What is a Narcissist ? How to point him out ? How to handle?
Summary of Narcissism . Explained by Dr Javed Iqbal
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Narcissist don't accept their faults never change 😢
jazakAllah Dr Saheb, for very brief but deep talk on Narcissism. Every household is suffering from it and we are seeing it growing in our surroundings and creeping in ourselves😢, it's sooooo subtle in our own elves that we all need self reflection daily as you said Alhumdulilah. Keep talking about it and asking Allah to protect us from sharr of evil people.Ameen
@sadaftipu9351
2 күн бұрын
Plzzz is baray main detail say patain kay asay loogoo say kasay bChay kiyoon kay zada taar ye Pakistani mard walay mard,kaam bi nahi kartay hai.😢😢😢
Sadly, they are in every family
Don’t believe his words, instead see his behaviour. Never get validation from him. Thanks Doc. For these golden words Got them a bit late 😢 But big thanks 🙏🏻
Pehli dafa kissi ne urdu mein itni jamia wazahat dee hai. Assalam O Alaikum. JazakAllah khair bhai.
He criticise on my faith , my work , my parents , my actions.Even my sabr my eman. Everything . It seems i have everything worst.
@farihanaaz644
6 күн бұрын
U r not alone.....every woman....is in this....
@javsadiasadia8434
4 күн бұрын
May Allah SWT protect u from his bad behavior.Aamen summa aameen 🤲🏻
@nabillaazhar2358
4 күн бұрын
May Allah protect u.ameen
@shamsakanwal5722
4 күн бұрын
Count me in, My partner is also like that.😂
@HuzaifaAdeel-z8k
4 күн бұрын
Same here😢
Narcissists r cheap and disgusting at the same time 😅
Narcissist so much more than that they eat your spirit day and night for decades im narcissistic abuse survivor and I don’t what life is what is respect what is self what is worth nothing I was like a zombie whole life
summery: Narcissist personality types, 1.gradual type: no empathy 2.Malignant type: they causes harm to others[and also involved in criminal activities] difference b/w psychopath and Malignant ,psychopath never feel pity but Malignant narcissist do feel sometime 3.Coward type: they seems normal but ..they always blame 4.communal type: they do very good deeds to be admired they are socially active and they don't care of people these are psychological disorders precautions: 1. admit they are not gonna change 2. don't take it personally even if they insult you or commend you 3.don;t believe on their words believe on their behavior and actions 4.don't validate yourself your feelings to them and if you are a narcissist : 1. self reflection 2.enhance your capacity 4. consult a psychiatrist ..
@Nishu-zj7wd
8 күн бұрын
Bahut ache summary. Little correction 3 is Covert not coward
@LittleTweetyOf3
7 күн бұрын
1 is Grandeur
It is very easy to point out narcissistic personalities. Someone with a narcissistic personality tends to focus excessively on themselves, seeks constant admiration, lacks empathy for others, and may exploit people to achieve their own goals. They often believe they are superior and entitled to special treatment.
The definition of narcissism extends beyond just the traits commonly mentioned. In many cultures, including ours, parents and husbands can exhibit narcissistic behaviors. These individuals often present themselves differently in public, appearing charming and considerate, but their true nature can be harmful behind closed doors. Only those who have experienced their true colors can understand the duality of their behavior. They can be loving and angelic at times, but often, their actions reveal a more manipulative and controlling side, akin to devils. This dynamic can be incredibly challenging for those on the receiving end.
@lol-qu6lq
2 күн бұрын
How to change oneself if he has narcissistic person😢
اسلام علیکم سرجی ، اللّٰہ آپ کے علم میں اضافہ فرمائے آمین ۔ 🌙🌹⭐
Allah pak apki umar main brkt ata farmae
jazakAllah Dr. Sahab. Apne hmari zindgi asaan krdi. Allah apko asaanian ata farmaae. Sehat e kaamila k Sath lambi zindgi ataa farmaae. Salaamat rahain abaad rahain Allah ki amaan main rahain. Ameen sm Ameen 🤲🥀
Most awaited topic from you Sir. I am stucked in job with this kind of boss. And in very much depression. I need ways to deal with them.
Sirf pls share , talk more on this, we are having big challenges to face this syndrome...
I know my husband is Narcissist. It has been 18 years. Short tempered, aggressive. Loves himself. Nothing matters whats going on. What are my needs , how i can breath, where is my happiness burried
@mariaadeel5997
8 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry for you.. my mother in law is a narc. Made my life hell! Still is!
