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When girls get divorced: |urdu| |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

Discussing an important issue related to a social dilemma of divorce.
#divorcedgirls #divorce

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  • @sarmadmajeed4682
    @sarmadmajeed46822 жыл бұрын

    Aslam u alaikum sir,ap ny es topic py bt ki,bht khub, mashaAllah.. I'm divorced ,6year k bd separation ho gai, bhot sacrifice kia ,apna ghar bachna cha but ....!! But hamari society kisi ki taklif ko ak issue bna deti h😢 .Allah hr behn byti k naseeb bhot achy kry,Allah dushmn ki byti ko b naik bakht kry.ameeen Allahumma ameen

  • @deepdreamz6710

    @deepdreamz6710

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same mere sath b aise hua ap wali story hi lgti hy apki oulad hy?

  • @tanveeranwar9044

    @tanveeranwar9044

    Жыл бұрын

    ALLAH PAK AP KO SBIR DY AMEEN

  • @shahnazali5347

    @shahnazali5347

    4 ай бұрын

    Allah sabar da

  • @RaniKhan-yz7by

    @RaniKhan-yz7by

    Ай бұрын

    Same mery 7 bhi yehi hoa he 4 sal hoaye hen Mujhe

  • @makhdoommujahid975

    @makhdoommujahid975

    Ай бұрын

    Meri shadi ko 6 saal ho gae h Aullad nh ho rae ...tu ab shohar tallaq daina chahty h ...Kiya kro mere liye tu aggy kunwa or peachy khae h 😢😢😢😢

  • @nassrakhan863
    @nassrakhan8633 жыл бұрын

    Your daughters are so lucky to have you as their father.

  • @janemark8452

    @janemark8452

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed

  • @TheRider..

    @TheRider..

    3 жыл бұрын

    آپ بھی اچھا انسان بن کر اپنے پیاروں کے لیئے اچھا ثابت ہو سکتے ہیں۔

  • @ASMR-f1-m4f

    @ASMR-f1-m4f

    3 жыл бұрын

    U not lucky shame on u ... Apna parents ko respect doo .... Shame on u .... Mujhy bhut dukh hota jab koi kahta hai Mera parents Acha NHI yr ap lucky hoo .... Oh Bhai apna parents ko respect doo .... sad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 .... Nonsense stupid ... Ma explain NHI kr Sakta hoo tense ap na Joo likha hai .... please I request u give respect to ur parents ... Ap apna parents ka lia proud banoo na ka shame ....

  • @ZOUQEQALAM

    @ZOUQEQALAM

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely right... Pakistan main shyd. 00001%log b aisay ni Han jo Dr SAHAB ki tarhan sochty hn. Otherwise kisi b divorcey say shadi krna log sharmindagi mehsos krty Han. Or phir koi unmarried male yah khawish kr day to sb say phly usky family members uska boycott krty Han thn usky relatives tanay daitay Han KY unmarried larkian Mar gain theen. Then us insan KY frnds.... Wo krna b chahay to kr ni skta.... As for as a married person wo 2nd krna chahay to 1st one kbi ijazat ni day gi. Agr wo shakhs phir b kr ly to fasad jhgray ky ilawa kuch ni hota..... Yah aik harsh reality hy..

  • @nassrakhan863

    @nassrakhan863

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ZOUQEQALAM I agree with everything you said. I just want to add that it is not easy for a woman to share her husband with another woman. From a woman's point of view it is very hurtful. So it is understandable that a woman won't agree to a husband's second marriage. Just like a man cannot share his wife with another man, a woman can't share her husband either.

  • @anam7993.
    @anam7993.3 жыл бұрын

    Indeed sir.. Hum log bs apne marzi ka deen chun lety hain hum moral ethic values bhul jaty hain. Divorce lene khula lena aik dag ban jata haa. But main samjhti hon k Allah ne sb k leye kuch na kuch acha aur behtreen socha hota ha agr bura waqt aya ha to acha b aye ga bs eman ki mazboti honi chaye.

  • @31saqibali92
    @31saqibali923 жыл бұрын

    ماشاء اللہ! مختصر انداز میں بہت سی باتیں سمجھا دی آپ نے. جزاک اللہ خیرا

  • @fatimahsyed7906
    @fatimahsyed7906 Жыл бұрын

    Aslmlkm recently got divorced. Aur rishtaydaro k rawiye aisay badlay hain jesay mujhe koi achoot ke beemari hai. Kindly pray for my mental health . Aur Allah pak logo ke soch ko acha rakhnay ke taufeeq ada kre ameen

  • @minakhan8281

    @minakhan8281

    Жыл бұрын

    How ?

