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@jeff2758

6 ай бұрын

Y de😅😅

@andysPARK

4 ай бұрын

I unsubscribed and set KZread to not notify me of your videos because of crap like this video.

I think the biggest problem is that if you tell someone for 14 years every day that they are insane, at one point they start to believe you.

@haghendowdy4750

3 жыл бұрын

there's a term for that in psychology, self-fulfilling prophecy, you can show it by providing positive and negative feedbacks to people's goals and see what happens

@mello3762

3 жыл бұрын

That’s not a problem , ain’t nobody be telling someone that everyday for 14 years my guy

@WilliamAndrews0

3 жыл бұрын

@@mello3762 there is no need to say anything when you lock them up in a psychiatric ward and won't let them leave. That brings the message across well enough.

@cyjacob3726

3 жыл бұрын

trisha paytas

@piemanpie3072

3 жыл бұрын

there is like a thing that if a doctor or somebody that you trust says that if you take a pill or something it will actually have an affect even if the pill does nothing idk what it is called like if you say: what is that smell it smells so bad. and like hold your nose people will think it will smell

Imagine after the speech he just started laughing and said “ That's right. I am Tony ”

@kristianprigl7895

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@kyre6872

3 жыл бұрын

HOLY GOD-

@olteanemanuel2767

3 жыл бұрын

That would have been awesome

@cityofdreams23

3 жыл бұрын

Woah

@sh1ft3r79

3 жыл бұрын

I've looked at this comment for about 3 minutes or not, and I'm still not sure if this is a Death Note reference or not lol.

The absolute best Ted Talk I've ever heard. "He's a gray area in a world that doesn't like gray areas. But the gray areas are where you find the complexity." The majority of societal problems has to do with the many labels and stereotypes places upon things. If those left, we would be a lot better off.

@lucylulusuperguru3487

2 жыл бұрын

In some cases you would be right...in others, many of us would be wandering lost in a fog looking for someone to lead us.

@carriedewey2228

2 жыл бұрын

Reality is everything is sjhades of grey. Not black and white

@9media9

Жыл бұрын

I wonder how many find this confidence in diagnosis and prescription to be ironically simplistic...

@benyendle2584

Жыл бұрын

That's why I'm anti LGBT

@susiaquino303

Жыл бұрын

He has several very interesting books, he mingles with extremists, for example, to understand their point, which I respect greatly

surprised the checklist didn't have "stands in a dimly lit room with two very bald men behind him in the shadows"

@hoaithunguyen4473

2 жыл бұрын

Nah, he just left that out because then it'd be too obvious /s

A book with 374 mental disorders... Find someone that has none of them and watch that number go up to 375.

@swift3602

4 жыл бұрын

eiebsrebla no comments?

@eiebsrebla

4 жыл бұрын

@@swift3602 Idk man, apparently you didn't have anything to say besides 'No comments?' either. So I guess there's not much to say.

@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027

4 жыл бұрын

jesus didnt

@edwardmonroe272

4 жыл бұрын

@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 Exist?

@varikvalefor3773

4 жыл бұрын

edward monroe: JESUS CHRIST is, amongst historians, thought to have nearly certainly existed.

,,There's about 30 or 40 psychopaths in this room." Psychopaths in the room: *laughing inside*

@Rozza2k

3 жыл бұрын

Like a sideshow Bob laugh 😂

@denniskitt1187

3 жыл бұрын

Nope, they were the one laughing out the loudest:)

@_TiredMotherfucker_

3 жыл бұрын

Actually most psychopaths dont even know they are

@albertodemarchi9562

3 жыл бұрын

It's other that cinsider them as such, that Is the strange thing to understand

@user-gp2rf3hn1f

3 жыл бұрын

Psychopath's mostly blend in with the crowd to appear normal, so they'd probably laugh the loudest in the crowd.

Don’t mind this comment: I’m just writing down some time code I’ll have to use for a school presentation: Tony’s story : 2:24 Tony sane-looking outfit : 4:21 Convince you’re sane : 5:56 "sitting like a journalist" : 6:35 Statistics: 8:50 Capitalism : 9:25 AI Dunlap’s grand Florida mansion: 10:52 Dunlap psychopath checklist : 12:19 Journalist defining by the maddest edges: 13:49 Everyone is a bit psychopathic : 15:46 Gray area : 16:54

@jaeheekanghan

2 жыл бұрын

Actually thank u, that will help me too in the very near future

@PeacePills.

