Sexual compatibility in relationships is REAL and should be discussed heavily; especially before marriage.

@JohnnyD-u7

Жыл бұрын

Fact

@ed3523

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@nicoledeshore3515

Жыл бұрын

I agree and I strongly believe no parter should withhold intimacy with their partner / spouse and if things change, they should talk about it

@evolvingishpod

Жыл бұрын

@@nicoledeshore3515 💯💯💯💯

@marcusdavis4227

Жыл бұрын

it should be discussed on the 3rd date. I have had so many couples in pre marital counselling that never think to ask, "how often would you want to have sex in a week" ....when I pose this question to couples one will say for example 2x a week and the other will say 5x a week.......these 2 individuals are not sexually compatible (no fault of their own) because the one who said 2x ...is stating best case scenario and everything in life is perfect ....then 2x is ideal. which indicates 1 to 0 per week that person would be just fine. where as the one who saids 5x is most likely satisfied at 3x......couples like this are far apart. I have said to many couples ..your relationship will not lasting with this unequally yoked frequency. Those same couples have ended back in my office for marriage counseling arguing over what??? frequency of sex.....and the lack of spills into other areas and the pressure of spills into other areas.......that should be a date 3 question......

If she is rejecting your advances for “grown up time” there is a reason why. Instead of focusing on the intimate time, focus and remove the problem(s) that are in the way.

@d-space1935

Жыл бұрын

Thats where communication comes into play. Since men can’t read minds, the guys will come to their own conclusion. Its always better when she tells him the issue.

@ifclarkkentwuzblk

Жыл бұрын

​@@d-space1935 you're correct. As a man that leads to a feeling of selfconsciousness and that's when people do go "searching" outside of the relationship.

@beach_boy1141

Жыл бұрын

Yea……her

@DrArthurCGarp

Жыл бұрын

Y’all say that then complain he only resolved the problems for the sex. The problem is more often than not you, you aren’t communicating, you’re shutting yourself and your partner down, you’re not trying to treat your relationship as a relationship. All the focus in the world doesn’t matter if you’re looking for reasons to be unhappy.

@NoName-sp5dp

Жыл бұрын

@@d-space1935 you can communicate all you want but it’s action that matters

Only watching this for Kita

@dontwatchthat869

2 жыл бұрын

literally

@kawanadean3474

2 жыл бұрын

Me too… I love Kita!!!

@tahliahiggins8564

2 жыл бұрын

Guilty 🤣🤣🤣 it is a good show overall tho not Gon lie

@torilynn8689

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why I’m here too

@valery5900

2 жыл бұрын

Same!

Been married 12 years together 16 years and I’ve never been told no and I’ve never told my wife no. I don’t ask when she’s not well or going through something. My sex life is very healthy and I’m thankful cause I’ve heard horrible stories.

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

Have you ever had sex when you didn't want to? If so, your body registers that as rape.

@hereforit2347

Жыл бұрын

Sounds healthy to me! 👍🏾

@xblsumtimesclutch1491

Жыл бұрын

W answer and relationship

@mbf6160

Жыл бұрын

💪🏾

@gapeach7814

11 ай бұрын

Probably still should ask your wife how she's feeling/ if she's well just to check-in & show concern for her wellbeing. Sometimes just bc the person isn't turning you down doesn't mean they don't want to. They may just be doing it bc they feel it's their duty. Doesn't mean all is well. You have too have constant communication with your spouse...

It’s pathetic how immature “adults” are. It’s all about ego & self centeredness. If you can’t go some time without sex for whatever valid reason you’re actually too immature to be in a relationship bcuz there is soo much more to life and the human experience than sex. Like c’mon smh.

@FreeSpiritInGod

Жыл бұрын

Right because where is the self control?

