Spending is how she dealt with her pain and unhappyness

@stigkenobi7525

11 ай бұрын

At the cost of her kids.

@shirleyhodge3524

11 ай бұрын

I guess i don't know what the childrens cost was they lived a lavious life i would think. It seems they both had their faults all the way till a divorce happen.

@shirleyhodge3524

11 ай бұрын

@@stigkenobi7525 I may of put the reply in the wrong place? I think the children lived well at this time but it looks he and his wife crossed the line with spending .

@vampirgirl41

4 ай бұрын

​@@shirleyhodge3524Why don't stop cheating? xD Or get a divorce. How disfunctional must the relationship have been, if they chose to stay together for the kids and it kept going like this? xD And why should his wife taken that shit? xD

@shirleyhodge3524

4 ай бұрын

I am so far away from this video that i don't even know what you are even talking about. Its problably been a year or more since this video was watched. I don't care what he or his wife done@@vampirgirl41

Dolph Lundgren is one of the few celebrities i have crazy envy for...perfect height, amazing looks, incredible physique, insanely intelligent...dude REALLY won the genetics lottery!! Plus he's brutally honest and doesn't bullsht around with his answers, such a likeable bloke.

No matter what. It's just never a good idea to cheat on your spouse or significant other. If you are at that point in the relationship, then it's better to just call it quits and move on.

@TheForgivenman

Жыл бұрын

What about the kids

@alecaquino4306

Жыл бұрын

@@TheForgivenman Don't stop loving them. You don't have to be married to continue to do so.

@AEthelingg

Жыл бұрын

@@alecaquino4306 some people stay together, purely for the kids. then cheating is kind of a no brainer at a certain point

@alecaquino4306

Жыл бұрын

@@AEthelingg Exactly. Cheating can be incredibly hurtful and comes from a very negative place. It should not be confused with an open marriage situation either where both people have come to an agreement and are comfortable with pursuing such a lifestyle without lies or deceit involved. Ultimately, it's about finding a way to be happy without hurting anyone as a consequence. If the marriage is an unhappy one, your ability to be a good parent and provider to your children will inevitably be impacted even if you don't realize it at the time. That's not good for you, your spouse, or the children who are caught in the crossfire.

@Christina-sf4py

Жыл бұрын

Jimmy, You talk about her being unstable but admit to cheating when she probably hasn't alll riighty then. And if she is truly unstable, remember who asked her to marry him. 😅

I had a very violent childhood and understood every emotion he mentioned regarding the poor commitment and wanting to run. Some people should never bring children into the world to leave them with this life long baggage.

@swiftkarma4436

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jasonborne5724

Жыл бұрын

My wife and I had/have terrible parents. But we don’t live (mentally) in our parents basement. Our life is fantastic, full of the love and support we never received. There’s a lot of F up parents, realize that and live a good life, because it’s short.

@incorectulpolitic

Жыл бұрын

Thomas Bernhard: "... if people think they bring "kids" into this world. They actually have adults, not kids! They give birth to a sweating, abominable, corpulent publican or to a mass murderer, that's the one they give birth to. And then the people say, they beget their little star, but in reality they beget an 80-year old human being who's oozing liquids from all over, who stinks, who is blind, and who limps, and who can no longer move because of gout. THAT's the man they bring into this world." NPCs obsess about the baby but not the beaten broken down person that baby will become. Ohhhh but you were such a happy baby… a baby is a biological need machine, that will become just another future funeral. every baby is just another future corpse.

This man is talking TRUTH, what a breath of fresh air!!!

Now we know where all those straight to dvd movies came from

You’ve got to admire Dolphs honesty.

@robd1329

Жыл бұрын

After seeing that pic of his wife...i would have went back to Grace Jones!

@loot6

Жыл бұрын

You can't admire the cheating though.

@paulpurves484

Жыл бұрын

@@loot6 hey no one’s perfect.!!

@TheMohaChannel

Жыл бұрын

@@loot6 it sounds like a marriage that was dysfunctional from early on and they stayed together just for the kids. He said “she didn’t want to come with me when I had to travel for work”. Sounds like she preferred the sunny Marbella and the flashy lifestyle over being by her husband’s side when he is on movie sets alone in another country.