2 жыл бұрын

sounds like it’d be a really good presentation. i’d be entertained the whole time if i was hearing this story for the first time in class.

@lessisbest3286

Жыл бұрын

Al Dunlap prob needs that mansion to affirm he is smarter than the rest of the world. A psychopath needs nothing to convince themselves they are smarter than the rest of the world. Oil painting too.

@BokorugroRR

Жыл бұрын

How did the presentation go?

@tinyellierose7885

Жыл бұрын

was it a school presentation? hope you got a good grade 😊

I remember learning about a psychology study where the researchers would admit themselves into a mental hospital. Don't remember too much of the details, but the main point was once you're labelled as "insane" it's extremely hard to remove the tag. Even if you behave normally (which is hard to do when you're actively trying to behave normally) and deny that you're insane, it's labelled as insane behavior.

@carolinegable4946

Жыл бұрын

The Rosenhan experiment! "On Being Sane in Insane Places" !!!

@smartugs1

Жыл бұрын

If you read Jon Ronson’s book, The Psychopath Test, he references that study. This talk is just a flavour of what is an equally excellent read.

@lorisewsstuff1607

Жыл бұрын

@@smartugs1 okay, that's going my reading list. Thanks for the tip.

@trynabeproductive6808

9 ай бұрын

Rosenhan Experiment?

@trynabeproductive6808

9 ай бұрын

@@smartugs1Rosenhan Experiment?

Tony: I'm not a psychopath! Tony's doctor: *That's exactly what a psychopath would say!*

@jamesmidmer8845

4 жыл бұрын

catch 22 right there

@stupendoushorrendous8258

4 жыл бұрын

666th like, hail satan.

@thechosenbeastdoesgames956

4 жыл бұрын

when people think you are sane it is easier to convince them you are crazy than it is when they think you are crazy and you are trying to convince them you are sane

@xEmji

4 жыл бұрын

When i read this i see the meme with the 2 girls yelling and the cat at the table😂😂

@gamingbitchface6823

4 жыл бұрын

Narcissists are easy. They love admitting they're narcissists, for the most part.

"He's a grey area in a world that doesn't like grey areas." Never heard anything truer.

@SirShifter

7 жыл бұрын

I kid you not i read that at the exact time he said it.

@nachomomo100

7 жыл бұрын

that's crazy me too

@ayyylmao101

7 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THAT QUOTE

@acc373r4t0r

7 жыл бұрын

i can relate... According to, Wikipedia, i'm a sociopath with antisocial personality disorder, but i think i'm in that grey area

@1Willum1

7 жыл бұрын

Weak quote... Replace "Grey area" with pretty much any negative word and boom! You're a philosopher.

"a world that doesn't like grey areas" is a perfect description of Twitter.

@seraphim108

2 жыл бұрын

Everything, really.

@firstname7480

2 жыл бұрын

Racism isnt a grey area

@xparacosm

2 жыл бұрын

@@firstname7480 how does racism have anything to do with this now?

@Saga_Anserum

Жыл бұрын

Honestly just the whole Internet. People view others as 'you're human, I agree with you, you can't be wrong' or 'you're a monster, I hate you, everything you do is wrong.' People need to see others as human.

During my life I amassed a huge number of diagnostic labels - anxiety, GAD, depression, OCD, SAD, PTSD, potential bipolar/BPD, complex PTSD.... only, it was none of those things. It was autism and it took 41-years, decades of therapy, and countless clinical assessments to be correctly identified. The DSM is only helpful if the clinician is fully aware. And believe me, not all practitioners are made equal. Misdiagnosis happens all the time.

@Badass_Brains

4 ай бұрын

Makes you wonder how the DSM will continue to evolve in the coming decades!

someone once said "it is easier to fool people than to convince them they're fooled"

@souloftheage

3 жыл бұрын

You just quoted Mark Twain.

@phyllisneal8687

2 жыл бұрын

Ask trump or markle‼️

@cwarpaint2763

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect to describe the world lately.

@aryansarc

2 жыл бұрын

Brandolini's law

@brianmccarthy5657

2 жыл бұрын

Anime People Mark Twain said "it is easier to fool people than to convince people they've been fooled".

