“If a man wants to reap the fruit of submission from a woman he must first sow the seed of honor.” - RC Blakes

@loridori

Жыл бұрын

That's so powerful 🙌🏽♥️

@mayloniegordon3017

Жыл бұрын

I felt that in my shondoo lol. The face I just made when I read this !!! 💯

@nicholenash2983

Жыл бұрын

That was one of several mic drop moments!

@TalkingWithTasja

Жыл бұрын

That was soooo good!

@victoriaedwards2762

Жыл бұрын

THE ENERGY IS REAL CLEAR!!!

I don't think women dislike the word submit. I think women dislike the way, tone, and strong-arming way that some men use the word and want to enforce it.

@dbosslady3274

Жыл бұрын

It’s not that as a woman I don’t want to or know how to submit it’s submit to what foolishness, hypocrisy and degradation of my very soul No none for me please. A man of integrity who has developed the character that I can submit to.

@elainecrutcher5707

Жыл бұрын

AMEN SIS 👏👏👏👏

@shirleywalker4298

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@bibi1583

Жыл бұрын

I believe submission is a man and woman issue...folks using biblical reference and don't invest any time or live a Christian life. Similar to a promiscuous person having traditional expectations.

@ARD7177

Жыл бұрын

Right. They also demand it and aren't offering anything in exchange. Men aren't entitled to it but act like they are. They haven't earned it to be expecting and demanding it. Then some haven't demonstrated leadership qualities to lead. Pay the cost to be the boss.

This guy is who black men should've been listening to about women. As a faithful husband I have to say that it's much better hearing how We can help build Our women up.

@SG-qd8cj

Жыл бұрын

They don’t want to listen to someone who has sense sadly

@mjohnson8206

Жыл бұрын

They want to listen to Kevin Samuels

@RCBlakesJr.

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@exoticallovergirl

Жыл бұрын

@@mjohnson8206 people need to listen to the type of man who has the life that they want.

@mjohnson8206

Жыл бұрын

@@exoticallovergirl yes you are right

“When a woman can trust a man, she can receive truth from that man” RC Blakes. FACTS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Man, I’m so blessed by this episode. Please keep them coming

@elainecrutcher5707

Жыл бұрын

RIGHT.

@shughes_

Жыл бұрын

Amen ❤

Women are to be cherished, men are to be honored and respected💞

@OLatreil

Жыл бұрын

This is in line with Eph 5:33 "Nevertheless, each one of you must love his wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband."

Love when MARRIED men talk about marriage. Marriage examples are so important. Love em🙌❤️

"A marriage is a merger of two great entities." 💕🔥

RC Blakes helped me get through my first breakup in my 20’s. I was so broken, and since my father died when I was 11, I couldn’t go to him. Pastor Blakes and his word was there! I am so grateful for his life ❤

@RCBlakesJr.

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽 Thank you 😊♥️

@Lifeisfun84

Жыл бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr. Me too my father is still Alive but you, RC Blakes reminds me of him same faith same attitude…. So it sounds familiar and I’m more open to recieve it. I just love how he is so down to earth and sometimes straight to the point. I always laugh when he say let me just stop there or just stop mid sentence (because he would go full in) . I laugh, I learn, I pray, I cry …. Everyday I listen to him…. You helped me heal🙏🏾❤️ Love all the way from the Netherlands, Europe….

@RCBlakesJr.

Жыл бұрын

@@Lifeisfun84 😊♥️🙏🏽

@kw3036

Жыл бұрын

Yessss, he is the BEST 😂! He did the same for me ❤

Mr RC Blakes … man he’s like a father figure God bless him

@msvanessa8640

Жыл бұрын

I agree! God bless him.

@thegrace-basedstudent5701

Жыл бұрын

Yes, ma'am. I found his channel in 202O during the pandemic. Changed my WHOLE mindset.

What was so heart throbbing was when Pastor Blake's said "KING'S that knows how to manage their KINGDOM". I just melted. 😍. This is what a lot of us good women are looking and striving to have in our lives

I literally watch RC all day everyday. The bishop is a national treasure. Thanks for having him on, what a pleasure.

