EMOTIONAL Neglect and Dealing With a LAZY Partner with Kendall Ficklin

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00:00:00 Introduction
00:02:30 Check On Your Partner Weekly
00:09:30 .. authentic connection & communication
00:15:06 Why you should stay CONNECTED
00:20:01 What is INTIMACY and LOVE
00:25:39 make him chase you again ..
00:33:53 The Worst Type of Neglect
00:39:01 a mature MAN versus a MALE
00:43:12 Should I Stay In This Relationship?
00:49:05 Repairing your relationship
00:59:53 BE WILLING TO DO THE WORK
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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated23 күн бұрын

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  • @FeedingSoulsTG
    @FeedingSoulsTG11 ай бұрын

    These guys are healing off they own show. The maturity level is growing tremendously. Keep up the great work!

  • @sibongilezindela4358

    @sibongilezindela4358

    11 ай бұрын

    Bars 😄😄😄😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

  • @brendafuller1806

    @brendafuller1806

    11 ай бұрын

    Yesss, I see it too 🥰

  • @blaquepearlent6015

    @blaquepearlent6015

    11 ай бұрын

    Nine times out of 10 that will always be the result of being a good leader is that you’re also learning, as you are building no leader can ever say they didn’t learn from their followers or their counterparts that is the maturity of it, and if you do not grow, then that is the immaturity side of it That you think you are the all in all just because you were the “leader. I have never been in a leadership position where I didn’t learn from what I was organizing, or putting on even as an actor when I’m portraying characters I am learning from the character that I am becoming, because there are pieces of that character that’s in me and that storyline that I am portraying, or the message that I am giving to the audience, can also touch my life even though I am the tool that is being used to give the message.

  • @blaquepearlent6015

    @blaquepearlent6015

    11 ай бұрын

    ABSOLUTELY CORRECT…BEAUTIFUL THING TO SEE

  • @kristaforbes2575

    @kristaforbes2575

    11 ай бұрын

    I notice that! I’m so proud

  • @diannewilliams7223
    @diannewilliams722310 ай бұрын

    Honest, clean facts. Men who value and want their women make the effort to change when she speaks up

  • @blackcarriebradshaw
    @blackcarriebradshaw10 ай бұрын

    27:58 This is so frustrating. Why do we have to threaten to leave for men to wake up? I wish women didn’t have to endure so much to get the love we deserve.

  • @MirageKi

    @MirageKi

    10 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately most men are stuck in the male stage and they need to evolve and do the work to elevate to mature manhood. They’re emotionally immature.

  • @ledonahentley4488

    @ledonahentley4488

    10 ай бұрын

    Why do women keep marrying them when they’re in the boy stage is the question. Nobody teaches us what to look for in the first place.

  • @beachlover9705

    @beachlover9705

    9 ай бұрын

    👋👏👏👏That part!!!

  • @debraking9255

    @debraking9255

    9 ай бұрын

    That part

  • @isabelgarcia01

    @isabelgarcia01

    5 ай бұрын

    Absolutely 💯 😢

  • @YahIsLove777
    @YahIsLove7773 ай бұрын

    Who else watched this twice! And I’m gonna watch it again! It’s that good

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!!!

  • @rickbeastrandolph

    @rickbeastrandolph

    Ай бұрын

    Definitely

  • @lilianagbor2588
    @lilianagbor258810 ай бұрын

    I just stumbled on this channel. I had no idea this kind of educative,healthy and authentic podcast exist and it is been executed by young vibrant black men. I feel proud.Awesome!!

  • @sony3246
    @sony324610 ай бұрын

    When you're in a relationship you both agree on but the other person treated it like they were single or in a situationship. That hits home. It will hurt to leave, but the temporary pain is better than losing your sanity and happiness in the end. Gamble for someone better that might show up in the future. Don't waste time when the other person doesn't want to do the work.

  • @greaterishe7197

    @greaterishe7197

    9 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @monicasoyombo3360

    @monicasoyombo3360

    7 ай бұрын

    That’s good

  • @adebeautybox
    @adebeautybox10 ай бұрын

    This is a great topic. I scanned through the comments and they are from majority women. I wish men would seek this type of counsel from men. It can really strengthen relationships and families.

  • @kw4900
    @kw490011 ай бұрын

    THIS PODCAST HITS DIFFERENT.... intellectual conversations thank you!

