Episode 9 S11 | Ubungoma a blessing or Curse?

This time we are joined by Solly, Rametsi and Priscilla to discuss Ubungoma a blessing or Curse. You don't want to miss this one. Hosted by chef Phathanani Mbatha The sole purpose of this show is to give back!! It is powered by Mothupa Foundation. Host: Phathanani Solutions Visuals: Black Studios Sound: Angu Audio Solutions ➡️Twitter: / munchies_za ➡️Instagram: / munchies_thoughts ➡️Facebook: / munchiesandthoughts ➡️Tik Tok: www.tiktok.com/@chef_phathana... **************************************************************************** DON'T FORGET TO SUSCRIBE COMMENT SHARE *********************************************************** #munchiesandthoughts #

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  • @Letthingsbloom
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    Please invite Gogo Bathini Mbatha.. Chef

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies will try that Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147

    @beautymanoto7147

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    My lovley Chef please and add gogo Khehla Manjoro❤

  • @kedinaturalmoafrika
    @kedinaturalmoafrikaАй бұрын

    Thokozani 👏 Thobela 🎉 👑 What an epic show indeed. Yoh!! Munchies and Thoughts it's here, and it's here to stay mot because of fame no here to teach. Ke ya thwasa mo 😊. Thank you so much

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes yessss 😁 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @Sidusiso
    @SidusisoАй бұрын

    Phathanani we are liking videos before watching. Uthwele🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 😂 😂 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147
    @beautymanoto7147Ай бұрын

    my little two cent opinion or commet one does not need church to know God because church is a buildiing and God is us, as they say we are created in his image, he is within us. "I am God"

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @ntokozosibusiso9832

    @ntokozosibusiso9832

    26 күн бұрын

    Ngyabonga

  • @karabomoncho
    @karabomoncho29 күн бұрын

    Mkhulu Rammetsi was a classmate of my mine in high school. Very busy bubbly person

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

    29 күн бұрын

    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @rra2317
    @rra2317Ай бұрын

    Re a go rata and we dont take you for granted Mkhulu Chef. we are still waiting for the episodes on African angels, deities, goddesses like NomHoyi, Nomkhubulwane, uMa etc

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon will definitely do that ❤️ Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @thozamafunwayo2099
    @thozamafunwayo2099Ай бұрын

    But Dabuluvalo & Mkhulu Mazibuko said idlozi is not your mkhulu or gogo that passed but a universal spirit. The gentleman from eMpangeni said the same saying people bavusa labo mkhulu besikhwama who are supposed ukuthi bagezwe so that bewela kwelamathongo. So the question is why abantu bethwasa omkhulu no gogo abafile umuntu aze abize lelogama after ukuthwasa? If idlozi is a nameless spirit and your ancestor is just a mere messenger, then what are people doing kahlekahle? Sounds like ukuthwala lento, inheritance of ancestral mistakes, curses & naughty crafts basically.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @thandolamour3031

    @thandolamour3031

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    Good question and i think this thing is very tricky cause even in Christianity cos even there people will say "the spirit of Jesus" or Holy spirit said this... kahle kahle everything wu moya

  • @nomvulamahlangu7463
    @nomvulamahlangu7463Ай бұрын

    I love mkhulu Rametsi's character, he's humbled.❤❤

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @thandolamour3031
    @thandolamour3031Ай бұрын

    This show is the best thing to happen on KZread cos we learn alot ngempela... thanks to chef Phathanani and crew you're the best

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147
    @beautymanoto7147Ай бұрын

    Mkhulu Solly 😂 Dumelang Baloi Modimo keo ❤ everything was created by God big Up

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hn
    @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hnАй бұрын

    Beautiful topic..Beautiful panel as well. Syabonga Chef

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @pattymmapelo6672
    @pattymmapelo667222 күн бұрын

    Great show as usual, thank you so much @ChefPhathanani

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

    21 күн бұрын

    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @elijahthelightning.6704
    @elijahthelightning.67045 күн бұрын

    My friend kule episode your wine was so strong 😂😂😂😂I love u

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

    5 күн бұрын

    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 😂 😂 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @ZanellaManxeba
    @ZanellaManxebaАй бұрын

    This is so beautiful...Thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @vipertron5332
    @vipertron5332Ай бұрын

    I am loving all this Gobalas yazi pls keep bringing them back❤️🔥

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @kholekatyatyeka4527
    @kholekatyatyeka4527Ай бұрын

