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Marrying a divorced girl: | Urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Thoughts about rights of girls in the society and issues for marrying a divorced girl. Dr Javed Iqbal talking in a interview.
#divorce #rightsofgirls
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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  • @ayeshaahmad8824
    @ayeshaahmad8824 Жыл бұрын

    My husband married me , I was divorced with one daughter....but his family in Pakistan never ever excepted me....they created so many problems it's unbelievable. But alhamdolillah after 30 years wr still together alhamdolillah

  • @muhammadtalhakhalid2625

    @muhammadtalhakhalid2625

    Жыл бұрын

    mashallah ❤ allah tala hamesha aesay he rakhay

  • @huzaifaali8740

    @huzaifaali8740

    4 ай бұрын

    im also facing the same situation

  • @huzaifaali8740

    @huzaifaali8740

    4 ай бұрын

    Please prey for me

  • @nisargujjar9902

    @nisargujjar9902

    Ай бұрын

    Allah AP dono aur apki ki family ko Khush rakhe Ameen.

  • @nisargujjar9902

    @nisargujjar9902

    Ай бұрын

    Allah AP dono aur apki ki family ko Khush rakhe Ameen.

  • @imrankhanabbasi9561
    @imrankhanabbasi95613 жыл бұрын

    Even a divorced girl has turned me down yesterday. What a legend I am!!!

  • @sardarsaifullah5796

    @sardarsaifullah5796

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @mudassarhusain7744

    @mudassarhusain7744

    3 жыл бұрын

    Legend.....👍

  • @JohnSmith-sl6eg

    @JohnSmith-sl6eg

    3 жыл бұрын

    Take bath and brush your teeth

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN683 жыл бұрын

    Marriage should be only for love, not for upgradation of life's living standards, or for sponsorship of life expenses. For that people can donate, do charity, etc.

  • @helloFN68

    @helloFN68

    3 жыл бұрын

    in this, western society has evolved the criteria for marriage correctly, just like other things. Also, it's one of the biggest lie that in western countries they don't have a family system, or that the family system in western countries is destroyed. Is the family system here intact?

  • @495mubeen2
    @495mubeen23 жыл бұрын

    Sir you made me consider the widows before i get married. A selfless relationship demands a selfless decision.

  • @muhammadsanwalsarfrazawan7117

    @muhammadsanwalsarfrazawan7117

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love demands sacrifice in every field of Life. ( Tariq shehzad;My teacher.)

  • @495mubeen2

    @495mubeen2

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Samrin's Vlog Ameen

  • @abdulrafaymaqbool3576

    @abdulrafaymaqbool3576

    3 жыл бұрын

    Must consider the reasons behind divorce ;)

  • @mrchand78

    @mrchand78

    3 жыл бұрын

    Khatal se. Widows ke sath bhi aik problem hoti he. Wo chudhary sab, mian sab, munne ke abba ko kbhi nahee bholteen. Wo to itne ache the. Aapke sath guzara he

  • @mrchand78

    @mrchand78

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bas yaad rakhen ye nabi pak saw ka dor nahee is liye bohut chokana aur mohtat rehna chaiye. I am sorry i may be hurting someone but i have experienced

  • @abcabc9297
    @abcabc92972 жыл бұрын

    Sir but i have a girl in my family she took khula as her american husband was suffering from ADHD and was gay he did not keep marital relation due to his disease he had no attaraction for women. This girl is a doctor from a very good medical college she is very deendar but when we see her proposal families accept the proposal happily but when tell them that its her second marriage they turn away callouslly and this makes me realise our society is way back from what prophet's (SAW) riasat e madina

  • @saharsardar_4
    @saharsardar_43 жыл бұрын

    Kisi beti ko to talak lene ka bi haq nhi hota sir wo sirf apne maa baap ki trf dekh rhi hoti hai, us k parents faisla lengy tb hi divorce hoskti hai Wrna to wo bachi sari zindagi usi anparh, nalaik, berozgar, bemar k sath guzar deti hai, 95% aaj bi aisy hi parents hain hmary haan, divorcee larki se koi shadi krna psnd nhi krta or agr koi himat kr bi le to larky k parents nhi manty sir ye bi 1 boht bara lamha e fikariya hai 😕

  • @majidkhan8767

    @majidkhan8767

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sahar sardar sb u may right 50%. I know why, bcz in our countries or sorrounding , it is difficult to find a suitable ..... specially for a girl even for a un married, so parents think so.2. Mostly parents r not so rich to bear it likely or in likely, u know why bcz in western countries the govt is help full where in our eastern countries is not.3. The earning sources r limited, not so much field for a girl for earning or to stand up with full power.

  • @AKMSahilYT

    @AKMSahilYT

    Жыл бұрын

    Good advice thank you Dr Sahib

  • @aliamunawar765
    @aliamunawar7653 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes I have no words to Say something but 😥 Sir You are great

  • @sadiazaheer8806
    @sadiazaheer88063 жыл бұрын

    M also a divorcee.. Unfortunately our society never accepts a divorcee, bitter reality.

