The gag is... they be the SAME men, but they change their approach due to how they perceive what you'll respond to based on your external representation.

@nightlifeking

Жыл бұрын

This is actually facts

@971Cici

Жыл бұрын

Definitely

@sunnygibbs925

Жыл бұрын

Aint that the truth!😊

@_nellysunshine

Жыл бұрын

Exactly it’s all projection

@Shadows-FX

Жыл бұрын

This is fire bomb facts ☄️

Not more bougie, more like high standards, when you’re comfortable in your own skin & hair the energy sends a message of confidence.

@metsl1870

Жыл бұрын

💯

@marketiaalcindor478

Жыл бұрын

Facts.

@asundelgun3487

Жыл бұрын

And us men love it and appreciate it

@tiffanyyisrael7989

Жыл бұрын

Truth!

@BenziitOfemme

Жыл бұрын

That's the whole thing of this whole convo

That girl with long weave was low key throwing jabs at the natural headed girl

@MsNubiandiva

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, she's a big hater... insecure.

@angelwarren9549

Жыл бұрын

I instantly caught it! 😢 she took her comment personally.

@aixa3401

Жыл бұрын

Sure was

@TheAyabell404

Жыл бұрын

It wasn't even low key🤣🤣🤣

@JaneDoane

Жыл бұрын

Clearly

They didn’t want to hear about the pros of her having natural hair and how men perceive her. They really were offended.

@blackpoptart4781

Жыл бұрын

They weren't ready to hear that their hair is one of the main reasons why they keep attracting the wrong type of men

@ShanyShannon

Жыл бұрын

You're projecting onto all of them when it was just ONE of them acting that way towards her. I watch the one with the bun on here and she giving her space to talk, she is kind, at least on YT.

@brudderstyles3479

Жыл бұрын

my problem with some women , if theyre constantly changing hairstyles you dont really know how they look......or they blend in with 5 other chicks u are dating or previously dated

@ninocrown3247

Жыл бұрын

They were projecting, so they can continue doing what they’re doing, which is probably leading down the path to nowhere. They were lowkey triggered by what she said and how she carries herself.

@chanellemckinney1436

Жыл бұрын

Period because real men will tell you that themselves real bodies starting to be the next thing lol Im living witness lol a better caliber of men doesn't mean they don't fk everything up either unfortunately natural or not they aint ish

The natural sis with the locs is GORGEOUS!!

@JelatoAkitas

Жыл бұрын

A wife forever tell bangs take that wig off

@SirDave

Жыл бұрын

She is. I thought that was Ciara with a natural hairstyle.

@faith6575

Жыл бұрын

@@JelatoAkitas black women can do whatever the FK they want with their hair as far I’m concerned. Leave black women alone and go date white, Asian, or Latino women with real hair and find your happiness over there. Black men are not even suitable for marriage and you have a lot to say about hair. Stop going to prison and maybe you’ll be husband material.

@NewlifeNewbeginnings2

Жыл бұрын

Chante Moore Vibes❣️❣️❣️

@Divine81Empress

Жыл бұрын

😍👁️ agree

I’m natural myself. I wouldn’t say we’re “boujee” correct term is having STANDARDS. 💁🏽‍♀️💕

@TheDearQueenPodcast

Жыл бұрын

Yup and alot of women wear all that fake stuff to cover up their real identity.. bbl, wigs, and caked up makeup.. she was showing her insecurities and I know the other women with loc picked up on that.. you mad because a natural beauty get a more better approach than the wig wearing women 🤌🏾 Shade is what she threw

@mscece1900

Жыл бұрын

How is wearing your natural hair vs weave a standard?? That doesn't make you above or below other women for wearing your natural hair.

@morbiddom9587

Жыл бұрын

@@mscece1900 sometimes people assume natural girls have lower standards and are “easier” to get so natural women may feel the need to mention that they have high standards too and won’t except less just because their hair is natural.

@tiffanysimagination

Жыл бұрын

We not bougie

@asundelgun3487

Жыл бұрын

In my experience the women that wear their hair naturally are more in tuned with who they are and their traits they have to work on and therefore are more pleasant to be around. However, that doesn't mean they don't have standards or that they are better than anyone. Typically their personalities are just more pleasant.

They sure were SENSITIVE about the natural energy… 😂

@sentientbeingschannel6755

Жыл бұрын

They skipping smoothies and long baths that’s why they got all that drug dealer attraction kit on weaves

@szabayou

Жыл бұрын

Immediately! And I wear weave, so I don’t get it lol. It was cringy that hostility. It felt very much like they didn’t want her to feel special.

@konsyansnou8623

Жыл бұрын

​@@szabayou the insecurity tho, always happening when you bring the natural hair .. justsayintho🤷🏿‍♂️

@AacaL05

Жыл бұрын

And tried their best to put natural down to their level.

@keneshiaallah795

Жыл бұрын

In A Real Wayyyyy ⭐🌟✨👑

The one with the weave was throwing a bit of shade, since I’ve been natural I have had more decent men approaching me, and now I am with a very well balanced man who is loving every bit of my natural essence. Confidence in it is also 🔑

@szabayou

Жыл бұрын

You and your hair look gorgeous in your thumbnail! ❤

@vivianbraxton4941

Жыл бұрын

❤ Fabulous 🙂

Homegirl with the bangs is giving off negative energy.

@elizabethdavis8610

2 жыл бұрын

Right! She sounds jealous.

@Diamlatifah

Жыл бұрын

Literally said the same thing she’s ridiculous

@bobbybigfellow8516

Жыл бұрын

Is it ok for us to say that? Real question not sarcasm. Because in my and most of mine's experiences, we get cursed out, shamed and insulted for catching those same vibes. We get told that girl is what we must accept or we gay, or somebody hurt us, or our mama black or something along those lines....and the same women who roll their eyes at her when it's all women, will then defend her against me. Why is that?

@Lady-Shun94

Жыл бұрын

Girl you felt it too???

