Send this video to all the enneagram 2’s in your life!! 😍

@theintrovertedchick6757

4 жыл бұрын

I would but I'm scared she will throw the whole drawer of Tupperware at me hahahaha 😆

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

The Introverted Chick hahahaha

@HLANDINE1

4 жыл бұрын

Such a funny video. I'm a 2 with a 1 wing - the servant. So much of this is me.

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Heather L I love this!! Thanks for commenting!

@micheletaylor-depew7308

4 жыл бұрын

@@HLANDINE1 I am, too! lol

Me being a 2 reading the title: Oh my gosh I do things that are annoying? How can I change? Am I really annoying?LOL

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

You're not annoying!!!

@apf4388

4 жыл бұрын

same

@zchane

4 жыл бұрын

aahahaha i felt the same wayy

@littlecookie318

4 жыл бұрын

Totally!!! Lol!!!

@anicucqiridze8419

4 жыл бұрын

Omggg SAMEEEEEE

The “WhAt Is WrOnG WiTh Me!???” was painfully accurate 🤣

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

😂

As a type 2, in social situations, i often feel that my friends need a break from me. If I think I may have offered a bit too much help or anything, I immediately pull back to let the other person have their time to themselves. Also, I want mostly everyone to be a friend of mine. when I don’t know where a I stand in a relationship (do they like me/do they not like me) it is the worst feeling! Great video, on point!

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Brunette Mangaka thanks for your input as a 2! I am a 3 but I’ve definitely felt both of those things in social situations. I appreciate your support on this channel! ♥️♥️

@nuggy9556

4 жыл бұрын

Abbey Howe of course! Good luck, I love what you have created!

@thesingingfangirl6155

4 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY! I GET THAT MORE THANK YOU KNOW!!!

@apf4388

4 жыл бұрын

SAME!

@lizzietimberlake5623

4 жыл бұрын

YES I’m a 2 and often can find myself feeling like “too much” for some people in my life. Like I love helping but...sometimes no one asked (& no one wants it!), lol

Omg the amount of times I've expressed that I don't need help and that I'm fine on my own, only to get frustrated with people for not helping me and for not paying attention to me. 🤦‍♀️😂 This is really helping me to see my faults, thank you so much!

@tanyalemmon8505

2 жыл бұрын

Same! My poor husband! Haha! But seriously... how annoying for him!

I hate being a 2. It's fucked up my life! Ugh. It all resonated with me. The part where we will settle for anything in return. 2's beware! You are worth it and deserve real love. You deserve to be treated well.

@vortiz5

2 жыл бұрын

I would choose to change my anneagram :X

As a 2, I'm personally offended and realize that this was made only to spite me directly.

@syberyah

4 жыл бұрын

(Are you being serious or are you being facetious?)

@JasonHeilmanMusicalRemedies

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@meeyang111

2 жыл бұрын

Touché

I resonate with all of that mess...I didn't realize I was so manipulative sometimes....but so true.

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

lhenle55 that kinda stuff sneaks up on you! 😂 thanks for watching and commenting. I appreciate it!

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

😭 I'm a 2

@heritage.home.crochet

Жыл бұрын

@Dr. OBELA cured me Is this a plug for yourself?

OMG The "Are you mad at me?" one hit just right. THIS IS ME ALL THE TIME!

Just found out today that I am a type 2. I can definitely resonate with expecting things in return or praise for when I do favors for others. I don't think it's necessarily BAD to want the same energy back with things, want appreciation shown or not be the only person doing favors, but I realized today that sometimes I almost guilt people, especially a good friend of mine who doesn't have the same resources to help me as I do him. I'm gonna try my best to work on that

As a 2 I read the title and was bracing myself thinking it's okay just watch the video and don't spiral into shame. I'm so glad I was wrong and that this video was light hearted while still highlighting some flaws of the 2

@AbbeyHowe

3 жыл бұрын

You’re awesome! No shame spiral please. We love enneagram 2s!

My 2 mom went to work when she was sick because she was worried everyone would be exhausted without her...

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, what a classic 2 response! I bet she is a wonderful mother!

