FIVE LEVELS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes

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FIVE LEVELS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP by RC Blakes
Committed RELATIONSHIPS are not the product of ONE NIGHT STANDS. There are levels to a committed relationship. In this conversation we will discuss what I call the FIVE LEVELS OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP - chemistry, conversation, connection, compatibility and commitment. Most people try to launch into commitment from chemistry and it just does not work. Wise women and men take the time to build to commitment.
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын

    HELLO FAMILY! Please share the link for this conversation and LIKE as you come in. It helps the platform.

  • @nancybradford687

    @nancybradford687

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing teachings!!!

  • @Nutritioneats

    @Nutritioneats

    Жыл бұрын

    Truly a blessing to humanity..

  • @khurstonhill903

    @khurstonhill903

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Nutritioneats® àq

  • @dianagill2176

    @dianagill2176

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome

  • @darciborelli9153

    @darciborelli9153

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nancybradford687 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sunshineon710
    @sunshineon710 Жыл бұрын

    “Chemistry is what got you tied up with a sociopath. You had chemistry with the narcissist, abuser, and user.”

  • @0Demiyah0

    @0Demiyah0

    Ай бұрын

    That hit me as well. This was my relationships in my twenties, and you always stay too long in situations that aren't healthy. Chemistry is an empty glue for a relationship, but it can hold the broken pieces together for a while.

  • @plante_n_seeds4505
    @plante_n_seeds4505 Жыл бұрын

    "Conversation is where souls get introduced." I love this so much! Thinking back on past relationships and even people I talk to now, this explains where the relationships dropped off. Being able to talk about everything on your mind and heart--big, little, quirky--openly and honestly matters so much more.

  • @genna2586

    @genna2586

    11 ай бұрын

    So true and on point. Being open with your thoughts and sharing your perspectives, experiences and dreams is very important to invite people in your life that are passionate about you.

  • @kiarrabell5063
    @kiarrabell5063 Жыл бұрын

    Hi big fan. I have watched 50 videos of yours in like 2 weeks. Truly blessed by your ministry and words from God🎉🎉🎉

  • @patricejames8512
    @patricejames8512 Жыл бұрын

    Chemistry, conversation, connection, capability and ultimately commitment.

  • @cherylladd3282
    @cherylladd3282 Жыл бұрын

    Okay..... I'm officially proclaiming you as the GOAT to those of us who missed (earthly) fatherly guidance. 🙏

  • @candacemoore3310
    @candacemoore3310 Жыл бұрын

    You are truly a Father figure. I really appreciate you taking the time out to sow into us !

  • @patricejames8512
    @patricejames8512 Жыл бұрын

    Listen to people that have consistent fruit.

  • @TaloyaC
    @TaloyaC Жыл бұрын

    Move on from people that will not TALK (and I’ll add) or Listen…. This is so helpful. And I’ll add more, you can have a long conversation about Nothing.

  • @terra_t
    @terra_t Жыл бұрын

    I'm cautious of being really physically attracted to someone now. It got me in big trouble in past relationships with "Chad" covert narcs. At this point, I don't see the point unless we're called to minister together. God Bless You, Bishop Blakes!

  • @LucyLucy296
    @LucyLucy296 Жыл бұрын

    32:54 "Anybody that does not want to talk, there is something either *broken* in them or there is something *diabolical* in them. In either case you are probably not equipped to deal with that individual. *I will always advise you to move on from people that will not talk.*

  • @iamjessie.b
    @iamjessie.bАй бұрын

    This was a beautiful teaching moment today. I’ve been searching my soul and this teaching spoke directly to me. The processes you taught are spot on. Everything you said I’m working on right now. It’s beautiful. ❤

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Жыл бұрын

    Living in a "Microwave Age", it's so hard to find and build a committed relationship. A lot of the time we want what we want and fast. The concept is damaging and heart breaking when we choose to skip steps and shut God out of our relationship(s). Thank you pastor for shedding more light on how committed relationships are to be governed and developed❤🙏☝️🤔💪🔥

  • @tamikalockley3686
    @tamikalockley3686 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Blakes you could have not explained this clear enough. The main thing people fall for is Physical Attraction and no more than that. I’m so glad I have listened to you because I have found the man of my dreams and man I tell you God has blessed me. May God continue to bless you!

