I feel dumb at work and every where else I go.

@LexLopez13

4 ай бұрын

I feel the same….

I agree on her. I just resigned my previous job because my mentor at work called me a slow learner , i cant do the job properly because deep inside i dont like the job from the start. And i was dreading every time i go to work. Made me depressed about it, made a wrong choice of work. Wish i saw this video those time i felt depressed, blaming myself of the decision ive made. Thank you for sharing your tallent❤️

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, Lisa, if you are not operating from your natural strengths, you are going to be slow and clumsy at it. It is not because you are not smart or because there is something wrong with you, it is simply because you are in the wrong type of work for you! So many people are stuck in that same situation, so I hope you can be gentle with yourself for not knowing. Most of us are not encouraged to follow what we love and identify our core talents in our family, school, or society at large. It is why I do the work I do, to help you clarify your unique zone of talents so that you have a fulfilling and successful career. Wishing you all the best on your journey!

@kheevtham2911

9 ай бұрын

With you Lisadelosa. My past 2 months had been like that. But after I saw her video, it became so easy to leave what I was forcing myself to do. Here for u if u need support

OMG, that is so true. I feel stupid, dumb, worthless, lost, incompetent since I changed my job. I try to keep up, because I had been waiting for this job for such a long time...You opened my eyes.

@isabellepeyrichoux

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad the video was helpful, Maria. Feeling dumb in your work is often a sign (not always, but often) that the job is not a good fit for your strengths and talents.

@marial2382

3 жыл бұрын

@@isabellepeyrichoux You're right. I'm alsoo observing how much depends on somebody's opinions (I'm working on it with my doc). I think that I am incopetent, but it may not be the same what my manager really thinks about me. He did suggest recently that he's proud of me and it shocked me how different point of view I had.

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

@@marial2382 Interesting awareness about how you view yourself vs. how others view you. I'm curious. Do you love the work you do? On a scale from 1 to 10, how much do you enjoy the tasks you do?

@marial2382

3 жыл бұрын

@@isabellepeyrichoux It's hard to honestly tell. Sometimes I don't know what is true anymore. I love to be professional, but because I changed my job, I'm a newbie with 0 experience in that field, so I very rarely feel professional and confident. I feel dumb instead. So it fluctuates from 2 to 7. The subject (building, engineering) is not what I love or am interested in, but I enjoy simply knowing stuff and do important job not abstract, if you know what I mean :) I'd like to be useful - in my job, in a society and for the planet as a whole.

@mrsmdub259

2 жыл бұрын

@@marial2382 How are you doing now? I feel exactly the same way. I changed carriers 2.5 yrs ago, and day by day I know this is not my fit. I’m just not getting it. I cannot comprehend it. It seems to get harder and harder each day while everyone at work is getting impatient with me still asking questions. I have the dream job of a life time, my co workers are amazing, benefits are great, I was allowed to move out of state and work remotely, I can work any hours I want and I get paid very well. BUT because it’s not the right fit, all that doesn’t seem to matter and is causing me sooo much anguish and anxiety. It’s to the point that it’s unbearable. I know I need to leave the job, but still unsure of what’s my true nature yet 😢

im 29 and a street sweeper. i think this everytime im at work. i know im capable of more but i dont know what im capable of because i had a mom that would not let me grow and become an individual while growing up. any concern i would have, she thinks "just stop thinking about it" will fix it. and then when i cant , she will gaslight me, telling me im obsessive and irrational. it feels like what im learning now about myself is what people went through early in life, like in high school. I don't want to be a loser, but my parents dont support me in my interests unless my interest is becoming a truck driver. i have no desire at all to be in such a trade

Thank you Isabelle! I started to cry while I was listening to your words. I am not in the position to change job because I am living in a foreign country during the pandemic and it would be impossible to find anything else beside this. I just try to hang in for the time being... it would be lovely if you could make a video to encourage those who don't have the option to change now and have to endure the belittling and undermining at work.

@kate-kk6wx

2 жыл бұрын

it’s been 4 mos since this comment, how are you doing now? I feel like im in the same position. I have no choice but to keep my current job.

