Story 2 struck a nerve. My grandfather had a stroke in 2005 and my father had power of attorney over his health care while my uncle had power of attorney over everything else. My grandfather was my favorite person and my hero. He served in the army during WWII and Korea. He was a very successful business owner and had made himself a good living. My uncle very quickly moved all my grandfather's money out of my grandfather's account and into his. I remember having a talk with my grandfather about his wishes about a year before his stroke where he told me the contents of his will. His money was to be split between my two cousins and myself and I was to get a rifle that belonged to his dad as well as the sword he brought back from his time in WWII. Everything was stolen by my uncle and when my uncle died my cousins got everything and I couldn't afford an attorney to fight this.

@raghubassi4100

Жыл бұрын

Bro u should have fighter for the sword these things are sentimental and u have a will of ur grandfather it will be a easy win for you

@Sin_Falimus

7 ай бұрын

​@@raghubassi4100might not have to pay for like probono or however you spell it

@allaycookie8383

6 ай бұрын

3rd*

"Never lend money to friends or family." That's a proverb for good reason.

Story 4: Run OP Run before her other boyfriend assumes you to be her friend with benefits because that girl definitely isn't in just one relationship

@gotenblack2542

Жыл бұрын

true is sad that this happens i hope op can find someone better in his life

@viviennemorgan7217

Жыл бұрын

you should break up with her instead of being with her.

@xiahoupaul19

Жыл бұрын

She belong to the streets.

Story 2: Your partner can't be THAT hot, get rid of her. She is just jealous of your free time and with that attitude shouldn't be a part of your happiness

The 2nd one: he needs to find a different partner that is more in line with his look on life. It’s ridiculous that she’s demanding he works more.

Story 1: A classic case of why you should NEVER loan out money to anybody, unless you have some kind of agreement in writing, or you can kiss that cash goodbye forever. I laughed pretty good when the OP got out of the tow truck while the "friends" tried to make excuses to the tow truck driver and he called them out on it. Those "friends" absolutely deserved to lose their car. Story 2: If the OP is still making very good money working PT as opposed to FT, and his quality of life is way better, then i really dont see what her problem is. It almost sounds like all she cares about it more money/income, and not the OP's happiness, health and well-being. If she is unwilling to compromise or be at least somewhat understanding, then the OP should really reconsider his relationship, because this will only get worse. Story 3: Stuff like this is why people contest wills. Something tells me that either the step-grandmother or one of the step-daughters did something to the will to intentionally cut everyone else out. The grandmother was probably originally with the grandfather just to eventually get his money, and the step-daughters probably did something to the will to make sure things like this happened.... especially if the executor utterly refused to discuss it. Sounds like something shady really went down there. I know in some states/provinces, you can get legal action just to be able to see/hear the will. Story 4: You know, all the gf had to say was something like "this guy and i used to be FWB before we met, but it was over before we met" and pretty much ALL of this could've been avoided. The OP has more then enough reason to feel insecure or suspicious. The gf is clearly hiding something here. While he may have not found something on her old texts or something, but the way the gf was acting around that Chris, and not wanting to introduce him... i think she's scared that the Chris guy will spill the beans on everything. It's totally fine to have friends of the opposite gender, along with former FWB's or something like that, but the way it was handled by the gf was flat-out wrong.

@winxwinner6671

Жыл бұрын

Thx for writing my sat

Story 1 .. usual freinds .. they are so kind if fhey need money and when its time for you to get what they borrowed from me .. they become like being posessed + paranoid + rude + entittled , next time dont lend or give them what tney want .. usually if some of my friends are like that i give them a fraction of the amount they are asking and tell them .. that annoys them alot 😂

Story 1: next time you're giving someone a large sum of money, make sure you draw up a contract to hold over their heads.

@stoopingfalcon891

Жыл бұрын

They had that already with the car loan, and ignored those payments, hence the repo.

@BlueKnight87

Жыл бұрын

​@@stoopingfalcon891​ Which begs the question: did they just act like an asshole towards OP for the sake of being an asshole (insert "WHAT AN ASSHOLE!!!" meme if the case)? In any case, I think he got the memo.