  • @carterthegamernoob6128
    @carterthegamernoob6128 Жыл бұрын

    I’m single I appreciate you sharing these principles. Your platform has been a blessing in my life. I learn from you. Leaders solve problems and they help people. You deserve the best R.C.Blake Jr. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @cokethearussell8630
    @cokethearussell8630 Жыл бұрын

    Hello you all . From Atlanta Georgia 🍑 ☮️❤. Stay prayed up 🙏🏽. Pray for my family and I daily thanks.😊

  • @euniceboateng
    @euniceboateng Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Bishop .... The teachings you've been doing has helped me greatly to be the woman I should be. God bless you, see you at the top

  • @kingshipt7506
    @kingshipt7506 Жыл бұрын

    I know this is going to be a good one

  • @victoriaodili-akpom4019
    @victoriaodili-akpom4019 Жыл бұрын

    Ooh my God listening to this 💯 % means that at least 80% of people in this world don’t understand what love is . I cannot believe listening to all the evidence on the table. I wish I heard all these 55:36 during my time. I will forward it to my daughters. You are truly a great man, may our lord almighty lord bless you amen 🙏🏾

  • @Blessingz007
    @Blessingz007 Жыл бұрын

    Om-Gosh... This is so true 👍🏿No communication, smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ no depth from the individual. Zero emotional intelligence 🤷🏾‍♀️You hit the nail on its head. When you actually see their state of mind while analyzing yourself, it's an interesting 🤔 observation. It's time to do your inner work on another level, leaving them to hopefully do their inner work. Bravo 👏🏿 very good video

  • @roselinkeil7217
    @roselinkeil72174 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏 Thank you Bishop ❤❤❤ God bless you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening family 😍. God bless you all. Looking forward to learning together tonight.

  • @zellrobinson5682
    @zellrobinson5682 Жыл бұрын

    I just started following within the last 90 days... I'm learning & gaining the wisdom of God! I appreciate how everything you say is backed by the word of God... Thank you Pastor 🤜🏽🤛🏽

  • @Pacifica74

    @Pacifica74

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep at it!

  • @catrinaslade9450
    @catrinaslade9450 Жыл бұрын

    I can't wait to tune in for this message.

  • @rc4092
    @rc4092 Жыл бұрын

    This is a piece of gem!! Young ladies! Take heed before you keep making the same mistakes.

  • @elobyslade17
    @elobyslade17 Жыл бұрын

    Wow Bishop Blakes, This was truly an eye opening lesson that you gave to us. I begin to cry in some more f the levels that you spoke on. I saw myself not giving my all because of the fear I brought from a previous relationship. Thanks for the prayer, I needed that. God bless you guys, Dr. Val

  • @TaloyaC
    @TaloyaC Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. I wish I had this before any relationship I’ve ever had.

  • @relisshacollins8602
    @relisshacollins8602 Жыл бұрын

    I love the song at the beginning it sets the atmosphere

  • @deborahhall6445
    @deborahhall6445 Жыл бұрын

    Good morning Bishop R.C and First Lady, Lisa. Praise God Almighty, Sir. I love your unique style of discernment. These Empowering discussions are very exquisite, easily receptive to comprehend. Working on me, as I practice Matthew 6:33. I don't mind waiting, because I believe God will provide my ordained compatible mate. I agree with the values respect and emotional support. Bishop, I believe I'm where I need to be at the pace inwhich I'm moving. Truly grateful for receiving this Privilege of knowledge. In Jesus name, Many blessings unto you and The New Home Family Ministry. AMEN