@sammy69831

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@lovegoddess2040

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@w3n33dam1racl3

Жыл бұрын

@@FreeSpiritInGod 💯

@w3n33dam1racl3

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

In a relationship women are more comfortable telling u no because they think your more understanding at this point by actually knowing how they maybe tired or mentally off

@sonyap8253

Жыл бұрын

Also more secure and not using sex to manipulate the partner into choosing her. And once kids come, she gets very tired. Saying "I've never had a GIRL deny me" says you've never had a real grown up relationship with a WOMAN who knows her worth lies beyond her pussy 🤷‍♀️

@itsRudeGal

Жыл бұрын

But they don’t, most use it against you or use it as an excuse to be a dick.

@kenyafromcali

Жыл бұрын

@@sonyap8253 that part!!

@ed3523

Жыл бұрын

Still not an excuse for denying a man for Months and wonder why he is debating leaving or cheating. Denying your Man whether he is your husband or boyfriend often reads to us that you don't want us.

@sonyap8253

Жыл бұрын

@Presencce love Jones women work all day too. Glib ass. And then we go home and take care of our families aka do more work. Go do 1 ounce of research on a woman's double shift cause I'm definitely not the ignorant one out of the 2 of us and scientists agree. I am in a 17 year relationship, married, house kids. I run my own business on top of doing the majority of work at home tho my husband is definitely helpful. It lacks the empathy of TRUE maturity to think your needs are the only needs in a relationship and let's be fr you are not getting pussy at the same frequency as a single man. You ain't that guy. So stop acting ungrateful. Have a little understanding for your partner cause all I heard you say was how selfish you are, aka if you are married, you won't make it. Empathy is a sign of true maturity as the frontal lobe is the last to develop. Yes, my ignorant ass has multiple degrees. Cause I'm such a fool. Everyone enjoys sex and craves to feel close to their partner. Women too! I know! Gasp! But having the bandwidth to understand in a relationship it's not always all about you is what makes for a good partner. Good luck tho, running around chasing your dick your whole life, a slave to your primal impulses, can't even rule your own body has left many men lonely in their dusty old age. Learn to be the master of your own self before you try to school others, especially one this far out of your league Mr Neanderthal. Bye forever, please.

Better to find out why they keep saying no.

@justinwallace451

Жыл бұрын

Simp response

When that chemistry is there, it is usually not a problem between 2 people. I think when things start out all hot and heavy and drastically change is when you run into problems. Yes pregnancy and hormonal changes and life events matter and that requieee constant communication. It should also be active conversation to figure out what’s going on. I don’t think it’s fair in either side to just allow your partner to “figure it out” or just expect to be okay with their sexual needs not being met. Repeatedly Turning your partner down makes a person feel inadequate and they will also internalize those feelings thinking something is wrong with them especially when you don’t have a “why.” Communication is definitely key!

I only say no if I'm sick. Been married 10 years and I love making my husband happy. He's a good man and hot as Hell, so, it's really a win/win!

I would have to exhaust all other options before tripping out. Health, emotional, psychological illnesses or imbalances. After that we would have to have a sit down about what is truly going on. It would have to take a drastic change though. If you go hard 4-5 times a week to 2-3 times, it could just be life getting in the way. If it's a major change like 1-2 times a month, that's worth a conversation because it's noticeable.

Okay, if im not treated right that day, you yell at me, you aren't around, there is no conversation and some kind of intimacy before hand, I will turn you down. Just like men like attention, so do woman. Pay some positive attention to me and I have no problem getting sexual. I need that brain space to even get turned on.

@churchsbiscuits

Жыл бұрын

This is the part that always gets skipped.

@longkang9366

Жыл бұрын

Its like you having sex with a stranger if there is no emotional or intellectual intimacy

@blackberry4life482

Жыл бұрын

Been tryna tell ‘em for years!😃

@justinwallace451

Жыл бұрын

Women want way more of it than men for us respect and appreciation is key

@blackberry4life482

Жыл бұрын

@@justinwallace451 Treating someone right is respect and appreciation. They go hand in hand. It seems we want the same things.🤷🏽‍♀️

No I can't do it in my period honey, no freaking way!! Now that's too much for me lol.

