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WHY QUEENS LEAVE A woman's need for emotional connection by RC Blakes and Lisa Blakes

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WHY QUEENS LEAVE A woman's need for emotional connection by RC
The video is a conversation between RC Blakes and his wife Lisa Blakes about women's emotional needs and the importance of men understanding and meeting those needs. They discuss the impact of emotional intelligence on relationships and the challenges women face in expressing their needs without feeling guilty. They emphasize the significance of emotional connection in relationships and the acknowledgment and appreciation of women's contributions. The conversation also delves into the impact of cultural and societal influences on men's understanding of healthy relationships. Throughout the discussion, they stress the importance of effective communication and understanding each other's emotional needs for building a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.6 ай бұрын

    HELLO FAMILY. Please LIKE this one early today. It’s going to be a good one. 😂

  • @KarenElizabethPalmer-vd5dx

    @KarenElizabethPalmer-vd5dx

    6 ай бұрын

    To: Pastor RC Blake's and First Lady Lisa Blake's, you both have such an authentic, articulate & astounding couple I ever keenly listened to. I/We appreciate all your knowledge, skills and indeed experience. Oh yeah, and Lisa U are absolutely beautiful, natural and wholeheartedly lovely. Be Bless.

  • @jacquelineyoungblood-rozie8555

    @jacquelineyoungblood-rozie8555

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤Thank You Bishop & Lisa! So very relevant! I will be posting on my Facebook Page so that my FB Family can be impacted by the power of your message. You are changing my life as I focus on nu purpose and self-care, with the backdrop of a two-year plan. Many, many thanks.

  • @pat4502

    @pat4502

    6 ай бұрын

    Pastor what is the book on emotional intelligence that you’re reading…bcuz I realized I have some triggers that I want to deal with as well

  • @stephaniejones1463

    @stephaniejones1463

    6 ай бұрын

    Dear Pastor and Lady Lisa Blake. Thank you both for this insight, wisdom and deeply loving compassion. I've just ended an abusive relationship with a man who psychologically abused me so consistently and maliciously that it made me doubt myself on just about every level. He did so much, including constantly trying to push me into becoming a sexual convenience for him and into engaging in a polygamous relationship with him and other women. Your videos and all that you have shared have helped me find the strength to walk away from this pathetic excuse for a man! Feeling traumatised and emotional but so very proud of myself! Healing journey continues, but I'm on my way to the top! I'll see you all there! Many blessings ❤

  • @serenadavis9796

    @serenadavis9796

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you RC and Lisa. The world definitely needed to hear this dialogue. God bless you both.

  • @dededevine7452
    @dededevine74526 ай бұрын

    I left to save myself. I hit rock bottom. This man tried to destroy me. I made a courageous move. It hurt so bad. Time healed me. God stood beside me every step of the way. And still does.

  • @MissLeaaaaa

    @MissLeaaaaa

    6 ай бұрын

    Amen! I felt this 🙏🏽

  • @leebethea-pegues3363

    @leebethea-pegues3363

    6 ай бұрын

    I can relate to what you've saying and I'm happy that we both got away.

  • @segullahheuristics

    @segullahheuristics

    6 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @XanKai-

    @XanKai-

    6 ай бұрын

    God snatched me out of the darkness and I am so grateful that he did I am thankful that he loves me and God never forgot about me thank you Jesus for calvary remembering that precious lamb of God gave me the STRENGTH I need to walk away🙌💪🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸🩸

  • @trinjuwan4422

    @trinjuwan4422

    6 ай бұрын

    Wow...this is same reason I broke free. I couldn't have said it better....God Bless You Queen👑🙏🏽

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.6 ай бұрын

    Please LIKE as soon as possible. I need this message to reach as many MEN and WOMEN as possible tonight.

  • @prettypearls26

    @prettypearls26

    2 ай бұрын

    Tonight. Thank you pastor and wife.

  • @libertygraceglows
    @libertygraceglows6 ай бұрын

    I finally walked away because I felt like I was losing respect for myself every day I stayed. It was hard but God has been faithful and I found a new woman buried deep within. I regained access to my heart and gave Jesus a space to come into my heart and live and it changed my life❤ Watching Bishop Blake’s helped big time, he has been like a spiritual father from a distance.

  • @GerriWritesAbit

    @GerriWritesAbit

    6 ай бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @kellypolfleit3942

    @kellypolfleit3942

    6 ай бұрын

    Same for me

  • @baljithayre1252

    @baljithayre1252

    6 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @4hisglory365

    @4hisglory365

    5 ай бұрын

  • @Iamgorgeousbri.

    @Iamgorgeousbri.

    4 ай бұрын

    Yup

  • @crystalmartin9597
    @crystalmartin95976 ай бұрын

    He left me and that was the best decision he made no more emotional and mental abuse. I’m living my best life.