@IaloneAmTHEChoppedONE

Жыл бұрын

why wouldn't he be honest ? he's old and he already made it in life lol

By being honest the man is relatable.. He has spoken indep about his trauma and tried to help others 👍

Moral of the story to me is we all struggle, even those who we admire, no matter how seemingly perfect they appear to us. We just have to make the best out of what we have and not dwell in the thought of "why is this happening to ME?" and control self pitty, instead focus on getting out of that mindset and again, make the most of it

@MarkMarkko

Жыл бұрын

Moral of the story is actually to be grateful what you have and not to gamble with it. Unless he lived decent life, respected his wife, stay dedicated to his work.. he used his still prime years to cheat and waste money, putting his career aside.

@bb8942

Жыл бұрын

@@MarkMarkko your both wrong the moral is be smart wth your money and don't mess around on your wife!!!!

@davidhem3809

Жыл бұрын

​@@MarkMarkko Q 11am

@gtboard

Жыл бұрын

Also never let up meeting your kids, they grow old fast!

@kbanghart

Жыл бұрын

​@@bb8942 nothing wrong with what they said

Any cheater, man or woman is completely untrustworthy in any relationship, or even a friendship. You could never trust them as friend, because if they cheated on someone who they claimed to love, then what do you think they would be willing to do behind your back as friend! People need to wising up, and stop playing into the current agendas, and trends. People no longer have morals and values!!!!!!!

@KISEwun

5 ай бұрын

That is exactly why I don't keep cheaters as friends

@lordoshower3478

5 ай бұрын

Let me guess… they will once they accept god?

@benfisher1376

3 ай бұрын

Unrealistic standards. Cheating is unpleasant, but a common fact of life I'm afraid. Feelings often change.

@KISEwun

3 ай бұрын

@@benfisher1376 a lot of things are common, but you don't have to spend your time with "common" and it's not unrealistic to do so. Weak copout.

@strafniki1080

Ай бұрын

I like Dolph but cheating is bad

Mr. Lundgren sounds like a very down to earth guy. Not arrogant like some of the other actors.

He’s being honest as honest can get. I love tht.

Story of bad side of alcohol; partying, unfaithful, maybe also cancer and not doing 100%. I beleive his father was abusive and and suffered from alcoholism. Lets hope him all well and he is a fighter. Great interview!

@Gogs126

Жыл бұрын

Alcohol is just a symptom, it's not the cause. The trauma is the cause.

@gtboard

Жыл бұрын

@@Gogs126 Alcohol doesnt help you out of it. Alcohol is part of the reason for misbehaving with his father and himself :/ Alcohol increases the aleady existing problems :(

@MrBrock314

Жыл бұрын

@@Gogs126 Alcohol might be a symptom of emotional/physical trauma but it's the cause of a lot of future trauma. Drinking your problems away does not work any better than eating your feelings or being an adrenaline junkie to avoid your emotions. All these roads lead to death and/or more trauma. It's a false solution that's actually just a new problem. It's like being stabbed and shooting yourself in the foot with a .45 to distract yourself from the pain of the knife. But sometimes, you're aiming that gun a lot higher than a foot.

I always thought living in Spain all those years and so far away from Hollywood hurt his career. He just confirmed it.

@robd1329

Жыл бұрын

..it was the wife that made his wallet hurt

@wantutosigh1117

Жыл бұрын

@@robd1329 I'm talking about his career. His opportunities.

@robd1329

Жыл бұрын

@@wantutosigh1117 he had one ugly wife...uhhh

@RunForPeace-hk1cu

Жыл бұрын

@@robd1329 bc he cheated on her ... he deserved it.

Comes across as a real nice man. Been through stuff, suffered and grown wise as a result ⭐️⭐️

@Hoolitank

Жыл бұрын

Millionaire cheater sounds like a real nice man.

@user-ur3cl2pq5i

Жыл бұрын

real sweet man wtf are you all talking about you people

@benfisher1376

3 ай бұрын

​@@user-ur3cl2pq5i They are all just moral Puritans

Very interesting interview with Dolph. Other people's lives always look so easy from the outside.

@codylarkhart261

Жыл бұрын

Thats why you never judge a book by it's cover.