@arshia769
7 күн бұрын
90% are male like this
@madihamalik4368
6 күн бұрын
All love for u... I m living in this environment for 8 years...
@shahnazbi8346
5 күн бұрын
I was married to a covert narcissist for 31 years until he died of stage 4 cancer of the brain. He made mine and the children's lives miserable. It wasn't until after he died that I found out he was suffering from a mental illness. All those years I thought I was the problem. I thought it was my fault that I couldn't make him happy. In those 31 years he lied manipulated and cheated on me with women and men. What can you do you have to play the cards Allah Rub-ul Izaat delte you in life 😢.
@xakkfaizi1343
5 күн бұрын
sad...
Very good points...especially on how to deal with narcissists. Jazakallah kher
I used to live with a narcissist room mate. Initially, it was very difficult to deal with the brother on daily basis but as time went by our relationship improved. I used to give him dawah and engaged him in positive discussion on praying, and faith went well Alhamdullelah. One thing i noticed his mood used to often change at one point he was aggressive other time he was jolly. Very unpredictive May Allah give us patience.
Him, her and them. I've been dealing with whole narcissists family atm Parents and kids are alike. There is no way turn around the narcissists. From spending money to reasoning nothing going to work with them nothing has worked Me me me Pathological liar/cheats Aggression/abuse Zero empathy Manipulation On repeat These are all linked together.
Jazak Allah hu khair sir is topic Pakistan m pahli bar every aspects sa apny dicuss kia ha.... Is topic ko m kab sa western aspects sa sun ree ho.. but mughy apni society k according proper way m khabi knowledge ni mila.... Specialy apny jo handling k ways discuss kia ha.. self analysis kaisy kia jay... Bohat duay sir ap k ly.. aisy laga ha demagh ki guthi sulajh gae ha... Allah apki any wali naslo m khair rakhy or shar sa mehfooz rakhy... Aik beti ki taraf sa bohat duy ha apky lay...
I have been looking for Narcissism explanation in Urdu. thanks for the video
Assalamualekum sir I'm from up India 🇮🇳 plzz make a video on nihilism also U R doing great work Allah aapki umar me barkat farmay ❤
Asan alfaz mey bohot achchi wazahat ki hey Dr Sahib ney
Amazing ,excellent Sir❤❤
JazakAllah for giving this awareness, actually we all come into contact with such personalities in our lives, but in fact hav no idea of dealing with them, this post of yours is v helpful,may Allah bless u with health and afiat.ameen
Yes they only care for themselves. They used to be happy at your expense without acknowledging that you r paying your own emotions, happiness even material things for their happiness. Cheaters and liars they are. Will gaslight you if you point them out..etc etc. Dr. Sb you explained it very well. But practically survival is very hard in this kind of relationship... Actually thats not a relationship but becomes a situationship where you have to fix all their nasty acts just for the survival of the family.😢
بہت ہی اچھی باتیں بتائیں ہیں جناب ❤❤❤
Knowledgeable video❤
JazakaAllah sir, may Allah give you a good healthy life. It means every second person in our country seems to be some type of narcissist. I was also a narcissist in some way but didn't know about it till I found this video 😂
Dr.sahab very nice lecture
بہت خوب معلومات ۔۔۔ جزاکم الله خیرا کثیرا ۔ بارکم اللّٰه فیکم ۔۔۔
JazakAllah kher dr sb
یہ لا علاج مرض ہے.. بنیاد بچپن میں ہی مضبوطی سے پڑ چکی ہوتی ہے.
Wah. JazakAllah
Yes i know it,.... My mom is a 1. Narcissist 2. Almond mom 3. Trauma centric But a super mom 😢
Jazakumullah Khairan Kaseera for the video.
I’m married to a narcissist have four kids together it’s been 18 years now I realize what I always felt was not my fault I feel like I can’t handle anymore crap from him but feel like nowhere else to go
@naeemaahmad8215
Күн бұрын
They always keep you under pressure so you lose all your confidence, your sense of direction, your decision power. In the end you are left with your confused self.
جزاک اللہ خیراً کثیرا ڈاکٹر صاحب 🎉
Inspired from lectures of Dr Ramani Durvasula, an American clinical psychologist and an expert on Narcissistic personality disorder.
