Families of victims speak at University of Idaho vigil
The University of Idaho held a vigil at 5 p.m. Wednesday night for four students who were murdered in a nearby off-campus home earlier in November.
Ethan Chapin, Xana Kernodle, Kaylee Goncalves and Madison Mogen were all found stabbed to death by a fixed-blade knife in a home on King Road on Sunday, Nov. 13. The three women lived in the house, while the parents of Chapin said that he was staying over that night with Kernodle, who was his girlfriend.
Chapin's mother and Goncalves' and Mogen's fathers spoke at the vigil which was held at a gym on campus. Kernodle's family couldn't make it as they are preparing for her memorial service later this week.
Stacy Chapin expressed her condolences to the other families impacted and spoke about how the University of Idaho felt like the right fit for Ethan and his siblings, who are triplets, to begin the next phase of their lives.
She went on to say that she and the rest of Ethan's family are now turning their attention toward sharing his legacy and talking about the impact he made in his short 20 years.
She said her main message was to urge all present to spend time with their loved ones.
"We are eternally grateful that we spent so much time with him," Stacy Chapin said. "Make sure that you spend as much time as possible with those people, because time is precious, and it's something you can't get back."
Kaylee's father, Steven Goncalves, spoke about how having her as a daughter made him see the world through her eyes.
"You start falling in love with this world they built, you see this world and it changes, you start seeing the beauty of what they have and what makes them special," he said. "That's the world as I see it now, and I never want to see it any other way."
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I almost lost it with Maddie’s dad. What a precious man. All the parent’s were so brave and eloquent.
@dorianmatthes9512
Жыл бұрын
A precious man. Exactly Janice. I cant even fathom what these parents are going through. I am so angry. I hope they have a deep faith that will help them because at this moment I have none. God doesnt give you anything you can't handle, really???. How do you go on???
@pamelabrown9484
Жыл бұрын
Maddies parents lost thier only child, they will not even have the benefit of other kids to distract them and love them. Its immeasurable this parents loss. It took great faith and courage to speak, weeks out from these murders, these parents made thier children proud.
@charm2800
Жыл бұрын
I agree, that feels normal, the other dad not so much
@Se-leve
Жыл бұрын
@@charm2800 no judgements. Everyone is different. You don’t get to see his time alone in the privacy of his house. I’m sure it’s heat wrenching.
@ValeskaTruax
Жыл бұрын
Agree one of the most heartfelt and beautiful eulogies I have ever heard.
Man Maddie’s dad is so heart broken you can tell she was his everything. I wanna say thank you for being a great father to you sir if you read this we need more fathers like yourself. Keep your head up you got the whole nation with you. It’s gon get figured out everything just needs and takes time
@dianes2652
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻
@SolsticeBeautyByJessica
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Great message💜
@KristinAndre1717
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻.
@jimskeuh
Жыл бұрын
i thought he was gonna fly away the way he was flapping those hands
@shimein8755
Жыл бұрын
@@jimskeuh okay? what’s the point of replying with this under every comment
0MG Mother Chapin is lionhearted. She can see and feel past her own grief. What a phenomenal human being.
@dodgingbullets3503
Жыл бұрын
😮💨I dont feel any pain from her..none at all..nor from Kaylees dad...
@shadesofvintageblue
Жыл бұрын
@@dodgingbullets3503 why you say that?
@dodgingbullets3503
Жыл бұрын
@@shadesofvintageblue 🪔BC I dont feel it, or see any pain..Her son was slaughtered and no tears...I would be a basket case..
@robinchipman6746
Жыл бұрын
@@dodgingbullets3503 people show pain in many ways. She wanted to do him justice with her words. I think your comment is unfair.
@Clintsessentials
Жыл бұрын
@@dodgingbullets3503 I kinda' feel you on this...I could never speak so soon infront of a crowd so soon...
Crying when Maddie’s dad began his very sweet and genuine speech about his beloved only child, Maddie May . Unimaginable and heartbreaking loss. Condolences to the families of all the victims.
@buffalokay
Жыл бұрын
Interesting that none of the fathers friends even knew he had a daughter. He wasn’t in the picture.
@lisachristine2098
Жыл бұрын
@@buffalokay absent or not he still got up there and with the most genuine and heartfelt speech to show his love and honor for his daughter. His love for his daughter is as clearly demonstrated by what he said. Anyone with integrity knows not to judge or speak on another’s personal relationship with their deceased child when they’re grieving and suffering. Maybe remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brothers eye.
