man IS a good man

  • @jedddaruwalla6971

    @jedddaruwalla6971

    Ай бұрын

    Good point. Just because you follow a certain religion or culture does not mean you are a critical thinker. You have to figure things out for yourself and your own situation

  • @platosfavoritestudent6509

    @platosfavoritestudent6509

    Ай бұрын

    @@Twizzyjr and a REAL atheist man can also be a good man, you clearly missed the point of the comment. A man is not determined by where he came from or what God he chooses to follow, but would instead be better judged solely on content of his character.

  • @TTTrea

    @TTTrea

    Ай бұрын

    @@platosfavoritestudent6509 he didn’t say they couldn’t

  • @guilhermeferraz9960
    @guilhermeferraz9960Ай бұрын

    I'm 20 years old, I'm Brazilian and i live in ireland, i took up residence in this country 6 months ago, I've been through a lot, i have seen a lot, i have learned a lot, but there's still a long way to go, i lost my job and i don't have money to pay rent, but nobody cares, nobody cares because everyone's got their own problems, watching this video made me realize that, watching this video made me realized that I'm still a boy, but it's time to man up, I'm going to make it, I'm going to thrive and be happy, so will you, so will us all. Thank you everyone who took the time to read this! Wish me luck on my journey

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Time to man up! You got this brother you got the right mindset I’m proud of you. 💪🏽

  • @jaswazhere7679

    @jaswazhere7679

    Ай бұрын

    Wish u the best in all endeavors

  • @Fransbk

    @Fransbk

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck bro, make it happen

  • @DavidG_fx
    @DavidG_fxАй бұрын

    I realised i was a man when I was 20, I realised that no one is going to rescue me, one of the loneliest days of my life, but at the same time one of the real ones. Thanks for doing this videos dog, keep preaching the word, respect.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts! We gotta put the work in ourselves. I believe in you bro, let’s keep working 🙌🏽

  • @nxrn4271
    @nxrn4271Ай бұрын

    “the you of tomorrow is watching”

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    lets make our future self proud 💯

  • @woahdaniel
    @woahdanielАй бұрын

    I’m 25 man and this shit is speaking to me. Can’t tell you how many times I fell down the dark path, and came back. I’m finding myself listening to this and I’m seeing hope again. I have a purpose, and it’s to better myself to be the best man possible

  • @D.Dancer999

    @D.Dancer999

    Ай бұрын

    I’m 26 and totally lost 😞 any help I don’t have any purpose and I’m tired of being where I’m at

  • @woahdaniel

    @woahdaniel

    Ай бұрын

    @@D.Dancer999 sometimes we have to create our own purpose. Life is too short to try and make sure everything is perfect. I think you need to look within and stop looking outward, you’ve seen this video and probably countless others, now it’s time to make real changes in your life You gotta change your habits in order to change your life

  • @D.Dancer999

    @D.Dancer999

    Ай бұрын

    @@woahdaniel thanks for this I’m not just reading it I’m listening and soaking it in

  • @doggydolittle1698

    @doggydolittle1698

    Ай бұрын

    Im 25 as well one thing that helped me turn things around 180 was faith in god if ur not a beliver then i highly suggest looking for a relationship with our creator ​@D.Dancer999

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Follow that purpose! It’s your light and the light never left you that’s why you can enter the darkness and make it back out to the light, because you are the light brother. I believe in you.

  • @scottfleming38
    @scottfleming382 ай бұрын

    everyday on the stairmaster listening to this. this is my motivation, my affirmation for the day. there will never be another may 3, 2024. thank you bro

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    2 ай бұрын

    The only May 3rd, we gotta make everyday count! Stairmaster is no joke! 🔥 keep going fam 💪🏽

  • @youngsterdart9236
    @youngsterdart9236Ай бұрын

    “If we taking care of everybody else, but we never take care of ourselves, then nothing really gets done”

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts! Cant pour from an empty cup. You got this fam 💯

  • @yafetbizuneh3057
    @yafetbizuneh3057Ай бұрын

    Mehn I don’t normally write comments on KZread especially about my feelings but truthfully I hate my self so much. Growing up I was a very ambitious person, I was so driven. I always planned out my future, my dream physique, my business… I was a hussler but I always failed to stick to my plan. I lack consistency and discipline. Now I found my self at my lowest drained in regrets. I’m turning 22 in 4 months and i am at my lowest point financially mentally physically…let alone be where I want to be. It hurts! To whomever seeing this, please stick to your plans. Please be active. Please work on your goals. Cause trust me it hurts. Don’t fall for temptation please boys. Trust me, let my life be a lesson for you all!

