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Story 1: How would he ever be the jerk in this situation? She left willingly after disagreements, had hidden the deeds of the house (most likely theft/destruction of legal documents, a crime itself), and called the cops under false pretenses to gain entry into a property she did not own. In no way shape or form the jerk.
@jaydavis155
10 ай бұрын
And this was in Germany. The Polizei there are pros. They are trained to see through BS. They also take no crap from anybody.
@linaleblanc8288
9 ай бұрын
Exactly
@XSilver_WaterX
7 ай бұрын
Karens of all cultures are becoming a nightmare! Law give me power to at LEAST end them!!!!
@havoccc10
7 ай бұрын
Destruction of legal documents is a federal offense if I remember correctly
@3adgamd3r
7 ай бұрын
@@havoccc10it would be in America, but this story is from Germany
"SHES YOUR MOTHER" had me rolling on the floor.
@SH-qs7ee
10 ай бұрын
She's not his mother, a mother doesn't believe she's entitled to make a nuisance of herself to her children.
@kadenzheng9159
10 ай бұрын
@@SH-qs7ee I meant how he said the name
@Lethalia
9 ай бұрын
These stories are not to be laughed at. People will think you are a narcissist.
@kathyelliott6051
8 ай бұрын
What a beautiful woman 😵😱
@YourMobileGamer2022
Ай бұрын
lol same
The mother sityation happened to me with my best friend of nearly 20 years. We haven't spoken in the decade since I evicted her. And I don't care. Her treating me and my home with such contempt killed everything I felt for her.
@linaleblanc8288
9 ай бұрын
I can totally understand that
It’s not the prank she was upset over. It was the fact the son said the women looked like pieces of art. Making the wife feel less than. That’s why she was upset. It wasn’t really the prank on the other women. She didn’t like it, but it was his “they are pieces of art” comment essentially. Just for those who didn’t get it 🤷🏼♀️
@sqill_1146
11 ай бұрын
In a guy pov I agree because he's basically drooling over them
@edwardfabbrucci3437
11 ай бұрын
I agree, he completely missed that point, maybe he should actually pay attention to what he is reading and take it all in because she actually said that's what hurt her not the prank, she is not the jerk and neither is his father, the husband is the jerk for saying his bosses wifes are hot, how would he like it if she said her friends husbands were hotter than he is and wanted a picture of them
@ruairi9109
11 ай бұрын
I thought the context to the pieces of art was more about the sceptical of the prank more then committing on the wives
@jaesaiyan
11 ай бұрын
Exactly and the fact he said to send him a picture like come on now..
@grayross3137
11 ай бұрын
Even then tho her reaction was a bit much, would it have killed her to say how that comment hurt her feelings in the moment? And the answer is no obviously
In story #5 she says that her husband made a comment on how the boss’s wives were both beautiful and are like works of art, that’s why she made him sleep on the couch.
@Chalkadoo
11 ай бұрын
Exactly. It wasn't the prank it was the comment he made. She even highlights that she told the mother-in-law that she wanted to see "what kind of man she raised".
@svenjorgensenn8418
11 ай бұрын
Nah. It's obviously a joke. The woman is angry because whamen.
@Chalkadoo
11 ай бұрын
Ah yes, "because woman" truly Sven here has the fairer sex figured out lads. We can all go home.
@PaperMarioFan64
11 ай бұрын
@@svenjorgensenn8418 🤬
@Mistfall254
11 ай бұрын
@@svenjorgensenn8418 not cool not cool
Kenzi/Katie Story: So these two women were trapped in part because OP (who never had to live with gmom) controlled the checkbook. OP made his sisters free live in caretakers and then belittled the consequences. Yeah, he's a judgemental AH who can't see his part in his sisters' struggles.
@songofphoenix2288
6 ай бұрын
Not to mention they were still teenagers. My mom got a rare auto-immune disease when I was fourteen, and it took away my childhood. She became cruel and vindictive. And to this day, I don't think I could ever forgive her for taking that from me and treating me badly for being tired of how she treated me because of it. I flunked my classes because I was CONSTANTLY taking care of her and my mentally handicapped sister. I have a feeling that that's why (I think it was) Kensi was having so much trouble in school.
