Divorced women in Pakistani society can be happy too! - BBC URDU

منحوس، بدنصیب، بچاری۔۔۔ یہ وہ چند طعنے ہیں جو مَردوں کے بنائے معاشرے میں اکثر طلاق یافتہ عورتوں کے حصے میں آتے ہیں۔ لیکن اب بے شمار پاکستانی خواتین نے اِس متعصبانہ رویے کو تسلیم کرنے سے انکار کر دیا ہے۔ آئیے ایسی ہی ایک باہمت لڑکی سے ملتے ہیں ہمارے ساتھی کریم الاسلام کی اِس ڈیجیٹل ویڈیو میں۔
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  • @AAdab77
    @AAdab773 жыл бұрын

    Her command of Urdu and english and expression of her feelings is great example for our educated youths. Simply amazing. I wish her good luck.

  • @StarStar-ce3cy

    @StarStar-ce3cy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. Education speaks! Educated insan ka Pata chal jata hai ❤️

  • @arjumandvillagecooking

    @arjumandvillagecooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍👍😕

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @shanigjrt8747
    @shanigjrt87473 жыл бұрын

    اللہ تعالیٰ ہر بیٹی کے نصیب اچھے کرے اور بُرائی کرنے والوں کو نیک ہدایت عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین ❤️

  • @shanigjrt8747

    @shanigjrt8747

    3 жыл бұрын

    Stay blessed 👍 be happy 😊

  • @jassimmuhammadtrunpfakeyou331

    @jassimmuhammadtrunpfakeyou331

    3 жыл бұрын

    i want marriage with you anam please me with you that's why I am interested

  • @Nisar_Awan

    @Nisar_Awan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jassimmuhammadtrunpfakeyou331 بچے فری میں مل جائیں گے تمہیں محنت کی ضرورت ہی نہیں پڑے گی

  • @personalexperiences8548

    @personalexperiences8548

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @amberkhan1298

    @amberkhan1298

    3 жыл бұрын

    Plz mary lya be dua kar dyn or bati kay lya be

  • @AbdulRauf-ng5xm
    @AbdulRauf-ng5xm3 жыл бұрын

    زبردست سلام ھے آپ کو میں خود ایک عورت ھوں اللہ پاک ھر عورت کو ھمت دے اس معاشرے میں رھنے کی

  • @AsadAli-ic1oj

    @AsadAli-ic1oj

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thnx

  • @owaisshaikh8394

    @owaisshaikh8394

    3 жыл бұрын

    tu aurat hai mard ke naam se 🤣🤣🤣

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @drakhlaqhussain
    @drakhlaqhussain3 жыл бұрын

    منحوس عورت نہیں وہ مرد ہیے جو طلاق دیتا ھے!

  • @umairnaghman3365

    @umairnaghman3365

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ap ko kis na kha dr akhlaq sb zaruri ni Ka hr orat thk ho or ya bhi zaruri ni Ka hr mard galt ho . This is only one side story . Lkn hamara is mashra ma talak yafta orat ya beawa orat ko wo izzat ni milti jo milni chiya ya sach ha pr ap na itnhi glt bt ki ha . It's my opinion I hope I will not mind .

  • @drakhlaqhussain

    @drakhlaqhussain

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@umairnaghman3365 I vehemently disagree with you...

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @arifali6762

    @arifali6762

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@umairnaghman3365 I agree with you.

  • @arifali6762

    @arifali6762

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you sure? Do you know what you type here?

  • @aishgill2210
    @aishgill22103 жыл бұрын

    I can understand your situation as I got divorced right after my marriage.... To be exact after 3days. . The person I married to was not Physically well and unfit for marriage but his parents forced him to get married just because to save their image.... Cut to the current situation I completed my MS with gold medal.... Working as assistant director in ministry and recently my research paper published in a very reputed journal.... The whole point is women have the right to be happy even though they are divorced whatever the reason... I proudly say I m a very happy and satisfied with my life....

  • @seyaseya9833

    @seyaseya9833

    3 жыл бұрын

    may u always stay blessed !

