This might just be the most accurate relationship statement I’ve ever come across on the internet… ever.

@princet4468

5 ай бұрын

Bro that’s what I’m saying! ✝️🙏🏾

@quesesmith1662

5 ай бұрын

For sure

@TBThaOmnipotent

5 ай бұрын

On God.

@atli126

5 ай бұрын

💯

@manola22

5 ай бұрын

Fr fr period

*He is like a sniper. I have never seen him miss. He's necessary for the culture.*

@bernadetteharris3399

2 ай бұрын

Very nessasary 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

@agetrobadass

2 ай бұрын

When you see the woman at those events speak up and hear his answers, how many do you honestly believe are actually listening and raking it to heart? Do you think women even wanna hear what he has to say, or is just cardi bs, red, Kardashians stallions etc that drive the social norms? I want a womens perspective. Also side note what do u think of women who have platforms, podcast etc and are shaming him the men that think like this and say go get ur bag?

@MsChi83

2 ай бұрын

​@@agetrobadassYou're pathetic 😂

@londanilonselepoetzwane1449

2 ай бұрын

In My Opinion, The Only Time I Did Find Him Miss Was When He Said Body Count Doesn't Matter Which I Totally Disagree With..

@ramonajohnson2738

2 ай бұрын

Yesssss, and thank you 🙏🏽

Facts!!! I love a man when he can be vulnerable, I also loved when he said " I don't wanna come home and protect myself from you" I felt that. ❤

@r.a.w.bizness2154

5 ай бұрын

Pl😊) l lol

@omargreene3048

5 ай бұрын

Profound statement right there

@roshandawalton8

5 ай бұрын

​@omargreene3048 OMG!! Hello sir What a gorgeous man u are, yeah the man was speaking facts, protecting someone you like or love from yourself is hardly understood, I've seen too many couples go below the belt because they were hurt, talking bout they love each other , 😅 where is the love in how u spoke to each other. I hate to see it, I be getting so sad.

@k1llamanjaro532

5 ай бұрын

Exactly; that’s why I firmly believe we as a whole should only search for love when we are mentality ready, when he spoke about taking pieces away and expecting him to be empathetic when she needs is a key that shows that most individuals that are in relationships are not open minded or not ready to accept their partner for who they are, this happens on both sides regardless of gender. Why it is imperative to improve yourself day by day, not only for the benefit of others but for yourself as well.

@jaeraee3437

4 ай бұрын

It is a No. You shouldn't cry more than me.

Can you imagine what this cat went through to arrive at this kind of wisdom?

Trip be speaking speaking! I always respect his comments. He always speaks from a place of _”I understand u; but, can u understand me?”_ ❤

@starlo0911

5 ай бұрын

He is such a devine being.

@Hazbinhotel782

5 ай бұрын

Yes I love to hear him speak

@jsantiago102

5 ай бұрын

What is this souls name pls?

@Tu_Steppin

4 ай бұрын

For bro raw 🫡

@j.r.walden9937

3 ай бұрын

Who is he?

She was NOT ready for that answer

@Atum-iu2ek

Ай бұрын

At all

Let's face it, ladies... if he can't be whatever he needs to be with you... then he's going to find someone he can be with! ❤

@ashwin.unlead

3 күн бұрын

Facs

He's 1 zillion percent correct, and as a woman I approve this message

@RawEcstacy

5 ай бұрын

What has you being a woman got to do with this message? What was the message that you understood? Because from what I understood, he was telling women to be better. To be able to allow their man to be soft with them. Let's be honest here, it is because women don't allow their men to be soft with them, which is what he is talking about. So please help me understand what has this message got to do with you as a woman? What is the correlation and how is it connected? Women dont understand that when a man comes home to their woman and becomes soft, it is because he is letting his guard down. Because you are his woman, not a woman. Because you are his woman, that is why he is able to let his guard down. But women have constantly shit on men who open up to them, women will use it as ammunition in arguments and fights. Are you going to deny that? Do you know why men don't open up? It is because women have shown us time and time again that we shouldnt. This is very important to understand. "As a woman i approve this message." No, as a man i approve this message. Remember, you brought gender into this.