Story 1: The mom was definitely in the wrong to justify her actions by saying "I'm your mother". Nor is she justified in demanding the keys to the house.
@Theycallmeobito
10 ай бұрын
If your in a country where mom's are loved too much , the first story will be justified
@mollymcmurray9583
10 ай бұрын
When I read I'm your mother, Mother by Megain Trainer played in my head.
@Tewaz1
7 ай бұрын
I will never understand parents who feel like their being a parent was some service they provided that demands gratitude bordering on obsequiousness rather than a responsibility that they took on when they made the decision to have a kid.
@zoeyzimmerli4166
5 ай бұрын
@@Tewaz1 so funcking true
@rustyrules4264
Ай бұрын
I heard that sentence many times over the years. I’m your mother 😩
Love the senior woman’s sense of humor. Definitely not a jerk.
@haworthlowell805
8 ай бұрын
No kidding, love her.
@Eeveechuthecrazypan
7 ай бұрын
I hope I’m like her when I’m older. She is my new idol lol
@HappyBeezerStudios
5 ай бұрын
I love it when seniors use their time and sense of humor to give jerks a bit of payback. I noticed that there are two main groups of elderly you encounter, one is the "back in the days it was better" and "the youth is lazy" kind, the other is the exact opposite. The fun and intelligent once that have more than enough free time to make jerks get what they deserve. The kind of grandma that see that a cashier is a pain to their coworkers and decide to come 15 times to the store, each time only buying a single carrot, and then paying to the cent (which obviously takes ages, since they are old and can't see well) to waste the jerk's time.
@NoThankUBeQuiet
4 ай бұрын
Mmmm.. I don't know. They were rude but I think she was ruder.
@july8xx
2 ай бұрын
@@NoThankUBeQuiethow wrong you are. Once someone tells you that they are also a customer but they insist you help them you are no longer obligated to be nice to them. If they don’t want to hear what you are saying and are rude to you what ever you do is just fine, they brought it on themselves.
The story of the sisters caring for their grandmother hit a nerve. My dad was having issues and died when i was in high-school. Im the oldest of 3, so i helped care for my siblings and helped him for years. Im in therapy now for things that happened before he passed. Helped with his medical issues, helped care for my siblings, youngest brother has autism... it was a lot. Ive struggled to come to terms with the fact that i will never know why he let this fall on me. There are somethings i understand he couldnt do anything about... but at some point he just gave up. This guy has no idea the kind of stress and trauma that comes from these situations.
From my understanding the wife was upset about the prank but what drove her to put him out on the couch was him saying they were beautiful. Then the father in law made a joke in a way that could've been hurtful to both the husband and wife.
@svenjorgensenn8418
11 ай бұрын
Meh. She is just an angry feminist.
@mulisagaming7916
10 ай бұрын
Yeah that makes sense there seems to be some weird jabs towards the wife and her appearance which seems like such a characteristic red flag from the father in law and family but also I do think it is odd that it did seem like the wife wanted to turn the parents on the husband in order to hurt him hiding behind an excuse of “I wanted to tell the truth” the husband said “you know how my parents are” which I’m sure the OP does so essentially turning potentially overly snobby, annoying, and attacking people against the husband is not something I really like about the OP although I somewhat understand
@darlenekay8712
9 ай бұрын
@@svenjorgensenn8418 Yep, as per usual
@haworthlowell805
8 ай бұрын
It was sarcasm! She was just looking for something to have a fit over & found it!
@kavinaderrow3269
8 ай бұрын
Even as a woman, I find the prank funny.
My mom had keys to a house I was renting. I had been buying things for myself to set up housekeeping. She came in and saw I had 2 sets of new glasses and new, very nice flatware with all the extra things like a gravy ladle and desert server. She took them and replaced my nice glassware with jelly jar glasses and old silverware that was a jumble of silver plate and stainless. She was actually angry I had bought nice things and had not offered them to her and accepted her old things because that’s how children treat their parents “. I reminded her of how when she got married she had gotten a house full of things like living and bedroom furniture, silverware, dishes and glassware. My grandparents had to find money and totally refurnish their house in a 2 month period . Never saw that flatware or those glasses ever again.
@Aidan_Neff
4 ай бұрын
Should have reported her to the authorities honestly.
