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  • @ForHarriet619
    @ForHarriet6192 жыл бұрын

    www.patreon.com/forharriet

  • @blakmartianheretic3318

    @blakmartianheretic3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Hate Speech". You mean like when your "Divested" sisters advocate for BM to be killed?

  • @WondrousJoJo

    @WondrousJoJo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@blakmartianheretic3318 That side of the community IS real, no doubt! I've seen some of those channels with my own eyes! But Kim and many other BW are not part of it...just like not all of us blk men hate on blk women. We need to purge the extremes, on BOTH sides. How can we be the leaders of the race when some of us crap on our women?

  • @blakmartianheretic3318

    @blakmartianheretic3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@WondrousJoJo "Our Women"? I don't "OWN" BW. Nor am I responsible for them. Let The Gov't lead them!

  • @ayannabranchcomb7535

    @ayannabranchcomb7535

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@blakmartianheretic3318 kim has never been part of the divestment community, if you gone be critical of her criticize what she actually said

  • @blakmartianheretic3318

    @blakmartianheretic3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ayannabranchcomb7535 She's the "Soft Tip" of the blade used against BM. My Rights & Freedom as a BM are not respected by her!!

  • @toytoyroxx
    @toytoyroxx2 жыл бұрын

    It's frightening to see how preference content morphed into shared hatred of BW.

  • @iusescotchtape

    @iusescotchtape

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think that's because it's never just been about preferences (whether these men know that or it's unconscious). It's always been internalized anti-blackness.

  • @fspight28

    @fspight28

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iusescotchtape self hatred at its best. Literally demons among us...

  • @primppoutnycbytokyokho

    @primppoutnycbytokyokho

    2 жыл бұрын

    Some Black women are also embarrassing by continuing to join their shows.

  • @krumbleme2

    @krumbleme2

    2 жыл бұрын

    The only ones that hate blk women are blk women. Your biggest advisery is looking right back at you in the mirror.

  • @qnzlady715

    @qnzlady715

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@krumbleme2 Your biggest **adversary must be spellcheck

  • @hehimpapiNsuch
    @hehimpapiNsuch2 жыл бұрын

    I truly don’t believe that race can be a preference, unless it’s rooted in fetishization and/or anti-Blackness. Like how else can one categorically prefer a certain race as if there is not an abundance of range within, between, and among racial groups.

  • @rainbeauxunicorn5237

    @rainbeauxunicorn5237

    2 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agree. I say skin tone has no bearing on character, mindsets, intelligence or potential. It can sometimes give you a clue as to what experiences a person may have gone through but ultimately their actions and patterns will tell you what you need to know about everyone and anyone. I wish more ppl understood this.

  • @emmadilemma7800

    @emmadilemma7800

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is most definitely fetishization, at least in my experience. Im a "preference", im a "spicy, fiesty latina" (ew) and usually these men love a stereotype. The Rosie Perez, Sofia Vargeras stereotype of a latina that yells and dances and is hypers-xual. Thats who they want. They want a Jenny from The Block caricature with a giant behind that cooks and cleans.

  • @f3042

    @f3042

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emmadilemma7800 Babe, at least you understand. If he’s a good guy who actually values you for who you are, it’s all good. But many do fetishize Latinas. I had an in-depth convo with one of my colleagues about it because she came to the realization that you did and she wanted to talk about it. A lot of brothas think other races of women don’t realize what’s going on.

  • @Ulyssa12

    @Ulyssa12

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, there it is!

  • @Jasonblade9012

    @Jasonblade9012

    2 жыл бұрын

    I commented here but I don’t see my comment weird. Anyway I was saying it’s fetishization. You are spot on. Same for the weird white men wanting submissive Asian wives (and it’s mostly East Asian). They always find excuses why they want to be with these type of women but weirdly, they have no problems saying racist shit about Asians. And weirdly they don’t include people from the sub Indian continent in their “preferences”. So yeah all “racial” preferences are fetishization and racism.

  • @ereka333
    @ereka3332 жыл бұрын

    It absolutely is hate speech and it is incredibly serious. We have to call it what is. It’s beyond disturbing.

  • @womenlevelupafterhittingth7807

    @womenlevelupafterhittingth7807

    2 жыл бұрын

    Like Cyn G?

  • @alt4374

    @alt4374

    2 жыл бұрын

    I reported their channel and I think everyone should

  • @ciaraawsome

    @ciaraawsome

    2 жыл бұрын

    We should create a petition to get them removed.

  • @sararichardson737

    @sararichardson737

    2 жыл бұрын

    What a travesty! I’ve been living under a rock for sometime now I always sensed this dynamic. It pains me to hear this being talked about that it is now being flouted as “content” on KZread. Shame on humanity. Pure and simple. Excuse me as I return to my rock. Go Harriet.

  • @paulawhite5699

    @paulawhite5699

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is absolutely not hate speech. It’s disturbing, but it’s not hateful. And the solution is not censorship.

  • @juliuswilliams1438
    @juliuswilliams14382 жыл бұрын

    I agree, and even further, I don't think it's ever necessary to publicly express your racial "Preferences" in a public manner, especially when it's in an exclusionary, negative, and derogatory way towards your own race. That's just a BARE minimum of remaining on code. You can always do you without tearing others down, especially your own people. It's all just so embarrassing.

  • @fspight28

    @fspight28

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's the bare minimum, we really have to regulate ourselves...

  • @ayannabranchcomb7535

    @ayannabranchcomb7535

    2 жыл бұрын

    this!!! Idk why people feel the need to broadcast their superficial preferences to the world, like we did not ask and we do not care

  • @mynameisuju

    @mynameisuju

    2 жыл бұрын

    THIS THIS THIS! People who feel the need to even say their racial preferences are wierd first of all, because did anyone of that race ask you? Why do men think that we want to know what gets them hard? Who cares about your preferences

  • @sarapocorn

    @sarapocorn

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely agree. I am not American, so I don‘t know what the standards are your side, but even stating racial preferences in dating is strange to me. and what the guys at the centre of this video are doing is outright hate speech. I am baffled.

  • @Lafemmefutile

    @Lafemmefutile

    2 жыл бұрын

    When the police puts a knee on their necks, they will want you to be on code and defend them. They are like hateful selfish children.

  • @Elifesound
    @Elifesound2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! And I hate when people gaslight like "It's not that serious! You're making a big deal out of it!". Hell yea! Cause it IS and deal! White supremacy is a huge deal!

  • @starcherry6814

    @starcherry6814

    2 жыл бұрын

    When she said "radicalising Black men" I felt so seen. Nobody takes this stuff seriously. Have you seen Intelexual Media about Black femicide? This mindset is even killing us!

  • @Social_Pugatory

    @Social_Pugatory

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@starcherry6814 I saw that video and shared it everywhere I thought I knew but Intelexual Media opened my eyes to so much I thought nothing of.

  • @micahcook2408

    @micahcook2408

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not to mention how dumb their viewers are when they don’t realize that FreshandFit bring on the same type of women who imo they probably hope are unintelligent or messy to “prove” their rhetoric … where are the non-Instagram types for these conversations?? Oh wait… these men only wanna have sex with those types of women. But it’s hilarious because some of those women have shut them down before 😂

  • @jaybelurkin

    @jaybelurkin

    2 жыл бұрын

    How come y'all don't have this same energy for Cynthia G?? 😑

  • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth

    @zammymynakersnackstbmoth

    2 жыл бұрын

    And that rhetoric is literally getting us killed. Their h8 spills into real life and emboldens them to attack us physically.

  • @raen1984
    @raen19842 жыл бұрын

    The incel community has permeated the dusty manosphere. Deplatform these guys immediately. 😒😒😒

  • @amandamosteller1371

    @amandamosteller1371

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Dusty manosphere" 🤭💀💀

  • @fspight28

    @fspight28

    2 жыл бұрын

    X___x

  • @MaybeAntonioJ

    @MaybeAntonioJ

    2 жыл бұрын

    100000%

  • @Jasonblade9012

    @Jasonblade9012

    2 жыл бұрын

    The incel and the Manosphere are the same community.

