Dating After Surviving a Mass Shooting | Tell My Story, Blind Date
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TRIGGER WARNING: One of our daters was a survivor of the Las Vegas shooting and describes some of the events of that evening.
It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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Her: I want someone settled with a career. The producers: Let's pair her up with the free spirit she has basically nothing in common with!
@KirraKitten
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah seriously!! It’s like they purposely put opposites together😾
@pekkapekka7220
4 жыл бұрын
i think its interesting to see two completely different individuals communicating with one another, it would be boring if they were very similar
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah cuz it's a show. They want controversy
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
Hmm After watching, I mean I think the career thing was less important for sure than the politics and other stuff.
@kencoleman5007
4 жыл бұрын
She's a free spirit. Her views are just more liberal, and less "other" by Sadyr's definition of the word. For someone who was looking for someone "freespirited", he had very strict expectations on relationships. For someone who claims to not be political, he is extremely opinionated about the governernment. It seemed that his personalities and views didn't quite fit the labels that he identified himself as.
I could already tell from the beginning they weren’t going to date.
@eml3077
2 жыл бұрын
Same. He wasn't into her I could see it in his eyes
He’s educated & experienced. I respect his openness and kindness.
Why are the comments so mean about her looks??? If you dont wanna date women with shaved heads and tattoos or something thats totally fine but dont assume that your idea of beauty is the only or right one and dont insult people. Concentrate more on character and more deep things about people. edit: I wrote this comment 1 h after it was posted and the only comments were stuff like "if you have fat arms, dont wear short sleaves" "a cool guy dating a pancake"
@grimjowjaggerjak
4 жыл бұрын
I didnt see any negative comments about her looks .....
@Hellsing7747
4 жыл бұрын
I didn't read any negative comments about her look. I really don't know where you got that.
@johnsommers3902
4 жыл бұрын
Her personality is what makes her ugly how closed minded she is not her looks or bald head I've seen plenty of women rock it
@sleepygirl96
4 жыл бұрын
@@johnsommers3902 then comment about that. But the comments are just unneccessarily mean and superficial. I hate that people tend to insult peoples looks bc they hate the personality. Its just a low blow
@sleepygirl96
4 жыл бұрын
@@Hellsing7747 I wrote this comment 1 h after it was posted and the only comments were stuff like "if you have fat arms, dont wear short sleaves" "a cool guy dating a pancake"
She looks free spirited & edgy but was way more strict and different than she appears 😂
@hyper6632
4 жыл бұрын
All libtards are “strict”. U mean intolerant and hateful. That’s what all liberals and feminists are.
@preettyE
4 жыл бұрын
@@hyper6632 on the other hand, I can tell you're super tolerant and loving of all types of people
@hyper6632
4 жыл бұрын
@@preettyE no one is - ur a blind arrogant hypocrite
@preettyE
4 жыл бұрын
@@hyper6632 and you're just sad
The point he made about both politic sides being the same essentially is true. At the end of the day it’s the government full of people wanting power and money.
@imleilani1314
4 жыл бұрын
factssss
“She’s close minded” Yeah, because she doesn’t want just anybody in her space.
His expression when she said Taylor Swift..... 😩😂
his disappointment when she said country skskskskksksj
@sky-uk7sl
4 жыл бұрын
My disappointment when you said skskskskksks
wow she's honestly a dream! She asked such great questions and was really eloquent! plus freakin beautiful!!
I can sense a slight french accent, charmant ^^
@ThisIsMissCheeky
4 жыл бұрын
And a slight British accent.
@erykahb3902
4 жыл бұрын
Well yeah he’s from France.
I did not think she was a Taylor Swift fan. Or a school counselor. And I like him. A lot.
