Do Women Care About Your Looks?

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This is a question that's been floating around for a while. Some coaches will tell you that looks don't matter to women, while other coaches will tell you only looks matter. Both are wrong!
In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing whether or not your physical appearance, or your looks matter to women.
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  • @SkillofAttraction
    @SkillofAttraction10 ай бұрын

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  • @yakdrago999
    @yakdrago99910 ай бұрын

    That's fax, looks do matter but I also noticed how women also pay attention to how you present yourself and how behave, most importantly how you talk to them and interact w them, that way they know if you have game, in other words, if you are used to interacting with girls.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    10 ай бұрын

    You're exactly right!

  • @azizbekrahmonov7423
    @azizbekrahmonov742310 ай бұрын

    Thanks,you opened my eyes and changed my perspective about women I used to be a needy type of man now I ams so confident in myself

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    10 ай бұрын

    That's great to hear! I'm glad I could help!

  • @uchennakingsley1354

    @uchennakingsley1354

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@SkillofAttractionI am too Thank You

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.174010 ай бұрын

    Hey Erik, great to see a new video from you! Looks do matter also to women, however confidence and charme is just as important to them. They will rather take an average looking guy who is confident than a handsome but insecure dude. Fully agree to what you say!

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, true.

  • @timshaq520
    @timshaq5206 ай бұрын

    Hello Eric! Just wanted to say I've followed many coaches over the years and just found you, I have experience etc. And I gotta say wow! Your channel is much better than a lot of others. I'm already good with game, experience etc. But you really do a great work when comparing to others. Please continue with your videos! Your channel/coaching needs to be shown to more people you provide great value.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks, man! I really appreciate that!

  • @bond7459
    @bond74598 ай бұрын

    Most of us are here to keep on learning,great vid coach.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    8 ай бұрын

    Glad to hear it! I appreciate that!

  • @DPhasely
    @DPhasely10 ай бұрын

    So true!

  • @oliverjordan695
    @oliverjordan6959 ай бұрын

    Looks is a unloaded weapon... if its loaded with behavior ... and perceived ability..... it matters a lot

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    I'd agree with that!

  • @Citizen-by9vw
    @Citizen-by9vw10 ай бұрын

    Love it. Thanks Coach

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @carlospita6442
    @carlospita644210 ай бұрын

    Women want more that what offer. Depressing but true. Even celebrities get cheated … Great video Erick !!

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    10 ай бұрын

    That goes to show that good looks & money isn't all that it takes. Plus, these celebrities are dealing with high status women, so they need more than what she already has...frame & game.

  • @availableunknown
    @availableunknown2 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much!

  • @availableunknown

    @availableunknown

    2 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction Thankyou Eric for valuable input , ie Space Time Freedom issues 😀😃😄

  • @1stuckplayer
    @1stuckplayer9 ай бұрын

    Cool

  • @parchista2010
    @parchista20108 ай бұрын

    @Skill of Attraction or anyone who wants to answer, I'd appreciate it: How do you compliment a girl without coming across as needy or as creepy or as an obssesed or as a guy who is drooling over her?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    8 ай бұрын

    I have a short video on that... kzread.infokc73AHQYtDQ

  • @kc270352
    @kc27035210 ай бұрын

    looks will always matter

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    Hopefully you watched the full video so you understand what women are really attracted to.

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor49789 ай бұрын

    Yes, looks do matter. But it's not the be-all end-all. As guy who's 5'7 and average looking, I had women tell me that I became more attractive as they got to know me. People end up in relationships with people who are not 100% their type all the time. I always liked petite brunettes, but fell in love with a 5'9 blonde once.

  • @gerardoa9179

    @gerardoa9179

    Ай бұрын

    Looks matter , yes , if they man doesnt have looks he must compensate with status and money

  • @chrisbryant2283
    @chrisbryant22839 ай бұрын

    Coach Erik Sir! Do you recommend approaching women? I havent done it in many years since I came into relationship. Now its been a while since that failed, I'm ready to date again but never had success with online dating but in person approaching. Now I'm very scared

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    Definitely practice approaching, or get involved in social groups where women are present. Online dating sucks for men & it's very difficult since it's based almost strictly on looks. You'll meet much higher quality women & a better match meeting women the old fashioned way...face to face.