  • @yokithabridges9768
    @yokithabridges97686 ай бұрын

    I had to leave a 3 year relationship with my ex because he didn't see my worth, I was settling, he took me for granted, and was worried about losing him, but I was losing myself. Now, I'm getting my life back on track, and I'm happier on loving myself again. Process over progress ❤

  • @kerrianntyrell2227

    @kerrianntyrell2227

    6 ай бұрын

    It also took me 3yrs, one miscarriage and I was just losing myself but thanks be to God 👏 I'm still here 👏 being stronger and wiser. Yet, I was tested by him recently trying to start over but my instincts pick up the manipulation.

  • @HolisticManifesting

    @HolisticManifesting

    6 ай бұрын

    Same 3.5 years ❤

  • @Bri-nc8yp

    @Bri-nc8yp

    6 ай бұрын

    @@kerrianntyrell2227good don’t ever fall for that lie that he brings you saying you and him can start over. If you went back to him he would treat you much worse. Things never get better the more chances you give them the disrespect just continues …the humiliation continues….. the gaslighting continues….the manipulation continues

  • @user-nl3uv6yz9c

    @user-nl3uv6yz9c

    6 ай бұрын

    I feel he doesn't see My worth.. I don't feel like I belong. I feel like a stranger. My husband is good , kind ,got me baptized, faithful but there is no Emotional connection between us. The marriage is peaceful but no oxygen. Sometimes, l am angry, don't want to be touched, find it difficult to submit and to be a woman or a wife. I always feel like leaving but have got 4 children. I have told him about my needs but he seems not to get it. This is opening me up to Temptation..

  • @kerrianntyrell2227

    @kerrianntyrell2227

    6 ай бұрын

    @@user-nl3uv6yz9c pray about the situation asking God to fill the void that you're feeling. Stay connected to the Lord because the enemy is attacking marriages and once God is in the midst, you're all going to make it. Pray with your husband and include your children. Prayer changes things. Have a blessed day.

  • @susan5048
    @susan50486 ай бұрын

    I love hearing Lisa’s story of her courage of walking away. More women need to really hear this. Most are afraid of being alone and low self esteem.

  • @sharitaking1664

    @sharitaking1664

    6 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @theantoinettewells
    @theantoinettewells6 ай бұрын

    The emotional connection is the oxygen of the relationship...remove the emotional connection and you can't survive! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 So on point!

  • @user-nl3uv6yz9c

    @user-nl3uv6yz9c

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much.

  • @lilianlundy4753

    @lilianlundy4753

    6 ай бұрын

  • @lindarobinson1980
    @lindarobinson19806 ай бұрын

    I left my husband of 25 years due to his drug use, womanizing, and abusive temperment. No show of emotional affection or empathy. He always had to have the last word! Controlling and jealous of ever man in my life. He tried to break me; however I told God that I will trust him more than the marriage. I left over 20 years ago, divorced him and started my life over! God has been good to me!! I was able to buy my own house 5 years ago on my Social Security income!! I live everyday for God's guidance and blessings!!

  • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood

    @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood

    6 ай бұрын

    Praise God 🙏🙌

  • @sherlm7799

    @sherlm7799

    6 ай бұрын

    (Dating) After 5 yrs, I had to leave him and his drug use. Financially tired. Emotionally tired. spiritually tired. Physically tired with two jobs. Left 4 mths ago

  • @MyMichellle

    @MyMichellle

    6 ай бұрын

    Praise God. I’m happy He has provided for you and given you peace 🤍

  • @TheeGoldenGoddess1

    @TheeGoldenGoddess1

    6 ай бұрын

    That's wonderful! 😊 AGBTTMHD🙏🏽

  • @lala5061

    @lala5061

    Ай бұрын

    Hallelujah 🙌🏽 amen 🙏🏽 so proud of u u are freeeeeeeee God doesn't want us to suffer 🤗

  • @ekayaniperforms
    @ekayaniperforms6 ай бұрын

    Lisa is beautiful ❤ “If you marry purpose you will never be broken by desire “ 🙌🏼

  • @tiffanymcdonald1708

    @tiffanymcdonald1708

    6 ай бұрын

  • @lindsay3043
    @lindsay30436 ай бұрын

    I left because I know my value is far above rubies. The Jesus in me would never tolerate such poor treatment. 💯💯💯

  • @ritadoran5039

    @ritadoran5039

    6 ай бұрын

    I felt the very same way

  • @donnajeffreys8252

    @donnajeffreys8252

    6 ай бұрын

    I finally decided to leave my husband because I thought, I don't want to grow old like this, I'd rather be single and have my peace and self worth restored.

  • @chantemckeithan372
    @chantemckeithan3726 ай бұрын

    I left and never looked back.. When you're constantly trying to be seen, heard, and feeling wanted(outside the bedroom), it can be draining. Once you know your worth and understand that your value is worth more than the physcial, you realize that its sacred and someone will love you for you as a whole. The physical is a bonus not the foundation. My foundation is solely built on God and I'll be single if who God has for me isn't based on God's foundation, I'm content with God and God alone.

  • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood

    @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood

    6 ай бұрын

    This ❤

  • @April-tn7zz

    @April-tn7zz

    17 күн бұрын

    This is my story!

  • @brendahenry8870
    @brendahenry88706 ай бұрын

    I’ve been in my marriage for 43 years, and finally found out I was dealing with a narcissistic man. I’m trying to leave but find myself staying. I pray and ask God for direction. I’m 71 years old now, but need peace

  • @EarthangelRemix

    @EarthangelRemix

    6 ай бұрын

    Lord, put him in the Father's hand, it's a long road & looks like you've proven your worth ✨ 43 yrs is a walk

  • @natashathomas8354

    @natashathomas8354

    6 ай бұрын

    U only need to understand that they don't change they don't make it easy you always have to have a plan. And it's usually no contact get online and study this because it's deeps study so you can really c what you are dealing with this is a very dangerous person

  • @sheliasmith2884

    @sheliasmith2884

    6 ай бұрын

    In our Generation 71 is still fairly young get out while you can because it will age you and make you sick I've been there. Pray and God will give you a plan he did it for me

  • @iishalanae

    @iishalanae

    6 ай бұрын

    You have some much life left you do what you gotta do. Let God direct your steps and don’t let fear keep you where you no longer want to be

  • @susanfernandez5817

    @susanfernandez5817

    6 ай бұрын

    I feel for you. 43 years is a long time to be in a marriage and it's heartbreaking to find out that he is a narcissist. I know the feeling that you are going through. I just left my husband 3months ago after 37years of marriage and it was the hardest thing I have ever done. I found out about 2years ago that he is a narcissist and it took me quite a while to process this horrible realisation. Don't be too hard on yourself that you haven't left yet. It takes time to gather the strength and courage to take the action that you know you need to. God is with you and is healing you every day and giving you strength.

  • @kathywalker9546
    @kathywalker95466 ай бұрын

    I once dated a man that had so many people in his life, I felt insignificant.

  • @krisdunn3825

    @krisdunn3825

    6 ай бұрын

    This is very deep...

  • @cestness

    @cestness

    5 ай бұрын

    I have too 😞

  • @April-tn7zz

    @April-tn7zz

    17 күн бұрын

    This is my story

  • @user-gd5tq7df8h
    @user-gd5tq7df8h6 ай бұрын

    "When you marry purpose, you'll never be broken by desires. If you divorce purpose, desires will destroy you."

  • @juiciferjerny
    @juiciferjerny6 ай бұрын

    I left because of my son. I didn't want him to grow up seeing me getting abused & downgraded, and I didn't want him to think that was normal in any way. What a blessing my son is & has always been!! ❤️

  • @RoZzieAwake

    @RoZzieAwake

    6 ай бұрын

    Same reason I left.

  • @RoZzieAwake

    @RoZzieAwake

    6 ай бұрын

    I said to myself "he will blame me when he grows up. He will blame me for having him around a man who couldn't and wouldn't teach him nothing healthy".

  • @rachelmassielhamilton4207

    @rachelmassielhamilton4207

    6 ай бұрын

    I can relate to this. Its amazing the perspective and strength God gives us when a child is involved.

  • @TM-nb9zf
    @TM-nb9zf6 ай бұрын

    I left a man after a 8 year relationship. Its been a 6 years now. He even sent me a message saying he was proud of me for finally leaving. Ladies, these men know they dont deserve you. They are surprised you deal with them so long

  • @stacie0908

    @stacie0908

    3 ай бұрын

    Wow! No words

  • @Lxxtz_GarZ
    @Lxxtz_GarZ6 ай бұрын

    I ended my relationship because I don't condone drug use, it hurt but I didn't ignore the signs of his behavior Amen I knew my worth. Salute to every woman who knows her worth and finds her worth and man.

  • @Simply_JustKim
    @Simply_JustKim6 ай бұрын

    Leaving someone is never easy if you love them., however you dont want to stay where you’re not wanted. It is a process. 😊

  • @kathymiller4385
    @kathymiller43855 ай бұрын

    My late husband was my king, and i was his queen,i miss him so much. We went through many challenges. I live with the love he left behind for me. GOD is Great. He has been with me throughout my whole life. I will continue to become whole again.

  • @BayouChicGardening
    @BayouChicGardening6 ай бұрын

    That man loves his wife. You can see his entire Spirit just beam every time he looks at her. And Mrs. Lisa is just radiant. I love to see it!!!!

  • @brendaaroussell1934
    @brendaaroussell19346 ай бұрын

    1. Emotional connection 2. Acknowledgement 3. Attention .doing is Gratitude language 4. Understood and accepted 5. Asking for more Empathy This is a great conversation ❤❤❤

  • @user-hv2fl6sj5u

    @user-hv2fl6sj5u

    6 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @zelin7460
    @zelin74606 ай бұрын

    This is a grown and mature conversation, only for mature folks! Love it ❤❤

  • @londontyler6598
    @londontyler65986 ай бұрын

    I had to physically decide to end what I thought was a 5 year relationship, however I realized it was a situationship, and I was dealing with a Narcissist. He tried to come between my Faith, Finances & Family. Once my vision became clear, I realized there was no way God would bring a broken man that did not serve him into my life. I allowed it because I thought they’d change, as we all do.