  • @Madina-Janan

    @Madina-Janan

    3 жыл бұрын

    I will marry you, if you want too

  • @kingshan7635

    @kingshan7635

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ap kaha sy hain ?can we talk some

  • @Noumanh1

    @Noumanh1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kingshan7635 🤣😂😂

  • @naturelplace
    @naturelplace3 жыл бұрын

    الحَمْدُ ِلله ڈاکٹر صاحب ميں نے ايک طلاق يافتہ عورت سے شادی کی ھے وہ بھی عمر ميں مجھ سے عمر ميں بھی بڑی ھے اور اس نے مجھے خود پرپوز کيا اور ميری دوسری شادی ھے اس کو يہ بھی پتہ ھے

  • @abbhadana9890
    @abbhadana98903 жыл бұрын

    Widows & divorced women sy shadi krna boht ajar o swab ka kam hai jis k baray ma pyaare Nabi saw ne hukam b dia ha

  • @saladinrajput4012
    @saladinrajput40123 жыл бұрын

    Dr Sab I am Huge Fan of Your nd Your Family Ap Real Mankind Hoo Hamre Ik Relatives k Treatment K Hawale se Jitni Ap ne Supportive Action Liya Allah apko Hamesha kush Rakhe 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @raufwarraixh5175
    @raufwarraixh51753 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah sir maire big brother ki shadi talaq yafta sy ki ha hum us larki ko bachpan sy janty thy bey buniyad ilzam lga kr usy talaq di gai faimly main kuch ikhtlaf k bawjood main ny ami abu ko convince kia ab apny liy kisi bewah k koshish kron ga Insha Allah

  • @pakistannowthen916

    @pakistannowthen916

    3 жыл бұрын

    bhai us ko aap jantay thay. Jis ko na jaantay hon us se kartay waqt soch lijiye gaa

  • @raufwarraixh5175

    @raufwarraixh5175

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pakistannowthen916 bhai hr larki galt ni hoti kuch jan bhojh k tang bhi krty hen khas kr k rishty daron mn

  • @pakistannowthen916

    @pakistannowthen916

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raufwarraixh5175 آج کل بہت دھوکا ہے۔

  • @islahicooking6225

    @islahicooking6225

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@raufwarraixh5175 mere sath Bhi aisa hi hua

  • @artanddecor-ry2bg

    @artanddecor-ry2bg

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@pakistannowthen916exactly just like me, meri 1.5 sal mangni rahi arrange marriage bat waghaira nai hoe hmari JB shadi hoe to pta chala larka mentally ill hai I tried my best k ghr bas jy Kisi trha lakin mery husband NY har tarha sy mental tourcher krna apny ghr walo or mery m galat fehmiya dalni Jan boj KR or phir kmry m ja k hsna k ye SB to bardasht krna he pry ga ghr nai baisan apna m ny har wakt us Ka mo dekhna k Kitna ajeeb hai but after 4 months my parents took stand for me alhamdulilah jaisy m ny waha 4 mahiny guzarny hai mujy pta hai JB insan Kisi mushkil m ho ek ek lamha gyzarna mushkil hota hai koi Soch b nai skta k sari Zindagi kaisy koi esy insan k sath rehy

  • @Muhammad-gn8cd
    @Muhammad-gn8cd3 жыл бұрын

    Can someone request this lady to let Javaid sb speak and not to interrupt him plz

  • @sialkotrealestate4276

    @sialkotrealestate4276

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just stopped watching video due to her interruption.

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd7843 жыл бұрын

    Always marry divorced girls they r part of us nd human being just like males give them respect irrespective of virgin or married

  • @learnchildrenwithchild3686

    @learnchildrenwithchild3686

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aaj kl ye koi nhi krta.shaan ghat jati h mard ki.....

  • @shabbirhussain8803

    @shabbirhussain8803

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ye bat ghalt he divorce hony k peechy wjah hoti he. Awen nh hoti divorce har kahani alag he

  • @sira5977

    @sira5977

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@shabbirhussain8803 bilkul. Lekin har baar wajah ladki ke hissay mai dal dena galat baat hai.

  • @nematullahali6481

    @nematullahali6481

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sira5977 absolutely correct 💯

  • @bilalbaig9360

    @bilalbaig9360

    Жыл бұрын

    ویسے ہی مردوں کو بدنام کیا جاتا ہے طلاق یافتہ مردوں سے بھی شادی کوٸی نہیں کرتا

  • @shoutforit
    @shoutforit3 жыл бұрын

    When elders are talking wisdom. Can children please keep quiet. This girl talking and laughing in the background is distracting.

  • @nabeelahmed5738

    @nabeelahmed5738

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ignore her

  • @junaidansari817
    @junaidansari8174 ай бұрын

    I've came across a divorce girl I found her really good wanted to marry her but don't know how to insist my family

  • @ajamira3672
    @ajamira36723 жыл бұрын

    I am divorced girl aur mujc mre husbnd n sb k khilaf jak mujc shadi ki aur ab phir c dbra gar walo ki btao m ak muje chor rahe hn plz sb dua kre k mre sath dbra asa kuch na ho i m very worried

  • @amiarooba
    @amiarooba3 жыл бұрын

    Sir has a beautiful strong accent. His voice quality is as good as Zia Moheeudin.