  • @tugger

    @tugger

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Jasonblade9012 exactly. creeps who dont know how to relate to women without objectifying them

  • @Peinaj
    @Peinaj2 жыл бұрын

    I was waiting for this. Humiliation kink is exactly what it is. I find it very disturbing that there is a huge community of Black men that make their entire personalities about hating Black women, like what else do you have to offer? Monetizing off your hate towards us, truly self-hate, is sad. Are there no other subject matters that you can articulate your thoughts on? The fixation on Black women's affairs is disturbing. You don't play in the dark? Says one very dark skin man and what's sad is he didn't even see how ludacris that was- just lost causes. I need to know how to deplatform them.

  • @JL-vw6wx

    @JL-vw6wx

    2 жыл бұрын

    you can't. Announcing well know stereotypes of a particular group and why you don't date them IS NOT HATE SPEECH. Go ask a lawyer. Everyone has a first Amendment right. You can try and get rid of the First Amendment. Go try that Janie.

  • @Peinaj

    @Peinaj

    2 жыл бұрын

    ​@@JL-vw6wx You "so happened" to find your way to a Black woman's platform, where the subject matter being discussed is about protecting Black women against Black men, just to be committed to being dismissive? AGAIN, the obsession that antagonists have with Black women's affairs is just scary. This content isn't for you, clearly, so it's actually ok to not engage. The inability to refrain from saying anything is a skill. Thanks for being a testament to my original post;).

  • @itsbritt9155

    @itsbritt9155

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JL-vw6wx keyword stereotypes , it is hate speech . It’s based off of racial hatred . I think they even had the nerve to call black women “night riders.” That’s absolutely a slur . I agree their platform needs to be removed.

  • @Peinaj

    @Peinaj

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@itsbritt9155 Exactly, they clearly didn't watch the video or just choosing to remain ignorant. There are just some people who are committed to debating/being in denial/and gaslighting the experiences of Black women.

  • @headmaster6261

    @headmaster6261

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ohh my feelings hurt. Deplatform, Deplatform. How about you change your shitty attitudes In mass. Smile more🙂

  • @veeceey1073
    @veeceey10732 жыл бұрын

    The rise of incel culture is alarming. I used to laugh at these men but now I’m really concerned. I watched the clip of dude coming at Asian doll and he had so much aggression towards her, it was obvious to me off rip that he hates BW. So many of these platforms have hundreds and thousands of followers that hang onto their every word. Stay safe ladies bc its dangerous out here.

  • @ceebee8255

    @ceebee8255

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just the way he speaks. The first few seconds I *knew* he was an incel.

  • @mj4lyfe101

    @mj4lyfe101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! We used to laugh and call them weirdos but now they are mainstream and it’s scaring me.

  • @adolphus2002

    @adolphus2002

    2 жыл бұрын

    They are just a danger to unchecked and ratchet women.

  • @justicewilson7929

    @justicewilson7929

    2 жыл бұрын

    The term incel is so thrown around so loosely

  • @adolphus2002

    @adolphus2002

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@justicewilson7929 they refuse and hate to educate themselves. Yet they use words out of context. Illiterates.

  • @evisionaryloveslife
    @evisionaryloveslife2 жыл бұрын

    For DECADES, there's been this underlying HATRED that BM have for Black Women. We could hear it in the music. We could see it among highly successful men. We could hear it amongst our peers as they either tease, or demean, or give back handed compliments. But what social media did was give this disdain a PLATFORM. And then those who only 'thought' this way became bold enough to join the ranks to basically in so many words PUBLICLY say, "I hate who I am, the womb I'm from, and any woman that represents this image." Creating meme's on IG every day humiliating BWomen. Creating videos and think pieces about how they hate the way we look or act. All this content spouting everything they think is wrong with Black Women. What it also did was go a step beyond that and UPLIFT anything has proximity to whiteness. It's the most disappointing and hurtful thing to see while the rest of the world watches on. It perpetuates a divide between BM and BW that in the end only serves to cripple our community. And then to monetize off it. Whew. HORRIBLE.

  • @DeeperThanMyThoughts

    @DeeperThanMyThoughts

    2 жыл бұрын

    You make several great points and facts. Demeaning and dehumanising Black woman has been black men's bread and butter from day one. From pimp culture and the exploitation of female black bodies. Blaxploitation movies and the film industry to rap culture and comedy. It has just shifted to social media. Same flavour, different label. Which highlights that these bottom tier males can only make money from the denigration of black people, but more so from black women.

  • @ms.x1669

    @ms.x1669

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Lafemmefutile the way you articulated this was so perfect. They hope that acist Yte folks will let them join in the club and share their privileges with them.

  • @acestarone

    @acestarone

    2 жыл бұрын

    Our biggest haters. I remember this happening in middle school assuming they would grow up. But nah

  • @thedestroyasystem

    @thedestroyasystem

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ms.x1669 absolutely. It’s a problem within plenty of communities, minorities who try to conform to appease the majority and then put down those who refuse to do the same. It’s ridiculous that this mindset it still prevalent today.

  • @sararichardson737

    @sararichardson737

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said. Sadly

  • @Zikomo7
    @Zikomo72 жыл бұрын

    The way most BM are ignoring this, trying to say women do it too, or saying it's just a preference is telling. I give up on them (I gave up after they tried to bite that woman's eye in Brooklyn and BM were saying she provoked them). Other men are far from perfect, but they're not doing this mess

  • @WhoCares3001

    @WhoCares3001

    2 жыл бұрын

    The biting happened in Harlem. But you're 100% correct.

  • @fspight28

    @fspight28

    2 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately many people are lost in the matrix. These dudes and their ilk (not all manosphere but some weird subsect) and the divester movement are two sides to the same coin. That's probably where alot of black male silence (those that are on this side of the internet atleast) is coming from. Alot can't even detach for a sec and realize the enemy in their face.

  • @ms.x1669

    @ms.x1669

    2 жыл бұрын

    Giving up on them is the most peaceful feeling I have ever had. 💕💕💕 I used to go back and forth with them on the internet and in real life but after I detached myself completely I felt nothing but peace.

  • @outherewildinb2874

    @outherewildinb2874

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fspight28 This feels like an incomplete story. Divestors are largely a response to the misogynoir seen on these platforms and wider society. I just came out of a comment section with Black 'manosphere/men's rights' bros having more sympathy for a murderer instead of the women who were murdered. There's no 'some weird subset' it's all the same thing. Sure, you might get funneled in by some guy complaining about the (supposed) unfair state of custody laws, and now you can justify how a father can orphan his children, because you shouldn't keep a man from his kids (an obviously abusive one). It's a pipeline and there's no telling when they'll get off. Their silence is complicity. So when women/girls/other marginalised Black folk see this unrepentant violence not only being spouted by, but silently condoned by many, far too many, Black men, divestment may not be a healthy, or even helpful response in the long term, but too many it's their *survival* . I don't want to see people write up their conditions to condemn evident harmful rhetoric towards us, because that just shows how little our pain matters to most. We need to be careful in equating these movements, because one simply would not *exist* without the other.

  • @hazelbasil6451

    @hazelbasil6451

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@outherewildinb2874 Thank you, that "both sides" stuff is not gonna work with me. I have a working memory!! The online black mansosphere has been degarding BW since I was in middle school before "divestors" we're even a thought in the minds of women. When I was in middle school the largest of these platform had about 1 million subscribers, and that was really hard to get back then! This person is now a legit black-white supremacist who still virulently hates blacl women and has done interview with David dukes. The "divesting" response to all this started to gain traction probably around 2015ish...

  • @catflon2388
    @catflon23882 жыл бұрын

    I keep saying to people that preference is not the same as exclusion. The latter, is what black men do. BW are not upset about the exclusion because we are black( it simply indicates unresolved issues), we refuse to continue to put up with the emotional and verbal tear down that typically follows. You will not usually hear " I love my non-black partner because of her character", you will hear "I don't date all BW because they are (fill in whatever stereotypes)". I just wished black men would just say flat out "I don't like BW because I think black is ugly" instead of all the mental gymnastics and rationalization. Have your exclusive dating patterns just stop painting BW as the reason you do it. And BW, I don't understand that weird need to keep fighting for these men's validation. STOP IT, they don't like you. Listen to them the first time and believe them.