  • @GetRachelRay

    @GetRachelRay

    11 ай бұрын

    The intelligence is hitting

  • @qings_n_kueens
    @qings_n_kueens11 ай бұрын

    The body language tells it all ❤️‍🔥 When you guys are listening, hanging onto every word, those are my favorite episodes. No presumptions, just straight absorption and I love that for you guys!! I love that for all of us! 💛✨

  • @andresmith6477
    @andresmith647711 ай бұрын

    Another great episode!!! I'm going to set the tone and go get personal therapy! I want stage 5 manhood! I will put my wife 1st! I will communicate better, weekly sync meeting, be more patient! I am looking forward to lead by love and serving! Let's do the work! This will be fun!!! Now of course at 1st, she will be thinking that I'm just "checking the boxes" but consistency is KING!!!

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    Let’s go bro!!! 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @SoulBeauty1111

    @SoulBeauty1111

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes to this!!! 🙌🏽 Please continue to share/spread this mindset. So many men are fighting the stigma around therapy (including my man). Therapy literally helps us get to our breakthrough! ❤ Best wishes to you & your wife.

  • @michellerenee8070

    @michellerenee8070

    11 ай бұрын

    Great next steps! May you have grace abound towards you to execute and continue through the growing pains. Kudos to you. Excited for your wife!

  • @GoldenGraham25

    @GoldenGraham25

    10 ай бұрын

    YES SIR! 💪

  • @GoldenGraham25

    @GoldenGraham25

    10 ай бұрын

    @@michellerenee8070: I’m excited for his wife too. I’m excited for their marriage, family and legacy!

  • @theresalucas9477
    @theresalucas947710 ай бұрын

    He is so right about communication. It will benefit you to learn how to communicate before you get married because most don’t know how. And may not realize they don’t know how until their in an argument with their significant other and they’re walking away from the relationship.

  • @melissaburris3061
    @melissaburris306110 ай бұрын

    I'm so grateful that I ran across this video because this has opened my eyes to so many things that you all touched on ! I"ve been married for 34 plus years,and we have many gaps! I've told my husband what I want ,and I'm beginning to sound like a broken record which means I'm at a breaking point ,if I don't see any behavioral changes going forward,our only resolution is separation! He is very manipulative and has become a compulsive liar, which has caused trust issues in our marriage! I've evolved through the years, but it's obvious that he has not become a mature man, but still acts like a childish boy! Thank you guys for the wisdom ,and insight! I asked him to listen to this podcast, because he's too prideful to seek marital counseling of any sort! You guys are probably my last resort! Thank you,because this will also help me going forward in making my decision whether to stay or move on.

  • @consquellajenkins778

    @consquellajenkins778

    9 ай бұрын

    Same situation I literally looked at my Apt today! Fed up angry black woman

  • @learningalot231

    @learningalot231

    9 ай бұрын

    I left already. Your breaking your own heart now.🤷🏽‍♀️🙏🏼💐

  • @beachlover9705

    @beachlover9705

    9 ай бұрын

    Leave

  • @reasia18

    @reasia18

    8 ай бұрын

    He'll be thinking you weren't gonna leave then be like oh damn she was fr🤣. They don't see reality until it's too late smh. Do what you have to do for you!

  • @prettycaramel9237

    @prettycaramel9237

    6 ай бұрын

    Moved 2k miles to be with him. He moved our wedding date 3 times this yr because he couldn't simply complete premarital counseling. So I'm looking for an apt.

  • @twinmamacooks2469
    @twinmamacooks246911 ай бұрын

    My husband is a good man, we have had hard seasons. He mirrors Christ to me and is always serving me. Long time ago I tried the petty route and it does not work. I don’t suggest what Kendall is mentioning. You feel empty yourself and it doesn’t make your spouse change. I recommend mirroring Christ to your spouse and continuing to pray for them. Communicate clearly your needs to them. Also take a look at yourself and realize your not perfect. Become the best version of yourself. There is always something you can do better. Marriage is hard work. Let him see you going to counseling, let him see you reading the word daily. Let him see you teaching the kids. Do not be petty!

  • @ShiaSharnae

    @ShiaSharnae

    11 ай бұрын

    🙏🏽

  • @Trombonegoddess86

    @Trombonegoddess86

    11 ай бұрын

    You are correct!