  • @trenaromain2817
    @trenaromain28176 ай бұрын

    I really wished my ex-husband could have loved me this much and understood my pain. I wasn’t blaming him for anything. Just wished he was truly committed to our relationship. It was devastating to file for divorce. Knowing that he would never be able to truly see me. No matter what I said he just got defensive and think I was saying he was a bad husband. I just got so tired wasting away emotionally. Husband’s out there please watch and listen to this.

  • @tc8330

    @tc8330

    6 ай бұрын

    Agree

  • @user-cu8pi6uh8i

    @user-cu8pi6uh8i

    5 ай бұрын

    How is it that we women go through the sane thing…. 😢

  • @nieyshabrown1525
    @nieyshabrown15256 ай бұрын

    We NEED more Monday Topics with BOTH OF YOU!!! Thank you so much First Lady Lisa for joining Bishop tonight! I loooooove and truly enjoyed this conversation tonight. 💗🙏🏽

  • @RobetteRodgers-dq2vl

    @RobetteRodgers-dq2vl

    6 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah WE NEED THIS HEALTHY WEALTHY CALM SPIRIT LED CONVERSATIONS GLORY GLORY GLORY TO GOD❤😊😊

  • @realliving7340

    @realliving7340

    5 ай бұрын

    I agree!!!!!

  • @keepingthefaithalive
    @keepingthefaithalive6 ай бұрын

    I left because he wasnt in alignment with the assignment that God wanted me to do things wasn't working out because of that I Thank God everyday 🙏🏽

  • @samanthapitts1910
    @samanthapitts19106 ай бұрын

    OMG I need time to my self to just be me! No ones mother, spouse, friend, just time with me! Mrs. Blakes is a blessing! As many teachings I’ve listened to from bishop, I’ve been teary eyed this whole hour. She’s speaking to my soul! So often, we as women sacrifice for the family & no one is concerned about us.

  • @norcabrera
    @norcabrera6 ай бұрын

    I left 10 yrs ago. Pastor Blake helped me for few years to understand why things happened. Pastor Blake was the counselor I needed to move through one of the most difficult times in my life. I will forever be grateful for the word of wisdom and love that I received from him. Thank you and your beautiful wife. God bless you.

  • @brandyhayes8968
    @brandyhayes89686 ай бұрын

    I walked away, because I knew if I wanted to have any ounce of self-respect left for myself, I had to. I could no longer look at myself in the mirror, and be OK with the decisions and choices I was making for myself. It was the best choice I’ve ever made in my life. God made sure that I didn’t lack or want for anything during that time my life literally blossom after I walked away. For anyone in that situation, I strongly encourage you to see God ask for guidance and wisdom, and he will order your steps. God is not the author of confusion, nor does he want to see his daughter living 3:14 in despair

  • @GerriWritesAbit

    @GerriWritesAbit

    6 ай бұрын

    Beautiful words

  • @DivinevirgoFeminine

    @DivinevirgoFeminine

    6 ай бұрын

    This ❤

  • @JustMe-ki3ce
    @JustMe-ki3ce6 ай бұрын

    At 61 yrs old, I walked away……..totally heartbroken praying ill recover from the pain of missing the one I thought was for life. I had never been so fulfilled. It was a whirlwind romance that lasted 3 months, I had waited over a decade for, it was magical. He didn’t miss a beat, I’m stuck in longing for what coulda been. No fighting ….. just instant strangers. What’s wrong with grown ups? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just moved here, he was my only friend here. He went Mia, talked outta both sides of his mouth, I felt bad energy at times, he only wanted to communicate about sex or non deep stuff. He treated me well but mislead me & I allowed it for a quick minute. I miss him so much, it hurts right here ❤. I straightened my crown and walked….. I’m devastated, he was suppose to be my forever. I appreciate all you counsel, its working. Please pray for me, I feel like a silly old woman.

  • @AT-pw9dx

    @AT-pw9dx

    6 ай бұрын

    Im so sorry lady😢

  • @deborahlawrence2275

    @deborahlawrence2275

    6 ай бұрын

    What's the lesson to learn in this? Ask the Father...

  • @MicahMulindwa

    @MicahMulindwa

    6 ай бұрын

    After reading your story I realized we are going through the Same thing. Day 9 today no contact. I left him. 😂😂😂. Ain't God good❤ went MIA on him....too many clowns out here trying to play all kinda games.

  • @dorothymatthews6690

    @dorothymatthews6690

    6 ай бұрын

    I think we ignore the red flags because trust me, we see them but ignore them. The best Iesson I've learned in all of my failed relationships is that I did not listen to God/Holy Spirit when they told me and did not listen to my intuition. Now I don't hesitate and can spot a fake just by looking at his body language.

