Nope! I'd send lil mama a gift basket or a gift card and lose her Daddy's number.This is ridiculous. What kind of man would knowingly invite a woman into a loaded situation like this? Like why is it so important for you to be a part of this? Huge red flag. He talks nice but he's not totally kosher. He seems to like drama, so subconsciously he seeks to create it. Steve been testing the capacity for drama from day one starting with him bringing his daughter on the first date. He's lowkey, an agent of chaos.

@theedesertmermaid

5 күн бұрын

💯

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

@@SerenityQueen1 Interesting. I like your perspective.

@theodoraca4013

5 күн бұрын

Absolutely!

@carlinthurston4473

4 күн бұрын

​@@apinspires78 *side eyein' AP 👀

Too much too soon, too crowded. The little darlin' can't always have what she wants. Remember, Steve said that his daughter Always comes First, so you know your place.

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

👍🏾

@carlinthurston4473

4 күн бұрын

True. Yet, Steve still has his life and ppl in his life in order. He respects AP as he honors his daughter. And he's given his word that he will protect (back up) AP if anything foul comes out of his Baby's Mama and/or his brother. This is the signature style of a TRUE and RIGHTEOUS Man. AP trusts HIM. She just doesn't trust THEM. Understandable.😊

@apinspires78

3 күн бұрын

​@@carlinthurston4473😊😉

If the mama is feeling extra territorial and trys to fight or even curse you out, the man will sit back and watch. 100% it's not worth it 😂

@MsBadBody

4 күн бұрын

Yup

That bed sheet was giving me anxiety 😅

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

😆🫣

"I'm too old for drama and chaos."😅😂😅 Sounds like something I would say!😅😂😅

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

😆

Don't go to that party girl lol too much too soon. Follow your first mind and protect your peace! just get Sam a special gift for her bday and give it to her next time you see her

Thats a negative. Baby mama drama in your 40s is a h#ll no. If i truly felt he was a match for me I would plan an outing for just the three of us. Take Sam out for ice cream or to the museum. No psycho family members.

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

😆 I see!

If you really felt touched that the little girl wanted you to come and you think it's cool, I would just tell him to tell her you had other obligations and you will just take her for ice cream or something because no. But on the other hand, she's a little girl, once she is at the party with all her friends, she is not going to hardly be worried about any grown-ups, so it won't even matter!! And he steady promising stuff he could not possibly promise!!

@theodoraca4013

5 күн бұрын

Absolutely! For me, It's a No! No! ..

The answer is no. Sam will be alright!

I think you should listen to your own gut feeling or bad vibe... mine is not positive even though he says nice things. Family introduction is too deep at this juncture. If it were me I would arrange a visit with Steve and daughter the next day and give her a little gift then. 😊 ❤ fr CB NS 🇨🇦 🍁 Happy Independence Day to all 😁 🇺🇲

@kimberleyslauenwhite9004

5 күн бұрын

Hello from the South Shore of NS! Completely agree - never ignore your gut feeling. Everytime I have it never turns out well.

@MurphyFarm2014

5 күн бұрын

@kimberleyslauenwhite9004 Well Hello there fellow Nova Scotian!!! What a pleasant surprise! I'm Mrs Murphy, but you may call me Rita 🤗

Well, y'all two are not even in official relationships or anything, so why would you even go? I guess only to shoot a drama filled episode or two 😀

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

It was a sweet invite from Sam. We'll see.

He's as crazy as his brother calling to invite you to spending a day of madness. Just plain nuts! My outrage over his audacity aside, I have to wonder if he's a narc like his brother, Pastor Travis. How creative of Steve to usurp his ex-wife's importance to their daughter's birthday celebration? He is trying to create a situation that would cause split loyalty between the mother and stepmother, by pitting them in a competition for the child's attention. I'd expect a mother to feel furious, but if she was raised to be civil, would then feel obligated to swallow her anger and put on a happy face instead of cussing him out and taking her kid and leaving the party. She'd be between a rock & hard place, watching her kid flit between daddy's girlfriend (AP) and herself, and her idiot ex-spouse who could've and should've told the child "no, maybe another time". And also - Steve would be 'getting the get back' to his half-brother Travis. It would be so sly and devious; he could bat his eyes to both Travis and his ex and say innocently, "Who me? What did I do?" Then turn to you and play the 'poor me' victim. Diabolical! Aside from all that, for the sake of a continuing a wild azz good story that's going to trigger everyone and make us come back for more drama, go ahead and do it AP! I'm here for that roller coaster ride! 😂

@Msmary98-98

5 күн бұрын

That was interesting 😂😂 I love this comment💜

@apinspires78

3 күн бұрын

​@Msmary98-98 Me too!!!