  • @zainulabdin1720

    @zainulabdin1720

    9 ай бұрын

    Astagfirullah logo ko pata nhi kya masla hota orat zaat SE job kre to problem divorce ho jay to problem koi baat kray to problem jaidad me hisa to problem, Allah maaf kre hmare mashra abhi bhi dark ages main hay ab dunya modern ho gai Hy talaq koi buri chez nhi, mardo ko koi Kuch nhi bolta kbhi

  • @sardarsaqibkhan4911

    @sardarsaqibkhan4911

    4 ай бұрын

    Aur tum ny jis ka ghr brbad kiya uska kya

  • @muhammadhashir1153

    @muhammadhashir1153

    8 күн бұрын

    Sis be patient society ha e aisi ha .log siwae baton k kar b Kya skte han

  • @syidmuhmoodullah3809
    @syidmuhmoodullah38095 ай бұрын

    He completely missed the actual root cause! The actual root cause, at a very high level, is that Muslims in general have left the Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet sulAllahu alaihe wa sullum. We read the Quran but don't even attempt to understand it and implement it in our lives, Subhan Allah. May Allah help us Ameen Ya Allah.

  • @AllinOne-no4te
    @AllinOne-no4te3 жыл бұрын

    Please Pray For My Sister I'm Broken inside .. Feeling Shame that I'm Her Brother Not Doing Anything for Her Not Helping her She Loves me Alot Same as My Mother Do .. I belongs to poor family Got Selected on merit in MBBS by her Help I am on scholarships in my uni.. I have No any Sources To Help Her I'm just 21 years old My Elder Brothers my Parents are So Much worry about her ..only thing I can do for her Only Dua in Namaz May Allah help her . I can Burn my all wishesh for Her to see her happy and satisfied .. Respect Ur Sisters They Are Ur 2nd mother and 1st friend..

  • @EngineerMuhammadAsif

    @EngineerMuhammadAsif

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah help you

  • @hafsasart8182

    @hafsasart8182

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless her😔

  • @izzatkhan6760

    @izzatkhan6760

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good

  • @azharsofficial530
    @azharsofficial53013 күн бұрын

    Mashallah sir aapka ek ek lafz true hai aur haqiqat per mambni hai.💯

  • @drsabajavedsabajaved2050
    @drsabajavedsabajaved20503 жыл бұрын

    M b divorced hon r log ye sun k k divorce hue h chor k chly jaty han ab m depression m ja rae hon pray for me hmari society m divorced grls ki koe jga ni ha

  • @hopekhushi9938

    @hopekhushi9938

    3 жыл бұрын

    Y u r suffering yourself because of ppl talk! If u won't take care of yourself no one else will. Us Allah ki taraf dekho jess nay tum ko zindagi aur sehat dae. Go out study part find and look for job. ALLAH HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES

  • @hinanoor9799

    @hinanoor9799

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am also divorced girl

  • @jameel5985

    @jameel5985

    3 жыл бұрын

    Divorce and delay marriage r same Jin lrkio ki age zaida ho jti h society us ko bht mentally torture krti h Wo lrki kisi shadi yan famil gathering main ni jti log aik swal krty hain shadi kr lo rishty bnd ho jain gy Agr rishty jb 25 main bnd ho jain tou phr zaida age p blame keo Divorce ka tou kch pochain na log zahni mareez bna daity hain Allah aysay logo ko lazmi pochy

  • @ARsulehriVlogs

    @ARsulehriVlogs

    3 жыл бұрын

    I m also divorce 😢

  • @aftabsoomro5527

    @aftabsoomro5527

    3 жыл бұрын

    U r right

  • @javedmaqbool8273
    @javedmaqbool82733 жыл бұрын

    Khaandaani baat kahi hai Dr Javed Iqbal ne sir u r absolutely right.

  • @adnanattariadnanattari2603
    @adnanattariadnanattari26033 жыл бұрын

    Bht bht bht zbrdst mozo pr ap nay baat ki or bht achay andaz say smjhaya ALLAH Paak ap ko behtrin jaza day or hmain aml ki tofeeq ata frmay

  • @sonosh4087
    @sonosh40873 жыл бұрын

    The girl with this status should be confident and never allow society to give her a tag of بدنصیبی . If you are single and having kids or not after this case it doesn’t mean that you have no rights to live like others. Joy happiness are same for you as well..Just start to make your bond strong with اللہ سبحان و تعالی and then you will know what is life exactly. Its precious and beautiful with this bond. I am also a part of this status with one daughter and received all type of rubbish from this society but never mind it and staying very satisfied and happy bcz i know ; Allah is with me and with all of them they want him by their side . InshaAllah and Alhumdulilah

  • @kaleemullahsoomro3666

    @kaleemullahsoomro3666

    3 жыл бұрын

    you are bold n model for us

  • @janemark8452

    @janemark8452

    3 жыл бұрын

    It depends how the family reacts when a girl got divorce .i m also divorced and still suffering.because family & society always blame aurat.and treat that aurat like a dead body

  • @alia7919

    @alia7919

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@janemark8452 you are right, my own mother put me down after my divorce...basically my parents are happy if I sleep around with men and hide this act but if I marry a man then I will not be considered a good daughter.

  • @taym2720

    @taym2720

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alia7919 Wait...you sleep around? How is that ok as a muslim woman?

  • @ARABSHAN

    @ARABSHAN

    3 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum, 34 Years separated/widow MALE having a kid, from Hyderabad INDIA. No demands, only serious people can reply me...