  • @babarnadeem6090

    @babarnadeem6090

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you don't mind, join on wtsup, trust me, don't worry plz.. Stay Blessed.. Ameen..

  • @babarnadeem6090

    @babarnadeem6090

    3 жыл бұрын

    Miss. Aish..

  • @t.shinwari5336

    @t.shinwari5336

    2 жыл бұрын

    You don’t need a man in your life to be successful.

  • @onlinelearningplace3975

    @onlinelearningplace3975

    2 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah you are motivation

  • @umariqbal4387
    @umariqbal43873 жыл бұрын

    باتیں کڑوی ہیں لیکن سچی ہیں

  • @arjumandvillagecooking

    @arjumandvillagecooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍😕

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @billulejend8800
    @billulejend88003 жыл бұрын

    Allah pak sab ki bhen betio k naseeb achey kare Ameen

  • @roznama92
    @roznama923 жыл бұрын

    I was also divorced after 6 months of my marriage but after i married to a wonderful person alhamdulillah

  • @nimrakhan3147

    @nimrakhan3147

    11 ай бұрын

    Ma Sha Allah same I'm also going to be a divorcee after 6 months of marriage 😢😢😢but Im sacred to find a good person

  • @ijazmahmood5661
    @ijazmahmood56613 жыл бұрын

    Unbelievable. Allah Pak bless every woman in this world.

  • @arjumandvillagecooking

    @arjumandvillagecooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    آمین۔😕

  • @misba2282

    @misba2282

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seriously this dude is commenting like this attitude of men towards women esp divorced women is something new to him... I'm like get outta here you hypocrite!

  • @pasharahima2932

    @pasharahima2932

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rahima pasha daughter of pasha Saab remember

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @alikhansahab8356

    @alikhansahab8356

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @Tararsupport
    @Tararsupport3 жыл бұрын

    This is a social Evil in our society

  • @Muhammadshoaibqureshi902

    @Muhammadshoaibqureshi902

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not everyone is cruel in the Society. Very difficult to know how someone will treat you in the long run. The best action is not to decide things hastily, always do your best and be happy with what you have been given by the almighty.

  • @motherlandbeauty242

    @motherlandbeauty242

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where does it say the Almighty approves of men abusing their wives? Isn't it written that a husband must love his wife as he does his own body? Is it also written that a husband that lives his wife loves him self? Is it not true that no man ever abused himself, but feeds himself and cherishes himself. So how can any husband treat his wife life valueless. Is he not defaming his claim to love the Almighty? Should he not receive justice for his lack of respect to the Almighty, and lack of respect for the women that he has been blessed to have in his life; and for his arrogance and inability to appreciate the Almighty's generosity in having a precious wife?

  • @motherlandbeauty242

    @motherlandbeauty242

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wish the women would not be abused there. So many nice men in other countries looking for a decent nice wife that they can genuinely love. I know some and it sad that they are not appreciated.

  • @fatimamalik5295

    @fatimamalik5295

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Muhammadshoaibqureshi902 k

  • @adnanmasood5968

    @adnanmasood5968

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes u are right but ak divorce lady dubara shadi ksi aur man kar sakthi ha. Is dobara shadi ho sakthi ha aur ya koi gali nahi divorce hoti ha is ma koi buri bat nahi

  • @exquisiteurdu4909
    @exquisiteurdu49093 жыл бұрын

    اللہ تبارک و تعالیٰ کی ذات ہم سب کو اپنے حِفظ و امان میں رکھے اور ہماری بہنوں اور بیٹیوں کی عزت و ابرو کی حفاظت فرمائے۔ آمین ثم آمین

  • @MuhammadBukhari-rg7bs
    @MuhammadBukhari-rg7bs3 жыл бұрын

    بہت افسوس ہے کہ اگر آپ کے ساتھ یہ ہوا اور ہمیں تو نہیں معلوم کہ آپ کے ساتھ ضرور نہیں کہ سب لوگ ایک جیسے نہیں ہوتے ہیں

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @MSaad-ht7ni
    @MSaad-ht7ni3 жыл бұрын

    Taboos of our societies and cultures have destroyed more life's then any disease ever could..