A life well lived is worth far more than a long boring life, we should all be so lucky as to make more than enough only working part time.

The second story just confirms what bill burr said when some women see men happy they go out of there way to try to make you unhappy

Story 3, you need to have any legal papers related to the grandfather looked it asap

In the third story it’s that moment when you think should I pull out the gun

I think they were flat-out evil, to take $$ and know they had NO intention of paying it back.

Story 1, I hope he got a promissory note or something in writing so he could take them to Small Claims Court

Story 1: if I was the original poster, I would’ve repossessed their TV. If they had bought it with their money, they would’ve admitted to buying it with their money. The fact that they said “ don’t worry about what we spend our money on” after the TV was questioned, basically proves that they used the money they borrowed to get it.

I wouldn't be surprised if we got a part 2 to the first story.

In story 3:- can’t you go & get apply for a copy of your Grandfather’s & step Grandmother’s will, it may cost you to get them but at least you’ll be able to see what’s in them.

Story 1 : never lend money to anyone family friends no one, it WILL ruin your relation

Story 2: I don’t think it is really about whether or not the bills get paid or necessarily about jealousy. She might be thinking about future proofing - retirement savings, stocks, that kind of thing. If she is putting large chunks of money towards that and he is is not, then it feels to her like he plans to live off hers should they decide to get married. She would have to learn to be okay with that imbalance, which is incredibly difficult. His lifestyle is great and kudos to him for being skilled enough to do that - as an American that seems unreal.

@ethanh9275

Жыл бұрын

^This^ The OP of that story was pretty much saying "How dare the person I love and care for have ambitions when I want to sit around." Like, shouldn't a permanent house be a goal? Why would you willingly raise children in a small city apartment when you could afford something more with just a bit more work? It seems like the OP doesn't understand that their mental health isn't the only thing holding the world together

@justinterested5819

Жыл бұрын

@@ethanh9275 1) I think you underestimate how much he makes. A City Appartement in a demanded neighborhood is not cheap. A Part time job often pays worse than a full time Job per hour. Taxes in Germany are very high. 2) "Ambition" is something you have to do yourself, not telling others to do more. 3) "Sit around" He says he does voluntarily work and exercise in his free time as well. 4) No. Not everyone wants a house. A house not only costs money, but also makes a ton of work that has to be done, and there is also the risk of loosing it. Land is very expensive if you want to live even close to city, so on top of the additional hours, there is the travel time as well (at least 5 Hours/Week) that is unpaid. On top of that, there is the need to drive and to own a car (additional cost, stress and risk). 5) Because of 2), 3) (He can care for kids, do the household his wife would have to do), and 4). And its totally possible. A kid can totally live in a small house, especially in a city. They can also spend the money of the expensive trips on more cheaper trips. Additionally, a Flat doesnt need to be small. There are also bigger flats. 6)"Little bit more". At least 10 Hours more work/week excluding driving. 7) He can afford a flat, and his life including 2 trips to abroad/year and can save money. He has a stable life, and probably a good social life. What else do you need?

@justinterested5819

Жыл бұрын

1) He saves money. 2) Thats not necessary. If they want a house, they need to take a loan anyway. And when they decide to do it, he can use the money from saved rent to pay his part, what would make them equal. She wants to life of HIS work as it seems.

@divepup1

Жыл бұрын

Point taken that he says he is saving money. That would make the money thing a little bit more bearable. But if they have been together 3 years the thought of marriage would be there and she would be looking at habits. His habits would fold should he lose that job. And if he is part-time that might be higher chance of layoff. In the US it seems to be. And honestly if you plan to have kids you should NOT have the renter mentality. You should be working to get actual property. You should want to have a homestead for your children to hopefully inherit. That shift is happening for her and not him.

@hellbadvid

6 ай бұрын

This is a tricky question. Sounds like they are living together inn a situation that sounds "close to marriage". It makes no sense to me that he would willingly give up 40% of his income when they are renting. When they retire the rent will still be the same but the income will drop. Work when you have the time before the kids come. If he increases his income by 40% he could spend so much more time with the children by taking time off. And have a comfortable life when they retire. If you still need the time off for mental health. Start working 75% and let the wife do the same.

lesson is don't loan money to friends who won't give you money back.