@RobinXlone

Жыл бұрын

The kitty bleeding but ya mouth work

@FreeSpiritInGod

Жыл бұрын

I never understood this but I guess it’s because im used to one guy and bloody or not he dont give af that ive became comfortable aslo plus im always waaay more horny when Im on my period 😂😂😂 what is wrong with me??

@RobinXlone

Жыл бұрын

@@FreeSpiritInGod disgusting

@glo3260

Жыл бұрын

@@RobinXlone ah yes we’re having period cramps that have been scientifically been proven to be as bad as a heart attack but hey we never get a break do we

@glo3260

Жыл бұрын

@Presencce love Jones shall i continue?

Ask your partner why, they may not even know. Ask what you can do to help them get past the hurdle that's causing the lack of interest. Are they too tired and stressed by life? Are hormones, pain or ED causing a problem, have they become insecure or has the relationship run it's course? Is your partner unfulfilled, or feel like it's one sided, are they afraid to relax and feel free to enjoy themselves or experiment, are they dealing with past trauma from SA? There are so many reasons males and females may pull away from sexual activities that good communication is imperative.

A period don't stop nothing but a sentence! 🎤🥂😂

@FreeSpiritInGod

Жыл бұрын

Yesss !!! Ok!! I thought I was the only one thought something might be wrong with me lmao!

@1mochadelightable

Жыл бұрын

@@FreeSpiritInGod NEVA!

@angelbaby692006

Жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂.

@itzwanimereacts

Жыл бұрын

Outta control😂😂😂😂

"If she wants to pull the string" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@joeskiluv2661

Жыл бұрын

😂

Emotional intelligence should be a key factor. As well as healthy communication and self discipline. If you're not cheating or holding out as a form of toxic manipulation and/or control then there should be an understanding.

@Mrs.Yates0417

Жыл бұрын

This ❤❤❤

You're going to have your sick and exhausted days. So "no" is going to happen at some point. A spouse should be fine with this. Just because there's no sex there should be cuddling, spooning, hugging, loving words and kissing should continue if you can. Show love by helping and caring. Make coffee, soup, tea, breakfast, dinner, buy gifts, do their chores, let them, rest. Perhaps go to a therapist or go to the doctor with them. Understand this, the divine can intervene. Be loyal.

I may be weird for this comment. As much as I enjoy this podcast, I really wish everyone would stop talking over each other.

@monicadavis6962

Жыл бұрын

Yesss glad someone said it

@HumbleBeauty679

9 ай бұрын

It's hard to hear everyone

In a relationship you can go from 2-3 times a day to 1-2 times a year. The woman will tell you it’s life, I’m not the same woman I was when I was younger or a bunch of other reasons why it’s your fault or responsibility to understand/fix it. But that same woman will leave a man because he’s not courting her the same way he use to.

@wesleymiller3830

Жыл бұрын

And get in a new relationship with another man and give it to him damn there every day

@dellis4320

Жыл бұрын

@@wesleymiller3830 yep 🤦🏾‍♂️

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

I'm gonna give you the answer. She is doing everything around the house, and with the kids. She does not feel supported. Does not feel like she has a partner. She feels like she has a child that she is taking care of. Is overwhelmed and exhausted. And since you won't do anything to contribute, she's punishing you.

@Reallynow101

Жыл бұрын

@@ineedhoez let’s dissect your answer using the average man (majority of men and women are average). If the average man is taking care of everything financially he’s is at work more than he is home so his partner doesn’t have to provide anything financially. If the average woman wants to split the household chores 50/50 then she must also split the financial responsibilities 50/50 so the average man can be home to help out. A lot of women will say 50/50 is basically roommates and doesn’t get a feminine woman or sex. So no matter what the average man does he’s stuck in the “damned if you do damned if you don’t “ conundrum. I’m sure exceptions exist but they don’t make the rule and are statistically insignificant.

@moblack5883

Жыл бұрын

@@ineedhoez not supported ! Wtf paying these bills and proving this lifestyle ? I’m sick of people being adults and complaining about it.

People abstaining till marriage are like 😐

@LadyCharity

11 ай бұрын

I'm waiting til marriage!