@nikkyshamz2696

Жыл бұрын

He sure is

As a man leads with masculinity, clarity and decisiveness, a woman will happily follow along with femininity & submissiveness. Hearing men take accountability and owning up to their influence on women is not only refreshing, but soothes like a medicinal salve on a 3rd degree burn. Thanks so much for this discussion 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

@narvelacook8672

Жыл бұрын

Amen Amen, I don't know a single women in my generation (Gen X) who doesn't want a masculine man who leads with love, respect, and honor, that will allow that man to walk away from her, she will absolutely want to be submissive and allow him to lead if his intentions are pure and for the welfare of his family in mind. I can't speak for the modern woman, but for the Baby Boomer/Gen Xer, that's the man of our dreams.

@mscotchery9861

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@tawainahollis4770

Жыл бұрын

@@narvelacook8672 ABSOLUTELY!!!

I heard a man just the other day say that his main role was to protect and provide. And that those things equaled love. But said nothing about emotional love. Everything was about the physical. Some men seem to have thrown the emotional part away, and that is very sad. You could have me in a mansion but if you are breaking me down emotionally, how is that love?

“I married her because I knew she fit my FUTURE” -RC Blakes !!! So powerful

The part about when a healthy man comes with clear intentions, how can a woman respond with, “slow down.” I agree. Healthy with clear intentions is exactly what I want!

@salihahdick

Жыл бұрын

Couldn't a narcissist also come with same language? I think a woman saying slow down, let's learn each other before u start telling me u want to marry me shows she's actually serious about something serious. I mean I could be a psycho how u know u wanna marry me on the 1st date?🤔

@skyeburch

Жыл бұрын

@@salihahdick I see your point. I agree, we definitely must take our time when getting to know someone. I think the part about a healthy man is what distinguishes this. Once you take the time to see that the man is healthy I believe it’s best when he makes his intentions clear so that the woman can make a choice if she wants to move forward. Still moving forward with discernment and wisdom.

@skyeburch

Жыл бұрын

One other note: once he states his intentions, it’s not to say that he wants to marry you on the first date or you want to even marry him. It’s to say that he is dating for marriage, he is being intentional and if the two of you connect and are aligned then let’s keep getting to know each other and see if marriage is in our future. It’s more so mindset and then you see if the mind and the actions align.

@politicomonsoon

Жыл бұрын

@@skyeburch I think the issue with that language not yours in particular but whenever someone says good or healthy or something that takes time to evaluate, is that everyone makes that determination on their own time and it's possible for a man to be absolutely healthy yet for a woman to not have verified that information about him and thus requiring him to slow down.

@skyeburch

Жыл бұрын

@@politicomonsoon I can see that. I think overall the guest wanted to highlight that healthy with clear intentions is positive. Caution should still be taken after intentions are made. If the man moves too quickly after stating his intentions, there’s nothing wrong with the woman communicating that. She should always use discernment even after intentions are stated.

I'm Muslim and I can't deny that R.C. is the epitome of a spiritual leader that is feeding the community with real time real life practice that truly works and makes common sense.

She can't submit to what doesn't love her and a woman knows when she's loved...

@tc8330

Жыл бұрын

Come on now

@queen4u281

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@lindagailrobinson8553

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!! you better say it my sister 🙋🏽👍🏽😁👑🌹💜🌹

@Giftis2sing

Жыл бұрын

Yea ma’am we do! ❤

@pitbullizzy

10 ай бұрын

❤

RC Blakes is a true blessing. He inspired me to write my first book. I have learned so much from him and his ministry.

@Breejo

Жыл бұрын

same!

@nikkyk2016

Жыл бұрын

I have also started writing my book. Can you tell me where I can purchase your book? I would love to support you.

@RCBlakesJr.

Жыл бұрын

WOW!!! Congratulations! What’s the title? Where can I get it?

@nikkyshamz2696

Жыл бұрын

Plug your book Ma .

@chloemouangue479

Жыл бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr.papa, please come to France WE love you hère 🇲🇫 much love dad

This was a good convo and great insights coming from a man who’s HAPPILY married…as opposed to hearing a bunch of stuff from “single relationship experts”.

@Annjenkins806

Жыл бұрын

I think we can learned as well from single experts. Remember they are looking for their Queen as well 😊

Take heart Anthony. Just like you had that moment where you said you’re tired of being the good guy. A lot of women have given men the benefit of the doubt that she has come to that feelings as well. She then gives up and goes back to what she KNOWS doesn’t serve her well. Then gets tired of them again, It’s a continuous cycle.