  • @sharpshooterxigbar5713
    @sharpshooterxigbar57136 ай бұрын

    Hi Erik, I’m in college now and there’s a cute girl in my class who I have talked to. I often help her with classwork and I use those opportunities to get to know her better. I’m worried that after a while it’s going to stop working m, so what do you think is a good way to shift the focus from classwork to more personal stuff and then talks about starting a relationship?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    6 ай бұрын

    Please see the pinned comment. But you also may want to watch this video & avoid this trap: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmGEqcSOn5ecYs4.html

  • @bobross1829
    @bobross18296 ай бұрын

    Nah, guys,, and even women, confuse attraction with keeping when it comes to what women find attractive. Women do not "lie" when they say that if a guy has a bad personality then looks do not matter. BUT, they only learn of the bad personality AFTER she is with him. She hooked up with him because he was good looking. She only learned about his bad traits being in a relationship with him. When women say this they mean "I will not stay with a bad guy just because he is hot." They are being truthful, they won't. I am a good story about this. When I was in college, I worked out everyday and me and my buddies learned good game. I dated a lot of very good looking women. In grad school, it was time consuming and I had no time or inclination to work out and gained 50 pounds. Really. Just eating bad and no exercise as the first year was just studying all the time plus trying to work on top. I did not even know it was happening until it happened. But when I talked to women, it was bad. I was still very witty and had some fun lines that always worked. They laughed and the banter was still good. But could not get a date in grad school. Had good conversations and rapport and would still get a hard no, not even lets be friends. Terrible. It hurt my confidence a lot and began to think I no longer had it. Then after school when I started my profession (not making bank yet but doing okay), I got some friends and started working out and lost like 30 pounds. Guess what? Boom, lots of dates again. Women like looks, they just confuse guys into thinking they don't. Yes, if you have money, they overlook it. That is the exception. Know lots of hot women that dated "not attractive" guys in my life. They ALWAYS had money. Women love increased lifestyle and will take that over looks. But most guys are not rich and that takes years to get even in the ballpark of rich, and things have to break your way too in your career. This is not 100% and of course there are exceptions. Some girls just like a guy. Some guys are "first" with her (her first love and overlooks he is not hot based on lack of experience). Some guys are hot when they meet a hot girl, but like me in school, lose it by gaining weight or losing hair so no longer is hot. And finally, guys can be terrible judging other guys looks. I had friends say what is "x" hot girl doing with that shlub? And objectively..the guy is not that bad. You just don't like him. Is he thin? Look like he works out sometimes? Have a good job? He is probably on her level and you are underestimating him because he is not an underwear model. Probably better looking, objectively than you.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    6 ай бұрын

    Of course women like a man's looks...but it's your vibe that's most important.

  • @willdegra317
    @willdegra3179 ай бұрын

    of course looks matter, and are more important than anything else. More women prefer to get with a very attractive guy who is a loser, broke, abusive and unfaithful. The unattractive guy doesn't get the chance. Of course there are other factors such as how ugly the woman is, how old both are, etc but overall there's a minimum attractiveness a guy must have to even be considered

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    Clearly you didn't watch the video.

  • @slothape
    @slothape9 ай бұрын

    Most of the guys I see with GFs are well over 6ft in my city.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    It's not as bad as you think: kzread.info/dash/bejne/apyBmcx6iMfTn8o.html

  • @RAWALITY
    @RAWALITY5 ай бұрын

    Two words jERemy meeks

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    5 ай бұрын

    Sounds like you didn't watch the video.

  • @EinSofQuester
    @EinSofQuester9 ай бұрын

    Do bears shit in the woods?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    9 ай бұрын

    You didn't watch the video did you?

  • @SantiXiAmaru

    @SantiXiAmaru

    9 ай бұрын

    Stop being a underachieving cornball and be direct.

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