If you are married, you will hear NO

Diet has a lot to do with sex drive, a lot of people have poor eating habits which play out in the bedroom. Also a discussion on any past sexual trauma should be discussed as it can effect a person's desire to be sexual. Communication is key🙏🏾

@streetwearjimmy

10 ай бұрын

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!! When my diet was poor/little especially with my job working in the heat all day my sexual performance was terrible.

Me personally I can go a good while in between. Call me corny I’ve had great lovers but its different than ways to be intimate. Sexual health is important I’m not down playing that. Everyday is too much for me. Once a week is fair. My preference. It’s very difficult to try to be sexual when you aren’t in that mood. When you say that folks think you mean you’re upset / distracted. No I’m just not horny lol someone Else in the comments said it perfectly “you have to find someone you’re sexually compatible with “ I’ve try to be with someone who had a high drive I just felt bad cuz I would just be laying there dazing off into space

Wow this is definitely an interesting topic to me. When I’m in a relationship there’s usually never a time when I give a hard no. If I can’t at that moment because of work or just the wilds of life, it’s definitely something that I revisit that night when we’re winding down from the day. But it is true about the sex drives having to be compatible.

@gapeach7814

11 ай бұрын

I think this question is mostly for long term relationships. You're not going to get to the wanting to say no bc of lingering issues in the relationship until you've been in one for 10+ yrs.

Everyone's bodies are different and should be respected, 1st off. Making sure you are compatible on many levels is important including the subject of sex. Hormones fluctuate, feelings change daily. No one OWES anyone sex. However, everyone should strive to have clear communication within their relationships. The deeper question would be to investigate why the sexual dynamic is off. No one wants to feel unwanted, and no one wants to feel manipulated or passive aggressively forced. Sex therapists exist for a reason, use them if you need to.

@shorts26

Жыл бұрын

And I don't protection or provision

@passthesmoke

Жыл бұрын

You 100% OWE your husband sex . Thats your duty and those are the vows that you took. If you don't want to do it stay single.

@RaffineDebauche

6 ай бұрын

BS! If we’re in a relationship, we absolutely owe each other sex. Women trip me out saying stuff like that because y’all only say that because y’all don’t expect y’all men to reject y’all at any point. But when a man says no, it becomes VERY clear that y’all think we owe y’all sex. So stop it.

@badwolf3618

6 ай бұрын

What you're saying makes sense, however you need to keep in mind that sex is pretty much the only aspect of a relationship where it isn't ok to meet that need elsewhere. Other aspects/perks of a relationship, such as companionship, validation, attention, and emotional support, can be received in many different relationships. If someone isn't getting all their need for attention met from their partner, they can go get attention from others. If they want more emotional support from their partner than their partner is willing or able to give, they can look to other people to fill that gap. But with sex, if someone is wanting more sex than what their partner is willing or able to provide, then they cannot go get that need met elsewhere. Yes, masturbation is an option, but some people's partners won't accept their partner masturbating. Men, on average, are going to be wanting sex from their woman more often than a woman is gonna be wanting sex from her man. Which means that the one need that can *only* be met through a relationship (sex) is being unmet with men more often than it is for women. There is no equivalent for women in this regard. It is easy for women to downplay the importance of sex because they typically will be able to get their level of need for sex met fully, and all their other needs can be met either from their partner OR from others. Women just don't fully understand what it's like. So if a woman is going to ask a man to only have sex with her, and only get his sexual needs met from her, then she needs to fucking figure out how to meet that need. If the man is being a shitty partner, that's a different story.

I don't think the guy with the red jacket has been in a serious long-term relationship. Life gets in the way, at some point a no will come.

I truly believe just as there are different LOVE languages there are also different SEX languages. (I need to go ahead and write a book.) Ima say this one time and don’t forget it SEX DOES NOT EQUATE TO LOVE! Sex in marriage is a result of a relationship that is based in trust, intimacy and love. If you have to force time for sex sit down and figure out WHY. Talk about it and find resolve for the health of the relationship, not just to get to the sex. That rarely fixes the problem. I could list a page of reasons why a “spouse” would put off having sex, but most of it is because they are already disconnected or dysfunctional in other major areas in the relationship. SEX because of LOVE becomes more frequent and better QUALITY 🖤 Who wouldn’t want that?