@viviennemorgan7217

Жыл бұрын

but I'm glad that op got revenge on his friends.

Story 3: Maybe the grandma isn't even to blame. She might have left the money her children not thinking of bio and step differently but her daughter used it to her advantage.

@mikewatts9562

9 ай бұрын

I've seen it happen in person. If the stepsister got power of attorney she probably wrote it all to her side. My grandfather did the same with my great grandfather. My mother, brother sister and I were all in the will but some backhanded changes via power of attorney got everything written to our grandfather

Story 3: The same thing happened in my family with my great-grand father step mom. My great-great-grand father was a WWI vet who lived in France on an island really close to the continent which wasn't much of a deal at the time but is now a popular tourist spot. He had my great-grand father and his siblings with his first wife who died in 1926. He later remarried his second wife who already had kids from a first marriage and never had any with my gg-grand father. Everyone in my family despised them. He died in 1932 from an old wound he never treated after his second wife asked him to treat it. But he didn't leave a will behind, so the 2 family went to court to decide on the inheritance. The thing is that at the time the laws around inheritance greatly favorised the current wife of the dead and so we lost all of my gg-grand father properties to them. It consisted of around 15 houses including the biggest hotel of the island (it still is to this day) and 2 commerces.

Story 1 id definitely would do this to family I have a brother that still owes me $1100 dollars and it’s been two years and not a single dime was paid back

Something tells me either the grandma was playing you all along or the person who didn't want to explain anything manipulated the whole thing.

"you have no say on how we spend our money!" right...but I do have a say in how you spend MY money. a loan to you i still my money.

@KingZorLink21

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, why would you take out a loan for something you can already afford? It’s pretty obvious they used the loaned money to get the tv.

4:20: *cough "She wants to cheat on you." *cough, cough Sounds like we both got something we need to look at... 😂😂

My own sister owes me 700 and if I wasn't renting from our Uncle, I'd break windows at her house

Do what makes you happy

STORY 1: It enrages me when I hear stories like this. I had a relative do that crap to me, only I did get my money back...but only because I publicly shamed them about it.

last story op should break up with her she doesn't seem to really care about his concerns she also prob was in love with the friend but didn't want to say anything though if she is not i fell bad for the friend of hers cause like op said she leading the guy

Never lend money. Only give it as a gift.

The tow truck repo story is interesting. I have worked for a finance co. We have a tow truck on stand by. Since their insurance restrictions wouldn’t allow any other riders they would sometime follow me to the repo locations. Also we gave finders feed AFTER the vehicle was recovered. Interesting to see how other places operate.

Story one If I give someone money I don't give them more till they pay it back

You're not understanding the mindset of Germany they work long and hard all week to get Sundays off that's why it's illegal to even wash clothes on Sunday.

@GrenzGengar13

8 ай бұрын

Das ist mir aber neu dass Kleidung am Sonntag waschen illegal ist, wenn das mein einziger freier Tag ist, wasch ich da meine Klamotten. Kann es sein dass das spezifisch in deinem Bundesland ist und nicht deutschlandweit gilt ?

@notscared5941

8 ай бұрын

@@GrenzGengar13 it is possible. I will have to look that up.

hell I'm taking the TV

The last one is so disrespectful!! She knew what she was doing! Keeping this guy in her pocket just in case. She’s not loyal just because she wasn’t -or there is no evidence- of cheating! He needs a new girlfriend

Love ur vids

you can’t throw the Grandma under the bus, because the executor of her estate will not show you the will. For all you know in the world, she could have said everything is divided up between all the kids which is completely her right to do. You will need to go to court to force her to show the will and if it says anything contrary to what the executor has done with it, there will be fined penalties and possible jail time

Story 2: yea try to find all the original wills and check legal stuff. It would shocked me if the step daughters changed it. Story 1: Every right to do that to them. Story 4: Leave her for the streets

@madsfiedler3884

9 ай бұрын

its not uncommon for people who get PoA to alter the will, so it may have been the stepsisters

Story 1:don’t trust anyone too much even if they’re your friends

Can't the first story sue the friend?