  • @Brahmdagh

    @Brahmdagh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well put. And sadly very accurate.

  • @arjumandvillagecooking

    @arjumandvillagecooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    بلکل سچ کہا آپ نے۔👍

  • @arifali6762

    @arifali6762

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @tareen957

    @tareen957

    2 жыл бұрын

    She got divorce because of her taboo or because of her behavior

  • @arslanaziz7249
    @arslanaziz72493 жыл бұрын

    Parents behaviour toward daughter like a liability And they treated Son like a investment opputunty being a brother its really awful and idiotic behaviour Our society still stuck in old narratives

  • @waitwhat-4025

    @waitwhat-4025

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pakistan needs more men like you, not mysogninistic. Finally someone said it :)

  • @ariftanoli9768
    @ariftanoli97683 жыл бұрын

    A well educated girl brimming with confidence and excellent command of English and Urdu language. A very truthful and positive and proud daughter of Pakistan. All I can say is best of luck and wisher her well for the feature..

  • @pakeezaakhter5402
    @pakeezaakhter54023 жыл бұрын

    Sister U r brave, ignore this society

  • @javedahmed8946

    @javedahmed8946

    3 жыл бұрын

    True n Right really

  • @Showbiz366

    @Showbiz366

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right

  • @umairafzal-dj8so

    @umairafzal-dj8so

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @zaighamali6891
    @zaighamali68913 жыл бұрын

    Allah har Beti ka naseeb acha kare ameen

  • @Showbiz366

    @Showbiz366

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @MuhammadBukhari-rg7bs
    @MuhammadBukhari-rg7bs3 жыл бұрын

    دنیا میں بہت سے اچھے لوگ بھی موجود ہیں

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @hurrainfatima4358

    @hurrainfatima4358

    3 жыл бұрын

    Achy log kismt walo ko Milty ha

  • @bepositive6737
    @bepositive67373 жыл бұрын

    یااللہ انہیں ھدایت عطا فرما جو عورت کی عظمت کو نہیں جانتے

  • @nsaeedster1
    @nsaeedster13 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Congratulations u r not living with that man who didn't deserve u or ur child. U r a strong women that the weak men in this society fair. Loads of love.

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @asadahmad7426
    @asadahmad74263 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is another name compromise...unfortunately 99 percent mismatch...my parents also mismatch...dont worry time goes very fastly...we r not built for this world..b brave.

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @mohdanwar8002
    @mohdanwar80023 жыл бұрын

    Ye jahalat Kuchh logon Mai hogi whn pr aap preshn Mt Allah aapke sth I salute you.

  • @Iconic.dweller
    @Iconic.dweller3 жыл бұрын

    Proud of my sister ❤❤❤❤

  • @arjumandvillagecooking

    @arjumandvillagecooking

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍👍😕

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @bismakainat1315
    @bismakainat13153 жыл бұрын

    Allah sb ki bhen betio ky naik nseeb kry ameen...

  • @MegaNainaa
    @MegaNainaa3 жыл бұрын

    I was raised and supported by such great parents who gave me the freedom to choose my own partner and the choice to get married only if I choose. I love my single life no drama just a happy life. I feel the pain this women has, hope she finds some peace and joy.

  • @TariqAli-rd5vp
    @TariqAli-rd5vp Жыл бұрын

    Really heartbreaking. First of all I pray to Allah that all Pakistani girls shall be like you so well groomed educated & graceful. With lots of praying for both of you to have a beautiful prosperous happy healthy life.💐💕

  • @nareshkumar2058
    @nareshkumar20583 жыл бұрын

    You are beautiful, strong, live a happy and healthy life..my good wishes for you

  • @Showbiz366

    @Showbiz366

    3 жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @sarwatdogar2617
    @sarwatdogar26173 жыл бұрын

    Yes I totally agree with you parents dont value daughters but you are a strong woman 💪 ❤ 💙 💖 ♥ 💜 💪 my wishes are with you

  • @faheemcables6896

    @faheemcables6896

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sharam tuh aa nahi rahi aap ko yah baat karte hoain k waldain batyion ko tarjee nahi dete .