About the college situation in story 6. Its deffintely possible that she might've had good results in that dream school even if she dropped out of community college. Motivation is one of the biggest parts about studying and if someone cant be fucked to care ofc they're going to fail, doesn't have to mean anything about talent or potential, just the lack of motivation to do a certain thing.
Story 5: you got that wrong, man, the wife was upset that her husband was looking and complimenting at the other two women, so it wasn't only about the prank!! She was made feel less than the two "pieces of art"!!!
The second story about the wife and husband I can see why he loves that wife so much, she's freaking phenomenal!
No, she’s the AH. It’s YOUR house. Giving her the guest house was perfectly nice.
You should have cut ties with the toxic mom way before that happened? Honestly you were doing her a favor and that's how you are treated
@MarsJenkar
11 ай бұрын
If you're in a toxic situation for a long time, it can become somewhat normalized, meaning it takes longer to realize that it _is_ a toxic situation. But it can eventually lead to a breaking point, as it did for OP.
@idk-whyimtoast
11 ай бұрын
... *BRUH*
@ArethaN.A
11 ай бұрын
I mean... Not all person know this and if they don't know then don't be mad. *BRUH*
@kathyelliott6051
8 ай бұрын
She's a sweetheart ..Yikes 😬
Loved how the wife handled that it was great
Last story: Even if he is depressed, he still is responsible for his actions. He made everyone else's life harder. Worse yet, he isn't treating it and is making it worse by staying up late.
@quantuman100
11 ай бұрын
you don't "treat" depression by not staying up late, that's akin to treating pneumonia with a cold pack.
@danielmorton1606
11 ай бұрын
@@quantuman100 Actually, sleep hygiene is literally the most effective treatment. Poor sleep is closely linked to depression. It's more like treating pneumonia by taking someone off of immuno-suppressents.
@grayross3137
11 ай бұрын
And he'd still need to be professionally diagnosed if he even wants to use "depression" and even then it doesn't work
@SH-qs7ee
10 ай бұрын
@@quantuman100 You certainly don't treat depression with 'Modern Warfare II'
@quantuman100
10 ай бұрын
@@SH-qs7ee and why not? unless you actually underwent the 10 years of study and a few more years of specialization, excuse me if I completely disregard your wholly unprofessional opinion. Considering that these trained and experienced people say that doing things you enjoy (something that very well can be any video game) is a good thing while depressed, i'ma go with them. maybe do some introspection as to why you feel so strongly about this, that you seem to believe yourself to know better than the medical community.
Story 2: SHE’S NOT UPSET ABOUT THE PRANK. She’s upset about the fact that the husband called two other MARRIED women beautiful while being MARRIED himself and then objectified them by saying they looked like pieces of art as though that’s all they are instead of the women they actually are.
@loli_slayer69_1
10 ай бұрын
Story 5?
@julian_david4556
10 ай бұрын
Sounds like my wife who always says this “actor is hot” or “that’s my husband” and “she’s pretty”. I don’t mind but I feel it’s a slippery slope if I dare call another women beautiful, cute, or hot. I just don’t date test those waters lol
Great video. I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@juanderuano8969
10 ай бұрын
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@juanderuano8969
10 ай бұрын
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@nicholaswilson1851
10 ай бұрын
Pretty sure I’ve seen this exact same exchange 5 times now on different videos, don’t be fooled
@ritafryer8134
10 ай бұрын
@@nicholaswilson1851 I've also seen this a lot too, I cant help but wonder if it's their way of advertising to desperate people on these places?
@Azazyael
10 ай бұрын
SHELLY RENEE WHITE spiritual advisor helped me fight off psychic aliens from the fifth dimension. SHELLY RENEE WHITE used a psychic tornado to banish them to the astral plane.
1st story...absolutely loved your wife's response to that rude asshole. I hate unnecessary rudeness and usually return it twofold.
@viviennemorgan7217
11 ай бұрын
i'm sorry the wife in the first story
This wasnt an over reaction. She wasnt mad about the prank but about what the guy said. Imagine your partner saying that other woman is a pieco of art. Sounds like to him she is not. But sure she souldnt tell his mother about it. Its their private mater and if she said not your business before then there shouldn't be a problem
#1: You are not the jerk. It's time for Mother to go home.