  • @alo7482

    @alo7482

    Ай бұрын

    Im in the same boat man. My vision is so blurred. Im stuck smoking everyday stuck in a cycle. working 9-5 monotony. sometimes i wake up with no purpose no drive and negative feelings.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You’re not alone brother, keep going! You’re young and you got the right mindset now, it’s your time! 🙏🏽

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Love the honesty bro, keep stepping and never give up!

  • @lukagraf2623

    @lukagraf2623

    Ай бұрын

    Wejoow I’m in the same boat guys. I resonate so much with your stories. Get to know Jesus guys, it will transform your life and addictions. Love y’all ❤

  • @LatchedLungs
    @LatchedLungsАй бұрын

    I'm 35 and I've been living like a child for too long not taking proper responsibility for myself. I needed this video, respect.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Respect to you bro, it’s only up from here 📈💪🏽

  • @Blkmamba757

    @Blkmamba757

    22 күн бұрын

    I'm 34 and feel the same brother, we got this

  • @cosmic3969
    @cosmic3969Ай бұрын

    im 18 took a year of age after I finished school bro i live with my mother and she is the provider in the family I came across this video, never had my father in my life like that but that aint no excuse, thank you for this video and opening my eyes to the world ive been lost but everything u said is truth nobody really cares until you becoming something thank you bro for opening my eyes i have to becoming a man for my future children.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Just like you said bro do it for your future kids! Let that motivate you. I’m proud of your mindset brother you definitely understood the message. Let’s keep getting better 📈💯

  • @awsomedre26

    @awsomedre26

    Ай бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @TiredCitizen

    @TiredCitizen

    Ай бұрын

    Same here bro, stay Strong 🤍

  • @Traditional_male

    @Traditional_male

    8 күн бұрын

    Same bro

  • @Obiiiyk
    @ObiiiykАй бұрын

    I’m 20 and been smoking for the past 3 years daily, commenting this to manifest my change. Time to level up and chases the future, time to take responsibility, time to become a man.

  • @luismello1158

    @luismello1158

    Ай бұрын

    Quitting smoking is hard but i managed to get out of that vicious cycle, sometimes i relapse but it is alright due to the fact that i smoke once a week or so socially ( talking about weed btw). Everything is a process, trust the process

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Let’s goo!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @BusinessWolf1

    @BusinessWolf1

    Ай бұрын

    Quitting smoking is a skill. It starts with extreme mindfulness and ends in acceptance and learning the amount of discomfort that an identity shift takes. Eventually you'll reach a point where you don't give a shit if you smoke or not because you do it once a year. And that's when the camel's back breaks because you just start saying no to those and boom. You never even noticed the crossing point where you stopped for good.

  • @MylesBroadous-qx5ji

    @MylesBroadous-qx5ji

    Ай бұрын

    was right where you are at 20 and within a year I’ve 180d. Haven’t smoked in 6 months and it’s life changing. people gonna tell you the negatives of weed and try to make you run from it, but think about how much you could elevate without it. no brain fog, no straining anxiety, daily motivation, connection with your purpose. best way i know is to rip it like a bandaid. throw it all away. the pipe, the bong, the papers, the grinder. force yourself to say no every time it’s offered before you have a chance to think about it. and even more important, fill that time with things that help you grow: gym, hikes, books, 2nd job, school. or else it gets filled with things that drown you: alcohol, sex, social media. you got this brother keep going

  • @elvisdumervill8328

    @elvisdumervill8328

    Ай бұрын

    Same. It's not an easy habit to kick, it has taken so much of my time but I can't have regrets. I'm on my first day and I will update my progress right here in this thread

  • @BlackPositivityChallenge
    @BlackPositivityChallengeАй бұрын

    POSITIVE MASCULINITY!!💪🏾 Im rooting for every man watching this. 🖤💞

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!! We need more of it 💪🏽🖤

  • @bri4n607
    @bri4n607Ай бұрын

    I’m 19 and keep having problems with finding purpose and keep falling into bad habits and decisions. Today I reached a breaking point and stumbled across this video. Man you are right on every single account. I kept playing victim and was avoiding accountability. Thank you. This video hit me right where it needed to. Need more guys like you preaching the truth. I know a lot of other people watching this video feel the same way.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you a lot brother. I’m proud of you for taking that step to being accountable, it’s only up from here. I believe in you. 🙏🏽