  • @user-dw8cv2gd7e
    @user-dw8cv2gd7e4 ай бұрын

    I absolutely loved this teaching ❤

  • @carolreid3049
    @carolreid3049 Жыл бұрын

    Blessings Be Multiplied to You Bishop and First Lady Blakes.🙌🏾 Thank you for your wholesome Teachings. 🙏🏽

  • @Janney3791
    @Janney3791 Жыл бұрын

    Good day, Sir Pastor Blakes & to your lovely wife, Lisa! - I recently purchased your book, "Queenology" and look forward to reading it soon. I have been watching your KZread videos for maybe 1 year now. I'm age 50, been divorced for 14 years, and just now am being healed from my past. Father God brought me to discover your teachings. I can't thank you enough. God bless ❤😊🙏

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so honored. 50 is a great time to emerge as a whole and healthy woman. I’m glad to be a part of your journey. 🙏🏽

  • @Janney3791

    @Janney3791

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RCBlakesJr. - You're like a spiritual dad to me and I pray for Father God's ministry He has entrusted you w/ to continually flourish and give Him glory as you're already doing. God is soo good and faithful, and He surely does heal the broken hearted. Big hugs to you and yours 🥲💕🙏

  • @dianacarreras3461
    @dianacarreras3461 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best fatherly talks ever🙏I need this to help me see things clearer thank Pastor RC Blakes God bless you always!! I wish I knew this sooner but better late then never Praise God!!!!

  • @tempiedemps5179
    @tempiedemps5179 Жыл бұрын

    You uplift my Spirit with your teaching and the song " She's a Queen" is also a great medicine. Thank you, and may God Almighty continue to Bless you and your family. Amen

  • @MsChristianr
    @MsChristianr Жыл бұрын

    This was good. This is the blueprint. This is what I needed. Just saying get a good man and a man of quality is not enough. He can be all that and not the person for you

  • @nyeducate1
    @nyeducate1 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening to all🤗

  • @rhondaedwards664
    @rhondaedwards664 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening Pastor RC and First Lady Blakes I'm excited to listen to this message and share it with all the beautiful single ladies I know!!!

  • @brendadavis9365
    @brendadavis9365 Жыл бұрын

    THESE VIDEOS OF RC BLAKE'S TEACHINGS ARE SO UNIQUE AND PERSONAL TOO. AS I SIT AND LISTEN I FEEL LIKE HES TALKING TO ME. I THANK GOD FOR PASTORS TEACHINGS, IM LEARNING SO MUCH.

  • @JudyF261
    @JudyF261 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks pastor RCBlakes and lady Blake's , you all are indeed a blessing to me.❤

  • @yokithabridges9768
    @yokithabridges9768 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening Pastor Blakes and First Lady Lisa. I can't wait to hear this message.

  • @RCBlakesJr.

    @RCBlakesJr.

    Жыл бұрын

    GREAT EVENING TO YOU ❤🙏🏽😊 We appreciate you

  • @patriciabarclay8521
    @patriciabarclay8521 Жыл бұрын

    Blessings Bishop Blakes always ready to hear your wisdom on relationships.

  • @TP-zr3rt
    @TP-zr3rt Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all that you do!!

  • @thehealingmynd
    @thehealingmynd Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for these messages they have truly enhanced my life 🙏🏾❤️

  • @mannasnature8261
    @mannasnature82619 ай бұрын

    Teachings every daughter needs!! You are an amazing Bonus Father to us girls!! ❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jbwtsfinest
    @jbwtsfinest Жыл бұрын

    Simply THANK YOU!

  • @sojourner3163
    @sojourner3163 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Pastor Blakes. 💗

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Paps and mama Li. Great lesson for preparation. 🙏🏾

  • @delz20again
    @delz20again Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Blakes, you have done it again!! This is an excellent teaching for relationships!

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 Жыл бұрын

    Gotta catch the replay. Thanks Bishop R.C.😊❤

  • @Mssweet25
    @Mssweet25 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all your wisdom, and knowledge. Its truely appreciated.