9:45 She probably spent those 10 seconds actually checking her kitchen sink.
@3adgamd3r
7 ай бұрын
The more I think about it, the funnier and actually believable that idea becomes 😂
@tomconner889
5 ай бұрын
I actually picture water flowing in pipes to understand voltage, current, resistance, and amperage. The sink metaphor got through to her, so it was effective
I love the older couple!! His wife is awesome!! Can't wait to be older and have no filter
@yourface7179
11 ай бұрын
Right loved her reaction to that rude dude 😂
@daykibaran9668
11 ай бұрын
@@yourface7179me too, I really loved this response
@wendybodino135
10 ай бұрын
I’m already like that at 56. My granddaughters 11,13 already working on it and are very good at it.❤❤❤
@haiybug4685
4 ай бұрын
14 almost 15 here and im exactly like that
I love what the wife did. She is my hero.
@kathyelliott6051
8 ай бұрын
💯 EXACTLY
The story of the guy on the couch. What he did wrong was asking for the picture of the owners wife’s and saying it’s like having art. That last part is what hurt his wife. No woman wants a man to say they want a picture of some other woman as art
@joshuaagbettor5610
11 ай бұрын
Idk I thought that he was referring to the look on their faces. As in it being priceless making the prank all the more funny 😂
@kawaibakaneko
10 ай бұрын
@@VelCroweBarIf a joke is insulting it's no longer a joke but bullying
@heliosjollywolf9552
7 ай бұрын
@@kawaibakaneko no, thats just an awfull joke in their opinion, bullying is when jokes are constantly being made at your expense and not in good faith like among friends or self depricating humor
@bobboringname9021
4 ай бұрын
@@kawaibakaneko some one is all ways the butt of a joke
for the first story I actually think the OP isnt a jerk at all and is exceedingly generous. the mom likely just has a history of dick head activity and he was fed up before she moved in lol
The last one hits me where it hurts. Reminds me so much of what I know of my father. I share the same house with him. But I don’t remember anything nice or caring he’s done for me. He’s always on his computer. Barely does anything around the house. Treats my mum like shit. Like her words don’t matter to him and the only way to get him to do anything is to threaten him with a divorce
Story 1- It is YOUR HOUSE. Period. Whatever anyone else thinks, no matter who they are or think they are, does not matter. Last story - Ignore his BS excuses and get rid of the game or maybe the whole system. Treat him the same as a kid who is being an A-hole.
I found the second story hilarious, if I was there I wouldn’t have been able to contain my laughter
Story 2 - of course she’s being a jerk but they deserved it and sometimes you need to act a little jerkily to get through to some people. The way she led the couple around before saying Sit the F Down had me in stitches and I would love to have seen it. 😂
@haworthlowell805
8 ай бұрын
She wasn't a jerk. They were for ASSuming!
@Thetablepower
7 ай бұрын
Yeah agree with that , also I think the husband is a cuckold but I'm not 100% on that.
@ouistitilekiki5679
7 ай бұрын
same is was K.O. LMAO
Apparently they didn't want to deal with her but they still wanted to pretend to loyal.
On the last story, as someone who is a gamer, a parent, and struggles with mental illness, the onus is on you to get the help you need so that you can be present in your significant other’s life and the life of your child. When you become a parent their needs need to be taken care of before you can get on a video game. If you’re using a video game to escape reality, if it becomes an issue don’t be shocked when you get called out on it and your relationships suffer.
Mother should have complied with her son's rules and be thankful that her son took her in.
Story 1 made my blood boil! Why isn’t she in a retirement home of a sort instead? Seems like the mother needs to learn her kids are no longer kids.
Story 3 is like drinking poison to kill someone else...
@DukerGamerz
3 ай бұрын
Lol
Parents would scream at you things like "My house my rules!" and "When you have your own house you can have your own rules!" and then be offended when you do exactly that.
@bsbabes
Ай бұрын
I live with my son (helping him raise his daughter) I'm still his mother BUT his house, his rules, that goes for how the household runs to how is daughter is raised. Maybe I'm an exception but I love not having the responsibility of being in charge 😊
The story with the grandmother could have had a compromise. They could have gotten a home support worker so the grandmother isn't "put in a home". That way the girls could have still progressed in life the way the wanted.