@mercysi2636

Жыл бұрын

Yess! I felt that too like eugh thats a envious spirit

Women are so jealous when another woman’s feminine energy is brighter than hers 🤧

@bullycitybound9196

Жыл бұрын

@@Lux_82 Big facts ,all the real feminine women I was friends with in my 20s are married and happy, and if not it’s all by choice. Keep shining queen 💪🏾

@miaporche2256

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@supervegitok956

Жыл бұрын

Yeees😎!!!

@mybelle6665

Жыл бұрын

She couldn't even contain the hate. The faux weave and gucci sweater couldn't take it🤣🤣🤣🤣

@bullycitybound9196

Жыл бұрын

@@mybelle6665 💯🤧😂😂😂

Natural women are just a different level of beauty that’s why, her energy just feels so pure and heavenly.

@CalineBRUNO

2 күн бұрын

The energy level is higher…kinkier the hair…the more energy it pulls…they are wires…that’s why bigger the fro is on extra tight curl, the more you get of that lion, authentic, dominant vybz…just the hair energy … the crown!

I get a different response from women when I’m wearing a suit vs Gucci belt ripped jeans and a loud Versace shirt. People just perceive you differently. I love a woman with dreads/braids. The look just gives confidence, spirituality, a nurturing soul, and a person who isn’t a follower. Could be wrong just like a gangster could wear a suit. But perception wise, that’s what it is.

@Abmarp

Жыл бұрын

😊

@angelajefferson6459

Жыл бұрын

I don't want a thug. I want an Abercrombie and Fitch guy.

@childofthesunn

Жыл бұрын

Very well put

@mmaya772

Жыл бұрын

Yep so true.*

@mrinternational5

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯🎯

Ms weave got Big Mad at the end. 🤣😂🤣😂

@JTG313

Жыл бұрын

Haha not "Ms Weave" 😂😂😂 she for sure is a hater

@divaaTanee

Жыл бұрын

Lmaooo she’s definitely a hater

@tiffanim2664

Жыл бұрын

😂

@francishenshaw33

Жыл бұрын

Very repulsive .. it’s a pity , by the time she learns it will be too late

@DaPhlyymamee

Жыл бұрын

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

Did you see how quick they were trying to discount her natural look

@beautyforashes1514

Жыл бұрын

Exactly…

@nationalityisraelite5971

Жыл бұрын

@@beautyforashes1514 Ecclesiasticus 25:19 19“All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.” (King James Version) Disclaimer(this doesn't apply to the very small number of virtuous women that exist) it only applies to the non virtuous Women, including the hyena with the bangs.. if the shoe fit wear it 💯

@beyonditall2567

Жыл бұрын

Quickly

@kendra0713

Жыл бұрын

Caught it!

@lasandrab

Жыл бұрын

Right

I would say it's not that the natural woman seem more approachable, more so that the sight of a woman who is comfortable in her skin is not the normal standard that the media aligns with. This makes her essence more refreshing than the fake appearance.

@vivianbraxton4941

Жыл бұрын

Right !

Damn the whole time they were trying to give her a perspective that men ain’t sh*t and she just proceeded with her convo Look at how she carries herself 👑

@DaOldSchoolRapLova96

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. By her coming natural she automatically gets a different reaction from guys. It’s not our fault for looking at a girl and automatically assuming she’s “this” based off her appearance. Women who respect themselves, get respect in return. That girl with the bangs is jealous because she doesn’t get approached by men who respect her. It’s energy

@szabayou

Жыл бұрын

I like that!

I’m going to be real but the woman wearing the Gucci and bangs is giving off very much hater vibes. Just listen to what she says and how she says it. It’s like she’s trying to personally attack her.

@forevercupcake93

2 жыл бұрын

I couldnt agree more. As old as they are, they will ever grow up

@tamaraanthony9762

Жыл бұрын

Yup

@toneyfox6328

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@toneyfox6328

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad u caught it! Discernment sis u got it❤

@becoming2531

Жыл бұрын

Bro I was coming to comments this exact thing. She heard 40 inch weave and got triggered 😂😂😂

They dissed natural women to elevate their implants, lace fronts, and processed hair. Pay attention.

@jpcoleman3408

Жыл бұрын

Yep!

@YaLittleFriend

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽

@essenceofauset7272

Жыл бұрын

Nope, they are correct. She gets different types of BS. I grew locs for 5 years and attracted the hoteps. Good morning beautiful queen goes to we need a second wife with a copper ring real quick! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ashasun6620

Жыл бұрын

@@essenceofauset7272 basically the same type of dusty

@essenceofauset7272

Жыл бұрын

@@ashasun6620 EXACTLY!

My friends and I were just talking about this. All the married women with good husbands (in our circle) have natural hair. There’s definitely a correlation.

Natural is beautiful because it shows she's confident and not inferior.

I’m floored! That ‘wayyyyyyy more bougie’ comment was full of disdain. Not necessary. As a host, one has to be open and objective. She sure took that personally.

@MsLearnandEarn

Жыл бұрын

And how she referred to natural girls as "simple" so close to the word "basic" or not as good. Not even.

@dorib.3367

Жыл бұрын

I thought the same she was jumping the gun every chance she got 🤔

@wordovlife1

Жыл бұрын

Because she had that hair they was talking about .ha

@francesbeckworth6290

Жыл бұрын

Yes she did...drinking that hater aid...they asked the natural sister a question. So insecure.

@bibaolaitan5189

Жыл бұрын

Is cos of her fake indian hair.

Lady with the bangs was hating from the jump lol “oh so you get different kind of bullshit” with a quickness 😂

@coldsolider

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!

@girlwholovesshopping

Жыл бұрын

Nah she right it’s the truth lol 💀

@sofrshsocln4

Жыл бұрын

but it's not hate tho. funny af 🤣

@divinitee7904

Жыл бұрын

It was definitely givin' lowkey haterade 😆

@ramgood2457

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY I PEEP THAT N JUST COMMENTED ON IT 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣 SMH DAMN SHAME

This is so true. As a natural girl who switches between wigs and braids I get different responses from men based on how my hair is on that particular day.