    Chef,thanks so much for your guests, I'm growing each day and I've learned that,isiko lomntu omnyama linye,liyafana noba lenziwa different. I'm very proud of us.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @sibongilemthunzi3857
    @sibongilemthunzi3857Ай бұрын

    As always , a wonderful show and an amazing eye opener

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @matselisosishange540
    @matselisosishange540Ай бұрын

    Thank you to the panel❤......nna i wanna laugh with Ntate Rametsi the whole day nje.... he will heal my anxiety with his playful beautiful energy 😍.....Chef👌🙏🥰

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 😂 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @kanegokgaphola1100
    @kanegokgaphola1100Ай бұрын

    Yesterday i've spend the whole day waiting for the show Chef. But thanks for the show.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies and uxolo 🤗 ash 🤱 exams but am done Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @morena_kwena
    @morena_kwenaАй бұрын

    For me, it’s a blessing. Yes the journey is not easy, and the few hard/negative moments can sometimes overpower the positives. But it remains a blessing to be able to help people, be it you like it or not.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @lorramokoka7778
    @lorramokoka7778Ай бұрын

    Hi Chef nice topic today.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @user-my8dd6rx6c
    @user-my8dd6rx6cАй бұрын

    ❤❤this is WOW ka nnete. Thanks Chef❤❤

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @bezile777
    @bezile777Ай бұрын

    Thanks again chef Phathanani Mbatha ❤❤❤

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @lindiwemtshali5034
    @lindiwemtshali5034Ай бұрын

    Dumelang baloi modimo keou, Setswana same🙈 Chef uyisigebengu esinezimfihlo, kanti ucula kamnandi kangaka 👌🏽❤️ Mkhulu Solly uthi uyamhlekisa, sekuwumasihlekisane wakho from today hense forth. Ngithanda ihlo abuka ngalo impilo umkhulu Solly ngathi angaphinde abuye futhi kube yini nobabili nje my Chef and yes muhle haai ngiyakuvuma lapho. This I have discovered recently the creator of the universe gave the right to love everybody and be loved in return by everyBody to oxygen & oxygen only. Thina abanye wathi kithi ngzobastrong shem 😘

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Ave ngikuthanda we my Munchies Lindiwe 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 uyazi Foward we go Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @vipertron5332
    @vipertron5332Ай бұрын

    That is so true 🔥♥️

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147
    @beautymanoto7147Ай бұрын

    Mkhulu Solly, o buile di nnete fela, dingaka di matsapa mamenemene a ba tlogele go tshameka ka batho

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @user-vi2mm3rq5e
    @user-vi2mm3rq5eАй бұрын

    Chef phathanani ngokukhulu ukuzithoba I think one day you should host interview under topic of as current generation izinto esicalene nazo nje it is because we are not following our cultures or traditions or we are not praising God enough.Remember God he is the creator of all things.ubongoma etc I think you should host ask abo Gogo Dabuluvalo ukuthi yini into ewrong esiyenzako sibabantu ukuze kube nje?

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @pinkyseshabela2844
    @pinkyseshabela2844Ай бұрын

    Beautiful episode 👏

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @NkosinathiTembe-nj6dh
    @NkosinathiTembe-nj6dhАй бұрын

    Yes bayamonelana ngibone ngontwana wemshana wami.Ugobela wakhe she was interested on the alcohol not the msebenti wekuletha umntwana ekhaya.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Ash yah kunzima my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @tebohomoalosi7333
    @tebohomoalosi7333Ай бұрын

    Thank you Chef for bringing ntate Solly but he didn't leave his numbers. God bless you Mr Phathanani❤

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @katlehonglibrary3606
    @katlehonglibrary3606Ай бұрын

    Masibonge Chef ngathi this topic can be revisited "Crime ebungomeni" maybe this time invite izangoma thwasa and their associations to unveil even further even for Thwasa's protections from side of Association yobungoma sihleli nabantwana bethu because of this "Crime +Exploitation" ebungomeni iqiniso alikho always

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon will definitely do that Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @nobuhledubem
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    Thank you Chef and the panel. Chef I question yomlamjwana can they address umlanjwana raised by a single mother using surname ka mama or eka baba but ubaba left and idlozi lakobaba yilo elimembethe. No step father issues

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @Lebohang-hi7ud
    @Lebohang-hi7udАй бұрын

    This time mkhulu Ramasti akazange ajule or go deeper but I love you mkhulu

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @skaffanoia7953
    @skaffanoia7953Ай бұрын

    I wish Solly could explain more regarding a Sanusi. Do you perhaps have video covering Sanusi as a hole you can refer me to?