  • @KM-zb9eg

    @KM-zb9eg

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes Sis sending love your way this way so positive

  • @Sigma2HisAlpha

    @Sigma2HisAlpha

    10 ай бұрын

    I’m glad I kept searching for a believers comment because the first 20 mins in I was like something is just not right here… it’s missing Christ.

  • @landi777
    @landi77711 ай бұрын

    This is one of the realest conversations I've heard about emotional connection. I love how he broke everything down. Thank you!!!

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!! 👏🏾👏🏾💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @Davienne2010

    @Davienne2010

    10 ай бұрын

    💯!!

  • @indigoowen7753
    @indigoowen775310 ай бұрын

    This is really good talk. Some Men don’t understand what it means for a woman to feel emotionally neglected. This is really the crux of the matter many divorces and separation are based on this. The little things count so much to us women. Men are hunters once they get what they want .. they relax. They don’t see any need to do those things they did when they were chasing. Honestly I hate love . It’s caused me so much heartbreak and headache and I’ve given up on it. Cos in relationships I give my allll but I never get 50 percent of what I give . So I think im done . I’ve disconnected. He’s so right we must give each other the same energy .

  • @veraamariasmr1792

    @veraamariasmr1792

    10 ай бұрын

    I totally understand this , I was divorced twice after more than 7 years of marriage both times .

  • @vivianmenzies551

    @vivianmenzies551

    10 ай бұрын

    Nooooooo don't give up, just let's choose differently ladies. We got this.

  • @beachlover9705

    @beachlover9705

    9 ай бұрын

    So get it !

  • @kathyglass2922

    @kathyglass2922

    9 ай бұрын

    Totally get it. I'm ready to press "reset"

  • @carlishahernandez3884
    @carlishahernandez388410 ай бұрын

    I love my husband but this made me leave after 13 years and 4 kids later. 😢 the inappropriate behavior from another man and your man not handling it is so on point! I wish I would have found this channel a long time ago. Getting away with everything is spot on! As women because we want to keep our family together so we let things slide. This hurts so bad! We've been separated for 4 months and he has never fought for us to stay together, never fought for our family to stay together and this hurts so BAD! He is with other women already literally only 2 weeks after we relocated. I will be okay and i will figure this out.

  • @ledonahentley4488

    @ledonahentley4488

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow! I feel your pain. He is a boy. With no personal development or self awareness he will stay that way. Marriage is for grown men and women who are both ready to throw everything they’ve got to keep that connection. I went to therapy to see why I kept choosing boys - I was trying to save my father and I was also emotionally immature and had arrested development from trauma. I was still a broken little girl so how could I choose a man? I grew up from healing - therapy and books, learned how to choose better and you will too! If he sees himself and mans up, it could work but if not…you will know what to do.

  • @chalottacox5898

    @chalottacox5898

    9 ай бұрын

    Sending you peace and love

  • @reasia18

    @reasia18

    8 ай бұрын

    God has you covered love. You will be just fine❤.

  • @moneyman8777

    @moneyman8777

    7 ай бұрын

    why should he fight when you chose to leave. Would you fight if he wanted to leave. You made your decision after 13years. Imagine invested financially, emotionally, mentally for over a decade and your partner wants to leave. I imagine he was exhausted

  • @carlishahernandez3884

    @carlishahernandez3884

    7 ай бұрын

    @moneyman8777 I fought for my marriage the entire time ie. Getting us marriage counseling and a ton of other examples to try and keep our marriage alive. My husband literally told me to leave and abandon our marriage 2 years prior to me leaving by sleeping in the basement, watching porn and looking at women on social media. There is so much more, but now that I'm at the healing point, I blame both of us for not fighting hard enough and not putting God first. I now know how to process my emotions for my next relationship once I feel comfortable enough to move forward.

