JEALOUSY CAN HIDE IN COMPLIMENTS, ENVY CAN HIDE IN SUPPORT, HATE CAN HIDE IN LOVE. PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR ACTIONS NOT THEIR WORDS.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

So true!!

@Janney3791

Ай бұрын

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@Janney3791

Ай бұрын

@missctolbertvoh Hello to you, Sister in Christ!! .. So humbled and blessed to have come across your official KZread channel. I've been watching and listening to you for the last 7+ months or so. I just wanted to express how much I'm genuinely grateful for your content. It has helped me a lot, and my faith journey has been quite a roller coaster since 1991, when I 1st gave my life to the Lord. I've experienced lots of trauma throughout my life, in segments. I've also experienced a lot of "church hurt" both during my previous marriage, and being a single/divorced mom for 16 years now. I left a church that I attended for 6+ years because I trusted them. However, they were gradually became very controlling w/ my daily life, including my personal finances. I even had to ask for permission to buy my daughter a bag of chips. I decided to attend therapy and counseling last summer, for it. It has helped me to better manage my feelings and emotions in a healthier way, instead of turning to food for comfort. I weighed 192 lbs in 2018, and God used the church to help me lose weight and my lightest weight was 107 lbs, because the church would tell me that because of the Spirit of gluttony in me, they said I needed to maintain my weight of 112 - 115 lbs but not higher. Since I've left the church, I'm now at 155 lbs. When I was still w/ the church, one of the church members told me that if I ever left the church and stopped being a member, they said that Satan would eat me alive. Please forgive me for typing you a novel, I do my best to pray and stay with the Lord and Saviour daily. I'm just still haunted by all the things they would say to me, and the Pastor would correct and rebuke some of us a lot in front of the other members during our dinner fellowships. But he would say, so that we can be held accountable for our character flaws that need improvement. They wouldn't even support or give us the personal liberty to attend our own family functions. My ex husband died unexpectedly last year, and my 3 children are all still grieving in their own way, understandably. Especially due to the cause of his death was a possible manslaughter. But Long Beach P.D. dropped the ball on the police report. My ex mother in law is so heartbroken too. And I'm grieving in my own way too. I sometimes feel like an "indirect widow." We co-parented peacefully. He was a wonderful father and grandfather. We married when I was a single mom w/ my then 5 yr old.daughter who is 28 yrs old now. He was the only "Dad" she ever considered, because he raised her and accepted her like his own. Currently, I've been attending an Online church, but not being arrogant when I say this, although they're preaching the basic principles and fundamentals of the Gospel, I am more hungry and thirsty for a deeper level of growth and rema and revelations of God's Word. So this is exactly why I like to tune in and watch your videos. I pray that Father God continues to bless your social media ministry in every way possible, both in the physical and spiritual realm!!! Thank you, Beloved Sister!!! Amen and Hallelujah!!! (P. S. - Through the years, I've come to realize that God has gifted me w/ prophetic dreams, discernment of people's spirits they carry, and the gift of healing when I pray, and prophetic spoken words. However, sometimes, I still sense the spirit of confusion in my mind. I know I am a big work in progress as well. I pray that Father God has His way in me, and that I daily repent, so I can do my best to keep my heart upright before God. We serve a Great and Mighty KING!!!!! May He gets all the glory, honor, and praise!!!!!!

When they think you’re at your lowest they show you who they really were the whole time.

@thetruth72480

Ай бұрын

So very true

This is happening already to me, I lost alot of people from my life. But I don’t care as long God is with me❤️ And most of the time this type of people hidden inside the church. Sad but true.

It's a lot of phoney friends and family,out there,but we still got love for them.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Yes we still have to be real and show them love 💘

It's hilarious how they didn't appear in droves until your only interest became walking with Jesus Christ because everyone else kicked you to the curb.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Right! The ups and downs with people is almost comical

I just got off my laptop from talking with a stranger about a lie at least one of my relatives told, and now I come across your video.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Its real out here and folks switch up quick off the simplest, dumbest and childish things

@nadiajeanpierre6966

2 ай бұрын

My lady ❤❤❤.. Wow wow.... you are a woman of God....I can't find Job,,i don't know what's going on in my life....