  • @mansoorhassan675
    @mansoorhassan6753 жыл бұрын

    Dear Sir , can you arrange any group of people who arrange this type of marriage (Divorce and other) Mansoor Karachi

  • @madnimadni6377
    @madnimadni63773 жыл бұрын

    Jee, buhat achi baatein ke hein aap ny.. Lakin mein ye batana chahti hon k Unmarried larky, divorced, widow, old age khatoon sy shadi aaj bhi karty hein lakin sirf American, Europe, etc nationality holders, ya Rich khatoon sy....

  • @tradingmentorship3906

    @tradingmentorship3906

    2 жыл бұрын

    Suub same nhi hoty.

  • @gazingpearllife9233
    @gazingpearllife923311 ай бұрын

    Divorced girls should marry divorced men and widows should marry widowers

  • @ShammaKiSurat
    @ShammaKiSurat3 жыл бұрын

    ماشاءاللہ حق بات کہی آپ نے بہت زبردست

  • @mr.nine9
    @mr.nine93 жыл бұрын

    Achy insan, chahy mard ho ya aurat sab he zaleel hoty hen....... Kameeny r be hiss log mazy se rehty hen

  • @shakilafayaz3465

    @shakilafayaz3465

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are right

  • @muhammadaliraza6859

    @muhammadaliraza6859

    3 жыл бұрын

    Blkul

  • @noortooba8070

    @noortooba8070

    3 жыл бұрын

    Asa kyun hota ha never got the answer

  • @docsakkhalil1372

    @docsakkhalil1372

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@noortooba8070 its a Test/Azmaish or maybe punishment due to Ones Sins which we know or not /sins committed unknowingly or knowingly /sins committed Openly or hidingly .... A muslim who is in difficulty must recite "istighfar alot " ( Astaghfirullah ) & ...."Seek Help from Allah Ta'Ala with Patience and Prayer " .... Allah Ta'Ala forgives and Blesses the life of one who remembers him greatly and the Heart which is Content is the heart that is spent in dhikr and setting ones life and daily routines as per deeni teachings . To live , earn an Halal living is also another pre-requiste to Being Blessed with Respect and Content of heart and Blessings in Life too. May Allah Ta'Ala Bless us with more understanding of our deen and Blessed with Taufeeq to practise it as per its teachings and to lead a Virtous Blessed life . . ..aameen..

  • @shahnazali5347

    @shahnazali5347

    4 ай бұрын

    Ap ki baat bilkul theek ha hum jitny achy bantay han utna bura hota ha hamary saath buray log mazay karty han

  • @JavedIqbal-iw8dk
    @JavedIqbal-iw8dk3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for addressing a difficult topic such as this. You pointedly said that society needs to provide solution for this problem. Ironically elderly women are the biggest culprits. These women elevate the boys status while they may be completely inept and seeking out capable and beautiful girls for them, ultimately resulting in a failed marriage.

  • @owaisimran4540

    @owaisimran4540

    2 жыл бұрын

    Àa⁰

  • @fatimanazar9612

    @fatimanazar9612

    2 жыл бұрын

    slam. sir plz financially kaisy hud ko support krain ? kya KZread sy income mil skti .. ya islya k main divorced hun r boht trouble main hun.

  • @braveheart8318

    @braveheart8318

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is your mother or grandmother elderly and culprit as you say or do you just like to insult other mothers? Don't put all the blame on boys and their mothers. Everyone wants the best for themselves and their loved ones. This is not charity that you are expecting people to feel sorry and bring an unwanted girl to their home. Girls and their parents aren't blind or stupid. They should do due diligence and check everything before accepting a proposal. Once you agree to a proposal and made your decision, stick to it and deal with the consequences. If girls or their parents make mistakes in choosing a suitable match and what's best for them and their daughters, they should deal with the consequences of their wrong decision. Do you expect others who have no fault in this to pay for their failed marriage? Society already has a solution for divorced women. They should except polygamy and become 2nd or 3rd wife but they reject such proposals and are looking for single young man with wealth. Why would a single young man in his prime, who's financially stable would marry a 2nd hand divorced woman with a baggage from previous marriage?

  • @clebworld9738

    @clebworld9738

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fatimanazar9612 koi skill seekhen online aur sell Karen. KZread is tough to rank these days. Unless you have very unique idea

  • @clebworld9738

    @clebworld9738

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@braveheart8318 so much hate inside you. Why did prophet PBUH married a divorced women? When it will happen to your sister then your second hand sisters will haunt you.

  • @traveltonaturallife3636
    @traveltonaturallife36363 жыл бұрын

    Doing brilliant work...to inform us...giving path for life.....

  • @lastgentleman735
    @lastgentleman7352 жыл бұрын

    Divorce ya widow ku khud itna independant uuna chahiye k koi un pe tars na khaye. Jab insan financially strong huta h tu kisi ki majal nhi huti kuch kehnay ki.. aj kal koi kisi ku support nahi karta. Apna bojh khud uthana parhta h.

  • @robloxgirl129
    @robloxgirl1293 жыл бұрын

    Well I think if there are many divorced women then there are also divorced men too. Why divorced men don't marry other divorced or widowers? In academic studies girls are more than boys but in society the ratio is not too worse.