@kaysloan6193
Жыл бұрын
Yes he was a great dad he is so broken
Maddie's Dad OMG this is so horrible. A humble quiet man who lost his only child, the love of his life
@dodgingbullets3503
Жыл бұрын
😮💨Madisons dad is the only one who showed his real pain..The others didnt..wonder why...Kaylees parents stand by Jack 1,000% why?They lied and said that K and Jack were getting back together why?..something wrong..
@jillferri1164
Жыл бұрын
@@dodgingbullets3503 just trying and be loving ........ dont judge ....... it's none of anybodies business ...... just send love and prayers for them to be strong. Everybody reacts differently ..... dont judge.
@jimskeuh
Жыл бұрын
i thought he was gonna fly away the way he was flapping those hands
@fruitsalad350
Жыл бұрын
@@jimskeuh heyyy are YOU the murderer…? No need to keep leaving nasty messages repeatitvley
@gizzyfrizzy1
Жыл бұрын
@@dodgingbullets3503 , who is Jack?
What a precious soul Maddie’s dad has. I’m so sorry for all of your loss.
@janicescott7338
Жыл бұрын
A precious man!
@bossup648
Жыл бұрын
@@janicescott7338 😂.
Ethan’s Mom is unbelievably well spoken on a good day. Under this much duress and grief not to mention the whole country is listening she delivered her message with such grace and class. I have no idea why such horrible things happen in this world of ours. I have no idea why some of us glide thru life with little struggles and others have to push thru the unbearable. I don’t have strong faith but I admire those who do. What happened to these amazing students is awful, unfair, heartbreaking and life changing to all touched by this tragedy.
@linedancer23
Жыл бұрын
Well said. She has pure class! My hearts go out to all the families.💔
@ellaova
Жыл бұрын
Her loyalty to the college is a bit of a betrayal. It's apparently to protect the college's reputation that the families have been discouraged from positing reward posters around the unity. They don't want news of the crime to discourage entitlements. The college has also deleted heaps of frat social media posts to 'protect their own'
Kaylee and Madison walking through this world together from the day they met in 6th grade and ultimately exiting this world in the exact same way is incredible in so many ways- both beautiful and sad. Maddy’s father also painted a most soulful picture of who she was, not only to himself but to the world. My father and I were super close and went to concerts together when I was a teen. I lost him when I was only 21 and he was 48. I just can’t fathom losing my only child (I have a son) at such a young age and in such a horrific way. Always be kind. 3 tiny words that make a WORLD of difference. 💔♥️
How can something so cruel happen to such a gentleman? His only child..Even as a total stranger my heart broke for him as he bravely honoured her memory. May the family find healingf in the months and years to come..
The love Maddie dad exudes for his daughter is so beautiful
@susanswiech3059
Жыл бұрын
Oh really? What a stupid thing to say.
@MichElle-zc9tu
Жыл бұрын
@@bossup648 you sound like the monster that snuffed out the lives of the 4 innocent youth.
@yaneliperez2098
Жыл бұрын
@@bossup648 such an obserd thing to say 😒try losing a daughter you prick.
Maddie's dad's speech really broke my heart. The pain was palpable.
The Chapin family seems so strong. In their first interview, the parents spoke to how they can’t fall apart because they have to lift up their other babies 😩 this whole scenario is wicked & I can’t wait for someone to be in cuffs .
Maddie’s dad is heartbreaking. Loosing a child period is hard but loosing your only child. My heart goes out to all 4 families and hope they find a suspect and make some arrest soon
I have no clue how these parents are maintaining their composure. Much respect
@RedLeo-pf9yo
Жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s odd.
@godschild9528
Жыл бұрын
@@RedLeo-pf9yo very odd
@ashleypg1708
Жыл бұрын
@@godschild9528 yeah, so "odd" huh? 🙄 What are you idiots suggesting? That the person who was just arrested isn't responsible, it's these parents...bc they could speak about their children for 10 mins without crying-? Brilliant!
@averyjoselle1053
Жыл бұрын
@@RedLeo-pf9yo people grieve differently. why don’t you have some respect
@laosbazinga9683
Жыл бұрын
@@RedLeo-pf9yo Idiot
As a parent myself.. I felt every bit of what they were saying. Maddies dad broke my already broken heart. And no one to speak specifically for Xana also was hard. May these families find justice out of this senseless tragedy.