@jojobee42
4 жыл бұрын
She's one of those girls who make herself look "alternative" - but the truth comes out when they open their mouth.... ~ A Tyler Swift fan! This girl is as mainstream as they come! lol
@hayleydawn9823
4 жыл бұрын
@@jojobee42 Hi, i'm the girl in the video. I think it's quite funny that everyone is assuming that I am TRYING to be alternative or edgy, just because that's what he said he was looking for. I actually enjoy people assuming something based on my looks, then being nothing like that! I hope watching these videos makes you rethink a lot of physical judgements! Cheers
I wanted this to work just because of the hair contrast 😂
A gemini & a scorpio We all knew where that going lol They both are beautiful tho
@pasc8699
4 жыл бұрын
geminilicious I wish they did a mini series where they pair up people with compatible zodiac signs to see if they would actually be a good match
@Doritohottie09
4 жыл бұрын
@@pasc8699 this is such a good idea
@gem2148
4 жыл бұрын
@@pasc8699 I wanna see that
@sailaway258
4 жыл бұрын
Lol whats wrong w that pairing
@AdrienneIsabella
4 жыл бұрын
sailaway258 everything ! scorpio + cancers or capricorns r the move
I’m French and I was so happy that he considers France as his home I felt like I found a friend 😂
His hair and his eyes, o my! 17:17 HIS PROFILE, so beautiful.
@amarahsrabbitry1073
4 жыл бұрын
vegan feminist Yes!
She kinda looks like halsey, it's probably cause of her beautiful smile.
@BigG90
4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!😍😂
@clairedeluna2116
4 жыл бұрын
Me too! And their voices are so similar. I was going to write a comment about it, but I found yours instead
@meihsin2149
4 жыл бұрын
@@clairedeluna2116 I thought the same!!
@dj-byrd
4 жыл бұрын
Okay, I thought it was just me
They are both so beautiful inside and out ❤️
I hope she's aware of how beautiful she is
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
Agree. Hawt
he’s so right saying both sides are the same. the only difference is social views and theyre just gonna try and make money no matter what
It’s weird bc these two have like nothing in common but I feel like they vibe...🤷♀️
Their teeth are amazing
He did the sweetest thing at 8:51, after she talked about the shooting and being more jaded. He stretched out his leg so his foot sort of overlapped into her space and it seemed so protective, like he would have liked to give her a hug.
@bbycherub2420
4 жыл бұрын
Kristy Eden Wow I didn't notice that
@dazzypeters6793
4 жыл бұрын
I caught that
@isaiahsilverstein4412
4 жыл бұрын
Don't encourage rape culture. Her space is HER space.
@NatashaVincent
4 жыл бұрын
He's also 6' and may have just needed a bit more room
@AstraeaAntiope
4 жыл бұрын
@@NatashaVincent Okay.
I'm so early for once and I have to say, this is my favourite series! It's so fun haha
She is beautiful
I like how thoughtful she was. She had great questions.
2019: blind dates 2020: blindfolded dates
@iamme3906
4 жыл бұрын
Cody The Fox Post anime stuff and i will
11:46-12:34 ..THIS man ..has mastered the MATRIX
Seemed like an interview at times. She didn't let him finish speaking and would cut him in the middle of talking to ask a question.
I love this series!❤️
How nice it is to see normal lovely people just have a chat about their backgrounds and beliefs! It's so refreshing and interesting to hear where each person comes from and what they like and dislike. :)
they’re both stunning 😍
They vibed really well and I was expecting that they give the first date a shot and see how it goes, I was so disillusioned to know that they gave the same answers based on political reasons and the so called edginess, that's insane, this platform is meant for people to connect with each other regardless their areas of interest in life, moreso you can't expect the other party to be everything you want and you can't want them to like everything you like and you also can't make them love everything that turns you on, I would definitely watch these two beautiful souls a thousand times because the vibing was so serene, I don't know if they felt something but I felt something strong for them, just so vexed bc the ending wasn't what I wanted, best of luck to them.
I love that this show is an in person version of online dating, which had become our norm. What I especially love about this introduction is that both parties were positive and accepting of each other without trying to compromise their beliefs or dismiss their intuition. I loved that she said that they could find that thing they had in common and build a friendship on that. I think that is beautiful, and moreover, the missing link, that is in its absence, fuels hate and resentment across political party lines. By far, my favorite version of this format. Well done.