Yes I’m attracted already . Being natural means your content with your self without the additives ✊🏿

@TyraHigh

Жыл бұрын

Not necessarily, some it’s out of practicality, finance or just culture, it doesn’t signify confidence.

@starelise1387

Жыл бұрын

Bruh they really be the same dudes….when the sista is natural they guys changes his approach to reel her in until the real him comes out

@professr9343

Жыл бұрын

@@TyraHigh what culture tells you to wear another person hair though . And what does having money have to do with it . To me it does symbolize confidence . I have long locs and woman who messed up their edges with weaves and conk definitely be feeling some type of way . If you look at a lot of different African cultures they have many styles they adorn naturally

@professr9343

Жыл бұрын

@@starelise1387 I can’t speak for them guys but most men like “natural” beauty I’m telling you this as a man and you still trying to go against it .

@percyastronautstatus.8780

28 күн бұрын

"Additives " Lol...Clever

As a natural woman, I can say we are not bougie. When it comes to taking care of our temple(mind, body, spirit) and loving and accepting ourselves is a different type of vibe you don’t understand. I don’t need the material or the artificial look to look like someone else to validate myself or get attention. But if caring about my temple is bougie, then I am her. Seems like some of their egos are hurt but I send love and healing to you.

@privateq

Жыл бұрын

A lot of natural women are though. They also turn their nose up at women who wear wigs and lashes etc. Not you but I’ve seen it.

@eshe__x8285

Жыл бұрын

🖤

@Real_Queen_Reflections

Жыл бұрын

They not ready for this conversation. Even the term natural is used to collectively. Many aren't even sure what natural means anymore. I couldn't agree with you more. They mistaking bougie for BOUNDARIES. MUCH LOVE TO THE NATURALS. WE GO THRU A LOT. LOL. MUCH LOVE QUEEN

@misshun1933

Жыл бұрын

As someone with long natural hair, I drink and smoke and wouldn't always fit into the "caring for my temple narrative." I think the point is that whether you are natural or not, it doesn't define your character, at all.

@qbee1312

Жыл бұрын

Not invalidating your experience, but I am, sis. They've taught me about accepting less as a young woman

My husband loves when I wear my natural hair. He just grins and says, “That’s exactly how your hair was the day I asked you for your number...” 🥰

@joimonae4090

Жыл бұрын

Awee❤

@vegankarmela453

Жыл бұрын

*wholesome Af* 🖤🥺❤

@thandicandy5452

Жыл бұрын

😊

@j.j6606

Жыл бұрын

Aaaaanw 🥺❤

@misst227

Жыл бұрын

Awww. Such a sweetie 💕

I've received a lot of compliments for my natural hair but I've also been called masculine or rough for wearing my natural kinks. So, I think it really depends. On another note: I think we as a community should be more careful with how we lable natural hair vs not natural. It doesn't make one better than the other. Believing women who aren't natural are insecure or have some sort of shame/self-hate is poor judgement. Some women really just want to have fun with some hair styles; some women aren't natural for the sake of daily manageability; some women (usually older) have thinning hair....we shouldn't be so quick to pass judgement one another so harshly. The rest of the world already does that.

“She simple” Is a comment from somebody that’s simple minded.

It is funny how the girls with the weaves dismissed her experience. I am glad she shared that experience. Nonetheless she had a positive experience in which one lady called it BS.

@lemonjuiceproduction2411

Жыл бұрын

Frrr...cause most Bougie girls are girls who wear weaves/wigs...most girls with natural hair are living life more simple like me..from experience and what I've seen..girls who wear weaves are the bougie ones 😹😹don't know where she got that from

@jayatmosphere176

Жыл бұрын

But the woman with locks did say that men approach her with the “I can be me” logic which can be just as problematic because many of those men feel as though they have to bring nothing but themselves. No support, no protection, nothing! And they’ll still be called Kangz!

@honeyisnatural5

Жыл бұрын

Yep. She said “ different kind of bs” super dismissive of the other lady being called queen.

@TyraHigh

Жыл бұрын

@@lemonjuiceproduction2411 nothing about my natural hair has ever been “simple” it requires far more maintenance than my wigs or weaves ever did.

@BreahRobinson

Жыл бұрын

​@@TyraHigh if it's that much maintenance then your doing something wrong sis

Iono.. something about sis w. the bangs comes off very passive aggressive to me. Why is she fervently invalidating everything Locs says about her OWN EXPERIENCE.. like she’s personally offended by it & turns around to throw unnecessary shade It’s giving jealoussss 🐍

@loungelyric

Жыл бұрын

The old saying, "misery loves company"... Bangs dont want none of that positive energy

@allymaree8812

Жыл бұрын

Miss fake hair and nails is bitter, she thought she could spend on her body to make a man attracted. She learned that's not the case lol

@nervecalmer4012

Жыл бұрын

im both sides the girl with the bangs is just keeping it real unfortunately the way she is saying it messes up her messege but with that said I get that when I wore wigs I didn't get none of that when I get my hair to a low fade and just wet and go inget beautiful queen and they love the natural looknot to say it aint bullshit lol it's just spoken different sometimes I read her think I would be wanting to be called ma because it stings worse to be called queen then u disrespectful to me soon after not all but some

@kri8tiv

Жыл бұрын

@@nervecalmer4012 all this long write ups, and you still make no sense.

@nervecalmer4012

Жыл бұрын

@@kri8tiv your short write up doesn't make any sense go pick apart somebody else's comment like your own Grammer fool all these long write ups on here u got a personal problem

Most natural women don’t cake their face with makeup either. Love em! ❤ this is a natural hair stan account

@TyraHigh

Жыл бұрын

Umm there’s a difference between glam and every day looks. Natural hair wearers most definitely cake the face.

@Cdrop63

Жыл бұрын

@@TyraHigh idk why you’re trying to tell me the differences like we don’t know the difference between light makeup and a face full of mud. And when did I say all? You literally just want to prove a point 😂😂 nothing is definite or absolute but in MASS they aren’t caking their face with makeup based on what I’ve seen and experienced.