Don’t do it. Trust your intuition.

Very sweet invite! I'd definitely pray about it. Too much going on there for me to jump right into all that!

Girl that’s a hard no… and you know once one of them puts their hands on you, all that I’m a Christian and I’m too old for drama flies out the window😂😂😂 listen to what your inner gut is telling you, if you feel something isn’t right, it probably isn’t ..

Don't go! But if you do, its going to get spicy😂

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

I love that energy! 😂

Don't do it unless you are ready to commit to this guy (just my thoughts, too much drama!)

GURL tell Steve to kick rocks and send Sam a birthday gift with a pretty card from Amazon or Walmart and call it a day. In fact, have Steve pick up the gift from an Amazon or Walmart store locker. Sounds like your feelings are still irrelevant to Steve. ✋🏾😵‍💫🤣🎁🏪

@apinspires78

3 күн бұрын

😂😂

Wow.... didnt expect this turn... Samantha has a real liking for you. I would go just to make my presence onown to Sam. Chuckle with her for a little bit. And the say your sorry you can't stay but you'll get together soon. As for meeting Steves family. I would encourage him to do that on the side of life.

That B-Day party will be nothing but drama on steroids! Value your sanity and DON'T GO!!! 😄😄😄

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

🫣😆

NOPE! That’s my number one question: “who all gone be there??” At the big age of 40+ you have to protect your peace to age gracefully. 😌

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

Very true!

The Invite from Sam, was Sweet but you have already had an Incident with Steve and his Brother, Why put yourself in a situation that could get extremely Unpleasant and Nasty. Send a Gift Card with a Note to Enjoy her Day.

PSS.. this is one of to be continue that I don't wanna miss.. imma hit that bell ASAP..😂😂😂😂😊❤

@apinspires78

4 күн бұрын

Ha! Thanks.

I really like this one, Sista! 👍🏾👍🏾 I look forward to seeing the next episode!👏🏾👏🏾

@apinspires78

4 күн бұрын

TY 😁🫣

The first time you said you don’t want to go he should’ve just respected your decision and accepted it. But he keeps being pushy and tries to manipulate you with the little girl.. a big no from me. Unfortunately I’ve known someone like that. The reason for his actions? He wants to triangulate you with the mother.. he likes the attention and drama. I would block him.

Guess you wifey now without knowing. He is willing to risk it all to gain everything

I would NOT go. I’d either send a gift or plan a private “birthday again” party the next day with her and her dad.🎉

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

Interesting. Gotcha.

Hate to play devil's advocate but you could always drop by, let her see you then leave! And I mean 5 minutes from car to car! She isnt gonna be thinking about you once everyone else gets there but she will remember if she didnt see you afterwards

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

@@kbstravelpage I really like this idea. Great point.

That does NOT sound fun 😂 Tell him your fish has a nail appointment that day 💅🐠

@apinspires78

4 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂🐟💅

All she has to say is no thank you but thank you anyway

Yeah, no. Hard pass.

To much 🙂‍↔️

My perspective: First off, "You don't feel a good vibe", that is the Holy Spirit already nudging your heart or trying to restrain you... Secondly, what will you be going there as???? If that is not even clearly defined...then, you are already setting yourself up for chaos...and an eventual pain... Thirdly, that he said, "he didn't want to disregard your feelings BUT, that you should consider coming", already says that he didn't take your response seriously or he thinks you don't mean what you expressed as a concern in the first place and maybe feels you can change your mind when coarced.... Hmmm! For me, it highlights he did not and is not listening to your heart... And why would you want to be with someone who cannot feel/discern your heart?. (Selah)

@apinspires78

5 күн бұрын

I love this response. Thank you.

That would be a no for me

1st of all...WTH is wrong with the brother?!?! This is weird🚩🚩🚩 for the brother to be displaying drama🤔. But as far as the child's mother...I'd probably want to come around just to see how HE would deal with her, AND the brother too. Would he have my back? Would he help with making the environment peaceful for me? Do his actions show that he was genuine about inviting me OR is he the type to promote drama??? But if he's calling you, asking you about your "week"...I question why he wants you at this party for his 9 yr old. Seem like you all would be talking more often before being included to partake in such an intimate family gathering. He could possibly be doing too much too soon.

@apinspires78

4 күн бұрын

Great comment!

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