  • @Akhona3112
    @Akhona3112Ай бұрын

    "It's Yaweh and your way"❤.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Amen! 🙏🏽 ❤️

  • @whatAYE
    @whatAYEАй бұрын

    Our purpose in this life is to worship God.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Amen! 🙏🏽

  • @ElusivEnigma
    @ElusivEnigmaАй бұрын

    As a late bloomer facing reality checks everyday, this shit hits heavy. Raised by women that repelled men that were trying to guide me. Finally found my words to say enough is enough.... have myself a 15yrs window

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Enough is definitely enough! Let God lead you instead even if it’s just him and him alone leading you. You two can and will figure this thing called life out. I believe in you and I’m grateful my videos can help 🙏🏽

  • @Nunu-py2ng
    @Nunu-py2ngАй бұрын

    6:23 “when you become somebody which you already are all you doing is stepping into your greatness” this stuck out and hit not every other day you here this, i just turned 20 yrs old two days ago so this is definitely a video that i needed to see this so thank you

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got the message bro! We’re already great we just gotta believe in ourselves and step into it. Happy belated birthday! With this mindset the world is yours! 🙏🏽

  • @ALCEU1
    @ALCEU1Ай бұрын

    wise words man, thank u. I'm 27 yrs old and yet I dont feel like a man even though I have a job where I am the leader of a big team, live by myself in a good rented house, but I gotta tell y'all, being a man is a lot more than just being able to support yourself. The most important part is being able to take accountability of the mistakes you make, and then grow from it, being able to be disciplined and a lot more. I know I'm not there yet and none of you need to put an act of being a man. That are A LOT of 30 + yrs old that doesnt feel like they are real men cause it is not just about materialistic things, everybody can get money. Im trying to work on myself to be able to mature within myself so I can help my parents and my brothers and I feel that this is a long jorney that isnt defined by age. btw I feel happy that you are only 22 and already feel like that, our community lacks so much of this, most of us grew without fathers cause they were'nt real men.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Everything you said.. was 100% FACTS. Thank you for sharing this with the brotherhood I hope they take the time to read it and understand it. It’s all about accountability, manhood has a lot to do with the character development of who you are. The materialistic things or money only amplifies what you already are. 🙏🏽

  • @QuaiChandler-nn5du
    @QuaiChandler-nn5duАй бұрын

    YOU ARE ALLOWED TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO!!! NOT IN THE NEGATIVE WAY (ATTENTION SEEKING) BUT IN THE POSITIVE WAY (CREATION)

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @treyclervi7686
    @treyclervi768625 күн бұрын

    “Time alone allows you to find god, and discover who he is” Kevin levrone

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    16 күн бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @selldrudd8886
    @selldrudd8886Ай бұрын

    "No one's going to tap you on the shoulder and tell you, 'Let's Go'" if you know you know but I felt that

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    💪🏽💪🏽 facts!

  • @AsaJak69420
    @AsaJak69420Ай бұрын

    I always blamed my Dad for not being there, I just turned 21 this year and nothing changed since last year the emptiness, the Loneliness all of it stayed the same. I need change and I need to be that change, this is exactly the Reality check I needed, Now it's up to me to make a difference in my life. Thank you Brother❤️

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got this brother it’s time to heal and evolve . ❤️🙏🏽

  • @pacoboyd4977
    @pacoboyd4977Ай бұрын

    With this mindset at your age you’re going to go very very far in life. Keep going man

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    That means a lot, thank you 🙏🏽

  • @jerannrobinson8329
    @jerannrobinson832911 күн бұрын

    I gotta give props to my pops. I watched both him and my mother hustle hard even at home. I rarely remember them sitting down. At a young age I was able to put it together that something wasnt enjoyable about witnessing that. Unlike my siblings, I made up my mind that I was going to grind so that they no longer had to. As a child I was the first to jump up to do chores and the last to stop. They didn't even have to ask me. Now as a man I take care of me and mines so they don't have to. That disciplined minset is something I picked up as a boy. It wasn't as dramatic of a shift for me thank God.