@chwash40

Жыл бұрын

Key word I just read here, is a "cycle", not wanting to sound degrading nor off course, but take a female cycle for example, how it's naturally connected to the force of "God's " creative power, but is suppressed to yield to movement and preparation for life moving forward. Well when we male and female yields our lives to again what's naturally real( relationships), we place ourselves in the path of the force of " God's power. Something is going to happen in naturally if the forces of nature moves, but once restricted, controlled doesn't allow for it to be so. There is a scripture in the Bible that says," submit" to God, "resist" the devil, and he will flee from you.

"When a woman can trust a man, she can receive truth from a man!" R.C. Blakes...Powerful!

@evaphillips2102

Жыл бұрын

Period!

I can't wait! I love love love Pastor Blakes. His wisdom is beyond priceless.

@jasmineriley2089

Жыл бұрын

😊😮😮😮😮😅😮 😮😮😅

@toshistokes9277

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@empresserica

Жыл бұрын

Indeed!

I hope you are growing from your brokenness please continue to let Tony Gaskins and RC Blake's be a part of your journey in finding that special someone.🙏🏾❤️

@patricelee7665

Жыл бұрын

Yes those two men phenomenal

Thank you for the BLATANT TRUTH SIR!!!! Men break us and call us angry when we aren’t happy abt it but clearly both sides have work to do but I’m sick and tired of omitting the man’s role in the abuse and tearing down of a woman- do better men stop with the excuses but us women gotta put a hault to it as well !

What we're missing are men that know how to lead! Don't ask for your rights from a women if you are not giving her her rights as a man.

Been following RC BLAKES since the pandemic. I have no idea how I came across him but he’s blessed me since. I’ve grown spiritually by leaps and bounds even as a married woman that had direction prior to watching him. I am my husbands peace and I do NOT have an issue with honoring or submission to him, even as an Alpha female that knows how to sit in my feminine 😊. However, there were a few missing pieces that were so sublet, it could be overlooked or seem like nothing major. But RC- HA, with the help of God, was able to shed light on those areas. I honestly feel so complete and WHOLE from the inside - ALL I can say is Gratefulness!!! His eloquent words shinned a narrative to the order steps in my life…And the Truth made her free! 🎉🎉🎉

Men have come to me the same “intentional” way and they were abusive… as a woman i have to be careful … this is seen as moving too fast… it is pressure when a man meets you and wants a relationship at once… i do not know you well enough… these men want to run through women and when they are ready they expect everyone to be ready too… notice how both of them talk about how they damaged women at first… but now expect us to be ready when they are… i am ready but i need to take my time and i need committing myself to someone to happen when the person prove themselves worthy… if a man cannot understand that then they can go find someone else… if that leaves me to be single, then so be it… a man needs to understand that men have hurt women…. They have caused that brokenness and now they need to accept that they cant just go around demanding commitment from the first conversation… they caused that friends first conversation… we have been conditioned …. So now feel what we felt and wait until we are comfortable…. The difference is, a lot of women are just trying to protect themselves and not trying to use men.

@mrsmoderation7718

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing!!!!

@newnew-mv1uj

Жыл бұрын

Well said

If you're a good man or woman its hard to be anyone else. It is who you are to the core. No matter how many times you say you won't love that way again. You always do be it romantically, family, or friends.

Please don't be tired of being a good man! There is nothing wrong with that, I believe in you finding your queen, be the trailblazer and don't let the masses make you believe that the bad boy is more desirable. Maybe to the wrong women, not the one thats for you!

This needs to go viral. I’m praying the black community gets it together both women and our men! We need therapy and a redo! These other cultures are laughing at the way we have turned our backs on God/Religion and have been misguided by music and other influencers on social media to hate one another.

@sthompson8184

11 ай бұрын

Well said. Agree.

I'm in this process now and I'm not ashamed to say I need more guidance on this journey of becoming the best man God has put me here to be. RC I have been taking in your words since I was a kid, since the Chapel when pastor Steven use to run sprints around the church lol, love u man wish to hear from you soon, this was a powerful session, life lessons are in these words think y'all

@farahelf6120

Жыл бұрын

I wish you nothing but the best in your journey. God bless you

Regarding the example of the woman that asked to take things slow. I see things differently. From a womans perspective it sounds like the young lady was trying to take things slow and remain sober minded. She didn't know you well, and wanted to take a measured approach without heavy expectations. Which I commend her for. You don't want a woman to be overly eager, or desire you for the wrong reasons. It sounds like you may have missed out on a possible gem. Try meeting a worthy woman where she is, by asking her questions. Find out what she means by what she says, why she came to that conclusion etc then get to know HER. Women are not microwaves just because you're ready for a wife and you tell her so dosent mean she's willing to instantly be your wife. Worthy women require patience, are cautious, and need sound reasons to give themselves to you.