All my dreams end with people screaming, "you're a failure!" Then I go to bed

@nickcompton2367

4 жыл бұрын

so then its not a dream

@LokiBeckonswow

4 жыл бұрын

savage but well played

@jessanna4138

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@LeviAckerman-tn4zj

4 жыл бұрын

yikes i wish i didnt relate

@jeffreychen5130

4 жыл бұрын

liked this post, notice it was at 69, unliked

This reminds me of a study conducted in 1960s by Rosenhan, where 8 completely sane people go into these hospitals claiming they heard voices but then act completely normal. it tuned out that nurses recorded their very normal behavior like pacing out of boredom as schizophrenic traits

@Kisamon

11 ай бұрын

I'm sorry, either I missed it, or that didn't explain how they claimed they heard voices.

@leandru7

10 ай бұрын

@@Kisamon I think it's just worded a little confusingly. The subjects claimed they heard voices in order to get into the hospitals. Once inside, they acted normally, but the nurses recorded their normal behavior as schizophrenic behavior.

@Sashazur

5 ай бұрын

I think they also took notes about their experiences and the staff wrote they “exhibited note taking behavior”, whereas the patients said “you’re faking aren’t you?”

@lh3428

2 ай бұрын

@@KisamonYou could also have a look at the study yourself.

I think the conclusion is so on point, we live in a world that’s obsessed with categorisation because it makes things easier for us to understand but this is something that doesn’t work well when applied to mental state

@aaronday7677

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on

@paulsimonsson

4 ай бұрын

It doesn't work well in most situations I would even say

"It's a lot harder to convince people you're sane than to convince people you're crazy." I fell that on a spiritual level.

@idontknowireallydontknow.467

3 жыл бұрын

i didnt

@lunavyz901

3 жыл бұрын

i didnt

@derin4307

3 жыл бұрын

@@lunavyz901 ...ok...

@raijin2950

3 жыл бұрын

Spirituality is for crazy people.

@danielleconklin2154

3 жыл бұрын

I actually repeated it, whispered out loud. Felt that too.

"The only difference between a madman and me is that the madman thinks he is sane. I know I am mad." Salvador Dali

@CellGames2006

4 жыл бұрын

- The Grandaddy of live action anime.

@MichaelSmith-cs8mn

4 жыл бұрын

Crazy people don't think there crazy, I think I'm crazy, therefore I'm not. Crazy ey? -M. Smith.

@vladmarius9181

4 жыл бұрын

"The only difference between a poor man and me is that I print my own money." Salvador Dali.

@lotvanderburght8806

4 жыл бұрын

We need easier explanation but beautifully stated

@sausagecream9462

4 жыл бұрын

Wannabe phycopaths be like:

I find the part about bomb-sniffing bees interesting, because I've been to bad MDs and bad therapists many times, and every time I feel like I don't trust them and read my journal afterwards, it's obvious why I didn't trust them, simply because they misinterpreted several things I said. For example, when one MD asked me about my daily life as unemployed I said that I play video games, go for walks, and other things like that. What they wrote was "Plays video games all day and never goes out". And once I told a therapist that my depression got worse a specific year, and I had previously mentioned that I moved in with my partner that same year, in my journal it said "Partner makes them depressed", which wasn't true at all, especially since my depression got worse in the beginning of said year, and I moved in with my partner in the end of that year, and my partner actually helped me to get help in the first place, because I didn't even know I needed help, my partner saw the signs. In the past 1.5 years, almost 10 years since I first tried to get help, I've finally found a therapist and a psychiatrist who I trust. I haven't read the journals they write, because I don't feel like I need to, because I doubt that they write things that are simply not true. Sure that they might misinterpret me at times, but they're so understanding in general that I trust that they don't write things that are outright wrong.

@Saga_Anserum

Жыл бұрын

Psychiatry unfortunately has the same issue as medical sciences do: people will join for the sake of having control over others. I'm glad you found someone who joined to genuinely help :)

@marketads1

Жыл бұрын

I know exactly what you’re talking about only it was, painfully, a series of custody evaluations for my daughter. Where we live they strive for even parenting unless you can prove or they find something egregious. I found so many of the professionals toeing that line that they actually changed, omitted or just lied on reports in order to make us both equal.