  • @AsifMalik-kr6wq
    @AsifMalik-kr6wq3 жыл бұрын

    اللہ تبارک و تعالی آپ کو ڈھیرووں خوشیاں کامیابیاں عطا فرمائے آمیین فی امان اللہ

  • @roshanpakistanwithshabbirh7236
    @roshanpakistanwithshabbirh72363 жыл бұрын

    اللہ پاک آپ اور آپ کے بیٹے کے نصیب اچھے عطا فرماۓ ۔آپ ایک بہادر خاتون ہیں

  • @leverpoolwestfield2724
    @leverpoolwestfield27243 жыл бұрын

    Salute to your courage sister, this is highly patriarchy, where women are subject to issues that you have mentioned. It takes huge courage and guts to live in this society. May Allah resolve all your issues. My best wishes are for you.

  • @MuhammadQasimswati8857

    @MuhammadQasimswati8857

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes ofcourse

  • @watch_nook0
    @watch_nook03 жыл бұрын

    ہر طرف ہی غلاظت کے ڈھیر ہیں, کیا کہا جا سکتا ہے؟ اللہ ایسی سوچ رکھنے والے/والیوں کو ہدایت دے! اور اللہ سبحان و تعالیٰ ہر بہن بیٹی کے نصیب مقدر اچھے کرے آمین❤

  • @abdullahjankhanabdullahjan9188
    @abdullahjankhanabdullahjan91883 жыл бұрын

    Allah sub betiu k naseeb ache kre. Ameen. Ye khatoon boht bahadar hain life ko face krna janti hain lekin sub aisi nhy hoti ,talaq un k liye mot se zyada takleefda hoti hay

  • @MonaAlaya20
    @MonaAlaya203 жыл бұрын

    Let’s talk about 2021. Honestly our society has improved a lot about divorcees and independent women. 👍🏻

  • @allaboutent6207

    @allaboutent6207

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it's true. Things have been changed now..

  • @studentfoodofficial5070
    @studentfoodofficial50703 жыл бұрын

    باجی اللہ تعالی آپ کو دین دنیا کی سب خوشیاں نصیب کرے اور آپ کو آپ کی اولاد کا سکھ نصیب کرے آمین

  • @iqrairfan4238
    @iqrairfan42383 жыл бұрын

    U r great inspiration for all those women who think they can do nothing. I also thought several times to be live independently but when I look towards society I came back.

  • @muhammadasadiqbal3436
    @muhammadasadiqbal34362 жыл бұрын

    ماشاءاللہ۔ بہت خوب صورت الفاظ میں ہمت سے دفاع کیا اور حوصلے سے زندگی بسر کر رہی ہیں۔ اللّٰہ تعالیٰ مزید صبر و استقلال عطا فرمائے آمین

  • @bjbj9886
    @bjbj9886 Жыл бұрын

    I can feel that you are a brave woman, you are not scared from anyone, you are a strong face & bright future of women of Pakistan, I wish you good luck.

  • @oroobafahim3320
    @oroobafahim33203 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring mashallah, thank you for sharing your story and standing up against the patriarchal society. A true Queen 👑 May you always find happiness within yourself

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @skynet2010
    @skynet20103 жыл бұрын

    Brave lady Mashallah. God bless your family.

  • @shifashafiq1999
    @shifashafiq19993 жыл бұрын

    Spotted alot of "LOG" in this comment section jo "Kuch keh rhe hain (bakwas hi hai lekin)... You are strong MaaShaaAllah 😍

  • @areejali0302
    @areejali03023 жыл бұрын

    U r determined, that is enough to connect happiness. Be happy, n motivated.