  • @pamelam6827

    @pamelam6827

    6 ай бұрын

    You are not a silly old woman. You are a normal human being, who desires and deserves love which is normal. I am glad that you straightened your crown. I pray that you will find true love and happiness! 💕

  • @shermickamiller1158
    @shermickamiller11586 ай бұрын

    I left my last relationship cause god show me that he wasn’t my future husband cause he keep breaking my heart little by little with his games.

  • @tinaduncan72
    @tinaduncan726 ай бұрын

    I'm grateful God gave me the strength and courage to leave. My baby was 9 mons old then. She'll be 39 in July.

  • @jacinthabrice5296
    @jacinthabrice52966 ай бұрын

    What manner of man is this that gives his wife a week off every year!? 😢 I am screenrecording this and putting it on my status now!! (tears) God bless you Pastor!!! God bless you first lady Lisa! ❤❤❤

  • @ceciliagranados6989
    @ceciliagranados69896 ай бұрын

    I left a 20 year marriage as a gift to myself on my 50th birthday 🎂 🎉best birthday ever😊thanks for this talk ❤

  • @lavigne2929
    @lavigne29296 ай бұрын

    Lisa, your words of wisdom were actually a confirmation of what God has told me to do in this season of my life, which is to focus on my purpose and use this time as a single woman to heal and prepare for my future husband. Thank you so much!

  • @heatherbzdawka3350
    @heatherbzdawka33506 ай бұрын

    I love Lisa she's a very good person and down to earth and honest who refuses to hold back the truth of how she feels and that is exactly the meaning of respect and I'm not just saying that because I'm a woman from the hood half my life and the other half grown up in the ghetto it's because she's a strong woman in Christ and she loves who she is and there's nothing on earth except for our connection to Jesus that can be more refreshing then that Amen 😇❤️

  • @KarinedaSilva
    @KarinedaSilva6 ай бұрын

    After Lisa said she had opened the Bible and it came across Matthew 6:33, I opened a random verse on a Bible site and it was Psalm 57:4, which is basically the same verse. I'm going through a similar situation lately.

  • @gloriagarris1574
    @gloriagarris15746 ай бұрын

    I found out that when you give up, that is when God will step in and literally blow your mind.

  • @quarantinediary3480

    @quarantinediary3480

    Ай бұрын

    Explain what you mean please. 🙏🏾

  • @gloriagarris1574

    @gloriagarris1574

    Ай бұрын

    @@quarantinediary3480 Sometimes in life we desire certain things like a relationship, marriage, home. It could be just about anything in life. Then all of a sudden you look around and see that you are in the latter stages of your life and still haven’t acquired any of those desires. So you say to yourself, it is what it is and you decide to concentrate on yourself and live your best life. In other words you give up on those desires. Maybe, you even start to vent to yourself about not having achieved any of those dreams not knowing that God is watching. You probably don’t even realize that He see everything that you done for others and how you dry to be the best version of yourself. So, you give up and here comes God walking in your dream revealing to you how He plans to bless you. And trust me it could be something out of this world and lots of tests. But it will be achievable 😄. It’s happening to me as I speak but it is in God’s timing. We need to remember that when we live right, help others, especially God’s people, love one another, be honest, trustworthy etc. In other words do the work. We will be rewarded. It’s almost as if God want us to surrender our will to him because He want the best for us. I am so looking forward to seeing God finish this work that He started in my life 🤭. I hope this answered your question.

  • @SharonHoward-zq5uv
    @SharonHoward-zq5uv6 ай бұрын

    Yasss I walked away, took some years to get over it, but I did!!! So glad I did, I'm much better off without the drama.

  • @alphaandomega1332
    @alphaandomega13326 ай бұрын

    Oh My God First Lady to be heard and seen not from a show and tell or a "Oh look at me perspective" it's a private matter between a man and a woman. This is for building a friendship into a relationship into a marriage. Thank you both 🙏🏾. Bishop you said something so profound that was it went deeper for you understanding First Lady's background and your process in her healing.

  • @lynnlamont8942
    @lynnlamont89426 ай бұрын

    Thank you First Lady Lisa for speaking what some of us women can't say. You are the feminine voice for us to catch ourselves to level up with understanding and to value ourselves . God bless you and Bishop Blakes 🙏🏽👍🏽

  • @sedrickgranger428
    @sedrickgranger4286 ай бұрын

    This definitely hits home for me I went through this with my Ex Wife and I remember feeling just like what Bishop said I felt like I wasn’t cheating I wasn’t hanging out I worked my but off to provide but I didn’t have the emotional intelligence to handle that situation thus she’s my Ex Wife

  • @brendaaroussell1934
    @brendaaroussell19346 ай бұрын

    This is why I love my ministry. The transparency allows me to be free with my self-confidence

  • @thabangmoswetsi9757
    @thabangmoswetsi97576 ай бұрын

    I am happy i get to have a chance at marrying right, because of you guys, your ministry is a gift, been binge watching your content like a mad man since last year 🤣

  • @jacquelinejackson5559
    @jacquelinejackson55596 ай бұрын

    I’m so ready to hear this conversation!! Thank you Mrs. Blakes for blessing us with your words and wisdom this evening.