@lovefelix1566

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!!

@Matoaka365

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!! 🙌🏾 There was a study done from the National Bureau of Economic Research. Couples who began as really good friends had more successful marriages. The study also showed that they prioritized the emotional connection over just the physical. So there is definitely a benefit to being friends. I think men hear that word "friend", and they think we're gonna be dragging them around to the boutiques talking bout, "what you think about this dress?" 😂 We say friendship, they hear friend ZONE. Lol!

@drea0795

Жыл бұрын

@@Matoaka365 soooo true lol!

@sarahlysobey2917

Жыл бұрын

Shows his narcissistism. He got his Karma back. Periodt!

@CaramelCali

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahlysobey2917 I thought the same thing!

OMG RC Blakes!!!!! Be prepared for jewels to be dropped all night... he is one of the best to do this.

@Only1QueenOfEverything

Жыл бұрын

Yesssss! So excited…looking forward to this!!! 💃🏽💃🏽

@Abmarp

Жыл бұрын

PREACH IT SIS

@gapeach7814

Жыл бұрын

💯 Amen Sis. Pastor Blakes has definitely been called to do this. His wisdom is amazing. I've learned so much from him in the past year.

@KarinMYearwood

Жыл бұрын

Yesssss 🙌🏾

When man owns up to his misgivings, takes responsibility and works on it, he is about to make a change that'll connect him to his divine greatness. Men I admire and listen to are here speaking reality and living their reality. God bless you for this collaboration.

Love This Segment, To Pastor Blakes comment to many women are masculine, but many women have not been raised to feel safe or be able to trust men That's where all that masculine enegry comes from in many women. It's has been her protection also

@lovefelix1566

Жыл бұрын

True... we haven't had femininity modeled in the home... Even in a marriage many women are "single" mothers

@JP-db8dy

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Masculinity is protection. Masculinity is power. In the world we live in, it’s gotta come from somewhere. We’re all wired for survival.

I love RC Blakes. He's been "Fathering" me via KZread,for the past four years or so. Totally aided in bringing me back to my identity in Christ. A woman of value, worthy of a King.

@greaterishe7197

Жыл бұрын

❤️

THIS WHOLE CONVERSATION IS WHAT WOMEN HAVE BEEN HAVING FOR YEARS!! GENERATIONS!!!! We tell you how we feel and you disrespect us but putting us down telling us it's all in our heads!!! What a "reversal of furtune"!

I wish RC could do more interviews and become more and more famous. He has a message worth spreading

@ksquareshow4480

Жыл бұрын

Honestly we need to see some crossover convos such as he and/or Tony gaskins interacting with content creators that men predominantly listen to. I think it would help people from both sides get to a common ground. I always wanted Blakes and Samuels to engage with each other directly instead of bashing each others message. Sadly the only two content creators today that are even close to being neutral are Stephan Speaks and Courtney Ryan

@nawhatererr

Жыл бұрын

@@ksquareshow4480 exactly- i agree

@ksquareshow4480

Жыл бұрын

@@nawhatererr I just don’t think anyone person is 100% right. If we only talk to ppl we agree with we end up in echo chambers

@ksquareshow4480

Жыл бұрын

@@brooklynsummers1294 I disagree with that. Blakes has never been in a debate in his life and Samuels would’ve exposed him as another Derrick Jaxn type from a message perspective. Samuels knew enough about the Bible to get his talking points in and Blakes would’ve been ruffled by that. No matter how felt about Samuels, he was the pendulum effect of content creators only telling men what they’re at fault for and not putting the same energy into telling women what they’re doing wrong.

@ksquareshow4480

Жыл бұрын

@@brooklynsummers1294 Blakes thinks only women need to be uplifted while taking shots at men to do it. It’s a Derrick Jaxn kind of move. Only difference between him and Jaxn message wise is delivery. Truth never minds being questioned. It’s lies that hate to be challenged. That’s the reason Blakes will never have a discussion publicly with anyone who doesn’t agree with him all the way. He would also be afraid of MTR as well because he would expose Blakes as charlatan for hiding behind the Bible to badmouth men. And being a “pastor” he should be wanting to have those discussions. Kevin Samuels would def kick RC’s behind in a debate. You can’t throw all the blame at men like Blakes does than be upset with someone else calling shady women out. Samuels wasn’t selling books and seminars to make money off of people like Blakes does.