  • @abdulbasit-su1ol

    @abdulbasit-su1ol

    3 жыл бұрын

    Es men boht sary factors hen first of all k takriban her divorced mard ko 2nd bhi kanwari larki mil rahi hoti hai to wo q divorced ki tarf jay ga? 2nd jo society men mard or aurton ki population agr brabar ho to eska ye matlb to nahi k her aik mard se aik orat ki shadi kr di jay boht c or bhi baten hoti hen... Hmary maushery men orat ka berozgar hona to koi burri bat nahi gher sambhalny wali females ki qadar zyada hai... So agr koi female job kr rahi hen ya nahi ker rahi kisi aisy mard k supurd nahi ki ja sakti jo berozgar ho ya larki k parallel ni ho Or bhi kai burayan pai jati larkon men to ya jitni larkon ki tadad khrb ho to utni larkion ki zindgi barbad kr di jay kya??? 2nd option doosri shadi to es pe pehly to doosri biwi banna tayar ni hoti zyada tr wo bhi kanwara ya akela dhond rahi hoti hen to wo achy wala to available ni hota to phir wo 2nd biwi banny pe razi hoti hen to pehly wali biwi ni manti..

  • @lifeprism1524

    @lifeprism1524

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @medicalinformation7019

    @medicalinformation7019

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Mrs Shahzad Agreed

  • @ARABSHAN

    @ARABSHAN

    3 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum, 34 Years separated/widow MALE having a kid, from Hyderabad INDIA. No demands, only serious people can reply me...

  • @doctoronline5501

    @doctoronline5501

    3 жыл бұрын

    I will marry any divorced but mature lady only ..if you have someone then contact me plz

  • @zaramariam7410
    @zaramariam74103 жыл бұрын

    JAZAKALLAH ..GREAT JOB ..realy hapy to listen this topic.. m always agree with your every word.

  • @numrah.khan.
    @numrah.khan.3 жыл бұрын

    We need to understand that no woman wants to stay with the label of *unmarried* or *divorcee*. There are problems, or there might be some constraints. Only of we start seeing other's kids as our own will we be able to realize what they're going through is not their fault but a situation that can come in anybody's life.

  • @medicalinformation7019

    @medicalinformation7019

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Numrah Khan Shirazi Agreed

  • @sunderkashmiri1

    @sunderkashmiri1

    3 жыл бұрын

    People made children problem from both sides. Basically kids should be in father's jurisdiction primarily so women can easily to become wife of anybody and women also should accept second marriage husband's kids so issue can be resolved easily

  • @ARABSHAN

    @ARABSHAN

    3 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum, 34 Years separated/widow MALE having a kid, from Hyderabad INDIA. No demands, only serious people can reply me...

  • @sanobiathaseen7832

    @sanobiathaseen7832

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @ahmadmuhammad9420

    @ahmadmuhammad9420

    Жыл бұрын

    I want 2nd merrage any woman interested

  • @wanderwithanu2826
    @wanderwithanu28263 жыл бұрын

    I hope everyone could understand this notion of reality

  • @Noorfatima_h
    @Noorfatima_h3 жыл бұрын

    is lye khte larkiyon ko educate kya jae.... take kal ko agr wo divorced ya widow ho jae to apne pairon pr khari ho saken.... independent ho saken... 🙌

  • @hafsaabbas2115

    @hafsaabbas2115

    3 жыл бұрын

    I m 100 prcnt agree

  • @TheRider..

    @TheRider..

    3 жыл бұрын

    ہم بھی اچھا انسان بن کر اپنے پیاروں کے لیئے اچھا ثابت ہو سکتے ہیں۔

  • @zainulabdin1720

    @zainulabdin1720

    9 ай бұрын

    😊yes agree 💯

  • @trdiaries825
    @trdiaries8253 жыл бұрын

    Allah pak apko sehat or iman wali lambi zindgi ata farmaey

  • @sairabanu547

    @sairabanu547

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen 🤲

  • @zoyb2458
    @zoyb24583 жыл бұрын

    درست فرمایا! ہمارا اسلامی معاشرہ نہیں ہے۔یہی سب سے بڑا مسئلہ ہے۔

  • @authenticgk572
    @authenticgk5723 жыл бұрын

    Allah hr beti k naseeb naik farmaye aameen suma aameen

  • @rubab51

    @rubab51

    2 жыл бұрын

    amin

  • @sanobiathaseen7832

    @sanobiathaseen7832

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @sairabanu547

    @sairabanu547

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen 🤲

  • @hiramuslim4162
    @hiramuslim41623 жыл бұрын

    My sister also got divorced in very young age. She was 21 years old when she got divorced. Now she is 22 years old. Rishta dhondna buht mushkil ho jata sirf 2 behnen hen donu ki shadi ak din hui mery pas baby bhi ha lakin wo..... Bs ab yahee dua ha Allah usku acha sath dey. Mere mother bhi unfortunately nhin rheen . Mery akely father Kay leye rishta dhondna buht mushkil hogeya ha Log bhaag jaty hen ziada ye sun kr divorce wali Kay sath hm ne nhin krna. Kui ye nhin sochta agr mere beti ku divorce hoti tu ma Kia kr leta.