As a teenager I started to see through people being fake and phony. My oldest sister never like me when we were growing up. She never had any conversations for me. She just pretended to like me.

@Jac735

2 ай бұрын

Look at my older brother he acts brand new whwn he used to abuse me as a little kid but never did nothing to my younger brother now he treats me like Shiii and blades ne fir everything snd has selective memory from when I almost got paralyzed from the beating got bruised up as well I still forgave him and try to forget about thst but he just became even more phony so I dont even want to be in a room with him that's how bad it is trying to turn other family members against me and never called or anyhting but I'm cool though rather deal with his actions now than deal with him being fake around me

This is spot on, as usual at my job. Select people whom I thought there was at least mutual respect, out of the blue changed towards me., in recent years, I’ve worked alongside for 15 or more years in some cases. I’ve done nothing to them, but I definitely responded by moving on. My cut off game is tight! Poof! Be gone!

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

The fakest people you'll come across are in the workplace

I walk in truth. I pray to stay in the Spirit of Christ. You have to move forward without resentment. I thank God for the gift of discernment!

AMEN 🙏 l see a lot of this on Facebook Thank You Lord for this message

There's a Bible scripture that I Believe is found in the book 📖 of Proverbs saying to, Be careful of those who exchange allegiances." Clearly they're operating in a double minded 2 faced duality spirit. We're not talking about perfection. But we are speaking on transparency, intentionality, & humility.

Amen This message is powerful love you Thank you for this my family members 💝

Ppl who are " stuck " behave in that manner.❤

this is straight confirmation for me! ❤ we all need to be aware when we’re rising some people will try to come back to hide their hand or cover up their evil ways towards you. it’s so many people God revealed to me who’s being fake

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

There are many who are fake and phoney. They're great at acting like they're all for you but out of nowhere they start acting weird. I've seen it too many times

@LadyQInspires

2 ай бұрын

yes i also speak on all of these platforms and when i said yes to god i had family betray me and eveyrhing im working on forgiveness but i can sense people still don’t like me because they think ima stop doing what god called me to do. they think lack of support is going to stop you from going higher, NEGATIVE smh.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

@@LadyQInspires no sis don't stop!!! Keep doing what God has called you to do. Folks talk crazy that know me too because of what I do but I'm not stopping. Some people wish they had the boldness to do what you do.

@LadyQInspires

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh you’re so right !! thank you for giving me strength ! 🔥

Amen! This just happened to me on X and this message showed up. I was exposing the music industry and someone left a comment telling me to lay low and don't say anything. And that's when I tweeted even louder. Lol 😂. Thank you for letting God use you. This message is on time! ⏲️

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Praise God!! You never be quiet about evil sis!!!!! God gives you the green light to expose it!

I appreciate the beautiful message sista..keep going because some people really need your enlightment🙏❤

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Praise God! ❤

@kevinbey6516

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh 🙏❤

Girl, I tried helping a supposed friend out when her husband died and she and her child have lied on my child and me! I tried to show them community and had other parents rally around to support her and this lady totally switched TF up...I had to cut off all communication because I see them for who they are...just manipulative as they can be. Always the victim...shame shame shame. Not this one, baby...move along.

What a powerful word, my beautiful sista. This Word was on time. I thank you for the Holy Spirit he wanted me to see this video. My experiences with women in ministry in friendships God removed them out of my life. God revealed to me how these women were acting towards me when I was off the prayer line. I heard the Lord say, "Please remove yourself from the prayer line immediately, so did what the Lord to me too. As I begin to hear God's voice, God! Was speaking to me to let me know that he loved me so much that people who called themselves your friend aren't or sister in christ or your friend. They are gossiping and making fun of you. The Lord told me to stay in and encourage and keep my head up? and I will fight your battles. I spoke to the Lord, and I told him that no matter what people say about me, I'm going to serve you for the rest of my life and do what you ask me to.

@EvetteCollins

2 ай бұрын

Wow. Reminds me of a similar experience I had years ago.