  • @crazyboy6006
    @crazyboy60063 жыл бұрын

    Sir, I think home grooming impact a lot on human personality. What I observe and analyze in our society, that there is a mistake in the upbringing of our children. This means if a child is a boy then parents don't make him capable of taking decisions and risk in life although they know that he is a male and in future, he has to manage all family affairs by himself and he will become Qawam of his own house. Bhle woh 20-25 saal ka hojaye but even then parents say "Tum abhi chotte ho tumhe nai pta" jis ki wjh s decision making skills enhance nai ho pati, or self-confidence alag loss hota hai and in result shadi k baad itna mature decision-maker nai hota jiski wjh s i thuink "Divorce ratio" zyada ho rha hai.. On a girls side: Mothers raise their girls in a very sophisticated environment and can't make them able to do their own things jiski wjh s kaam krne ki adat nkal jati hai or jub shadi k baad naye ghar jati hain to purana wala mind set hi hota hai k kaam nai krna. Or agr bigger picture main analyze kia jaye to 1 women p poori generation ki zimedaari hoti hai k woh 1 ache citizens promote kr ske. Conclusion: Excessive mobie usage ki wjh s hum short term thinkers bn gaye hain or galti 2no sides ki hai. Baki degree s ar koi ye smjhe k ye aqalmand hai ya mature hai to bewakoof hi hoga decision lene wala bhi

  • @fahadali3136

    @fahadali3136

    3 жыл бұрын

    100% truth . Exactly what i think. The fears and negative qualities i possess in my current self, i will always blame them on my parents. They never understand tbh

  • @mujahidahmed7402
    @mujahidahmed7402 Жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum I want to do nikah with a divorce girl but my parents didn't agree for it . I told them about her they started thinking what society will say about my family

  • @hassankhadim5106

    @hassankhadim5106

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @bianbde1683

    @bianbde1683

    3 ай бұрын

    Do what makes you happy. I know a guy who is physically v unhappy with his wife. He is stuck Bcz of his kids. Got married to the girl because of arrange marriage type thing. The guy is v good looking and the girl is not his match. We both had great chemistry and compatibility in every aspect. But he is just stuck. I told him that I could become his second wife if he had the courage to take the step. I think this person is weak emotionally. Not in touch with him anymore but I feel very sad for him some days.

  • @guriag4579
    @guriag45793 жыл бұрын

    Shadi krty hain tou beti se maa baap b nai pochty unki merzi ...chand log jo betion ki baat ko b sunty unki merzi many hain...lekin aisa kam hota hai

  • @kkking.8

    @kkking.8

    3 жыл бұрын

    Talim ki kami or islam se dori ka nateja hy ..k girl ko aik janwar ki tarhan kisi bhi khonthy se band do wo kuch nahe kehti ..or dosri side ager larki zahen ho or apni zahanat se tehzeb main rehty howy bhi bat karny ka hunar janti ho toh kuch sharpasand uoratin he khandan main us ko ye bol kar badnam kar deti hain k bhi falan ki larki ki toh zaban tez hy us se reshta mat karna ..

  • @sameeribnmuhamedabushaza3730

    @sameeribnmuhamedabushaza3730

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love u dear

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd7843 жыл бұрын

    We males are powerfull not to dominate females we r power to full fill our responsibilities as a human

  • @filesnoor6128

    @filesnoor6128

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @adeelhussain5214
    @adeelhussain5214Ай бұрын

    JAZAK ALLAH O KHAIRAN KASIRA

  • @turabmir6346
    @turabmir63462 жыл бұрын

    Lekin agar wife husband alag hojay tu bachon ko kia hoga mother ke pass rehny den ya father ke pass?

  • @Awaz-e-Ummat

    @Awaz-e-Ummat

    6 ай бұрын

    Agar orat ko dusri shadi karni ho or esa ho jaye ki orat ko bachon ko Nana Nani ke pass chorna pade to is se behtar he ki bachon ko uske baap ke pass rakha jaye...

  • @nareshkumar-ep2oi
    @nareshkumar-ep2oi3 жыл бұрын

    Nice thinking 🙏🙏👌

  • @MaryAngel361
    @MaryAngel3613 жыл бұрын

    plz sir single mother parenting k liye guide karde jb father non serious ho to mother kaise deal kare husband ko k woh bachon ki tarbiyat sahi tarah kar sake

  • @funnyclips660

    @funnyclips660

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kon sa father apnai bachai kai liyai non serious hota hai 😑😑😑 Yai kab hogiya???????

  • @nasrinansary24

    @nasrinansary24

    3 жыл бұрын

    I also need these topic

  • @doctoronline5501

    @doctoronline5501

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kindly ap log kids ko ziada time dady so that child cannot develep autism ... Second you should yourself busy with ur kids and motivate yourself always .. Be brave enough to handle all these hurdles ... Dr junaid from peshawar waiting for someone to marry me too 🤣

  • @pakistannowthen916
    @pakistannowthen9163 жыл бұрын

    Divorcee girl is more difficult to handle. Although one should learn how to handle her. Aap ne khud agar ek divorcee se shadi nahi ki tou aap ko is bat ka andaza hi nahi.

  • @bpp827

    @bpp827

    Жыл бұрын

    What about divorced men...😂😂 galti men ki bhi ho sakti hai .. divorce Dene me...har jagah aurto ki galti nahi hoti..

  • @munazzamano
    @munazzamano3 жыл бұрын

    Koi change nai aaya na aaye ga talaq shuda se shadi aaj bhi log krna mayoob samjhty hain talaq ki stamp uski pori zindgi lagi rehti hy phir koi bachon wala hi karay to karay otherwise logon k zehen qabool hi nai krty k unk bety ki shadi divorced se ho it's fact 😑

  • @x2diaries506

    @x2diaries506

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think we need to revise our minds and promote this video. If I got chance I shall marry with the widow.