  • @mahoganybaptiste5491
    @mahoganybaptiste549111 ай бұрын

    Agape love; is a Godly love. Absolutely no condition, no expectation, nothing in return is necessary from your end for me to love you. God loves us from embryo through infinity💝

  • @Blestmama7
    @Blestmama710 ай бұрын

    I could cry just listening to this… the light bulb comment, closing the gap, issues happening when we don’t communicate!!! The 5 stages of a MAN!!!! 💎🔥It’s been 18yrs of marriage and I’m still learning! This was so Organic… Thanks so much

  • @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919
    @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir191911 ай бұрын

    When I was a little girl I wanted my mother to keep moving forward after my habitual drunk stepdad literally kicked her out of their home. Instead, she kept returning back to the abusive marriage. Simply, because he financially provided for all of us! Eventually, because he was twenty years older than my mom he lost strength and stopped physically beating her. I still wanted her to leave him and divorce him because the verbal and emotional abuse never stopped!! After twenty years of marriage he got sick with lung Cancer. My mom had that agape love and took care of him like he was an innocent baby until he took his last breath!! Now, will I put up with such abuse short or long term? Absolutely NO!! I am simply not built like that. I am a natural lover and not a fighter. I am a natural protector and not a punching bag receiving nor giving. Periodtt.

  • @TheShermanki1

    @TheShermanki1

    10 ай бұрын

    She did that for HER FAMILY

  • @gigin3305

    @gigin3305

    10 ай бұрын

    And what did he do the abusive behavior for?

  • @TheShermanki1

    @TheShermanki1

    10 ай бұрын

    @@gigin3305 because he is an abuser … simple

  • @tatianadaniel3569

    @tatianadaniel3569

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@TheShermanki1Not "why" did he do the abusive behavior, but "what for"? If the wife stayed with the abuser for the family, even to the point of taking care of him and tolerating his abuse up until he died, WHAT did he do the abuse for?

  • @williamlevy6964

    @williamlevy6964

    10 ай бұрын

    Your mother deserved it. There were plenty of boys her own age who she rejected that she could have gotten with but she chose your father because your father didn't care about her and that meant in your mother's brain that he was more "alpha". Crocodile tears. I was raised by a single mother who always gets into abusive relationships. She CHOOSES those relationships because she wants to be dominated by a man even if it's abusive. She's no victim and she's no hero. I don't blame you for being naive and falling for her crocodile tears but I also don't respect you for it at the same time.

  • @MySingleLifeADollShow
    @MySingleLifeADollShow10 ай бұрын

    Wow, this is a really beautiful show. This is a breath of fresh air from how I normally hear men speak about women and relationships. As a woman, I'm learning a lot about men from this conversation, and I'll be able to respond to situations better as well as help me to stop giving so much if not receiving 😌

  • @soneerodriguez5721
    @soneerodriguez572110 ай бұрын

    This show is absolutely amazing! We need this for our men and women to grow together 🙏🏽❤️🔥

  • @Internationalgal718
    @Internationalgal7189 ай бұрын

    The fact that I clicked this video to get information on how to get a man to chase me. Smh I found out more about myself after watching the entire video 🤯 I call myself a vessel🏺of God, now Mr. Kendall is telling me to seek for a WELL made man.. but I’m still hurt❣️Literally 3 weeks I paused my search for a therapist, now I will do the work📌 Thank you fellas, this was amazing !! #BetterHelp drop them a check cause here I come ☺️

  • @nadeaheaven
    @nadeaheaven9 ай бұрын

    Okay! I came across this video while I’m still going back and forth about whether I need to file the paperwork and Mr. K just confirmed what I need to do. I have already removed myself from the toxic/ neglectful situation it just needs to be finalized. Thank you for this video.

  • @carlashelton7682
    @carlashelton768210 ай бұрын

    I Love this conversation and men being accountable for their actions and want to be a better man in his relationship. Men that are concerned about their wife or girlfriend feelings and the relationship they are building. This Podcast has helped me to really look at issues differently and handle situations differently and be honest about how I feel and things I'm not willing to accept in a relationship. Thanks Gentlemen for the knowledge I received today.💯😊

  • @lorrainelez1
    @lorrainelez111 ай бұрын

    Tysean and Ryan you all ask the best questions. It shows your preparation and attention to your guests and the conversation. I just want to affirm you in your journey of excellence in this work. God bless you.

  • @tjsproles4992
    @tjsproles49927 ай бұрын

    I'm reminded of a quote I heard: "You teach people how to treat you by what you tolerate" by RC Blakes when Mr. Ficklin said 'he will always do what you allow him to do' (around 37:50). So, in conclusion, women need to have some solid, well-stated boundaries. 😉👍

  • @desimo9127
    @desimo912711 ай бұрын

    I never minded if things my man does for me was organic or not... The fact that he does it because it matters to me, is what Always means so much to me!!!