  • @mohammadbinrauf862

    @mohammadbinrauf862

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hira muslim

  • @mohammadbinrauf862

    @mohammadbinrauf862

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can contact me if u don't mind. Mjy apney bhai k liye rishta daikhna he. Hmm 3no behnain married hain ALLHAMDULLILAH. Or 1 bhai he jis k liye daikhna he rishta

  • @muhammadawaismughal

    @muhammadawaismughal

    3 жыл бұрын

    May ALLAH make some source for you sister

  • @naazguul8827

    @naazguul8827

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mohammadbinrauf862 zabardast.may Allah give you jaza and make you a role model

  • @shafiaghani164

    @shafiaghani164

    3 жыл бұрын

    Plzz mri sistr ky ly dua kijyga...oska bhi acha naseb khul jy... Kun ky job wli lrki ko bhi koi khas acha nh smjhty...my sis unmarride...but gormnt job krti hy.

  • @abhishektiwari8586
    @abhishektiwari85863 жыл бұрын

    Assalam walikum sirjee from 🇮🇳

  • @ateeqqazi2046

    @ateeqqazi2046

    3 жыл бұрын

    Assalam o Alikum and Walikum Asalam are the correct words . ap ko bhi salam bhai

  • @abhishektiwari8586

    @abhishektiwari8586

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ateeqqazi2046 thanks for the correction.

  • @ikramullah300

    @ikramullah300

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love you

  • @shamahussain3933
    @shamahussain39332 жыл бұрын

    Excellent sir very well said🖒 Hope so society can understand it!

  • @sadafnouman02
    @sadafnouman023 жыл бұрын

    This time topic is not well defined or may be incomplete .It’s not possible that each and every divorced and un married girl get married with a nice person, or (jor k rishta is really difficult)people do propose divorces either to take financial benefits or any other desires and mostly it’s lust or change in their boring married life k ab dub k rahegi. Sir you should more speak out social behavior with unmarried and divorces. People say cruel things in sympathy cover please creat awareness that marriage is the best option but it’s ok to be single also it’s not an embarrassment neither lacking of something. They’ve right to spend life with peace.

  • @hafsaabbas2115

    @hafsaabbas2115

    3 жыл бұрын

    You said right it's ok to be single...but you need to become independent and must hv financial freedom so you don't beg inforont of someone for your needs..and enjoy your own life being a single human being

  • @sadafnouman02

    @sadafnouman02

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hafsaabbas2115 absolutely right

  • @hopekhushi9938

    @hopekhushi9938

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes 👍 if u chose to be single then be independent. Simple, unfortunately ppl like to spice up there life by talking shit abt vounlarable ppl. Let them, remember u can only change yourself!

  • @zenijutt4841
    @zenijutt48413 жыл бұрын

    sirf 1 divorce ki waja sy jitne b qualities hon hamari society mein raadh kr de jati hn or bachargee ka tag lga diya jata hy

  • @awais222

    @awais222

    Жыл бұрын

    Asa kch b nai h.. hazaro log hn accept krnay walay divorce wali girls ko.. bs insan ko na-umeed nai hona chahie.

  • @zenijutt4841

    @zenijutt4841

    Жыл бұрын

    @@awais222 shaed

  • @sadiawaheed6567
    @sadiawaheed65673 жыл бұрын

    Highly appreciated, whatever you have said is so motivated for such ladies..

  • @khurshid7979

    @khurshid7979

    Жыл бұрын

    Bad people are motivations for bad guys

  • @quettacity3151
    @quettacity31513 жыл бұрын

    سر آپ بہت اچھے باتیں کرتے ہو

  • @muhammadtalha1359
    @muhammadtalha1359 Жыл бұрын

    Very nice and very incredibly informative thinking ,very common issue in our society.

  • @sheebanaaz8425
    @sheebanaaz84253 жыл бұрын

    Allah sab Ko Islaam ke in rules Ko follow krne ki Hidayat de jin par Allah ne Falah aur jazay Khair ataa farmaya hai...🌺 Ameen 🤲

  • @iffatraza1848
    @iffatraza18483 жыл бұрын

    I really respect u prof sahab

  • @ateeqqazi2046
    @ateeqqazi20463 жыл бұрын

    Current population of boys in Pakistan : 107,195, 947 ( 50.8) Current population of girls in Pakistan : 103, 769, 479 (49.2) But due to increasing rate of death of young boys in Pakistan in the age of 25 mostly increases girls population.

  • @ARABSHAN

    @ARABSHAN

    3 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum, 34 Years separated/widow MALE having a kid, from Hyderabad INDIA. No demands, only serious people can reply me...

  • @Draymenbutt
    @Draymenbutt Жыл бұрын

    Asalam o alaikum...im very much junior in studies and experience than sir ,,but don't know when and why ,my thoughts are exactly the same as sir is saying,,sometimes i felt may b im mad ,,but im v much happy and relaxed now...may Allah bless all of us and take us to right path ameen ameen ameen .