@aparnarai3708

Жыл бұрын

I think it's only possible if the stolen money amounts to more than $1000

@EddieTruckingAdventures

Жыл бұрын

Possibly small claims but I think even that is too small

@zero1zerolast393

Жыл бұрын

Yes but the court cost would make it not worth while for him. He would need to hire a lawyer which cost money, go to court, which cost money, and depending on his "friends," he may have to do this for a course of a year or so.

@zero1zerolast393

Жыл бұрын

​@@aparnarai3708 No. You can sue for any amount of money. A prime case of this was a guy who sue Nintendo for making a bad bad game. In one of the rare cases of them no just giving a refund, they went to court. The guy spend a few thousand dollars before the Nintendo offer deal with the judge to end the court proceedings if they pay back the game's cost. He got his 60$ back.

@itsmedrbob5794

9 ай бұрын

Since there is no contract of payment just a verbal one it wouldn't be worth it after court costs

Story 2... Your mental health is more important. Your partner doesn't care about you. Story 4... She's a gaslighter. Run, run now.

If have a lawyer look over the will in the third story because that does sound fishy for everything to go to one person.

On the other hand maybe this lady and pulled a fast one on you and forged the papers on you her full control of the estate did you ever think of that I don't believe she would do that

Love listening to these stories while Race the Sun plays in the video background

Nice vid

Story 3 instantly sue them

Is called karma lol

i once borrowed from a friend an unspecified sum of money and i promised I'll return it in 7 days but i quickly got the money needed i returned it the next day so i think ill never have to worry about getting my car towed away or something

looks like Switchblade from MASK in jet mode in the BG there...

What you’re supposed to do: listen to the story What we’e doing: watching the dude gaming

Mind boggling for people like this

That is a Good game

If anyone is wondering the game is “race the sun”

1 first story: I would rip the smart tv and destroy it

"No signs of her cheating " you mean besides the literal dates this dude was taking your girlfriend on?

Story 2 kinda doesn’t really sound jealous but kinda scared that he will be unfaithful with all the free time she says it’s about the money for the future but it’s about the fear of what you could be doing with all the free time on hand while making a nice amount

8:00 if I was her, I would ditch my full-time job, for the same part time job as him

Story one: My neighbor (•_• ) | ( •_•)*looks away

11:00 this is something to give to Ugo Lord or Law by Mike, they can tell you if suing is on the table

story 4, Break up with her and leave her cheating ass. She is a 304 and for the streets. Find a better girl and leave her.

Yea man

Story 2: OP does not seem like a native german xD

Story 4 bro run

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Last story w a guy friend being an ex fwb. She been fuckin him for a while. There’s no ifs ands or buts about it. “I’m so attracted to him and never been this attracted to somebody before” is along the lines of what she said. She is guaranteed fuckin him still. Women are emotionally driven, they will not let that person go, they were fuckin before and wouldn’t just stop because of the new relationship… the fact she never told you is even more proof to not believe a damn thing she says, assume she is cheating and move on…

First off I will not give money cash to any so-called friend if they need some gas in their car I'll put 20 $25 gas no problem as far as family if my brother sister asked me for money I would give them a couple of hundred dollars if they need it and never asked for them to pay it back because I would rather give it to him than going through months and years of them owing me something just give it away if I don't have it to give that I don't have to give but her friends know I put some gas in your car and that's about as far as I'm going

Learn this a long time ago when dealing with Estates never never never let someone not related to you handle your part of the estate you will end up with nothing every time all Goodwill all best friends all family turns on you for a couple hundred dollars best thing to do if you have any claim to any estate is hiring attorney that they will work for you and you will get what you are supposed to get and I hate attorneys by all means but in this case you need an attorney to deal with an estate especially a administrator that stealing everything your family has work for

can you make the text blue whenever you’re talking and keep it white whenever you’re telling the story?

What is the game playing in the background?

question, is amithegeinus still uploading?

Hello!

Dose anyone know what the game in the background is?

I beg for the background game

Dude get over it . Not everything you need to know. I’m not a simp it’s called respect. I’m in my late forty’s. Stop being so insecure. Yeah she had a friend with benefits but it stopped when she got you . Sooo what’s the problem.