@stephanyvargas9211

Жыл бұрын

@@TyraHigh she said “Most” meaning that there is a fraction within the the natural community that does cake their face.

@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161

Жыл бұрын

*If they lack confidence they do cake face bs and those kind used to wear weaves and wigs before the locs or natural hair truss*

@imrickjamesbiiiiitchhh6161

Жыл бұрын

*The truly natural ladies like vegan holistic spiritual ones that was raised that way DONT cake they face*

I became more confident once I went natural. I felt like I stepped more into who I really am!

Lol the bangs and long hair clearly felt attacked 😂😂😂 being able to embrace your god given design HUMBLY is the biggest flex in existence.

@bronzebantu

Жыл бұрын

💯

@maryfrances1307

Жыл бұрын

Big flex. And once you learn how to style and present what God gave you, the world is yours.

@invadingminds

Жыл бұрын

Best comment thusfar! That last part! 😌

@adaughterofzion

Жыл бұрын

FACTS

@deshaluv95

Жыл бұрын

😂😅 Factttsss

We can clearly see why the girl with the bangs don’t attract those type of men 😂😂😂

@strawberrie6491

Жыл бұрын

ratchet

@CuttingUpWithT

Жыл бұрын

She is most definitely married and wears her natural hair a lot. On other episodes she looks different

Sis’ we not more bouji we just hold more confidence n our self-esteem is way up 😂❤❤❤❤ poor u

@Heyyallhey1111

Жыл бұрын

Not at all! Y’all be letting men treat you like shit

@africanbeauty7

27 күн бұрын

So no natural woman has been cheated on, disrespected, or walked all over by a man? As a natural haired girly I call BS. Let me ask some of the natural hair sisters from the “I’m Black and I’m proud” ✊🏾era in the 70s. If your self esteem lies in your hair then you have more problems than you think.

Never knew authentic self care was Boujee.

Her energy is different. Any man can sense that.

@sentientbeingschannel6755

Жыл бұрын

Facts

Imo, natural women are usually more down to earth and chiller personality wise. I've only had positive experiences with them.

@tatijas

Жыл бұрын

👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤

@gtgargon

Жыл бұрын

they're confident in self

@nylaconway9936

Жыл бұрын

we do have a bad side tho just saying and a petty side.

@TiaJoy1372

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@289rory

Жыл бұрын

@@nylaconway9936 Yeah, it’s no “we.” Only pettiness I see from natural women is after someone steals their hair products.

Her natural hairstyle is so stunning. Compliments her complexion and outfit too.

The lady with the bangs is confusing “simple” for not toxic & “more bougie” for knowing or having higher standards and/or legit BOUNDARIES. A a lot of natural women Just exude Queen energy hence being called queen. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@shannondriver1272

Жыл бұрын

We love women who Rock the natural looks period. Bleess

@YemayaIndigo

Жыл бұрын

She's jealous

@adilla121783

Жыл бұрын

Yeah because when she said natural hair she told her s*** faking probably ain't even got no hair that's another thing he's with me want to have all this accessories makeup earrings to make them look good but when you take it off how are you looking

@aladynamedSusan

Жыл бұрын

I'm new at my job. I work in quality control and while I was sitting at my desk one of the Black warehouse employees walked really fast past me and said good morning Queen. How men address me like that always makes me feel appreciated. And I am a natural woman so maybe there is something to this perspective 😍

@reneesaccount5095

Жыл бұрын

They are speaking from a man's perspective... This was a whole podcast, much larger than this clip. Don't throw shade. I'm natural and I understand the dialogue without offense. Natural & weaved women can both be bougie. I get men who hate me as a natural & those who love it because they think I'm simple until they really know me.

I noticed the natural girl seemed more refined and elegant then the other girls on the panel

@marcasino3117

Жыл бұрын

That's what they call bougie

@BerryFlair

Жыл бұрын

That’s it. I’m like it’s not her hair, it’s her aura.

@SwimLoc

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

Facts !!!! Real recognize real… I’ll take natural before fake any day..

The girls with the long hair felt attacked lol

I wear wigs and my hair natural. In my experience both styles def attract different men. It’s interesting

@epswaytvvibes8105

Жыл бұрын

It's true

@MrsKincy

Жыл бұрын

Same; I’m married but I definitely draw different attention with my afro

@QueenUglyDuckling

Жыл бұрын

Very interesting....

I can tell why men approaches this beautiful natural Queen with respect ❤️ You can tell by the way she moves she talks with such much allegiance, care and gentleness she is absolutely feminin and has a very soft voice the moment she spoke I was drawn to her because her vibe gave me chills and peace . She ain’t loud like them other ones she was very thoughtful of how she speaks and what she speaks I just love her you go queen 👑😍

@kdotty1543

Жыл бұрын

This one! Sis had so much poise, couth and tact in how she spoke even the way she was positioned in her seat...the hair is a plus but she is very feminine and we can see it. You can also tells she has a very wonderful intellect...sis looked amazing 😍

And that natural girl actually kinda deserves to be “way more boujie” so thank you for that comment 🤧. She looks like she treats others with respect and like she has an actual personality. She looks as if she holds herself to a higher standard and isn’t with that ratchet shxt. And she just looks like she’s herself and not trying so hard like ol girl with the Gucci sweater

This is true! Once I Loc'd up men approached me different! Also, complimented me more on my hair 💯

Women who wear their hair natural are my #1 and get my full respect. I love y'all.

@YaLittleFriend

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@kbflawless93

Жыл бұрын

We love you too

@keahharrison4765

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ☺️

@mylightshinesbright8665

Жыл бұрын

Thank you babes 😘

@truthseeker4460

Жыл бұрын

❤

I think we’ve all had “friends “ like ol girl with the bangs before we knew better. Low key haters. Lol. Delusional creatures.