I love this series❤️❤️✨✨✨
Seemed like she was interwing him! Relax.
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what he says pretty much at 20:28. But I didn't necessarily agree, I think he was just laid back and she was just very direct.
@ajh.4131
4 жыл бұрын
Dating IS interviewing lol Nothing wrong with asking questions. You gotta find out if it's someone you want to be with long term. Hence, the whole point of this video.
@marisellopez6022
4 жыл бұрын
@@ajh.4131 true, but her dating style seems intimidation like theres a wrong answer not a back and forth to get to know someone. She seemed very judgmental to what he had to say.
He seems so kind hearted...!! 💋
The beginning killed me 😭 the way she smiled and you could clearly tell it’s not what he was expecting
Aww, Hailey’s so shy and impressionable 😊
Crazy I finally met somebody with the same story as me. I moved here from 🇫🇷 (Boise,ID) when I was 10 both of my parents are from west Africa (Liberia) I’m 29
I love this show so much !!!
in the beginning some people have this look like “great, now i have to deal with that..”
The way he look at her?!😍
this dude speaks to me. Great taste in music!
This dude is gorgeous. damn
If it really came down to politics, then they would mind if their partner had different political beliefs. It's good to know what their boundaries are, but it's like even if you are similar, there will be times you'll disagree.
@OriginalBeast
4 жыл бұрын
And prob the Taylor swift lol
I like his views on politics and the way he explains what he thinks, while with her it seems like she needs to believe that there is good vs evil fight happening right before her eyes.
I like her very sensible view on cheating, not overbearing or overly specific, just based on honesty and would you behave that way or say something if your partner was there with you too. Good head on those shoulders. Can't be doing with these girls who have complex rules of sexting is cheating, kissing without tongues isn't, with tongues is, strip club isn't but private dance is, liking and following on Instagram isn't but having inactive dating apps is basically intention to cheat etc etc.
She's so pretty!❤
It’s super important to be open minded so you can make connections with other people who are different from you. Even if they don’t agree
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
To a point. White nationalists, no thanks.
@hollandemerson7489
4 жыл бұрын
Plen122 exactly, but a good communicator can listen openly and understand that persons reasoning. That type of “connection” as in, just a conversation instead of an argument
There's not too many of us women who could be absolutely beautiful with a haircut that short... She absolutely nailed it... Gorgeous
I like the concept of these videos. Snap judgement is simply a cop out in my opinion. There is so much more to a person than that. But, that being said, I felt like something was off fairly early on listening to these two people. It seemed a little awkward and contrived. Still, glad they hung in there and were honest. Appreciate those who participate in sharing this experience.
this is how respectful human beings have conversations!
i agree to an extent what he said about republicans and democrats. the current two-party system we have is severely flawed
When I saw her I said I would definitely not date her. After listening to her views, I would date her.
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
Me too. Did you notice, at 11:04 she got serious. Then around 11:27, oh boy. Lol
@JCooK2007
4 жыл бұрын
After seeing her I would not date her, after listening to her I definitely would not date her.
@kbanghart
4 жыл бұрын
@@JCooK2007 I definitely would.
@maikas.6035
4 жыл бұрын
After seeing her I would date her, after listening to her I definitely would date her.
@JCooK2007
4 жыл бұрын
@@maikas.6035 Americans have low standards
My impression of him is that he was really apprehensive in the conversation, kind of reserved. And it's interesting to me they got each others' answers pretty well on most questions (to me it felt like more than other couples paired on the show, but I haven't checked to see if that's true or not), and I wonder if that's key to their decision in some way, as it reinforces in more confidence that this isn't the right thing for either of them.
Ok so I personally know Hayley, she was the best substitute teacher I had ever had, until she moved 😔, she's still my favorite though. I still remember when she first shaved her head me and my friends came to school and we saw her and we were like OMG YOU LOOK LIKE HALSLEY 😂😂 Love you Hayley 😘
A fan of Makala ! I did not expect that
I like this show! How do I get on it?