Literally, my heart feels so broken for the families of these beautiful young people. May Justice be served. May the Survivors heal and be showered with Grace.
Thank you Maddie's dad for being a great dad!! you have no idea what a difference that makes in a young girl's life to have that solid foundation of a real great dad- bless you man!
@susanswiech3059
Жыл бұрын
@@bossup648 loser.
@gizzyfrizzy1
Жыл бұрын
Agree 100%. I pray that he finds peace in his heart soon. God bless this poor man and the others that lost their child!
Ethan’s mother is so so right. In todays stressful and busy world, we are so busy with working and achieving goals that we forget to slow down, take time to say I love you, how much our loved ones mean to us and spend quality time together. …..” tell those you love just how much they mean to you right now. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed
Maddie's dad broke my heart. His only child, his sweet and precious girl. An indestructible bond with her father that someone took away 💔💔 Praying for the Mogen, Goncalves, Kernodle and Chapin families. 🙏💔 absolutely heartbreaking! I am so so sorry that this happened to these beautiful souls, your 4 amazing children! Gone way way way to soon, but never forgotten! Fly high Kaylee, Maddie, Xana and Ethan!🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I pray the killer is found and justice is served!
Heavy heart listening and watching Madison Dad. If bad days can be a prayer, I offer all my bad days as a prayer for this Dad. At the same time, my bad day is nothing compared to his nightmare.
“The only cure to pain is love…” wow. Such strength and grace spoken. Blessings on these families.
Both speeches by the Dad's were so touching and heartbreaking. I'm sad for all the families
I’m in absolute awe of these brave parents…absolutely beautiful words…what an incredible loss 💔
Heartbreaking.😔 Maddies Dad really painted a picture with his words, what a lovely man.
Maddie‘s dad speech broke my heart…his first and only daughter taken from him. God bless all these family, their children were taken from them way too soon I hope the families can find peace and comfort within each other. 💔
I’m so heartbroken for these parents and all other loved ones. Through these speeches and other outlets, they have given us a glimpse into who these precious young adults were. Maddie’s father’s speech especially got to me. I just want to hug him… hug all of them. 🥺
I feel so sorry for xana... No one was there to speak for her... But I'm sure she knows how loved she was, She's now united with Ethan in heaven again...
My heart just breaks for all of these families. Praying for them to be embraced in love and strength.
Maddie May’s dad broke my heart. So sad to loose your only child. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Crying as I listen to their heartbreak; praying for strength and justice for them all💔
I can not imagine their pain, I have a 22 year old daughter and a 25 year old son. I’d die without them. I pray for the families and I pray the one responsible is arrested ASAP! 🙏🏼🛐🙏🏼💜
We mourn with you in the loss of your beautiful children. You are all so brave and strong and I’m proud of you all. My heart hurts for each of you in your unimaginable grief. It’s hard to bear. Keeping you in my prayers. Justice will be served.God bless you 😢🙏🏻❤️
Poor woman... The way she said "im Ethan's Mom" in the beginning made my eyes water up.😢😢😢
@rinearlovelle
Жыл бұрын
I KNOW. SO incredibly sad sounding and proud at the same time
My heart breaks for these families. All I can do is pray. I pray for the families comfort and peace and pray we all get justice. We all need the person responsible to be held accountable. 🙏
Sending love and condolences from South Africa. Crying through this. So sad for all your loses ......... family and friends. May God give you strength through all of this.
I think that the biggest thing that I will remember about this whole terrible disgusting ordeal is just how much these children were loved and adored by their families especially their parents. No one has any right to do this to another human being, the killer deserves to lose whatever he holds most dear in his sad and pathetic life.
@rutherfordbhayes423
Жыл бұрын
Yes whoever did this deserves to lose their life . Senseless , vicious , cruel murder of those beautiful children . This is NOT mental illness this is EVIL.
You’re a WONDERFUL MOMMA!!!! so brave Thank you for being so wise and giving in your words You are 100% correct Give your TIME to your children I do I always will Thank you ❤🙏🙌🏻☺️
@slackjaw2643
Жыл бұрын
All the parents are wonderful
When Maddie’s father spoke, I instantly understood what he was talking about how when he meets someone for the first time, it’s usually about their child and not really them. He loved her so much and was so proud of her. I pray he finds peace through this all. If you are reading this sir, please look up lamentations 3:24-27. You’re in my thoughts and prayers and I hope one day soon the person responsible for this is brought to justice in no other way but handcuffs!