@RawEcstacy

5 ай бұрын

@Love-39 really? That is your argument? That just because the question was asked by a woman, so you just assume that "as a woman" Is said. What's the correlation? Please explain. What is it that women approve of when you are the ones being discussed about, when women are the ones called to be accountable for their words and actions, yet women outright refuse to take any accountability. So approving this message doesn't mean anything. It just shows women being condescending. And you are assuming things just to fit your feminist narrative. How do you approve of a message that you can't even take accountability for? That sounds condescending to me. How about you women stop lying about how you understand the point being made and that you understand men. Men can see how women don't care. Men know that women don't and can't understand men. Women can't be empathetic of men. But men are expected to be empathetic of women and help them. Again, I want to know, how is this related? The woman asks a question and receives an answer which calls women out and tells them to be better, you say you approve this message but you can't even apply the message. Why this hypocrisy? Why this deceit?

@wilsmith3898

4 ай бұрын

Yep... You and the 98% percent of female attendees that were there 😂😂

@linda_smilesrfree2744

3 ай бұрын

​@Love-39You responded beautifully. ⚘️ I am a woman, and I approve this response because like you and the other woman in the post here, I agreed 💯% with what the gentleman in the video stated; and further, you saved me from having to respond to the apparently hurt and misguided individual who desperately tried to group us all in the same proverbial basket. In fact, I admire the man in the video because he's at least striking up a conversation on a much needed topic especially in our community. There are many women who want to be a safe space for their man; and at the end of the day, allowing them to come home and be vulnerable, and know that they are completely loved. It's about being real with each other. 🕊

@YouKnowMeDuh

2 ай бұрын

​@@RawEcstacy I see you fail to understand the meaning of a woman agreeing with him, as it very clearly means that she agrees that women need to do better. It only required very basic comprehension skills. And there you are desiring to be argumentative for no reason. Some men would say that's a womanly trait btw.

Wow...Spoken with GODLY WISDOM. You know the truth when you hear it.

He is spitting truth! My God! My God!

This was needed to be said. In the beginning of me and my fiancé relationship it was a lot of issues and walls based on our past relationships and childhood experiences. It was hard but conversations like these and the willingness on both our parts completely turned our relationship around. Our communication is 100% better. He is my best friend and I am his. I’m happy we didn’t give up on each other and our relationship.

@MsMizz1

5 ай бұрын

I always say willingness is a huge factor in relationships if not the biggest. You don’t have to be healed, perfect on paper or know psychology. If you’re willing however you can go a long way. If both parties are genuine and consistent in willingness the partnership will be fulfilling and go the distance. Mature people want both. ❤

@angelicfaithh2664

4 ай бұрын

This is one of the biggest reasons why I accepted the breakup between myself and someone I thought was my twin flame. He gave up so quickly when things got rough. It alerted me that “maybe this person doesn’t think I’m worth fighting for” and it y to come to that realization but I also know it would have hurt more if we both stayed in a situation where only one of us was willing to work things out.

Damn he answered on the spot like a natural born orator 🔥 chills

I feel the same way being labeled as a STRONG, BLACK WOMAN. I'm only strong because I have to be. No, I'm not miserable or bitter or mean. I'm exhausted. No, I'm not complaining when I say I had a hard day at work. I just want to be heard and have someone be on MY SIDE, just for a little bit. Being sensitive to one another isn't a negative. It's humane and necessary in healthy interactions. Keep growing, y'all ✌🏾

@antoinetteleonard580

5 ай бұрын

AMEN 🙏

@brentie2604

5 ай бұрын

No man ever gave you guys that title. You woman called yourself that and society followed. Let’s be real. A strong black woman is what you guys want to be. But when things get tough and tough for a long time now you don’t like being labeled that. Am I wrong?