  • @gerijohnson3850
    @gerijohnson38506 ай бұрын

    Wow. This is the most powerful teaching I have ever heard between two spouses. Thanks for your transparency and sharing. I am a Biblical person, and this cuts to the core of what marriage is supposed to look like. Divorced now because I do value myself I will never compromise myself again. No bragging. Just confidence in God's word. Thanks to you both.

  • @DraMaWms
    @DraMaWms6 ай бұрын

    This was so helpful because it wasn't one-sided. We got to hear from people in a healthy marriage about what they had to do to heal themselves in order to get where they are. I love the fact that they started with healing themselves. ❤

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco38876 ай бұрын

    The lady of thee hour! Queen Lady Lisa Blakes! 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽 💐💐💐💐

  • @debrajordan6514
    @debrajordan65144 ай бұрын

    This is what the Lord sees as a man & woman being a power couple. Integrity. Honesty. & Commitment.

  • @latoracole4356
    @latoracole43566 ай бұрын

    I left after 27 years because I had no more to give 😔 I had to begin to live and care for myself 🥹

  • @outsidethebox8406

    @outsidethebox8406

    6 ай бұрын

    Completely understand. We give & give but no one child's our cup. Good for you.🙏🏽

  • @dianacarreras3461
    @dianacarreras34616 ай бұрын

    WOW broken masculinity is to dismantle healthy women hood!! This is precious godly fatherly information that helps builds Gods daughters ❤🙏a break toxic ungodly cycles!!!

  • @2daldridge
    @2daldridge6 ай бұрын

    I just wasn't feeling good about myself in his presence. That was enough for me.

  • @lindsay3043

    @lindsay3043

    6 ай бұрын

    This speaks to me. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-bz3mc9kl3b
    @user-bz3mc9kl3b6 ай бұрын

    This was a great conversation, very enlightening. My husband is a great provider, or was a great provider in the past, but because I didn’t feel he was emotionally connected to me, I withdrew and now he will not even support me financially. We are just housemates and married on papers only. The information that you and Lisa shared was very impactful, unfortunately my husband wouldn’t be open to listening to this.

  • @nomasontomagobe2844
    @nomasontomagobe28446 ай бұрын

    I tried to communicate my emotional needs to my hubby for the last 46 years, but I was never taken seriously by him. I tried in all forms of good communication and letters, and I supplied his narcissistic needs, thinking that he would love me better. We are both born again Christians, I fear and love God and submit to foolishness sometimes. Lisa, for you, it was a bit easier because you knew he would listen and do something about it. For me, it is still falling of deaf ears. I am now strongly requesting a separation, and if he divorces me, so be it. I am choosing me now, not him anymore.

  • @rhonnesanelms8969

    @rhonnesanelms8969

    6 ай бұрын

    I can feel pain,along with frustration,throughout your testimony. May you continue to heal though this life journey. 💐

  • @quarantinediary3480

    @quarantinediary3480

    Ай бұрын

    Any progress? How is it going.

  • @kameronscott6180
    @kameronscott61806 ай бұрын

    I love love love this! I’m sooo grateful for Bishop and First Lady! ❤️ Glory to God!

  • @Franziska.Meyer.
    @Franziska.Meyer.6 ай бұрын

    “When you marry your purpose, you’ll never be disappointed by desires. But when you divorce purpose, desires will destroy you.” Wow, that is next level teaching RC 🙏🏼 I’m so happy to also FINALLY (😅😅) hear Lisa’s side of the story cos I’ve always been wondering. Thanks so much to you two amazing humans ✨ Much love from Switzerland 🏔️

  • @yvonnemacharia8604
    @yvonnemacharia86046 ай бұрын

    Lisa is amazing ❤ please grace us with your presence more often

  • @nellie_wm
    @nellie_wm6 ай бұрын

    Wow! “The full time job of broken masculinity is to dismantle healthy womanhood” That is eye opening! Very impactful! Thank you both!

  • @RobetteRodgers-dq2vl
    @RobetteRodgers-dq2vl6 ай бұрын

    Praise God for this Power Couple in these days and times.... Not Flashy but CLASSY!!!😊😊❤

  • @anabella4296
    @anabella42966 ай бұрын

    Bishop we also don't take you and Lisa lightly! Your time and contributions to our lives are priceless💯. 🙌🙏✨️⚡️💫🌟💖💛❤️

  • @troid4366
    @troid43666 ай бұрын

    Awesome video! I’d like to say thank you to Lady Lisa, for pointing out that women are helpers by nature. God made us to be a helpmeet, When we feel that there’s nothing for us to help with, then we feel lost and useless. There is nothing wrong with us, but we are so often labeled codependent. Labeling someone as a narcissist can often be overdone, but labeling someone as codependent can be overdone also.