I like “ I need you happily married “ Yes, this is the end game!👍🏿

Submission is the fruit -- honor is the root🔥🔥🔥🔥 that’s so good

Interesting that the woman who said she wanted to be just friends was seen as having broken consciousnesses. Many women/ men/couples/black/white/therapist/laymen, have been advising people to be just friends before getting into a relationship. And many couples share stories about how they started as friends first and it was a firm foundation. Is it possible she didn't have broken consciousness, she was just trying to be wise in following advise that has worked for others???

@acolley96

Жыл бұрын

She also called him him insecure and controlling. As a woman who is looking for marriage I would be alarmed if a guy said this to me on the first date without knowing anything about me. But if he said this on the third or fourth date and we spent time going deep and talking and God said this is your guy I would be fine with it. That doesn't mean we aren't still developing a friendship or that our relationship is going supersonic fast. It means I understand where we are going potentially. It still may not end in marriage but it means we have both communicated our intentions. Many men especially in Anthony's position wont even have a conversation. They want to be friends with the benefits of a girlfriend. So if the lady isn't ready for marriage then she should say that. And maybe then I would say she is just taking the advice of people. And of course we are only hearing his side.

@sarahlysobey2917

Жыл бұрын

Agree! And he just got his Karma back. He strung women along, used them up and friend zone them. NOW that HE'S ready, he thinks she should just be desperate and comply immediately with what he wants. What goes around comes around. Every dog has his day.

@mrsmoderation7718

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahlysobey2917 I was thinking the same thing! I caught what he said. He’s ready now but he did many women wrong. Men don’t want karma from the hurt they gave out.

@shayemoore

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahlysobey2917 Exactly. Women are looking at who he is NOW and immediately think he is a "good" man and above rejection. Something must be wrong with the woman if she doesn't accept his advances. Women are so male-identified. Smh.

Pastor RC BLAKES IS PHENOMENAL! ❤ His teachings also helped me a lot to understand who I am and be accepting of the decision to walk away from a decade plus marriage without any remorse. My father was an extreme hard working immigrant and amazing provider he was. I accomplished most things deemed success. However, I just wish my father had those father daughter in depth relationship conversations with me I never had. These days a REAL man is called a SIMP. What is goin on? Meanwhile GROWN BOYS are praised and being PIMPS. Thank God Pastor RC BLAKES and Tony Gaskins exist. ❤️🙏🏾 AO I look forward to the men discussion with RC BLAKES plus the sisters. Excellent convo here! 🔥🔥🔥

I’m so glad Bishop Blake told the truth 💯, I always thought the same. A lot of men will not submit and obey God or Godly counseling from other men because of the dominant factor and they believe they already know what to do. I wish more men would submit themselves to God first and allow the Holy Spirit to guide their relationship with women and the same with women. We would see more successful relationships and God receives the Glory!

Pastor she was saying, I want to get to know you first. I want to build the relationship before just jumping to marriage when I don't know the real you.

Men do need imprints, yes. They also need to rid themselves of the dominance mindset. We'll all reap what we sow, more than what we've sown and later than when it's sown. Excellent content. Thank you both!

I stayed listening to RC Blake's over 4 years ago after a divorce and man...what God has given him was light in so many areas. Love this interview! 👏🏾

I think she told you to wait because the trust wasn't there. Many men wear the cost of a "good/healthy man," and when you open yourself to them, the coat comes off, and we leave less than we came, and then the next man is now labeling you as damaged goods...

@lovefelix1566

Жыл бұрын

True. She, I believe was trying to figure some things out...

@anthonyoneal

Жыл бұрын

She could have said that without calling him "controlling and Insecure" would you agree with that?

@lovefelix1566

Жыл бұрын

@@anthonyoneal Sir, in any setting "name calling" is unacceptable. I do not know the nature of the incident so I am not sure if it was done out of frustration/anger or if I was done repeatedly over time. I also do not know the nature of your "relationship" so I cannot speak holistically, but what I can say is that every experience is a learning experience. Keep fulfilling your purpose and growing as a King and God in His infinite wisdom and impeccable timing will "bring" your Queen to you! Enjoy life, spend time in God's presence, keep living intentionally and on purpose, have faith AND EXPECT GREAT THINGS. Don't sweat these things, the right person Your Queen will make you forget the others even existed! Blessing my brother in Christ!

Man you got RC Blakes wow, I watch both these brothers weekly and this is the collaboration we didnt know we needed. You guys have to do more segments together, great chemistry!