@BosTVProductions

5 ай бұрын

​@brentie2604 yep

@ladyneal8145

5 ай бұрын

If I have saw this once I have said it a million times. I do what I have to do

@Silkravage

5 ай бұрын

It always goes back to being about you... Is there ever found to be a video about men where some woman comes in and tries to make it about her or women in general? It is sickening actually... Why most of you are miserable, inability to empathize with anything outside of your own narrative or agenda.

The home is to be sanctuary and our safe haven. It should never be a place of stress or constant arguments. I enjoy peace and will not disturb it with unnecessary strife.

@annjones6543

5 ай бұрын

You better say that 🙌🏾

I had to learn this. A man who is vulnerable with you feels safe with you. You are his refuge.

I love this! A man has to walk around with body armor through the world. I’m at the door waiting to take it off for him and place it aside while he lays in his safe place. Home is where all that comes off and your woman allows you to show your pure soul, detox from the weight of being a man in the world.

Facts! Women should provide a safe place for their man. You should be the first person he comes to share his every thought and feeling, even if it’s negative. Be there to listen if nothing else.

@raymondomollo6748

4 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯 facts. It goes both ways I guess, but remember ladies... and I say this with all due respect... Never ever...ever ever ever use whatever he told you when vulnerable with you against him in any way shape or form. Men don't forget that transgression. Ever. That's why when it happens a man will simply shut down. Period. Much love and respect from a brotha in the Motherland Kenya 🖤

@Sevenhundredseventyseven777

4 ай бұрын

A partner should provide a safe space for their partner.

@honeyisnatural5

3 ай бұрын

I’ll never forget when my then BF said he did not feel safe coming home to me. Boy I took that shame and ran with it. Ran to KZread, books, relationship coaches. I got my life together. It changed my whole life. I had to learn to inspire him. And all the men on my house. 2 sons and a now husband. They need to feel emotionally safe when they walk through those doors to Me. My sons included. Once I did that. They gave me the world.

@honeyisnatural5

3 ай бұрын

@@raymondomollo6748shut all the way down. My BF went to homies house for 4-5 Hours everyday after work for 5 years. My family thought he was cheating. I didn’t though. That’s too much work for him 😊. I used to be so mad until I realized he just didn’t feel safe coming home to me.

@theteleisewilliamsexperience

Ай бұрын

​@honeyisnatural5❤

Precisely. I believe it’s part of our role in relationships: to strengthen and soften each other, not weaken.

This is the most profound and analytical expression of the struggle most Men have in relationships. Our voice and vulnerability is often shelved for being too sensitive for too often.

I want to be there emotionally for whoever god sends me. Please lord let him feel comfortable talking to me about anything ❤🙏🏾

And at the end of the day, men are human too, that being sensitive ain’t exclusive to women. We all have feelings. Whether a man or a woman everyone has different levels of sensitivity, wether it’s more or less, it just depends on the person.

He's right...but it often doesn't happen.

@jwil7954

5 ай бұрын

Your pessimism is ironic. He literally just explained why it doesn't happen in some peoples lives.

@bvicc20

4 ай бұрын

​@@jwil7954 But where is the lie? This doesn't happen in most cases

@jwil7954

4 ай бұрын

Bruh, at this point in life it’s less about the lie and more about re-membering. The gem in the video was for us to empathize and see ourselves in them. Therefore, sometimes we are going to help them heal their broken pieces and other times they are going to help us heal our broken pieces. More importantly, we need to see that the same way vulnerability can be uncomfortable for us is the same way it can be uncomfortable for them. It less about the lie and more about re-membering. 1. Re-member the stories of our ancestors like Isis and Osiris. Western religions have told us that our ancient African spiritual practices are pagan. That’s THE LIE! 2. Re-member her broken pieces. And it’s our responsibility to allow her to re-member ours. 3. Empathize and be patient, most people do not enjoy looking vulnerable and weak. Does this make sense my brother?

Facts. I damn near had this same conversation with my girl last night. Women get mad at you for shit they destroy..

@WacoBeautyQueen

2 ай бұрын

Shit you ninjas destroy you mean. Any woman would be stupid to be soft with yall ninjas. All yall know how to do is take advantage of the soft and feminine. Not protect. As soon as yall have yall vulnerable moment about yall insecurities or whatever, yall will have the audacity to weaponize your ignorance against your girls’ weaknesses. Just a bunch of snakes.

