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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiatedАй бұрын

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  • @NBnNC
    @NBnNC Жыл бұрын

    I agree with his wife saying that a woman has to be secure in herself in order to provide a comfortable environment for husband to be vulnerable ☝🏾 but before she can be secure with herself, she must first be secure in God and his character, and take on his character, in order to execute being a good understanding wife

  • @letsbefruitful5457

    @letsbefruitful5457

    11 ай бұрын

    Wow , that’s powerful ❤

  • @blacksongbird100

    @blacksongbird100

    10 ай бұрын

    I love it too!!! A person can only provide what they have. If a woman is secure in God and in herself- that means being comfortable with and accepting ALL parts of herself, the good, bad, ugly- she can provide that security to her partner.

  • @Livelearnapply
    @Livelearnapply Жыл бұрын

    Love builds u up Lust tears you down Love heals Lust hurt Love gives Lust takes

  • @amirmcl1476
    @amirmcl1476 Жыл бұрын

    7 years of celibacy is admirable and respectable. I applaud you for that!

  • @tequancoe1843
    @tequancoe1843 Жыл бұрын

    This page has really been helping me in my marriage to not be selfish. I’m 25 and my wife and I have been married for 3 years and I’ve learned so much watching all of y’alls podcasts. Keep up the great work Fellas!💯

  • @Ellaceeceebee

    @Ellaceeceebee

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow u married so young! That's rare these days. Congrats and may God bless your union.

  • @SweetestNya

    @SweetestNya

    8 ай бұрын

    Wonderful!!! You are a young man in a new marriage and I pray that God continues to smile on your union as you learn and grow together in love. ❤❤

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee10 ай бұрын

    The way the guest described sex was so beautiful it brought me to tears. I'm starting to see why God made it for marriage only. It's so beautiful 😢❤

  • @r33c3dahumble
    @r33c3dahumble Жыл бұрын

    Self mastery is the key 🔑 to discipline and discipline is the key 🔑 to purpose

  • @karengray8121
    @karengray8121 Жыл бұрын

    This man of God kept it real and he was very transparent. This is great dialogue and is much needed in our churches.

  • @Ellaceeceebee

    @Ellaceeceebee

    10 ай бұрын

    Exactly! I'm so impressed tbh. It was a shame-free wholesome discussion.

  • @ann-marierowe6023
    @ann-marierowe602311 ай бұрын

    Man, I love you both and the guests you bring on are EXCEPTIONAL. It is great to see BLACK men striving with Black Women. This is a force to reckon with. Thanks for the information you'll provide daily.

  • @Maddygurl12304996
    @Maddygurl12304996 Жыл бұрын

    I hate that sexual discipline and abstinence is frowned upon when trying to date certain people

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism Жыл бұрын

    Lust starts in the mind. You can be attracted, not approach and still lust after someone.

  • @davidmwilliams7052

    @davidmwilliams7052

    Жыл бұрын

    scriptures say men are like dogs no restraining spirit and no self control suffering from the lust of the eyes you see if you like it lust of the flesh feed me feed me so like the dog you have no respect for what belongs to others and you are a thief lust is greed or uncontrollable hunger for flesh they don't have a covenant with eyes not to look upon a female and desire her YAH told cain sin lays at the door it desires you you must master it for most people sin is their master and the are in debt to the flesh obeying it desires looking at a women according to her body is adultery in your heart you go from the flesh to witchcraft manipulation and seduction casting spells from jezebel next the devil takes over destroying your life the pretty flower is ruined and pissed on by the dog

  • @davidmwilliams7052

    @davidmwilliams7052

    Жыл бұрын

    Having an ejection is a waste of your seed is sin and is the sin of adultery a sin that after a while is nothing your conscience is seared with a hot iron

  • @marciwo1
    @marciwo1 Жыл бұрын

    Please have on both Tim Ross and his wife, Jermone Glenn and his wife on together please!! Love your podcast!!

  • @denisejohnson5758

    @denisejohnson5758

    Жыл бұрын

    Man these to couples would be a good panel

  • @badgal_danielle2400

    @badgal_danielle2400

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @fatimahalea8472
    @fatimahalea8472 Жыл бұрын

    40:55 😂😂Pastor said “I’m not a doctor…so I don’t know…” I love how he’s transparent about what he doesn’t know…

  • @Trombonegoddess86

    @Trombonegoddess86

    11 ай бұрын

    These days, I HIGHLY respect anyone willing to say, “I don’t know” because people really have a problem saying that.