@MichElle-zc9tu
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🕯
All of you are in my family’s thoughts and prayers. This is truly the worst thing that A family has to go through. God bless all these families. My heart goes out.
He just confirmed they were together. I am glad they were together. So sad.
Everyone of these speeches were beautiful but I just wanna say how Maddies dad touched me. I only have a father and we also go to concerts together. He is such a big music person. I think that’s what made it even more relatable to me. I hope everyone who is effected by this practices self love and is kind to themselves. I can’t imagine how their mental health is forever effected by this. I am not a religious person but I hope with everything in my heart that they find justice
I can’t quite put my finger on it, but there’s something off about this whole thing.
@godschild9528
Жыл бұрын
Yes something is definitely off
@Clintsessentials
Жыл бұрын
Agree.
Such a senseless crime, those poor parents. Maddie’s Dad truly shattered my heart. 😢
"Im glad She got a taste of what it's like to be in love with someone..." 😣😫😢😭
Beautiful parents. The kids and parents need this solved. Stay safe. 🙏🙏🙏♥️
Lord be with these families. This is so tragic.
I pray peace for these families. And that justice will prevail. How heart wrenching
Praying for everyone! and hoping this person gets caught soon! These children need justice!
My heart goes out to all these families. I am a mother of 3 and could not even think of losing one the way these families have. Also my heart goes out to the friends and campus as well. This is going to for ever change the comunity and Im sorry but I know each and everyone of you will be there for each other. Rest in Peace to all the angle's make sure to shine your light on everyone and help them heal.
Oh my gosh, those poor parents. My heart breaks for all of them and I do not know them at all This is so so heartbreaking 💔 😢. Lot of hugs and love to each and everyone of you. Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿 ❤️ ❤️❤️😢😢
Prayers for the victims families. . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for posting this. I am just now coming across it. What amazing lives. Praying for their families.
Unimaginable loss! Please stay strong for these parents..& families.. That sicko will get what's coming soon!!
My heart broke for Maddie Dad 💔he's heartbroken poor man he's only child 😭😭😭😭I'm sorry for your loss , sending Much love to you all from Wagga Wagga Australia ❤😢💔
Retired teacher here! "Please be KIND! " Excellent words of wisdom for today's young people! I grew up in the 1970's! I now make sure I gift young people extra big tips! I am constantly amazed how shocked young people are when a Baby Boomer tells them "Keep the change!" Stay in school, stay away from drugs and never drink to excess! You will be grateful when you are older and you know how good you took care of yourselves and others too! JUST BE KIND!!!!
Let’s continue to lift these families up in love, prayers, & support. Rest In Peace to the 4 young people 🙏❤️
MY HEART GOES OUT to these courageous parents who face the media & the public to honour their beloved children. Wish you strength & light through this horrific time as you await for the answers you need & so deserve 🙏🫂🙏
Well done Mr. Mogen; beautifully said.
Maddie's dad. What a stand up guy. His honesty makes him shine.
My heart really goes out to all of the families. Losing a child is unimaginable, it’s the worst thing ever for a loving parent. To lose their children this way …is beyond words. 💔💔💔💔
Imagine loosing your only child! God give them strength…. My heart breaks. RIP beautiful souls, look over your parents and help them through their grief. God speed. Xxx❤
no one should ever have to go through this kind of pain 💔rest in peace to the 4 beautiful souls
All of you.. every single one of you.. have my deepest condolences..I pray justice prevail s quickly.. Mercy.
This is heartbreaking. How can one human cause so much pain? For what? I hope they catch this person/persons soon so the families can at least see justice done. It will never take away their pain, but it will at least allow them to grieve the loss.
I'm so glad each of their babies had such loving, sweet,funny parents. Humor and love will help Prayers and love 💔♥️
Absolutely heart breaking. Could not stop the tears. These poor families x
To the families that spoke, woo! What great families you have. We will continue to pray for you. God bless you.
Just knowing the person that took these 4 beautiful lives is most likely watching this or even there as these families talk about their children is frustrating & heartbreaking. I hope & pray they find who committed these horrible Murders before they decide to do it again.
@nychris2258
Жыл бұрын
Hes almost definitely in attendance.
@vickie6752
Жыл бұрын
@@nychris2258 I was thinking the exact same thing
@vickie6752
Жыл бұрын
Yes he or she is probably there. That was my first thought
@hemicuda9510
Жыл бұрын
I highly doubt it the killer is there. Like it or not, he or she has been very smart so far and no doubt understands that the FBI is using facial recognition software on everybody there.