  • @waqad3063

    @waqad3063

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@x2diaries506 nice thinking 👍

  • @x2diaries506

    @x2diaries506

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@waqad3063 The marriage is simplest by all means but our society makes it so difficult and extra-marital relationships are seams easy and very common in our society. So I think If I could able to contribute I definelty will do.

  • @hadiyaaslam5461

    @hadiyaaslam5461

    3 жыл бұрын

    apny bilkul thk kaha divorced women ki koi apni zaat ni rehti koi kuch ni samjta kum hi next luck se acha gar or life partner milta

  • @hadiyaaslam5461

    @hadiyaaslam5461

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@x2diaries506 good thinking bro buhat ajar mily ga

  • @awkallinbox2100
    @awkallinbox21003 жыл бұрын

    Every one is hero own his valley

  • @aneeraraheem6022
    @aneeraraheem60223 жыл бұрын

    Meri b divorce Hui thi meri shadi phr hui us shakhs k eak beti hai woh b 16 saal k or usk bivi mar chuki hai mera is shadi c eak beta hai or meri bht larie hoti plz main bht preshan hun

  • @mrsazar5826

    @mrsazar5826

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pyari behna ap apas me larai ki jo bhi wajah hy ap usey khatam kr den Jin baton pr larai hoti hy un baton ko na honey den, agar shohar kuch bura keh den to ignore kr den Aur apney mizaj me narmi rakhen dil ko bra rakhen , Jb shohar gussa kren to kabhi jawab na den palat kr, balky ya Azeezu ka wird kr k khud pr dam kr len ,shohar ki pehli beti ko boht muhabbat den ye Soch kr k ye Allah ki makhlook hy aur ap usey Allah k liye maa ki trah pyar den, kbhi dono bachon me koi farq na kren,apka beta bhi ay aulad shohar aur bv me lakh ikhtilafat hon phir bhi inky rishtey ko mazboot bna deti hy, Allah pr bharosa rakhen,ghr basaney k liye boht mehnat krni hogi behna, bilkul wese hi jese Kisan beej bony se le kr fasal katney tak krta hy , baki namaz k Sath Sath hr wqt ya Wadoodu ka wird krti raha kren aur Allah se dua kren k Allah ap dono ke dil me aik Dorsey k liye muhabbat dal de. Ye dilon azmooda hy ap zaroor krna ,parh kr khud pr aur shohar pr dam kr den, shohar k ilamat jis se bhi larai rehti hy is k Sath bhi kr sakti Hyn bas niyyat saf Joni chahiye Baki choti choti baten ignore kr diye kren dil preshan ho to quran pak ko tarjuma k Sath parhen khud ko busy rakhen, hat hal me Allah ka shukr ada kren aur sadqa Allah ki kisi bhi makhlooq ko zaroor kia kren Allah apke hr kam ko Asan kr de ga in Sha Allah.

  • @saadawan589

    @saadawan589

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aneera talk to me

  • @aneeraraheem6022

    @aneeraraheem6022

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@saadawan589 g

  • @aneeraraheem6022

    @aneeraraheem6022

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mrsazar5826 kya apka koi sutela bacha hai yah bachi jis c shadi hui unk bivi zinda hai k mar gai

  • @kingshan7635

    @kingshan7635

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nimaz aur sabr sy duya kia krain hum b ap ky ley krain gay zror

  • @ShaikhShah-ip4ms
    @ShaikhShah-ip4msАй бұрын

    Shaukat 😊 my husband Log kahte hai ki mai lucky hun mujhe Shaukat jaisa shohar mile unmarried rahte hue mujh jaisi khula talaq shuda se shadi ki mai khud ko duniya ki sab se khush naseeb aurt manne lagi thi alhamdulilah hame ek beti bhi hai Khush naseeb aurat to wo hoti hai jiska shohar usse razi ho khush ho afsos mai khush naseeb aurton me se nahi😢 Dua ki darkhwast app sabhi se mujhe apne shohar ki ladki bivi banna hai mai used hun to ban nahi sakti 😢😢😢😢😢 sirf ek bar wo mujh se kahe meri pyari bivi dua ki darkhwast

  • @bilqueeskhalil9900
    @bilqueeskhalil990013 күн бұрын

    Aslam o elekum sir after my divorce ibeg my father for divorce after all come changes five times prayersThajjud israaq determine to iam right. Eith my prayers Islah dua alla convert all problem crises Hidayat yafta but still alone ithink you remember my problem old age mother Bilquis Khalil Feroza khalil Thanks

  • @guriag4579
    @guriag45793 жыл бұрын

    Kehne ki baten hain koi nai pochta talaq yafta ko ,koi nai pochta k waja kia thi ilzam aurat ko hi dety hain..maa baap is ghum main dunya se rukhsat ho jaty hain...kitni zindagiyan tabah ho jati hain...