@russlehman2070
8 ай бұрын
Yes. Expecting young adults to put their lives on hold to care for her was not fair. They needed help, whether that involved putting her in a nursing home or hiring some home care.
The tech support story is sooo funny since I worked tech support myself and the stuff I heard has you in stitches at times. The other stories were interesting and funny at times tho a few made me wonder if there was more to the story or someone overreacting at that time. Which can happen when emotions r involved.
If I ever run into a situation where someone thinks I work there, I don't think I will say "I don't work here". Instead I will say, "that's not my job."
RE prank about 2 women wearing the same dress: She’s not upset enough about him laughing at the prank to make him sleep on the couch. She’s upset because he made the comment that having a picture of the 2 women would be like having a piece of art in his home cuz they’re so beautiful. Jealous? Yes! Depends on their relationship just how hurtful that was.
Why were 2 young women expected to put their life on hold? Op was the adult here. He should have taken care of the grandmother. She probably would have gotten better care in a nursing home.
I absolutely love the way she handled crazy people.
People like that are never embarrassed for the way they act, those two especially since they were giving his wife dirty looks. She told them that they were also waiting but got very arrogant about and continued to demand to be seated. So she did
The senior citizen non-employee is my hero! Definitely not the jerk. She's awesome and showed those entitled doofuses!❤😂
And your response would be, "I'm your son." Respect is a two-way street.
Aww come-on
#6 Poster does NOT understand how difficult it is to care for a dying loved one. To lay that one teenagers and then criticize them for wanting to start their lives is reprehensible.
I agree. Everyone should respect others' property. Even mother's . Everyone has boundaries
She wasn't mad for the prank thing its because of what he said "" THEY ARE A PIECE OF ART "" That was disrespectful and she felt less than those women.
Story 5: its not the prank shes mad about the fact her HUSBAND asked for the picture of the two girls and said having it is like pieces of art.
@MaxwellVrooman
4 ай бұрын
Honestly honestly this was just a choice of words on his part because what he meant was the situation was beautiful. It was a very funny situation to him, because these two women despise each other, and they’re wearing the exact same clothes women hate this in general. It was probably even worse cause they despise each other so what he meant to say was the situation was extremely funny, but he tried to make it sound poetic and that’s what got him in trouble.
@ssjuicebox9700
4 ай бұрын
@@MaxwellVrooman I don't think so, he literally said the GIRLS looked beautiful not the situation but if he did mena the situation then he shouldn't have worded it that way and he's still at fault.
@MaxwellVrooman
4 ай бұрын
@@ssjuicebox9700 he said it was like a work of art, referring to the situation of them fighting or resisting the urge to fight each other. Women don’t like it when they wear the same outfit when it’s unplanned, and the fact of these two women already don’t like each other they were either arguing, which was probably the plan or they had silent anger, which would also be pretty funny. The husband meant the situation was beautiful as in very funny it was just a very poor choice of words on the man’s part.
@ssjuicebox9700
4 ай бұрын
@@MaxwellVrooman You can't really make assumptions like that. But as I'm saying even if he did mean it that way he should've worded it differently and he's still at fault.
@MaxwellVrooman
4 ай бұрын
@@ssjuicebox9700 here’s the thing when a man says something more often than not, you have to take it at face value because there’s truly no subject to read. There’s no hidden message. A woman is the opposite when they say something more often than not you have to look for the subtext like if she says, I’m fine with that really means is I’m not fine, I got a problem in women think like that too they think men have some hitting meaning behind what they say, but in this case, and any case of cheating or what seems like cheating on women will see it at face value for once what she sees is called two women and a work of art not seeing the text of that situation was beautiful these two women who absolutely hate each other are wearing the same dress, which is something a lot of women do not like men even worse when the women already don’t like each other mean we could only imagine what happened to that party? It could be silent anger it could’ve been a verbal ass whooping from both of these womenWe don’t know, but he does and maybe it was funny as hell so he wanted something to remember that moment, which would be the picture I do where is coming from, but this wasn’t him cheating or even complimenting these women this was him finding the situation. funny again he just said it in a really stupid way.