It's hard listening to these conversations without CONTEXT

@TonightsConversation

2 жыл бұрын

Well download our app and watch the entire episode 😊

@stacey6229

Жыл бұрын

@@TonightsConversation y’all can still make money without making people download an entire app just to watch a podcast episode. Don’t nobody wanna do all that

@JojiSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

@@stacey6229 FACTS especially to download the app just for them to have you make an account to have a membership.

yall need to stop fornicating, how did this end up on my feed

@ramenkap

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@FireAngelChris

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣facts

@amore6206

2 жыл бұрын

It's dangerous, rampant and discussed and soo casually.

@MsChantae

2 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆😆😆

@MsChantae

2 жыл бұрын

Lmboooooo u funny lol hahahah

Red-light running deserves a traffic ticket

😂😂😂 “while watching law and order”

@wolfofharlem

Жыл бұрын

I dig the honesty

@CHOUSASUKE

11 ай бұрын

SVU 😅😅😅😅

@mikeclark9822

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Dude said married couples who have sex a lot is strange????? Tf type weird shit niggas be on? Why are sexless marriages seen as normal? That means y’all don’t love each other. A healthy sex life is indicative of a good relationship

@Saynothing869

Жыл бұрын

No it’s doesn’t mean “y’all don’t love each other” . Im married and this is my answer. Disclaimer we only had sex like 2 times in the past month. We have 5 kids. 2 under 4, 2 teens 15,14 and a preteen 11. Men are mostly, always ready to go. House dirty, children starving, teens near by. YALL DONT CARE. But all of those things be on my mind. that can easily blow the mood and performance. I’m the most ready when my husband at work. He’s a teacher so he gone when the kids gone and home when the kids home. We moved 14hrs away from family, so a baby sitter for 5 kids is not to likely. Sure we could have the 15/14 year old do it but the youngins are not there responsibility and I’m not comfortable leaving them for more than a few hours which we would end up in the car or something which I have laid it down but it’s not so appealing after the excitement goes away. Having toddlers still in the bed, stoppppsssss a lot of things we are looking to move but you know NEW YORK is expensive. Then when I do be ready at night normally my husband is tired or already sleep or the rear occasion like right now SICK. And I care about him to not wake him up in the middle of the night because he has to wake up early for work. Sorry if this is TMI. But yeah

@Kay-eq3ug

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! If I wasn’t gone get no sex then I could have stayed single. A sexless marriage is boring and can create room for infidelity. If you guys agree on that then cool but I feel married couples need to be having sex at least once a week. That keeps the attraction to each other I feel. You guys make time to please each other. Idk why people make sex seem like a responsibility or a chore like either you want me or not. It’s weird 🤦🏾‍♂️

@QueenChastity

Жыл бұрын

@@Saynothing869 Why is he NOT helping you the way that he should! Up Your F'n standards! Ya'll both had the kids!!!

@Saynothing869

Жыл бұрын

@@QueenChastity he does help.

@anubis8918

Жыл бұрын

​@@QueenChastity How do you feel?? 🤦

My true opinion is.. 50% of all relationships are physical ( sexual ).. The other 50% of the relationship is communication, health, finance, growth in self and each other & etc.. If either one of these halfs becomes an issue, the relationship can & will have problems..

Not red light games, lol!!🤣🚦🚦

Not “I’ll pull the string”🤣😂😂☠️

@cherrellefrye2002

Жыл бұрын

Lmfao

Not raise the roof 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bruh said red light yams 😂😂

@joeskiluv2661

Жыл бұрын

😂 I damn near fell out my truck on that one!

Where can I watch the full show from?

I'm always ready but maybe it's my partner now..his drive matches mine but I've had partners where it felt like a task to do anything with them because it wasn't IT...🤷🏾‍♀️😩

@ddoubleu170

Жыл бұрын

Please, expound…

We not running no red lights! That's out

Are there longer videos?