@profmj7630

Жыл бұрын

Yup...now a female show me some shady behavior --- I'm out

@valariesarpong548

Жыл бұрын

I think she took the statement as a personal attack

@mickey8951

Жыл бұрын

I’m experiencing this now and I’m so hurt

@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha

Жыл бұрын

@@mickey8951 Dont be hurt, boo...GET AWAY. Preserve your PEACE....Sending you love :)

@pettybetty2699

Жыл бұрын

Unstable creatures that’s what I’m call y’all unstable creatures lol ….. P off baby boy voice 😂😂😂😂

Some guys thought I had high standards just because I posted a picture in my natural hair my afro actually. So It does make a difference

This is so true! If my natural curls are popping then I may get looks from men of a different status or even another race. Most definitely if I wear a natural looking weave. I also notice a difference in they type of men who look at men when my hair is long vs short. Most black men I have encountered have been truthful that short hair looks good but they would prefer their women with length. Some have also admitted that don't even care about being natural as long as the women's hair is long. Men have been brain washed by medis just as women have.

Lady with the bangs really said "and I took that PeRsOnALlY 👁️👄👁️" 🤣🤣

@vl4eva

Жыл бұрын

Pfff 😂 😂 😂 😂

@cocopuff6810

Жыл бұрын

She sure did

@KNByam

Жыл бұрын

Yup, she felt offended.

@tammywhite6639

Жыл бұрын

Yep!👏🏼👏🏼😂😂😂😂

@ashron94

Жыл бұрын

Definitely lol 😂

Natural girls aren’t “simple”, as you sit there wearing your wig, weave and toupee!! This is to the girl wearing the bangs!!! I’ve been loc’d for two years and it’s the best decision I ever made!! We aren’t simple, we are unapologetically BLACK and proud of it! We know who we are!!!

@jayman9642

Жыл бұрын

🎯 I love it 💪🏾

@Jassywazzy1

Жыл бұрын

Lol @ toupee!😂

@cassthegrimm8522

Жыл бұрын

🤷🏾‍♀️locks are a simple style doe what is the beef

@jayman9642

Жыл бұрын

@@cassthegrimm8522 Locs not simple it's Many different ways you can style them. And if you think your natural hair or locs is simple something wrong with you. Nothing about you is simple 🤦🏾‍♂️

@cassthegrimm8522

Жыл бұрын

@@jayman9642 ok but its not hard to achieve the look is the point to be made its not hard to get locks certainly not for type 4 hair and maintenance is not hard at all yes it is beautiful and it can be culturally significant though people mostly dont do it for cultural symbolism they do it because they are easy to manage and they look good they are a fairly simple style .... i think what was missed is the context yal took the shot of “ they are simple” as the woman are basic but im pretty sure in context she meant simple as in easier to deal with not simple like average what’s really concerning about the initial comment I commented under is having to tear another black woman down to prove their point 💀so she wears wigs and weave why are you insinuating that is a bad thing ?!? Like because they wear hair that did not grow out of their head they don’t know who they are? Are they less black because they bought their hair?! They spend time money and effort on their heads just as you do ..... im not understanding the attack

It’s more that they understand that you respect and love yourself and are not insecure about wearing what u were born with, and they know they cannot come incorrect. Because u would never give them the time of day.

You get those responses, simply, because your Extremely Desirable. Period.

Honestly, as a natural, I get a lot less attention from BM but my experiences are far more flattering. When I straighten my hair it’s definitely a different type of man who notices me. It’s very interesting!

@aminawilliamson2694

Жыл бұрын

It’s opposite for me, but I also think it’s because I do many styles with my natural hair

@QueenUglyDuckling

Жыл бұрын

Real interesting....

@Sexyyredd78

Жыл бұрын

When I wore weaves, I got a lot of attention from men. Now that I wear locs, I don’t get as much attention from BM. I get attention from men who wears dreads and white men. When I wore weaves, the type of me I was attracting were players. I prefer to be natural and who’s meant for me will be for me.

@MzDoctorStrange2u

Жыл бұрын

Way less. The one type I did use weave the men who hit on me were vulgar.

@MotheRuckerlove

Жыл бұрын

Same!

It's powerful hearing this. I believe natural girls give off a 'I know myself, you need to respect that' vibe. I definitely get much more respectful responses from a wide range of people when rocking my natural hair. The grand rises are regular 😅😂😂

@MzNecessary

Жыл бұрын

So true😂😂😂

@donewiththeworld

Жыл бұрын

Delusional. I got long natural hair and I’m still learning. I still got issues. Men still wanna play around. DELUSION

My husband loves my natural hair. I tried wearing a weave once, I hadn't before and was curious. He hated it 🤣 so I never had it installed again.

"Hey queen" "My Nubian princess" "African sister" RUN!! RUN AWAY!!!!

@itschrischriss

Жыл бұрын

😅 I mean, they’ll come to chase destroy a life regardless of verbiage lol just depends on the man

@Nekole1

Жыл бұрын

Facts

I ain’t gone lie… the natural woman hair in the thumbnails what made me even watch it I was like that 🔥

@grandmasterpineapple

Жыл бұрын

Facts.

@keneshiaallah795

Жыл бұрын

Me Too 🌟⭐💫💪💪💪💪

No matter how you're wearing your hair just focus on beauty that can be felt and not just seen.

@SanFranDentist94301

Жыл бұрын

💘

@tiffanysimagination

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@CyberBella4U

Жыл бұрын

❤ I need to read this every morning ❤

@Artistically_Alex

Жыл бұрын

The best comment 🙌🏾👏🏾💡‼️

very true. I've been on both ends. but when I decided to do locs, it's been a whole new world. most of the men who have approached me have been nice, respectful, and have always complimented my hair. I get alot of compliments on my locs and ol girl at the end of the clip felt some kind of way about what she was saying.

Natural ROCKS !!! Take those wigs off !!!

I went natural and stopped cutting my hair in 2019 and I have to say that I get a lot of compliments on my Afro and curls. Even from white men and men from other cultures. I guess it’s just something about natural black beauty🤷🏽‍♀️

@bunchielove6893

Жыл бұрын

Same. Non black people love my natural hair. I actually received negative responses from my own people.