  • @lisabrazell8246
    @lisabrazell8246 Жыл бұрын

    Another great teaching that I will use to guide me on my journey towards commitment w my new guy. You are such a blessing to all the women who listen!

  • @wandalynmjulian5608
    @wandalynmjulian5608 Жыл бұрын

    Thank God for you man of God! You teaching in needed at this time. You are helping many, to God be the glory 🙏🏾

  • @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023
    @healthylifestyleandhealthy2023 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the teachings, I have learned so much growth and I learned to love myself.

  • @ladybird8422
    @ladybird8422 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor RC Blakes Jr. for sharing this knowledge and truly opening not only the eyes but ears to those of us watching & listening to your video. I think it's safe to say that this type of conversation wasn't taught in the home or church, so as we were born into this world we had to find out what life, the birds and the bees were really about the hard way. Lessons that didn't have to happened because we would of had knowledge, awareness and choices to make sound decisions and not to get into trouble with a lot of bad relationships because we jumped from #1 to #5 so fast.

  • @sacredartscommunications5522
    @sacredartscommunications552211 ай бұрын

    One of your BEST teaching sessions. Thank you and God bless!

  • @chloestarr60
    @chloestarr60 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Blake's, this video was definitely needed🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @nyeshiawilliams
    @nyeshiawilliams Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this wonderful information! I appreciate you guys so much sir!

  • @francesreed9151
    @francesreed9151 Жыл бұрын

    Good afternoon Pastor Blakes and First Lady thank you for this message 🙏 ❤️ May God Continue to bless you and yours

  • @sylviahilton6061
    @sylviahilton6061 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Mr&Mrs Blakes.. just to say that I'm so thankful for u both!!❤ Hi everyone..let's enjoy!!

  • @gavan1988
    @gavan1988 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor.

  • @joanie2311able
    @joanie2311able Жыл бұрын

    We Love You Too Brother Pastor Blake!!!!😇

  • @billybotts9521
    @billybotts9521 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor Blakes the Lord and your program has helped right now, I really been going through it bless you and your family.

  • @user-zb8pd7ry7f
    @user-zb8pd7ry7f Жыл бұрын

    Good Evening Pastor Blakes - I recently started listening to you & your topics have been very helpful in my healing & spiritual journey. Your Conversation tonight was Excellent & the Timing was exactly what I needed to hear. God Bless You & Lisa. Thank You

  • @candacemoore3310
    @candacemoore3310 Жыл бұрын

    Always so many jewels. Thank you 🙏

  • @keepingthefaithalive
    @keepingthefaithalive Жыл бұрын

    Good Evening Pastor and First Lady another great topic today as A Minster myself you have blessed me!

  • @rosalynarrington6818
    @rosalynarrington6818 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening pastor and first lady, and all of my sister's and my brother's

  • @Janney3791

    @Janney3791

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi sister in Christ, .. God bless you 🙏 💖 😊

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 Жыл бұрын

    Wow i wish i know all of these elements before any relationships i had great teaching pastor Blakes 🙏thank you for bringing your wisdom for many of us woman who needed to hear this.

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 Жыл бұрын

    GOD gave me these words Christ commitment consistent day's later the Lord led me to this awesome video that's talking about what GOD shared with me amen amen hallelujah 🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @carolinek1370
    @carolinek1370 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this enlightening video. I needed this clarity

  • @ladylynnspeaks_
    @ladylynnspeaks_ Жыл бұрын

    Love ❤️ you Bishop Blakes.

  • @rosalysmartinez2153
    @rosalysmartinez2153 Жыл бұрын

    Powerful teaching, overflowing wisdom and biblical empowering!🙏💯👏

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 Жыл бұрын

    Bishop Blakes I always make sure and time to watch and learn from your teachings📚📓📕. Again you and First Lady Lisa makes us queens readjust our crowns daily👑 thank you so much and may God continue to bless you and family love, Janella hailing from Boston, MA❤❤

  • @shavonnetemple1071
    @shavonnetemple1071 Жыл бұрын

    I’m excited to be here tonight!!!