  • @umewardaumar2935
    @umewardaumar29353 жыл бұрын

    Sir ye Pyary Nabi S.W ki hadees mubarak b hai "qayamat k nazdeek ourton ki tadaad mardon sy zayada ho jaye gi yahan tk k 1 mard 50 orton ka sarbrah ya hami ho ga "🙏🙏👍🌷💞🇵🇰🇵🇰

  • @shamshadmansuri415
    @shamshadmansuri4153 жыл бұрын

    Shukriya sir...welldone...

  • @DrMuhammadTahirSiddique
    @DrMuhammadTahirSiddique3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent beautiful message

  • @rabiyahannan5679
    @rabiyahannan56793 жыл бұрын

    Dusri bv banner se behtar Hai k ase mard se shadi ki Jaye jis ki bv ki death ho Gaye ho ya us ki pehli bv se divorce ho Gaye ho kun k usko hakikat Mai wife ki zarorat hogi Jo pehle se married Hai wo agar naiki k liye bhi dusri shadi kare GA to uski puri family disturb ho Jaye gi naiki k chakar Mai wo apni bani bnaye family se bhi hath dho baithe GA

  • @yousufmhussain9934
    @yousufmhussain99343 жыл бұрын

    Very true. Infact in olden days sub-continent people were more broad minded than now. Husband accepting a second marriage to a divorced /widowed women and accepting her kids from a former marriage was very common. But now a days men do not accept a divorced / widowed women who have already got kids with former husband.

  • @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    5 ай бұрын

    I know i,m late but why should a woman accept a disloyal man it's not about being broad-minded 2nd marriages should not be accepted it does no good for any party it's just making one woman's life better and another woman's life worse sharing one man is not easy nor acceptable for most women.

  • @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    5 ай бұрын

    Instead of accepting second marriage with a divorced woman why don't men just marry a divorced woman instead of 1 virgin and 1 widowed, make it make sense 🤔

  • @Yasirkhan-pq1lp
    @Yasirkhan-pq1lp2 жыл бұрын

    Allah apko lambi zindagi day ye log hamari qimti sarmaya hai..Allah inko hamesha hamary sat rakhy.Ameen.

  • @shahidarafiq4402
    @shahidarafiq44023 жыл бұрын

    Weldone sir i appriciate u i salute u thanks a lot apne b hamary bary socha

  • @authenticgk572
    @authenticgk5723 жыл бұрын

    Plz make more videos about thus topic. Jazakillah

  • @mahakkhan18
    @mahakkhan183 жыл бұрын

    I'm Indian Sir my dream is to meet you And Inshallah I will succeed 💓💓

  • @bilqueeskhalil9900
    @bilqueeskhalil990021 күн бұрын

    Allah key Deen Furqa tukrtey maat kijjiey ❤Quran sura 6 AlAnaam Ayat 159

  • @zakiabano9312
    @zakiabano9312Ай бұрын

    Islam main role model Hazoor SAW ki zaat hai . Unki zindgi hmain zindgi k har pahlo main rehnmai karti hai. Or aj k topic py bhi rehnmai mlti hai.

  • @Tabassummughal
    @Tabassummughal3 жыл бұрын

    Please is topic pr or video banaye taki logo ko samjh aaye ki allah ke sab bato me hiqmat he or mere rab ka koi farman galat nhi ho sakta

  • @Afia6098
    @Afia60983 жыл бұрын

    First of all pakistani men donot get married to a widow or divorced because they are trying to help that person . But if this divorce or widow person has money or green card they will marry them immediately. Men are doing second marriages for pleasure. And many times these men don’t allow second wife to have children because simply they cannot afford children from first marriage and second marriage. So many of them ask for abortions. The main thing is women need to financially independent. With education so they are not forced to marry someone who is not suitable to them. Hazrat khadija was a widow but she was a businesswoman . We have great examples of muslim women who were financially independent and were able to take care of their families instead of depending on their fathers, brothers. Women should get married with her own choice and when she finds a suitable person

  • @molanaamirulislam
    @molanaamirulislam3 жыл бұрын

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته.ماشاءاللہ.جزاك الله

  • @kitchenwithappia9931
    @kitchenwithappia99313 жыл бұрын

    اللّٰہ پاک تمام بہن بیٹیوں کے نصیب اچھے کرے آمین ایک ایک لفط دل میں اُتر رہا تھا۔

  • @waqarulhasan9737

    @waqarulhasan9737

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ghndoo, Baytoon ky bary main kya khyal hy...?

  • @UnCensoredFocus
    @UnCensoredFocus3 жыл бұрын

    Sir ji I'm basically from INDIA, Now I'm working in Qatar as a media profession, aap ki jo sooch hai bilkul 110 percent sahi kaha hai, mai bhi aisa hi socha hu magar hame dene ke liye koi agge nahi badta hai kyu aisa.. Khasam se kai ladkiyan divorced n widows hai main unka saath dena socha, magar koi agge nahi badta .. Wahi dusre ku deke pareshan hore log magar acche ki saath nahi dete log...