@HomeAtLast501

Жыл бұрын

I'd be beside myself if my wife were charging $60,000 a month on credit cards. Poor guy.

So candid. Great interview. Always loved him growing up. It’s nice to see he’s back.

@ZenDragonYoutubeChannel

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, very honest interview. Have you seen his boxing fight, and his full contact bare knuckle Karate fights? I just did a video called "Dolph Lundgren in a REAL FIGHT! ", if you remember and appreciate Dolph Lundgren, I think it's well worth checking out :)

Trauma manifests itself in many ways and it’s great that he is so candid about his shortcomings. Hope he is on a happier path now. ❤

@Mitchellucia

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that am sure.

@volvo24091

Жыл бұрын

What trauma??

@swide2750

Жыл бұрын

i guess youve never met a pyschopath lol

@vandalg282

Жыл бұрын

None of this is trauma.....stop playing armchair psychologists.

How honest and self aware! What a gift!

Love the honesty.

I also have a tendency to self-sabotage myself. I think it comes from over-thinking and analysis paralysis, eventually making the wrong decision. It's best to be easy going, not think too much, and have a more positive attitude. This is mostly a reminder to myself. Thanks for reading.

Wow very truthful. Thank you.

He’s just incredibly handsome. He is also a very intelligent man. I wish him much goodness in life.

Love his honesty and openness.

Amazing interview 🙌🏻

Great interview. I love it

A lot of women now/back in the day didn't care enough to leave toxic men as long as they are financially taken care of. From what I've seen from family members, coworkers and friends is they willingly stay in toxic relationships/marriages for either finances or don't want to be single, don't want to start over or be divorced. If they willingly stay and put up with bullshit that's on them. The cheater has to deal with their consequences too from STDs, HIV, child support for side piece babies, homicidal side pieces, wife divorcing, job loss from cheating with coworkers and etc. These kids are the real victims in all this because they had to live in the after math of their parents foolishness.

I can relate to him financially. I went through a messy divorce too.

@MrBrock314

Жыл бұрын

Hopefully, it's for a very different reason than his. That situation is rough always, but, in his case, he certainly didn't help himself.

Incredibly focused and frank discussion. He doesn’t excuse infidelity, but as the conversation progresses there is the mention of the divorce and the childhood abuse. The causes and consequences in life are clear, but he doesn’t play “victim”

Readoholic, Alcoholic, Chocoholic, it doesnt matter, if you are an Addict? You're Addicted. Dont matter to an Obsession! ... love Dolph man. Icon!

He should definitely star in a movie as some rugged cowboy. He's got the looks, stature and voice for it.

@user-wz5ir9jl8q

Жыл бұрын

Well, as for me has hasn't got anything anymore. But good luck to him!

@TeamCat1128

Жыл бұрын

Yah, or European criminal mastermind would be great. Edit: love his insight into trauma and an inability to commit as well as self-sabotaging success. He seems like a real down to earth guy. Would enjoy sharing appetizers with him.

@kayladog

3 ай бұрын

Great Dolph lundgren my heart my everthing my Legend not better ir worse than others but he admits it great man ❤

Someone needs to put Dolph in a major movie as the bad guy. With the right direction he could be terrifying and the kids of today wouldn't have any idea who he is.

@nasonyarowell2277

Жыл бұрын

He played in Aquaman recently!

@ty8915

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@AchtungBaby77

9 ай бұрын

He played the sadistic Sgt Andrew Scott in Universal Soldier, he did the bad guy very well!

This is why I love my brothers, sisters, and fellow humans; we all have our own experiences and faults.

Would like to see him try a more serious non action movie role. I bet he would surprise a lot of people how he’s is a really good actor. His parts were just what they were.

He is so honest!

great interview

So funny and so sad at the same time. For every one involved.

Showdown in Little Tokyo is legendary!!

so very interesting how we all have our own journeys and challenges in life. even international movies stsrs suffer financially

I have serious traumas myself from my childhood and youth. Physical and psychological abuse and I've always been 100% committed to my work.

@jefferymcmasters1517

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong friend! “The darkest hour of night is often just before the dawn”

@xandr13

Жыл бұрын

And yet we all know Dolph, and hardly anyone knows you. But nice flex.