  • @CDawg

    @CDawg

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @swiftset

    @swiftset

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with the sentiment of what you're saying. Where you lose me is with statements like "is what black men do" and the casual way that you imply this problem of exclusionary dating is to be laid at the feet of ALL black men. I think it's harmful to project that kind of behavior onto all black men.

  • @catflon2388

    @catflon2388

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@swiftset Thanks for your feedback but here's what should be understood here. BW don't have the same luxury, as other female groups, to be blindly trusting of any man (sadly that includes those who look like us, if not more). I don't want to engage in debunking the reasons in this thread because there are so many (historical and contemporary). But when most of what you hear and see as a woman is how much men who share your phenotypes despise you based on those same phenotypes, coupled with the spiking black femicide rates followed by "she must have done something to cause this man to (fill in the blanks)"...well.... Yeah.🤷🤷 I am not seeking to have anyone agree with me, I simply am interested in asking BW to take accountability and engage in self-preservation, which apparently is natural to everyone but us, as a collective. It does not need to sound pretty to anyone especially BM.

  • @JL-vw6wx

    @JL-vw6wx

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@catflon2388 please post sources about spiking rates. Stop posting nonsense. Violent crimes have been going down FOR DECADES!!!. THIS is documented by national governmental orgs (FBI, etc). STOP LYING. It just invalidates your arguments..

  • @catflon2388

    @catflon2388

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JL-vw6wx I have no interest in explaining myself or debating people who refuse to see what's starring at them in the face, only choosing to accept partial data while telling people that their experiences are lies and be willfully obtuse. What's being said in this space does not have to be pretty for your liking. You are muted and will get no more responses from me. Seek validation elsewhere and have a good one.

  • @sagittariusbeauty
    @sagittariusbeauty2 жыл бұрын

    They say that because it's profitable, and also because a lot of bm are bitter because they was never picked by that BW they want. So instead of quietly dating out because they want to find someone in common, they date out while bashing BW to try to get back at the BW who didn't want them to make themselves feel better.

  • @jasminedtucker

    @jasminedtucker

    2 жыл бұрын

    This sums it all up. Best comment.

  • @jasminedtucker

    @jasminedtucker

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have never hated BW, but I found myself being bitter towards them in my younger years due to rejection. Once I cleaned myself up and become more successful I realized it was me who was the problem and that the women came easily. I took accountability. These low vibrational lil boys out here do not take accountability

  • @Girlintheewild

    @Girlintheewild

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jasminedtucker but don’t you see the entitlement? I haven’t ever heard white men for example be bitter and upset about white women like this & bash them to the high heavens. If a woman doesn’t want you, she doesn’t want you. It’s no need to demonize a whole group of women. It’s very silly to me.

  • @MoshehM

    @MoshehM

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Girlintheewild no disrespect, but you have never been around white men when they are comfortable if you've never heard them degrade their women. If I'm not mistaken their the ones who started calling their women "sluts" and "whores" for their sexual activity. Usually after finding out that she slept with someone they knew, but wasn't willing to do the same with them.

  • @Girlintheewild

    @Girlintheewild

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@MoshehM Okay, that’s true but the difference is that it’s not broadcasted everything through the music, movies, KZread videos, etc like it is in the black community. It’s all aired out for everyone to see.

  • @JujusOracleMsgs
    @JujusOracleMsgs2 жыл бұрын

    “Humiliation kink” this is the one. But at the end of the day they’re only humiliating themselves. I stopped paying attention to these men. Go where you’re celebrated & stop giving these losers a platform to build off disrespecting black women. They’re dusty

  • @JujusOracleMsgs

    @JujusOracleMsgs

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just clicked on their page for the first time. “Providing truth to females” 😭🛑 fck. Out. Of. Here.

  • @ayannabranchcomb7535

    @ayannabranchcomb7535

    2 жыл бұрын

    Facts. I block and move on, can’t even muster up the energy to get mad. I just hope I never encounter one of these creatures in person

  • @serazvi5387

    @serazvi5387

    2 жыл бұрын

    "dusty" more like moldy ahahah

  • @JP-br4mx

    @JP-br4mx

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bitch it’s not that simple. Go where you are wanted is so simplistic

  • @m.d.1395

    @m.d.1395

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JP-br4mx what if you're not wanted anywhere or are only wanted for your labor or your look that can be stolen?

  • @r.charlene2133
    @r.charlene21332 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad you called this out for being what it is and that is abusive. What these men are doing is not about their personal preferences ( I really wish people would stop saying that ) this is all about shaming, disrespecting, devaluing, and humiliating black women purely for the fun of doing so. This is abusive, this is abuse. These men are bullies and the worst kind, they get a nut behind bullying women. This is sick and disgusting behavior. It is aggressive bullying, and traumatizing for black women. And on top of that, they are emboldening the sort of women that would be with them, to also hurl racial attacks at black women and feel like they can get away with it, This would not be tolerated by society if it were done to any other race of women.

  • @paulawhite5699

    @paulawhite5699

    2 жыл бұрын

    What do you see as the line of demarcation between “preferences” and “abusive” language? The only option is not to deplatform them and that wouldn’t even be a solution, even if it happened. People don’t stop being who they are because you deplatform them. Unless you’re going to chase them down in every space they will continue to do what they do and say what they say. Incidentally, a large part of the Black manosphere is at odds with them anyway. They are ignorant, likely self-loathing, and amoral as far as I can tell. When people like that are forcibly silenced they just amass more notoriety and become cause celebres. Not a solution at all.

  • @Sarah-kv3qs

    @Sarah-kv3qs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@paulawhite5699 They have so many young fans though. I remember I went in their comment section after they contradicted themselves saying if a girl doesn’t sleep with them on the first date she’s a waste of them. When earlier they claim they don’t like “easy girls” the guys under all their videos were willing to fight anyone who called them out lol. It’s toxic

  • @mf4068
    @mf40682 жыл бұрын

    It IS hate speech. Finally! We need an understanding of anti black misogyny and colourism is harming black women

  • @athenasuperheldin1017

    @athenasuperheldin1017

    2 жыл бұрын

    Anti black misogyny is actually called Misogynoir. Just wanted to mention that….but yes I 100% agree with what you are saying☹️

  • @mf4068

    @mf4068

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@athenasuperheldin1017 Thank you! There was me thinking misogynoir was just a fancy way of saying misogyny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Now it all makes sense hahahahahaha

  • @JL-vw6wx

    @JL-vw6wx

    2 жыл бұрын

    except it is not. KZread already has guidelines against hate speech. Please talk to a lawyer. Your legal knowledge is lacking.

  • @natepolitics1490

    @natepolitics1490

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's harming black as well when black women do it

  • @thewb3

    @thewb3

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@natepolitics1490 Correct! That's misandry!

  • @ProfessorFlowers
    @ProfessorFlowers2 жыл бұрын

    I blocked them. I'm afraid to even warn people about them because I don't want to give them any more attention.

  • @markquinn1216

    @markquinn1216

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sure they don't care

  • @karabokhwiane7593

    @karabokhwiane7593

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love you, PF!!!

  • @magdalaone
    @magdalaone2 жыл бұрын

    that’s the thing! It’s radicalizing men who are already really fragile and making situations even more dire. It’s a scary world out there and their podcast is endangering the lives of Black womxn everywhere.

  • @sweetonyxakararegem692

    @sweetonyxakararegem692

    2 жыл бұрын

    If they think god is just gonna let them take us all out....they have another thing coming

  • @ynow9722

    @ynow9722

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let's not go take it too far cool out 😂 they just two fools in a podcast

  • @ruefullysage

    @ruefullysage

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ynow9722 women are literally dying because of men like this.

  • @ynow9722

    @ynow9722

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ruefullysage talk about taking it 2 far lol 😂 what are you talking about

  • @ynow9722

    @ynow9722

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ruefullysage you all with this hypersensitive nonsense is what's endangering the lives of women. That got they opinion it's nonsense so ignore them focus on men that do like you. But no yo gotta be angry and gravitate to the drama. Just like they have their opinion which is foolish to me. I have mine and no men like angry drama queens no matter the color. The older you get the more the angry shows on your face. So being an angry fool only affects you. Not the fools you angry at.

