random 5 here, observing and stuff

@laurenbarber8579

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@maryprice8458

3 жыл бұрын

My bestie is a 5 y'all cute as crap

@christophershanks3567

3 жыл бұрын

Have you come to bargain?

@aliciaseptember

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@asherray4969

3 жыл бұрын

Same

As an 8 woman, I am often devastated by those in my innermost circle not being protective of me. Since it is my 1st reaction to protect those I love, when others don’t do the same for me it is the most hurtful of betrayals. How do I not expect that kind of loyalty from others?

@BenjaminBanks615

3 жыл бұрын

As a type 8 man, I completely understand this. If I wasn’t in a relationship or gay I would marry you. Lol What I had to do, very recently, was take a 120 sabbatical from everyone except from my immediate family. It is giving me a thicker skin and providing an analytical look at myself and the company I keep. I truly value my loyalty and all the attributes that accompany it so I’m more selective as to who gets that honor.

@northwind6199

2 жыл бұрын

@@BenjaminBanks615 This sounds pretty Type 6

@Spearman1951

2 жыл бұрын

The tip of the spear or arrow bolt is called the quarrel. It is the multi-faceted diamond that will not break. Think in terms of history and only the arrowhead is found buried in the chest of your enemies. You are the vanguard and your rest is found in foreign soil. Your compatriots are found in the clash of the first wave, not in the same world as survivors. 🤔

@Msincredible346

2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely relate

@veronicapena3772

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I married a 9 and this is the most hurtful issue of our marriage.

Scary how accurately this explains me. Im a total hothead when it comes to those i care about or when i have been wronged. However, my heart is almost too big at times. Im such a softy but I can turn on a dime.

@BenjaminBanks615

3 жыл бұрын

Dido. Are you a Capricorn by chance?

The make a mistake is spot on if someone breaks something valuable and then comes and tells me hey I broke this I'm sorry I will have no issue with them, but if they hide what they did and then I find out on my own there will be a huge issue

@jennyannhelms

4 жыл бұрын

Sebastian Tuesta yes! Anything that feels untrustworthy usually doesn’t fly with type 8’s - they value integrity.

@The_D_Man

3 жыл бұрын

@@jennyannhelms Yess I hate feeling like I cant trust someone. I was watching meet the parents and I think robert deniro is an 8 in that movie ahahah the circle of trust thing is super 8

I'm an 8w7 and I get so annoyed when people don't just take accountability for their mistakes and I'd never thought of why before, thank you.

Hahaha this is my husband for sure! I'm a 7, so I don't let things get too me very often. I had a stroke and I told him I needed him to be calm. He said "I'm not going to calm down. My wife just had a stroke!" Lol I responded "yeah.... it happened to ME!"

Being a type 8 but a fearful avoidant is a trip in life let me tell you. Nothing is enough and everything is too much. But this is spot on. So protective, so excitable and yes, the quiet when I am hurt and super successful at work at a young age.

@pachildress76

2 жыл бұрын

I too am 8 and avoidant. This is so accurate! My biggest problem with people is by far a lack of loyalty! I am fiercely loyal and protective to a fault lol

I’m an 8 and was introduced to the enneagram by my type 2 boyfriend. I thank him for this.

This is so very accurate and some of the best info I have heard so far of 8's! Thank you! 💖

8's are well developed 2's because their biological personality is empath.

9w1 here 🙋🏻‍♀️ this was super helpful in understanding my 8w7 boyfriend better 💜 I have seen a lot of these traits in him-protective, leader, upfront. It’s also so interesting that they can gravitate toward a 2. This is the first time I’ve heard that but I totally see this in my 8 too. Big hearts for sure 😍

@rayhaveman4886

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a 9 with an 8 too :):) Learning about 8's has helped me soooooo much in understanding and communicating better with him. I use to just assumed everyone's brain thought like mine does... thank goodness that isn't true! Lol.

Could not be more right on...it’s absolutely insane.

Fantastic Overview. In my opinion, this is one of the best "Type 8 in a Nutshell" I've seen. Definitely going to be sending this to some of the people in my life. Merci Madam!

@jennyannhelms

4 жыл бұрын

Fckya Feelingz thank you! So glad it resonated and thank you for sharing - that means a lot :)

Truth :) I’m an 8w7 and I often get so fired up for my friends . If someone does them wrong I’m out to get them . This video was the most helpful I’ve heard on 8s!! Because I feel I have a huge heart and care for others but other videos share the more aggressive sides of 8s that makes us come across augmentative and egotistical Thank you for sharing your wisdom !

@sexyeur

2 жыл бұрын

Hi. I'm 8w7. How are you?

@sexyeur

2 жыл бұрын

I'm INFP-A. What are you?

Wow! This was incredibly helpful!!! Please do more videos on how 8w7 can communicate more effectively.