  • @saimakhan9668
    @saimakhan96683 жыл бұрын

    Wish u good luck brave lady..❤️

  • @jenifferbrown2297
    @jenifferbrown22973 жыл бұрын

    Manhoos woh hai jo talaq deta hai na keh woh jiko diya jaye.

  • @sundaszahra2344
    @sundaszahra23443 жыл бұрын

    Love u girl.... ALLAH BLESS U ALWAYS AAMEEN

  • @shaistasyed7715
    @shaistasyed77153 жыл бұрын

    My dear sister my best wishes are always with you. Yes you are beautiful and strong woman

  • @nasirnaserr
    @nasirnaserr3 жыл бұрын

    Oh! feel so sorry for the lady. She's strong enough to live life happy.

  • @sajidamuddassarmuddassar2147
    @sajidamuddassarmuddassar21473 жыл бұрын

    sach A brave lady best wishes And prayers For You....⚘♥️⚘

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @itgirlsdiaries3339
    @itgirlsdiaries33393 жыл бұрын

    I comprehend this all... Because I also face all these circumstances bitterly

  • @rajanabeel1242
    @rajanabeel12423 жыл бұрын

    Jo aap ko tanaa dete hein tab tak nhi mre gey jab tak woh khud b bugat na lein😔😭😢💔💔💔💔

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are two sisters our condition is same may Allah help us, world is very cruel no one is helping here, we are very much destitute to earn money for our lively hood, so we started this youtube channel,plz help us, may Allah help you. Loads of love from kashmir.

  • @rajanabeel1242

    @rajanabeel1242

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cookingwithdeeandmeRM 😢💔😭😭😭

  • @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    @cookingwithdeeandmeRM

    3 жыл бұрын

    Allah kara aysa he hoo, aur Allah paak humari madad kara,

  • @rajanabeel1242

    @rajanabeel1242

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cookingwithdeeandmeRM ameen sabar krne walo hi ki akhrit hai

  • @nakashch2297
    @nakashch22973 жыл бұрын

    Sure women should be independent

  • @MuhammadAbdullah-tm1ck
    @MuhammadAbdullah-tm1ck3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed with you...Allah ap ko khush rakhy.. U r too mature and humble Major fact which v neglect is Deen Islam. If Islam exists practically in our society then we can minimize this nonsense behavior.

  • @maryumbill
    @maryumbill3 жыл бұрын

    We are surrounded by judgemental people ! This is really heartbreaking but this society make us feel strong and to live the life we deserve .

  • @himanshutiwari3509

    @himanshutiwari3509

    3 жыл бұрын

    Respected mam you are saying right 🙏🙏🙏

  • @umarminhasminhas8263
    @umarminhasminhas82632 жыл бұрын

    Manhos wo khd hein Jo apko kehtey hein ..you are great woman we are salute to you & your personality

  • @abbehamasood7390
    @abbehamasood73903 жыл бұрын

    Such a brave nd strong lady appreciated

  • @Gameover-om1tc
    @Gameover-om1tc3 жыл бұрын

    Preach positivity and change thinking ! You are right and keep moving with hope

  • @abdulmannan3369
    @abdulmannan33693 жыл бұрын

    Allah taala duniya ki her bahen aur beti ka naseeb achha karay aur sabko khushiyan naseeb farmaye aameen.

  • @mohammadjaved1563
    @mohammadjaved15633 жыл бұрын

    We really need to develop a society that could respect and value the women that she deserves

  • @rainasajid6678

    @rainasajid6678

    9 ай бұрын

    Your thinking is very commendable, brother! May Allah give you more respect as well!

  • @drakhlaqhussain
    @drakhlaqhussain3 жыл бұрын

    آج خواتین کے عالمی دن کے موقع پر میں یہ کہوں گا کہ اللہ نے عورت کو اتنا عظیم بنایا ہیے کہ حضرت عیسیٰ علیہ السلام کی پیدائش سے اللہ نے یہ کر کے دکھا دیا ہیے کہ کسی کی پیدائش باپ کے بغیر تو ممکن ہیے مگر ماں کے بغیر کبھی نہیں۔۔۔۔

  • @user-vt4kd5ld7b

    @user-vt4kd5ld7b

    2 жыл бұрын

    دادی حوا بغیر ماں کے ہی دنیا آئی

  • @mianahsan9897
    @mianahsan98972 жыл бұрын

    Allah apko khush rkhy apko aur apke bachy dono ko,apki preshanyian dor kren aur society ki gandi nazron sy dor rkhy. Ameen...!