@TheDendra7

Жыл бұрын

Going for a walk one a month doesn't qualify.

@SqueamishNerd

Жыл бұрын

@@TheDendra7 What on Earth are you talking about?

@Nanbread-bw7nq

Жыл бұрын

@@TheDendra7 why not? besides they said “daily life” so I’d assume it means they go on walks *daily*

Absolutely. I went to visit a friend in a mental hospital. When we were sat there, there was random screaming and banging in the corridors which was really scary! I said "I bet you stay in here all the time, I know I would!" and she said she had to start with but she'd been told they thought she was insane because she didn't want to socialise with the other inmates. So she was having to force herself out to be with them. I cried all the way home for her. (She's fine now and back in the community).

@areuarealman7269

3 ай бұрын

I was forced will have too be forced again if needed I'm not spirit again f all psychology unless I'm learning about it or dealing with the practiced elders and medication s.

"The grey area is were you find the complexity, the truth, the humanity." Beautiful quote.

@Macbobob

3 жыл бұрын

I like Leonard Cohen's line "there is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in". For me it means that truth can be found between the theories, the logic, the systems, in the unquantifiable bits of life that are ignored.

@southernbenz2098

3 жыл бұрын

Where**

@vchankobuonloi7013

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, but I haven't understood why the grey area is where we can find *humanity* yet. Can someone explain it for me 🤔

@skuyliving8889

3 жыл бұрын

@@vchankobuonloi7013 here take my example, bad and good human behavior is depend on the situation, the rough situation : killing people is bad, why would you kill people without reason? Is it good if you had a reason? You know what? Idk you why I bother to answer your question? Are you even real? F you. Alright why I'm mad at you? I'm sorry. Your welcome.

@alexanderorban650

3 жыл бұрын

@@skuyliving8889 5head explainations

"Crazy people don't know they're crazy. But I know I'm crazy therefore I'm not crazy. Isn't that crazy?"

@ChozCunningham

4 жыл бұрын

I'm CPL. Klinger

@TwiceBorn369

4 жыл бұрын

In his book he writes about that. Psychopaths don’t know their psychopaths and anyone who says their crazy is not.

@gdolphy

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a serial commenter. I respond when you least expect it. Tick me off and i will comment until you can't any more. I can't help it but it feels good.

@rafi7252

4 жыл бұрын

@@gdolphy hi

@tapasgopalakrishna285

4 жыл бұрын

you're crazy

I wasn’t sure what to expect. I was perfectly entertained. Quite thought provoking.

there are great points in this - sometimes, people overanalyze things - you can eventually turn into the person you “hate” - let’s just say the media or everyone else will always nitpick on other’s business -_”You shouldn’t define people based on their maddest edges”_

I really like that one line "I was desperate to define him by his maddest edges."

@dailysacrificedoublee

3 жыл бұрын

906 likes; no replies. ... Nevermind.

@devan6127

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah wow powerful line

@oskaripeurala2612

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I edged for like 40min once I wonder how long this beast did.

@orianabecerra9217

3 жыл бұрын

what is edge? in the translate say is a border. can someone explain uwu

@Cinderspark9

3 жыл бұрын

@@orianabecerra9217 it means that he wanted to judge him by the most extreme parts of his personality

Plot twist: He's Tony. Jon actually did go to the bar, and Tony killed him, and assumed his identity.

@Demiglitch

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, Jon's always looked like a geek, no self-respecting psychopath would choose that.

@maia3168

4 жыл бұрын

@@Demiglitch But then wouldn't that be the best way to hide your psychopathy?

@drthraxine

4 жыл бұрын

So basically you stole the number one comment and played with it, are you a psychopath ?

@yuy2375

4 жыл бұрын

@Daniel Watanajarukij but also cunning lol

@mash2865

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Watanajarukij Remember how smart they can be, they would take that hit to the ego.

This is so true it’s sad. I got sent to a mental hospital for a WEEK in that week they put me on 2 new meds I’ve never been on and tried to say I had a bunch of stuff wrong with me. They told me it was unnatural to cry bc I was in the hospital (against my will I should add) on my mother’s birthday and my best friends family’s funeral

@morganj7734

2 жыл бұрын

Also the more you would ask to leave or try to convince them you weren’t crazy then they would literally tell you to your face the more you ask the longer they make you stay. So by the 4th day I just stopped crying and talking to the staff

@froglobster

Жыл бұрын

Wow - just being forced to go there in the first place must’ve been scary. The people that work there maybe were once patients.