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes we do Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @Ameerah07
    @Ameerah07Ай бұрын

    😊the first to watch at 04:31

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147
    @beautymanoto7147Ай бұрын

    iCrime ebungomeni, yhooo kubi bayaloyana

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @nontlantlamfengu3095
    @nontlantlamfengu3095Ай бұрын

    Hi chef sicela uke organise abantu abatwase isixhosa pls

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @agnes2647
    @agnes2647Ай бұрын

    ❤️✨️✨️✨️🎉

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @NolubabaloSongcata
    @NolubabaloSongcataАй бұрын

    Enkosi kakhulu ngemfundiso "Makhosi"

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @daisymokgoshi3885
    @daisymokgoshi3885Ай бұрын

    Hi Chef P... Mina i would like to ask on the following and any munchie who has understanding is also welcome to share their knowledge.... A person o thwasile but never went to initiation school (entabeni/komeng) because the family doesn't practice such, does that have effect ka bongaka? What can be done for someone facing such if it has an effect?.... Secondly a child that died at birth who was never given a name and ithuna lakhe its unknown ukuthi likuphi and uyahlupha spiritually what rituals needs to be performed to rest their soul?

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies good question 🙋 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @unbalancedelements
    @unbalancedelementsАй бұрын

    Chef my chef, why haven't you brought gogo maweni here, net for control.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @ZamaNisiMthembu-fi1qb
    @ZamaNisiMthembu-fi1qbАй бұрын

    So we need the church for us to know God? The very same church that speaks against ubungoma? So before the church we didn't know God?

  • @ZamaNisiMthembu-fi1qb

    @ZamaNisiMthembu-fi1qb

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    Spiritualists tend to really cop out when it comes to the core of the topics around African Spirituality. I don't know if it's because they haven't let go as yet. If they're scared to let go of white indoctrination. If they're still trying to figure it all out. Or they're just trying to please the masses that they know are still brainwashed and thus need to pander to them in order for their bread to still be buttered. Whatever if it is, I pray our great-grankids are able to stand in their truth as Africans.

  • @rawamothoa9935

    @rawamothoa9935

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    UYAWUZ’UMOYA….!!!!? EMakhosini 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🐆🐆🐆🐆. Enkosi to you Munchs on this here topic….Allow me to say this basadi ba na le diphiri and we see already here uGogo automatically took a defensive position that how can they come and claim umntwana when they didn’t do anything for him…forgetting it was their child and not the elders who denied the child. If you are born with the gift it doesn’t matter your human status or position on this earth it will be revoked and one must follow suit. King Shaka was born angu’mlanjwana and today the Zulu nation prides itself on his accomplishments….heck even his name can be looked at as a curse ( Shaka/bug/insect)). If one looks deeper into family histories one will learn that it has been well hidden this issue yo mlanjwana. AbaNguni/Ngoni have subjugated many and took woman and children as war spoils. Now whose surname are we to use if those captured and married into the clan without proper traditional ceremonies give birth to our new nation….which surname are they to use and whose practices to follow I ask….? We keep hearing of “foreign spirits “ forgetting our history as a people. My people will come and claim me as their own because they follow the master plan and I carry their messages to the future in mine genes whether my biological did right or not….”Inkosi ayi khuleli/khuliswa ekhaya (sic)” the saying goes…. MAKHOSI 🐆🐆🐆🐆👏🏿👏🏿UYAWUZ’UMOYA….!!!!?

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies. Amen 😁

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @nothandonxumalo4460

    @nothandonxumalo4460

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    exactly. Great question

  • @leimelabusi1456
    @leimelabusi1456Ай бұрын

    THANKS SO MUCH GUYS AN TAKE CARE🙏

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @user-qn6zn8yn5p
    @user-qn6zn8yn5pАй бұрын

    ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @Ameerah07
    @Ameerah07Ай бұрын

    Wouldn't be great to have mzansi " celebrity gogo's and watch the table burn 😂😂😂😂😂😂 " e.g gogo maweni, umdeni starring "I forgot their names" the pedi gogo and the mamelodi gogo

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 😂kakhulu Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @beautymanoto7147

    @beautymanoto7147

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    😢

  • @nailandbeautymohlabi5250
    @nailandbeautymohlabi5250Ай бұрын

    Thokozani emakhosini Chef on the next episode can you kindly Invite just these 3 people. Gogo Dabula, Solly, bhilankulu. So that they can unpack the different types of mnguni and mundawu. And how are they correctly fixed.