@elainecrutcher5707

Жыл бұрын

The best chemistry. These are powerful men in relationships and money issues. I will be tuning in.

Omg THIS is 🔥! Please Lord, let this trickle down to the vision-less men-folk. A 40-something man told me recently that I show up like I'm Superwoman but he couldn't articulate the vision he has for his life...but got mad because I "didn't have love for him." What and how?? This is exhausting...

@schoolwork232

Жыл бұрын

HalleluYah Sister! Stay being superwoman. Never ever let your guard down for no one who is not worthy!

I love Bishop Blakes! His fatherless women ministry has truly been a blessing to me🙌🙏❤

My guy RC is SO SMOOTH!! I absolutely LOVED this interview!!! Thank you Anthony 💜

RC Blakes is such an inspiration! What a man. Thank you for having this wonderful guest. He is truly changing lives with all the work he does for these current generations of broken women.

Please add Tony Gaskins to this!!! RC Blakes and Tony Gaskins talking to the men would be awesome!!!

@andreamartin7007

Жыл бұрын

T.G. was on A.O. Podcast. Check it out.

@lovefelix1566

Жыл бұрын

He was on about a month ago

@ksquareshow4480

Жыл бұрын

Men won’t listen to them for the same reasons women didn’t for Kevin Samuels. Stephan Speaks would have much better luck

I thought I was seeing things, RC and AO. OMG, this is going to blow our minds. I can not wait.

“We want to act like we don’t know what happened to women; “ WE” happened to them!” 🤯🤯🤯

This is the best thing I've heard in 2023..I've been following pastor rc Blake's for the last 5 yrs 🙌🏼 and I'm so happy u have him on your show thank u ❤️

What an AMAZING conversation!!! So peaceful and honest! Thank you for having him on your show! Let me start by saying that most women don't have a problem with submitting, however we do have a problem submitting to someone who doesn't know who they are and where they are headed. As a woman in her mid thirties with no children, educated, own home etc. I have NO problem with submitting to the right man. I have other friends who are successful and they feel the same way. I think respect plays a HUGE part in this for both individuals. If the relationship is centered with GOD and both people are intentional, have understanding etc., submission will take place. Women who are alpha don't really want to be alpha. They want to step back and let a man lead, however when that's all you know, it's a little hard to break away from HOWEVER, it's NOT impossible. It takes the right man to SHOW her that you don't have to do it all and that "I got you" for real is when she will change. I recently heard a black therapist say this about his wife. When he showed her, she was able to let go little by little. Pastor Blakes said a mouthful about women & healing. If they aren't healed, then they won't see what you said as "hey this guy is serious." She will take it exactly like the woman you were dating did. I would LOVE for a brother to say what you said to me BUT more importantly, show it. Sign me up! lol .. What he said about men being taught that it was ok to be promiscuous, yet telling the women to keep herself is so true. I do agree that men and women often don't understand each other. Sorry for my comment being long. I can go on but I won't. Very good conversation. I can't wait to hear the conversation with all of the men. This will be enlightening for sure.

Aaaaaaaaaaa! Screaamiiiing I love Bishop RC Blakes so much... His videos helped me with my journey to healing. Thank you Sir🙏🏾

@anthonyoneal

Жыл бұрын

It's going to be a great show!

Omgg I cant believe you two know each other! Two of my favorite people on the internet. So much knowledge in the room, Im excited!

Anthony, so many times I hear you ask questions and I wish we could speak. You're not wrong for wanting to show your integrity of intention, but telling a woman "Listen, I'm dating with the intention to marry" and she says let's be friends first, it just means she saying you're coming on too strong. You're wide open, full throttle. Some things you say to women have to be paced out and your masculinity should be tempered with finesse. P.S. I've been married 32 years, and I only knew him 6 months, and he wasnt my "type" but his approach won me over. Food for thought, young King...

Tony,your brother in law , RC Blake's amazing men brother. You are very blessed to have access to these men. I still can't believe beleaf is your fam. Smh

First you interviewed my Brother Tony Gaskins... now my surrogate Father RC Blakes....♥️

This was sooo Good ... just his tone of speaking the truth .. MY GOD ... he is so needed in today's world ... I hope and pray women and men really listen to EVERY word he is speaking ... This was sooo Brilliant 🙌🏽

@sonyasmith6154

Жыл бұрын

This was amazing

Hello Anthony, and thank you for having this conversation. I have been divorced since 2003 and have not dated since my ex. I wanted time with God to understand many things about myself and through the process discovered who I was created to be. I have a saying, “I will always be polite and respectful when I am approached, but I will not entertain a man that doesn’t walk through the front door to pursue me with God’s intentions for me and my purpose.” Because of your direct approach, I now know the language I’ve been waiting for.

