I left into hiding 4weeks before the wedding coz the red flags were becoming bloody red .17yrs later I dont regret my decision .Narcissist are so good to other people to shield their toxicity

@TheTeaWorld

3 ай бұрын

Truth

What a mature woman I really learned a lot❤

@TheTeaWorld

8 күн бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

I love this. You are God's favor personified. Thanks for edifying us with your testimony sister Annah.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍😍

We see the red flags, then believe we can change and heal the broken. Wrong move.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Yah

@dineobonakelemokoena3477

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your testimony🙏🏽

You are such a living testimony

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Amen

Marriage desperation gets and keeps women in very toxic scenarios. “Men of god” average worst abusers and they know the church is where they will get billable naive desperate women who jump into marriages ignoring all red flags. God doesn’t call us to be dumb. He calls us to use our spirit of discernment.

@faithing88

15 күн бұрын

Then she makes it seem that God failed yet she is so perfect that she heard God, which failing lying god did she hear

It's like you're narrating my story. I went through the same route. I left after 4yrs as he cheated after tolerating all the narcissistic behavior

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

It's hard dealing with a narcissist because they always act like you are the problem, healing to you Sis 🫂😍

Indeed, you are a living testimony, my sister 🙏

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Amen

Living testimony indeed ✨️

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

Amen 🙏🙏🙏 Beautiful ending with herself..

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

What a story ❤❤❤❤,

You are a living testimony mommy ❤❤

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

A Healed Queen❤

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Oh yes

The willingness to endure and stay after everything puzzles me, faith is really a powerful thing. Am glad though you eventually left.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

💖💖

The guest is so eloquent ❤❤❤

@TheTeaWorld

3 ай бұрын

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

God restores 🙏🏿🙏🏿

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Amen

Happy ending 🎉🎉

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Indeed

Prayer is a seed he is suffering the consequences and all your previous pains.❤ you mogal.

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Eish

Amen 🙏🙏

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

Amen 🙏🙏 glory to God

@TheTeaWorld

27 күн бұрын

❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍

Hey beautiful lady....you tried....am so happy for you....I trust you nicely reconnected with your own family...

@TheTeaWorld

8 күн бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@TheTeaWorld

8 күн бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

It is good to Allow the guest talk without too much interruption 😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Noted ❤️

I hear everything she is saying neh but I can't wrap my head around this... You married into a family who's culture encourages leaving your kids behind😢. What kind of practice is this? What is the reason? What is your child supposed to do when mum or dad leaves them to build a home with another man or woman in a different location? Die? Hang in there? Be strong? See what they do with their lives? Please, may those who know more about this please balance me. How is God approving of a union that is going to leave his innocent children neglected and stranded. Children never asked to be born. Please stop leaving them with gogo's and uncles for marriage, please😢.

@mokgohloentsoane7607

Ай бұрын

The rationale about it is , the child born of another man before marriage is better of with the grandparents because the mother is going out to try life , which will likely affect the child negatively ( in the eyes of elders) . Elders presume that the child may not be well accepted by the mother's in laws because the child isn't theirs.

Who is this lady? I need her advice 😊, something to do with education career

She speaks so well😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Indeed ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Iyoooh...this is a lot

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

🙏🙏

I had to come back again...this is not God and this is not the work of Devil. THIS IS BAD DECISION AND BAD JUDGEMENT. IYOOOH 😮😮😮😮😮😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

🙏🙏

Joooooo mokgotsi 😮😮😮😮

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Many young people who met their partners this way have either ended up in divorce or some are enduring loveless and abusive marriages by spouses who claimed to have been sent by God to marry them. Many such men are known to be problematic in their outlook and behaviour, yet pastors have allowed them to go on and marry innocent women! I wish she had listened to her family!😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching ❤️❤️

Desperation is a road to depression 🤞

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

💔💔💔😢😢

😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

💗

The marriage was disaster from day 1 shame😢but we learn frm our mistakes,it's true when they say what doesn't kill u makes u stronger...

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

True

The narrative of a battered and bruised woman is tiring honestly, women are always presented with choices.