  • @jacquelinejackson5191
    @jacquelinejackson5191 Жыл бұрын

    This man is teaching MOST men the truth. Although I'm celibate in this season, his information status needs an award! I've wondered why men think that they just know what THAT woman likes. Truthfully, men I've encountered didn't have a clue of pleasing me.

  • @user-qv8lu4sb3z
    @user-qv8lu4sb3z Жыл бұрын

    Lust is an unhealthy desire.

  • @jailowe30
    @jailowe3011 ай бұрын

    Jermone was the TRUTH!!!!! Loved it!!! Thank you again guys for another great conversation!!!! As DJ Khaled would say……And Another One!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    11 ай бұрын

    Another one💪🏾

  • @3peasinapodity

    @3peasinapodity

    Ай бұрын

    Being a seasoned 60year young cutie, you gotta know some things, and you can be a curious pro!😂

  • @claudetterosecaribbeancooking
    @claudetterosecaribbeancooking Жыл бұрын

    I love how you guys bring a spiritual aspect to most of the conversations with your guests.It's very important for us to tap into our spirituality because we are living in some crazy times.I love your versatility.🙏

  • @dr.donitalester8520
    @dr.donitalester8520 Жыл бұрын

    Feeling badly after inappropriate sexual behaviors outside of marriage will always make you uncomfortable because it's not right in the sight of God.

  • @CBCH3575
    @CBCH3575Күн бұрын

    This is what godly wisdom looks like. It is not watered down, no straddling, no schism. It is solely foundational on The Word of God. THIS should be world wide for the Christian. All this other sexual stuff, is sinking sand. Thank You! ✝️

  • @Samantha-xz7ls
    @Samantha-xz7ls Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Jermone & his wife were excellent. It was so good to hear him speak with honesty & what we should be striving for. Please have him & his wife back!

  • @yoshundawhite165
    @yoshundawhite1656 ай бұрын

    This man is preaching !!! #Facts

  • @rhondamoffit6490
    @rhondamoffit649010 ай бұрын

    EXCELLENT CONVERSATION!!!!! THANK YOU!!!

  • @emilybrown58
    @emilybrown58 Жыл бұрын

    As a wife for over a decade with my great black husband. Our vow /marriage stays stronger because before we became one we told everything ; both our deepest darkest secrets, bad habits ,addictions..etc.. Just be transparent and we both do not believe in divorce even if my husband went through one before. As a tradwife a best wife means , 100% submission to my husband, let him lead, let him do his role as a man and husband, I give peace, warm meals, clean house, take care our son, give massage and warm smile every time he comes back home from work.

  • @JashawnMurphy33

    @JashawnMurphy33

    6 ай бұрын

    Love this ❤️ we need more like you

  • @monicashantell
    @monicashantell8 ай бұрын

    Man… y’all got Pastor Glenn .. our Chi-town people. Whewwww! Notepads unite

  • @bertheprophete2741
    @bertheprophete2741 Жыл бұрын

    He is sooo wise! Thank you for sharing the Truth! Real talk! Only mature grown ups will get this! Discipline! Self mastery!

  • @fixitholyspirit8882
    @fixitholyspirit88828 ай бұрын

    I appreciate a man who respects his body and DO NOT allow all different types of women to ride his pole. Men and women must respect our bodies so when you meet the greater one that GOD has for you. It will be the best. You will be able to learn each other and please each other.❤❤❤

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Жыл бұрын

    Lust takes....Love gives🤔🤔🤔🤯🤯🤯🔥🔥🔥

  • @reziafrederick728
    @reziafrederick7282 ай бұрын

    Pastor Jerome love his teachings glad I was able to catch this one it's been the shortest one in a while.

  • @ernnessaharkless9599
    @ernnessaharkless9599 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Glenn is theeeeeee TRUTH !!!! LITERALLY !!!!

  • @Bmitchell10
    @Bmitchell103 ай бұрын

    This was so.. good, educational and spiritual!