@shaniquafudge4360

Жыл бұрын

I've experienced more white men commenting on my natural hair as well.

@nomonkeysallowed511

Жыл бұрын

@@shaniquafudge4360 Lol, sure you do. #Knaps

@MsElizaRae

Жыл бұрын

White men do love them some afros and curls lol It's quite shocking

@kim_baee4255

Жыл бұрын

You couldn't wait to tell us a white man noticed you and your knotty hair 😒

I’m 42 my locks are down to my butt and I started locking at age 19. At that time to be honest black man for the most part stop talking to me. I went a year and a half without a date until I started dating people who didn’t look like me. Now having locks is cool again and more of our brothers are ““ woke so I have to filter through the grand rising bullshit artists but at least more of people who look like me actually approach me. There is something about natural hair and I think it has to do with self reflection and how people feel about themselves.

@dustrepellent8986

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. We the same age and I’ve been both girls. From “yo ma” to “Nubian queen” 😅Girl I heard it all. Lol! Sometimes even heard both from the same man. But I’m Lightskin so I’ve always been the preference of most BM, natural or not. But I only get attention from other races when my hair is straight or long braids.

@partheniat.9557

Жыл бұрын

@@dustrepellent8986 LOL!

@DaPhlyymamee

Жыл бұрын

I have been locked for over 25 years and I get ALL types that have approached me. Most very respectfully.

@partheniat.9557

Жыл бұрын

@@DaPhlyymamee and I believe you because I just cut mine and was growing them for about 10 years but I had to go there because of my arthritis and I couldn't hold my arms up to style as I wanted to. So now I just sport the short cut Natural curly! NO CHEMICALS DEFINITELY NOT!💜✌🏽🌷

@partheniat.9557

Жыл бұрын

My husband loves it!🥰

The more i see people with locs the more I want them lol. I m going to try out the faux ones and see how it goes and if i like it i ll get them done for real 👌👌👌 i just have no idea where to go for maintenance theres no loc stylists near me 😂💀

I went natural in 2020! That was the best decision I ever made. The journey of going natural helped me to fall in love with myself again and to understand and care for my hair. Some days i felt cute and some days I felt overwhelmed but I stuck with it. Trust the process! My hair is resilient, flexible and healthy. We were not taught how to properly care for our hair but it's time to address that and learn.

It's a whole different world that opens up when you're natural ✨️😌 I've been on both sides...It takes alot to be comfortable with who you are...so when you see that Vibe of naturalness walk in the room...you know what time it is😊

@Jassywazzy1

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@rahra2483

Жыл бұрын

💯💯

@baefitnl3463

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯❤️‼️

@BlueMoon-pz9pp

Жыл бұрын

What time is that?

@sofrshsocln4

Жыл бұрын

the best way to word it. shout out to all yall OWNING the you that was created perfectly imperfectly

I love the natural hair . And weaves not a big deal really, if used properly . But I'm from the time where women didn't want it to be known they had weaves . The goal was to have it blend with your hair and look more believable. But this Skittles flavored hair , and hair caps and fake baby hair is horrible looking . I don't know what's happening .🤔

@jamaicanjoyh6883

Жыл бұрын

They way I hollered at reading Skittles Flavored 😜🤔...me too, make it believable and blend.. LMAO we must be officially OG'S 40+ club ..."I don't know what happening"..🤣🤣🤣🤣 gurl I completely UNDERstand...

@Iamcherese

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂that escalated

@vasiasky5573

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@r.g8339

Жыл бұрын

Yep 42 . Lol. Mm

@r.g8339

Жыл бұрын

Some stuff is really scary . Babies be looking like a whole nuther person. ( I'm country don't talk bout my words lol ..) I seen some make up and hair videos . Them thangs be toe up . Then all of a sudden they look good . 🙄 I'm like what.

Much Love To All my natural Queens......there's a difference.......You definitely can SEE what your getting.....no physical filters......

I'm natural..... And we still pulling up in the Phantom😩💅🏾

@braceface1514

Жыл бұрын

im natural and pulling up in the the challyyy! ik that’s right black queen!!!🤎✨

The lady with the bangs was hating at 1st sight smh. As a pretty lady with natural locs, being comfortable/embracing wearing your natural hair is NOT "bourgeois" lol. Being black & not talking hood doesn't make you "bourgeois" either. Homegirl got some growing up to do 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Divineblk

Жыл бұрын

It's sad how a lot of black women lack self love, because when you love your blackness you love your reflection, natural hair and all.

@missreed9688

Жыл бұрын

@@Divineblk Right!!!

@nadiyah7071

Жыл бұрын

​@@Divineblk Right. Unfortunately a lot of BW hate themselves and project their low self esteem onto other BW. I've seen and experienced this SO many times IRL...

@myboyfriendgonnagetyou97

Жыл бұрын

Cap

@missreed9688

Жыл бұрын

@@nadiyah7071 Me too smh, luckily I dont let it affect me anymore.

I am a 22 year old woman from 🇿🇦 and I've attracted men from India, Bangladesh, Uganda, Zimbabwe, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Zambia, and South African black men of all ethnicities, coloured and Caucasian men with my natural type 4 hair. You have told no lies.

I just love my SISTA with that real swagger it shows confidence

I'm Natural and Don't get the "Different type of BS" 😆 The men who approach me have the same lifestyle which is a nice coincidence ( Herbal teas over coffee, Home Cooked meals over restaurants , Non pork no dairy in our diet and we alternate with vegan foods , Natural products and oils for our hair n skin , athletic, Lounges over clubs , Art n Spoken word events , Spiritual over Religion , Not too attached to social media etc.)