@alexanderl9985

Жыл бұрын

@@xandr13 And no one knows you, so what?

@michaelharris5370

Жыл бұрын

Dolphs old man was a brutal arse hole!

@hypnocilicdreams

Жыл бұрын

Different things effect different people differently. Well done though. Keep up the great work ethic.

Still waiting on the sequels to I Come in Peace and Showdown in Little Tokyo. Long live Dolph.

"A new Ferrari or whatever it was"

We’re the last to judge anyone, when we ourselves aren’t perfect… there is only one judge to all of us and that is God…. I have always admired Dolph as an actor growing up and seeing him in Rocky 4 when I was 15. Seeing his honesty and transparency about his wrongs through his career and also his battle with cancer, I have such respect for him as a person. At the end of the day we are all human rich or poor….

Dolph is probably the most intelligent actor there is. He got into MIT but did not go and instead pursued acting.

@wakeup3987

Жыл бұрын

160 in IQ he says and i think that is correct. Good guy.

@dougk2932

Жыл бұрын

​@@wakeup3987 He also doesn't show off .....very humble likeable guy......I wish him the best.....

@wakeup3987

Жыл бұрын

@@dougk2932 Exactly. He's down to Earth and it's nice to see how good he made it as I'm a Swede too. I pray he beats the cancer 🙏

@whatever_it_takes6691

Жыл бұрын

Good guy. Misunderstood.

@wakeup3987

Жыл бұрын

@@whatever_it_takes6691 He sure is. I misunderstood him too. He was in a interview some years after moving to US and had forgotten words in Swedish. I thought he was a diva but learned later that it is common. Top guy.

Very honest person

Wow...talk about openness. I'm speechless

Dolph is Really Down to Earth he comes a cross as a Very Nice Man I Always liked him in Movies I wish much more Success this interview was 👍 good.

An affair is a betrayal. When you betray your partner you create an energetic imbalance which leaves them wanting to even the score or get back at you in whatever way they are able to. Men tend to be less emotional, especially his generation. So ofc she needed to hit him in a place where he would feel it, the wallet. We are just living in such a degraded, immoral era. I think it would help if more people were connected to God or nature or something greater than themselves.

@SEC420

Жыл бұрын

These times are rough. Women dress in a way that it's almost a battle everyday. Many women also just want to have intercourse. I want many other women but i love my wife. I do not love the other women. Is that also an affair if i still treat her as good as ever?

@billpetersen298

Жыл бұрын

@@SEC420 Ask your wife, what she thinks about it. Not us. You are a team.

@hdhuhvhcgh3101

Жыл бұрын

​​​​​@@SEC420 it's all up to her, I personally wouldn't put up with that. I also say the best thing you can do is leave her. If you're questioning your own self control while being in a relationship/married, that's a huge issue. You made a commitment to her, and you seem to be in a battle to keep it. If I were your girlfriend/wife, I would leave/divorce you. There's no need to wait and see what could happen in that situation. What I take from this is you will cheat sooner or later. It's not worth it to hurt the one you truly love.

@LeratoM98

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. People shouldn't be cheating in the first place, so married men should know that's the risk they take in cheating.

@HomeAtLast501

Жыл бұрын

Maybe she could have compromised and faced the fact that for him to make the gillions of money she liked he had to be away for a period of time, and could have bloody joined him in those locations.

here i thought Dolph was filthy rich. Even fame doesn't buy you money..... Crazy...

@rafapazos06

Жыл бұрын

Dont get fooled though. Even at his lowest he was much well off than the average folk out there. And back to being fairly well off.

@adriantrusca1245

Жыл бұрын

You can't be that naive. Dolph now has a net worth of 15 million. He is fucking rich. At his lowest he still was richer than the average person. Did you not hear him say he bought houses left and right? And Ferraris?

@milan51259

Жыл бұрын

@@adriantrusca1245 15 million for a worldwide action movie star? That's nothing, but he had a lavish lifestyle and this is what depleted his $$$ bag so brutally.

@SeriousDragonify

Жыл бұрын

​@@milan51259Dont forget the bills, foods and taxation that takes away from his acc. He's not that rich.