  • @donnacrawford7392
    @donnacrawford739211 ай бұрын

    Excellent Conversation!!!! 32 years married.. I can relate to everything you talked about…you hit the nail on the head when you said married women who stay in unhealthy marriages are afraid to leave… for all of the reasons you mentioned.

  • @MeeMeeG

    @MeeMeeG

    11 ай бұрын

    Yup

  • @cheseabothwell4843

    @cheseabothwell4843

    10 ай бұрын

    That's wonderful being married that long.

  • @blessed1969

    @blessed1969

    10 ай бұрын

    32 years in for me too.. that line that he said you can be married 30- 40 years and it don't mean crap unless you're growing individually really hit me hard! I'm listening to it over and over. It is very hard when you've been in something this long to finally realize that you going to be the only one growing: (

  • @donnacrawford7392

    @donnacrawford7392

    10 ай бұрын

    @@blessed1969 agree 100%

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss11 ай бұрын

    A key thing this brother missed is his wife's love language, "words of affirmation" (that's how SHE RECEIVES/PERCEIVES LOVE). It's obvious his is "acts of service". I believe Dr Gary Chapman's book, 'The Five Love Languages' would be a game changer for not only couples but for our family members as well.

  • @lueagle58

    @lueagle58

    10 ай бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing. It was a red flag 🚩 to me when he admitted that and said it repeatedly. If you can’t do that in your own marriage then how are you coaching anyone else? He sounds good 👍🏾 but he’s a good used car salesman. 🤷🏾‍♂️ And to add to this, if you’re talking to me about marriage and you’re not mentioning the creator of marriage then that’s another red flag 🚩. It’s a good conversation about your opinion but what is the foundation?

  • @roaming1996
    @roaming19969 ай бұрын

    I’m so happy y’all doing this, interviews like this need to go viral

  • @365chanel5
    @365chanel511 ай бұрын

    I learned so much from this podcast. I learned the roles that I play and I learned healthy boundaries. Thanks guys

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏽💪🏽

  • @natashanettles9452
    @natashanettles945210 ай бұрын

    Finally some real Grown Man having adult conversations 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏿🙏🏿 Good episode fellas!! Keep Growing & Going👍🏾😎

  • @Nikkybdc
    @Nikkybdc9 ай бұрын

    This is soooo refreshing and what’s missing from many young men’s lives! They NEED to hear and see what a MAN is! I just wish it didn’t take most men to get it at 50+ years old. ❤️

  • @lindamartin2757
    @lindamartin275710 ай бұрын

    My parents were married for 56 years before my father passed. I’ve never seen them argue, fight, or bicker. So when I got married I learned never to let my children see me, argue, fight, or bicker but what they didn’t get to see how to fix a relationship how to communicate through argument .

  • @sony3246
    @sony324610 ай бұрын

    I like that you mention getting better individually. Sometimes you got to step back and take a look at self and wonder if you're the problem instead of always assuming it's just the other person. Sometimes it can even be both. Try to be unbiased and react in a way from your own perspective and the others.

  • @traciesplace
    @traciesplace11 ай бұрын

    Oh my goodness… outstanding. Thank you for all you both do for marriages and relationships. You are on the frontlines battling for black marriage, family and relationships- I applaud you. These were thought provoking questions, intelligent and life shattering answers. Great job 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    11 ай бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾🔥

  • @scharnezbarnes5837

    @scharnezbarnes5837

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for amazzzzzing conversations, guests and meaningful topics.🙏🏾❤️

  • @vanessamendoza6908
    @vanessamendoza690810 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate you guys taking about this. I'm crying right now listening to this because this is really hitting my soul.

  • @karenjeremiah4551
    @karenjeremiah455110 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this platform- real, relevant and timely. I truly needed this, not sure how this came in my timeline but grateful for it. Learned a lot. Thanks for sowing into your audience.

  • @tashafoster9737
    @tashafoster97378 ай бұрын

    Outstanding❤! I love how u guys bring ppl with wisdom on the platform…so happy to see this. Salute to u young brothers.

  • @anon_ya
    @anon_ya9 ай бұрын

    Appreciate this. As a woman, it was incredibly validating and gave me some hope that some men are willing to meet us halfway, be curious, and grow.