  • @kriskenard
    @kriskenard2 жыл бұрын

    If you're reading this comment, Block "Fresh & Fit"

  • @LaToyaAcademia
    @LaToyaAcademia2 жыл бұрын

    That’s exactly what I said. We are to this point. It’s dangerous and harmful and we need the heads of social media companies to treat it with the same care that they give tons of other communities.

  • @Frosting1000

    @Frosting1000

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s the question tho, what communities? Social media platforms haven’t done anything for tackling hate speech against marginalized communities even though they may pretend to care

  • @icemeoutlikeelsa

    @icemeoutlikeelsa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup, it's no different than how Hitler put out so much propaganda in the media to dehumanize first. And that sh!t gets popular the more you call it out so the only option is to deplatform.

  • @stringybeanss

    @stringybeanss

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I see white creators being deplatformed, or having ad revenue taken away for minuscule things in comparison. But this is just as serious.

  • @7ppploan

    @7ppploan

    2 жыл бұрын

    *TAKE ACTION!* We need to *report their channel for harassment, bullying, and hate speech* towards a protected group. *HOW TO* You have to use a laptop / computer, go to their channel, click "about", then select the little flag icon. Report them for Hate Speech and Bullying. Then go to Spotify and give their podcast a 1 star rating. Black women we have to take action against this continued hate speech against us, and blk men using our degradation as content! *Our demise is not content!* We can shift this entire situation. Look at the amount of views and comments this video has, now imagine every single person reported said channel and reported their spotify? No society, company, or platform is coming to save us! *WE have to show that we're no longer standing for this.*

  • @stringybeanss

    @stringybeanss

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@7ppploan which videos should we flag? theres sooo many

  • @ashleylee651
    @ashleylee6512 жыл бұрын

    I remember years ago I was friends with a guy who was like this. He only dated white girls or black girls who could pass for white, he would say derogatory things about black women and I think it stemmed from he hating his mom who was a single mother and he blamed her for his dad leaving her and going and getting married and having other kids. 2013/2014 ish I stopped being his friend and never wanted to reconcile the friendship. If he felt that way about black women I was not an exception.

  • @iamlaurengill
    @iamlaurengill2 жыл бұрын

    Ladies one thing you can do is go on Spotify and Apple podcasts and give them a one star review. It will tank their ratings and visibility

  • @dinamuburak5619

    @dinamuburak5619

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol try harder. Deception will never win

  • @Blahgirl283

    @Blahgirl283

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s a good start for sure. Seems a lot of people are.

  • @andreag8742

    @andreag8742

    2 жыл бұрын

    What’s deceptive about it ? It deserves one star. Sound accurate to me

  • @dinamuburak5619

    @dinamuburak5619

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@andreag8742 Where is the law that says people should be forced to like BW???

  • @Ri57490

    @Ri57490

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dinamuburak5619 nobody is saying to be 'forced to like black women'. Just don't degrade and put down black women - this is what these men are doing, so they need to be deplatformed

  • @ColRusSer
    @ColRusSer2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t know who they are; don’t want to, but how pathetic they sound. Ok. Just listened to the pointy nosed one; not on their channel but a guy criticizing them. Definitely misogynistic, self hating, and frankly, pretty disgusting and disrespectful. Aggressive guy’s got some serious issues.

  • @serazvi5387

    @serazvi5387

    2 жыл бұрын

    God, if you think just listening to them talk to themselves is bad, you should listen in on their webcasts where they invite women on to "debate" them. It's the single most frustrating, nauseating display of self-indulgence I have ever had the misfortune of encountering. These men have skulls so thick you couldn't drill through them. The only way is to silence them, they have made certain of that.

  • @ColRusSer

    @ColRusSer

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@serazvi5387 Yes! I got that from the little I saw. Unfortunately, many of these woman are young and seem insecure. I do feel for them.

  • @MK-hh1vo
    @MK-hh1vo2 жыл бұрын

    On one hand I'm glad I live a life in which I have no idea who these guys are. On the other hand I'm horrified to discover that this is acceptable on social media. Thank you for calling this out publicly, it sounds like they can make complete idiots of themselves without bringing BW into the mix. I support Kim's message; no room for apologies, deplatform them immediately!

  • @ahnmichael1484
    @ahnmichael14842 жыл бұрын

    Whichever way you aim to deplatform them, you've got my support - ready to get this nonsense taken offline. A bunch of traumatised boys hanging out with "pick me" energy and now they think they are elevated past Black women. Goofy.

  • @Blahgirl283

    @Blahgirl283

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems people are starting by tanking their Apple podcast reviews and Spotify podcast reviews with one star.

  • @ahnmichael1484

    @ahnmichael1484

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Blahgirl283 got it - I'll do that, too! Thank you for pointing it out ☺️

  • @7ppploan

    @7ppploan

    2 жыл бұрын

    *TAKE ACTION!* ; report their channel for hate speech, harassment, and bullying. *HOW TO* You have to use a laptop / computer, go to their channel, click "about", then select the little flag icon. *Report them for Hate Speech*. Then go to Spotify and *give their podcast a 1 star* rating. *Degrading us is not content!* C + P for Report; "This channel consistently promotes misogyny in the most disgustingly blatant, mocking manner. It is truly disheartening that KZread has not taken action towards this user by issuing stipulations that enforce boundaries. These aren't opinions, it's hateful rhetoric that is harming real people."

  • @WondrousJoJo
    @WondrousJoJo2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a black man, and I approve of Kim's message. This black manosphere thing has gotten out of hand, and I'm tired of the disrespect towards BW (and women in general). I understand men have pain and trauma too, but this is NOT how men should handle their problems. I will help to call these men out too.

  • @ycumbess

    @ycumbess

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! @JoJo Boy Wonder

  • @tonyreed625

    @tonyreed625

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well get Cynthia G and her radicalized Blk Men hating followers deplatformed or them dudes ain't going anywhere lol.

  • @outherewildinb2874

    @outherewildinb2874

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tonyreed625 For every 1 Cyn G there's 20 Tommy's, Fresh and Fit's and Kevin Samuels. Their degree and extent of harm is multitudes apart and the most damning, one came *well* before the other (I'll give you a tip, it wasn't the Cynthia's!) What is worse about this conditional support is that it would never be done in the reverse en masse.

  • @hazelbasil6451

    @hazelbasil6451

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tonyreed625 Fresh and Fit type content started WAAAYYY before Cyn G and divestors. Stop deflecting

  • @hazelbasil6451

    @hazelbasil6451

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@outherewildinb2874 THANK YOU!!

  • @BooDotBoo
    @BooDotBoo2 жыл бұрын

    Need to, but we know it won’t happen. There are so many men (and women) who truly believe this stuff, that they’ll keep it going. I wish social media would be better about taking down people like this rather than someone putting ‘acab’ or ‘blm’ in their profile or something silly like that.

  • @125loopy

    @125loopy

    2 жыл бұрын

    The women who truly believe this mess make me so sad.

  • @micahcook2408

    @micahcook2408

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not to mention how dumb their viewers are when they don’t realize that FreshandFit bring on the same type of women who imo they probably hope are unintelligent or messy to “prove” their rhetoric … where are the non-Instagram types for these conversations?? Oh wait… these men only wanna have sex with those types of women. But it’s hilarious because some of those women have shut them down before 😂

  • @7ppploan

    @7ppploan

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah we can definitely get their channel taken down if we really wanted to. Do you see how many views, comments, and likes are on this video?? If every single person who liked and commented on this video reported Fake&Fraud's channel, they'd be down by this afternoon. *TAKE ACTION!* ; *report their channel for harassment, bullying, and hate speech* towards a protected group. *HOW TO* You have to use a laptop / computer, go to their channel, click "about", then select the little flag icon. Report them for Hate Speech and Bullying. Then go to Spotify and give their podcast a 1 star rating. *Degrading us is not content!*

  • @Tephiffany
    @Tephiffany2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, Kim you're right! Where are all the white feminists, when BW need them? This has to be and will be BWs fight. Thank you for being the voice we need!

  • @claudiao7743
    @claudiao77432 жыл бұрын

    The moment they had white Miami girls saying the N word on their channel, I knew what they were about.