@JustABlackBoyFromKentucky

Жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS QUEEN 🤎👑

@misstee4662

Жыл бұрын

@@JustABlackBoyFromKentucky Thank U / Love Returned 🖤👑. Nice pic too. I went to Ali Funeral ( May he Rest I.n P.eace) & Celebration of Life a few yrs ago here in his hmtwn of Louisville , Ky. The Ali Museum is a Must See! 5 Floors of Legendary Greatness. 🤝🤝

@JustABlackBoyFromKentucky

Жыл бұрын

@@misstee4662 I Greatly appreciate the love 🤎 My Queen👑. I'm from Louisville, Ky So I created this KZread channel & gave it his name in remembrance of him & too pay homage to the Greatest African American Man From Louisville, Ky & The greatest boxer in the world 🥊. I have yet too attend the Ali Center though🥲... Yes I should be ashamed of myself for not having been yet but I just never had the opportunity too go yet.

@JustABlackBoyFromKentucky

Жыл бұрын

@@misstee4662 By the way I like ya picture too... I Think you Beautiful My Queen 👑.

@misstee4662

Жыл бұрын

@@JustABlackBoyFromKentucky Awhh YW , ok and Congrats on the Channel! I've been here 7 yrs now. My second home and I take all my fam n friends who come to town. Maybe I'll meet u there one day lol One Love*

When you can handle the hair that naturally grows out of your scalp people "not just men" treat you differently.

@ah-rr1lk

Жыл бұрын

It's black women trying to have hair like white women. I personally like black women's hair and like how curly/bouncy it can be.

@realpluslovely

Жыл бұрын

@@ah-rr1lk naw homie... Curly and bouncy are for white-ish type hair... Most of our true hair is coily and gravity defiant 🤣🤣🤣 ain't no bounce but dat back

@ah-rr1lk

Жыл бұрын

@@realpluslovely in gonna be completely honest. I've never met a black person before lol.

@realpluslovely

Жыл бұрын

@@ah-rr1lk lolz I know... It's okay though if you truly believe one day you will meet a regular person... Who happens to be a black woman. 🤣🤣🤣

@ah-rr1lk

Жыл бұрын

@@realpluslovely that would be awesome then I could finally ask all the important questions like, how did you make your hair so pretty, and does it bounce? I really need to move out of this town of 74 people. I swear half of us are inbred

It seems we find anything to constantly divide us - it’s either if we’re natural or we like long weave, lashes or no lashes, light skin vs dark skin… the list goes on … the right man for you at the end of the day will want you for who you are and if that means confident with lashes and weave so be it or a weave or locks or a fro so be it! But be happy with you before you compare yourself to someone else because they’re either this or that … be you ❤ Also, this whole “natural look” natural means you don’t alter or change anything about you - so that would include eyebrows, makeup, waxing, nails 💅 etc… many of us are so hypocritical of others but who really is all natural? Very few … 😢

I’m not gonna cap she automatically gives me wife vibes over all these chicks they’re all beautiful but that natural just hit different

I’m seeing people say in the comments that the girl with the bangs is hating… for telling the truth? It didn’t come off as hate to me, just an observation. Im natural and the good morning Queens can also be drama just the same as the others. I also noticed that they think they can be flat broke or super cheap when it comes to me being natural, like I am supposed to be okay with not having anything. Woke don’t mean broke sir. And lets be 💯 when we wear our natural natural hair (4z girl here) a lot (not all) black men do not like that look and I will attract men of different ethnicities that appreciate the way my hair grows out my head. So it is levels to this hair game. I also like wigs and braids. Hell I got into wigs because I went natural and you know when your in cooperate…. gotta blend in or possibly not get the job you deserve. The wigs allowed me to leave my natural hair alone as it grew out, while also providing me with a hairstyle appropriate for work at the time. I love all hair, but even when I wear my turbans, I attract different men with different intentions. Gotta be careful and vet them accordingly. Stay safe out here ladies ☮️ ✌🏾.

@JESSKISS19

Жыл бұрын

Well stated. Think about it, if these dudes drove Range Rovers who they approach you ? The answer is no because they have the money to reach the women they really like . It's all game

@OGFlowerArt

Жыл бұрын

Love this comment

@kimjordan8151

Жыл бұрын

You hit it right on the nail. A lot of men think because you wear your natural hair, they can be cheap or you expect less from them when dating. I had to get this straight with my ex boyfriend.

@kimjordan8151

Жыл бұрын

I had to come back and say this. My daughter who rocks a Angela Davis Afro get an entirely different reaction than I do with my Whoopi Goldberg 4z (whatever is the toughest texture) from men and people in general.

Woman with natural hair in general are more in line with what I want in a woman period. When I see a bunch of fake accessories I think fake woman whether that's accurate or not . Notice that the other woman immediately threw shade .

@chrisharris2367

Жыл бұрын

Then why are men’s instagram accounts filled w the opposite type of woman that you say is desired It’s filled w the artificial woman not natural woman

@thenysteez7182

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisharris2367 because it speaks to their sexual desires, these same men probably wouldn’t even talk to women they follow on IG in real life.

@ruggedtechie5867

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisharris2367 what men are you talking about and are they marrying these women . Because that's two seperate things. A man might like the way a woman looks as far as lustfully but he would want to marry someone else. Everytime I see a black woman rocking he " real" god given hair I big up that pic.

@chrisharris2367

Жыл бұрын

@@ruggedtechie5867 so if he is not marrying the woman out of strong attraction why is he marrying her...oh yeah, to help him, lol so basically he will lust after the sidechick w the weave but marry the respectable natural sister because he knows she will ride and die w him because she has a motherly type of maturity to her; and ultimately has to mother you....it's nothing wrong with natural hair; i'm just trying to get black men to be honest and dig deep; and honestly, it's hard for yal

@Freebandz757

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisharris2367 no there’s just a difference in what I’m lust and what I want in a family men watch porn we don’t want pornstars for wives

She called her simple… she’s right she’s simply beautiful

It’s True. I wear my Afro and the men is like 😍

Thank you sis...you attract what you reflect!

@affableone7321

Жыл бұрын

I agree….