All facts, no lies told. You ask a man to empathize but he's always in a heightened state on vigilance within the confines of the relationship. There's no logic in that when he's on defense on a consistent basis💯💪🏾

@Broseey

4 ай бұрын

You are like a prey to his softness, he has to be all tightened up around you, you aren’t wired to deal with his challenges, you’ll run and see him as unsafe fit yourself

I totally agree with him. I’m blessed with a husband that is a MAN yet he empathizes and he isn’t afraid to allow me to see his sensitivity . Showing those qualities has allowed us to live in true love, joy and peacefully for 18 years! I love him and thank God for the Man I have.🙏🏽❤️

This is an intelligent man. He speaks on facts and not emotions. ❤️🙏

This just made me cry now I'm soft lol But naw that's 100% the realest. #LadiesListenLearnRespect

Wow!! I love hearing men speak out like this. I wish more men can feel vulnerable to freely express themselves that’s real strength 🙏🏼

This brother is truly full of wisdom ❤️☺️. He said a mouth full then 💯💪. On that note, you really can't say anything else because he said it all 🙌🙌🙌💝💕.

Agreed, I love a man that can tap into his feelings.

My name is Amir Bey, that's my wife in the profile picture. He is not lying I've been with my old lady for 17 years now and she's somewhat like what he's saying there are times I can talk to her with my guards down but others where I feel she's not hearing me until l raise my voice and project my anger and frustration then she will say I'm yelling but then realise I'm not and will apologize and we end up talking things out but I never put my hands on her or make her feel scared of me, it's just like he said the world is tough for us men but most especially black men that's all I'm saying and respect it being said on a platform for our women to hear it. Thank you and continued success. By the way I'm 55 and she's 58.

@nia3543

4 ай бұрын

Hi Mr. Bey...I'd like to point out to you that ignoring someone can be the same as physically hitting them in a harmful way. With that in mind think of the conversations you mentioned...when you "project your anger and frustration" you may in fact not be yelling but she can feel some of that and what or how you are feeling in the moment. We all as human have more than 5 senses and one of the extra senses is to feel or sense energy around us it's what helps us know if we should be careful or run away when danger is afoot among other things. So, possibly, to her it feels frustrating too and maybe she hears your words louder as well because she's feeling for you and picking up on that energy. Also women are nurturing by default so she probably wants to comfort you in your time of frustration or anger. I know I can ask alot of questions because that's how I understand what's going on and the answers help me but often people get frustrated with me for trying to understand. So I always offer those people the space to come talk to me when they are ready. With that said maybe when you've had a hard day, explain when you get home to your lady "babe (or whatever you call her) I had a really bad day, I know you'll want to talk about it but I just need some time to myself to process it, then we can talk. Something like that may help avoid any arguments. Because who wants to be frustrated when they're already frustrated. Right? You guys can also seek counseling for other methods of communication. Counseling doesn't always mean that things are bad sometimes it can mean we want things to become even better so we're seeking help from someone outside of us to improve on what we've already built. You guys put in 17 yrs. Y'all should be having lots of fun together now the older you guys get!

I love this.. he’s so on point with everything he said.”get a man that’s hard all the time and see how he handles you” #facts It’s beautiful when a man can show emotions!!

Absolute truth right there! I served 10 years in a relationship being hard asf! Not because I wanted to but I had to! It wore me out! I lost myself, and journey back has been hell! Why are you so hard?! Because you wouldn’t let me put my guard down for minute… Hell it ruined me….

😮 Real talk, he hit all the facts that needed to be stated on that topic!

Dude, got Damm you explained that so truthfully and I appreciate that from another man who understands what we go through with these women. Damm thanks fam

Yup!!! I agree with him.

SHEEEEEESSSSSSHHHHH! This man couldn’t have said it better. God bless him. Speaking is his gift!