This is the best podcast to listen to while cleaning, tysm
Story 1 just like my mom always makes that excuse "I'm your mother" just to justify her wrong and stupid doings for example I have filed a labor case to my former employer about giving my salary late for more than a month I won the case and got my salary with compensation after that my mom said to me "don't file again a labor case it's embarrassing" I told her so mom I'll be quiet if there's an employer taking advantage of me? Is that it rather than fight for my right not just an employee but as a person who worked hard to earn a living? Do you even know the whole story why I filed a labor case in the first place? That's the effects of watching too much stupid drama or being weak or afraid of fighting for what is right? My mom replied "don't talk to me like that I'm your mom" I answer yes your my mom but let me ask you this do you see me as a son for fighting my rights? You didn't wanna hear my side you just assumed I was wrong without knowing even my side if you really see me as a son you will support my rights or not being a one sided weak person and your excuse I'm your mother is invalid a mother wouldn't use that excuse for their wrong or stupid actions like what you are saying too me right now also don't influence me with your weak minded attitude if you can't fight for what is right that's ok with me but don't make me be like that I will fight my rights if I have to if you don't support me then stay quiet and don't lecture me about your weak attitude I'm not interested and I know I'm in the right. After that she walked away and give me dirty looks.
#1 WIFE IS NOT THE AH!!! I LOVE your wife. She IS ME on a good day!!! I get every bit of her & her humor 🤩😍. They really do deserve your wife & I. 😄😁
As a person who suffers from depression and didn’t realize it for a long time, it can be possible to do what needs to get done. I did it for years. I finally sought help and have been on medication for years. If someone knows they are depressed, they shouldn’t use that as an excuse to get out of everything. Seek help, get on medication. Don’t just check out on your responsibilities. It may seem like a huge step and it is, but do it.
He never should have said yes from the BEGINNING! The wife did a great thing, funny and I love it. I've dealt with that type of individual(s) using a computer myself. People want your help, then they refuse to listen to what you are telling to do and at other times telling how it needs to be done, even though they are contacting you for help. Go Figure!
Final story: Even as a preteen kid, I still wouldn’t act like that if my mom needed me to do a chore, much less if I was a dad. He needs to get his stuff together
15:04 he wasn't on the couch because of the prank. He was on the couch because he essentially said, in her mind, that he was a attracted to two other women and he wanted a photo of them for himself.
@shadowfan115
10 ай бұрын
Exactly he was basically making her feel like lesser than the other 2 women and passive aggressively making her feel like garbage
@justarandomgamer7667
10 ай бұрын
@@shadowfan115 not passive-aggressively, that implies that it was his intent lol To him it was just a harmless joke, there was no meaning behind it.
Put her in a retirement home
To the first story: No definitely not a jerk, I would have gave her a lease & had her signed it before moving in to the side apartment & have a clause stating that she can not enter the main house without my permission & that she has her own separate side studio apartment with everything that the main house has minus her in control of my personal space & my own family’s property. She is my mother but she is a guest who is on a lease. She doesn’t have to pay rent or anything, the only rules are don’t go into the main house without my permission. Yes you are my mother but in this house you are a guest so you stay in our guest in my separate side studio apartment.❤️💝🥳😏😜🤪🎉😂😊
#2 Your wife is priceless. Love her.
"I just turned my faucet on. Is there water in your sink?" I'm going to have to remember that one. Because I've had conversations like that before and undoubtedly will again as an IT professional.
Just the title- just hearing it immediately cued my spidy sense I am in for an AMAZING ride like always.
Story 2: I think the wife was hilarious
The mother in the first story is not "owed" anything from her children. She should appreciate that her son provided a place for her to live - a self-contained apartment. The son's mistake was to not change the locks to his part of the house before she moved in. She has no right to his personal space and the expectedéacceotable boundaries should have been made absolutely clear at the offset. Guilt tripping someone into accepting a family member's supremacy should never be tolerated. Giving someone life does not make them your life long subservient - and sometimes "mother" is just half-a-word.