@NoPancakeMix28

3 жыл бұрын

Well, yes! Things fall apart at the seams when we’re not around! My boss (8w7) would never let me forget the time I called off due to food poisoning and/or the times I wasn’t scheduled and the restaurant became busy.

@angelawinger1756

3 жыл бұрын

Pp

It's funny cause it's true and it hurts just a little bit

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Oof, sorry it hurts a little bit!! But that's the great thing about the enneagram is it's a tool for growth!

Hi I'm a 4w5 married to a type 2. You are spot on and I wanted to add something I noticed while reading most of the type 2's reactions. From, "What's wrong with me?" to "I need to help everyone because they all need help and because I don't need anything, then I'm the only one that can help them!" I notice the answer may be in both statements. "Everyone has something wrong with them, and we all need help...even you 2." :)

I wish 2s would be more honest about expressing themselves

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

that's really hard for 2's!

@Arzpal

4 жыл бұрын

Thats really hard for us xD

@allisonscanlan4144

4 жыл бұрын

@@Arzpal always room for improvement! It's hard for me too as a 5 but I'm trying to improve

@Arzpal

4 жыл бұрын

@@allisonscanlan4144 do you want to understand 2s?

@allisonscanlan4144

4 жыл бұрын

@@Arzpal I already do haha I have a lot in my fam. And have studied their ennegram in depth

I’m a 2 and constantly being worried that other people are mad at me/not asking for or accepting help are literally my two biggest character flaws LOL

Type 2s ...make you feel warm and fluffy and simultaneously make you want to scream ...loudly..

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

TERRY. W hehehe

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

BAHAHAHHAHA 🤭 sorrryy, but so true! I'm a 2 and usually can't stand other 2s.. ugh, it's like drinking liquid sugar or something

@abigailclouser8621

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan Fisher ME TOO HAHAH I’m a 2 but when I talk to other 2’s I’m like “too...much...positivity...”

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

@@abigailclouser8621 lol, the worst is when it's so fake/ to be liked 🤢 I tend to gravitate to the positivity in 7s 😃 cause it's so pure bountiful! Also, 3s cause it's pragmatic!

@abigailclouser8621

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan Fisher I couldn’t have said it better!

As a 2, I laughed n cringed watching this 😊😭

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, S.N.! 💜

I'm dying laughing at the accuracy of helping with the area rug. Yes! On point.

@kristen7623

8 ай бұрын

That was the same for me. Painfully accurate

Me, a 2: "Thank God she made these for the other types- Now I can better understand the needs of the people in my life!

@StrongestLibrafluidAlive

3 жыл бұрын

I think a lot of people would think this way regardless of enneagram

This was so freakin amazing!! Not only did you nail a 2 (speaking for myself) but the setups were so well done!! You are so funny!!! My favorite line "I want you to be happy, but I wanna be the reason". Dying!! :D

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much, Carolyn!! 💜

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

Omg, yes! As a 2 I COMPLETELY relate to that line. And that's the hardest thing to admit *gulp* 😔

“Is it because I smell?” SO ME OMG

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Nicolle Velez heeheehee

I'm a 2! And when I was at my unhealthiest I was this to the max! And I know this is supposed to be exaggerated! But it is so true!

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, Brittney! 💜 And DEF supposed to be dramatic 🤣

This was def spot on. I really struggle with manipulating especially when I people please waaaay too much and expect mutual respect back and get so angry when it isn’t returned

I'm a 3...i find myself whipping away at 2s so that they say what they mean. I call them out on manipulative tendencies. They follow suit begrudgingly but are greatful in the end

This is absolutely hilarious!!! 🤣 I’m a fellow enneagram 2 & this is pretty accurate. I have the hardest time saying no even when it seems like I am carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I always want to be available for people so they know they’re loved and valued, but sometimes it bites me in the butt because I’ve gotta learn to say NO to people who take advantage of me. Also, I have the hardest time allowing people to help me, even though at times I really might need it. Great job with this vid! 👏

I’m a big stinking 2.... but my expectations of the return of what I give from are very low. They only time my expectations come back to hurt me is when someone takes advantage of my soft kind nature and my inability to say no, and the they throw me aside. I’ve spent myself chasing love...I struggle with fear of abandonment... I’m a lonely 2

@darwinwatterson4568

3 жыл бұрын

hello!! how are you now? :D i hope ur doing better nowadays! i am a 7 and i really like 2s u are the best

Why is this so accurate 😂 I’m a 2w3

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Ooh, that's my roommate's number and wing!

