Nta step mom was just talking shit on this girls family plus she broke apart the family she once had with her father so I personally don’t see what she said or how she reacted as wrong come for my family I’ll come for yours it’s tic for tac and tbh the father needs to man up and see that his lil wife is blocking his relationship with his daughter
@nemanjajovanov
4 ай бұрын
Wait, did you really write 'tic for tac'? Please tell me English isn't your native language.
@lilnetty1177
4 ай бұрын
@@nemanjajovanovu must not get out much if you haven’t heard certain sayings being said especially if u thought being funny and along if English is my first language
@nemanjajovanov
4 ай бұрын
@@lilnetty1177 Yeah that's kinda the problem, that's not how that saying goes🤣
@Kayla-et7cn7 ай бұрын
Nta, karma is a bitch. Not your fault karma came for her uterus 🤷🏽♀️
@PastellasPlan7 ай бұрын
Honestly- Everyone sucks besides the Daughter. Op just dragged her in and insulted her for no damn reason all because who she was related to.
@himmy_turner_
7 ай бұрын
nah op ate that
@Joey15811
7 ай бұрын
@@himmy_turner_No. The daughter did nothing wrong but because of her mum her incapacity to have kids got brought into it and the suggestion she learnt to be a wh*re. No when it comes to anything dragging the daughter in OP is an AH. Also an emotional ultimaium is a low move as well. If OP just went hard at step mum then it wouldn't be so bad and justified.
@R5ForeverXx
7 ай бұрын
It all comes from a place of pain, in op’s shoes would you want the woman who single-handedly tore your family apart to talk shit about your family, the one that she ripped apart? And then just because op wanted to talk to them she has the audacity to assume this is her ‘coming around’? I’m sorry, but it’s a little bold for her to say that op’s family has poisoned her mind when she again, was part of breaking a family apart.
@joseprathesh
6 ай бұрын
Womp womp
@maddieg563
6 ай бұрын
I mean.. that mostly came from them trying to force op to become her sister… If you’re an adult old enough to be married you should know that the first meeting between a estranged father and daughter who hates him and your mom for having an extramarital affair is not the time to act like sisters and bring your husband…
@mohaharba16007 ай бұрын
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@taliafunn42317 ай бұрын
oooo i’m early slayyy. i’d say nta especially the way she was talking shit. she should’ve kept her mouth shut
@kappamykappa6112
7 ай бұрын
Literally, they both destroyed ruined her family. The maid can't even claim ignorance.
@hackerman2116
7 ай бұрын
Right! Don’t talk shit if you can’t handle take that same energy being thrown back at you.
@sufiahempire73645 ай бұрын
Then why didn't she go to therapy? If she actually loves op, why didn't she go?
@runawaypacman6 ай бұрын
Nta 🤔I can definitely see where op is coming from and why she so mad😡. She made it clear she wanted nothing to do with them,then they pester her for years. Then she gets severely injured 🏥 and not only do they bother her even more but the mistress is talking crazy about her and her family. I would have went off on them too. At this point there harassing her.
@strawberry__9257 ай бұрын
NTA
@jasonlasick43966 ай бұрын
Omg op is vicious
@JustMeDidii6 ай бұрын
I was with her until she insulted her step sister… the step sister was in no fault in who she is related to. Her words were too harsh
@brielle08087 ай бұрын
I agree with going after the mistress, but her father and mistress’ daughter catching strays was a little much. OP didn’t say that the daughter was talking shit, so telling the daughter’s husband to watch out because she might be like her mother is too much. Keep that energy for your father and his mistress. The daughter didn’t deserve that. I get it easy to harbor resentment towards her half-sister, but asking OP’s father to cut ties with his other daughter is too much. I think saying divorce your wife, if you want a relationship with me is okay, but it’s unreasonable to ask him to cut off his daughter too.
@castielalkunapetrovasovian5921
7 ай бұрын
It takes two to tango, the dad cheated too so he deserves to get some.
@brielle0808
7 ай бұрын
@@castielalkunapetrovasovian5921 Yeah, but the daughter doesn't deserve to get any of it. She didn't do anything.
@TerrificTetris
7 ай бұрын
The STEP-DAUGHTER isn’t even his daughter
@aaronross2578
7 ай бұрын
@@brielle0808yeah but op grew up without a father because of his actions. What about her losing out on a fatherly figure?