  • @rimnasiddiqi
    @rimnasiddiqi3 жыл бұрын

    YOU are an INSPIRATION for this SOCIETY. more power to you strong lady.

  • @seeratzahra1211
    @seeratzahra12113 жыл бұрын

    more respect to you

  • @muhammadtaimoor5043
    @muhammadtaimoor50433 жыл бұрын

    You are a great personality, Doing great. Keep it up ma'am 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @mohammadmirza5806
    @mohammadmirza58063 жыл бұрын

    I was shocked when I was not invited at my best friend's wedding because I was divorced 🤣

  • @rubimalik4878
    @rubimalik48782 жыл бұрын

    I am educated and divorced single mom in uk , am busy working monday to friday daily grindstone.

  • @mahiqazi4902
    @mahiqazi49022 жыл бұрын

    My marriage lasted for 2.5 years. My ex has married 4 times. And I had the same insecurities about my daughter which you are explaining. I am educated, independent and successful alhamdulillah. I needed to move to USA to save my daughter from the toxic Pakistani society. I can 100% relate to what you are saying. I feel n pray for your ease. More power to you and your son.

  • @syedajaveria3318

    @syedajaveria3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    Plz pray for me I got divorced month back two sons living with MIL giive me power

  • @mahiqazi4902

    @mahiqazi4902

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@syedajaveria3318 I am extremely sorry to hear about your experience. May you have the best of life after this painful incident. You are strong mom surviving with two kids. Prayers for your peaceful life ahead. I will be more than happy if I can be of any use for you. Please let me know if you need any help or suggestion from my little knowledge. Stay safe and happy. Ameen

  • @adnanosmanosman5865

    @adnanosmanosman5865

    Жыл бұрын

    @@syedajaveria3318 Allah Pak apko humesha khush Khushhaal aur sehatmund rakhe along with children.. Ameen

  • @adnanosmanosman5865

    @adnanosmanosman5865

    Жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum.bohot duwain.Allah Pak apko humesha khush Khushhaal aur sehatmund rakhe along with daughter.Ameen

  • @syedajaveria3318

    @syedajaveria3318

    Жыл бұрын

    Alhumdulillah Im with my son's now... No doubt Allah help those Who help themselves... I have a small appartment on rent doing job and Alhumdulillah bht peaceful life hay...

  • @yousafghous4799
    @yousafghous47993 жыл бұрын

    Well Don my sis

  • @naeemkayani5900
    @naeemkayani59003 жыл бұрын

    You are such a brave woman and blessed in so many ways. Just stay positive like the way u r right now.

  • @queenfun3186
    @queenfun31863 жыл бұрын

    Yes i agree with you.

  • @junejo3.078
    @junejo3.0783 жыл бұрын

    You r right? May God Bless u

  • @salmanashraf7955
    @salmanashraf79553 жыл бұрын

    Be Happy in life.

  • @iboaxaffairs
    @iboaxaffairs3 жыл бұрын

    Stay Blessed Ma'am .. ❤️ Respect for your confidence

  • @mishaanis1635
    @mishaanis16353 жыл бұрын

    Yiu are a strong women who took the right step at right time. MashsAllah You are raising your son beautifully. You are inspiration to many of young females who are trapped in troubbled marriage. More power to you sweetheart ♥️

  • @theleader8139
    @theleader81393 жыл бұрын

    Deen Quran o sunnat se duri ka natija Jahil log Allah se nhi darte Rasul Allah s.a.w ne divorced aor bewa aorton se bhi shadi ki thi

  • @mukesh-vb2cj
    @mukesh-vb2cj3 жыл бұрын

    I am 100% agree with you dear be strong

  • @ChefAsad
    @ChefAsad3 жыл бұрын

    یہ، ہمارے سوسائٹی کا المیہ ہے، سب سے بڑا نقصان، مرد و عورت کا نہیں، بچوں کا ہوتا ہے۔

  • @sabatahir3739
    @sabatahir37393 жыл бұрын

    Haye sach mai bht dhukh hota hai k muslims ne h talaq yafta ko nahosat samj lia hai.... Islam ne to esa kuch nahi kaha esi aurat ko....