@alastair2375

4 жыл бұрын

Katie Pierce OMG SAME

@yuanaurora6061

4 жыл бұрын

Hi katie, me too! 😂

@christinelyons2182

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! 😂💖

@Melitta-zx4sf

4 жыл бұрын

@@AbbeyHowe Is your roommate a self-preservation two ?

I WENT TO THE DOLLAR STORE TO GET A BUNCH OF TUPPERS SO THEY AINT HAVE TO GIVE IT BACK TOO LMFAO SJDJRJJRC 💀🥴

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHA YES I LOVE THIS

@lmajeski8546

4 жыл бұрын

Guilty 🙈

my wife is an enneagram, but i i tell or suggest to her she is , she will react as described in the description, and she can be somewhat strong tempered at times, so i will be keeping this tidbit of knowledge you have so generously shared... to my self..

@danb316

4 жыл бұрын

type 2

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a wise plan 😜

I'm baking a cake so I can learn how to bake a cake. 😆

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Thompson hehehehe

The “I want you to be happy and I want to be the one to do it.” REALLY hit me in the chest lmao

I am a two and can relate to all of these so much. Eye opening for sure!! Thanks for sharing. Great acting too!! Haha

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rachel!! I’m so glad you relate to these. (2’s are awesome!) And thank you for leaving a comment. I appreciate it! ♥️

@angelarogers4679

4 жыл бұрын

omg me too... every single one of them lol

Omg...I just learned that I'm a 2, kind of questioned its authenticity, then died in laughter and shame watching this....I am guilty of ALL of these, especially at work...I am TOTALLY a 2!!! Thank you!!

I'm a 2w1 and yes I do some of these things but I think the 1 wing keeps me from being completely overwhelming. It also gives me much needed boundaries

I'm a healthy 2 but...yeah...this resonates with me! I can definitely get into some of those negative traits on bad days!

LMAO I've taken so many enneagram tests and I'm always a 2 but I HATE doing the dishes and there are some things I can't relate to about 2s but all 6/7 of these were SPOT ON!

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Rep those non-dish doing 2’s! 🙌🏽

@lizsmith4104

4 жыл бұрын

Taylor Marie Hayden agree, I always say No !

@NoPancakeMix28

3 жыл бұрын

I also hate doing dishes, but I do them simply because it gives my 6 boyfriend peace of mind. Basically if it makes him happier and makes his life easier, I can do it. The life of a two 🤷🏻‍♀️

Oh my gosh that was definitely me in my previous relationship! Always trying my absolute best and accepting eye contact as the best thing I could ever receive from my partner. Even if it was followed up by a criticism. At least he was talking me haha

Wow this is my mother

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Kacey B best comment ever

Oh my gosh... it's so relatable as a type 2 person. Sometimes I do catch myself doing those kind of things, other time my actions can be subconscious. In another word, "I need to overcome the flaws in 2!"

i did a type 2 thing and was freaking out about how i can improve myself to make others happy lmao

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

That's 2 with a 3 wing

The dramatic come apart on the floor when you feel no one appreciates your sacrifices for them... yeah I do that.

I’m a 2 and when my husband asked what he can do to help me I literally implode on the inside. I may know I need help but all the things I need help with would burden him too much and then he might be mad at me -ahhhh! -were working on this 😂

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

Oh gosh... I can relate to that 😣 it's like.. I don't want him to have to help (ideally), but I know there are SO MANY WAYS he could be helping. The very fact that he has to take the time to ask that question is frustrating 😅 tl:dr I'm terrible

@NoPancakeMix28

3 жыл бұрын

Jordan Fisher I am with you! My boyfriend won’t even say the words “do you need help?” but will literally say “just tell me whatever it is that you need me to do”. I don’t have it in me to be bossy! And I can’t let anyone know that I am not Wonder Woman. Besides, I don’t tend to care about MY needs, it’s about everyone else’s.

