I genuinely feel that it’s for sexual reasons . To be wanted by the next (“right”) person. Period . . To be found “attractive” . To be chosen

Society: Eww look at the way her body look. She don’t have no body…need to gain weight…need to lose weight…no curves.

I've kept my litteral shoulder bump. No man has ever had an issue. I love my body. I'm only cutting or changing what is life or health threatening.

I haven't had surgery but as women our bodies change with pregnancy, hormones, thyroid changes, and genetically sometimes. The people/person haven't experience these things. What they think about it is irrelevant. People do what makes you happy, what makes you comfortable in your skin, just be safe.

Don’t compare makeup lashes etc to Bbl , otherwise Bbl can cause your dead some people do BBL TO be famous in social media and to make money.

Bbl is the ultimate Pickme

I agree with the women in brown 110%. People alter themselves wearing makeup, wigs, hair color, nails, eye color, eye brows,tattoos and etc. The list goes on and on

It’s self hate! When plastic surgery came out what was their marketing strategy?! “If you don’t like this and that about yourself don’t have to live with it. Change it!” Then the plastic comments ppl made about “not being plastic and Having natural bodies came with an uproar. Now you have fat transfer, bbl, lipo, and all this other shit to Change what You Don’t love/like about yourself. I think too many people are look at the word “hate” and “ I don’t hate myself”… this just came to be typing a lot of people walk around with other people thoughts. That’s why people can justify their actions because they’ve heard their actions being justified before

She said you make a social media for the bump 😂😂

Wanting attention is a hell of a drug

I don’t agree with everything Kita says, but I love listening to her🔥

It's my belief that if you get cosmetic surgery you do NOT love yourself and most women are trying to be the woman that their man enjoys looking at. You stand out to a man when you're natural, looking your best amongst the women who have work done.

Here is my thought: Makeup, wigs and lashes can very easily come off and shouldn’t alter how you look. It may help enhance but there are extremes to these as well. I would not compare any surgery to something that can be removed easily the same day with no help such as makeup. My issue with any of it is because there definitely is level of laziness and insecurity linked to it all. If I have self love in the way my body looks, then I’m not going out and choosing surgery unless for medical reasons . Every situation is different so I can’t box them all in, but our creator created us beautifully. Sometimes we send the message as if he made a mistake with us whenever we mistreat our temple. I have done it so I’m not judging but it still holds true.

Lol ppl in the comments don't see it as self hate but you can literally do exercises to make your body how you want but ppl are too insecure to wait for the work out to show improvement. On top of that if u out of shape your body isn't the healthiest. So putting that 7000 into your health screams self love over getting surgery to me. Nd who ever gets a bbl will be showing it off on social media so stop hoping in the comments like it ain't true.

Society: “If you have a insecurity do something about it”

I want to get my body done but it is DEFINITELY NOT because I want a guy to fly me out!!!!!🙄

We have hundreds of physical features and we didn’t chose ANY of them (that we were born with). It’s a little narcissistic to say that you will absolutely ✨ADORE😍✨ each and every last thing about yourself 🙄 Idc if you dislike your toes, or extra body hair, or your height, your weight, big or small feet, saggy breasts, a double chin, a receding hairline or whatever! If you can change it and it enhances your quality of life and how YOU feel about yourself - that’s not self hate ✌️

Kita stay on it! 💪🏾 (you make a Facebook page for the bump 🤣💯)

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I agree with girl in the brown ,people do what makes you happy I know women who did all the hard work and then got snatched , only thing is it’s a risk taking enhancement it’s not as simple as putting on makeup