  • @gdzfavor7592
    @gdzfavor75928 ай бұрын

    I absolutely loved this conversation ❤

  • @larrytyson8146
    @larrytyson81468 ай бұрын

    Amazing! Master class

  • @Bee-sp7mb
    @Bee-sp7mb Жыл бұрын

    A man that is too experienced is so intimidating for me because I know he’s experienced things from girls that I probably can’t do & id feel like I’m bad at pleasing him

  • @laylaautry

    @laylaautry

    3 ай бұрын

    Girl right!!!!!

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird10010 ай бұрын

    This is fantastic!!! Regarding the partner's sexual skill, I love a skilled man BUT I'd much rather have a partner who wants to LEARN MY body and what riles me up. Nothing sucks more than being with a man, whether he's experienced or inexperienced, who does not listen or pay attention to me, my body, my reactions. Either way leads to dissatisfaction.

  • @cassandrasmall5189
    @cassandrasmall518910 ай бұрын

    Great episode ❤

  • @PleasantlyPlump-ts
    @PleasantlyPlump-tsАй бұрын

    Great show gentlemen, please have them both back soon.

  • @NBnNC
    @NBnNC Жыл бұрын

    I would prefer a more curious man than a more experienced man…. Because that would make me feel that he is catering the experience more to my body/mind instead of pulling from previous experiences he had

  • @PlutosMoon22
    @PlutosMoon22 Жыл бұрын

    🤭 Pastor Glenn got puns allllday! "My wife gone join in HANDS DOWN " 😂

  • @Chula-LunaDelMar
    @Chula-LunaDelMar Жыл бұрын

    Yoooooo!! This Kat is dope! I ordered his books from the last round table ya'll had with him. Thank you for bringing him back. Absolutely! I'm so here for it!

  • @sharnewson8067
    @sharnewson80674 ай бұрын

    “ Hardly Intiated “ Is the Best Podcast I’ve seen in years!!!!! This man was on Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥(( Tysean and Ryan you guys are doing a great job.., Luv the transparency on your show!

  • @Lakay8
    @Lakay8 Жыл бұрын

    One of Best episode ! I’m here for it ❤👏🏾🔥

  • @jayhorne283
    @jayhorne283 Жыл бұрын

    This is so refreshing to listen to. Love this all.

  • @teenspirit9837
    @teenspirit98375 ай бұрын

    The wisdom 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾

  • @valrodchik.7445
    @valrodchik.74457 ай бұрын

    Big ups to my Executive Pastor and first lady. He is definitely knowledgeable, transparent and I love learning life through his messages. It is a gift to be taught on a regular basis by him. Maybe one day he can give me and my husband to be premarital counseling. This by far was one of the best! Keep bringing the heat HI!

  • @dandresimmons31
    @dandresimmons31 Жыл бұрын

    Favorite episode so far, and that means a lot because I've enjoyed them ALL. This one really resonates though. Great conversations and learnings.

  • @Jovialjay86
    @Jovialjay86 Жыл бұрын

    This was such a great episode it made me go buy Jermone's book. Thanks again fellas for this platform and to Mr &Mrs Glenn for dropping 💎💎

  • @nina-gy8nv
    @nina-gy8nv Жыл бұрын

    This is so on point! On so many levels! I 🎉 how his wife explains how our nurturing role can make a difference in our man's life. How to have him feel safe with you. Applying this in all aspects of family life. Yes! Please have him and his wife back again! ❤

  • @jesstheromantic
    @jesstheromantic9 ай бұрын

    Top 2 interviews ever!

  • @robynhardy5777
    @robynhardy57777 ай бұрын

    Pastor Jermone 🔥

  • @kennyq45
    @kennyq4511 ай бұрын

    This brother Jermone is spittin'!!! 🔥

  • @kiaisavibe
    @kiaisavibe Жыл бұрын

    love this conversation so much and @jermoneGlenn delivered it with so much perspective. i didn't want his wife to stop speaking when she came on sis blessed us greatly with her wisdom ... thank you all sm❤

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Жыл бұрын

    Yhew this was good! Not even finished and mind blown!

  • @W.I.F.E
    @W.I.F.E Жыл бұрын

    I’m catching the replay! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nathanielcarmin6789
    @nathanielcarmin6789 Жыл бұрын

    Need them back asap!

  • @kbutler1968
    @kbutler19689 ай бұрын

    Wow powerful truth

  • @lorinakers7934
    @lorinakers79345 ай бұрын

    Learn each other...love it!

