Every story today is an example of how you need to be strong enough to tell someone f*** off or be walked on. Particularly the step mom story.

1st story: How did this even happen? If someone showed up at my table saying "my character doesn't get along with others" I'm gonna say "Then build one that does or your not playing. This isn't up for debate."

@Bladezeromus

Жыл бұрын

You dont sound like a very fun DM, to be honest.

@unluckyone1655

Жыл бұрын

The grumpy silent lonewolf can be done, but so many people just don't know how to play them right in a team based game

@AmazingAutist

Жыл бұрын

​@@Bladezeromus are you the edgy player from their first story?

@vigo0santiago

Жыл бұрын

Most people can't play that style without making it annoying to other players or more work for the dm to keep the party together

@unluckyone1655

Жыл бұрын

@Vigo Santiago yeah, it's mostly new players trying to make a PC that is a copy of a favorite character in an anime/manga, movie, video game, etc.

In that second story, it doesn't sound like OP really talked about the issue with anyone. The DM and the other players may not have had a clue that anything was wrong. Communication is key, people.

2nd story I can relate. I joined this forum called "BleachAnime" where you could roleplay in the soul society on a forum and I enjoyed it for a long while. I even got promoted to 3rd rank in the 11th Division (which was just under the 2nd in command for events and stuff) and my role was to recruit people. So I did my best to handle it and it went well. However some recruit weren't getting responses from the leader (the one who authorises it) and the 2nd in command was away ill; so I contacted her about it. She said "I'll sort it out" and did nothing. Weeks went by to the point ppl just gave up, so I contacted them in voice chat, since they couldn't get away to brushing me off. They told me to stop telling them about it (it was the 3rd time in 2-3 weeks btw and they were spaced out because I understood she might be busy), she told me and I quote "stop harrassing me about it, you keep telling me and I don't care", which was weird; I explained it was only the 3rd time and she kicked me from the call. I explained it to the rest and apparently she made up a story about how I was telling her 6 times. I offered to show them the messages I sent and he replies but they didn't care; everyone had just decided I was the problem and the few friends I still had stated this all sounded suspicious; especially one who left on holiday and just returned. So next voice call I told her, "I can't manage the recruits if you're not going to reply. If you have a problem with me fine, but don't hold it to them; I can leave if you want." She stated sarcastically that "You wouldn't leave" so I did. Explained the situation and told everyone about it and left. Like that all the toxicity left and those 3 told me that when I left she freaked out; lashing at everyone and doing some strange stuff. About 4-6 years later I was contacted by an ex-member to talk about the past and I explained the situation and why I left. Turns out the lady who was running it spreaded lies about me while I was gone; up until the site closed. *TLDR* : I could of handled the situation better but refusing to talk and spreading lies to make be the bad guy to the entire site and then continued to lie about it while I was gone was definitely something. It was my first step into any kind of Roleplaying, even if isn't just a forum and not a DnD game; but still, I can relate; even if by a bit.

The guy who just complained he couldn't do anything with Darkness in effect has a concerning lack of imagination

Good grief that second story… OP is getting up/staying up at an unreasonable time. And someone should have checked the Rogue’s attitude the _first_ time she yelled for no reason.

@unluckyone1655

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that part was suspicious. No one spoke up and called her out for just snapping at OP repeatedly. I think it's time for OP to dump those friends. No one really cares about their feelings and clearly they prefer rogue over OP. Take it from me, better to be alone than have friends like that. Took me a long time to learn that sadly

@willropa4226

Жыл бұрын

@@unluckyone1655 Since they remained in contact after OP left, I'm gonna give them the benefit of doubt. The pm by Catgirl does show that she was aware of OP getting up really early and dealing with a lot of life stress. I think after OP stormed off DM pulled Catgirl aside and explained all the trouble OP's been through, and that shouting at them to the point of them leaving is mean.

@unluckyone1655

Жыл бұрын

@will ropa still, cat girl is going strong in the game, while OP won't play there as long as cat girl is there. They still keep her around even after multiple blow ups at OP. Maybe they talked to her but it was likely more of a casual, hey OP is having a hard time and catgirl is like whatever type of deal. It really is only a matter of time before cat girl starts hanging out outside of game and chases OP out of there too

@MadmanHelldiver

10 ай бұрын

I'd've screenshotted their messages and bombed the group chat, LET THE COUNCIL DECIDE THEIR FATE.