@TheTeaWorld

3 ай бұрын

Yooh Thenjiwe okay

I don't think from the beginning you heard God saying yes maybe your consciousness was the one convincing you my sister no no this can't be. This one was sent straight from hell. So many people who where against this including your mom can't be wrong and it was eventually proven.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

I think your husband was a narcissist my sister, that what im picking up spiritually,bt there must be a reason why he targeted you. Probably God was trying to teach you discernment and to trust the inner voice when it speaks to you, cause it did warn you but you didn't listen. Im so happy you're healing

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Interviewer : let the person tell her story in the beginning before asking questions that would form the end later .

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Ok

@mmeme5861

8 күн бұрын

But she is asking valid questions....this is an interview remember.....

But love yourself more Madam, marriage was never an achievement 😢

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

The man was not wrong to run his wedding his way, family comes first before church.

@thebemphahlele4773

4 ай бұрын

It's not he's wedding. Their wedding. He cannot do things he's way alone

@user-vb6rt5le9j

4 ай бұрын

He was wrong. It was their wedding not his. And you cannot run your wedding without involving the church. This sister married a monster

Horrible, Horrible experience 😢 ma'am but beautifully narrated. Unfortunately besides Pastor Chris who was mentioned in passing i didn't get even one good person in the story but the narrator...

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

🤔 💭

Where on earth will you get a teaching post from? Bathong? He was not normal, jho! I love you, e tlo bolaya batho strue!

@TheTeaWorld

20 күн бұрын

Straight 😪

Kao jaja ous Anna, how on earth would you quit your job for a man😫!

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

😶😶😶😶😶

@nganzistefania2856

4 ай бұрын

I know so many woman that did that and are being abused still. Things we do for mjolo neh 😢

@PhomoloTessa

4 ай бұрын

I know they say”never say never” but Mina NEVER shame

I’m just wondering how was the honeymoon if treatment was like that 😢

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Ja neh💔

The bible says the blessing of the Lord ADD bo sorrow so please you didn't hear God say go ahead and marry, your soul and emotions told you to marry, DONT LIE AGAINST the Holy Spirit. God cant ask you to go into a covenant that is special to Him for Him to FAIL the people rhat heard from God were the ones that said dont marry NOT YOU Please dont exalt yourself, accept that you didn't hear God but your fleshly needs, let's humble ourself and have repentant hearts, cos now you making your HOLIER THAN THOU, I had a child before marriage, I was a christian, God spoke to me to Marry then marriage fails oooo God said it would be hard still marriages failed, making God a confused liar. I rebuke you.

Nxese sisi

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂

I'm not surprised, when things go wrong in a marriage it's always a man's fault.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Ok

All this debts while buying people cow he was really a problem

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Yah

But showing off ex bf Pic wasn't good

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

Why is that?

I don't believe this, a man of God can't beat his wife.

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

You must be living under the rock

@asiphileni8949

4 ай бұрын

Its all the man of God that abuse wifes and kids. They also abuse the congregation financially

@user-kp9ll1qu5n

4 ай бұрын

Everyone belongs to God

@masandefuzile2261

4 ай бұрын

@@user-kp9ll1qu5n Some choose to worship devil or ancestors.

@user-vb6rt5le9j

4 ай бұрын

Are you for real?

Agreed this man is a narcissist. But I really hope you too have learned something from this. Like honestly ask yourself why you allowed this to happen to you. You need to address that, and work on healing that part of yourself. We all need to love ourselves a little more as women maan, so that we can have the courage to walk away when treated this bad.

@TheTeaWorld

14 күн бұрын

Exactly, Healing begins there...why we allow pain 😢

😢😢😢😢😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

💖💖💖

This woman gives me like Owami (my husband this n that) look like shes blaming everything to her ex ...can we hear ex husband story also....

@TheTeaWorld

Ай бұрын

Hopefully the husband may come one day 🙏

Why are you showing your husband to be your ex picture? Absolutely wrong wrong wrong! Confessing that you have a child that was enough but showing him the picture hai no iam a man it will not sit well with me!

@thebemphahlele4773

4 ай бұрын

​@nomtha9695 and there's a scripture that says not every is matured for marriage

@user-vb6rt5le9j

4 ай бұрын

The son had a father eventualy they were going to meet

The interviewer Queen needs to talk less .😢

@TheTeaWorld

4 ай бұрын

The interviewer Queen is doing her own style of podcasting by having a conversation with her Guests. Sorry for the inconvenience caused 😘

This guy was in a cult.He gave up ur kids as sacrifice

@TheTeaWorld

20 күн бұрын

💔💔💔💔

😢

@TheTeaWorld

13 күн бұрын

💔💔💔