  • @Chula-LunaDelMar
    @Chula-LunaDelMar Жыл бұрын

    Yessss! Bring them both back! I'd love to her from her.

  • @lilz29
    @lilz2911 ай бұрын

    Fantastic podcast!! Please invite them back on !

  • @rotoueltigues9717
    @rotoueltigues9717 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! I Found this to be very interesting and enjoyable ! I am a divorced woman, and you all talked about some very interesting things that I will definitely keep in mind when I do remarry. This opened up different ways to look at certain issues if they ever came up or come up in my future marriage.. thank you too everyone involved in this discussion for being transparent and truly it seems that you all were very honest.

  • @airius1
    @airius1 Жыл бұрын

    This was great. I would like to hear from the both of them. Communication is a key in any relationship…something that I can come up in.

  • @kbutler1968
    @kbutler19689 ай бұрын

    Very self controlled man God is good.

  • @shondah.2195
    @shondah.2195 Жыл бұрын

    This stream was excellent 👏🏾👏🏾. Pastor Jerome Glenn insight and wisdom is valuable and appreciated. His Wife's input at the end of the stream was classic wisdom for Wife's, future Wife's and women in relationship need to take heed. Great job, Hardly Initiated.

  • @Bee-sp7mb
    @Bee-sp7mb Жыл бұрын

    I was hesitant to watch this but I’m glad I did. Very insightful! ❤

  • @Lakay8

    @Lakay8

    Жыл бұрын

    Very !

  • @pinnakal1
    @pinnakal13 ай бұрын

    I’m harnessing and holding my power🙌🏼. The world didn’t give it and the can’t take it away

  • @mcgregor8854
    @mcgregor885411 ай бұрын

    Wow! Great Show!

  • @deborahward9409
    @deborahward9409 Жыл бұрын

    Tysean and Ryan are some crazy dudes! I stay laughing at y'all. Thank you Pastor Jermone. Awesome Teaching!!!

  • @patrycesheppard2971
    @patrycesheppard29717 ай бұрын

    Executive Pastor Glenn, this is AWESOME! So proud of you and 1st Lady Erica Glenn. Thankful you have opportunities to share with the world the same teaching that you provide to us every week. YOUR NAME HAS BEEN CALLED!!! We are grateful to see you lead and love your family. Great conversation Pastor. If y'all think this is good, follow him, weekly teaching, preaching, educating, and mentoring. Awesome conversation, we love you Pastor Jermone and Erica Glenn. Remember, whatever you starve gets weaker and whatever you feed gets stronger.

  • @mccloudjalecia
    @mccloudjalecia Жыл бұрын

    Different breed, spiritual ✨️ I love when he comes on, and his wife is definitely a bonus!!

  • @GraciousoneB
    @GraciousoneB Жыл бұрын

    Yes Guys please have Dr Jermone and Miss Glenn back, the information was deep and power packed. Question: Why good guys love to be in a relationship, but won't take the next step Marriage?

  • @ruthproctor7007
    @ruthproctor7007 Жыл бұрын

    Great convo 🙌🙌

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 Жыл бұрын

    Wow the wife is a game changer.. you guys are blessed! Being vulnerable is really beautiful

  • @kathy-annromain7609
    @kathy-annromain7609 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome session. Thank u

  • @shuntarenee3594
    @shuntarenee359411 ай бұрын

    JESUS🙌🏽 whewwwww!!!! I don’t even know where to begin!! Thank you 😂!!! God created SEX..it’s better under the BOUNDARIES that he has set!!! TRUTH!! 🙏🏽I’m Thankful to be abstinent from sexual immorality…can I get a AMEN🙌🏽💪🏽💃🏽

  • @GraciousoneB
    @GraciousoneB Жыл бұрын

    This will be a good one, topics just keep coming love it❤

  • @WALLACE0000
    @WALLACE0000 Жыл бұрын

    GREAT ONE AGAIN!!!!

  • @kymberleybyrd6998
    @kymberleybyrd6998 Жыл бұрын

    Wow just wow this was a great sit down

  • @Boowillis
    @Boowillis Жыл бұрын

    I prefer my man/husband to be curious about exploring me and I with him. A need and desire…love.