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies yes soon will definitely do that Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @daisymokgoshi3885

    @daisymokgoshi3885

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    Yes please

  • @bettymarumo5471
    @bettymarumo5471Ай бұрын

    I understand Mkhulu Solly's argument ,but according to my understanding there's always a difference between Spirit and Flesh because sometimes what's expected from a Spiritual person it's of spirit and not of flesh Hence there are 6 stages of spirituality which are very different and some spiritual people end up committing suicide or end up in a psych ward if not being a 2 edge sword of blessing and a curse I don't know. Just saying 🤷‍♂️

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @MalusiLesufi
    @MalusiLesufiАй бұрын

    😂😂😂 been waiting for the new eposide since yesterday on 00:00am finally, finally 😂

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies 😂 😂 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @vusie3615
    @vusie3615Ай бұрын

    Siyabonga nice episode, nginombuzo anyone kuma comments can answer, umama ozala uMa ngikhuliswe nguye and ubaba usanda kungifaka esibongweni sakithi ungifake last year so manje sengihlangana nentokazi ebiza isibongo sikagogo wami ongikhulisile and ngathi ngizibika kuyo ngashaqeka isisho isibongo sayo, kulesimo ngiyaqhubeka nayo noma ngiyayiyeka? Ayiphumi ekhanda lami

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @Buntle7

    @Buntle7

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    Amen, if I'm hearing correctly, you were brought up by your Grandmother, basically ovela from isibongo sakoMalume. As far as I know, in my Zulu/Nguni culture, that is not allowed. The next level if this was ur Mom;s Granny I believe may be allowed via a sacrifice yeMbuzi or whichever is allowed in your culture. Not sure if its the surnam,e of your Granny if that is allowed. Its about isisu ovele kuso, regardless of your Dad ekufake esibongweni whioch is a now thing. I'm more concerned with how are things going for you in general since you've moved to your Dad's surname...You can just ask your Uncle's from Mom's side or ask your Dad what their viewpoint or stand is on dating or potentially marrying someone who has the same surname as ur Grandmother and Great Grandmother just to see parameters around that. Its something we should know about either way. All the best to you Vusi

  • @vusie3615

    @vusie3615

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    @Buntle7 Thank you very much for taking your time to explain and your comments makes a lot of sense mgiyabonga 🙏🏿 I'll just pray the feelings die out because even if when ngiphahla the first surname I use is my grandmothers surname. In terms of how are things since I change my surname, for now it normal there are no good or bad things in experiencing at the moment and it been a year since the ceremony happened. Thanks again and God bless you

  • @rawamothoa9935

    @rawamothoa9935

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    ….ka setswana ke motswala , your cousin and is not from your biological father’s side so Batswana are allowed to marry such cousins because your mom ,if they married your dad, is not of your kin and uze nge nkomo at your fathers….she is viewed as an outsider to your clan . So they will bless the marriage/ relationship and has been doin it for years. Hence the saying “motswala nnyale dikgomo di boele sakeng” ….

  • @vusie3615

    @vusie3615

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    @rawamothoa9935 My mother and father are not married to each other, and yes the girl in question has the same surname as my granny who is the mother to my mother. Thanks for your input, I'm gathering a lot in all these comments

  • @lorramokoka7778
    @lorramokoka7778Ай бұрын

    Ntate Mathabathe speak Sotho you are not flaunt in Zulu

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha

  • @daisymokgoshi3885
    @daisymokgoshi3885Ай бұрын

    Hi Chef P... Mina i would like to ask on the following and any munchie who has understanding is also welcome to share their knowledge.... A person o thwasile but never went to initiation school (entabeni/komeng) because the family doesn't practice such, does that have effect ka bongaka? What can be done for someone facing such if it has an effect?.... Secondly a child that died at birth who was never given a name and ithuna lakhe its unknown ukuthi likuphi and uyahlupha spiritually what rituals needs to be performed to rest their soul?

  • @munchiesandthoughts9222

    @munchiesandthoughts9222

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    Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies for the question 🙋 Regards Chef Phathanani Mbatha