I think being natural speaks volumes in a good way 🥰

@Jessy_06901

Жыл бұрын

I agree 💯

This is so true 🤣 the same guy will talk to you diff based on your hair

I think some men are drawn to seeing a woman that is comfortable and willing to show them their truest self. No surprises. You get what you see and like she said, they can be them and proud of their natural states as well. 🎉

Why the chick with bangs over talking and hating

@DetPod

Жыл бұрын

Hating hard “it’s just different types of BS”

@louisianalionlove3097

Жыл бұрын

Bruh I said the same shit

@THEOUTTABOUNDSPODCAST

Жыл бұрын

Indeed

@evelyn7881

Жыл бұрын

She's feeling uncomfortable with her Brazilian hair.

@madeyalook1200

Жыл бұрын

Because she's not a queen and won't be treated like one

Natural is #1 preferred. Don’t settle for #2. 💯🙏🏾

Love her hair it’s natural and an individual style just like her!

Awwww come on BEAUTIFUL QUEEN’s LAUGHING AND BEING ON EACH OTHERS side! We LOVE TO SEE IT!!! The mean girl era is going to phase out bc a loving woman is a powerful ONE

Look at how the "Weave Walker" automatically said that the natural girls are way more Boujee. Women literally look at everything (even each other) like they aren't $h*t. Men don't even have dead end conversations like these.

@poeticlovee

Жыл бұрын

Natural was also shading weave women too

@shannonsharpe7695

Жыл бұрын

@@poeticlovee that’s the thing tho y’all too emotional! If that’s her experience than it’s her experience. How is that shade if she’s telling the type of attention she gets?

@QueenNaestar

Жыл бұрын

Lol @ Weave Walker 😂😂😂

@honeyisnatural5

Жыл бұрын

Super dead end

@brandymcdowell8292

Жыл бұрын

@@poeticlovee 9

The reason why the woman with the bangs came with that energy off the rip, is because she felt instantly insecure about not wearing her natural hair. She felt as though it was a personal attack on her

@KapQueen

Жыл бұрын

Definitely picked that up.....she projected

@noirnrougenuit9188

Жыл бұрын

They know that they are giving in and it bothers them... they're not strong enough to accept their challenge.

@ChantaBrite

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for explaining because I couldn't figure who they were talking about in the comments when they said she was giving negative energy. I must be naive because I thought they were all just having a conversation. I didn't pick up negative vibes from anyone.

@ThobileMacaws

Жыл бұрын

Insecurities will have them act craze!!!

The weave wearing sista was definitely hating , Natural Women tend to attract Natural men.

Sis said it all ...I didn't even need to finish the segment. " oh so you get a DIFFERENT type of BS n ' a" ..YES !...AND I wish yall would stop letting grown males call you " bro " " bruh" "queen" etcetera it's so patronizing and not a compliment...."grand rising my queen" BLOCKED...

I’ve been getting “Grand rising” too, and Queen as well. Wearing your hair in its natural state does attract the right spirits, because you’re your truth authentic self.

@commentpoliceofficer7991

Жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. Some dudes will assume because a BW is wearing natural hair that she’s the social justice warrior, woke, activist type so they’ll use those tired terms like “Queen” and “ Grand rising” just to run game so I don’t always trust those dudes, personally

Long hair women took it personal and kept making it negative to be comfortable. Men like natural hair, period.

@wintersantiago2274

Жыл бұрын

Long hair or long old weave?

@eprahs1

Жыл бұрын

We go by actions, not words.

@endylouwho

Жыл бұрын

Men like hair period.. idk why y’all putting people who like weave down too, men definitely like women who have more “manageable” or fake hair

@eprahs1

Жыл бұрын

@@endylouwho I don't think they like fake hair. Men just fall for the Eurocentric standards of beauty. That's what they have been programmed to desire. And alot of women (black women) feel the have to live up to that.

@LiberalsRuinEverything.

Жыл бұрын

@@eprahs1 hair is hair. It’s naturally adds beauty. Nothing euro centric about it.

The shade in that room was so thick. I don’t believe you can be “natural” “feminine” and “bougie” at the same time. She spoke so beautifully, pure and kind. And those other woman were hating on her. So sad.

I've been telling women this the whole time! The type of men that you attract is based on how you present yourself. Me personally, I NEVER entertain women who wear weaves and fake nails, fake eye lashes, makeup and all that. Natural women will ALWAYS attract higher quality men. However, when we say what we actually like, we are often met with the "you can't tell me what to do" attitude. Shout out to the natural women who put in the effort!

I get approached differently with my natural hair too. I wear my curly fro 95% of the time and get approached alot more from all races of men. When i wore my hair straight it was fewer because i looked like everyone else. The thing about natural hair is just mastering what grows from your head. Can still wear the wigs an extensions, but being confident in a fro is just a different level. Alot of women are still ashamed about their hair or dont know how to take care of it. Its less work than weaves if you know what youre doing. Those grand rising men def annoying. They dont even practice what they listen to everyday most of them lol.

@com583

2 жыл бұрын

The natural hair is just way better

@ruggedtechie5867

Жыл бұрын

Hotep queen lol

@MILITANTMONEY

Жыл бұрын

BlackwomanUSA Its not about them not being what they say, its about the approach and the manner in which she was dealt with. U hear the RESPECT. Now SIS, its ur guidance thats gonna continue that. But if I hit u wit that Grand Rising and see that ur fresh manure. Of course Im curbin some of that. But if u hit me wit that Brotha I like u, I jus need that insight into who I am dealing wit first than we may be able to continue. Blessings Sis

@jayone2140

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@@com583 YES. Shame to say 😕 most women nowadays are SIMPLY PUT LAZY AS HELL.

@theinvisiblewoman5709

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Yep my mom transitioned from straight to curly after seeing me flourish at styling my hair. She loves it now. But before she would say “how you let your naps touch your neck all day” or “your curls make your hair look short” like bruh my curls touch my neck that means my hair is long and healthy… but I also don’t wear my curls defined, I be wearing curly fros cuz I don’t due gel like that 😅

I also think it's how you perceive yourself. Girl with the locs was laid back, soft spoken, easy to talk to and the girl with the bangs was defensive, she sounded hurt and sounds like she trusts no man. I think it's about your enegery and what you put out too

@misguidedpearls7456

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amen❤❤❤💚💚💜💜🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