@ariellak4867

10 ай бұрын

I was looking for this comment. Thank you!

Can some pls tell me the game name in the background 😅

Amithejerk, how come you dont say the name of op in stories?

I would do this to family as well. Heck, I even have done it to family. I only allow honest people in my life. If someone is dishonest they will be told soon enough to run far away. I am not a vindictive person, however I have better things to do than to make an appearance in the soap opera of douchebags.

1:23 1:24

story 2 kann mir wer sagen wo der arbeitet 😅😅😅

The game on first story is called race the sun challange edition. Pin me pls so thay everyone can know

What game iz thiz 4:06

Story 2 - Clearly your partner is the problem. Tell her to get over it and stop complaining or leave. You are not doing anything wrong. Story 4 - For me, I'd tell her to either Stay away the hell from him or stay away from me. No conversation needed.

second story, use the non working time to try to create a revenue stream that will give you additional income

@netto6681

Жыл бұрын

That’s totally missing the point - he values the free time because it’s his time, to devote to genuinely life affirming activities, with no pressure to earn money like a drone 24/7. It’s sad to see the whole of society so brainwashed into wasting their life breaking their backs to feed a few billionaire parasites.

2nd Story - better to just leave the GF. Women are rarely ever satisfied about anything - the key is finding one that doesn't feel the need to complain about it all the time. If you are already going through this now, it will only get worse the longer you stay with her. THROW HER OUT. A woman cannot stand a man being happy - they will inevitably find some way complicate things or interject what they want (not need) to ruin the man's happiness. Better to find someone else that is comfortable minding their own business or remain single, but don't dare give in!

@QuickManEXE

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. That gf sounds like all she cares about is money

@flame1533

Жыл бұрын

He was not able to differ between a good girl and a gold digger

@SenseiRaisen

Жыл бұрын

@@flame1533 Because is really hard to not noticed it until this type of situations.

@robertbarrows6687

Жыл бұрын

....man this is some sexist, misogynistic bullcrap. Something tells me you're one of those guys who'd attack women and blame them for you being single.

@yourface7179

Жыл бұрын

Sextist much no not all women are like that 😑

Story 2- I don't quite agree with him. you have to understand that, yes, it's ok to want to do less work for your mental health, but you also have to understand that your girlfriend is working possibly three times as hard right now , just to make the same income. So from her pov, she probably just sees that you aren't trying at all to ease any of her pain while you sit back enjoying the sweet life in your apartment. It's good to work on your own mental health, but you should also probably think about her as well. I bet you would be a little upset if she suddenly decided to reduce her hours as much as you just to have some free time. Edit- also, if you have no goals, and plan to just live in a shitty apartment your whole life- in which could up prices, then your possibly future kids aren't gonna have a fun life either. And kids are expensive!

Story 3 was pointless to put into your video lol

Hi I guess?

5th comment! Hello people!

For story 3 I don't understand why people feel some sort of entitlement to what other people choose to do with their money and belongings there is no reason for her to give anybody anything when the person states this money could be life-changing it's like you're asking for a handout so I think they need a reality check and to put their grown-up pants on and get over it

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Day 9 of saying the same thing until I get pinned Karen's getting destroyed is one of the best parts of my life

Don't even consider a relationship with a woman that had friends with benefits or open relationships.

@QuickManEXE

Жыл бұрын

If both are long since over, and are 100 honest about it all, then there's no reason why you couldnt have a relationship with someone like that. If they aren't, or suggest opening the relationship up after, then yes, run and fast.

@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd

Жыл бұрын

@@QuickManEXE no habuma is right. Individuals that have had friends with benefits or open relationships are less likely to pair bond and are more likely to bring these topics up again or cheat. Also, there is no way an individual would know they are telling the truth. It is safer, easier, and much more effective to avoid people that have engaged in these activities.

Is it just me or does the narrator call anything and everything "toxic" all of a sudden? Like yes, some behaviors/people ARE toxic, just observing that it's kinda being thrown around in these videos a lot lately (vs any other descriptor)