@scorch2155

9 күн бұрын

​@@unluckyone1655 to be fair, OP only left after three Private message from cat girl and never said they told the group meaning the group might not be aware of that PM. Yes they know about the yelling but that's not really trying to force OP out, it was that PM most likely made after the GM talked to cat girl.

DM in story 2 should've kicked Catgirl out the moment she yelled at OP the first time. The second time around it's not even a question: she'd be out in my game, yelling at someone with social anxiety disorder.

TELL THE GROUP WHAT SHE SAID!!!!

Within the first three sentences, I would have kicked him from the table because “your character doesn’t get along with anyone” so the party leaves you behind

Story 1 If no one cares for this guy, then this is an easy kick. You don’t have to waste time in assholes

@davidtherwhanger6795

Жыл бұрын

Seriously. What player doesn't expect to get hit even once. Even Conan the Barbarian has a few nicks, scraps, cuts, and bruises after a fight. 4 points out of 41 is a minor inconvenience at worst.

With the story about the OP with severe anxiety, since nobody stood up for them it kind of sounds like the other players were secretly also feeling that way about OP but didn't want to be the one to say anything. Not in the sense that OP was secretly the That Guy, more that the others had gotten tired of accommodating them but didn't want to be mean. Tinfoil hat time, that might be why the DM brought in the new player.

@VadBlackwood

Жыл бұрын

No need to construct complicated scenarios about situations that are easily explained by "the easiest thing to do is to do nothing".

@scorch2155

9 күн бұрын

The fact Cat Girl knew about OPs issues, after the fact to make that PM makes it clear Cat Girl was spoken too and OP was stood up for, then Cat Girl sent that PM after she got a talking to clearly blaming OP. It was that PM that made OP quit and the party most likely think it was the yelling that Cat Girl was talked to about already that made them not want to play. OP didn't seem to explain about the PM.

That monk is so opposite to my own astral monk with ADHD. In our campaign I explicitly made it clear my monk was going to start with a sort of untouchable-teenager vibe and communicated with the DM that I wanted him to go through a All Quiet On the Western Front style experience about the harsh realities of life in the pretty lethal campaign setting we're in. Literally 30 minutes after us leaving the dwarven kingdom we started in I had him stance up in front of some giant rats and cracked one upside the head for a nat 20 and while he was cheering knocking this creature out in a home run swing with his club got swarmed by the other two rats and incapacitated by turn 2. I found this hilarious and totally what I was after. Same thing happened with him discovering ice for the first time (ice mephit). He's learned to be more careful and becoming slightly paranoid, but also protective of his companions.

I think with the stepmom, she had planned that the party went and hunted down bugbear by bugbear, which would lead to 500+ combats of the same enemy and slowly lvl up to finally fight the boss, which would be a drag.

Heh - the first story reminds me of an old teammate of mine: he was playing an elven ranger - he even got an Elven Windblade (a monster of a weapon that crits almost constantly, despite not being magic). Problem is, it was D&D 3.0. He got struck ONCE. He grabbed a bow, scuttled to the back of the team and never left that position ever again. And I mean EVER. Seriously, no matter how many times we played D&D, Pathfinder, Everquest RPG (a D20 third party game), whatever else, he ALWAYS made an elven ranged attacker. Even when playing the only healer of the team - a bard. He simply couldn't stand the idea of his awesome character getting hit. Weird thing is, he DID get hit constantly because he couldn't get rid of that damn bow even once... In a D&D 3.5 session, he was leading a team of dwarves to ambush an enemy troop. The dwarves were wielding heavy crossbows, he had his usual goddam bow and refused to take a crossbow. So, when they got into position, they readied their weapons... and he STOOD UP TO FIRE. Cue all the duergar crossbowmen in the enemy troop firing at him. "Why are they only firing at me?" ...I don't know, maybe because you're the only idiot standing up in clear view while the rest of the team is lying down and firing their crossbows while prone?

I remember my very first DnD session, which was about two months ago. I had a Leonin fighter and it was my session 0 where i was being introduced to everyone. We were all level 1, so default HP. In that session, there was an angry drunk, we all tried to get him to clam down. He attacked in a fit of drunk rage. DM showed us his roll, it was in Foundry, nat 20 and I'm making death saves. Want to know how i took it, "damn," and started rolling death saves till i was healed. Then we all moved on. If i can do that in my first character, first DnD campaign, and first session, then their is no excuse to overreact to 4 damage when you have 41 health.