  • @majidraza2825
    @majidraza28253 жыл бұрын

    Allah give you more happiness sister and you be a more Strong

  • @sadiachoudary4616
    @sadiachoudary46163 жыл бұрын

    You are beautiful, you are strong, you are awesome the way you are, more power to you❤️

  • @azhariqbal6417

    @azhariqbal6417

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great lady can u contact with me

  • @ataullahkhan3306
    @ataullahkhan330611 ай бұрын

    Talaq Yafta se Shadi kren unhe takleef dekh kr bahot tension hota h unhe bhi Pyar ki Zarurat h Dua kren Allah apne naik bande k dil mei Mohabbat dalkr aapse milwaye Aameen

  • @hammadjafree9867
    @hammadjafree98673 жыл бұрын

    ماشاء اللہ آپ ھمت والی خاتون ھیں کریم اللہ آپ کو خوشیاں نصیب فرمائے آمین

  • @fourrrstarr
    @fourrrstarr3 жыл бұрын

    Big big biggggggggg silute for this brave courageous most respectable girl, she is very positive against all the negativity negligence and bad behaviour of our socitey and our so called loved ones...A person who have bare the stresses is an example of real personality except others who proven them selves as stone. Stone could not bare any stress and worst conditions except Gold. Because stone splits but Gold could not splits after havey fire and stress.. Imran Gujranwala cantt.

  • @wonderwomen6493
    @wonderwomen64933 жыл бұрын

    Allah has blessed you with a beautiful heart,you are a very educated and intelligent lady.the people who give you abuse and talk bad about you need their head checking,they need to be educated and not act like jahils, too many people have black hearts and need to stop judging others,may allah bless you sister and i wish you a happy life.

  • @mehwishkhan3575
    @mehwishkhan35753 жыл бұрын

    Allah pak her larki ka naseeb bht acha karein,kash ye humari society change ho jay,khud bhi izzat sy zindgi guary or bakiyo ko bhi jeeny dain.

  • @adnanosmanosman5865
    @adnanosmanosman5865 Жыл бұрын

    Allah Pak apko humesha khush,Khushhaal aur sehatmund rakhe.Ameen..be brave be strong.

  • @fazilatmarjan9608
    @fazilatmarjan96083 жыл бұрын

    Wao you are a role model and an inspiration ❤❤

  • @Alivlog151
    @Alivlog1513 жыл бұрын

    Brave women ... Allah ap k naseeb achy kare...Ameen

  • @sumairasfamilykitchenandvl3466
    @sumairasfamilykitchenandvl34663 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @uzmazeeshan2662
    @uzmazeeshan26623 жыл бұрын

    Such a decent and brave girl

  • @zainbasra3243
    @zainbasra32433 жыл бұрын

    I think you are better than Qasim Ali shah and other motivational speakers👍

  • @gulzarali2782
    @gulzarali27823 жыл бұрын

    Allah apke sath hai sister ignore karo dunya ko

  • @umarminhasminhas8263
    @umarminhasminhas82632 жыл бұрын

    You are brave woman & example for other woman.

  • @dansilverstein8693
    @dansilverstein86933 жыл бұрын

    Young lady, please don't take negative remarks seriously, these remarks do not reflect who you are, they reflect who the narrow minded and insensitive illiterates are. You are full of confidence, intelligence, education, and appear to be a good Muslim. Do not forget that every hardship is followed by ease. Divorce is legal in Islam, it does not taint the divorcee, you have a beautiful son, I'm sure that you are doing an outstanding job of parenting. You were too good for the person who divorced you, the right person will come along, I'm confident. Best Wishes for a very, very bright, happier, and successful future, Inshaallah.