@shraddhakale7417

2 жыл бұрын

I am in the same situation. Don't know what to do

@kheevtham2911

10 ай бұрын

What u said or experience is so true. It's not easy as said to go back to what is for for u when it's filled with trauma or hardship that u have to endure...just for that paycheck I hope ur situation has changed. If not, please keep chewing in here to see what the therapist puts out on here. I would say if it's impacting or mental health or physical health, serious consider other routes. It's like Domestic violence, u stay because u need that relationship but if the relationship hurts u to a level that your body and mind cannot handle (or life threatening to you with great damages), it's best to walk out. U will find What u love and loves u, it's just that the process is risky and hard. But remember best thing in life don't come easy, u have to put effort into pursuing. And once u find it, the fish group that she mentioned, u will feel at home and at peace and money will flow in. Sending you love and cyber 💓 ❤hugs.

@isabellepeyrichoux

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience and thank you for the suggestion. It's a good idea. I'll see if I can do a video on that.

Ive been that fish trying to be a monkey. You're right. It takes so much energy out of me. The other fish are waiting for me!

Thank you Isabelle. Powerful! ❤ I was able to leave a deadend job with a toxic boss after listening to this video. Thank you for making this video and sharing it with the world. ❤❤❤

@isabellepeyrichoux

9 ай бұрын

I'm so glad to hear!! Congratulations!

@kheevtham2911

9 ай бұрын

@@isabellepeyrichoux the whole fish and monkey concept helped me realized I was running away from a career that I built it all my life, but left it due to trauma related to a bully boss. After watching your video I realized I needed to stop running from it and reclaim what I am so good at. Like the heavens and you were on my side, I found a job in less than 2 weeks at a clinic that is very hard to get it in. So THANK YOU. I hope to meet you some day. Btw, While I was trying to be a monkey I did something closs to my field - dance fitness - and that was like oxygen for me. I hope to share that (dance online) with u some day as a way to thank you.

This video was very helpful. Your story makes so much sense with the fish trying to be a monkey. It made me realize that have taken the wrong path by working retail, my current job for over 9 years, when I should have been a Computer Aided Drafting (CAD) Designer, which I went to school for, instead. Whenever I make a mistake, I tend to beat myself up over it, especially since my current job requires us to take daily quizzes for safety compliance. I get some questions wrong because of lack of resources, miswording in the questions, or that there is only one right answer, which is the company's written answer. My main reason I feel dumb at work is that I declare myself dumb when I am actually smart. Mistakes also help people even though companies make you feel like they are bad. I will take all your words in the video to heart.

When I nearly died of ammonia. I was in a similar thing. But this one's dry & not wet. Coughing fits this time with no phlegm. Last time plenty of phlegm was told I was going to drown on my fluids. The doctor said I had about 24 hours left. I thought it was not that bad as I was coughing up the phlegm. But I could feel an average size cup an hour. I was surrounded by family and friends and could get no help at that time. But my mum turned up even though I don't see her very often & helped me

I felt extremely dumb when my crush was around I also felt inadecuate 😅

I could cry, this hit me right in the heart

Thank you.... I have no more words. All I can say to you my dear is ....Thank You 🙏🏾❤️

Love this❤❤❤❤! Thank you for sharing your mission to the world and making a better less harsh world. ❤❤❤❤

Hey, dont know if this is still looked at. But I will tell my Story nonetheless. Started an Apprenticeship 2 years ago, one more year and I will be done. Went into it despite feeling anxious and unsure, I mistook it for the Feeling of "Leap of Faith". It helped me grow a lot. Personality, Mentality and Lifestyle wise. Although it was a harsh path, fought through people who would push me down constantly and insult me personally. But I have always and still deal with the Mental fog, feeling dumb and impractical despite knowing alot and having lots of Experience. Im glad to hear Im not the problem, but I would like to fix it. I work in the Kitchen as a Cook btw. I dont think quitting is wise as my financial Situation is very limited and I got one more year left. But this Year is gonna be extra hard and I need to make extra effort. I have had Burnouts in the Past and they keep coming back. Therefore I thought about Therapy, but as a Cook I have zero private Life. I know I am complaining, but it just feels hopeless as fuck.

I work for a woman who is bipolar and treats employees like children. My coworker must one-up everything because of his own feelings of inferiority. I have been wanting to leave for so long but i don't even know anymore what i am passionate about.

Thank you for your video im happy their is someone who can describe what im feeling.

@isabellepeyrichoux

4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad the message in the video speaks to you.

Than you…. ❤

This is lovely. :) thank you for this message

@isabellepeyrichoux

4 жыл бұрын

You are welcome, Bella!