I'd want more info about the second situation before making a call on who's mostly right or wrong. If the player had so much social anxiety that they complained a lot or often weren't helpful when they should have been, that would set a lot of people off and could be seen as being manipulative. Did the new player agree to treat that anxious person with kid gloves and just decide not to? The fact that the new person was getting mad at the anxious person for no apparent reason makes me think there might actually BE a reason, given the rest that the anxious person admits to. And, some people have no patience or empathy if another person is taking the fun out of it for them. Yelling at the anxious person and telling them off in a text was wrong, period, but was the anxious person using their anxiety as an excuse to get their own way or for failing to do their part? I'd want to hear from another player before deciding. This story seems to have a lot that's not being said.

@tommaydag420

Жыл бұрын

Yeah kinda agree here, I can imagine how i'd feel dealing with another player slowing things down heavily if they were 'zoning' out as much as the op claims. I understand that they were going through a lot, but dropping sleep deprivation on top of it will only make things worse, make your sensitivity even higher and make you much more prone to emotional attacks. I'd like to hear from another POV on this one before making a decision on who was in the wrong. It could even be that they even exaggerated the happenings because they were sleep deprived and don't remember things clearly.

I've always thought it was weird to deal damage for little things like kicks to the shin. Had a DM who religiously knocked off 1 HP for every shin kick, shoulder punch, stubbed toe, etc. It added up fast and it makes no sense to lose the equivalent of A QUARTER of an average human npc's health pool for a stubbed toe.

@jasminecole8596

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree, but honestly sometimes a stubbed toe is just that painful.

OP in story 2 was clearly going through a tough time - and that might explain why they were willing to play at such crazy hours of the day, in order to stay in contact with others. But if you have that kind of serious anxiety and a lot going on in your life, it can’t have helped to also be going through such a terrible sleep schedule. I feel sorry for them but I hope they can find a more healthy way to play and are able to work through what life is throwing their way.

A part of me partially sympathizes with the cat rogue… I care about any sensitive topics ect my players have but then I have also encountered emotionally and mentally unwell players that seem to have symptom flare ups when things aren’t going their way during game time. The knife could be cutting both ways here

This is the first time I've seen Lucky. I always have background play on lol

So happy that this is a talking dog.

1. 4 damage, no other effects, and he's complaining? Geez. Boot this player HARD. 2. Catgirl rogue needs a serious attitude adjustment. Something should have been said to the DM, since he apparently hadn't figured it out. 3. The DM was cr#p here. Maybe she WAS good in other games, but sounds like she'd taken a couple of VERY wrong turns here. "You failed to read my mind and make the right decision" is NEVER a good excuse.

You know you did something wrong when the most chillest dog species calls you out for being a female dog

I once played in a game where the DM also had my fighter take minor damage as a "roleplay moment." Specifically, he had a small child walk up to my fighter and kick him in the shin for 1 damage, then walked away. I mostly just thought it was weird.

@lollma0

Жыл бұрын

I mostly play Antipaladins/Blackguards so that would've been fun for rp if some brat trys to shinkick me.

@schwarzerritter5724

Жыл бұрын

Oh yeah, I had a game where players did take minor damage during lunch. And my "minor damage" I mean "34 damage"... at level 3... also automatically failing 2 death saving throws if they went unconscious. EDIT: And no, the tavernkeeper was not evil and poisoning the wine.

@TheFuriousScribbles

Жыл бұрын

@@schwarzerritter5724 34 damage during lunch? What were you eating? Knives?

@TheFuriousScribbles

Жыл бұрын

@@lollma0 Funnily enough, the DM told me that I was shin-kicked because he knew that I'd be chill about it and wouldn't nuke the kid with a fireball or impale him with a greatsword or anything like that.

@schwarzerritter5724

Жыл бұрын

@@TheFuriousScribbles Wine has magic effects in the game. The closes we ever got to a useful one was the monk getting dealt 10 damage for doing 10 damage on her next melee attack and the barbarian getting one point of Inspiration... she was not allowed to use in a difficult battle.

Common players that get hit: "...That all ya got?" This guy when he gets hit: 👁️👄👁️

that cleric/warlock concept sounds badass

@AmaryInkawult

Жыл бұрын

It's the religious version of a love triangle. Imagine being devout to similar deities but one is a cult based one and the other is a mainstream church.

Lucky's little mew cured my depression

Okay, at first I thought maybe the player was used to collaborative story RPs where I often see and even play where the rule "No injuring my character without discussing it." or "If our players fight then one person says what their character does in the attack and the other decides if it hits or not." Because, well, it's RP story writing and the RPing and not a mechanics RP or win lose type game where dying is potentially a thing. But apparently this person doesn't RP. So, no damage mechanics and no RP? What are they in the game for? Then again maybe they did do story writing RPs and have rushed through the options because frankly It's impossible to do a story RP with Edgey McEdgelord characters.