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Bishop for the Monday night message ❤ 🙏,to you and your family. Good night to everyone ! grateful and Blessed , Greenville, SC

  • @Stormyweather551
    @Stormyweather551 Жыл бұрын

    Proof of Concept!!! Preach

  • @evapreston924
    @evapreston924 Жыл бұрын

    RC Blake’s you give me the strength to keep fighting for what I’m worth 💕 I love you both from the bottom of my heart! Thank acknowledging us woman! I would love to take notes how would I be able to access that! Thank you

  • @cheftrevayoung4450
    @cheftrevayoung4450 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Blakes for a awesome teaching. I’ve been made free…

  • @anastasiasbridgewater243
    @anastasiasbridgewater243 Жыл бұрын

    That is so true Pastor Blake

  • @kendranovakX5
    @kendranovakX5 Жыл бұрын

    This was great! Thank you! 🙏

  • @eileensmith9836
    @eileensmith9836 Жыл бұрын

    Good morning Pastor, may Yahweh continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 Жыл бұрын

    This was a Great Message Bishop!!❤

  • @Rotation411
    @Rotation411 Жыл бұрын

    When you connect with someone spiritually and emotionally, they become ten times more attractive than they were to you initially. It works the same way in a soul tie though…double edged sword.

  • @Chattingwithsam
    @Chattingwithsam8 ай бұрын

    This was a good sobering message. Thanks so much!

  • @sherrypeace664
    @sherrypeace664 Жыл бұрын

    I Love you Bishop and Lady Blakes❤ UNCLE Bishop you have blessed us

  • @racilleashley9506
    @racilleashley9506 Жыл бұрын

    GOOD TEACHING, TONIGHT, Pastor R.C. BLAKE'S

  • @relisshacollins8602
    @relisshacollins8602 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing

  • @ariehayes6618
    @ariehayes6618 Жыл бұрын

    This was another great conversation cuz you are awesome and a true man of god may he continue to use and bless you and the family

  • @RealTalk-mq2ug
    @RealTalk-mq2ug Жыл бұрын

    I cannot breathe through the grief. Today is day 54. 54 days without hearing from him. Nothing. Not a word. He betrayed and abandoned me and replaced me with another. Discarded me like last week's garbage. He was my "best friend". We spoke every day. My heart is in so much pain, it physically hurts. My soul is raped. I cannot breathe. I am drowning. Being buried alive. How could he do this to me? And why?

  • @lisamaiden1892

    @lisamaiden1892

    10 ай бұрын

    It will get easier the closer you get to god. Keep your faith in him.

  • @Bri_Plus3
    @Bri_Plus310 ай бұрын

    This really blessed me. It was right on time

  • @fredericathompson808
    @fredericathompson808 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you total agreement 🤝

  • @Treasuredbyaloma24
    @Treasuredbyaloma24 Жыл бұрын

    This is so so good.❤

  • @quicknotesmedia9540
    @quicknotesmedia954011 ай бұрын

    I love this segment so much, I have watched it 4x now.

  • @marciepearl9671
    @marciepearl9671 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Everyone, greetings from FL

  • @lashondadickey5332
    @lashondadickey5332 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome Wisdom 🙌🏾

  • @eileensmith9836
    @eileensmith9836 Жыл бұрын

    This is the undiluted TRUTH 💯❤

  • @charlotteupton5760
    @charlotteupton5760 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you x

  • @Cloudss9
    @Cloudss9 Жыл бұрын

    I was looking for the repay 😊 glad I get to see this recorded live Great intro entertainment!

  • @thekelseecourtney
    @thekelseecourtney Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💓

  • @aprilsookra6834
    @aprilsookra6834 Жыл бұрын

    I’m here 🙏🏾💜🌼

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Blake that is so true..Because I decided to be Sulvant it hs been difficult for a man to accept me for who I am now..(And they choose to walk away..)Please keep me close in prayer that I continue to stand by my biblical standards