@gtboard

Жыл бұрын

He much richee than us KZread commenters 😅

Cheating is still not okay and Dolph isn’t saying that. Stop Normalizing justifying selfish bad behavior.

@DanJackson1977

Жыл бұрын

Another self appointed sheriff of the morality police.

@wantutosigh1117

Жыл бұрын

Honestly, when you are that famous and have that much money and are handsome, most of those relationships are not going to have "normal" rules. I would think there are very few monogamous relationships in Hollywood.

@notsoberoveranalyzer8264

Жыл бұрын

@@wantutosigh1117 Another major factor is that he’s not American, and wasn’t raised in the USA. While yes, much of the US population was directly from EU, those who originally came were fleeing the social norms ( and the social norms were heavily influenced by Christianity.), and EU & Americans are going to be quite similar in values, and beliefs. There are still differences. Like where as America is incredibly religious, and has so many Christian’s having grew up in Germany it was extremely odd to hear people openly admitting to believing in God, and Christianity. ( monogamy is an incredibly important concept in Christianity. Also in other religions.) But, your point is still far more important. The level of success of this man, the fame, his wealth and attractiveness ~ He is above average in all of these individually, so of course his relationships are going to greatly differ. But, it’s between him and his partners. Just like in every relationship, you’re going to have certain understandings between you two. And it’s not for the rest of the world to dictate that, it’s purely up to you two. That’s kinda a big aspect of getting married. Some people can work through problems that others can’t. Even if you look at the term “Cheating” its definition varies person to person. Some think cheating is having a physical relationship outside of your partner. Others, think that even if you have a physical relationship with others, but so long as you don’t fall in love with said person, become friends with them, or date them, that it’s not cheating. While others think, if you don’t have physical relationship is cheating but that you become extremely close to that person. Others think watching porn & hiding it is cheating. Some ~ So long as you told them, and asked for permission, it’s not. People used to stay together through thick and thin, through better and worse. If the husband or wife cheated, they’d work through it. Not always, but much more then today. It’s such a subjective term. It’s wild to put your own values onto others. Edit: The reason it’s ridiculous, is because we share a common language, so we can communicate nuances. English speaking countries celebrate individualism. But mainly it’s absurd because they don’t know Dolph and his wife personally. As it’s similar to an American, whose never so much as left their city or state, trying to tell a man who was born and raised in Korea about Korea, what Korea’s good points, bad points and what it needs to change are and what South Koreans feel/think about North Korean defectors. Which everyone can have an opinion, but that doesn’t mean your opinion has any value. And if someone can’t speak Hangul, know what DPRK means. They probably shouldn’t be judging, what a South Korean thinks/does. ( I got oddly specific. It’s just to point out how silly it is, when people make these absurd statements about complete strangers relationships.)

@panicfarm9874

Жыл бұрын

No one cares what you say remember that. No one

@user-wz5ir9jl8q

Жыл бұрын

​@Tony in HIS words! And she was raising his children!

If he was going to be a faithless, chronic cheater...he should never have married. He may be honest about it...but I would never trust him with ANYTHING of value.

so honest , best for Dolph

Dolph did the dirty and he deserved to be punished. But his honesty, openness and resolve to put things right in his private life in front of a global audience is staggering. Big respect for this legendary action movie star. 🙏🏽

@watermelonsprite1497

Жыл бұрын

bro its hollywood 😂😂

@jacquesjtheripper5922

Жыл бұрын

Seems he still likes young girls though hehe, saw a recent video hes out of a resto with a super hot in her 20s girl it looked. Oh well, hard to resist when u can get it

@shaq8830

Жыл бұрын

@@jacquesjtheripper5922 He's married to her.

@jacquesjtheripper5922

Жыл бұрын

@@shaq8830 i see, wow. 👌

@erikramaekers63

Жыл бұрын

True.Most people don't have the courage to say the truth.Respect

Older and wiser.I hope the old guys make at least one more movie.

Why get married when he like to date different women and drink and travel is beyond me.

Awesome actor those were the times I guess. Admire his honesty.

Drago, He Man, The Punisher ❤

Why would you get married when you can be a playboy??

Thats the kind of relationship i need.