If I was op in that second story I would have screen capped the messages that were sent and shown them to the DM at least. Just so they were aware of the blatant hostility.

That Monk Player wouldnt like to play an Pillars of Eternity Monk who has to get damaged to get classresource called Wounds use Skills.

That last story idk what's with op's step-mom nowadays but something has changed in her and it's not for the best. Op is right to not want to play in any of her games she runs anymore.

@VidelxSpopovich

9 ай бұрын

Probably TDS.

When you are getting railroaded, you leave. It will never be worth it to deal with that kind of thing.

Second story.. it's tough but I think the bitchy player kinda saved op. Whether they wanted to admit it or not, OP was struggling hard with that game. It was better to get out and at least maintain the good friendships they had before the wear and tear of the game brought on something worse.

@mikaneko

Жыл бұрын

Not only that, but like the Doge said, the DM and the other players didn't say a damn thing when the bitchy player was screaming at her. If they were really friends, they should have stuck up for her and kicked the bitchy player, so they weren't that great of people either.

@kyletucker3811

10 ай бұрын

​​@@mikanekoThe more likely scenario is that's not the whole story. The OP claims they were always accommodating towards them, so it's suspicious such friends wouldn't have said anything if someone was just blowing up at them. Having experience with anxiety and sleep deprivation and how that effects you, it's likely the "screaming" wasn't exactly screaming, and that there are details either forgotten or intentionally left out. I'd lean towards forgotten because the OP mentioned they weren't sure how much of it was on them. Which I find likely because if they were sleep deprived their memory wouldn't be that clear.

@scorch2155

9 күн бұрын

​@@kyletucker3811I think Cat Girl was spoken too, remember she sent a PM sometime later as GM talked to OP. OP never said they told the GM about the PM that made them leave so GM most likely doesn't know there was a further issue then the one they probably dealt with already.

Does he want invincibility? There’s a book for that.

I come here for the stories I stay for the kitties!

The DogeSouls gameplay was good

Must make kitty happy

Who you calling a turkey?! Just kidding Lucky - and the Doge is right - you are indeed cute.

Dang I got here for this one quick

Grave domain cleric/warlock sounds like a fun combo!

The "Stepmom" story is a classic case of control obsession.

Commenting for the cats.

Adorable cat!

I know I have heard that last one before. Some thing is off. OP said that before the Stepmom was a good DM and games were fun for quite a long time, years possibly. It sounds like some part of this is being left out. Either OP is leaving something out or OP doesn't actually know what the missing piece is. Which is entirely possible as it could be something the Stepmom is not divulging.

As someone who played in several campaigns at 2 am I can say it's tough on anyone but night owls. 1/week is the most I'd advice. Otherwise you can completely screw your sleep patterns.

Lucky called me a Turkey! I don't know if I should be offended or not 🤔

Firstly, I dislike 5th edition, so I cannot say for certain that this would still work, but for prior editions the bugbear king could have been a polymorphed dragon. They had the ability Blindsense out to...I think 120'. That would allow a dragon to feel the location of an invisible person.

I think there might have been an error in editing. I saw "Gameplay:" but nothing to indicate what the game was. I mean, I know Dark Souls 2 when I see it, but without an actual indicator it's just "Yep, this is gameplay"

I think it would be kind cool if there there was a DND character who was "invinicible" in the sense that any damage they take is passed to other people or one person, I could see it making for some great drama in a campain.

Story 2: Sounds like the new player is one of those who believe mental health isn't a thing and all that oldtime bull$h!t

@BurroughsProductions

Жыл бұрын

Idk man a player constantly zoning out and meta gaming sounds annoying

@Zolanark

Жыл бұрын

​@@BurroughsProductions the player made one comment that seemed like an out of game joke that the other person screamed at them for, and only zoned out after having a mental shutdown due to being screamed at over a freaking tabletop game. If anything sounds annoying here, it's the brand new player suddenly turning antagonistic towards an old table buddy, and the DM should have stepped in and squashed that shit immediately, not allowed their pre-existing friend to get forced out of the game by this cunt being abusive. Excuse my language, couldn't think of a better descriptor for the woman after how she acted in the story.

