My "friend" broke my boundaries by spilling my dads number.. and also today i wanted to play a game on roblox and she said sure and proceeded to pick 4 games without me even choosing the games.
@Emily-k5p2h3 күн бұрын
My neighbor
@KenNakagama6 күн бұрын
The different setting might make it more interesting. A few videos from WSJ is done with the reporting talking and filming themselves walking down the street in recognizable places. Some were on a bus, the subway and even in an Uber. If you can get acceptable video, a park or even your car might be fine.
@Fullygvngsean10 күн бұрын
Thank you 🎉
@Danie-gn2jz10 күн бұрын
GUYS I NEED HELP! Ok so I have this girl at school who’ll I’ll call Sarah and she has no friends, I was trying to be nice/friendly and became friends with her. No one liked her and I mean NO ONE but I still talked to her and got her some friends. Now she is friends with all my friends and always makes my insecurities worse. Like I have crooked teeth but I’m not getting braces so she’ll always say that they are crooked, ugly, yellow etc. or she would make comments abt my body hair, pimples and say that her skin was flawless when she doesn’t. Sarah also embarrasses me in front of my old crush and she’s good friends with him so it’s really awkward. She also gets in MASSIVE mood swings and lashes out at anyone and anything. She always says I’m her #1 bestie and it makes me feel good but is she toxic?! IDK I NEED HELP! pls give me advice on what I should do bc idk if she’s toxic or this is normal.❤❤❤❤
@ArandomARTIST-5611 күн бұрын
I constantly tell my friend i dont like being too xlose to anyone. No one. But if im watching something like tiktok she's all in my space..? She said "im just trying to watch the tiktok" okay but can i have some space please? She also talks about my friend behind her back but when she's around she wither whispers crap to me or juy acts like shes best friends with said person. I've been friends with her a while now and i would feel bad to break out friendship off, im also at good terms with her parents and siblings.. so ill wait and see if she changes because I really dont want to break our friendship, i pm just a bit confused sometimes with sphow she acts every now and then.
@Astrogalactic_stopsign14 күн бұрын
I had a friend who was all of these. She did ALL of this
@danbartelt259315 күн бұрын
Hereing there name makes you stressed
@EmilieMejia-lw6cc18 күн бұрын
This helped me a lot
@pawel324120 күн бұрын
I connect better with people in person. Getting to know someone through texting sucks, but it seems thats the 5 way to start conversations with people online. Even if i am introduced by a friend to a girl. It starts with texting and its not the same.
@JimenaOrozco-cc5vi27 күн бұрын
Urmmm
@nadegebolo81227 күн бұрын
Last one for me 😢
@nothingelsematters33528 күн бұрын
5/5... sorry, my old friend , it's over now
@alaiaadam576729 күн бұрын
💥💥💥💥💥 3:40 onw end
@angcarkhuff0615Ай бұрын
No And No
@LozaGeronimo4Ай бұрын
I’m a single mother that had to move back to my parents house for safety reasons for my child and I’m constantly having my room invaded by my adopted parents and sometimes even my brother and his friends and every time I try to explain why I feel like it’s an invasion of privacy they say I’m over reacting what should I do? I also got a toddler and a baby on the way yet they say I should pay them because I’m just a guest and I need to be grateful because they helped me get out of an abusive situation. I am grateful but I also have to provide for my child as well as have to get ready for the upcoming child. What should I do?😢
@moveordievisionАй бұрын
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@moveordievisionАй бұрын
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@Budgielover47Ай бұрын
Can anybody help me what I should do like my friend asked me to play tag I said no I don’t want to and she said then go!and be alone if you hate me so much that you don’t wanna play with me!
@mallorycramer1592Ай бұрын
This is great advice!! 💗
@chill_ParkАй бұрын
The last one is so accurate
@TheWalnutАй бұрын
4/5
@yasmintareq8161Ай бұрын
Can you please talk more about romance relationship between 2 male and 4 female
@user-qd4pk3qo2iАй бұрын
😢 i have a toxic friend and now i realize that after 26 years of being friends
@OptimalRelating2 ай бұрын
It's sad that many people never get to this "adult" way of thinking despite occupying an adult body...