  • @Path_to_becoming_HIM
    @Path_to_becoming_HIMАй бұрын

    4 months ago I lost my grandma. 3 months ago I lost my father. 2 months ago my daughter was born. I was so confident in anticipating my child and welcome her into the world knowing that I had a great family to support my journey of fatherhood. but then it all happened. I was hit with a reality check that nothing lasts forever. And that eventually I will have to bear it all.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I’m sorry for your loss brother and I’m happy for your gain, God bless you bro, you’re going to be a great dad. 🙏🏽

  • @nathantrujillo2195

    @nathantrujillo2195

    Ай бұрын

    I feel you brother. I lost one of my grandmas 3 months ago and last month my second child was born. These realities hit me even before all this happened. Keep moving we got this. Blessings brother

  • @jvalid2759
    @jvalid2759Ай бұрын

    One thing I learned and this came from my aunt a female and this isn’t just for men, but every adult needs to have a daily routine that includes goals and responsibilities to meet !

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts!! I agree 100%

  • @FuzionXXGaming
    @FuzionXXGamingКүн бұрын

    I got accepted to a university & im currently 22. I believe in order to maintain being around like minded individuals that are younger, I have the capability to lead them into the greatness

  • @zkaleal
    @zkalealКүн бұрын

    13:39 “the hardest thing is to start something that has never been there before, but that’s how you create your own way”

  • @Wessim_
    @Wessim_Ай бұрын

    “Part of being a man is figuring it out” Daamn you gave me goosebumps brother ❤️

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    🙏🏽❤️ daily progress! Thank you brother

  • @scopiion
    @scopiionАй бұрын

    This man is one of the only men,who is being genuine with their content

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I appreciate that a lot, I’ll always keep it genuine and real! 🙏🏽 thank you for your support

  • @NEIROSGONE
    @NEIROSGONE2 күн бұрын

    the day you leave someone behind is the day you chose to take a step further into a better life

  • @GradiMawanga
    @GradiMawanga4 күн бұрын

    hello brother i'm from DRC CONGO ; i hope you'are doing well i really like what you say and do in your channel. it's change the way of my thinking ; please continue because you can change a lot of people lifes . peace

  • @ravipahlevi
    @ravipahleviАй бұрын

    Man this hit hard. Im 26 just been me and my brother and mum. I had to be an adult by like 12 years old. Me and my broski were able to be able to retire mum close to about 10 years now. We are no where near above average. But man we went through some trials and hardship. I just know that when things turn into fruition it will taste so good. All the sacrifices and risk Made willball make sense. However, it feels like im running out of fuel. Its been so long, growing up so young. I just wanna enjoy the little moments i had when i was a kid. But, this is the difference. Its break or make. I remeber a comment i saw on IG, and it stuck by me. No risk. No rarri. Chase that feeling fellas.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    No risk no rarri!! 🔥 appreciate your comment bro

  • @AccountHolder007
    @AccountHolder007Ай бұрын

    Thing is, part of going from being a boy to a man, is also becoming THE man for those around you... It's that part that's difficult, and often you can't simply do what you want to do.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts! Gotta take care of those around you 🙏🏽

  • @willsykes
    @willsykes11 күн бұрын

    This was literally like talking to an older brother I don't have.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    11 күн бұрын

    🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @tazzboy
    @tazzboy13 күн бұрын

    I needed this man. Life hasn’t been the best but I’m trying to be better for myself. Keep these videos up man. I’m 23 and you’re a bigger man than me

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    4 күн бұрын

    Glad I could help brother I believe in you

  • @JBWalk
    @JBWalkАй бұрын

    facts im 24 i realized it late but not too late you cant blame nobody else for your situation but yourself

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts bro with accountability we’re able to make solutions and create a better life 💯💯

  • @fugopychotka7560

    @fugopychotka7560

    Ай бұрын

    No, if you get to age of 18 messed up by past its not fault having problems to resocialize

  • @solocentral9865
    @solocentral986528 күн бұрын

    I've started business from a very young age (16) I've had successful businesses that made thousands in profit every month, but I've also made some really stupid mistakes, poor investments etc. I've lost everything and then fought to make it back, again and again. But I've still kept fighting for a better future for myself and my family. I've poured every single last cent, blood and tears into my businesses... Sometimes i just ask myself how different would life be if I just worked a normal job and saved up. I've worked so hard and made so much sacrifices, yet have so little to show for. Life is tough as a man. I'm currently 21 this year and I really hope things can change for the better. If you're reading this and you're on the road to a better future, then i pray things get easy for you and that you make it! God bless!