  • @syedajaveria3318

    @syedajaveria3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mera sath day dain I'm a divorced

  • @UnCensoredFocus

    @UnCensoredFocus

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@syedajaveria3318 ji welcome, Aap kaha se hai,mujhe message kariye

  • @mahrukh3228
    @mahrukh32282 ай бұрын

    Bilkul theek kha...dr sahab

  • @maali300
    @maali3003 жыл бұрын

    Thank you doctor sab 👆

  • @sabihazafar4295
    @sabihazafar42952 жыл бұрын

    This is Indian coulter and more of people lived in this indo Pak area years n years . They not leave bad habits, although convert in Islam.Second married is not crime.

  • @mehnazhassan3587
    @mehnazhassan35873 жыл бұрын

    Asalamoalikum sir bht he sahi baat kahi😇

  • @livelaughlove3186
    @livelaughlove3186Ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @user-qn2fp8nj3x
    @user-qn2fp8nj3x7 ай бұрын

    Very informative and nice 🎉

  • @zenijutt4841
    @zenijutt48413 жыл бұрын

    sir apne bilkul sahi kaha agr waqai islamic talimaat k sath ibadaat b barh jain to hamari society ki problem solve ho jain gi

  • @UmarKhan-kr3fw
    @UmarKhan-kr3fw2 жыл бұрын

    Boht mufid baty btay ap na jzakallah

  • @omerfarooq6531
    @omerfarooq65313 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely right sir

  • @jannatwithkitchen
    @jannatwithkitchen Жыл бұрын

    Bht achi batyn ki apny well done

  • @tabindatahir2238
    @tabindatahir2238 Жыл бұрын

    Sir you gave a very positive message.

  • @nabilabamo2178
    @nabilabamo21782 жыл бұрын

    AOA SIR, A married girl does not allow her husband to get 2nd wife .... even divorcee, or widow ... How we can resolve this issue ?? Even divorcee or widow do not want to get married as 2nd wife ... How we can resolve this issue ?? A divorcee and widow demand more finance than the 1st wife in the name of security An educated woman do not want to understand this issue or relegious needs then how we can make them understand this issue...... pleaae guide us..... May Allah Almighty bless you all

  • @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    @EeshaKhan-yo2fx

    5 ай бұрын

    My brother jealousy is a very natural feeling the thing is that loyalty is one of the most important things in a marriage and every woman has the right to expect loyalty from her husband so you can't solve this problem because you can't change nature so it's better for married men to be loyal to their wives and let divorced men marry divorced women.

  • @mahboobkhan6002
    @mahboobkhan6002 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah sahi kaha .

  • @sairabanu547
    @sairabanu547 Жыл бұрын

    Kaash sab soch ap jaise ho jaye to duniya mai koi badnaam ladki he nahi rahe ge 😢😢😢

  • @fatimasaqib9846
    @fatimasaqib98466 ай бұрын

    Informative Video

  • @abhishektiwari8586
    @abhishektiwari85863 жыл бұрын

    Sirjee ethics Or morality mei difference batayein... Plz

  • @poojaslifejourney1475
    @poojaslifejourney14753 жыл бұрын

    Plz make more videos on this topic...how become independent after widow..or divorce

  • @hafsaabbas2115

    @hafsaabbas2115

    3 жыл бұрын

    Learn some skills such as make a cooking channal on u tube or go for freelancing if u r good in English and IT work... don't beg for your needs to other people..make your own path your own career

  • @a.s.entertainment6577
    @a.s.entertainment65773 жыл бұрын

    Meri Shadi ko boht bchana chahti hu pr Mery susraal me meri koi respect ni or mery shohr b Mery sath Mujy koi respect ni krty or me un K bger ni reh skti Pr ab mujy keya krna chahiy y😥😥😥😥😥😥😥Mujy boht dr lgta ha k mujy agr us ne choor dia to me mr jaun gi

  • @MariamRamzan-bu1tq

    @MariamRamzan-bu1tq

    4 ай бұрын

    Dear..... Kisi k lia jina or marna glt hy.... Allah k lia jia or Mary

  • @Kitaabe-Zindagi
    @Kitaabe-Zindagi3 жыл бұрын

    Bht achy se sumjhaya ap ne v nice

  • @haleemausman532
    @haleemausman5323 жыл бұрын

    Bilkul theek farmya ap nay

  • @humairasardar7108
    @humairasardar71083 жыл бұрын

    Boht shukriya Allah apko ajr day... boht sahi topic chuna ap ny :-) 1 point reh gya... Age Difference... bari larki aur chota larka iss mein kia harj hai??? Humaray nabi Muhammad Mustafa SAW bi 25 saal k thay jab Khadija R sy shadi hui thi. Humara moashrah har cheez ko taboo bna k logon ki zindagian tang kyun krna chahta hai???

  • @SUFIBEAT

    @SUFIBEAT

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like your name.......great name......love from USA

  • @sanobiathaseen7832

    @sanobiathaseen7832

    Жыл бұрын

    Ur right

  • @FatimaKhan-th4er
    @FatimaKhan-th4er3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this video. GOD BLESS YOU!

  • @syedazara7061
    @syedazara70613 жыл бұрын

    Hr ghr ki story hn mere ghr main bhi yhe story hn divorce lrke motti lrkiyun ko koi nh qbl krta jinke waja se bki sister ki life PR bht effect phrta hn life name understanding trust .respect not comprises name log glt khty hn life compromise life name understanding .