@OptimalRelating2 ай бұрын
Good evening, Jenny. I just stumbled across your channel. Where did you disappear to? You haven't posted in a while. I ask because I'm just starting out and wonder what caused you to stop posting after having consistent posts for many years?
@rustyscrapper2 ай бұрын
You cant tell someone when they do something you dont like??? This is garbage.
@rustyscrapper2 ай бұрын
People keep telling me i have boundary issues and i dont get it. I try as hard as i can to stay out of peoples lives, avoid coming to contact with people and pretty much try to be invisible. What i gathered from this video is, you arent allowed to disagree with people, thats a boundary violation. You cant have your own opinion, thats a boundary violation. You cant have emotions, thats a boundary violation. You cant tell people how you feel that their behavior is impacting you or observations about the person. I was tickled as a kid while i yelled stop. I sometimes try to please people to avoid conflict. Sounds like my boundary problems are with myself not them. And "unwanted" touching is how you initiate intamicy with women. Asking them kills the mood and they lose all attraction to you. Touching gently results in either: they like it and get turned on or, they dont like it and you stop. Come on, no wonder nobody can have relationships. Anything women actually want isnt allowed. Then they wonder why men cant get anywhere with women.
@user-hi3ii2xy2n2 ай бұрын
Every one’s a victim right ? Number one sign-they watch this kind of stuff. Some of it’s valid but come on…
@SophieBartlett-bj6br2 ай бұрын
wow i need to get some better friends
@lauragreer67432 ай бұрын
venting about venting mmmhumm
@rossjones24392 ай бұрын
" Be Intentional around where we put our attention" That is so solid. Being better at being bored.... I Love it. Thanks so much. Very healing. subscribed.
@user-hq8fl6uh6b2 ай бұрын
I’m in a really toxic friend group and idk what to do. There is this girl let’s call her lily. Lily was an old friend of mine and my so called “best friend” who we will call Jen, switched on me. So lily was a previous friend and at the time I was besties with jen. Me and jen were just a duo and no one else. Then we decided to play with lily and then now we are “best friends”. Jen is always giving attention to lily and she also talk about me behind my back but I just play it cool. She says she is going to talk about her celebrity crush but jen talks bad about me instead. She calls me moody if I don’t talk to her and she is rlly toxic and so are the teachers. We got into a big fight and the teachers forced me to be friends with jen even though I didn’t want to. They made us to activities together and all of that. When we got into the fight lily backstabbed me and took Jen’s side even though we were friends from a long time ago. Now im forced to be friends with her and she is very aggressive and moody. She tells all her secrets to lily. There are 5 ppl in this group and she said that they have to get jumped to officially get into the friend group and she bully’s ppl. If I don’t be her friend she gets angry and she might get violent. I have no one to tell this to and I’m so miserable. I have to play along. Jen is the fav child so she is used to getting everything she wants. Even friends. She told me rlly dirty things about lily and if I tell lily she won’t do anything. She is just weird and dirty…. I wish I could just not be friends but I don’t know what to do please tell me :((
@onepneuma86122 ай бұрын
“oh by you wanting to be with your family that you never was with your wanting a warped and distorted view of your family” … “I don’t want to be a yes man and I won’t be bro.” … “my opinion is valueless.” Those were the invalidating comments I received from people.
@YAZBLOX_20022 ай бұрын
Just saying this is a vent because I have no other friends to trust ( I have trust issues) I can’t do it anymore I swear my “best friend” is trying to steal my boyfriend. And even before that she was horrible she was so bad that I self harmed and was thinking about suicide. I also just feel extremely drained when I’m with her. Should I send this to my best friend (real bff)
@rickydythavon91073 ай бұрын
Is so draining. Always all about them!