  • @mistahjay8598
    @mistahjay859811 ай бұрын

    Always check on mom's no matter what TY shes your earth. My mom passed last year in October, she was my world, I'd give anything to hear her voice and see her face, so makes sure you make time for her. Cherish her presence every moment fam. 💯

  • @tammipurcell8152
    @tammipurcell815210 ай бұрын

    This was a real conversation! I appreciated Coach K transparency. It definitely made me think about some questions I should be asking before I commit to a relationship. Thank you for breaking bread.

  • @shaiii222
    @shaiii22210 ай бұрын

    Only seen clips of you guys, first time watching an episode and I loveee it! Kept appearing in my feed & I don't regret pressing playing. Sending Love and Blessings from London 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @deniseseguin7868
    @deniseseguin786811 ай бұрын

    Can I say, you guys have come a long. It’s soooooo refreshing to see growth in men in real time. Thank you! Stay on the journey the emotional intelligence and spiritual connection with God.

  • @pickingupthepiecesofme
    @pickingupthepiecesofme10 ай бұрын

    Watching here from Malawi Africa... thank you guys for the work you're putting in here. Putting a lot of inner healing out there! God bless you!

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    10 ай бұрын

    Africa tuned in! Let’s gooo

  • @vuyissecretgarden

    @vuyissecretgarden

    9 ай бұрын

    Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

  • @safiyassacredspace
    @safiyassacredspace10 ай бұрын

    'Most people want what it look like but they don't want what it feel like," whew... Thats a word!!!

  • @theresellmomt1565
    @theresellmomt156510 ай бұрын

    This is the perfect time. Saw a clip on Facebook and needed to see the whole thing. This helps me so much. Emotional connection is so important.

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    10 ай бұрын

    Let's goo. Subscribe! We got more for you

  • @theresellmomt1565

    @theresellmomt1565

    10 ай бұрын

    I’m looking forward to it! Good stuff 🔥

  • @ibironketinubu5902
    @ibironketinubu590210 ай бұрын

    This is heavy. You guys brake all barriers down for us to learn and have a fulfil marriage and relationship. Thank you so much. God bless you all and increase you in wisdom. You so much helped me today through your Podcast.👍❤️

  • @MrsFRBatts10
    @MrsFRBatts1011 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! This is LITERALLY my life RIGHT NOW. I'm glad I came across this at the right moment.

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    👏🏾💪🏽👏🏾💪🏽👏🏾💪🏽

  • @Sigma2HisAlpha

    @Sigma2HisAlpha

    10 ай бұрын

    I feel the exact same way

  • @jentekla2016
    @jentekla201611 ай бұрын

    such a healing and eye-opening conversation, thank you!

  • @austriaperez497
    @austriaperez49710 ай бұрын

    Wow guys! That was an amazing conversation, a lot of valuable information 👏 Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @Konkretelotus
    @Konkretelotus10 ай бұрын

    The depth of this conversation spoke volumes madddddd 💎s and free game that’s needed. We need him on a panel in every city starting with Atlanta

  • @Solo-kr3ec
    @Solo-kr3ec9 ай бұрын

    Not sure how I ended up here but Im so happy! I have a decision to make! TY

  • @shuntarenee3594
    @shuntarenee359411 ай бұрын

    💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽Thank you for keeping it 💯 😉😉Tysean & Ryan!!!

  • @carlishahernandez3884
    @carlishahernandez388410 ай бұрын

    First time tuning in, and this is so on point for what we want as women.

  • @mikiyahtaylor114
    @mikiyahtaylor11410 ай бұрын

    This is going to change my life for the Better I love this podcast ❤

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    10 ай бұрын

    Love you too Mikiyah!!

  • @kytkah
    @kytkah11 ай бұрын

    This content hits different. Love that you guys understand the assignment. Stay blessed up!

  • @floramarion4705
    @floramarion47052 ай бұрын

    This was one of the absolute BEST episodes that I have seen thus far. Keep the content flowing to help people walk in TRUTH and TRANSPARENCY!! People need this type of knowledge to heal and walk in truth in relationships.

  • @sharesewilliams7811
    @sharesewilliams781111 ай бұрын

    This is SOOOO good! Identify the gaps and have daily syncs.