@runawaypacman
6 ай бұрын
🤨I feel like the mistress brought the her daughter along in hopes op would have sympathy and bite her tongue because it Makes no sense for her to bring her daughter to reconcile with op. But obviously it back fired😅
@AnUpo177 ай бұрын
Tbh.... Insulting that womans daughter isn’t right.... No one should suffer bcz of what their parents did...
@FrootBowl
6 ай бұрын
Ok but if you dont want your daughter insulted, dont make her a part of the problem..?
@adilsyspams6 ай бұрын
is there an update?
@ccs13176 ай бұрын
Yes, yta
@kaylaamazing257 ай бұрын
Nta
@TheMazimai856 ай бұрын
The dad and stepmom are dickhead but oop is a grown adult. Speak to her dad without the wife around only or go nc. She shouldn't force someone to be alone because she doesn't like what her or what they did. He will only hate his daughter if he is forced to leave his wife
@lalicorne39666 ай бұрын
Wow all the wording show so much contempt and malice. I'm truly empathetic about how her father ruined their family and traumatize her and it's ok to not wanting to have a relationship with it but f*ck she is horrible. I really understand dad's new wife saying she learn this behavior for her family. It scream richs disdain for popular classes, internalized misogyny, painfull hate (painfull for other but also her), not treating other like human being because their related with her sadness
@Joey158117 ай бұрын
Honestly yes YTA. This is an everyone sucks here situation. Bringing in step sis/half sis (whatever she is) incompacity to have kids is a low move and crosses a line so for bringing that into the confrontation yes OP is an Ah. It isn't even her fault it was her mum's fault and your dads fault. Not hers. As for calling ex maid/step mum a whore, no. That is understandable and needed to be said as that woman tore your family apart. Also by giving the ultimatium where you break up your whatever-sis' family also makea you no better. Your dad and step mun are alao AHs for having thiw affair and step mum stirring the pot saying you were manipulated to think as you do.
@R5ForeverXx
7 ай бұрын
No no, the blame is entirely on the dad and the maid had it coming. She had the audacity to break up a family, and talk shit about how the family had made op think differently. And tried to pretend like everything was okay when op wanted to see them? No, that’s disgusting. How dare she assume that the child of a man she cheated out of his marriage wants anything to do with her, and to bring her own daughter as well just goes to show that she’s a shitty person (clearly) with no consideration for other people’s feelings.
@S76558
7 ай бұрын
The OP and her family are not to blame in this situation. The dad and her new mistress are, you don't go around talking shit about other people and have no consequences to that. If you're going to talk shit about someone then don't expect them to not talk shit about you
@Joey15811
6 ай бұрын
@@R5ForeverXx its an ESH. OP, Dad and his mistress. Saying something about infertility is disgusting and vile.
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Nta step mom was just talking shit on this girls family plus she broke apart the family she once had with her father so I personally don’t see what she said or how she reacted as wrong come for my family I’ll come for yours it’s tic for tac and tbh the father needs to man up and see that his lil wife is blocking his relationship with his daughter
@nemanjajovanov
4 ай бұрын
Wait, did you really write 'tic for tac'? Please tell me English isn't your native language.
@lilnetty1177
4 ай бұрын
@@nemanjajovanovu must not get out much if you haven’t heard certain sayings being said especially if u thought being funny and along if English is my first language
@nemanjajovanov
4 ай бұрын
@@lilnetty1177 Yeah that's kinda the problem, that's not how that saying goes🤣
Nta, karma is a bitch. Not your fault karma came for her uterus 🤷🏽♀️
Honestly- Everyone sucks besides the Daughter. Op just dragged her in and insulted her for no damn reason all because who she was related to.
@himmy_turner_
7 ай бұрын
nah op ate that
@Joey15811
7 ай бұрын
@@himmy_turner_No. The daughter did nothing wrong but because of her mum her incapacity to have kids got brought into it and the suggestion she learnt to be a wh*re. No when it comes to anything dragging the daughter in OP is an AH. Also an emotional ultimaium is a low move as well. If OP just went hard at step mum then it wouldn't be so bad and justified.
@R5ForeverXx
7 ай бұрын
It all comes from a place of pain, in op’s shoes would you want the woman who single-handedly tore your family apart to talk shit about your family, the one that she ripped apart? And then just because op wanted to talk to them she has the audacity to assume this is her ‘coming around’? I’m sorry, but it’s a little bold for her to say that op’s family has poisoned her mind when she again, was part of breaking a family apart.