Definitely gotta PRAY 4 em, FORGIVE em, & KEEP IT PUSHING & PROGRESSING!!!!!!!🧐🤔 🤫🤐😏🛣🏞🛵💺🧳😎🧭

Once again💯%🔥video👍🏿🥰

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Thanks so much MrHoody!

Thank you my beautiful sister from Detroit I’m a babe in Christ I’ve experienced this ❤🙏💃🩸

Thank you for that gift.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

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Thank you for the truth! I may not be able to catch all your videos but when I can, it always hits hard. ❤ I've experienced this and God always exposes them to me. Sincerely, I just pray for them, thats all we can do.

When the words of God ( holy scriptures ) are coming out & ppl get upset , then it's time to check yourself not the messengers!!

Your words are so meaningful every last word

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Thanks sis! ❤

Amen, Auntie! “Be about the Father’s business..it’s nothing personal at all”😝 The problem also is that people can be so sensitive as well as immature. Fickle as they wanna be!

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Yes niece! The super sensitive have a very bad habit of cutting people off who challenge them or make them take accountability

@kenyalove7343

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh yep, this is indeed true!

Great message ❤🙏🏾

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Thanks Randy

Glad you showed back up in my feed!

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Me too!

Soooo right sis 🙏🏿💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

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Perfect Conversation, perfect video.

im literally in TEARS! I was crashing out because I was already in a emotional state and I came to a fellow "sister of christ" youtube who was live and was like "hey, I just need to be w/ someone im crying right now" just tryna be vunerable because I needed it. this woman blocked me off her live. that broke my heart! im dealing with soooo many attacks and I dont need people treating me like I dont matter because no one knows my journey with GOD. ( im sorry im venting] but I just cant believe she blocked me. Ive been watching her journey on here since jan. it just hurts me so bad but hearing you talk about the glitch it blew my mind. thank you so MUCH for being obedient to GOD by posting this because I just felt so DEFEATED. I was pleading w/ GOD in tears like why do these people keep treating me this way. it makes my nerves so bad. I have so much love in my heart I am truly misunderstood and im sorry about that but im tired of apologizing for existing. I just cant believe that woman could do that but you are so so right. im sorry for this long message. GOD bless you

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Awwwe sis I'm so sorry you had to go through that!! Be thankful when they switch up cause that let's you know the fake ones. If they don't show you how they feel, even by accident, they'll keep riding with you and eventually snake you out. God has been showing me fake and phony folks super quick in this season. Its always women. You can really believe you're vibing with others you have gone through similar things with then out the blue they cop an attitude with you. Some of these sisters up here are very very very arrogant and they believe subscriber count proves they've arrived or are a highly anointed one. Without a title and platform you would see just how plain and ordinary many people are💯💯💯💯💯. Without an audience and social media so many people would be super boring and nobody would pay attention to them offline in real life. I can't make this up!

@destinixshakur

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh it’s just like I know GOD uses my journey to test people and I don’t like it because it hurts me to realize what they are. It’s so confusing to me it actually hurts my brain how often it happens. GOD is revealing so much right now. I just lean onto GOD I just feel blessed because I know that I shouldn’t have leaned on anyone but HIM anyway so it was my fault. It’s just I felt relieved to see a fellow Christian who understands the attack. I wasn’t expecting to also be attacked by someone who say they love GOD. I’m not upset. I know she played her role I just fled! All I do is leave as fast as I can! I pray for her because people are getting tricked and I’m humble enough to know I’m not perfect and need GOD to fix every little part of me. I don’t want to intentionally bother anyone or hurt anyone. It hurts me to have to cut someone off. But that’s parts of me I need to work on and heal. I get so tired of people trying to humble me. GOD keeps telling me to stop apologizing for existing. Thank you so much for this video so so much may GOD always bless you abundantly 🙏🏾🖤