Wow 🙏🙏🙏🙏 So deep and so TRUE, Damn talk that talk brother ❤️ Every single word ❤️❤️❤️

❤❤THIS- stop being confined to ‘training’ that the wrong folks have taught about relationships. Speak this-Be thiS🙌🏾

I agree!!! He's definitely right 1000%!!!

This is 100 correct !! The problem is also that the women who do allow you to be vulnerable will hold it against you and bring it up in your next argument..

@Tu_Steppin

4 ай бұрын

Maann😮‍💨

@witnessofchrist2524

4 ай бұрын

Only the wrong women.

@crazytracy71

4 ай бұрын

This is very true in alot of women. But a good, strong, understanding woman will hold her man, n hold it down. It's sad to say that, they r few n far between, but they do exist

@shiirenesims6250

4 ай бұрын

Men do the same though

@ebonthomas7912

4 ай бұрын

The ole men do it too reply from the woman. So they wont feel alone in having to be accountable.

I love how articulate this man is. I love how he communicate almost effortlessly. I love how you know when a man got that it quality by the way they talk. When he speak he commands attention but so respectfully. I think i might love him 😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂 JK but I like his style.

@philinn4788

4 ай бұрын

Notice fellas how she said zero about what he said and EVERYTHING about how he said it.

He is so good. He is very, very good. He never misses....this statement is so true. Its really very true.

ABSOLUTELY TRUTHFUL 👏 👏👏💯

GOD Bless us all Amen ❤

I heard a quote from madea of all places but it was something like "you should be able to find peace in your home bc the only other place you'll find it is in the grave" but I love this, sensitivity shows that someone feels safe expressing that, that's not necessarily a bad thing as long as they're able to soothe themselves, too, not making other people walk on eggshells

❤Trip!!! His Lady is lucky to have him. Hope he has a brother similar 😊

Keeping Speaking Yo TRUTH. I needed to Hear that.....

major facts!! I want my future husband to know that I am his safe place and he never has to worry about me throwing it back in his face if we have a disagreement. I'm a firm believer that when we help each other heal our childhood traumas, our bond will be unbreakable even if we separate❤❤❤

When I say Tripp you are such a beautiful person. I agree. I promise you this is why I have two sons. The heart of a man ❤❤. Well said damn near made me cry.

This why he is my favorite!!! What he said absolutely true, and most wisest statement I've heard!!! Thank you, for saying that! I embrace that and see it in men. I love and welcome men who trust me and therefore open up to me. And know it will never be thrown back to them. When we love unconditionally, this is possible!❤❤❤❤❤

He is just in his element. His response be on point. Like he researched and studied before these shows.. he just be so ready for these questions.

He just talked past her question. He could have asked her for an example or she could have clarified. There's aggressive triggered/combative sensitive, there's weepy sensitive, sentimental, macho insecure and probably more. What did she mean, you know? Like is she walking on eggshells around a guy with a complex or is he depressed or does he have baggage or is he just more emotional than she is and maybe she's one of those more straight to logic types? We're missing pieces.

@YallHighKeyAggravating

5 ай бұрын

This clip is a shortened clip of the original clip. The reason he “went off” on her was because she felt like her man was “soft/feminine” because he expresses his emotions and feelings to her and she feels dominant because she has an “I don’t care” “get over it” mind set. She admitted that she was not use to this type of dynamic in relationships because SHE was the one who was trying to be heard while the past men she dated were the “I don’t care” “get over it” types!

Help her out brother…break the chains of conditioning!

All facts!!! Never betray a man’s, especially a good man’s, vulnerability. It’s hard for him to open up in the first place.

I am IN LOVE with every single one of his words. Food for thought ladies, And I'll definitely take another portion😌🤲🏼🫶🏼

Preach it brother...thank you - let a man know that it's okay to be vulnerable in his own safe place...beside his woman.❤

Finding the softness in me made women take my kindness for weakness. As I as get aggressive they start acting right. 💯💯💯

@wuyingren

4 ай бұрын

Facts! I’ve learned to one give my kindness to those who deserve it. Peace my brother

@missmorris6450

4 ай бұрын

Be careful who you give your heart to….Self awareness & self consciousness once you crack that you’ll know who to open up to

@Manoftomorrow6491

4 ай бұрын

You are around the wrong women, bruh, change your environment

@renewilder6807

4 ай бұрын

Please heal but have more discernment in the next partner you choose. A match would not take advantage.