@rakhshizafar9610
9 күн бұрын
Indian phycologist shriyut anand ki video bhi dekhen
Make more videos on narcissism and how to get out of narcissist abusive relationship
@rakhshizafar9610
9 күн бұрын
Indian phycologist shriyut anand ki video dekhen buhat help mile gi
JazakAllah o khairan kaseera
بہترین ویڈیو ہے ۔سلامت رہیں ۔
Narcissist are weak people in control of their hamzad,we are born with 2 angels one who guides to do good and the one who wants to destroy us in front of Allah by doing bad deeds . We don’t understand that we are being tested similarly as iblis to see what we choose . Hamaray under Jin hain aur ham bahir dhodhtay hain.
JazakiAllah khair
Jazakumulah Khair kaseera
Khush rahen sir
JazakAllah khair sir
Behatrin presentation. Shukriya doctor sahib.
MashAallaha JazakAallaha khair sir may Aallaha tala bless you and your family members and your team keep it up ❤❤❤
Jazaka Allah.... Very very informative video.. thank u so much
It's really helpful.
Jazak Allah khair, very well explained May Allah bless you very good health
Very well explained.Thank you.
JazakAllah
Dr. Sab mai kafi arsy sy kuch relatives ky narcisist hony ki waja sy takleef mai tha ... Lekin apki tips boht real or practical hain... Or mujhe sunty hi boht sukoon mila or agy jab mai in py amal karu ga to mery liey boht asani hogi... Allah apko boht jzae khair dey.❤
Very nice message.
Very nice Sir. This information is sadqa E jaria .Allah bless you.
So amazing ❤
Well explained. Thankyou sir.
Bohat khoob 👏🏻 Salamat rahein 🤲🏼
Thanks for making a detailed video on narcissism.
Thank you Sir 🎉. Your videos are very educational and balanced
اقبال کا یہ شعر، “ ہزاروں سال نرگس اپنی بے نوری پر روتی ہے” کا تعلق کس حد تک نرگسیت سے ؟
JazakAllah 🙏
Jazak Allah
Jazak Allah .
Thanks for this information
VERY NICE VERY MUCH HELPFUL VIDEO THANKYOU ALLAH BLESS YOU STAY BLESSED 💕
Full of wisdom ❤
Thank you Dr. Saab. For bringing an important aspect of humans.
Behtareen very informative ...
Doctor sahib you are a good teacher.
Very useful tips...thanku sir
Sir ye aesa topic h is per itni awareness huni chahiye ap logo ki zimadari h iska solution btana be q k Pakistan mai har aurat Narcissist husband k sath zindagi guzar rhi h sadky 😢
@arshia769
7 күн бұрын
Foreign countries m Pakistan s bh bray narcissist paey jaty h r yaha b aurtein sath rehny pr majboor h just becox of kids
@fizazeeshan4478
6 күн бұрын
Sb nahi Hain.
Thanks alot
Very informative 👍
Very well explained sir 👍.solution is great 👍 Allah karay loag samjhain 🙏
Hats off to you sir JazakAllah Khair
Parents are sometime narcissistic
Jzakaallah Dil ki gahri se sukria
Thank you sir.
Incredibly brief
JAZAKALLAH Sir
آپ بھت اچھے انسان ھین
V nicely explained wonderful
Love you Dr Sir ❤️
ماشااللہ
Wonderful sir
Very informative and important.good to hear.. i am subject and object of narcissism somehow.very helpfull
Sir in the start you mentioned that always remember that these people will never ever change and if someone self identifies him or herself what are the chances that they will change . Thanks
Jazakallah
very well explained sir
Well done
nice words❤
Its a very worrisome thing to deal thesedays , our lives made hell unfortunately due to such people in closest relations...i feel if they fear Allah , they will have empathy And i feel narcissists have one feature in common deep inside is lack of Allah's fear ! May Allah swt keep us protected from them , aameen Good eyeopening talk mashallah and plz keep spreading awareness.
@amnahaque9058
3 күн бұрын
That's what I always wonder. If a person had fear of God , why would he hurt others emotionally
Mashallaha "may Allah bless you with good health and happiness in your life AmeensumaAmeen
Good topic
Heart touching vdio😢
Narcisissm. Malignant self love.. a book by Sam Vikkin. A must read for all
@rakhshizafar9610
9 күн бұрын
Har koi English language nhi jant isliye Indian phycologist shriyut anand ki video dekhen buhat help mile gi