It' s hard to sit in front of the camera and speak up about things like that, but you did it to help people who have the same problem. Thank you so much for doing this! ❤ I will always watch your videos and respect you for what you' re doing.

@LiciaWang

Ай бұрын

Aww thank you so much for your support, it’s always so nice to hear from you, it really means so much ❤ it was definitely scary to make this video, but I felt like it’s important to talk about!

Timestamps 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - Perfectionism & Self-Criticism 3:21 - Conflict Avoidance 5:32 - Self-Oppression & Loss of Identity 7:14 - Being the "good kid" (and how it's not so good) 8:46 - The negative effects of people pleasing 9:53 - Facing pushback when setting boundaries 10:56 - Being "mature for your age" 12:38 - Mindsets to heal & break free! 15:06 - How to stop people pleasing! 17:06 - How this affects our relationships + ending the cycle

Sorry for sneaking into a daughter's conversation 😅. But I have to tell that as a Asian it is even harder to be the eldest. If our siblings will get f#cked up it'd be an our fault 😢 And I agree with you that we should stay away from useless conversations. I naturally don't like to talk much about useless things. Great vid again girl ❤

@LiciaWang

Ай бұрын

No don’t apologize at all! So happy to hear from you again :) YES culture is also such a big part in this. I mainly called it “eldest daughter” because that’s what the internet’s been calling this and that was my experience, but I am certain this applies to a whole variety of people (unfortunately)

@vip_izza

Ай бұрын

@@LiciaWang you always bring such interesting topics and things always bothering inside my head. Such a superpower 😁❤️

@LiciaWang

Ай бұрын

@@vip_izza aww I’m so so glad to hear ❤️ your support really helps keep me going, more coming soon!

@vip_izza

29 күн бұрын

@@LiciaWang always here to support ! Keep em coming Lici