@Sevenhundredseventyseven777

4 ай бұрын

​@@Manoftomorrow6491I'm guessing that HE IS the wrong environment.

Dang, this hit hard! I’m with a man that lost the ability to be sensitive or vulnerable through a horrific childhood and even worse time through his teen years. He lives a life of feeling he has to be hard 24/7, and it’s heartbreaking to watch. We have been together for 14 years but his inability to show or feel sensitivity and to be vulnerable is what is causing our 14 year relationship to literally self destruct. This is why the Bible talks so strongly about guarding your heart so this world doesn’t cause your heart to harden. It’s a very real thing and it truly is heartbreaking

@teerex9952

5 ай бұрын

Ah well…

@anonspectre1796

5 ай бұрын

Are you doing anything to help?

@stefanmatton8778

5 ай бұрын

You were together for 14 years and he never opened up? Sounds like you werent the safety he required. You were the problem

@envymenace8224

5 ай бұрын

@@stefanmatton8778I’m saying sound like he don’t trust her with his feelings 😂

@Broseey

4 ай бұрын

Same bro, it’s like bleeding to a shark, I hope bro closes up and gets sensitive around his bros or real peeps, since you’ll judge him if he gets soft and judge him

🎉 I agree with the brother in the post speaking his truth God Bless him

Amen and amen, again!

My guy TRIPP never f_cking miss yall! Like fr fr.... my man is 💯% correct!!

Lord, let me be his soft (safe) space 🙏 ❤.

Protect this brother at all cost 💯🙏

As a man, I aspire to be as articulate, & emotionally intelligent.

Heck yeah! I agree with everything this man said. So true, so accurate and I love it. That means you're a being masculine if you feel that way and not in touch with your femininity.

All facts no lies.

Yoo his message took me out, spoke nothing but facts . It aint easy for a male to open up but when they do its beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤

This hit me in my soul. I never looked at a man the way he said this. N I will never look at men the same way. Ty for opening my soul to see the truth.

I love his mind! All women should want a man that thinks this way!!!

Yes, women go through this too...we want to feel safe

WOOOWWWW..definitely taking notes. I heard EVERY word of this. Thank you❤

I agree with what he said especially if he always has to be hard he will take it out in you. I've also learned that some people are so attached to their trauma that when someone that comes along that is willing to let you be just you, they won't know how to receive that and think it's fake. You have to get out of your own way sometimes too

I would love for a man to let his guard down with me, it shows the human side of him, I had a man that was so hard and logic at the same time and it did nothing for me but run me away. It was hard trying to get him to open up and when I did he used it against me. I'm so with you on how a man can't go to his partner and open up and the world beating him up is a partner they don't need.

I see no lies here! Everything he said is spot on!

Damn he kilt her completely out and I HOPE ALOT OF WOMEN HEARD HIM!!!!!!

I think bro just helped me find my purpose after this one. See y’all on the big screens.

As a sensetive man this means a lot because i was in a relationship where i eas abused and taken advantage of. I felt like no one would want damaged goods or sensetive goods and i havent had any relationship since then. Ive only been a convenient side piece modt of the time. So this helps thank you

He's right i need that quality in.my man

I wholeheartedly agree! It’s super hard to be vulnerable nowadays in the world where strength and success reign supreme. At times a man being sensitive is a good thing like he said if I can’t be soft with you…then who ???

This young man knocked it out the park. I wish I could give a million thumbs up.