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    28 күн бұрын

    God bless you brother! Thank you for sharing this, I know things will get better GodsPlan! 💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @Teas.Louise
    @Teas.Louise14 күн бұрын

    Older woman here and new sub- because I like to support channels like yours. My great grandmother, wisest woman I knew, warned me when I was 13 that some men never grow up. That confused me because the men around me, in my family, worked about as hard in the house as the women. I remember my big grandfather, played for the Steelers back in the leather helmet days, sweating over the vacuum on stairs, planting trees, doing dishes & laundry- right alongside my grandmother. My father was the same. Women in the family all worked or had their own businesses. It wasn't until I was in my 20's and started seeing these 'man boys' out in the world that I understood what she meant.

  • @1ex_lex438
    @1ex_lex4382 күн бұрын

    Thank U!

  • @Javien
    @JavienАй бұрын

    God gave this man a message to speak! God loves you if your reading this.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    God loves you too thank you for watching fam! 🙏🏽

  • @MrFuturisticFunk
    @MrFuturisticFunkАй бұрын

    Up in the mountains in my head. Needed this man

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    We got this!

  • @armandohurtado830
    @armandohurtado83022 сағат бұрын

    thank you man❤

  • @Mushu-nq1iz
    @Mushu-nq1iz15 күн бұрын

    thank you for this

  • @wfug
    @wfugАй бұрын

    I’m 22 too, just graduated college and i’m going through the similar changes. Thank you for sharing your perspective, it is a real feeling.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    It definitely is real, I know you’ll continue to do great things brother. Congratulations on graduating! 🙏🏽

  • @semixbeats
    @semixbeatsАй бұрын

    Man I am beyond grateful for this video to pop up on my fyp. God bless all of you man out there turning up everyday, for others but most importantly for themselves.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    God bless you too brother!

  • @obogoddz6440
    @obogoddz644015 күн бұрын

    I’m glad this showed up on my feed 🙏🏼

  • @HowardSye
    @HowardSye12 күн бұрын

    Needed this bad man. Thank you!!!!!!

  • @Alz16243
    @Alz16243Ай бұрын

    19 minutes and 20 seconds of fax, the so called men around me need to hear this

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts! 💯💯 thank you for watching brother

  • @lollogovs
    @lollogovsАй бұрын

    Bro you sended me the right vibes to go through life thanks ❤

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got this brother keep going! ❤️🙏🏽

  • @rabrandconnections333
    @rabrandconnections33325 күн бұрын

    Thank you brother!

  • @NoLiMiTSwErVoty
    @NoLiMiTSwErVoty23 күн бұрын

    Needed this man ‼️‼️

  • @Nzlk
    @Nzlk2 ай бұрын

    Great vid brotha this brought tears to my eyes. Keep doin u. Stay blessed. Thanks for the guidance

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    2 ай бұрын

    That means a lot fam, this vid hit hard for me too, it wasn’t easy to make but it had to be made. Let’s keep being the best we can be, stay blessed as well. I believe in you family, always 🙏🏽

  • @dylansebastiani7438
    @dylansebastiani7438Ай бұрын

    I need more friends like you bro. Love the mindset. This real fucking shit thru and thru.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Appreciate that a lot fam! It’s not easy to find like minded brothers so I’m grateful for the purpose driven men community. Thank you for watching and being part of the brotherhood 🙏🏽

  • @bbay24
    @bbay2411 күн бұрын

    Thank you bro. See you at the top

  • @CosmicCow09
    @CosmicCow097 күн бұрын

    Gonna listen to this daily.