Growing up helps a lot. Choosing your battles more wisely. Healthy lifestyle and working constantly with my emotional intelligence and inner deamons. ENTP 8w7 (Joker, Antichrist type).

Good stuff. I tend to be forgiving if people admit their mistakes. 8w7

@emilyacoxpsychic

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 8w7, too

This is me. I love who I am, yet I’m a work in progress. Learning how to smooth out my sharp edges. 🦋🌟❤️🔥

Nice job. Good content

Dang this was super accurate for me!

This 🙌🏻 thank you

Way to go! This is awesome. I love it. Great info!

Thank you for the video.

Gosh, this is spot on for my husband. I’m a 4 and both of my kids, ages 13 and 24, are both 2s.

I’m an 8, I agree with everything!

@emilyacoxpsychic

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto! 8w7

Omg this is so me. Thanks for this. I have a lot of work to do cause I am def an intense person. I’m very blunt and call everything and everyone out.. maybe I should chill out a bit 😅

Jenny you described me, type 8 male, to a “T”.. Thanks. #Subbed

Loved this! Can you maybe talk about 8s and how they handle childhood trauma/parentification, as well as their interaction with other 8s? As an 8 I find it always to be a power struggle with other 8s and would love to learn more about how to have a positive relationship with other 8s

@Anna_b360

3 жыл бұрын

As an 8 who has been in a lot of conflict, unless you are more proficient in what you’re doing, I find it’s good to let the other 8 lead. If you are better at the thing but they won’t let up, I like to take a sort of mentor role where I step back but offer help in private

@charmzee8749

2 жыл бұрын

Just talk and try to learn their story. Works on most people , regardless of type . Fight me on that 😂

Nice video! Accurate

I am an “8” and I approve of this message 😂

My boyfriend is an 8w7, and I’m a 9w1. He takes care of me, and our personalities are polar opposites. But we work so well. He’s the greatest ❤

thank you for helping me understand, i'm an 8 with an 8 - i see this play out in our relationship for 4 years -

I can vouch, accurate!

Who would you recommend that an 8 with a close 4 ...would look for in a partner type? What other types work well with this combination?

well said, thank you! - an 8

Great description of a ennagram 8 😏

My mom is the best thing to happen to me. She accomplishes and checks all the pointers that matter to me. Being accountable, honest, protective, openly loving etc. And in turn it really brings the best out of me.

How did you learn so much about this? What are good resources for me as I want to learn more😁

Thank you for doing this video. Could you do a video on 8w9

Have you done a video about 7's??

I still don't truly know what I am. I have tested a 7 and a 8 I definitely have alot 8 tendency, but I don't believe I am a full blown 8?

Do you think Enneagram shouldn't be compared to what your MBTI is? I see a lot of debate that this and that type of MBTI should not or will not have this or that type of Enneagram. Love your explanation on Type 8.

Lol. I should have showed this to all my exes at the beginning of the relationship. I may do that from here on out!

@maryprice8458

3 жыл бұрын

@@westongloger6005 lol I see what you mean. But the truth about how work is a manly thing if you are a man;)

Isn’t it crazy that I’m 98% type 8 and 98% type 5 at the same time - yet an 8 goes to 5 under stress and a 5 goes to 8 under growth, what to take from that lool

What if, as an 8, I feel used just for the listening part? Like " ok, I listen to your problems, I am here for you.. but at the end of the discussion/journey, I'd really appreciate an actual solution/plan to surpass the problem" but all I get from my partner is an endless need to be listened, while being stuck in the same problem. As a solution-finding person... it drains me.

Oh my gosh, I HATE people who don’t admit to mistakes, or don’t do it sincerely. If you tell me you made a mistake, and are sorry, the most I’ll do is sigh at you. If you don’t admit to making a mistake, or aren’t sincere, it pisses me off, and we’ll probably have issues 😬

Wow all this time I thought I was a type 5. I’m absolutely an 8.

This is accurate -an 8

@emilyacoxpsychic

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto :)

I test as an enneagram 2 and I have heard that 2's can go to an 8 when they are stressed. Have you ever met a 2 who had extremely authoritative parents growing up, who spent a lot of time acting like an 8? I was really disconnected from my heart when I was young, but as I grow I get softer. I have mostly parented like a 2.

@thenickening

4 жыл бұрын

probably an 8... with kids and animals i move to 2 easily

@heatherdoesthat

3 жыл бұрын

Two very authoritative parents. Lived in 8 mode due to stress for years. I'm a 2. I didnt realize it until both of my best friends wound up being true 8's, and I was able to take shelter in their protection, let my guard down, and actually be me.

@anitadodd

3 жыл бұрын

@@heatherdoesthat Thanks for your feedback. For the most part, I don't even feel assertive enough to be a 9w8 unless someone really deserves my wrath :), so I am feeling pretty certain I am a 2.

thank you, this is very helpful and accurate. ---ESTJ -A and 8w9 female

Very informative! Do you think you could do these types of videos for the other enneagram types?