The purest reflection of a man is the quality of his woman.. 👀 I almost jumped out the window when pastor Blakes dropped that one!

I watched Bishop Blakes earlier while working and he mentioned that he enjoyed his conversation with you. I want to say thank you, Anthony, for inviting someone who actually has wisdom and expertise as it relates to relationships and the state of the 21st Century man and woman. He does not just use soundbites or create acronyms that tickle the ear or are even just "theoretical" or rehearsed. But, his counsel is based on his actual "practice" of what he shares. He has been a blessing to my life and the lives of so many for years now and truly comes across as someone who is genuinely led by God, operates with integrity, and seeks to improve the mindset and impact of all who have an ear to hear. Again, I commend you for having a person speaking on relationships who knows what he is talking about, has learned from his mistakes, has created a long-lasting marriage, and is therefore credible.👏👏👏

So happy to see more people are speaking to RC Blake. I loved his books.

Man is the head of the woman but..he has to know God is the head of him.. We need to get back to scripture📜 there's all the answers we all need!! I truly want to be In my feminine energy!! But who will protect me? I we as women weren't made to lead only to assist! Thank You RC Blakes and May God continue Bless You 🙏🏾

Many men don’t have a vision 😢

I love Bishop RC!!! Thank you for having him on 💛💛💛💛

Don't ever give up on being the good guy. There are lots of good women ready to give up on the fact that the good guy even exists. So now choosing to be single, tired of being mistreated. Still hoping but giving up hope.

Ladies "Be Still" this was awesome 🙌🏾

I love this brother! Thank you AO.🥰 All of us women need to heal and I’m 55. 🙌🏾 BTW, I’m a member of Tony Evans’ church, he is a gift from God.

@greaterishe7197

Жыл бұрын

Love Pastor Evans teachings

@ashleyhall5525

Жыл бұрын

Me too. Been at OCBF since I was 8!

Pastor Blake's help me to Level up as a woman mentally and leave a very toxic relationship and stand firm on it. Many blessings 🙌

Thank you, Bishop for all your fruits of Godly insight 😪🙏🏾🙌🏿!!!

I haven't even watched the video yet But ANYTHING including Bishop Blakes gets a 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

I love RC Blake’s but I wish more men would focus on fixing men. Women are not to blame for the issues of the black community in regards to relationships. The truth is their is NO money in platforms for mens self help because most men do not want change. Women are easier to guide and mold by men so they get on platforms to teach us. Please. Men. Rep aren’t the community of men who create these issues.

@TeflonBarbie

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@CaramelCali

Жыл бұрын

I scrolled until I found this comment.

@kimberly6243

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

Wow! Both RC and Tony G are my top two Male mentors and have been for 6-9+ years now consistently. So grateful to God for them both. Not gonna lie, I didn’t use to like this channel but having them on here speaks volumes to me. Guess I’m gonna go ahead and sub ATP lol

@pianoladyforreal1026

Жыл бұрын

You should also listen to Coach Rod on KZread. You will be blessed by him too. Thank God for these kings.

Submission comes with trust. I can’t submit to no man I don’t trust. I need to know what the actual man is about. That’s is why being observant is a must.

I absolutely love RC Blakes!! The only issue I have is that experience shows being friends is the only way to get to know a person is because it takes away the "thing" that drives people NOT to show the real them. Who you are when you're single tells me alot about who you'll be in a relationship.

I stopped dating black men 3 years ago AND IM LOVING IT!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@CaramelCali

Жыл бұрын

❤

Laterras Whitfield!!! Dear future wifey!!!! He’s not married but he brings married couples on his show and it is a spirit led eye opener for sure! 99% of his episodes are like this one that you did withRC Blakes!! Like vex this episode and I’m looking forward to this black men panel!! Hopefully I can have my husband listen and something touch him to evolve❤

I am a mental of RC Blake for over 8 years. I share his words with my guy friends all day long.

