Empathy: The Heart of Difficult Conversations | Michelle Stowe | TEDxTallaght

Michelle Stowe is a restorative practitioner, trainer and consultant. She is passionate about creating well-being and happiness in the workplace; and particularly interested in re-culturing schools and cultivating a restorative paradigm shift that honours community and connection. Michelle also works with schools, communities and organisations that need support in resolving conflict between people. She is particularly interested in supporting others to turn towards and see themselves in one another in times of conflict. Being involved in this work allows her to feel that the life she is living is the same as the life that wants to live in her. Michelle Stowe is a restorative practitioner, trainer and consultant. She is passionate about creating well-being and happiness in the workplace; and particularly interested in re-culturing schools and cultivating a restorative paradigm shift that honours community and connection. Michelle also works with schools, communities and organisations that need support in resolving conflict between people. She is particularly interested in supporting others to turn towards and see themselves in one another in times of conflict. Being involved in this work allows her to feel that the life she is living is the same as the life that wants to live in her. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @thereseoreilly
    @thereseoreilly3 жыл бұрын

    Restorative questions move us from fear to love. Beautiful and wise talk.

  • @jaynepynes9031
    @jaynepynes90314 жыл бұрын

    Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @yuyanghuang7749
    @yuyanghuang77493 жыл бұрын

    That's really awesome! Thanks for sharing your classroom example. It's powerful and useful!

  • @blakebortles23
    @blakebortles232 жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of professionals working with students suffering from home life traumas. Instead of asking "what's wrong with you", asking "what happened to you?"

  • @kimlec3592

    @kimlec3592

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ Blake Bortles : Yes ! Exactly right ! Thank You !!!

  • @meljoy61
    @meljoy614 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant, so helpful, inspiring and honest. Thank you.

  • @LoveAndPeaceOccurs
    @LoveAndPeaceOccurs6 жыл бұрын

    Thank You Michelle Stow,e so very much, for this very important conversation about difficult conversations. Thank You for providing the excellent real life example of how it can play out ... and Thank You for putting emphasis on how the focus needs to be not so much on a specific moment success but on the big picture success ... I agree Love is what it is about ... and that can be allowed when we allow ourselves to see from anothers perspective (as best we can in any given moment) ... I totally Love your entire aspect of presentation here ... [I'll be searching for the lady you mentioned next (which I also love that you do ... mentioning someone else who serve as your inspiration) and looking forward to seeing what else you offer] Love & Peace to All

  • @neelangopal9408
    @neelangopal94082 жыл бұрын

    I've watched this video numerous times. I've found it infinitely useful. Especially when I need to have a courageous conversation. Such a practical way of approaching things - not just in schools but the workplace too. It's never too late to add this to your toolkit as a professional.

  • @laurenseltzer1634
    @laurenseltzer1634 Жыл бұрын

    Lovely message and lovely speaker! Thanks for the great info.

  • @mmoloni3221
    @mmoloni32216 жыл бұрын

    Great example of RP in a school, great presentation Michelle.

  • @srbowm75
    @srbowm752 жыл бұрын

    this is so wonderful. love this!

  • @StellaGooch
    @StellaGooch6 жыл бұрын

    Really great Michelle. I will try this out.

  • @allysonprizeman9317
    @allysonprizeman93173 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring. Will be watching again.

  • @annepm180
    @annepm1806 жыл бұрын

    So good. Thank you.

  • @msspoonsartroomboon7592
    @msspoonsartroomboon75924 жыл бұрын

    hi michelle, I am really looking forward to sharing this with our RP training group tomorrow

  • @markkane7056
    @markkane70566 жыл бұрын

    Great presentation. Thanks :)

  • @yoelmorel2853
    @yoelmorel28535 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @garytighe24
    @garytighe246 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic Michelle ❤️

  • @chev0804
    @chev08043 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing. Give me new perspective on being calm and to have the courage to confront when I am wrong. Changing a question from "why you did.." to "what happened..." Have different outcomes. One thing I learned as a social work student is be careful with the "why" questions; it put people in defense mode.

  • @faithashmore4962
    @faithashmore49622 жыл бұрын

    really wonderful tedtalk

  • @karlakell27
    @karlakell27Ай бұрын

    thanks for sharing this video inspirational

  • @danbar911
    @danbar9116 жыл бұрын

    Well done Michelle ❤️

  • @senno101
    @senno1013 жыл бұрын

    This is so underrated. I listen to this all the time to remind me to live my values and to show up with empathy.

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    @jakejerome9062

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @arthurcash2282

    2 жыл бұрын

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    @jakejerome9062

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Arthur Cash Thanks so much for your reply. I got to the site thru google and I'm waiting for the hacking stuff atm. Looks like it's gonna take a while so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.

  • @jakejerome9062

    @jakejerome9062

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Arthur Cash it worked and I now got access to my account again. Im so happy! Thanks so much you really help me out :D

  • @arthurcash2282

    @arthurcash2282

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Jake Jerome happy to help =)

  • @eoinhoulihan
    @eoinhoulihan6 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation. An amazing person who lives and breaths Restorative Practice

  • @emotionastips3251
    @emotionastips32513 жыл бұрын

    Tarea constante... buena manera de sembrar excelencia 👍👌

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry219244 ай бұрын

    This is a true gem. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and it was a true hidden gem. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @brians1902
    @brians19024 жыл бұрын

    Really great ... I also study empathy but you explained what to do when the expert themselves are in that situation. Not easy. Nice to see the Irish on Ted. Irish living in Sweden myself.

  • @madridmalaga
    @madridmalaga Жыл бұрын

    There can't be empathy when there is blaming and no acknowledgement.

  • @sarthakmohapatra3738
    @sarthakmohapatra37386 жыл бұрын

    Amazing

  • @smarte.r.1450
    @smarte.r.14503 жыл бұрын

    amazing

  • @brians1902
    @brians19024 жыл бұрын

    Check out Chris Voss!

  • @fakeweightsfredokwomo3016
    @fakeweightsfredokwomo30162 жыл бұрын

    Empathy is a seducing, demonic spirit.. Don’t be an empath. Have a discerning spirit. Seek the truth instead of acting how other people want you to act

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