  • @chantellgray6425
    @chantellgray642511 күн бұрын

    thank you sir for all the truth and thank you for speaking just as i do 1000% truthful no cut cards and laying it all on the table

  • @cdickersonwhitfield
    @cdickersonwhitfield10 ай бұрын

    You bring great points in this interview. I can relate to so many points. It's crazy when you see that, but your partner does not see it and doesn't meet in the middle. It's a RELATION.....SHIP. Relate to one another and travel to the middle. That's the reciprocity and loving and respecting one another to meet in the middle m

  • @greaterishe7197

    @greaterishe7197

    9 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @julietoneill1268
    @julietoneill126810 ай бұрын

    Very good and thank you! Great conversation and amazing episode👏💯🎯

  • @1HauteDiva
    @1HauteDiva11 ай бұрын

    This was a great episode!! So many nuggets were shared in this conversation!!

  • @NisiLaine
    @NisiLaine10 ай бұрын

    I just found this channel and I must say this is great conversation, great dialogue for both men and women. I absolutely love it guys. You have gained a subscriber‼️

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    10 ай бұрын

    Let’s goo🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @dianasmith836
    @dianasmith83610 ай бұрын

    I loved watching. Imma have to watch this a few times bc it has so much good info and I need to absorb it in pieces.

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    10 ай бұрын

    Let's gooo

  • @ChavaSaiRaa
    @ChavaSaiRaa7 ай бұрын

    Great convo guys! I love how you guys communicate and articulate every little detail which is something I’m missing in my marriage. My marriage shorthand happened because I knew I was marrying a “Mona’s boy who was coddled and pacified and now I feel neglected and not loved because of my jealous mother n law and sister n law. Life goes on and divorce seems to be my only option.

  • @carolineomori1032
    @carolineomori103211 ай бұрын

    Soooo much to learn here. Sooo much. Thank you for this episode

  • @user-my8qr6fo2r
    @user-my8qr6fo2r10 ай бұрын

    I love the check in dates! It’s a great idea! Glad I stumbled upon this 😊

  • @melaniejoannejohn8
    @melaniejoannejohn811 ай бұрын

    This addresses is the meat of relationship issues I can so relate.

  • @Jbrownshuga
    @Jbrownshuga10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for the conversation brothers! Stay blessed and keep enriching!❤ 👑 🙏🏾

  • @joyfullychosen1771
    @joyfullychosen177110 ай бұрын

    He held your hand because it was precious and he wanted to touch you so much that your hands was enough.

  • @Crownlogic821

    @Crownlogic821

    10 ай бұрын

    … and would like for that intention (the desire to interact with her in whatever way possible) to be expressed towards her in an organic way. the intimacy is not just about the act. It’s the intent behind the act. That’s what makes it organic and special and not a check list of actions to repeat.

  • @nicolefelton6324
    @nicolefelton63249 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys!🙏🏾

  • @adrianalizbette12
    @adrianalizbette1210 ай бұрын

    Wow...😳 the first few seconds, you just made me click and see this episode. 😅🎯💯 I have to say that yes, there are many factors for a relationship to work and of them are maturity and honesty, this is so essential for a relationship to work. This goes both ways. Unfortunately, many men are hiding their feelings, but some of the men when they really open their hearts to say what they want, show their feelings, give everything they are to the right person, they are willing to build an incredible relationship. We are a team effort in a relationship and we learn to become a purpose-built relationship over time. Thank you for sharing.🎯 💯

  • @taliagoodwomanmann
    @taliagoodwomanmann10 ай бұрын

    This is so good. I do not accept relationships easily. I divirced in 2012 and have only been with one man since. Even witu him, I gave him the "needs" speech and separated from him when i felt he was not listening. I feel that a man who really wants a woman will care about her needs and will not neglect to take the first step to see about her needs, that step being for him to have a conversation about it. If not, like it was said in the podcast, he is not a man ans does not care.

  • @gabj4665
    @gabj466510 ай бұрын

    Wow wow wow! So powerful!! Much needed conversation.

  • @IGotBank
    @IGotBank9 ай бұрын

    Awesome dialogue. Much appreciated.

  • @ericpeacock3356
    @ericpeacock335611 ай бұрын

    Wow this is soo powerful. What’s up Kendall it’s been a long time Bro. These are the same conversations my wife and myself go through. It’s not about the sex it’s more about intimacy and good quality time. We’ve been to counseling but this podcast is the best counseling I’ve experienced.