  • @ShayanKhan-li7sk
    @ShayanKhan-li7sk3 жыл бұрын

    Sir apkiliyeee words nahii hai apkii aik vedio dosre se behtar hai .....Allah apko lambi zindagee our sehat dy Aameeen

  • @sabakhan-en8yd
    @sabakhan-en8yd2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir m from india

  • @ansaansa269
    @ansaansa269 Жыл бұрын

    Apka hr ht word golden word hy

  • @razaashraf2739
    @razaashraf27393 жыл бұрын

    Good Topic,,,,,

  • @fairtalks2043
    @fairtalks20433 жыл бұрын

    Dr Sb, you did not give solution of the topic instead you admitted our social system take divorce as TABOO. Sir, in my opinion EVOLUTION of the society is the only solution, let society to redefine their Taboos by the passage of time, might be some centuries.

  • @Muslimah-Pakistani
    @Muslimah-Pakistani3 жыл бұрын

    JazakALLAH Sir...

  • @shabanaansari8499
    @shabanaansari84993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @muhammadawaismughal
    @muhammadawaismughal3 жыл бұрын

    Sir it's my honour that I hear you always. And it's feel good when I hear you because the way you talk is different and upto the mark. Sir I appreciate you may ALLAH make our society positive and make us role for the rest of the world 😇

  • @786fmz

    @786fmz

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @hopekhushi9938
    @hopekhushi99383 жыл бұрын

    Our older generation created TALAQ as taboo as ours culture is influenced by hindu culture. UNFORTUNATELY we do chose to follow unislamic easy way out, then be open minded follow our Islamic values. The stigma of TALAQ destroyed so many women soul, even she wants to get out of unhappy Marraiage she doesn't because she doesn't want to deal with TALAQ stigma, ppl judgment and society attitude 🙄. Unfortunately men take advantage of that. Our mentally sicken society follow the slavery mentally then choseing to follow holy prophet life.

  • @docsakkhalil1372

    @docsakkhalil1372

    3 жыл бұрын

    Those who dont learn deeni teachings. ... Or .... If they study the deen ...then too limit their deeni ilmi practise in real daily lives ... by application of deeni practises only limited to Acts of obligatory & voluntary worships and practising Other Acts of deen related to our relations in Society/ in relation to our family members or our dealings with fellow muslims/or society is limited only to Suit their cultural /community standards/norms ..... We must Act now and teach our children to serve as true muslims not only in their daily fulfillment of obligatory/voluntary acts of worship ....but also to teach our children deeni knowledge , and Mould our childrens mindsets as a learned muslims should be dealing with other fellow beings/ family members in an society/community should be ......

  • @Ayyanahmed19
    @Ayyanahmed193 жыл бұрын

    Aoa sir apny bohat acha topic chuna hy Meri b life aesiproblem se huzar rahi hy

  • @shahanaabid5619
    @shahanaabid56199 ай бұрын

    Good information sir

  • @SaadRaja-fh7sb
    @SaadRaja-fh7sb8 ай бұрын

    Masha Allah

  • @pubglovers6008
    @pubglovers60082 жыл бұрын

    Iam going to done this sir 🥰❣️

  • @juhitiwari9322
    @juhitiwari93223 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir.

  • @sahelzaffar2442
    @sahelzaffar24423 жыл бұрын

    You are very good person

  • @malikafanhameed2740
    @malikafanhameed27403 жыл бұрын

    Sir apki baat durust ha kisi hadd tak. Lekin jis muashray ka hum hissa han us mann ye feasible nai ha. Waisay bhi divorce zyada hongi yeh qayamat ki nishaani ha. Nabi saww ke zamanay mann itni talaaqain nai hoti theen lekin ab bohat hoti hain.

  • @sheikhwalid4526
    @sheikhwalid45263 жыл бұрын

    Nice advice thanks doc

  • @ishrettaj8486
    @ishrettaj84863 жыл бұрын

    Assalamoalikum dr sahab jazakallah khair behtareen video. Aik naiki kaa kam app log ye bhi start karain k kisi bhi wajah say mazoor bachay aapas main shadi karain or es k liye koi plate form banana buhat zarori hai

  • @haseebullah9033

    @haseebullah9033

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lekin agar wo dono mazoor hain to wo 1.2sray ka sahara kesay banain gay?

  • @ishrettaj8486

    @ishrettaj8486

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@haseebullah9033 example meri aik teacher buhat educated magar wo aik poun say mazoor thee or un k husband nabeena us hi university main teacher hain un dono ki shadi hoi or wo buhat zabardest zindagi guzar rahay hain

  • @user-tb9zw9mu2g
    @user-tb9zw9mu2g6 ай бұрын

    Uncle g apki batain achi lagi😊

  • @whiterosemhm5664
    @whiterosemhm56643 жыл бұрын

    محترم سر جی یہ بھی بہت ذیادہ ہوتا ہے ۔ اگر دوسری شادی کے بعد پہلی یا دوسری بیوی طلاق دلوانے پر زور دینے لگتی ہے ۔۔۔

  • @nemophila3334
    @nemophila33342 жыл бұрын

    great words

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