I knew from the beginning that he was originally from Senegal 🇸🇳
She's so pretty
His eyes just glow!!😍
He’s cute😍 I also like his personality
He's incredibly charming and handsome. Also, French! 🤗
My Favorite Singer is Prince. When I'm sad I listen to Anna Stesia. I grew up in San Antonio texas. My Dad was an Air Force pilot. My mother was a College dean. I like to do Cardio. I like to play Chess. I like to do sketch Drawing. I have Depression. I have been clean and sober For 24 years. I love Boxer Dogs. I would love to roller skate again. I was married for 6 years. I'm scared of Large statues. I have never cheated on my Wife. I love to read. Tennis is my favorite Sport. I have been to numerous Sporting events as a child. I'm Single and Celibate.
I don't go into dating or even friendship searching for similar interests because interests are always changing in people. I search for clicking/chemistry and common values like are they family oriented like me because these things are deeper than interests.
Wowwww, so at the beginning I thought she reminded me a little of Halsey for some reason, and so I guessed her name would be Hailey, omg. I didn't think I'd actually guess right 😂
She's a cutie! 😍
♪ Makala ♫ by Big Boy Mac... It says a lot about this guy...
That chair his sitting in was meant to be mine. She is gorgeous inside out
I love you Hayley!!!!!!!!!
Can we please have more, 'My Last Days'?
What a good match!!
I could tell from the moment he saw her that he wasn't into her. They could maybe be friends but also I think they could just move on like they are too different even to be friends.
15:50 haha that's funny he said thin waist, wow I wouldn't say anything like that in that kind of interview no matter her size lol
I like these two
WOW She's beautiful x.x
On another note this is the first time I’ve seen anyone from NC, raleigh gang
I like both of them actually. I think they were very pleasant people, just not right for each other. I could see both sides of the politics they talked about and everything else. I hope they find the right partners for them.
I just can't get over how gorgeous this man is....
The country music things a deal breaker.
@marisellopez6022
4 жыл бұрын
No.... taylor swift is a deal breaker...
@thillygooth510
4 жыл бұрын
@@marisellopez6022 😂 trueeee
@katsweeterly2039
4 жыл бұрын
agreed!
@ajh.4131
4 жыл бұрын
Glad it's not just me. It may be petty but it's my truth lol
A swiftie 💗
I use to think that being edgy was cool but now that I'm in my late 30's, I think it's actually the opposite of being cool. Because some edgy people are trying so God damn hard to be cool and they end up being uncool. At least for me. But I can understand why you someone in his 20's find those kind of people attractive.
@alishamcg
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Isthisthingonp
4 жыл бұрын
Hellsing7747 what exactly is “cool”? Cool can mean different things to different people.
@darlenefoster3379
4 жыл бұрын
Hellsing7747 agree 100%%%%
@Hellsing7747
4 жыл бұрын
@@Isthisthingonp True, but I'm sure you know what I mean.
"Your siGN Is CANCeR"
I love her brain.
He’s from France... of course he has an accent
Why did he smile like that when he saw her???? 😂🤣
What is the background music at 9:12?
She definitely needs to coincidentally meet me... 🤷🏾♂️
*She looks like a thicker version of HALSEY* ♡
Survived.
Oh, well.... if it didn't click, don't push it.
I’m Senegalese too 🇸🇳
she's beautiful
He seems like a cool guy, you can tell politics has a huge impact on her life as it's typically waste of time to stress over. I don't see Europeans and Americans having much in common tbh....I mean that generally, obviously there's gonna be people that match.
I would date her! She's intriguing and gorgeous
Just remember don’t judge looks. Just care about the personality
He looks SO MUCH like the italian youtuber Felipe Conceicao!!
Taylor Swift: *am I a joke to you :( ?*
I could just tell she was into astrology even before she started talking