  • @raqeebabbasi448

    @raqeebabbasi448

    3 жыл бұрын

    ab asa b nai

  • @akramarain6214

    @akramarain6214

    3 жыл бұрын

    asi bat ni

  • @deepdreamz6710

    @deepdreamz6710

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aisa hi hy theek kaha

  • @hijamacuppingtherapyinmeer251

    @hijamacuppingtherapyinmeer251

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kanha se ho aap Apna photo bhejiye is Whatsup nmbr pr hum aapki Shaadi karwaaynge inshaallah 7830925711

  • @hijamacuppingtherapyinmeer251

    @hijamacuppingtherapyinmeer251

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hamza Khan meerut up

  • @dirikkhan2878
    @dirikkhan28783 жыл бұрын

    very true now boys are considering divorced woman more than unmarried girls. also they are more towards older woman I don't know why. May be its good too but like this unmarried young girls are sitting at home which is also not good on the other side

  • @NoorKhan-tz2hg
    @NoorKhan-tz2hg3 жыл бұрын

    Sir mare b tahlaq hui hy AJ se 15 sal hu gy hn beta b 15 sal Ka Hy Zindagi buhut mushkill Hy koe gar asra b ni us admi ne 15 sal se kharcha b ni data bate ki waja 2ri shadi b ni koe asra ni dar badar hn

  • @btspakistan6821

    @btspakistan6821

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sister aub law bohat sakht hen ap adalat jyen adalat ap ko 15 sal ka kharcha ly ky dy gi ap ko himmat kurni ho hi ik dafa court chli gai to adalat ap ko us ki property sale kur ky kharcha ly ky dy gi

  • @cooking-scope

    @cooking-scope

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@btspakistan6821 adalat k chakkar Aur kahi Saal lag janay hen Aur paisa b lag jata he lekkin insaaf koye nhi

  • @kingshan7635

    @kingshan7635

    3 жыл бұрын

    Apnkaha sy hain ? Can we talk some if you serious???

  • @RajaShoaib-pz7du
    @RajaShoaib-pz7du27 күн бұрын

    Assalam o Alaikum sir mri pehli shadi hui thi Mgr affsos kamyab nhi hui ubi dosri shadi divorced or yateem larki k sth kr rha hun unka 1 bacha b h kya m us bachyn ko apne sth rakh skhta hun

  • @Yousafmadnihost
    @Yousafmadnihost3 жыл бұрын

    ڈاکٹر صاحب دی گرئٹ ۔ زبردست ۔ ماشاء الله

  • @hadditv5749
    @hadditv57493 жыл бұрын

    Best teacher 👍👍👍

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN683 жыл бұрын

    Western people including the ladies accept us as equal humans regardless of our religion, race, caste, sub caste, ethnicity, sect, financial and social status, our parents education and profession, etc. Maybe i will get hate and curses for speaking the truth. I used to post for matrimonial for myself, and used to write the fact that i am alone, and i used to get so many hate and curse comments telling me i don't have a right to get married, just because i am alone! What kind of tradition is this? Pakistanis do the world's strictest investigations for marriage, they have the most difficult rules and criteria for selection, yet divorce rate is one of the highest in the world! So despite such strict rules and investigations and interviews they get divorced, so what is the use of such hard selection criteria? And what difference does it make if someone is alone?

  • @CravingEats
    @CravingEatsАй бұрын

    I m ready to get marry a divorced or a widowed women. M living in Dubai.. Please comment for details..

  • @12345jamilful
    @12345jamilful3 жыл бұрын

    محترم ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ میری بات سے ناراض نہ ہوجائیں . لیکن پہلے مغرب اورر اس کی معاشرت کو پڑھ لیں مسلم عبد ھے اور عبد غلام ہوتا ھے اس کی اپنی کوئی مرضی نہیں ہوتی وہ ہر معملے میں اتباع کرتا ھے ہم بلکل آزاد نہیں ھیں کسی بھی ڈومین میں

  • @shamimrawish9552
    @shamimrawish95523 жыл бұрын

    Beve mn k ghar gaee ho to Parosan aa ja ay, lekin Hum office jain to Beve k Cousin ka aana bhee , hamy bardast nahee kuja k Parosee mard akaila ho aur hamareee usk ghar sy nikly, ye hi Seedhee bat. Hum kisy dhoka dy rahy hn, hum us mashreqe moaashry mn rah rahy hn jahan hum samajhty hi Souraj Magrib sy nikalta hi.

  • @rabiatariq2550
    @rabiatariq25503 жыл бұрын

    Sir.... Ap councling k liye time dyte hyn?

  • @ameerullahbrohi7954
    @ameerullahbrohi79543 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah every topic is related with islam amazing

  • @syedayaan5937
    @syedayaan59373 жыл бұрын

    ❤ from Kashmir

  • @bedowntoearth1591

    @bedowntoearth1591

    2 жыл бұрын

    I m also divorcee coz my husband is drug addictive

  • @zebakhan1421
    @zebakhan14213 жыл бұрын

    Aslamualikum sir ap ne bht ache bat ki Allah taala sb logo m ap jese khayalaat ki hidayat de ap ki soch bht achi h

  • @sohelkhan-ry9ld

    @sohelkhan-ry9ld

    3 жыл бұрын

    asslamualaikum

  • @zarqarif3070

    @zarqarif3070

    3 жыл бұрын

    R u married

  • @sohelkhan-ry9ld

    @sohelkhan-ry9ld

    3 жыл бұрын

    ha

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN683 жыл бұрын

    Sir agar Pakistani divorced will lower her extremely materialistic demands, stop judging everyone negatively, she will definaly be able to get married. At least in western cultures the women don't sell themselves. By the way, anti-depressants and alcohol consumption is very very high here too.

  • @iJagraho
    @iJagraho Жыл бұрын

    پروفسسر صاحب آپ بھی آدھا تیتر اور آدھا بٹیر ہیں - آپ کا علم اور عمل دونوں !!

