The second he showed up, I thought, his new lady's unable to have kids and wants a replacement.

@IzzyPR2010

12 күн бұрын

It's not even that she can't, it's that she doesn't want to bother as someone else already did all the work so she wants to take advantage of that.

This is a power play on the new wife's part. First steal the husband, now steal the child. This is all her idea. New wife found out that having children would be too much trouble for her so she wants to steal OP's. Honestly under those circumstances I wouldn't trust him for visitation, they might try to run off with the kid. Ex and B are in front of the house. When "you're keeping our daughter from us", yell back "she's not your daughter, you're just the ho that stole her father and now want to steal her because you don't want to bother getting knocked up".

And if OP Does let that absentee father be a part of her daughter's life, one day while she's out with daddy, daddy and his affair partner/new wife are going to have the wonderful idea that they can all start a new life in a new country...

I normally do not think you should separate a child from a parent. But he abandoned his daughter for 8 months then wanted to totally take over and take her daughter away. I dont think those 2 could coparent. Cheating for 3 years is unforgivable

First she steals your husband, then she wants to steal your baby. There's a special place in hell for people like this.

How many times will this woman allow her Ex to disturb her and her and daughter's peace and happiness before she takes a legal action. First time he came and threatened, she should have called the cops, filed a report, and lawyered up, and got the restraining order. Instead she waited for them to create more chaos before taking any legal steps.

Karma is a great big B. F Mandy, F Peter, Op deserved better

Something isnt adding up. Hes a POS for cheating but, i dont see a court making him only have supervised visits unless he was abusive or an addict or something(which she does not mention). He was certainly the villian for cheating but she going to be the villian later on if she alienates him from his kid.

This is a major point of contention with me and my mother found out the hard way that her choice was wrong. My father may have made a mistake by cheating on my mom, but she had no right to keep him away from me and my sister 18th birthday was the last time I spoke to my mother and my father having an amazing relationship, and not so much my mother and father’s relationship and problems were just their problems not me and my sisters😅

She is wrong to keep the father out of his child's life. That is child abuse.

@MamaMargie

11 күн бұрын

He is the one who didnt show for 8 months. He can go to court if he wants back in her life.

everything was ok, then update 5 comes op goes to therapie and now says 300 buzzwords

Who writes this shit

It's the child right to see both parents

@Littlereddevil94

13 күн бұрын

Depends on the parent. My Bio father CHOSE to not spend time with us and even quit working when the state took his tax check because he didn't pay child support for 11yrs

@user-xd6nc6rg7b

12 күн бұрын

Adulterers should lose everything in the divorce, including custody. This particular one already gave up custody. Now he wants to give his daughter to her like a toy. Ex and AP are trash.

i hate my sons father. he’s turned into such trash…he’s not the man i knew anymore. he’s a serial cheater, he’s manipulative, he’s now an alcoholic and therefore, he’s a thief. he only pops up when it’s convenient for him, or when he wants something to post on facebook. and as much as i hate him, i haven’t spoken a bad word of him to my son. i don’t speak ill of him, i answer whatever questions he has as neutrally and truthfully as possible, giving age appropriate explanations. the few times a year he does call and want to talk, ill give my son the phone. when my son was a baby id just put him in front of the camera. now that he’s older, he’s 7, ill ask him if he wants to speak with his dad. i don’t keep him from his dad, his dad does that all on his own. you can hate the dad, but if he’s a good dad, no matter how he treated you, you don’t do that unless you’re worried harm would come to your child. my only concern in OP’s situation would be that they would have tried to run away with her. but i wouldn’t have kept them away. fathers are equally as important as mothers. they always get the short end of the stick..now the new wife’s comments that single mothers aren’t fit to raise children were wrong and for her to insinuate that was disgusting. and for her to say the daughter wouldn’t have a real family without them was also disgusting. but OP is wrong for keeping them away. ESH in my opinion

@BlackTheBerserker

12 күн бұрын

A legitimate concern that they might run away with her or try to poison her against her to me is more than enough reason to keep them away.

@IzzyPR2010

12 күн бұрын

@@BlackTheBerserker This, very much this and the other woman in this story would likely try any of those.

If the father has court order visitation then its not up to OP to decide if the father can access the child or not. By law she HAS to allow him his visitation, SHE can actually wind up losing custody or going to jail for violating a court ordered aggreement. So she needs to allow dad his supervised visits either with a court appointed supervisor, or by herself again. Because her EX can use those texts as proof that OP is violating their agreement and go for joint if not full custody himself. I know this because my mom went through the same thing and my dad sued her for violating the visitation agreement. At the end of the dad it doesnt matter how much of a steaming piles of shit your EX is, if a court order is in place, it HAS to be followed. Its not up to you.

@avalineriley6809

12 күн бұрын

She went back to court and got full custody, he has no visitation anymore.