@Addisonnnnnnnnn.-.3 ай бұрын
Can you tell if this was a toxic friend happened to me today I was talking to one of my other friend (a) and my other friend (m) starts talking to her friend (L) about who I don’t like her and it’s only over one encounter they have were a asked m how to play a game in PE and M goes if you were listening you would know and so I stood up for a and m starts going off on me and ignore me for the rest of class
@Black4everrulz3 ай бұрын
The last one hit my home window
@Luna_Nights3 ай бұрын
Ok but sometimes when someone is like sick ill suddenly start feeling sick to like idk I just do for some reason
@Nihid_o3 ай бұрын
Real
@kimcrocco59643 ай бұрын
#5 is exactly how i feel..
@briannacallie94193 ай бұрын
So what do I do?
@sudhas80352 ай бұрын
Get out of that shit friendship
@briannacallie94192 ай бұрын
@@sudhas8035 thanks very helpful😊, kidding their not bad friends, everyone's toxic (Except me lol) so... Also I'm transferring to another school so yeh
@briannacallie94192 ай бұрын
@@sudhas8035 all in all their not bad friends so please don't call them that, thank you😊
@intuitionvoice20743 ай бұрын
Thanks
@samidharajpal35954 ай бұрын
They'll call you out for not setting boundaries and they'll be the first people to cross them AND blame you for not speaking up for yourself . 🎉
@AngelDustCakes4 ай бұрын
oh….. oh shit
@freedomisntfree1314 ай бұрын
The only healthy boundary there is with in-laws, is 1 of 3 things will happen. Either: - you respect our boundaries - or you leave - or you can have your son/daughter back if they disagree If your spouse won't innately stand up for the marriage, it's over anyway. If they can't stand up against their parents, they won't stand up to others for your marriage either. I held my wife's parents accountable 12 yrs ago and I no longer have to put up with that drunk or his flat chested skank. They lost the war and don't come around anymore. Fxck em! "I'd rather be alone than in bad company." - George Washington
@albertrodriguez39754 ай бұрын
no matter what my friend calls me sassy and too entergenic i know bc my other friend tells me but one friend mocks what i say like "👹👹IM NOT A SKIER👹👹👹"
@zhenyasays48834 ай бұрын
🙈🙈🙈🫣
@queenofhearts11385 ай бұрын
Hi, Ive found your video bc Im facing this issue w a friend and resentment is def building. She just won't stop talking its really getting on my nerves. She goes on and on with vigor from one topic to the next I wonder how she breathes. I've gotten better with learning to interrupt her verbal mind speak, juxtaposing my experiences but I notice! She can't sit still long enough to listen to ME! When it is my turn to speak and for her to hold attention on me she has to get up. Something else catches her attention. I'm also overwhelmed by her medical issues, medications, appointments, ailments and doctor complaints. She casually mentioned a gruesome medical detail that I couldnt get out of my mind for weeks, complete overshare! How can I stop her from dumping on me I feel so weak and stupid sitting there listening a lot of times I just zone out. I'm resenting her and don't want to be her friend anymore but she has a car and I dont ahe helps me with rodes and stuff but its an emotional downtrade for my mental amd emotional energy. Shes a drain but im sticking with her bc I want to learn how to correct this aspect of my communication. I let people dominate me and talk all over me it makes me really dislike mysef 😢
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Not true. You're a fraud
My "friend" broke my boundaries by spilling my dads number.. and also today i wanted to play a game on roblox and she said sure and proceeded to pick 4 games without me even choosing the games.
My neighbor
The different setting might make it more interesting. A few videos from WSJ is done with the reporting talking and filming themselves walking down the street in recognizable places. Some were on a bus, the subway and even in an Uber. If you can get acceptable video, a park or even your car might be fine.