  • @athenasuperheldin1017

    @athenasuperheldin1017

    2 жыл бұрын

    One of them has photos of him and his white friends on Instagram where his white friends refer to him as their “token” in the caption. The amount of self hate is astounding

  • @nia-yl7lq

    @nia-yl7lq

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@athenasuperheldin1017 do you happen to know the miami girls' instas or where can i find that post of their yt friends referring to him as their token?

  • @athenasuperheldin1017

    @athenasuperheldin1017

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nia-yl7lq those latinas saying the n word and saying they should be allowed to say the N word because slavery was 400 years ago and Black ppl should get over it…a clip of her saying that was circulating on twitter. Multiple screenshots of the Instagram photos of his yt friends were also on twitter. I will try to send links if I find Them again

  • @theman9048

    @theman9048

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@athenasuperheldin1017 he also has a clip of saying the white man is the most oppressed person in the country

  • @jqk369
    @jqk3692 жыл бұрын

    As a Black man, I do my best to correct my brothers anytime they try to casually throw out anti black-woman rhetoric. Alot of it is rooted in deep insecurity, and it's definitely harmful to the women in our community. I've seen a few black youtubers who seem to be insanely popular for spouting anti black discussions and it's so confusing and disgusting to see people throw their own people under the bus for a couple bucks.

  • @ngpdreamteam2k4

    @ngpdreamteam2k4

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a black man you should be doing the same on the otherside. Don’t pick and choose

  • @jqk369

    @jqk369

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ngpdreamteam2k4 I'm not sure what you mean

  • @tyiingram9878

    @tyiingram9878

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen Brother. It’s up to us to call our other BM and check them real fast. Our sisters must be able to have a safe space with us, not this hateful WS misogynist.

  • @terrencecollins9658

    @terrencecollins9658

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ngpdreamteam2k4 thank you

  • @terrencecollins9658

    @terrencecollins9658

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jqk369 you know what he means. You just another black man scared to stand up to black women. That's why black women don't respect black men cause of coward like you. Ain't no black women had that same energy with Leilani love said what she said about black men. That was hate speech on national TV

  • @UnderRatedBeauty88
    @UnderRatedBeauty882 жыл бұрын

    Attacking black beauty has always been amplified, I wish more of us will speak up to stop this from growing but unfortunately cancel culture doesn’t work. Their supporters are too big to de platform long term .

  • @6hgbfjdbfb
    @6hgbfjdbfb2 жыл бұрын

    I’m not black and I’ve dated men of all races. However, it is a giant blaring red flag when I’ve met men who state they only date white women or hate women of their own race. That is an automatic no from me. It not only tells me that you have some deep seeded issues, but I think what if I become pregnant. Do you think I’ll have a daughter whose father makes remarks about how much he hates women that represent half of who she is? I’m not here to be the woman you’re with because you hate your own. I also realized sometimes it’s based on an infantilized version of the “other” woman. It’s an expectation that *some* women are docile, meek, won’t argue back. Or that they’re hyper sexualized. It’s always going to be a loud no for me.

  • @ArtisanMuzik

    @ArtisanMuzik

    2 жыл бұрын

    They never said they dated white women. Thats always yalls default dating alternative is white women. They live in your head 24/7

  • @redmaple1982

    @redmaple1982

    2 жыл бұрын

    100% any guy that has an aversion to women of their own background has unaddressed mommy issues red flag if there ever was one

  • @6hgbfjdbfb

    @6hgbfjdbfb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ArtisanMuzik or maybe that’s the only experience I personally have, genius

  • @brofrombrum8502

    @brofrombrum8502

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@6hgbfjdbfb Yh. I’m a black dude and my Gf is white (going 3.5 yrs). She knows that what I believe about black women. 80% (are cool and amazing, even though they may come across a little off). Other 20%? Hell no. UNTIL, they seek spiritual realignment, quit bashing black men for all their issues and get in touch with their femininity, they will always be off limits (to all men). Go listen to Kevin Samuels and other wonderful men. Quit agreeing with this woman simply because she too is a women. Holding black women accountable is not bad thing-it’s virtuous.

  • @plabiyi001
    @plabiyi0012 жыл бұрын

    Black women across the globe have truly suffered, hence why I’m pro black women ONLY. Stay blessed queens 👑💕

  • @Tephiffany

    @Tephiffany

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep, Pro BW ONLY!

  • @Jamaican1234

    @Jamaican1234

    2 жыл бұрын

    Say in America only do you see black men out of America doing the same thing,and think you should not bring non black American men and women in to this problem you have with black American men ok peace and love.

  • @AshBreezyBaby

    @AshBreezyBaby

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Jamaican1234 amen

  • @dn30001

    @dn30001

    Жыл бұрын

    if you not married, you are NOT a queen...you are a princess AT BEST

  • @Ebthehousesitter
    @Ebthehousesitter2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely hate speech.

  • @rayofirst8885
    @rayofirst88852 жыл бұрын

    Because it's profitable 📈...A WORD

  • @sinlifemedia4759
    @sinlifemedia47592 жыл бұрын

    I wanna talk about English. The base word of preference is "prefer". If I "prefer" Earl Grey, this means I will STILL DRINK OTHER TEAS but I will choose Earl Grey if it's there. What that DOESN'T mean is that I ONLY drink Earl Grey. That is the difference between hate and prefer. If I said everything but Earl Grey is gross, well, we have now passed preference. Now it's I ONLY LIKE Earl Grey and HATE other teas.

  • @ayannabranchcomb7535

    @ayannabranchcomb7535

    2 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU!!! Omg I love your life for saying this. I PREFER watermelon, its my favorite fruit and I will always pick watermelon first, but I just as happily will eat grapes apples canteloupe and pineapple

  • @emmadilemma7800

    @emmadilemma7800

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Im so tired of people mis-using that word. If i have a preference for pistachio ice cream, that doesnt mean i only want pistachio. I also enjoy chocolate, vanilla, coffee, strawberry, etc. But i think pistachio is the best. If i had different options, i would prefer pistachio over the rest. But if pistachio isnt available, i wouldnt mind enjoying peppermint ice cream. In fact, there may be days i get tired of pistachio and would like to enjoy some amaretto ice cream. If you prefer something that doesn't mean thats the only thing you like; you can prefer something and like other things. I can prefer pistachio ice cream and also like salty caramel. Theres nothing wrong with salty caramel, i may prefer pistachio over it but theres nothing wrong salty caramel, salty caramel is amazing. People just need to be honest and say what they really mean.

  • @hb7580

    @hb7580

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ayannabranchcomb7535 Yes, it is preference vs. mandate/requirement. I prefer blueberries, but I do not require them.

  • @rosemay4526

    @rosemay4526

    2 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU

  • @moniqueloomis9772

    @moniqueloomis9772

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LtheGoddess7
    @LtheGoddess72 жыл бұрын

    “It’s a humiliation kink” is BARS.

  • @PumkinSeedandSpice
    @PumkinSeedandSpice2 жыл бұрын

    It’s so fucking hurtful tho. Since I was a child I’ve always struggled w self esteem as a black woman n comments like these tht perpetuate white supremacy does not help at all. These men tho have been been on some problematic shit in more ways then one. so not tht their approval matters but it’s disturbing tht a lot of black men, young black men, watch them and are absorbing the same Rhetoric but we see it in the entertainment industry all the time from rappers especially.

  • @tyiingram9878

    @tyiingram9878

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s hurtful to me as a BM to hear this, so I can only imagine how so many BW feel. It’s heartbreaking and I hate to witness the emotional trauma it produces. Sister these ugly funny faces fools are use to knock offs and can’t appreciate the blueprint. There’s nothing I love more than my Sisters. Y’all are are the light of my lives and I could never live life without you 👑❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @7ppploan

    @7ppploan

    2 жыл бұрын

    *TAKE ACTION!* ; report their channel for hate speech, harassment, and bullying. *HOW TO* You have to use a laptop / computer, go to their channel, click "about", then select the little flag icon. *Report them for Hate Speech*. Then go to Spotify and *give their podcast a 1 star* rating. *Degrading us is not content!* C + P for Report; "This channel consistently promotes misogyny in the most disgustingly blatant, mocking manner. It is truly disheartening that KZread has not taken action towards this user by issuing stipulations that enforce boundaries. These aren't opinions, it's hateful rhetoric that is harming real people."