  • @sabatahir3739
    @sabatahir37393 жыл бұрын

    Kya ik larki k sath agr hadsa paish a jaye to wo kya kre mar jaye... Agy jeene ka haq nahi kya use..... Badlooo apne app ko logo badloooo hazoor pak ki examples pe chalo... Kosish kro kisi insan ko dhuk na doo zuban ka diahoa dhuk bht bara dhuk hai

  • @goharayoub7245
    @goharayoub72453 жыл бұрын

    I can feel her pain Because my sister is suffering from this

  • @hinanaqvi695

    @hinanaqvi695

    3 жыл бұрын

    Main khud ye pain feel kar rahi hn 25 ki age mai.

  • @goharayoub7245

    @goharayoub7245

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hinanaqvi695 Plz pray for my sister

  • @hinanaqvi695

    @hinanaqvi695

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@goharayoub7245 bhai dil sy dua hai ALLAH TALAH ap ki sister ki life ko khushiyon sy bhar de unky naseeb bhtreen hn agy koi azmaish na ho unki life mai...mai koi hoti tu nahi khch khny wali bas jis dard sy wo guzar rahi hain mai achy sy samjh sakti hn bas ap log kabhi bhi unhen tanha mat choriye ga hamesha apni sister ka sath diye ga INSHALLAH ghar walon k sath k sath wo life mai achy sy agy barh paye gi.mai ajj khush ho jee rahi hn tu meri family ka full sport mujhy mila hai..family jab sath ho tu bare sy bare dukh o takleef sy insan bahar aa hi jata hai ..or uper ALLAH tu mojood hi hai jo sab k dilo k hal sy bakhubi waqif hai ...

  • @goharayoub7245

    @goharayoub7245

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hinanaqvi695 Thanks for ur well wishes N I,m a young girl not a guy

  • @ibrhm8631

    @ibrhm8631

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hinanaqvi695 Mai bi feel lonely I want to have friends that feel this pain

  • @dr.muhammadasadalishah8775
    @dr.muhammadasadalishah87753 жыл бұрын

    May God bless u lady..!! U r honored like evone else.!! Its so good to see that u r confident & believe in yourself . ! Times r Changing. Hope that education and literacy prevails in our society to make people respect and understand eachother irrespective of their religion, and broken family.

  • @mhabibmhabib6931
    @mhabibmhabib69313 жыл бұрын

    میری دعا ہے کہ اللہ پاک آپ کا جیون ساتھی اس کو اور آپ کو ایک اتفاق میں رہنے کی توفیق عطا آمین ثم آمین اگر مجھے پہلے معلوم ہوتا تو میں ان شاء اللّٰہ اپ سے شادی کر کے لیے تیار ہو جاتا اس معاشرے کو اس سوسائٹی کو بتا دیتا کے میں ایک کنوارا لڑکا ہو اور میں ایک طلاق یافتہ لڑکی سے شادی کر رہا ہوںتاکہ اس معاشرے کو پتہ چل جاتا کہ انسانیت کیا چیز ہوتی ہے درد اور احساس کیا ہوتا ہے میری دعا ہے کہ اللہ پاک ہر انسان کی بیٹی کو آپنے امن و امان اور اپنے حفاظت میں رکھے آمین ثم آمین

  • @asmach6964
    @asmach69643 жыл бұрын

    Every divorced woman is not negligent bt our society made the them abuse

  • @SaifullahKhan-vr2uv

    @SaifullahKhan-vr2uv

    3 жыл бұрын

    03482700696 Whtsapp

  • @zainbasra3243
    @zainbasra32433 жыл бұрын

    I salute you Mam👋

  • @johnyb4423
    @johnyb44233 жыл бұрын

    ALLAH KAREEM har behan beti k naseeb achay karay aur meri behan ALLAH KAREEM apko bhi himmat aur sabar ata karay ameen

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