@joseprathesh
6 ай бұрын
Womp womp
@maddieg563
6 ай бұрын
I mean.. that mostly came from them trying to force op to become her sister… If you’re an adult old enough to be married you should know that the first meeting between a estranged father and daughter who hates him and your mom for having an extramarital affair is not the time to act like sisters and bring your husband…
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oooo i’m early slayyy. i’d say nta especially the way she was talking shit. she should’ve kept her mouth shut
@kappamykappa6112
7 ай бұрын
Literally, they both destroyed ruined her family. The maid can't even claim ignorance.
@hackerman2116
7 ай бұрын
Right! Don’t talk shit if you can’t handle take that same energy being thrown back at you.
Then why didn't she go to therapy? If she actually loves op, why didn't she go?
Nta 🤔I can definitely see where op is coming from and why she so mad😡. She made it clear she wanted nothing to do with them,then they pester her for years. Then she gets severely injured 🏥 and not only do they bother her even more but the mistress is talking crazy about her and her family. I would have went off on them too. At this point there harassing her.
NTA
Omg op is vicious
I was with her until she insulted her step sister… the step sister was in no fault in who she is related to. Her words were too harsh
I agree with going after the mistress, but her father and mistress’ daughter catching strays was a little much. OP didn’t say that the daughter was talking shit, so telling the daughter’s husband to watch out because she might be like her mother is too much. Keep that energy for your father and his mistress. The daughter didn’t deserve that. I get it easy to harbor resentment towards her half-sister, but asking OP’s father to cut ties with his other daughter is too much. I think saying divorce your wife, if you want a relationship with me is okay, but it’s unreasonable to ask him to cut off his daughter too.
@castielalkunapetrovasovian5921
7 ай бұрын
It takes two to tango, the dad cheated too so he deserves to get some.
@brielle0808
7 ай бұрын
@@castielalkunapetrovasovian5921 Yeah, but the daughter doesn't deserve to get any of it. She didn't do anything.
@TerrificTetris
7 ай бұрын
The STEP-DAUGHTER isn’t even his daughter
@aaronross2578
7 ай бұрын
@@brielle0808yeah but op grew up without a father because of his actions. What about her losing out on a fatherly figure?
@runawaypacman
6 ай бұрын
🤨I feel like the mistress brought the her daughter along in hopes op would have sympathy and bite her tongue because it Makes no sense for her to bring her daughter to reconcile with op. But obviously it back fired😅
Tbh.... Insulting that womans daughter isn’t right.... No one should suffer bcz of what their parents did...
@FrootBowl
6 ай бұрын
Ok but if you dont want your daughter insulted, dont make her a part of the problem..?
is there an update?
Yes, yta
Nta
The dad and stepmom are dickhead but oop is a grown adult. Speak to her dad without the wife around only or go nc. She shouldn't force someone to be alone because she doesn't like what her or what they did. He will only hate his daughter if he is forced to leave his wife
Wow all the wording show so much contempt and malice. I'm truly empathetic about how her father ruined their family and traumatize her and it's ok to not wanting to have a relationship with it but f*ck she is horrible. I really understand dad's new wife saying she learn this behavior for her family. It scream richs disdain for popular classes, internalized misogyny, painfull hate (painfull for other but also her), not treating other like human being because their related with her sadness
Honestly yes YTA. This is an everyone sucks here situation. Bringing in step sis/half sis (whatever she is) incompacity to have kids is a low move and crosses a line so for bringing that into the confrontation yes OP is an Ah. It isn't even her fault it was her mum's fault and your dads fault. Not hers. As for calling ex maid/step mum a whore, no. That is understandable and needed to be said as that woman tore your family apart. Also by giving the ultimatium where you break up your whatever-sis' family also makea you no better. Your dad and step mun are alao AHs for having thiw affair and step mum stirring the pot saying you were manipulated to think as you do.
@R5ForeverXx
7 ай бұрын
No no, the blame is entirely on the dad and the maid had it coming. She had the audacity to break up a family, and talk shit about how the family had made op think differently. And tried to pretend like everything was okay when op wanted to see them? No, that’s disgusting. How dare she assume that the child of a man she cheated out of his marriage wants anything to do with her, and to bring her own daughter as well just goes to show that she’s a shitty person (clearly) with no consideration for other people’s feelings.
@S76558
7 ай бұрын
The OP and her family are not to blame in this situation. The dad and her new mistress are, you don't go around talking shit about other people and have no consequences to that. If you're going to talk shit about someone then don't expect them to not talk shit about you
@Joey15811
6 ай бұрын
@@R5ForeverXx its an ESH. OP, Dad and his mistress. Saying something about infertility is disgusting and vile.
Nta