The guy playing the video game to the exclusion of everything else is not ‘depressed’, he’s addicted. He needs the ultimatum to choose between his family and his video games…and mean it! This is classic addictive behavior. It will not get better on its own…
Story#5: Excuse me... did your father-in-law just tell your husband that if he were more successful at his job, then maybe he could have a good-looking wife instead of an average/ugly wife, such as referring to you?!?! OH HELL NAH! I guess we see where the husband gets his manners from.
The wife handled it Perfectly.
9:45 LOL!😂 Love it!
Intitled mom had no right to do this in her kid's house even if she is your mom
"My desktop is not your desktop" actually shows a great way to explain computer stuff to less tech literate people in a way that is far enough away from computers that tehy understand.
Agree "Not A Jerk" and the crimes committed by Mother apply to the verdict. As for the tech bit about desktop, again not the jerk. Much nicer than I would have been under the same circumstances.
I feel like she merely misunderstood the sentence:,, They look like a pice of art". If they despise them than he meant it more like "they look hilarious being mad at each other for wearing the same dress".
WOW! First story, NO he's not the jerk. The fact that he even questions whether he is speaks to how this woman has bullied him all her life.
Nah, your wife did her part perfectly; people should work entitled people over like this more often.
Story 2: wife is LEGEND -- story 4: granson snoozed, they lose
You should have her committed because she is out of her mind.
So, I'm really curious about the story about the people who insisted on being seated even after the OP's wife said clearly that she didn't work there. I see an awful lot of stories like this, where a patron just completely ignores the very clear words, "I don't work here." I worked in the service industry for 20+ years and had more than my share of nasty, entitled, or otherwise discourteous customers, but I've never experienced or seen this particular brand of "karen-ness." Is this a new trend in entitlement, or was I just lucky in that regard? I mean, with most entitled people, I can understand some sort of rationale, even if it's ridiculous, but with this I just don't understand how someone can hear the words, "I don't work here." and still press for service. It's just something that bugs me to no end not being able to understand the thought process behind this one. Any insight would be greatly apreciated!
In the last one, I've been diagnosed with manic / depression. I took my medicine every day, even though my mom called me a druggie. Sorry, Pal. If you're depressed, it's up to you to get up and get help! Put your Big Boy pants on, turn off your game and stop using your 'illness' as an excuse to not doing anything. Ruts are easy to get into. I've read the same book so many times, I'm on my 9th copy. Even my hard cover books have been read until they were in 7 pieces. But damn, Brother. You've got to assume some responsibility! If I'd been the wife in this episode, I'd have left him to wallow in his dirty clothes and go hungry until he got off his butt and did something! She's an enabler if all she does is get angry, but still does everything for him.
The Desktop one was lit
Story 1:Buy her a tv and let her move out. The mother is the jerk.
"AM YA MOTHA" "I'm your son and have a higher fighting capability than you so leave my house or I'll beat you to next week*
In the second story i absolutely love how she handled it and i swear fo jesus.. i need a girl like that.... to marry
First story: that mother is obviously a human who enjoys drama. They feed of other peoples misery
Story 1. Not a Jerk. He did the right thing. Story 2. Wife was not a Jerk. Story 3. No, not a Jerk. Story 4. No, Grandpa was not a Jerk. Story 5. Wife was not a Jerk. It was one night. Story 6. Brother was not a Jerk. Grandma could have had 24 hour Nursing care from professionals. Story 7. Wife is not a Jerk.
Story 6: The brother is the jerk for dismissing how the sisters feel about living with the grandmother. As the grandmother got older, the brother should have hired someone to help out bc being verbally abused by the person you're taking care of does take a toll on one's mental health. Plus, not everyone can deal with taking care of someone practically 24/7 while going to school, whether it's high school or college.
@kittenloverforever5379
10 ай бұрын
it's story 5
@kittenloverforever5379
10 ай бұрын
sorry you were right
@onionbuniono
8 ай бұрын
That's not his responsibility to hire someone to look after their grandmother because he had already moved out. Therefore not the jerk
@14cutiebaby
8 ай бұрын
Dude I agree. Plus he literally took away his sister's future. Like no one is talking about the opportunities she missed that she now never will have because of his selfishness. I'm honestly disgusted. It is never a teens job to care for a parent or grandparent unless they want to. They have their own lives to live. Grandma and Brother were expressly selfish and brother ignored obvious signs of abuse. Shame on him and I hope his sisters can make up time.