Thank you 🎉
GUYS I NEED HELP! Ok so I have this girl at school who’ll I’ll call Sarah and she has no friends, I was trying to be nice/friendly and became friends with her. No one liked her and I mean NO ONE but I still talked to her and got her some friends. Now she is friends with all my friends and always makes my insecurities worse. Like I have crooked teeth but I’m not getting braces so she’ll always say that they are crooked, ugly, yellow etc. or she would make comments abt my body hair, pimples and say that her skin was flawless when she doesn’t. Sarah also embarrasses me in front of my old crush and she’s good friends with him so it’s really awkward. She also gets in MASSIVE mood swings and lashes out at anyone and anything. She always says I’m her #1 bestie and it makes me feel good but is she toxic?! IDK I NEED HELP! pls give me advice on what I should do bc idk if she’s toxic or this is normal.❤❤❤❤
I constantly tell my friend i dont like being too xlose to anyone. No one. But if im watching something like tiktok she's all in my space..? She said "im just trying to watch the tiktok" okay but can i have some space please? She also talks about my friend behind her back but when she's around she wither whispers crap to me or juy acts like shes best friends with said person. I've been friends with her a while now and i would feel bad to break out friendship off, im also at good terms with her parents and siblings.. so ill wait and see if she changes because I really dont want to break our friendship, i pm just a bit confused sometimes with sphow she acts every now and then.
I had a friend who was all of these. She did ALL of this
Hereing there name makes you stressed
This helped me a lot
I connect better with people in person. Getting to know someone through texting sucks, but it seems thats the 5 way to start conversations with people online. Even if i am introduced by a friend to a girl. It starts with texting and its not the same.
Urmmm
Last one for me 😢
5/5... sorry, my old friend , it's over now
💥💥💥💥💥 3:40 onw end
No And No
I’m a single mother that had to move back to my parents house for safety reasons for my child and I’m constantly having my room invaded by my adopted parents and sometimes even my brother and his friends and every time I try to explain why I feel like it’s an invasion of privacy they say I’m over reacting what should I do? I also got a toddler and a baby on the way yet they say I should pay them because I’m just a guest and I need to be grateful because they helped me get out of an abusive situation. I am grateful but I also have to provide for my child as well as have to get ready for the upcoming child. What should I do?😢
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Can anybody help me what I should do like my friend asked me to play tag I said no I don’t want to and she said then go!and be alone if you hate me so much that you don’t wanna play with me!
This is great advice!! 💗
The last one is so accurate
4/5
Can you please talk more about romance relationship between 2 male and 4 female
😢 i have a toxic friend and now i realize that after 26 years of being friends
It's sad that many people never get to this "adult" way of thinking despite occupying an adult body...
Good evening, Jenny. I just stumbled across your channel. Where did you disappear to? You haven't posted in a while. I ask because I'm just starting out and wonder what caused you to stop posting after having consistent posts for many years?
You cant tell someone when they do something you dont like??? This is garbage.
People keep telling me i have boundary issues and i dont get it. I try as hard as i can to stay out of peoples lives, avoid coming to contact with people and pretty much try to be invisible. What i gathered from this video is, you arent allowed to disagree with people, thats a boundary violation. You cant have your own opinion, thats a boundary violation. You cant have emotions, thats a boundary violation. You cant tell people how you feel that their behavior is impacting you or observations about the person. I was tickled as a kid while i yelled stop. I sometimes try to please people to avoid conflict. Sounds like my boundary problems are with myself not them. And "unwanted" touching is how you initiate intamicy with women. Asking them kills the mood and they lose all attraction to you. Touching gently results in either: they like it and get turned on or, they dont like it and you stop. Come on, no wonder nobody can have relationships. Anything women actually want isnt allowed. Then they wonder why men cant get anywhere with women.
Every one’s a victim right ? Number one sign-they watch this kind of stuff. Some of it’s valid but come on…
wow i need to get some better friends
venting about venting mmmhumm
" Be Intentional around where we put our attention" That is so solid. Being better at being bored.... I Love it. Thanks so much. Very healing. subscribed.