Thank you so much

@isabellepeyrichoux

4 жыл бұрын

You are welcome!

i know all of this. And the sad fact is that i know. I've always known who i am and what i'm truly good at. I've always been creative and very passionate about painting, drawing , storytelling and everything that is an emotional and true expresion of what i feel. But Art is NOT an easy job. So many people who have told me What the hell are you doing working at the harbor if you can draw and paint this good? And then i kinda laugh it away but it's not like i havent tried. I'm still trying. I'm doing some freelance jobs as an artist now and then but its not enough to make a living from. So yea i'm a fish who knows what watters he would be best suited to swim in but has to climb trees for aliving just so i can have a stable incom.

@isabellepeyrichoux

9 ай бұрын

Sometimes it's not a simple path to make a living doing what you truly love. Try to feed this passion of yours as much as possible even if it's outside of your current work

This was helpful, thank you

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

ugh i get treatd like crap at work and im so nice WTF and im a military veteran. i can see why 21 vets commit suicide a day now. i can see why people murder, and do mass shootings. its because theyre just tired of life treating them like shit and sick of everyones lives. any tips for me?

@yearginclarke

Жыл бұрын

Not a vet myself and have never served, but I can also see what you are saying. If there were no consequences, I'd have snapped on many people that deserved it, give them a reality check. But I definitely don't believe in harming innocent people either.

yes

Men at work constantly ask me invasive questions thats why I've had 7 jobs I hate that I have to be nice about men being inappropriate in a workplace especially job interviews

I can't explain how important this message is.

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Mary-Anne, I'm curious: do you mean this message is very important to you or you don't see the importance of it?

@MissChokie

3 жыл бұрын

@@isabellepeyrichoux Hello Isabelle. I mean that this message is important because everyone should hear/watch it. It is a life changing message that I am so grateful to have found. So many people living lives that do not embrace their talents and end up very frustrated. What you have said gives people hope and points us in the right direction.

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

@@MissChokie I'm so glad to hear! Yes, this is my intention: to give hope and have people know that there is a way out, and you don't need to change who you are. There is nothing wrong with you. There is simply misalignment between your natural talents and the work you do. I've experienced that myself in my previous career, this is why I know first hand. (you can read my story here: www.brilliantseeds.com/about-isabelle/) I've also helped hundreds of people in the past 7 years get out of this cycle to discover their true talents and do work aligned with them so that they can feel fulfilled, confident, and good at what they do.

@MissChokie

3 жыл бұрын

@@isabellepeyrichoux this is amazing. Thank you!

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

@@MissChokie You are welcome!

8:57 Do you practice' what you preach & how do you prove that?

Everyday!

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

I hear you, James! It is a lot to feel "dumb" every day in your work. Have you had the chance to check my free report "The #1 Reason You Are Unhappy in Your Career and… What To Do About It"? If not, that will give you deeper insights into why this is happening and what to do about it. You can access it here: www.brilliantseeds.com/gift/

@jkolodziej78

3 жыл бұрын

Isabelle Peyrichoux I know why I’m unhappy. It’s because I feel unfulfilled in what I do. It’s the same thing everyday. And I’m around negative people all day long. Well I had enough so I start school to get my Machinist certification, and I’ve started planning my future and hope to eventually do something for a living I have a drive for.

@isabellepeyrichoux

3 жыл бұрын

@@jkolodziej78 I'm glad to hear you are starting school for something you enjoy (I assume so... is that true?) and are planning your future. Wishing you all the best!

How can you figure out your true passion? Is been really hard for me, and I am not sure what it is.

@isabellepeyrichoux

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Yanet, this is a common problem and there may be several reasons for that depending on each person. This free report may give you some first understanding: www.brilliantseeds.com/gift/

@Gabriella_Macy

3 жыл бұрын

By trying different things until you figure out what it is.

I work for myself. I always feel dumb.

You know people bulsh** & have facade so much. That I have to work a lot & others talking on KZread. About facades & people's wants needs + truth. Why?

Jordan Peterson you don’t like your work cause your own isn’t sufficient for the job

Don't you think it's sad. That we need a death to make things happen in some sectors?

Or maybe you have ADHD? when you are undiagnosed and unaware of your ADHD you have no rational explanation for each and every one of its symptoms other than self stupidity! If you'v always known you were different, well That's your ADHD...

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