  • @user-jg4wz3qo6b
    @user-jg4wz3qo6bАй бұрын

    Bro is testosterone 🔥🔥🔥😤

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Let’s Goooooo!!! Thank you for watching bro

  • @denalinmccall5632
    @denalinmccall5632Ай бұрын

    First time I ever commented on a KZread video and let me say that I never thought somebody really could speak on what I think. Great words brotha, stay strong n go make it happen 💯

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Means a lot brother! Thank you for giving this video a chance, I appreciate your support and I’ll continue to provide value 🙏🏽

  • @MaledniStokera
    @MaledniStokera4 күн бұрын

    Thank you for that video man. It so important

  • @charlesw116
    @charlesw1162 күн бұрын

    love this

  • @OneilClarke-oc
    @OneilClarke-ocАй бұрын

    Seeing this a week before my 21st birthday. Been through so much and not sure what my path is… you’ve made me realise I have to create it and show up everyday. I have to turn it all around.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got this bro, this is going to be the best year of your life 🙏🏽 you got the right mindset now. Take it day by day, show up each day for yourself and your goals, I believe in you

  • @Zbrxh
    @ZbrxhАй бұрын

    Needed to hear this. How do you remind yourself to not look outward? To not complain, maintain your own mental and just push?

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You said it brother. Maintain your mental and push. Nothing else matters if you don’t focus on yourself and prioritize yourself. You gotta fill up your own cup first before you can pour into anything or anybody else. Lock in on how you can self improve. Lock in on you!

  • @FlyingRetros
    @FlyingRetrosКүн бұрын

    4:18 preaching that real shit. aint even finish the vid yet, but when I say this to folks they look at me crazy like I'm thinking too far in the future.

  • @user-lr2bn7tr4t
    @user-lr2bn7tr4t14 күн бұрын

    Love the video Preciate the real world talk

  • @palmersandeno
    @palmersandenoАй бұрын

    Totally recommend for anyone watching this to read "Iron John" by Robert Bly. Good resource for maturing into manhood. Thanks for the video, Malique.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for the recommendation fam! Glad you enjoyed the video

  • @marcelomacaza1761
    @marcelomacaza1761Ай бұрын

    Bro god just recommended this video to me I have been praying for Answer Thank you 😭😭🙏❤

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I believe in you brother God bless you 🙏🏽❤️

  • @ofentsemore
    @ofentsemore10 күн бұрын

    Thank you for making these videos

  • @AustinSiziba
    @AustinSiziba2 күн бұрын

    I'm 22, I so agree dawg!

  • @mgwent3871
    @mgwent3871Ай бұрын

    “As a man you got to think for yourself, yeah you gotta think for yourself..” not even Isaac newton on this level of thinking for real💯

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Too much people let the world think for them, we gotta be the one in the drivers seat 💯

  • @player6165
    @player6165Ай бұрын

    the goal is to inspire cause at the end of the day it aint a single one gon change the world. It’s all of us

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    We all in this together!

  • @bernardsantos1776
    @bernardsantos177625 күн бұрын

    Thank you bro.

  • @GotchuuTv
    @GotchuuTv13 сағат бұрын

    Bless you brother I woke up needed this

  • @JM-dk4ec
    @JM-dk4ecАй бұрын

    True man I just turned 25 last month and I moved across the country from NYC to LA by myself on the same week it was my Birthday for my dream job. It’s been a hard transition because I left all my friends and family behind for the pursue of my dream career and future. I think long term I made the right decision but I miss my friends and is hard to build a new circle of friends and I hope I can build that here in Los Angeles, and I’m also single which makes it hard 😢.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You’re focused on your purpose ! You’re doing the right thing. Just make sure you connect with your family. Don’t neglect them! I believe in you 🙏🏽

  • @JM-dk4ec

    @JM-dk4ec

    Ай бұрын

    @@PurposeDrivenMen thank you for the words brother I really appreciate it, it’s been a tough transition and everyday im trying to figure it out. Is a hard process and took a long time to get to this point, hopefully one day I can look back and say this was worth it 🙏🏼. I know for a fact I can rest in peace knowing I tried.

  • @Nickstuff100
    @Nickstuff1008 күн бұрын

    This resonates with me so much, thank you brother. The struggle is real, just pushing everyday

  • @cshmnkearchive
    @cshmnkearchive29 күн бұрын

    thx bro im a junior in highschool and I want to become big in the future. this really made me think my decisions and really made me lock in ian gon lie. thx for making this video gng

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    29 күн бұрын

    You got this bro 💪🏽

  • @zlievanzar
    @zlievanzarАй бұрын

    turned 18 3 months ago struggling i hope i get to see this comment after years and see how my life changed

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    It definitely will change bro! It believe in you 🙏🏽