@jfish032

3 жыл бұрын

@@NoPancakeMix28 totally! Thank God my bf has forced me to chillax and started teaching me that me taking care of myself is helping him to not have to deal with me as a raging 8 😅

For number five, we really want the person/people to be surprised or grateful and tell us that they are thankful

Yeah, I have 2 in my tri-type and I definitely relate to #6 very much... I'm *constantly* micro-managing my younger siblings when I don't think they're doing things right and I'm like "Please, I'm trying to help you do it better just let me help!" And I know it's annoying and I'm trying to stop, but...

I want to do everything for everyone, but if they don't appreciate me... I will lose it. 😂

You’re a great actress!!!!! I actually ranked the same level in types 2 & 4. Very interesting!

Right off the bat.. “I want you to be happy but I want to be the reason” 💀

These are so spot on, every single one of them!! I am a true 2! I've have learned so much about myself and how to love other people better too, since coming to know about the enneagram! Thank you for these!! ☺

I cracked up laughing. Too accurate for this two.

As a 2 with 1 wing I never ask for help. When I do and am denied, I am crushed because it takes so much for me to ask.

Yep, as a 2 I have done or said basically all of these. Thank you for doing this in fun! It was a great way to have a laugh in these difficult times (especially for us 2s because we desire human interaction so badly!)

this is me to a T... every single one of them, it's kind of scary how accurate this is lol

I am so sad at how accurate your last bit was 😂😂 my husband says I do this all the time lmfao

Soo painful 😭😂I literally did the cake thing yesterday to my little brother who was trying to make a nice dinner for his girlfriend 🥰🥰

@jfish032

4 жыл бұрын

Aww! Aha, first step is recognizing it 😅 I'm the same

Lmao this was dope. I’m a 2 and identify a LOT of this! It’s also nice to see the healthy and unhealthy traits.

That had me cracking up! Just digging into the Enneagram for the first time. I'm a 1 w2

This is SO accurate. Laughing at how much this describes me!

This is accurate I could cry lol every single word

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Don't cry, Ventura!

Except for the martyrdom-u nailed me!

🤣 this is absolutely so true. So very me! Thanks for the fun video.

This is fabulous. Very very insightful, for Type 2 and 4 as well. You are an excellent actor! GREAT videos!

I'm a two and reciprocity keeps me going. I can easily pour into people but once I feel it's one sided I pull away and keep it surface cordial only. I'm working on it lol. Your vids are great 👍🏾

I laughed out loud a few times. You are funny and insightful. I subscribed. :)

🙋I'm a 2!!!! And wow this was so eye opening! And I married a 5. I love being in the kitchen and doing for others. I forget about myself often

You're right!! these videos are perfect for sending to the recipient we see in these videos . . .

Your voice and personality is so soothing I feel good just watching these videos.

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

awww this makes me happy

the cake baking hurt me 😆 I'm obsessed with food and cooking, always have been, and I always interject to help my family when they cook so much so that it's become a running joke 🙃

Lol I feel attacked 'I've made hundreds of cakes' when you like that people admire you for your cake skills but it's exhausting and stressful to make for others but at the same time being a 2 you can't say no and will stay up till 4am to make them one, even then you tell yourself it's a mess and not good enough too 🤣🤣

Super new to the enneagram but I’m a 2 and this was hilarious, called me tf out, but came across as intended like the exaggerations helped me laugh at how ridiculous I can be 😆

As a two, I resonated and laughed at all of these!

Def resonate with that last one lol.

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not a 2... but I do this often 🤣

You nailed it. The annoying stuff they do almost negates their "selflessness"

'umm, yeah, pretty much nailed me

I so relate! I really related with the insecurity poetion. Are you mad at me? I do this all the time! Lol!

This is waaay too funny and very close to me seeing myself😂. You did very well expressing this type👍

Thanks for helping me see how fun, helpful and how much I need to be honest!