  • @mayperez1420
    @mayperez14205 ай бұрын

    Lisa has a glow to her. You can see the serenity between them. So beautiful to see a healthy marriage.

  • @missnova487
    @missnova4876 ай бұрын

    Its TIME pops!! We queens will support KINGOLOGY

  • @shannonlivingston8109
    @shannonlivingston81096 ай бұрын

    This was absolutely phenomenal!!! A pure, clean breath of fresh air!!! Thank you Mrs. Blakes and Bishop Blakes.

  • @jocelyndemeritte6627
    @jocelyndemeritte66276 ай бұрын

    Yep most men think exactly what pastor stated What more do you want

  • @pat4502
    @pat45026 ай бұрын

    Right emotional connection = emotional protection

  • @filipinaescala1811
    @filipinaescala18116 ай бұрын

    Thank you my life has changed because I start to apply all these tools,I found a man who I started to use your formulas and I see the difference.I am 55 and this time I should have learned my lessons.I love the idea that I learned to communicate my needs to this new man of my life and he is responding very nice and quickly ❤️I continue to watch your videos and I thank both of you for all the wisdom I learned

  • @southerngurl.speaks4901
    @southerngurl.speaks49016 ай бұрын

    Thank you First Lady Lisa for joining us. Your presence and way of handling your relationship with wisdom is such an example to us. Plus we love seeing you two together and just your interaction is a standard we can all pray for.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys82526 ай бұрын

    I have always been a letter writer too 📜 ✍🏾 such a blessing to hear how both of you cared and loved one another enough to learn how to work through issues so that your marriage can thrive ❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing

  • @tonyterry6631
    @tonyterry66316 ай бұрын

    I would like to hear you talk about Men and how they Think Feel And Act.

  • @ashleeharding3289
    @ashleeharding32896 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed listening to you both tonight. Married couples...just couples in general need to hear more of this. You both have been a blessing to my husband and I since we started listening about a year ago. May God continue to bless you Pastor RC Blakes and First Lady Lisa Blakes. 🙏

  • @perezjudah1208

    @perezjudah1208

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤I love the picture of both you and your husband listening to wholesome teaching together. May the Lord bless your union and cause you great success on your lifetime together... ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jayshaun87
    @jayshaun876 ай бұрын

    This was such a blessing❤ as a single woman it makes my heart smile to see a beautiful godly couple

  • @StarlyteG
    @StarlyteG6 ай бұрын

    Lisa, please come back .You validated what I went through so long ago with my relationship. You explained this so well. Thank you so much for that👍❤❤❤

  • @sRaiia
    @sRaiia6 ай бұрын

    Thank you both! This was much needed & Lisa brought tears to my eyes with her realness of the battles us women face when we are trying to stay focused on our purpose. Lisa, I understand not liking to speak on cameras but thank you truly for stepping out of your comfort zone to help us, we are listening ❤️🙏🏼

  • @nunurbizness06
    @nunurbizness066 ай бұрын

    You are such an adorable couple! The warmth and genuine care for the people you share your journey with is evident. Thank You for this! God bless you both! 🙏😂

  • @gladysmuthara1904
    @gladysmuthara19046 ай бұрын

    Hahahaha, the hats thing is so funny! I love how you realized that she needed to be her authentic self in Ministry and you allowed and supported her to be. On behalf of my late mum also, I say thank you Bishop for all the times you remind Mum Lisa to care for herself. I just wish my mum got that kind of support for the many years she was sick, yet still having to work in the farm, the house, the kitchen and put food on the table. I pray to get a partner who will support my need for self-care and remind me to constantly care for myself, even as I work hard to support him and our kids.

  • @andreagrant6814
    @andreagrant68146 ай бұрын

    Happy to be on this programme this evening. I live in Westmoreland, Jamaica. It was a great day when I found both of you. You have change my life significantly.

  • @GerriWritesAbit

    @GerriWritesAbit

    6 ай бұрын

    I love Jamaica

  • @danielle1463
    @danielle14636 ай бұрын

    Did not know Mrs. RC Blake Jr wife was a nurse, I have been a nurse for 20+ yrs.. Very nice, I love it..Thank you for the message.

  • @wandadcastille9937
    @wandadcastille99376 ай бұрын

    My spiritual parents looking great❤❤

  • @GerriWritesAbit

    @GerriWritesAbit

    6 ай бұрын

    My spiritual brother & sister since we are the same age 😀

  • @venusplummer1096
    @venusplummer10966 ай бұрын

    Praise God, Pastor Blake , and Mrs. Lisa You're a blessing to me. I've been there, but I thank God for moving that person far away from me . HALLELUJAH

  • @sharondahenderson7775
    @sharondahenderson77756 ай бұрын

    Hi, I usually don't leave comments, but I had to make an exception. I was helped, encouraged, and inspired. Thanks to both of you for your truth and wisdom. May God bless you both!