Where can I watch the whole show?

I wish they had a CONVERSATION about the topic.

Hey Kita

Can anyone tell me where to get the full videos

That's some amazing editing! Lol

If we’re super busy then I understand because your tired but if we have our time of rest like the weekends we both expect it unless I’m on my cycle..If I’m told no on the weekend ima have an attitude..

@ddoubleu170

Жыл бұрын

Ewww 😂

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

Why have an attitude? Why not just talk about with going on?

@chocolatehersheykiss7412

Жыл бұрын

@@ineedhoez We do talk, however if there’s no reason for us not to do anything I’m going to say something about it/bring it up..Im never told no but if he ever tries, oh yes all hell is going to break loose!!!🔥

@chocolatehersheykiss7412

Жыл бұрын

@@ddoubleu170 grow up!!! It’s a part of life.. and it’s wonderful..

@ddoubleu170

Жыл бұрын

@@chocolatehersheykiss7412 - I don’t even remember responding to this. My bad.

Find someone that matches your sex drive and have a good relationship outside of sex. NO running red lights. Men don't respect a woman that doesn't have boundaries. Those types of things WILL be thrown right back in your face.

@rainbeauxunicorn5237

Жыл бұрын

🙄Y’all so fkn immature. Some of us have high libidos while on our cycle.

Red light yams SENT ME

Red Light Yams 😂😂😂😂

3 evenly spaced strikes.

4 ever if your not married

Never running red lights

Red Light Yams 🍠

My ex did for a whole year. She just woke up one day and decided that WE were now celibate

@tamaraharris5214

Жыл бұрын

Can't find fault in this UNLESS y'all were married; then that's a whole 'nother ballgame.

@jacobharris954

Жыл бұрын

@@tamaraharris5214 you girls wonder why get replaced

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

Lmaooo!!! Yeah, so you make an immediate appointment with a therapist. Get to bottom of it. If your partner refuses to discuss, then you have been abandoned in your relationship and need to remove yourself from it.

Don't run any red lights and stop at every Stop sign then look both ways before pulling off

“If she wants to pull the string” is wild AF 😂😂🤣💀

Im good on the red river rides I can wait til all that clear up...🤷🏾‍♂️

One person on the panel is married. The rest of them ain’t obligated

that nggh cappin!

I understand if you are tired or not feeling well. But if you are always tired that is a problem. Intentionally withholding is a form of manipulation.

The girl with the cheetah on funny is hell low key she funny like Jess Hilarious watch she going be big watch she too funny somebody going notice her.

Where can i see this ??

The brother said if she pulls the street I’m gonna do it😂😂

Strange & I like it

“Run red lights?” I have never heard that in my life. 😂

@CHOUSASUKE

11 ай бұрын

LoL gross 🤢🤢🤮

@hereforit2347

11 ай бұрын

@@CHOUSASUKE: 😂😂

This man just said it’s strange when married people have a lot of sex??? His wife is going to cheat😂😂😂

Amen to the sis with the husband with the compatible sex drive - that’s goals/love! ❤

@icemanx5085

6 ай бұрын

I don't think a woman is capable of having a compatible sex drive to a prime man. At least I never saw it personally.

Only 7 day or less

I burst bread

Accountability be out here getting dodged like strays

To me, a lot of people put too much on sex. It's a part of a marriage and not as a whole. How about deciding on a sex night or day with your partner so that you'll be on the same page. Conversations is needed

No time except for her redlight time..lol

It depends. I will have to say hopefully if there's nothing going on with her. And she's mentally there physically there and she denied me. I will question and pretty soon. There will become an issue but and there's something going on with her. I love her. So I will try to find out what's going on with her

Let a man say he tired of paying these bills

That completely depends on their reasons for saying no.

Baaaahahaha 💀 not idk how I feel about this being on camera duh like really 😫💀🤣😭

NO! Is for medical reasons only. My wife and i go 3-4x a week after 11 yrs marriage.