@AbbeyHowe

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad!

I ACTUALLY got offended for a second and was like "but but but I just wanna help people, I'm not that bad, I promise 👉👈"

My mom and gf are both twos and all of this is so accurate 😂

I can relate with different ones. In my most unhealthy of seasons, I’ve definitely been these. Oh man, I’ve asked that questions many times, “are we good?”. Lol I just want everyone to like me. And I’m trying to get better at saying no and expressing myself better. So here’s to trying to be a healthier 2! Lol

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you are well on your way to healthy "two-ness" Macayla! Thanks for commenting and watching, I really appreciate it!

My mom is a 2w1 and I’m a 9w8.We’re opposites and best friends.She thinks I need her and I don’t like her acts of service cause I want to do things in my own way...she is usually the nicest person in my world but when she get angry or upset... It is important to know why 2s help people. They think others need their help and abilities. Not necessarily to gain the love and affection of others (this is not necessarily a 2 thing.we all need this)

Oh my gosh I'm dying at that last one xD Would be nice to get a little help though!!

This whole vid had me dying 😂 I definitely check all 7 boxes

Super accurate. PLEASE make a type 8!!!

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Coming soon! Next week is enneagram 4!

Hilarious and spot on! thanks for this

The asking for help!!! But not LOL

Yes, yes, yes, I do alllll of those things! Funny!

I'm a 2 and I'm laughing so hard at how real this is. ESPECIALLY the last one.

I can't stop laughing. Because this is just too accurate. they thought me weird. Now this is the answer

I love this video because my mom is definitely a ESFJ type 2 and she definitely does all these annoying things 😂

this is SPOT ON

Hehe... I’m a 3w2. I definitely still struggle asking for help. Like a lot. And I’m 23 at the moment of posting this 🙃. I’ve barely learned how to be okay, sometimes, asking lol.

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Zina, thanks for watching and commenting! I sure sounds like youare well on the way to being a healthy 3w2! 💪

I am a 2, I can understand the attitude of the woman representing the. 2. However, I don’t really do those things. I have worked hard in myself for long time. I can receive help, hmm but it’s still hard to ask for help though … I really love helping others, it fulfills me but honestly, my motivation is not receiving something in return. I do love people and of course I like to be loved but that’s not my motive, I love loving others. I am not the kind of a person that is always serving to others in a party, for instance… I am talking to them and focusing on how they feel… and I love deep conversations where you go deep in the psyche of other human being. I am straight forward and I know my needs and I am able to voice them up. I have a good wing 3 by my side! ♥️💪🏼👌🏻😃

Omg the part where number 2 is always worried if they have negative feeling towards them is so true as a 2 myself when I'm not in a good place I'm always asking my friends have I done something to upset them out of the blue or ask are we okay? And the last part is defo me I hate people helping with cleaning etc like the only person who I let help me clean is my best mate and even then I'm probably double checking she doing it right 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Yuuuup. When my anxiety is up, here comes Captain Passive Aggressive. Trying to corral that . ENFJ anyone? Libra? Teacher? Yup..Hilarious & so spot on. Paranoid of being deemed a narcissist, but is kind of a snob on the inside bc people seem so ... lazy lately. Effort folks. (Sound right? Attention to detail.) Sentimental AF. Mess w kids or animals, & raging demon emerges. Mr Rogers Rules. Let’s all go grab lunch. My treat, just so happy we are all here. (Starves for 2 days$$) Had a domineering person in your life? Lol 2w3 but very close to 3w2. The forties decade seems to bring some self awareness & peace. TGoodness. Great job!! Spot on!

I am a 2. That basely described me. HELP 😂

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

2's are amazing! Just remember to take time for yourself. The healthier you are, the better able you are to help others.

@samgilmore7139

4 жыл бұрын

Abbey Howe Well thank you much appreciated.

Good Lord, my mom is totally represented by this video! LOL

Thanks for educating us while being funny

@AbbeyHowe

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mike!

Yeah I can relate especially with the last one lol 😆

This is SO me. I'm better about some things, but yep. ON THE MONEY.