LOVE THIS BROTHERS TRUTH!!!❤

Man I stumbled into this and he is "Preaching "....💯✌🏾

This brother is the truth with the words he says! Thank you mane I had similar situation with a female saying that and a female making me feel as if its not okay for me to express my emotions. Damn near everyday and all day and night I gotta wear superman cape and the one time I express myself because my partner chooses to not understand me is an issue Because I bottled everything in it forced me to make so many stupid situations and wanted to spend life in prison. Trying to make a mf understand where I'm coming from when she gets cater to. Moral of the story if you cant be vulnerable with your female or she uses your insecurities, personal stories and use it against you shes not the one. A woman should want a man to be vulnerable too, the same way vice versa. Anybody in toxic relationships thats not getting better dont force yourself to stay no matter how much it might hurt self peace is everything!

All the women agreed when she asked her question. Bro had to break it down in a way that's easier for them to understand how a good majority of men feel. Very well stated.

He still really didn't answer her question tho as honest as this was.

@the_shadow_healer

4 ай бұрын

Take a another listen, he literally explained why her line of questioning is wrong.

@earthangel4971

4 ай бұрын

@@the_shadow_healer my point exactly. Wrong by whose standards..? She seemed to legitimately wanna know. Explaining why someone's question is not valid enough isnt productive and a bit dismissive. Every question has an answer despite it deserving one.

@the_shadow_healer

4 ай бұрын

​​​@@earthangel4971 again listen to what he's saying...he explained that you shouldn't look at men as being soft for expressing emotions. Men are humans, men have emotions, there is absolutely nothing different emotionally between a woman and man, societal constructs created that mindset. So what Tripp is explaining is to not use terms like soft, overly emotional bc those terms are negative. That way of thinking negates the humanity in a man. He didn't say her question was invalid, he literally is explaining why using those terms like soft/emotional can make man not human.

@Manoftomorrow6491

4 ай бұрын

He didn’t answer her question, because that was the wrong question to ask

@zowdeezowdee

2 ай бұрын

​@@Manoftomorrow6491there's no wrong question. Even when you ask google a supposedly wrong question, it asks you "did you mean......"

That’s real I’m going threw something like that now and the shit hurt and drives you crazy inside but the outside be all smiles

AMEN !

Alot of women are unworthy of being loved...they tear you down but expect you to build and hold them up. They are like grown babies, no matter how beautiful a baby is you get tired of carrying it all the time.

Absolute wow!! I never thought I'd hear this on one of these podcast. I can't add or subtract to it. Well said my G.

Say it sir❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love this You are 💯 right If he’s not tenderhearted towards me we can’t be in relationship

All Facts!!!

People just take advantage of that. It's like we are in a day and age where "fake it to you make it" has become such a "real" way of life, to the point where people have become so "pressed to impress" and are seemingly so disconnected from their inner self, so busy wearing a mask, they have no idea who the are...to sum it all up. 🤷🏾‍♀️Fake it til you make it, until you come across something like never before, and it's too real for you to deal, so you fumble. Who Are You?

95% of women I've met my entire life have told me "I don't want a sensitive/soft man, I need me a bad boy/thug". I've dated only 3 women in my life because I "Care" and break ups with them ended with either cheating or them going for an upgrade. Well I've settled with the fact women don't find me attractive or desirable, but once I gave up after a while I noticed I was being chased. My wife made an effort to show me she was more serious and then after a couple of years of dating we got married and will be 9 years this year.

I love this these conversations are teaching us how to love and empower each other as well as tearing down those destructive patterns that were taught

He's right. What man wants to come home being hard he wants his peace when he sees you let his guard down. Women who says this wants a thug man. I just told my daughter met a blessed man who didn't behave thuggish etc. I like that. I can talk to him in a calm manner comfortable. Women need a simp that brings peace in their life not drama, stress,etc. Unless that's what they like💯😊

It would gave been better if he would have asked her to describe what she means and to give an example. Reason being, there ARE people who are too sensitive about certain things and his response could have been more geared to exactly what she meant.

Men struggle with empathy especially when it's toward a woman, so if you find a man that empathize with you truly and is not trying to go along just to get along....Don't fumble him.

This young man has had some BEAUTIFUL TEACHING. AND FOR THIS GOD I SAY THANK YOU.💛💜

I honestly just listen to his clips from this platform. He speaks to both parties in the relationship 💪🏿🔥💯