@SolsticeBeautyByJessica
Жыл бұрын
@@hemicuda9510it would completely make sense for the crazy mind of the person responsible for these horrific murders to be there. Like some sick fantasy. I just hope and pray he/she is caught.
Oh how my heart goes out to all these family. My prayers are with you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Watching this at 5:00 am. I have two kids and knowing that in 20 years they will go to college it’s a lil overwhelming, yes it’s a long time from now but I was 1 & 2 years old once . All of this hits home, going to college and being murdered like this is horrible. I’m bawling my eyes here because it’s hard to move on from this.. Ethan’s mom 🕊️ her speech broke me. Being a mother & seeing your kids going off to college is such a big achievement and I pray to god I get to experience this with my babies. May all four beautiful souls rest in love. I hope we find your murder and you get the peace you deserve. 🫶🏻🤍 give your families strength, be their Angel and help us be your voice. Your life didn’t have to be ripped apart like this .. 💔
Oh dear God, my heart is just shattered just even trying to think about how these beloved family members are going to deal with this and I just don't know what I would do losing my only child. I lost my oldest son and the only reason I could ever think of for going on with my younger son. These people are going to need constant prayer and uplifting and being close.,
My deepest Condolences to all the Families.. I pray for you all Strength & Peace. Fly High Angel's.
These parents are literally living my worst fear in life. I mean that…I’ve lived through just about anything life could throw at a person except this and I’m so grateful for my happy, healthy, kind, smart, funny, kids.
I m so sorry. Its just so heart breaking. Lovely words from the parents!!God bless you!! XOXOXOXOXOX
My heart goes out to these poor families
So very sad.....heartbreaking.....
No mention of xana from anybody except the Dean. How sad.
@joy-115
Жыл бұрын
Yeah really! And Ethan was dating for a year?
@julieb7785
Жыл бұрын
Well, honey, eulogies are very hard...not everyone can handle the spotlight in times of pain and sorrow.
@rosalindalay4499
Жыл бұрын
Is that the one who's mom is in jail?
@sarah29880
Жыл бұрын
@@rosalindalay4499 yes it was
@joinjen3854
Жыл бұрын
@@rosalindalay4499 and the dad lives in Arizona.
This is so heart breaking that these young people's live where taken so horrible so evil .. Im so sorry for theirs parents that their precious children were taken like this. Prayers for all!
Heartwrenching. I'm so sorry for all of them. 😔😢💔😞 I hope, one day, a little peace comes back to their lives.
Praying for justice for these families ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
All these families are so Strong. It hurt my soul hearing the pain in their voice. This is a very Sad situation my son is in College so this really has put fear in my heart.
So sorry for your loss prayers are with you🙏🏻 😢
Prayers for all people involved
I think they are the most courageous people to be able to stand up and talk about their children after a horrific loss. Sending Prayers and comfort 🙏 ❤
Ethan’s mom is a beautiful wonderful woman ❤️Kaylee’s dad’ a girl dad ❤ And Maddie’s dad so proud of her and shared the love of music and concerts ❤ And Xanas family ❤️ May God bring peace to all of you. ❤️🦋🦋🦋🦋
Wow as a mother Mrs.Chapen I respect you so much.. what a strong human being . All these families incredible human beings in prayer for everyone hurting. Heartbreaking but these beautiful people are trying Thier very best to get what positive they can from this.. god bless of them.. and may thier souls rest in the light forever💎💎💎💎
Maddys dad broke me , her being their only child , he really made this tragedy hit home.
What wonderful human beings ❤ I'm very sorry they're going trough the unimaginable..
This is so heartbreaking.
My ❤ is broken for these people. Many prayers and much Love from Butte MT.
Maddie's Dad gave such a wonderful tribute.
So so heart breaking sending my prayers from the 🇬🇧
ughh these poor poor parents!!!!!!!!!! 😢 there is nothing any of us can say to lift this pain from your hearts. I'm sending so much love to you all!!!!
What precious sweet tributes. Praying for all.
Maddie's dad is so soft-spoken and kind. 😩😭
God Bless them all.
So sorry for the families. I pray for peace for them and swift justice.
Thanks parents - So sorry for your losses. you are in my prayers.
If this doesn't break your heart nothing will. Rest in peace. 😭💔💔💔
So so sad !! Just heartbreaking !