  • @x2diaries506
    @x2diaries5063 жыл бұрын

    Sir 2nd marriage pr bhi ek vlog krain kindly.

  • @user-qn2fp8nj3x
    @user-qn2fp8nj3x7 ай бұрын

    Very informative and nice 🎉

  • @Kashi-Bajwa
    @Kashi-Bajwa3 жыл бұрын

    Har insan ajkal apni taraf se speaker bana phirta hai

  • @nmdnmd8306
    @nmdnmd83063 жыл бұрын

    What's the meaning of fardh can someone plz translate for me.

  • @umbernausheen62

    @umbernausheen62

    3 жыл бұрын

    Individual human being.

  • @nmdnmd8306

    @nmdnmd8306

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@umbernausheen62 👍

  • @syedahsinmustafa5177

    @syedahsinmustafa5177

    3 жыл бұрын

    Single person,

  • @faheem.ulhaq.siddiqui
    @faheem.ulhaq.siddiqui3 жыл бұрын

    Zabardast baatain.

  • @syedkalimullah2011
    @syedkalimullah20113 жыл бұрын

    Girls k Divorced bawt hoo rah ha ajkal ... Magr Boys divorced girls sy shadi nae karty Reason parent ha No permission :( ALLAH Hum sub ko Hadyath de Allah Sub girls ki shadi Karya Ameen

  • @mehnazhassan3587
    @mehnazhassan35873 жыл бұрын

    Nice words

  • @amks...9423
    @amks...94232 жыл бұрын

    Agar aisa hota to last prophet of islam pbuh baaki 10 shaadiyan widows se kyun kiye? is mein solution hai ya nhi jab hum janenge tab to???

  • @naeemkhan1951
    @naeemkhan19513 жыл бұрын

    Janab dr. sahib West is not all Azad ,Here in uk citizens are living under thousands of rules and regulations and most people obey and respect these and any body who doesnt gets punished.There is no safaresh.

  • @ziaulislam8502
    @ziaulislam85023 жыл бұрын

    Ma to krna chahta ho magar koi mel nhi rahi

  • @ishankhullar3295
    @ishankhullar32953 жыл бұрын

    Sir, Eid Mubarak. I want to watch one of your videos, I searched that video but could not find that one. I need link for that video. In that video you are taking about ethics and morality and you are giving the example of a poor man and a staff member of a hospital. The poor man is asking whether I should get the operation done in your costly hospital or a little cheaper another hospital. I need link of one more video in which you said that Character is what you are when no one is seeing you. Best regards

  • @ishankhullar3295

    @ishankhullar3295

    3 жыл бұрын

    Correction: you are talking about....

  • @razashah7881
    @razashah78813 жыл бұрын

    Sir, pehli bat to ye hey k me is topic par aap sey mzeed detail chahta hun, or isey mzeed asaan ilfaz me samjhaen k is amal ko ham kis tarha aagey barhaen? 2nd: me aksar aik jumla qoute karta hun. "almiya ye nahi k new generation khraab ho rahi hey, balkey musibat ye hey k aaney wali generations ko khraab waldain milengey" is bat ka hzaaron pehlu nikal saktey hen,, lakin me ney ye bat kis context me kahi? Sir, me apney halqa e ehbaab me apney doston ko chand cheezon par kafi arsey sey qael kar raha hun jis ki is muashrey ko ashad zroorat hey jis me especially jahaiz na lena ya usey jitna ho sakey minimze karna, aik acha husband kesey ban'na hey, or shadi k bad wali life me halaat ko kesey sambhaalna hey, chotey motey kamon me bivi ki help karna, usko respect dena, or uska har tarha sey khyal rakhna (bad qismati sey jisey jahil log "ran mureedi kehtey hen) or jis thumbnail ko dekh kar me ne is video par click kiya yani aik tlaaq yafta, ya aik ghreeb larki sey shadi karna ye sari cheezen me apney doston sey aksar okat discuss karta hun, new generation ye sab kuch karna chahti hey,, lakin Sir, bohat mazrat k sath hmarey parents ka woi purana mind set,, uskey hathon majboor hojatey hen ham log. hamari ye dili khwahish hey, or awaleen tarjeeh hey k ham aik hlaal rishtey me zroorat mand larkiyon ka sahara banen.. lakin ham apney parents ko kesey qael karen ko wo hamen is bat ki ijazat den or un sey nafrat na karen.

  • @waqasali8675

    @waqasali8675

    3 жыл бұрын

    me b jan'na chahti hu agr koi solutions mily to btana mjhy aur aisi girl jisko 2 time divorce hue ho uska kya future is society me yh b btana