@nintendoman12111

Жыл бұрын

​@@BurroughsProductionsnot nearly enough to privately messaging them basically telling them that their problems don't matter, or yelling at them in the middle of the session

@yourface2464

Жыл бұрын

@@nintendoman12111 OP bias is obvious here. OP is 100% a problem player who shouldn't be at the table, and is embellishing the story to come off as better. Glad that table got rid of them. If you actually fall asleep at my table, you're not staying in the game, period.

@Gripen1974

Жыл бұрын

@@BurroughsProductions He didnt seem to meta game more then the other in the group which also basically did the same thing, also i got it he was on heavy medication and i have had friends playing when they are on heavy medication and zoning out and we was totally ok with it because we was just happy he/she had survived. We have abit low information but with the little i got do the rouge sound as an jerk/asshole which i would kick if she had gone after any of my friends who is recovering

The dm who doesn’t ask for rolls would be a cool play style..if the dm was player focused. I’ve been in games where you have to roll for everything and that’s probably worse.

What are you doing step-DM

A lot of people here are claiming that OP probably was/must have been a problem player because people didn't stand up for her. That is simply untrue and ignorant at best; people are frequently awful to people with mental health problems and it's disingenuous to pretend otherwise. I'll grant that some of that is through a lack of understanding but just as much of it is from a lack of empathy. Yelling at someone for no reason would be wrong no matter who you did it to; picking on someone you know has issues with anxiety is flat-out bullying. It's especially egregious as Rogue almost immediately proved herself to have no valid reason for the yelling; if the issue was with the behaviour, she would've been just as angry with the other person who did the same thing. There's also no suggestion that OP wasn't contributing, considering she was apparently having fun with her goliath barb. Rogue is an arsehole and the alleged friends who did not stand up for her when Rogue was being an arsehole and IF they had any problems with the anxiety affecting the game, didn't have the common decency to have a talk with OP about whether or not there was a way to mitigate it, are not much better. As for whether OP should've quit the game before Rogue drove her out, she says she was enjoying it despite the anxiety, so why should she? The only thing I feel it's a shame she didn't get to do is tell the GM and others why she was leaving. Still, given their failure to tell Rogue to shove it when she was bullying OP, I'm not surprised; OP had no reason to feel they'd understand or care at that point. People really, really need to understand that they are basically saying she should never do anything with other people because it causes anxiety. I have physical disabilities (as well as severe clinical anxiety) and when I was still larping, people would often ask me when I mentioned feeling rough if I should wait to larp until I felt better. I told them that if I did that, I'd never get to play. I am never going to be in a condition where I'm free of health problems, so I can't wait until that non-existent day comes to do things. OP can't just not do anything that causes her anxiety because you can't have any sort of life if you do that. It's frustrating that people claim they shouldn't have to accommodate people with health issues but also demand that said people 'suck it up' and stop 'letting' their condition stop them from doing things. Well? Which is it? Caring for others' needs and helping them, especially when they are trying hard to manage their difficulties, is called being a decent human being. Any of us can find ourselves needing help at any time. No one is immune.

Okay I admit I do get a little annoyed when I get hit in dnd, but this dude needs to just the F out.

Hit that player with magic missile every session, it's no save, no to hit, just damage, deal with it. It's small damage, but will make him whine or get used to it.

The amount of crazy kids I can avoid just playing Pathfinder which is better game lol. Life is good.

People who freak out over taking damage like they're going to die are just people who never played a wizard in Diablo 1 and hit a barrel.

I used to play with dude like the 1st one. One fight my Archer and his assassin are against bunch of beefy thugs. He got punched in the face. Once. He:Fuck, I'm dead now! Are you fucking happy?!? Me and Gm: dude. Stop fucking crying. You got PUNCHED once. At the end of the fight he was totally surprised that he in fact did not die from single punch.

@davidtherwhanger6795

Жыл бұрын

Honestly I have had a character of mine die from a single punch. 1st level fighter back in AD&D with 5 hit points total... running for his life from an Ogre he had killed... just wasn't dead yet. Really ticked off. But not dead yet. My character died right before the ogre did.

@michamoskaluniec3680

Жыл бұрын

@David Therwhanger we've played Conan 2d20. Its nearly impossible to kill unwounded character with single attack there. And that was after 2-3 months of playing. He well knew about that. Or should have.