  • @lavitawilliams2207
    @lavitawilliams22076 ай бұрын

    Yes Lord,Standing On Tip Toed Anticipation To See & Experience How the Lord Will Use 1stLady Lisa Blake's In A Very Special Way To Speak An Anointed Message To Us Most Definitely A Word We Need To Hear🙏We On Top And Going Higher Cause God Has More In Store For Us🙏

  • @sarahpeyton3824
    @sarahpeyton38246 ай бұрын

    Bishop R C… we saw that look after she talked about the baseball player 😄😄

  • @valrio8224
    @valrio82246 ай бұрын

    This was a blessing! Thank you for addressing the emotional connection that women often feel is missing from relationships since a lot of men have a hard time realizing that they must meet the needs in their spouse that y”cannot be physically seen. Good to know that RC Blakes was once like this and was able to change his perspective and create an emotional connection.

  • @lornahemsley9150
    @lornahemsley91506 ай бұрын

    Thank you I was in a situation where he almost destroyed my life I got out recovering he was a cover narcissist Thanks looking forward to your message

  • @natashathomas8354

    @natashathomas8354

    6 ай бұрын

    Please don't look back these are some evil people they don't change study that word so you really know who they are.

  • @bobbijokramm1976
    @bobbijokramm19766 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the Blake's more than I can write in here but would like to say they brought me back to life after a 12 yr. narcissistic abuse I prayed my way out of ...scared and locked in my house I found these KZread videos that start the ball to me stepping back into my power....which NO DOUBT WAS DIVINELY ORCHESTRATED....AND THEY ARE EARTH ANGELS RESTORING ANCIENT WISDOM TO RESTORE OUR CONSCIOUSNESS.... ABSOLUTELY PRICELESS 💯 THANK U FROM MY DEEPEST DEPTH OF APPRECIATE R.C.AND LISA 💎BLAKE💎👉👑

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown50696 ай бұрын

    Beautiful Queen Mrs. First Lady Lisa, is a Beautiful Queen!😇❤️🎊🤗

  • @catherinewicker9541
    @catherinewicker95416 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Lisa and Pastor ❤❤ I have finally realized that the words "I love you" are just words without actions. Yes I love to hear it but actions say you really don't like me that much. Thank you again for clarity. I walked away with no contact and it is fulfilling to love myself first with God as my guide. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sandratalbert4253
    @sandratalbert42536 ай бұрын

    This interview is such a Blessing. I just lost my Husband of 30 yrs. Now I have the Wisdom!

  • @Susan-ee2dl

    @Susan-ee2dl

    6 ай бұрын

    Sorry for your loss.

  • @gloriagarris1574
    @gloriagarris15746 ай бұрын

    That is so true. I don’t think that I would have a problem with walking away from anything that isn’t serving the purpose that God ordained for my life. I have done well in my life with the help of God. It won’t be a problem continuing as I am .

  • @englishforcanada
    @englishforcanada6 ай бұрын

    Listened last night and again this morning with breakfast to learn from Lady Blakes. Please come back! ❤

  • @sonyacreel6600
    @sonyacreel66006 ай бұрын

    We have to get those thumbs up 👍. We're well over 500 tonight

  • @lachelegandy6993
    @lachelegandy69936 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed all of your comments, Lady Lisa! You spoke a word into my spirit! Thank you, Bishop for hearing the ladies to having her join you. Great conversation!!! ❤

  • @zephanieflippin9206
    @zephanieflippin92066 ай бұрын

    Yes yes yes! Bring her back. I loved what she had to say. It was just starting to get good.❤😊

  • @CaNCaN-jo3sh
    @CaNCaN-jo3sh6 ай бұрын

    I smiled so hard when you both giggled! I love you both so dearly! You’ve changed my mind in ways you’ll never understand🥰love you God Parents❤

  • @karenmarshall6014
    @karenmarshall60146 ай бұрын

    This is a very nice video. I’m not married and probably will never marry but with so much toxicity shown in relationships today it’s good to listen to an open honest thoughtful conversation between husband and wife. Thank you for lifting my spirit and giving me hope. Rev Blake may God continue bless you and your wife Lisa’ marriage and ministry.

  • @liliansilva9173
    @liliansilva91736 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! You both are wonderful! Please Lisa comeback!!!❤

  • @Apostylicpoet
    @Apostylicpoet25 күн бұрын

    I left after 6 mos, but I knew him for 20 yearsssss. He said he was ready, we both lied! 😅 I knew I needed to seek first the kingdom and he did too, but was trying to put the horse before the cart. I played myself! But everything happens for a reason. I’m finally involved in purpose and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, not even wanting God to rush sending nobody! I’m just enjoying my time with the Father and being able to pray as long as I want, sit in silence for as long as I want! Basically do whatever I want! I’m embracing this season with both hands and with gratitude. Thank you for this conversation! 😊

  • @darnellroberts-licciardi1128
    @darnellroberts-licciardi11286 ай бұрын

    You guys are amazing!! Thank you Lisa for putting words to what I believe many of us women feel and can’t explain. Thank you both for all you do..❤