@user-xd6nc6rg7b

12 күн бұрын

He gave up custody in the divorce and then abandoned her. He sounds like a psycho having his AP at their house while OP was at work playing house with OP’s daughter like a toy. They’re sick.

I love how a woman says "I'm all my kid needs" like don't let your delusion show too much

Regardless of circumstances, the father has a right to a relationship with his daughter.

@mutegirlsirius8940

12 күн бұрын

A person who abandoned his own child is no father in the books buddy.

@missinformed9550

12 күн бұрын

@@mutegirlsirius8940 Yet he is a father by blood and law as such is entitled to a relationship with his child.

@avalineriley6809

12 күн бұрын

@@missinformed9550 Nope, by law he no longer has any rights to see his daughter.

@missinformed9550

12 күн бұрын

@@avalineriley6809 Yep, he do.

@avalineriley6809

12 күн бұрын

@@missinformed9550 She went back to court, he lost his rights for visitation and she also got a restraining order so no he don't.

YTA. He cheated on u not ur daughter

@dragula131

16 күн бұрын

So she was supposed to hand over the kid on baseless false claims by "Mandy?" I haven't made it thru the full video so I'm only basing this off the first few moments and if you think op is fully the AH you need help. Since Peter's wife was going to press false charges to steal a child

@jaytreaz7358

16 күн бұрын

He broke apart his family. He betrayed not only his wife but his daughter. You think the only person he hurt was his wife? Once the daughter finds out what really happened you think she’s gonna be okay? His new “girlfriend” is a home wrecker 🤣 one who want another woman’s child. Just think about that 😂

@lillia2479

13 күн бұрын

If he had been like any "normal cheating husband that wants to keep connected to his child," rather than just all of a sudden after ghosting his ex and child for 8 months, he should've asked for shared custody rather than just outright THREATENING them for FULL CUSTODY. If he had done that, then OP would 100% be the AH. But in this case, he became toxic and is the AH. You don't get to decide when you want to be a father and when you don't, when said child is already born.

@jessicathompson236

10 күн бұрын

​@@lillia2479, Actually there are two separate issues entirely. He cheated on his wife, but he also abandoned his daughter for 8 months and in some places he'd lose any rights to the child after 6 months of abandonment.

@lillia2479

10 күн бұрын

@jessicathompson236 Yes. But I'm just saying that for him not to have been seen as the AH, he could've asked for shared custody again rather than just threatening her. They could've worked out another deal, and he might've been given a second chance to be in his daughter's life again, but he f'd up and showed why he shouldn't be allowed to be in her life at all.

What type of feminist fanfic is this there's no way aCourt is going to give her full custody for pretty much no reason that he cheated and showed up at her home not only that only a feminist would be proud to be a single parent and just hear all the buzz words she was using in the story

@alexbedel6320

11 күн бұрын

I agree

Did this idiot contact her lawyer or any lawyer after the ex-husband came to your door and said this of course you didn't, you just ran home to your parents instead of doing it the right way.

@avalineriley6809

12 күн бұрын

She literally said, 4 times throughout the story, she was in touch with her lawyer. Pay attention.

@oneuup2490

12 күн бұрын

@@avalineriley6809 not in the beginning when she first found out?! She ran to her parents home. Do you need to "PAY ATTENTION." When her ex-husband first came to her house that day and told her that she should have contacted her lawyer at that moment instead of running to her parents house which is exactly what I said. So you people like you need to start reading instead of assuming.

You NEVER have a right to take away the kid from him father unless it's physical abuse not just he hurt my feelings and now he can't see his kid. This chick is way WRONG. I'm not condoning cheating, but THIS is way too much. A mother can never be a father.

@hennessya96

14 күн бұрын

I'd disagree. This guys affair partner wants to replace the mother's place. If she shares custody she'll be undermined at every turn, out spent and probably bad mouthed by the AP. Had he come for joint custody then you'd be right. He came to Rob her child for his AP.

@lillia2479

13 күн бұрын

He GHOSTED his own ex and child for 8 MONTHS. No explanation. No excuses. Then all of a sudden, just came back and THREATENED her to give him FULL CUSTODY of said child that he GHOSTED cuz his CURRENT wife told him to. No one is about to willy nilly just give someone their own child to get hurt over and over again for their ex's own selfish convenience and whenever they want to have the child or not have them. A child is NOT a thing to play around with REGARDLESS of being a "father," or even a "mother," of a child.

@princessstarpeach9161

12 күн бұрын

I'd disagree, that guy had a affair hurting his wife and his kid, and Mandy is trying to turn that little girl against her mom, I think the court should be very serious when parents divorced there partners, there new partners can not raise them or try to turn the kids against the bio parents, I seen that happen alot, Op nta but her husband is a cheater and Mandy homewreker.