  • @razashah7881

    @razashah7881

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@waqasali8675 dekhen, punjabi me aik misaal di jati hey shyed aapney suni ho "so hath rassa tey ak hath gadd" agar at the end, fesla hmarey parents ney hi karna hey to hmari apni soch gai pahaar me. ham jitna bhi acha soch len, agar hmarey parents ney hi purney mind set me phsey rehna hey hmesha, to phir hmara sochna kafi had tak besood ho jata hey, to just us waqt impliment ho sakta hey jab hmarey bachey hongey or ham unko is tarha ki tarbiyat dengey, jo filwaqt halaat chal rahey hen wo sabhi jaantey hen k aik tlaak yafta larki ki muashrey me koi izzat nahi hoti, wo dhutkari hui hoti hey, old mind set sey hmarey baron me achayyon k sath sath bohat sari khraabiyan bhi grab ki hen, jo k abhi tak sath chalti aa rahi hen. hamarey parents just logic ko hi dekh len to msaael hal ho saktey hen. lakin wo esa nahi kartey, wo dunya dari ko dekhtey hen or hinduana rasm o riwaaj jo dekhtey hen. agar baghor dekha jaey to esi community zulm ka sath de rahi hoti hey chahey phir unko pta ho ya na. bohat sari majbooriyan ham ney aaj k doar me bilawja bna rakhi hen, or sab sey bari baat k log kya kahengey. agar me apney barey me kuch kahon to wo ye hey, k me kam az kam apney bachon ko ye bat zroor samjhonga "Love for someone's heart, not their Wealth. A good Heart is bigger than anything."

  • @waqasali8675

    @waqasali8675

    3 жыл бұрын

    do u have instagram or fb account mjhy kuch bt krni hai in detail if you don't mind

  • @ZubairKhan-ex2si
    @ZubairKhan-ex2si3 жыл бұрын

    Assalam o alaikum, sir aap understand to ache se karte ho, but aap ki jo topic hoti hai usko aap ghuma dete ho phir concept clear nahi ho pati hai❓❓❓❓

  • @ayyaz9803
    @ayyaz98033 жыл бұрын

    Ye meri khuwish h k mai tallaq shuda larki se shadi kru

  • @minsaladiestailoring

    @minsaladiestailoring

    3 жыл бұрын

    I want talk to you

  • @luckyboy3939

    @luckyboy3939

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mare be

  • @minsaladiestailoring

    @minsaladiestailoring

    3 жыл бұрын

    Karachi

  • @waqad3063

    @waqad3063

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too !

  • @Abrar20121

    @Abrar20121

    3 жыл бұрын

    Meri bi

  • @SalmanQureshi-sh3mc
    @SalmanQureshi-sh3mc Жыл бұрын

    سر میں آپ کے لیکچرز سے بہت فائدہ اٹھاتا ہوں۔ لیکن طلاق سے متعلق آپ کے اس لیکچر کے اس حصہ سے متفق نہیں ہوں کہ طلاق عورت کو حقوق نہ ملنے کی وجہ سے ہوتی ہے۔ یہ بھی ایک وجہ تو ضرور ہو سکتی ہے تاہم زیادہ تر خواتین کی طلاق کی وجہ اپنے حقوق کے بارے میں مطلوبہ حد سے زیادہ حساس ہونے کی وجہ سے ہوتی ہے۔ ابھی تک آپ کے سنے گئے لیکچرز میں سے یہ واحد لیکچر ہے جس سے جزوی اختلاف کیا ہے۔

  • @ataullahkhan3306
    @ataullahkhan3306 Жыл бұрын

    Hum Allah se dua kren Allah talak yafta ka dard nhi dekh sakta bhejega Apna Naik banda uske dil mei Mohabbat dalkr ☝🏼💞 Allah sabki dilon se milaye naik

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd7843 жыл бұрын

    We humans are still like animals in a sense males are powerfull they dominate opoostie gender ...... We all males come out of women we should respect every human irrespect of gender color age etc

  • @urduwazaifchannel
    @urduwazaifchannel3 жыл бұрын

    Great lecture......Jazakallah dr sb

  • @naseeruddinkarnataka9981
    @naseeruddinkarnataka99813 жыл бұрын

    Jahan Shohar acha hota hai wahan bivi Haraami hoti hai aur Jahan bivi achi hoti hai wahan shohar Haraami hota hai.fir kaise bhala jeendagi me sukun mile.hargis nahi Mein to Har Namaaz me duva karta hun Har Haraami Aurat aur Haraami mard allah kisiki bivi aur kisika mard Na banaaye.aameen.

  • @lubnaawan3300
    @lubnaawan33003 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @sabahatansari4335
    @sabahatansari43353 жыл бұрын

    Amazing

  • @salehfaraj7546
    @salehfaraj75463 жыл бұрын

    muhtarama sir ko bat complete karny du

  • @umerhayat1590
    @umerhayat15905 ай бұрын

    Kash ke ulma bevao or talaq yafta ke hq me baat krein

  • @nabeelahmed5738
    @nabeelahmed57382 жыл бұрын

    Im also looking forward that kinda women insha Allah

  • @samanali4418
    @samanali44183 жыл бұрын

    Mere apne maamu mumani ne apne bete ko mujhse shadi karne se sakht mana kardia as i was divorcee

  • @fahadsayed6104

    @fahadsayed6104

    3 жыл бұрын

    Insha Allah Allah bless you great care taking husband don't worry leave things to The All Mighty Allah

  • @zaimarasheed5203
    @zaimarasheed52033 жыл бұрын

    Plz make a video about that kind of persons who continue their past relationship after marriage..... What should she do and don't

  • @rizwanahmed5228

    @rizwanahmed5228

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good topic

  • @ibrahimmd4369
    @ibrahimmd43693 жыл бұрын

    Garib Larky sy Shaadi par ek video banaye please. Kya Ek Amir Larki Garib Larky sy Shaadi kyon nahi kar sakty Aap Sirf Ek tarfa baat kyon karte hai Janab

  • @abdulsamadshaikh3696
    @abdulsamadshaikh36963 жыл бұрын

    How woman suitable , for second marriage. No shyness, No hesitation. One time marriage is enough...