@blearghu
7 ай бұрын
@@onionbunionohe was power of attorney and financially responsible for her, which was stated. It WAS his responsibility to arrange care for her, rather than ruining his Sisters' futures
I think the comment that caused him to end up on the couch was the posters husband saying that his friend should send him the picture of the two girls because they're both so beautiful that it would be like having a piece of art. I haven't been in a relationship before but from what I do know women don't like the idea that their significant other thanks another person is attractive. Combined with the fact the poster is said to know the father in law's personality. It could be that part of her fears the idea that some of those traits may be imprinted into her husband and just hasn't shown itself yet or possibility of him hiding those traits. Combined with the fact it's possible that the father-in-law has made comments like this in the past hurting her own self confidence
S2: Love, love, LOVE this woman!!!! I aspire to be this much of a bada$$ if ever in a similar situation!
The fact that the husband say the bosses wives are “ a work of art “ Is a sleep on the couch offense, Period. The fact he and you have not learned this scary. My wife is the most beautiful woman in the world. Anything else, is opening the door to a slippery slope. NO I AM NOT MARRIED. For this reason 😮😢😅😂😊
On the story about the the Father try to get one of his kids interested in, but didn't want it nor did the Grandson. Op your Granddaughter is interested in it and DESERVES the business. NO op you are NOT the jerk. Stand your ground on your decision.
We plan on this set up as I have built our son a tiny home in our backyard. It is mobile also so if he moves away after university he is welcome to take it and buy land. He is a finance major. He has no student loans and a new car. In turn at 45 we have only our home a used car and my husband mother cycle. I have retirement from one job and have started a she shed tiny home business and my husband is also well employed and will be well retired. We plan on 1 home in Florida and a MIL suite for us wherever he, because he loves us and we have boundaries so he wants us around. Also he understands that what we did was a choice not a condition. We didn't pay for school or his semester abroad or gis house or car. His MIL plan can be vetoed by a spouse at any time. We appreciate that's how he wants to live and are so thankful we have a son who wants to be so close and this wasn't a condition of love. His wife will be his necular family and she might not see things his way. We will buy a camper and visit when asked. 😊
That desktop story is funny to me because I've had a similar situation before. I don't think the OP was being a jerk at all, there's nothing wrong with giving a coworker an example in the way that he did if they simply aren't getting it.
S2 we need more women like her. 😊😊😊
Also the prank was just them wearing the same outfit… that’s a really tame joke I think. I mean if I went to some sort of a formal event and saw some guy I hated wearing the same suit as me I’d think, “Huh, what a coincidence.” I think her reaction to her husband’s joke was overdone and her telling the MiL what kind of son she raised really shows that she was setting out to cause trouble for him so even though she didn’t know how the weapons would work she did in fact weaponize his parents against him and that’s on top of the night on the couch that I personally already think was an overreaction!
Not even a little bit. That second wife was f****** hilarious.
Tech story: I can related HARD on that situation. But is worse when you had people who doesn't understand even if you explain it with sticks and stones.
Her husband wanted pictures of the two wives, even if it is a joke, it’s in poor taste now he’s demanding cover, he’s the jerk
@MaxwellVrooman
4 ай бұрын
Is it here’s a thing the husband isn’t the bad guy he just had very poor wording what he meant was the situation these two women were forced and was funny because women naturally hate it when they wear the same clothes as another woman, especially when that other woman is arrival so the situation was probably from an outside perspective now he is a very poor choice of words by saying it was like a work of art referring to the women. It’s kinda like saying enjoy the rest of your day. Enjoy the rest of your 24 hours they mean the same thing, but one sounds vaguely threatening.
the couch one: I feel like there is a little of ESH for different reasons. Husband for the comment he did. Its was unnecessary on both cases. Wife, because she missed literally the point on what the FIL said and bush it off to focus on the husband, despite the main issue still seems to be the husband poor choice of words. FIL, because that comment was literally an insult to OP as well. The only one who isn't a jerk is the MIL because she knew that comment was really out of place on both the son and the FIL. Of course it seems the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
The difference is, who cares what the father in law thinks. The husband should think his wife is the most beautiful woman in the world.