2nd One sounds bit off. They should have left a message for DM to play their rude bits better. That one player who joined in the middle of the game acting like it's their game got off bit too easy. As if they are the only one with problems. Still I know that I'm not only one with problems. I mean I know people who say the first line, but then actually forget its meaning, when they've wiped someone out with it. 3rd one sounds... Uhm... Something... Impossible... No one can be regular dm and then fail from the very roots of the game. If they kept failing every time..? How did you stand to play those games? Sounds like no space for moves were in it. That can't be real. That's like story nights for kids, and they give out ideas or characters what the storyteller should use, and they just listen. That's just like some TV shows for kids where some lovely lady is with kids and some people with bearsuits dancing along the music if there is one.

Catgirl rogue was either a racist or had a crush on the other player but given the messages I think it's the former. I've been through the same when my Scandinavian accent bothered someone. Shitty people like that are very common.

@Qwerty95ish

Жыл бұрын

Why would you say she is racist specifically?

2nd story: op is an annoying spaz

WHY THE FUCK would a sheet have HP if not to lower it?

@AmaryInkawult

Жыл бұрын

Clearly it's just for decoration

@1YCARADOFACAO

Жыл бұрын

@@AmaryInkawult HP = Hippopotamus Percentage

Idk I get anxiety is a thing, but it sounds like op trauma dumps, meta games, and doesn't pay attention. That shit would be annoying. Like I get it they're tired but they decide to play in that game, not paying attention is a dick move. And if every time op is asked about how they are they responded with bad stuff it, which it sounds like they did pretty often, that would get old and exhausting

@yourface2464

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. Sorry but I would never tolerate someone falling asleep at my table. Agreed.

@TheMightyBattleSquid

Жыл бұрын

@@yourface2464 sounded like they were fine until rogue started stretching sessions out

@yourface2464

Жыл бұрын

@@TheMightyBattleSquid I'm very, very hesitant to believe that the inclusion of one player stretched the game out so far past the allotted time for the session, and absolutely no one but OP took issue with it. Even then, it isn't an excuse.

@austinmaves

Жыл бұрын

Yeah pretty bad take by doge on this one

Zayum

The "Antagonistic Player" story is usually told from the other side. You know the formula. OP says a player does a bad thing and never gets the hint, no matter how hard he rolls his eyes. Then OP yells at the player and is surprised he gets defensive.

For lucky

Heyoooo

you dog avatar is the highest level of cringe i have experienced thus far

3rd story.... There was a 5% chance he was awake. Meaning a 95% chance he was sleeping. He's a king right? Why wouldn't he have some kind of intruder alarm set. An besides how often do you people wake up randomly at night? It happens to anyone. The only problem was the seeing through invisibility. Without more information I can't comment more. It's part of the game. These things happen.. 2 hours of planning or 2 weeks of planning. Things happen.

Comment.

Dude... It's 4 hit points of damage. You're not a fucking wizard where a rogue wind will kill you, you're a fucking MONK. YOU TANK BLOWS ON THE REGULAR BECAUSE YOUR CLASS REQUIRES YOU TO GET FACE TO FACE WITH ENEMIES SO YOU CAN USE YOUR FEATS WITH YOUR FISTS!!!

comet

Less rolling is actually a good thing. Act it out and roleplay, the dice shouldn't be doing everything for you. That's how the game was long played. Nor should you treat your character sheet as the prison it has become. Think outside of it and move beyond your abilities.

Pretty incredible how every second person these days has some mental wingnut loose. Maybe they should toughen up a bit and try to not make it other people's problem?

@TheMightyBattleSquid

Жыл бұрын

At this point, it's the neurotypicals that are the weird ones. The world IS falling apart so not acknowledging it just shows a lack of mental awareness imo

@coltonlong7562

Жыл бұрын

@@TheMightyBattleSquid I mean I've got multiple problems but I do my best to keep it in check because it's nobody else's problem but mine. I'm not sure when making other people carry your baggage for you became accepted.

@sagekoh3158

Жыл бұрын

​@@coltonlong7562 careful now. Giving people hard facts/ hardships they actually have to grow from isn't a thing anymore it seems 😅

@coltonlong7562

Жыл бұрын

@@sagekoh3158 I got told I was expressing toxic masculinity this morning by a college teacher because I told another guy I was a man and did what needed to be done, like taking all the groceries in with one trip. The world is wild these days, dude.

@sagekoh3158

Жыл бұрын

@@coltonlong7562 sounds like the kind of teacher brainwashed by Tiktok buzzwords. I'd ask if his wife's boyfriend gave him that opinion. Being every bit the "toxic masculinity" your professor speaks of seems like a great option to me to never have to deal with any of the three problem players in today's episode