So I have a question about 8's.Is there something you would recommend to help me get more in touch with my feelings/emotions,books,videos,ect?What would you recommend?Cause I really struggle with having emotions...I mean I want to have emotions and have good relationships on a real level but something inside me doesnt let me have them.

@jennyannhelms

4 жыл бұрын

WHITE CHERRY81 mindsight by Dan Siegel would be a great book/place to start. Although, emotional work is often best done with another person (or therapist). Have you considered working with a therapist trained in emotional integration?

@whitecherry8170

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Jenny!Thank you for your feedback.I bought the book,and I will read it.I havent really thought about spending time with an emotional therapist,but now that you've mentioned it.It something I'm definately thinking about.Thank you so much!😊I'll let you know how the book read goes!😁

@thenickening

4 жыл бұрын

for me, i dont feel intense emotions when people are around... but when alone or close friends... movies or tv shows with intense themes can get me emotional (in a non anger way). depends on your cognitive stack too... i have extroverted feeling... introverted feelers would probably have a different catalyst

@lucymooon

3 жыл бұрын

Find a 4

@Mo-is9ko

3 жыл бұрын

For me, journaling helped a lot. That way I didnt have to share everything but it helped filter out angry or unnamed emotions.

How can you as a partner support a type 8 when they are at their isolated more 5 kind of behaviour ?

@iordanemily9760

3 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend is a type 8 and I love him so much. At the beginning of the relationship we had a lot of moments when he disconnected like that, which is something that urks me completely! I understand now, that it is also to protect me from when he cracks and "gets scary" I think that it is important to show your partner (A) that you are sorry when you are in the wrong and admit that and (B) that you respect his space and love him even when he is mad. It can be really hard to connect with them when they are in a state like that, so small gestures like little notes showing how much you love them, or especially things where you can get hands on and help them with something (these gestures depends on his needs, and what his love language is - you know him best) It is important to always be sencere about those gestures

@lilianlopezconde8691

3 жыл бұрын

Iordan&Emily thank you so much !

@Mo-is9ko

3 жыл бұрын

@@iordanemily9760 I am an 8 and this is EXACTLY what we need. Especially the part about giving space.

@pushymepullyou1415

3 жыл бұрын

@@iordanemily9760 Make him food and leave him alone

I’m 8w7. At the 7:00 mark in your video you are talking about an 8 having to change the way the talk and present themselves to be heard, understood, accepted. (My words not yours.). Although this is my experience and I agree that to be accepted in the world 8’s, especially women have to “make themselves smaller” to be accepted, I’m disappointed that this is how it’s presented, rather than encouraging the 8 to be themselves with good communication, and encouraging others to recognize that the strength and power is innate and not meant to harm. What I heard is: If you’re an 8 … make yourself smaller to fit in.

@ciphetrix7872

2 жыл бұрын

I agree fully, this is what strongly annoyed me in the vid too. Fortunately the women thing about making themselves smaller isnt correct either, I've had no issue being myself in a relationship with mature individuals and would encourage any woman (and man) regadless of type to be themselves too.

Random 6 here just being anxious.

@maryprice8458

3 жыл бұрын

Hope youre doing alright Kyle❤️

Thanks for the video, but Type 8's are not automatically type A's...

@katiewenta

3 жыл бұрын

She said Mother Teresa was a Type 8, not a Type A (guessing that’s what you referenced because that’s initially what I thought she said).

Thanks, very informative. If you could comment about an 8 in a counseling session, that would be interesting!

I am 8w7 INFP-A. I say 8 highly regard the best intelligence. Incompetence is a grating thorn in the side. Mawkish Hypocrisy ™️, as I've coined it, is a particular abhorrence to 8s, as well. We are keen to snuff these things out by scathing humor or other means that merit the necessary force.

Haha, I am an 8w7 - SX/SP ENTJ, and you? 7w6 ENFP?

You would make an amazing partner for an 8. What type are you?

@moedan1899

3 жыл бұрын

Type 69

@maryprice8458

3 жыл бұрын

My bestie is an 5! We make an amazing team:D

@tothemoon5108

3 жыл бұрын

5 ofcourse

@maryprice8458

3 жыл бұрын

@@tothemoon5108 can confirm

am i the only one who got here cuz i'm a big fan of mood robot?

Can type 8s go with a 4?? Asking for a friend.

@ariantejano2518

4 жыл бұрын

I'm an 8 dating a 4. It's lovely

@pushymepullyou1415

3 жыл бұрын

Obviously yes, it is a common pairing.

I feel this video could have been more objective in its presentation part

Unless you meet an 8 with borderline personality disorder.

Im 8 - INTJ-T

8w7 here

@emilyacoxpsychic

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto - 8w7!

Aint no way mother teresa is 8 lmao

Seriously candy-cane-ish pedestrian presentation on the eight from my point of view, and you don't know that M. Teresa was an eight. That is not an established fact!