  • @skylord3980
    @skylord39802 ай бұрын

    Appreciate the video. Also I like the music choice this time. I think it’s definitely better to have calming relaxing emotional music on the types of videos that you do because it helps bring the message forward a little better. Compared to the intense music you used to have.❤

  • @seeyouontheothersider5189

    @seeyouontheothersider5189

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree very much

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother I’ll definitely be using this type of music moving forward I believe it’s peaceful and allows for my words to truly be heard and felt. Thank you again! 🙏🏽

  • @khaywin
    @khaywin22 күн бұрын

    Much needed

  • @tolamebuda
    @tolamebudaКүн бұрын

    man i’m 15 rn and i like watching these typa vids they rlly make me think bigger and better than before and just learning the necessary things in the life of being a man and how to be a better. thank you bro much love!

  • @sergio-pq6rm
    @sergio-pq6rmАй бұрын

    that bee flying next to u is a signs that your energy is positive they buzz at a love frequency and u producing it just wanted to say that brody and thankyou for your words of wisdom

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts!! Higher vibrations 📈🙏🏽

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for tuning in fam!

  • @justdiego3745
    @justdiego3745Ай бұрын

    We gotta choose which struggles we're willing to go through fr. Thank you for the talk man we're all gonna climb up this life💯

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Facts! 📈 Let’s climb brother.

  • @Nate-wn1lk
    @Nate-wn1lkАй бұрын

    love this bro thank you for this kind of reflection.

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    I’ll definitely do more like this in the future. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽

  • @Iamautoboy
    @IamautoboyАй бұрын

    Enter the NOW FROM HERE let go, let God & put in the work!

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    Amen! 🙏🏽

  • @lIlIIIlllllll
    @lIlIIIlllllllАй бұрын

    Thank you I needed this I’m 23 and I’m just now started realizing my purpose. Been really lost for these couple years. Sinning and taking accountability for my mistakes n learning

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got this, that’s step one and the most important step. I believe in you 🙏🏽 📈

  • @aceacesoulgaming8152
    @aceacesoulgaming8152Ай бұрын

    What this generation lost is the experience crazy to think a lot of men start fresh when others hade fathers teach since 4 but that’s life we need change gang

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    We need change indeed bro 💯

  • @ripkobe248
    @ripkobe248Ай бұрын

    Thank u for this

  • @trippiemiguel7117
    @trippiemiguel711714 күн бұрын

    hopefully this time next year i can make myself proud with the progress. only up from here 🙏🏻

  • @GhostOfJaumell
    @GhostOfJaumellАй бұрын

    I’m 19 got into the trades young and now I live in my own place pay my own bills and working on getting a car (hopefully impala ss) while I’m blessed I found what path I wanna go in life i can’t shake this feeling of not being n adult yet

  • @GhostOfJaumell

    @GhostOfJaumell

    Ай бұрын

    Like I’m progressing in life but ion feel anymore wiser

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You’re doing great brother wow, don’t be too hard on yourself. Know that the greatest teacher of life is life it self. And what I would say to do is to reflect on the good/bad things that have happened in life and figure out a way to make new insights on what happened and what you can learn from those things. Do the same thing for the present moment. As you live life day by day there are hidden lessons and opportunities to grow wise. I believe in you brother. You got this.

  • @solostepping3993

    @solostepping3993

    Ай бұрын

    Can you still live off trading today?

  • @GhostOfJaumell

    @GhostOfJaumell

    Ай бұрын

    @@solostepping3993 trades as in construction and shi

  • @AnthonyGaurana
    @AnthonyGaurana2 ай бұрын

    Malik bro, needed this reminder. Why everyday we need to be better than who we use to be, drop the childish, toxic, arrogant ways. At least for me. Appreciate this mannn🤞🏼

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts!! Appreciate you for watching bro glad this vid can help 🙏🏽

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    2 ай бұрын

    Let’s keep winning Anthony. It’s only the beginning 📈

  • @ahnreiwilliams6895
    @ahnreiwilliams6895Ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this, thank you

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    You got this

  • @r.velasquezm
    @r.velasquezmАй бұрын

    Thank you man, I needed this

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    No problem brother you got this 🙏🏽

  • @itbeBoski
    @itbeBoskiАй бұрын

    thank you. ❤

  • @PurposeDrivenMen

    @PurposeDrivenMen

    Ай бұрын

    🙏🏽❤️