  • @indigoowen7753
    @indigoowen775310 ай бұрын

    Well done guys . This is beyond awesome. Coach k thanks for blessing us with your wisdom.

  • @pracs3377
    @pracs337710 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. It’s helped me understand more about how men operate and I need that understanding right now.

  • @rutherfordnatilia
    @rutherfordnatilia10 ай бұрын

    I’ve always said I’m so grateful my mom left my dad. It was so scary and toxic, literally affected my physical and mental health as a child. When my mom finally left, our lives were so much better. Please don’t stay for the kids, because the kids don’t want you, nor need you to stay.

  • @wearhiheels
    @wearhiheels28 күн бұрын

    Amazing! So good! Love this!

  • @othelloadou9022
    @othelloadou902211 ай бұрын

    This. Was. Everything. Period. I needed this. 🙏🏽

  • @nickynicole1685
    @nickynicole168510 ай бұрын

    This was a great session. It answered a lot of questions I had. 🙏🏾

  • @debraafriday
    @debraafriday11 ай бұрын

    I joined today because of this conversation. This was so powerful 👏 I learned so much.

  • @latonyaholt5052
    @latonyaholt505210 ай бұрын

    This was needed, the growth is amazing..Positive

  • @jeffu3248
    @jeffu324811 ай бұрын

    Wow! This was dope! I'm gonna need to replay this one again because of the lessons and 💎 💎 💎

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    11 ай бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾

  • @alexjackson4256
    @alexjackson425610 ай бұрын

    This was a phenomenal episode guys, keep them coming!!!

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong870111 ай бұрын

    Great conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Shi_SAS
    @Shi_SAS11 ай бұрын

    I'm definitely going to listen to this again. Thank you 🔥

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Junegermaine
    @Junegermaine10 ай бұрын

    This was EXTREMELY satisfying. Thank you!

  • @katrinaspears7997
    @katrinaspears799711 ай бұрын

    My man shared the short clip with me from IG and we decided to tune into the full video and it was EXACTLY what we needed & right on time ❤

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    11 ай бұрын

    💪🏾let’s gooo

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    Let’s Go!!! 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you!!!

  • @tobh007
    @tobh00711 ай бұрын

    Protection on EVERY level is awesome on both sides of the fence! 😊

  • @CitizenVids

    @CitizenVids

    11 ай бұрын

    That's a word! I think too many people want to take and not give in these marriages, and that ends up nowhere. If folks think they're gonna get married and just sit on their ass without giving to their mates (women AND men) they're sadly mistaking. BOTH PARTIES have to give in a relationship...bring something to the table not just take, take take (physically, mentally, emotionally, etc.!) These people are your spouses, NOT ya momma or ya daddy. 💯

  • @dineatrislloyd9365
    @dineatrislloyd936511 ай бұрын

    Omg, I love you guys! I am New to your podcast, and watched a few interviews already 🥰 I wish I ran into you guys a few months ago before I walked out of my relationship! But God knows best! Keep up the good work. Watching you guys giving me a lot of tips for my future husband 🥰

  • @daladieceo
    @daladieceo11 ай бұрын

    I’m glad I stumbled across this podcast. Extremely informative and entertaining.

  • @lourdianasaintlouis6922
    @lourdianasaintlouis692211 ай бұрын

    I don’t think I’ve ever clicked so fast in my life 😂

  • @eb4478

    @eb4478

    11 ай бұрын

    🗣️ OKAY !

  • @ellaleggett9628

    @ellaleggett9628

    11 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 same

  • @christianc3384

    @christianc3384

    11 ай бұрын

    Me too!

  • @samseyecatchingnails9008
    @samseyecatchingnails900811 ай бұрын

    This is one of the realest podcasts I’ve EVER HEARD ‼️🙌🏽💪🏽🙏 I wish this information goes viral n help to heal souls all over the WORLD 🌍 💪🏽

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    11 ай бұрын

    Let’s go! Share this video

  • @kendallficklin

    @kendallficklin

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @HumbleBeauty679
    @HumbleBeauty6799 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed this convo!

  • @jacquelinejohnson7974
    @jacquelinejohnson797421 күн бұрын

    This conversation is 🔥🔥🔥 openness and truth. Love it!!

  • @jemjem53
    @jemjem5310 ай бұрын

    This was awesome!

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