@queenesther4142

2 ай бұрын

@@destinixshakur Hi, I understand how you feel, and I can relate to what you're saying and feeling. This happened to me a lot too. And as soon as I see or discern it. I leave really quickly. And please stop apologizing for being you. Start loving yourself, and stop caring about what people say or think about you. I know sometimes you need someone to talk to, but it's best to pray about your situation and whatever is bothering you. People will fail you, so it's best to just lean on Jesus Christ.I know sometimes we need that human connection, but people are very fake/ phoney, and you have be careful who you tell your business to. I know it hurts but be thankful God showed you who they are. Count your blessings. God will never leave you or forsake you. Be bless in the mighty name of Jesus Christ 🙏 ✨️ 🙌 ✝️

@berthabonds1202

2 ай бұрын

To those that are babies in Christ,Just know that YAH knows your heart, Everything that you go through or going through he is aware of it all,Just know that all of your trails, tribulations that you will experience in this life come to make you strong, Don't lend to your own understanding just trust n believe that The Most High God will see you through whatever it is that so easily besets you.

@user-eu3qy8uf7f

2 ай бұрын

She said fake and phony. When you listen to these content creators DO NOT suspend your discernment. And remember that EVERYBODY is selling something and then ask yourself what am I REALLY buying into? Truth? Lies? Truth mixed with Lies? I've seen many on here and listened to many. I've talked to a few personally and have commented here and there. I was anointed long before I started watching KZread but I understand that I can learn something from just about any one even if it comes in a negative manner and vice versa. For example. I have cut people off when I realize there is nothing else for me to give them. Or a fork came in the road which diverged our paths I broke with a college friend years ago. When I saw him after 40 years he asked why I abandoned him and what did he do to drive me away? He didn't get it even now. I reminded him how I was guided to give him info to put him on his RIGHT path in life. Once that was done it was time for me to step away. God used me to set you up good and godly. He became very successful, rather famous in his State etc. I told him if I had stayed around I would have inadvertently gotten in the way. The reverse is true and happened. In the late 90s until 2012 God sent three people to help raise me up. Each one guided and cared for me and showed me things. One died. The other played his part and moved on and the other one played her part and tried to stay connected. But one day she called and then she yelled at me in a nasty way. I was spiritually offended. But then I realized her ego was irritated because the student outgrew and outsmarted the teacher. She played her part. I haven't spoken to her since as there is no need to explain or discuss. Blessings 👳‍♂️😊

I absolutely love the message s God gives you.... thank you

Thank you very much for this powerful message.. As a Content Creator, this totally resonates with my spirit.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Thanks sis!

@Cindi644

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh You are very welcome 🤗

Thank you for the message

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

You're welcome sis

So true!!!

💯💕🕯️ Gratitude 🙏

You're a blessing sis! ❤

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Wow! Thanks! Praise God!

I’m not even going to say much because I don’t want to feed the past but this video on point 🖤👏🏾

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Sis you can speak here whenever you get ready!

@tequilachanel7312

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh lol thank you sis 🖤

God bless you beautiful lady... You had to be a blessing from the sky 💕

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

This message resonates with my life! Thank you for an awesome message Ms. Ke Ke!

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

You are always on point! Halleluyah and Selah

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

All praises to the most high!!!

So true 👏👏👏✨️! Great message

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Thanks sis!

@zaahire

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh 💛

Preach🙏🙏🙏🙌

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

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Many of us want ear ticklers and not sound doctrine.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Yes!

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Amen….

I just experienced this with my X, she saw me changing for the better and she came back around and like a fool I took her back but all her signs were plain as day that she was faking and using me as a rebound and I kept having dreams about not trusting her and when I told her about my dream as we laid she got up quietly and left when I went 2 the restroom.

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Wow! Good riddings. God showed you who she really was!

@TheMan-dy3vh

2 ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Yes ma'am God Bless u sister

❤❤💯Yes❕

100 pencent in ❤

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Come on now ain’t that the truth. When u are down and out u see who is there for u a few and elect from Yahshua.

Good 👍 Morning 🌄

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

Morning!

totally agree 100%

@missctolbertvoh

2 ай бұрын

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God needed me to see this. If you are getting closer to God they targeted you. You talk about God the devil hates that more than idle gossip, unnecessary envy, ad hominem attack, etc