  • @sasentaiko
    @sasentaiko2 жыл бұрын

    Yup sounds like reportable hate speech…. misogynoir, misogyny, and anti-blackness all in one sickening combo. So sorry about what black femmes go through with crap like this, even im the face of apologists downplaying the harm, as if it’s know not gonna result in more violence.

  • @JL-vw6wx

    @JL-vw6wx

    2 жыл бұрын

    sorry, saying you dont date a group for known or imagined stereotypes IS NOT HATE SPEECH. You can try and get rid of the First Amendment though!

  • @f3042
    @f30422 жыл бұрын

    I’m officially checked out of all this. I met a West African guy who is about his business and is a far away as you can get from these types you find online. Ladies, there are (Black) men in the real world who are worth getting to know who don’t give off this incel, woman-hating energy and actually WANT Black women! If he doesn’t fall in that category then open your eyes to others. I’ve met guys like F&F and they can’t get over whatever childhood issues they had with Black girls/their mothers. I literally had a stranger tell me he wouldn’t be nice to me because I was the “type of girl who people give whatever she wants”. I realized I must’ve reminded him of some girl from back in the day. They are bitter men. Just run!

  • @SCFLEUR

    @SCFLEUR

    2 жыл бұрын

    They are perpetually stuck in middle/high school. I don’t get it. The people that rejected them then are living rent free in their heads. They need to seek help.

  • @dntwachmewachtv

    @dntwachmewachtv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank your for saying this. Offline, this rhetoric doesn’t exist. I know Black men that NEVER speak negatively about Black women, in real life. I refuse to engage in these types of conversations because it doesn’t reflect my reality. People need to log off.

  • @abenagyampo

    @abenagyampo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dntwachmewachtv Speak for yourself because this rhetoric absolutely exists offline. Yes, there are plenty of good black men outside the online manosphere. There are also, however, plenty of black men in real life who have this same kind of burning hatred for black women that we see online. It’s not just an internet thing. This anti black woman agenda has real life consequences.

  • @randomuser5736

    @randomuser5736

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@abenagyampo Idk, I don't see it much in real life. Most people in the wild are more reasonable. It's only online where you can fake and create your own image so people feel comfortable being extreme. They get rewarded with views and fame. If a regular guy said this that worked a 9-5 he would probably lose his job for hate speech. So the internet saves certain people and allows them to be regressive because they face no consequences. They can say crazy stuff because it gives them views and they have no one that can check them and slow their money down outside of their viewers.

  • @patrickdavenport6254

    @patrickdavenport6254

    2 жыл бұрын

    This isn't just about dating, though. She's talking about giving the world the language to use and the permission to treat black women poorly in any context. This manifests in the workplace, the courtroom, the doctor's office, etc. This affects how we are treated in every aspect of life, and she's right, something has to be done about it.

  • @aunaturellebri09
    @aunaturellebri092 жыл бұрын

    We need to report these types of profiles en masse

  • @helena4440
    @helena44402 жыл бұрын

    First they screamed to the world they're not attracted to trans women. Now they scream they're not attracted to Black women. The question remains. Who is attracted to them?

  • @jasminedtucker

    @jasminedtucker

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right. They look like 2 nerds to me. I'm always confused as to why people think they are cool. They have clearly been rejected by black women, and they are bitter. Simple Mathematics

  • @gmartin5453

    @gmartin5453

    2 жыл бұрын

    They’ve been saying they didn’t like bw. A lot of bw were and still are in denial about it.

  • @Jada0811

    @Jada0811

    2 жыл бұрын

    Maybe other men

  • @JP-br4mx

    @JP-br4mx

    2 жыл бұрын

    And yet when the police comes for them they want us to go catch bullets for them

  • @MizAmeliaTv

    @MizAmeliaTv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nobody

  • @carmenalexis4787
    @carmenalexis47872 жыл бұрын

    But my thing is they’re everything they say they don’t like! They’re mean! They have attitudes!

  • @dodogmahomeboy2009
    @dodogmahomeboy20092 жыл бұрын

    What they said was disgusting.

  • @RichReturn

    @RichReturn

    2 жыл бұрын

    How yall not going date them right and even if other men felt that way, your dms are still filled with bm so just move on. Let men make choices and be comfortable making it. Bm and bw don't belong to each other right?? So just chill out. You always going have dudes chasing u. None of this matters. Unless u just very selfish

  • @A-M4
    @A-M42 жыл бұрын

    Tbh, deplatform the whole Black manosphere while we’re at it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @markquinn1216

    @markquinn1216

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you honestly think censorship is going to make men change their minds? That's going to make things worse

  • @A-M4

    @A-M4

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@markquinn1216 they are a group of men that gives out very dangerous and misleading information about BW, yes deplatform them.

  • @301tg8

    @301tg8

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@A-M4 What about the blk woman divestment community that says all blk male babies should be aborted??

  • @A-M4

    @A-M4

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@301tg8 the divestment community does not have 1/4 the reach that the black manosphere has. Most black women don’t even know that the divestment community exists. But Kevin Samuels and Fresh n Fit are able to reach large sectors of men with their ideology which is dangerous for society as a whole.

  • @301tg8

    @301tg8

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@A-M4 So they shouldn’t be cancelled. Gotcha 👌🏾

  • @HoneyD109
    @HoneyD1092 жыл бұрын

    i’m not going to watch any of their content, but the use of the word “females” in their bio is a big red flag.

  • @communitysolutionspro1520
    @communitysolutionspro15202 жыл бұрын

    I thought it was just me but it sounded like a klan rally. Same men crying about injustice against them.

  • @Librarymania
    @Librarymania2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve come across too many men like this. Their immediate comfort at telling me their innermost thoughts about their viewpoints on black women is disturbing. But at least they’re revealing themselves early on. As soon as that hate comes spewing forth from their mouths, I’m out. These black men have a lot of work to do, and I certainly am not the person to help them do the work. It’s honestly incredible how many black men have not just exposed their beliefs to me, but have tried to get me on board by telling me to listen to these hateful content creators. Just a few months ago, I was on the phone with this man that I was getting to know - he asked me if I knew who Kevin Samuels was. I groaned and said yes, making it clear by my tone that … yeah, I know who that mf is, what about him? This man proceeds to tell me I need to listen to Kevin Samuels so I’ll “understand.” Oh, I understand, alright. Before I can even say another word, he’s texted me some videos and says to watch them right now while we’re on the phone. Like this is some wonderful way to bond with each other. I told him I am NOT going watch that man. This guy then proceeds to start playing one of his videos on full blast through the phone, saying I really need to understand “these women.” Let’s disregard the fact that I am not here for the general misogyny, but specifically hating on black women??? Wtf makes some black men think that white women are down for this?! I am more than sure that some white women play into this bullshit because they somehow see it as advantageous. Good lord it is disturbing beyond all get out. (Edited to add paragraphs)

  • @sweetonyxakararegem692

    @sweetonyxakararegem692

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! These degenerates some how think Kevin Samuels is going to protect them and boost their status. He was literally trying to force you to listen to Kevins rhetoric. This is proof that they dont want to become better people.

  • @canadiankaren2426

    @canadiankaren2426

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are not the first white woman to say this and it’s sad very sad. I’ve had white women tell me what their black boyfriends say about black women and I ask them all the same question “WHAT, is your reply?” And they generally have nothing to say. I’ve dated white, Asian, Latino, and Arab. From the men I’ve dated to the ones I know platonically none of them speak ill of the women in their particular race. Even the ones that only date black women don’t bash the women of their races the way black men bash black women. I’m not even offended, at this point I’m extremely embarrassed for these black men cause all it does is make them look like 🤡’s.

  • @amarabryson6790

    @amarabryson6790

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg! Every black man that listens to KS tells women to listen to “understand.” A cult!

  • @Lovelytrini82
    @Lovelytrini822 жыл бұрын

    I wish that Asian doll would change her name. She is beautiful in her blackness. We need to take pride in our identity. I’m over the BM on the internet. It’s so embarrassing. You even have white men discussing this 🤦🏽‍♀️. And the darker one is a dark skin man I’m guessing coming out of a darkskin women and to say the things he says. Myron probably feels superior to fresh or whatever the stuttering jackass name is. I signed the petition to have them removed.