Lmao @red light yams

2 weeks a month I'm cheating period

2 times 🥺🥴

The reason relationships are heavily dependent on sex is because men desperately need sex. Most things in this world is from the male perspective. A relationship on the female perspective wouldn’t break up without sex.

Honestly, you’re entitled to say no, but all these people expecting you to just go without sex for years because of YOUR PROBLEMS is an issue. If you don’t value sex and don’t want to have sex but your partner still does, then you have a decision to make. The world doesn’t stop and revolve around the woman. As a 25 year old man, there’s no way I’m staying with a woman that expects me to go without sex ENTIRELY and still get my all. We all have wants and needs, why tf are yours more important than mines???

@lovegoddess2040

Жыл бұрын

Years? Going years without being intimate with your partner and you haven't took out the time to figure out why is probably the reason it's gone on for so long. That relationship was most likely over long before it actually ended. What if you had a medical condition and you couldn't be intimate for a period of time? Is it now free game for her to step out because she has needs? I don't know. There are so many reasons as to why this might be the case. As long as you know and recognize the difference between pettiness and having to practice a little self discipline you can the take proper actions

@ineedhoez

Жыл бұрын

That's not healthy. I think the bigger issue is That you should both be communicating with each other so that way you understand what's going on. If something Happened and I no longer wanted sex. Like ever. I would absolutely tell my partner and try to find some mutually beneficial agreement to help them get their needs met.

@rainbeauxunicorn5237

Жыл бұрын

Keep that same energy when ED becomes an issue for you.

@jericothompson8636

Жыл бұрын

@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 you mean decades down the line after kids and building our life together?? Cool story

@rainbeauxunicorn5237

Жыл бұрын

@@jericothompson8636… I know men in their late twenties with ED issues. But either way, keep that same energy. Idk what building a family and having kids have to do with you not being able to keep your “wife” sexually satisfied at all times. But hey… this is your fantasy. 🤷🏾‍♀️

It’s real simple, people are in your life as long as they add value to your life. If your girl doesn’t add value to your life then she gets excused. I am always clear with women I date that sex is a key value they bring. (Obviously it is NOT the only thing, but it’s in the top 3 💯) Her:”I feel bad I don’t cook as good as you” me:”don’t worry about it babe u just keep cooking in the bedroom” her:”you want me to get the check?” Me:”nah, i got it. U can pay me back tonight”

Maybe 2 or 3 times because I’m not a down bad guy

If that happens the relationship is over

A month because I’m married

I run redddd lighttttts 🚦 🚦 😂😂😂😂 my guy! I been with the same women since 17 the red lights ant bout nothing

@TreasureChest0806

6 ай бұрын

Sounds rapey

Kita is so damn fine 😂😂😂😂

I'll usually give my wife 3 days to be tired, sleepy have a headache....etc.

Just have a fwb you get the best of both worlds. You don't have worry about thr sex issues

I totally agree with twice.

A week.

I was out at 3.

I have to either be enraged and feel grossly disrespected or very physically ill to say “No” to sex.

It kita facial expression for me lnao

@harneiciabranch4778

Жыл бұрын

Lmao

Everyone in the comment section is spot on. Find out why. But shorty mentioned giving her man some out of obligation. If sex becomes a task or a chore. And the attitude is come on let’s get this done. You better find out why as well. Nothing will end in disaster faster than a relationship void of passion. Sex should be a mutually beneficial transaction.

If u run red lights u are so nasty

@crosstudio

2 жыл бұрын

i don't even pump the brakes or look for cameras.

@reenalodhi901

2 жыл бұрын

@@crosstudio mm ft

@justinwallace451

Жыл бұрын

@@crosstudio 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

Have a seat doing the nasty while on ur . Is not cool how bout relax ya self and ya cat

I STILL CANT WRAP MY MIND AROUND THE IDEA OF BEING WITH A WOMEN WHO DOESNT WANT YOU THE SAME WAY YOU WANT THEM … I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE SHARED A MUTUAL LUST … NEVER HAD A REASON TO ASK .