Yaassss that’s my online Pastor ❤

Papa RC at The Table?!!👑 I love his heart for us daughters. He both builds, and corrects us when necessary; sharing biblical lessons from the word of God in a practical way. His voice is NECESSARY. Thank you Anthony for introducing to some, and presenting to others this great, swaggered down, man of God! What I respect most is your vulnerability in sharing about your past relationships as well as your willingness to confess and apologize for your part in breaking the queen consciousness of women. Much respect to you for hosting the upcoming conversations around this topic of healing broken kings and queens. It's time for us to recover & reign!

I thought i was dreaming...Now I know, am on the right path. RC been my internet papa for months!

Yessir!! Tony Evans is Goat. Kingdom’s Man and No More Excuses: Be the man called you to be.

Here’s my question: Why do men feel as if they have to go through a phase where they ARE womanizers in order to figure out that it’s wrong later on in life? Why are you not taught that this behavior is a problem early on? Maybe the reason why women see you as the others who are no good because of all of those years of being the womanizer has left residue that a woman’s intuition can pick up on…true deliverance erases this.. food for thought

@flo-dd5sw

Жыл бұрын

He addressed that ma'am.

@Iamlonndanicole

Жыл бұрын

@@flo-dd5sw Not specifically. Instead of responding in defense it may best to listen to the whole interview again. Js

@ljthirtyfiver

Жыл бұрын

Why do any of us make mistakes that have already been made ?

@Iamlonndanicole

Жыл бұрын

@@ljthirtyfiver true, but most of us know right from wrong by the age of 5…whether taught or untaught there’s an inner man/spirit that signals your body, mind, will, emotions (soul) that tells you it’s not right (discernment)…right or wrong is always a choice

@mrsmoderation7718

Жыл бұрын

This!!! I think they believe they are entitled to that hoe phase. And should be accepted by any woman when they are done. Yet they could’ve just chosen a different path in the first place! The “uncles” teach them this bad advice.

My FAVORITE Uncle Bishop! He’s been SUCH a blessing to me and MANY others❤❤❤

I'm stil watching but I couldn't agree more with his response to how the woman responded to saying you were dating intentionally, looking for marriage. I didn't see anything wrong with that at all. In fact, I applaud you for being straight forward with her (and yourself). To me, that said way more about her (individually), and wasn't a negative against what you said. I think some people really don't understand that concept. It's like they view it as trying to force something, when that's not it at all. But that only works with women/men who have the same goal and mindset - marriage and family - whether it's with you or the next one.

The purest reflection of the man, is the quality of his woman..... My God!!

Commitment, consistency and trust is how you honor your woman.

Thank you so much for this. You are bringing men and women to one place to heal.

Definitely an interesting conversation. I just wanted to chime in regarding the why would she say let's be friends and see where things go? It is not necessarily because she is playing or broken, it is more than likely simply because she actually wants to get to know you and vice versa. Unfortunately, so many folks want to skip the steps and jump right into something without getting to know who the other person is and if they are compatible, if their goals, passions, character, values, etc. align. Believe it or not, many men approach with intentional language but as always the walk and talk have to line up for both parties. It is fundamentally wrong for a man to assume that just because he wants to be with a woman that she has to be in the same place at the same time (and vice versa). As much as we understand that men are "hunters", know that she has to choose you too. Everybody ain't for everybody and anyone dating with intention, is looking for a partner for life and for the journey....It is not a me Tarzan, you Jane type of situation.... Get to know the woman, give it time, let it breathe and show her who you are...be honest and consistent, be discerning....If y'all are a good match, trust that God will let you both know and give you peace about it.

@drea0795

Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@davidsfaith3205

Жыл бұрын

Well said. And I 👍

@mrsmoderation7718

Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@marquitapetty9685

Жыл бұрын

Right, he said the women said, let's get to know each other and be friends. I want to marry my best friend. I too want to marry my best friend

@sylviamyers-brooks7085

Жыл бұрын

Thank you and I agree. I didn't think her statement of let's be friends was a bad one or had to be from a broken place. She might just know what she wants at that time in her life and marriage may not be this time.

Because some ignorant men are having to much "FUN" with each other laughing about how they are using women. Thank God for Bishop R C Blake's, Amen

Not a Christian but listen to him every Monday and those that I missed.

Can’t wait!💎💎💎💎

I love RC’s teaching.I bought his book “Queenology” and it’s changed me so much!!

The moment we’ve been waiting for!!!!!❤

You two are speaking of the energies that males and females are made of. Every culture or should I say geometric area calls it something different, like Yan and Yen, but the energies flows because they flows one with another. Water is powerful, but it follows the channels set before it, instead of wasting energy and time to force a path.