  • @luvlyerdj93

    @luvlyerdj93

    2 жыл бұрын

    That man's mother has been catching strays on ig.

  • @i-Am-What-i-NAM
    @i-Am-What-i-NAM2 жыл бұрын

    For Harriet is the voice of reason in the KZread wilderness

  • @marymitchell5053
    @marymitchell50532 жыл бұрын

    READ THEM KIM!!!!

  • @jayejustj7955
    @jayejustj79552 жыл бұрын

    Anddddddddd once again you NAIL 💅🏿ED it. Eloquently and Factually

  • @byangel6285
    @byangel62852 жыл бұрын

    There are so many KZread channels out here that target black women with hate. Sadly, they’re getting hundreds of thousands of views. I’ve noticed scrolling through that their most popular videos are the ones that include derogatory content about black women. It’s sad that there’s an audience of black men who view this as entertainment.

  • @mellony5401

    @mellony5401

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not just by black men . Sadly we are more hated on then black men. Don't trust non blacks they enjoy that type of content as well.

  • @301tg8

    @301tg8

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mellony5401 yes they do

  • @Nekole1

    @Nekole1

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mellony5401 Yes, they enjoy and laugh among themselves. Which is why when it comes to other races of women, I avoid heavy interactions.

  • @Kevin-rg3yc
    @Kevin-rg3yc2 жыл бұрын

    “Bc it’s profitable” that’s where it is it’s literally like high school lunchroom politics where the new kid wanna be cool with the popular crew and in order for that to happen, they have to bully and humiliate the kid that’s always picked on, and the point of that is to show the underline roots to being the popular kid is about having power over your classmates these men like Kevin samuels, Joe budden, fresh and fit, DJ Akaedmiks, etc are nothing more than black male equivalents to Heather Chandler and Regina George

  • @kellyanna6610
    @kellyanna66102 жыл бұрын

    I agree, so many young black girls are committing s due to this kind of rhetoric. It’s on tick tok, music, movies and it’s just out of hand and ridiculous.

  • @ademolabakare6112
    @ademolabakare61122 жыл бұрын

    Them guys been hella corny

  • @wynetter3083
    @wynetter30832 жыл бұрын

    This rhetoric is I seriously feel spilling over into dating and domestic violence against black women.

  • @arnitaxavier9446
    @arnitaxavier94462 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I feel like they'll self destruct eventually. There's too much ego and lack of self awareness on that channel and the fact that they attempted to shut down smaller channels for calling then out is quite despicable. KZread literally threatened to shut their channel down if they didn't stop with the ridiculous copyright strikes. One of these they probably just do something incredibly stupid we never have to deal with that nuisance again!!

  • @serazvi5387

    @serazvi5387

    2 жыл бұрын

    KZread threatened to shut them down over copyright strikes??? Of ALL THINGS??? On second thought, idk why I'm surprised 🙄

  • @arnitaxavier9446

    @arnitaxavier9446

    2 жыл бұрын

    It all started I think around with some very questionable things Fresh and Fit said on their channel which resulted in them loosing at least 40k subscribers in a couple days. Although they ended up regaining those subscribers months later, a lot of channels within the manosphere started calling them out on their behaviour and they didn't like it. So they started threatening a lot of channels with copyright strikes in attempt to have them deleted. It worked on the much smaller channels but the when it comes which enoughul power to influence KZread because of how high their following is, it backfired. Everything these other channels were doing is protected under fair use, you don't really need permission to use content from another video when reaching to it because essentially you making new content out of it. It was stupid on their part to the point KZread made gave them 7 days to retract and write these channel ls and apology. This is why I don't necessarily see the point in try to petition against them, they never learn and have been trying to do this on Instagram too. Their too stupid that eventually their going self implode in quite a spectacular manner and it will be very enjoyable. Honestly watching people react to the whole saga and the emails written by the FandF lawyers and KZread are hilarious. Honestly as a woman, I don't have a problem with the existence of the manospere because you have to admit that men don't have shows like the real or channels like this one to congregate to, however some this channels like Fresh and Fit are pretty toxic overall under the guise of helping men be men.

  • @curiouscomrade8680

    @curiouscomrade8680

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@serazvi5387 Yeah KZread doesn’t care abt abusive and hateful content being on their platform. They care abt videos getting clicks no matter what they are. I’ve actually reported a lot of vile s h I t in this site, I’ve also tried contacting them on Twitter (I even reached out to them through email) and every time I did it they said they’d look into it, but at the end of the day they didn’t do a damn thing.

  • @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess
    @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess2 жыл бұрын

    YES IT'S HATE SPEECH AND IT CONTINUOUSLY PUTTING US IN DANGER!!!!!!!!

  • @Dthediviner
    @Dthediviner2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for discussing this. I haven’t cared for their platform for quite some time now due to their sexist, egotistical and hateful rhetoric. Sincerely hoping that no one else gets hurt by their problematic speech.

  • @o.adaobi.o
    @o.adaobi.o2 жыл бұрын

    The fact that black woman continually experience public shaming and dehumanizing to the degree that we do and no one cares is absolutely disgusting.

  • @7ppploan

    @7ppploan

    2 жыл бұрын

    *TAKE ACTION!* ; report their channel for hate speech, harassment, and bullying. *HOW TO* You have to use a laptop / computer, go to their channel, click "about", then select the little flag icon. *Report them for Hate Speech*. Then go to Spotify and *give their podcast a 1 star* rating. *Degrading us is not content!* C + P for Report; "This channel consistently promotes misogyny in the most disgustingly blatant, mocking manner. It is truly disheartening that KZread has not taken action towards this user by issuing stipulations that enforce boundaries. These aren't opinions, it's hateful rhetoric that is harming real people."

  • @slimmsg7

    @slimmsg7

    2 жыл бұрын

    😅😄😅

  • @ofairnsea5968

    @ofairnsea5968

    Жыл бұрын

    Y’all b trash doe

  • @boababtree165
    @boababtree1652 жыл бұрын

    So glad you’re speaking on this

  • @mjcutie8954
    @mjcutie89542 жыл бұрын

    It's so disturbing how men will proudly share how they dislike the women in their OWN race. And then all of the anti-black women stuff they said afterwards. Like is that not embarrassing?

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome
    @CyberStockholmSyndrome2 жыл бұрын

    I really think it’s super important for other women of color (and white women) that interact with these men to hold them accountable for their bullshit. Unfortunately, when we try to do it, we’re deemed bitter and hateful. I don’t think non black WoC realize that being their preference doesn’t mean that they’ll be treated well, and we’ve seen evidence of that time and time again.

  • @andreabrown4541

    @andreabrown4541

    2 жыл бұрын

    If this way of thinking validated their own white supremacist values, why would they?

  • @Andrea-dm4gd

    @Andrea-dm4gd

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol poc women and white women have tried to do this plenty of times you know what happens? black people including black WOMEN accused them of being racist, there are literally thousands of videos about this on tik tok a non black woman says something and suddenly the comments are full with black women saying mind your business. Some of you have a I'm not like other girls Im a black girl complex you actually believe you are the only ones who get accused of being hateful when people bring this up.

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Andrea-dm4gd I’m not sure why you’re projecting but that was a wildly aggressive answer. I’m talking about holding BM accountable when they speak to THEM in a way that fetishizes them. I’m not talking about speaking up on behalf of black women. I highly doubt black women are jumping into conversations between black men and non-black women, where the women are asking to not be fetishized or talked down to. I’ve seen non-Black Latinas point out that they hated being deemed subservient. That has nothing to do with black women. You just sound like you’re mad about something else entirely.

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Andrea-dm4gd also “People of color women” isn’t a thing. Just say “Women of Color” like a normal person.

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    @CyberStockholmSyndrome

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Chloe Of course I hold men accountable when they say bad things about women in general. I’m not sure why you thought this was a “gotcha” when you don’t know me lol

  • @thelovelykimmi7920
    @thelovelykimmi79202 жыл бұрын

    That’s why I’m subscribed to you. You always come with the voice we need. By the way, how do we as dark skinned women live in this world with people constantly picking us apart? Let us live ❤️

  • @mylifeasanadult8792
    @mylifeasanadult87922 жыл бұрын

    It’s tiring, sad and scary.