  • @bpp827

    @bpp827

    Жыл бұрын

    Men do char biwi la de wo enough hai..😂😂

  • @Fal01100
    @Fal011003 жыл бұрын

    kindly sitting posture descent karain ...side se bhut ajeeb sa lag rha ha....

  • @saleemtobe-fit1533
    @saleemtobe-fit15333 жыл бұрын

    Excellent

  • @drizzle786
    @drizzle7863 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @MianAwais-jv9ru
    @MianAwais-jv9ru3 ай бұрын

    Ok

  • @amnasultan2462
    @amnasultan24623 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah sach haq baat bolte hai

  • @bab3003
    @bab30033 жыл бұрын

    ماشاءاللہ ڈاکٹر صاحب

  • @mujahidahmed2639
    @mujahidahmed26392 жыл бұрын

    Dear friends, I like a girl who is divorce & I want to do nikah with her but my parents are agreeing for it . Could you please suggest me how to make them agree pls comment

  • @movieshots790
    @movieshots7903 жыл бұрын

    Dr Saab think about ur junior Drs...raise voice against private medical colleges...I think you urself running a private medical college...

  • @muhammadhamid1961
    @muhammadhamid196110 ай бұрын

    Nice video lekin ye jo. Larki bich me bol bol k disturb krdya or sara tempo tordya... Sir smjha rhe he or wo tang krhi

  • @m.umairgani82
    @m.umairgani823 жыл бұрын

    Sir apse contact kaise ho skta hai

  • @ahsanshahab7462
    @ahsanshahab74623 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah ❤️

  • @ahsanshahab7462

    @ahsanshahab7462

    3 жыл бұрын

    🌸

  • @kingshan7635
    @kingshan76353 жыл бұрын

    Main zror kr ga aisa krny ki agr koi achi divorced girl....

  • @MrIrshadashrafi
    @MrIrshadashrafi3 жыл бұрын

    Sir Assalam alaikum...A question related to marriages among cousins is lingering in my mind for long. Do children born out of these marriages become genetically inferior?? Please shed some light on this too... Regards

  • @ijazkhan-gx9ip
    @ijazkhan-gx9ip3 жыл бұрын

    I think bill was only promote the devorce .that is resiion of his Devorce .

  • @syedahmed6688
    @syedahmed66883 жыл бұрын

    Really I like your each & every video very informative & interesting thanks a lot I wish could meet you personally Syed suhail ahmed New Delhi India

  • @awkallinbox2100
    @awkallinbox21003 жыл бұрын

    Don't be a jack of all trade live within your area

  • @muhammadijazghallu2507
    @muhammadijazghallu25073 жыл бұрын

    I want to marry a divorced or widow

  • @ayeshakhan7774
    @ayeshakhan77742 жыл бұрын

    Sir!! Mujhy divorced hoi m itni depressed nae hoi thi.. Usk bad jo rishty aa re ... oar people ka jo rawayaa hai wo mujhy buht depressed kr raha hai ...

  • @sanast4955

    @sanast4955

    2 жыл бұрын

    22 k thi jb divorced hoi

  • @sanast4955

    @sanast4955

    2 жыл бұрын

    Apko q koi sis .Kya wja bni .. Shadi k kitna time chli. Now again shadi kre age kia h apki

  • @sanast4955

    @sanast4955

    2 жыл бұрын

    4 sal s depression anxiety m h bht roti h husband k yad kr k

  • @onenation1377

    @onenation1377

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sanast4955 qqq ab q yad kartti hn ap husband ko

  • @helloFN68
    @helloFN683 жыл бұрын

    Please focus on the real reasons why women are not able to get married. Why do they ask for transfer of house in their name, monthly salary above 4 lacs, yearly at least one international vacation in competition with their friends just so that they can post WhatsApp status, residence in posh locality, big car, and the too much importance given to caste's, sub-caste, ethnicities, status of family, sects, sub-sect, qualification, profession and income of the man's brothers, sisters, father, mother, uncles, cousins, etc.

  • @basicenglishknowledge3815
    @basicenglishknowledge38153 жыл бұрын

    Good

  • @babarishaque259
    @babarishaque2593 жыл бұрын

    خاتون کی آواز نے بہت زیادہ تنگ کیا ۔

  • @bmujeeb
    @bmujeeb3 жыл бұрын

    He called me a monkey 😂 I have married my Mamoon ki Beti

  • @smiles4you142

    @smiles4you142

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ab Jo hona tha ho gaya... But ab un ka khayal rakhna....... Allah ko jawab dayna hai ♥️

  • @afreenbutt7647
    @afreenbutt76473 жыл бұрын

    Come to point question ka answer to reh gya

  • @kingshan7635

    @kingshan7635

    3 жыл бұрын

    G???

  • @kkking.8

    @kkking.8

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kon sa point reh gaeya

  • @syedzaidi6241
    @syedzaidi62413 жыл бұрын

    Things are Changing But it will take time We are in Transition force See Mandela sign a Contact with British That the same system will continue for 50 years I personally observe during my Stay in Pakistan that Punjab and Is Almost 50 years Ahead than Karachi Their Train System Bus System under Ground Railway Metro Bus are much much Ahead and has Civic System The train and Bus Station are Neat and Clean So PTI Govt is really Delivering God Bless Pakistan

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