I’m in a really toxic friend group and idk what to do. There is this girl let’s call her lily. Lily was an old friend of mine and my so called “best friend” who we will call Jen, switched on me. So lily was a previous friend and at the time I was besties with jen. Me and jen were just a duo and no one else. Then we decided to play with lily and then now we are “best friends”. Jen is always giving attention to lily and she also talk about me behind my back but I just play it cool. She says she is going to talk about her celebrity crush but jen talks bad about me instead. She calls me moody if I don’t talk to her and she is rlly toxic and so are the teachers. We got into a big fight and the teachers forced me to be friends with jen even though I didn’t want to. They made us to activities together and all of that. When we got into the fight lily backstabbed me and took Jen’s side even though we were friends from a long time ago. Now im forced to be friends with her and she is very aggressive and moody. She tells all her secrets to lily. There are 5 ppl in this group and she said that they have to get jumped to officially get into the friend group and she bully’s ppl. If I don’t be her friend she gets angry and she might get violent. I have no one to tell this to and I’m so miserable. I have to play along. Jen is the fav child so she is used to getting everything she wants. Even friends. She told me rlly dirty things about lily and if I tell lily she won’t do anything. She is just weird and dirty…. I wish I could just not be friends but I don’t know what to do please tell me :((
“oh by you wanting to be with your family that you never was with your wanting a warped and distorted view of your family” … “I don’t want to be a yes man and I won’t be bro.” … “my opinion is valueless.” Those were the invalidating comments I received from people.
Just saying this is a vent because I have no other friends to trust ( I have trust issues) I can’t do it anymore I swear my “best friend” is trying to steal my boyfriend. And even before that she was horrible she was so bad that I self harmed and was thinking about suicide. I also just feel extremely drained when I’m with her. Should I send this to my best friend (real bff)
Is so draining. Always all about them!
Can you tell if this was a toxic friend happened to me today I was talking to one of my other friend (a) and my other friend (m) starts talking to her friend (L) about who I don’t like her and it’s only over one encounter they have were a asked m how to play a game in PE and M goes if you were listening you would know and so I stood up for a and m starts going off on me and ignore me for the rest of class
The last one hit my home window
Ok but sometimes when someone is like sick ill suddenly start feeling sick to like idk I just do for some reason
Real
#5 is exactly how i feel..
So what do I do?
Get out of that shit friendship
@@sudhas8035 thanks very helpful😊, kidding their not bad friends, everyone's toxic (Except me lol) so... Also I'm transferring to another school so yeh
@@sudhas8035 all in all their not bad friends so please don't call them that, thank you😊
Thanks
They'll call you out for not setting boundaries and they'll be the first people to cross them AND blame you for not speaking up for yourself . 🎉
oh….. oh shit
The only healthy boundary there is with in-laws, is 1 of 3 things will happen. Either: - you respect our boundaries - or you leave - or you can have your son/daughter back if they disagree If your spouse won't innately stand up for the marriage, it's over anyway. If they can't stand up against their parents, they won't stand up to others for your marriage either. I held my wife's parents accountable 12 yrs ago and I no longer have to put up with that drunk or his flat chested skank. They lost the war and don't come around anymore. Fxck em! "I'd rather be alone than in bad company." - George Washington
no matter what my friend calls me sassy and too entergenic i know bc my other friend tells me but one friend mocks what i say like "👹👹IM NOT A SKIER👹👹👹"
🙈🙈🙈🫣
Hi, Ive found your video bc Im facing this issue w a friend and resentment is def building. She just won't stop talking its really getting on my nerves. She goes on and on with vigor from one topic to the next I wonder how she breathes. I've gotten better with learning to interrupt her verbal mind speak, juxtaposing my experiences but I notice! She can't sit still long enough to listen to ME! When it is my turn to speak and for her to hold attention on me she has to get up. Something else catches her attention. I'm also overwhelmed by her medical issues, medications, appointments, ailments and doctor complaints. She casually mentioned a gruesome medical detail that I couldnt get out of my mind for weeks, complete overshare! How can I stop her from dumping on me I feel so weak and stupid sitting there listening a lot of times I just zone out. I'm resenting her and don't want to be her friend anymore but she has a car and I dont ahe helps me with rodes and stuff but its an emotional downtrade for my mental amd emotional energy. Shes a drain but im sticking with her bc I want to learn how to correct this aspect of my communication. I let people dominate me and talk all over me it makes me really dislike mysef 😢