  • @annabear6313
    @annabear63132 жыл бұрын

    The fact that those men are still on KZread is so disturbing to me.

  • @missantrafalgar782
    @missantrafalgar7822 жыл бұрын

    As a BW I don't particularly care that BM are talking about this... My only problem is that it puts BW in serious danger.

  • @Confettifun
    @Confettifun2 жыл бұрын

    This is why we divest! Stop taking up for ANY black man. Only black women deserve black women’s support

  • @Mr_Nigeria100
    @Mr_Nigeria1002 жыл бұрын

    I'm a black man from UK and there has been a lot of pushback from black men towards F&F. Most black men don't agree with them at all. For all their alpha talk F&F are from failed familes who were in countries (Sudan and Barbados) were many of the ppl r living in the mud n don’t have a biscuit, bcoz whites n Asians have them bent over in those places n these r places were brothas r the majority. But instead of staying n fighting n building like men. They ran to the USA to leech of a country that blk Americans built n fought for and they try to bring their white worship and their self hatred over to the USA And more to the point unlike in their countries blk ppl in the USA r like wha ? 12%. They are outnumbered, out financed, outgunned but black Americans have fought with the little resources they have for rights n benefits, the likes of F&F r too cowardly to fight for in their homelands were they are the majority, the rights n benefits they now take advantage of. I know guys like this they probably liked some black woman but got rejected and that's burned them ever since.

  • @kwenchanasir3063
    @kwenchanasir30632 жыл бұрын

    Black girls are equally some one's preference. Let's go where the love is

  • @YesNess__
    @YesNess__2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Kim!! I went to their KZread page and clicked report, noting hate speech.

  • @court8621able
    @court8621able2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been waiting for this🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @syidm7840
    @syidm78402 жыл бұрын

    Please don't group those Fresh and Fit guys with most black men.

  • @TerriMRoberts
    @TerriMRoberts2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for highlighting this channel because... yikes! I work in the fitness industry too and it is kills me that guys like this are running amok in our gyms and rec centres doing heaven-knows-what kind of damage to people's knowledge, self-esteem, etc. I'm going to show this & a few of their clips to my fitness association's funders next time they ask why we needs fund for diversity training & outreach!!

  • @icemeoutlikeelsa
    @icemeoutlikeelsa2 жыл бұрын

    So many of these podcasts with random straight men just "shooting the shit" are just about fueling hate and ignorance. They have no care or consideration for what they're putting out there.

  • @JustJen1386
    @JustJen13862 жыл бұрын

    Internalized misogynoir + attention is a helluva drug 😒

  • @fabhousevegas7369
    @fabhousevegas73692 жыл бұрын

    Hate Kink is the perfect word.

  • @aunaturellebri09
    @aunaturellebri092 жыл бұрын

    Immediately!!!!

  • @claudinecinous1905
    @claudinecinous19052 жыл бұрын

    The fact that youube keeps censoring other platforms and has done nothing yet for fish and fish is the worst. If they would've said anything about the lgbtq community it would've been a wrap. Why not when it's about black women. Do something KZread!

  • @cheriew2512
    @cheriew25122 жыл бұрын

    This is why I refused to march for them!!! …. never ever! This rhetoric is not new.

  • @amalia5699
    @amalia56992 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! These idiots BEEN getting on my nerves. 🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @kevinasanford
    @kevinasanford2 жыл бұрын

    It's also self-hate speech!

  • @sosweet310
    @sosweet3102 жыл бұрын

    We should also be judging the men who keep quiet and get silenced because they’re scared of being called words like “Simp”

  • @cebolenkosingcobo5122

    @cebolenkosingcobo5122

    2 жыл бұрын

    Simp behaviour should always be ridiculed and publicly called out.

  • @obakgwadi7672
    @obakgwadi76722 жыл бұрын

    LMAO!!! The question that I have is this, would they be able to get those preferences without the bag though??? I mean a month ago Fresh was exposed for dating a preference who made a living by finnesing established man. This lady had tik tok videos talking about how she hate man, man are stupid and she was also giving tips on how to finness them. But yet Fresh had the nerve and the pancreas to sit there and say "WELL, I SLEPT WITH A LOT OF WOMAN TOO IN MY PAST SO I CAN'T JUDGE !!!". Like really!!! He defended her to the core even though she admitted to prostitution.But yet the body counts of black woman are always policed, we are Bit*** and H**** for having dark skin (WHICH FRESH ALSO HAVE). No one can convince me that this dude's mother is white. I almost feel like they have a grudge towards black girls who rejected them in primary school and now that they have success is time for them to punish those girls. This rhetoric that they are pushing is dangerous because is telling man that a black woman is an unprotected tool of abuse. Do whatever you want to her, no one cares and she deserves it. DISGUSTING!!!!

  • @juschill1
    @juschill12 жыл бұрын

    Damn... if she flaming "not fresh & unfit" you know Issa Wrap

  • @meloise1696
    @meloise16962 жыл бұрын

    I honestly would like to say pay these weirdos dust and live your best life, but Kimberly is so right regarding how this is inciting violence against Black women, and that just CAN NOT be ignored. I remember Tommy Sotomayer videos of him literally in the streets being unhinged and violent toward Black women, and I fear it’s only gotten worse since then. He was a sign of what was to come.

  • @icalrox
    @icalrox2 жыл бұрын

    Every word is the truth. Every. Word. And the denial, the lack of acknowledgment, beyond toxic. Thank you for this “call to arms” if you will. It’s a REAL THING!!!

  • @Redskinz8960
    @Redskinz89602 жыл бұрын

    This is alarming. This month we’re about to celebrate MLK Jr’s legacy and life but we have these males disrespecting BW. I love and worship BW. It’s very sad these days how these males are profiting from the disrespect of BW. This needs to stop now!

  • @koladarling3872
    @koladarling38722 жыл бұрын

    Time is a flat circle all of this type of content was big in Black youtube spaces in the late 00's and early 10's and that whole area imploded on itself. The only difference is now is that monetization is a little bit easier.

  • @callalilly4743
    @callalilly47432 жыл бұрын

    They will not be deplatformed as long as black women keep supporting those spaces with superchats, comments and views and call ins.

  • @serenity6831
    @serenity68312 жыл бұрын

    There is no community with this.

  • @tiffanyjohnson6872
    @tiffanyjohnson68722 жыл бұрын

    Oohhhhh why yes!!! We are here for all of this!

  • @Ronii523
    @Ronii5232 жыл бұрын

    Not one lie told

  • @toughsuga2
    @toughsuga22 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this a video !

  • @CharisMaggieTV
    @CharisMaggieTV2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. They did a live stream and tried to justify what they said and I was so annoyed with the fact that the women on the podcast weren’t able to say “ok, u have your preferences but does it have to be stated while degrading black women” They went as far as to gaslight the situation and claim that they make fun of everyone. Mind you, the examples they gave of how they make fun of other groups of ppl was had ntn to do with dating. Like wtf does making fun of ppl have to do with degrading a group in further stating why u don’t wanna date them. And this goes for everybody. U can state your preference without degrading a group. Just say who u like and go

  • @obakgwadi7672
    @obakgwadi76722 жыл бұрын

    Real Talk With Yanie has a link were already thousands of woman has reported that exact video to You tube and You tube acknowledge this problem, please take the link and report as many times as you can!!!

  • @senayon85

    @senayon85

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @JustBrianna
    @JustBrianna2 жыл бұрын

    These shorter videos make me want to subscribe to Patreon for some reason…so I’m going to lol

  • @WhoCares3001

    @WhoCares3001

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's worth it. I do annual subscription to her patreon

  • @adanzeo1

    @adanzeo1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very much worth it!

  • @CyberMachine
    @CyberMachine2 жыл бұрын

    Well lets report them in mass.

  • @e3erockstar08
    @e3erockstar082 жыл бұрын

    Good segment, but I warn you: If you mute THEM, eventually, someone is gonna ask to mute YOU.

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