I totally get the self sabotage and escape behaviour

he may be smart but he wasn't very wise in his younger days was he

@DanJackson1977

Жыл бұрын

You try being that famous that fast and see how you handle it

Honestly is very beautiful to hear.

Got to admire his honesty

as. she. should.

No one escapes life nor does anyone have a patent on it....

What Dolph says here reinforces quite deeply with what he said about his escape behavior from his trauma in his Ted Talk.

I struggle to pay my one house payment and he has several houses, so many he had to sell a couple. I can't even imagine.

World Class martial artist and a good guy.

1:41 His daughter MUST be atleast 5'10" there...

F@@k me. I can relate to this guy 💯 ++ Thank you for sharing this video. 🙏🙏

Thumbnail looks like Kurtain and Kerry Mucklowe from This Country

What is wrong with these action stars? Cheating seems to be the norm with them!

He's honest in this interview, I'll give him that.

So photogenic.

Good for her!

@1:02 the look on his wife's face!!!! my god

Crazy times

Marriage is made in Heaven so is Thunder and Lightning. One of my wedding vows:- Ignore Me At Your Peril. God was showing off when my Husband was made, he is kind, loving and gentle. We tease each other as Laughter is a constant theme in our Lives. When his Father passed away we built an apartment on our land for his Mummy if she felt sad or frightened living alone. I owe her a huge debt of Gratitude for giving birth to my Husband. My Parents loved each other to distraction. We played golf in the winter and spent the summer at our vacation home by the ocean. I am beyond grateful each and every day for the Life we have made together. Australia

Stop cheating fellas

if i could tell dolph anything, i would tell him how great of a job he did in the punisher 1989. Best super hero movie ever

His best movies Russian Specialist, Icarus, Castle Falls, Skin trade, Riot, Black Water, The Package, Larceny, Universal Soldier 3,4

She did care. She was telling you off by spending the money

His Ted Talk and sharing his upbringing and his forgiveness of his father was also interesting

@user-wz5ir9jl8q

Жыл бұрын

What did his father do?

@RnBLover1997

Жыл бұрын

​@@user-wz5ir9jl8q Abused him physically and mentally.

Such a great guy! I was quite intimidated by him as a kid in Universal Soldier and Punisher.

@JohnLoogleman

Жыл бұрын

The Punisher... That terrified me as a child.

When and if they make a new masters of the universe movie, he has to play king randor!

cheating doesnt make sense...one cant have the cake and eat it....

Dolph is a Legend.

@FriendofDorothy

Жыл бұрын

Someone says that in the comments section about every successful actor or pop star. I always thought of him as a good looking B actor to be honest. Maybe he's a legend to the action film audience?

Not to long ago I met a lady and we had the most incredible romantic time. I thought we were going to be together forever. Then about a week later right out of the blue,she leaves me a John deer letter. So I called her up and she gave me a bunch of crap about me not listening to her enough or something, I mean I don't know I really wasn't paying attention. But the thing that hurt the most is I think she was seeing another guy.....I never did find out who.

@richieaprile1547

Жыл бұрын

Forget the lying twat. Good riddance, pal.

@RandysGutt

Жыл бұрын

ok

@liamwatson6789

Жыл бұрын

John Deere? Women are like cats they go away and come back they test you. Either she was never committed, did it to test you, or her attraction waned. Best approach: tell her that you always tried to listen and that you respect her decision." I'd leave it there no more contact.

@subzerowins0626

Жыл бұрын

I feel u Harry 😆

@johnconnor7131

Жыл бұрын

@@liamwatson6789 he was quoting dumb and dumber,dumb and dumber

Always liked Dolph! ❤❤❤

When someone cheats it’s because of something in the past that manifested that. The worse thing to do is to live in a relationship for decades and not let go.

What a sad person. I do not find anything admiration worthy in his honestly of living a life of affairs.

"with all those things against me.." (pulls off wedding ring and puts it back on. :D

Legend 🎉

His overhead only saw him on vacations and stuff... awww....

Aging made him even more attractive

Can't help but like that guy😊

"how did you handle th-thuuu-... That?" I died

If he telling the truth he's telling the truth

Academically this man is very smart and high performing. Not a surprise because he is Swedish or from Norway (I forgot where).

I love red scorpion 🦂 bro 😎