  • @MsLady-gb3gy
    @MsLady-gb3gy8 ай бұрын

    Curious ❤ Men Curious ❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ronsstudios_YT
    @Ronsstudios_YT11 ай бұрын

    Mark My Words One Day I’ll Be On Your Podcast Yall Are Real Brothers And I Got A Story To Tell, Love Y’all Keep Going 🙏🙏🙏

  • @quitalllester3367
    @quitalllester3367 Жыл бұрын

    It is a blessing too a wonderful couple of God

  • @HealingwmommaC
    @HealingwmommaC Жыл бұрын

    Best podcast !!! I love this !!

  • @thart6205
    @thart6205 Жыл бұрын

    This was really good !!!!

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism Жыл бұрын

    Bring HIM & WIFEE back, plzzzzzz.

  • @TheresaJ2911
    @TheresaJ2911 Жыл бұрын

    Personally, and in the context of marriage, I believe that having more or less experience is not a top top priority for me as affirming me, making me feel safe and desirable, and being curious is (to Jermone’s point). Like, yeah you can have a lot of experience or little to no experience at all, but no matter the situation, are you mindful of me, are you willing to figure out and explore with me, or are you selfishly trying to fulfill your own agenda, desires, stroke your ego, etc.? So for me, it’s not about the knowledge/experience or the lack thereof you may have, it’s more about how is your circumstance (i.e. more experience or little to no experience) impacting your heart and your actions in how you are treating and handling me in those intimate moments that we should mutually be enjoying. If that makes sense? 🤔

  • @mstrssmachinist

    @mstrssmachinist

    8 ай бұрын

    🎯🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾💯🙌🏾🥰🙌🏾 Eloquently stated 😊

  • @JashawnMurphy33

    @JashawnMurphy33

    6 ай бұрын

    It makes perfect sense 💯🤎

  • @cynthiamcheard7249
    @cynthiamcheard724910 ай бұрын

    Yes! Bring him and his wife back!

  • @luvinme4ever745
    @luvinme4ever745 Жыл бұрын

    Please have him and his wife back. What she said was powerful. I would find it hard to forgive my husband for infidelity when he didn't have to do it. Her teachings on forgiving and moving forward would be a great benefit.

  • @yolandagreen9180
    @yolandagreen918011 ай бұрын

    Good stuff Pastor Jermone

  • @sharrenpope4524
    @sharrenpope4524 Жыл бұрын

    Great show!

  • @Saywatnah
    @Saywatnah Жыл бұрын

    He saying exactly what I've been trying to get men to see. (About the experience)

  • @dawn7321
    @dawn7321 Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with pastor about wanting a man to be curious.

  • @Tahtiluv
    @Tahtiluv7 ай бұрын

    His wife locked that answer down!! please bring her back

  • @jalesiagarrison5251
    @jalesiagarrison5251 Жыл бұрын

    That's my pastor we so blessed at New Life.

  • @mstrssmachinist

    @mstrssmachinist

    8 ай бұрын

    ❤ Indeed

  • @KanikaHouse
    @KanikaHouse8 ай бұрын

    Initially, I thought I wanted an "experienced" partner but then I learned I had to clarify because people equated experience with the number of partners. It is not that and Mr. Glenn did a wonderful job of eloquently explaining that the sex that I prefer is about connection. If someone is willing to get to know me on the inside, mentally, emotionally, and physically, then that equates to great sex. I prefer a man that is experienced in me... not experienced in other women. That's my answer to the question.

  • @shequeeninmacon8991
    @shequeeninmacon8991 Жыл бұрын

    🗣Bring my pastor back on!! 🤎🤎

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Жыл бұрын

    In an ideal world, a curious pro is the way to go! It’s a “healthy” balance but I acknowledge that it doesn’t show up that way. That was my preference when I was younger but as I mature, confidence and investment in the experience is what matters the most.

  • @sweetchicago4047
    @sweetchicago404710 ай бұрын

    Not him not telling us he was going to be on here .#NLCSE FAMILY💜💜

  • @ninachanelle1214
    @ninachanelle1214 Жыл бұрын

    I’m from CHICAGO WOOHOO ❤AWESOME conversation

  • @heavenonearth468
    @heavenonearth468 Жыл бұрын

    This is brilliant

  • @BibiBouM514
    @BibiBouM514 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @HardlyInitiated

    @HardlyInitiated

    Жыл бұрын

    Let’s goooo 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ernnessaharkless9599
    @ernnessaharkless9599 Жыл бұрын

    Lady Glenn!!!!!! 💛💛💛

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