@Adzes

10 ай бұрын

No they didn’t tell you that, you thought they were telling you that and you may need to listen instead of overlaying other folks attempts to communicate with your own assumptions and ideas. How can you hear when your own voice drowns everyone else out?

@bellaluce7088

8 ай бұрын

@@morganj7734 So sorry you experienced that! That is literally my nightmare. Good wishes to you!

@bellaluce7088

8 ай бұрын

​ @Adzes Gaslighting & Trolling in one, + bonus points for hypocrisy and lack of self-insight. Congrats, I guess?🏆👺🏆

" Capitalism rewards psychopathic behavior: the lack of empathy, the glibness, cunning, manipulative, remorseless. In fact, capitalism is a physical manifestation of psychopathy. " - Journalist Jon Ronson.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

2 жыл бұрын

This assessment is not wrong. It only scratches the surface, but... it's not wrong. Humans are, however, running short on something which they have no control over (and never did)... "Time is the only resource for which no creature may bargain." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (book 1)

@jmdoza3938

2 жыл бұрын

Capitalism huh? So much so with the other one as well.

@marisamartin3664

2 жыл бұрын

Says Ron Johnson who is likely highly paid by corporate sponsors for his work. BS

@manwhoismissingtwotoenails4777

2 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with playing the system.

@jonhakim5698

2 жыл бұрын

@@jmdoza3938 "the other one"? You believe there's only one option other than capitalism?

About the bomb-sniffing bees: he wasn't wrong.

@dcmurphy5157

3 жыл бұрын

Those bees are like: Screw honey. All my homies hate honey. We out here smoking gunpowder.

@Views-qz8we

3 жыл бұрын

Bees have the best smell in the world. Way better than dogs

@jameszaldana375

3 жыл бұрын

Why cldnt it be mosquitos

@marysamreth1710

3 жыл бұрын

Plot twist: He's Tony. Jon actually did go to the bar, and Tony killed him, and assumed his identity.

@rashin7315

3 жыл бұрын

diagnosis: believes bees can smell explosives

"You know what Jon? Everyone's a bit psychopathic." "You are, I am. Well, obviously I am."

@Tamizushi

3 жыл бұрын

IDK, I actually score very low on every points.

@TheC-O-D-Y-Project

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tamizushi Yeah, but that's what a psychopath would say...

@Tamizushi

3 жыл бұрын

​@@TheC-O-D-Y-Project Not really. Psychopaths are often quite happy to brag about every single ones of their psychopathic traits.

@RNFLACKOratshobo

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tamizushi no they don't because they don't wanna be separate from the crowd they want to be a part of it so that they aren't called out, their scared of their imperfections because it shows them they're just like everyone else and bursts their bubble of grandiosity as it brings them down to the level of a normal human

@Tamizushi

3 жыл бұрын

R N You are assuming psychopaths act rationally. We aren't talking about a hypothetical pathology right now. What I'm telling you is that actually, in real life, when psychopaths are asked about their psychopathic behaviors, they tend to be quite unapologetic about it. They brag about it. I'm not saying they say "I'm a psychopath", I'm saying if, for example, you ask them if there are ever ashamed of anything, they will say "never", and so on.

This is my favorite TedTalk of all time. Have listened to it so many times I've lost count, and it's had a huge impact on me. I just want to say; Thank you, Jon, for this magical talk.

@DOR8421

Жыл бұрын

pretty good. i watched twice.

@Zer0Cylon

7 ай бұрын

I recommend his book, The Psycopath Test... very very good

@Badass_Brains

4 ай бұрын

Definitely one of the best speakers!

Idk what it is about this guy but his talk was absolutely captivating. It wasn't just the subject matter, it was the way he delivered it. Also I don't know if those scientologists proved that psychiatry is the baloney that they think it is.

@drthomashemingway

Жыл бұрын

Agreed

Most important to me is this journalist admitting that he took the bits that backed up how he wanted his story to look and left out anything that contradicted it. It takes a good person to admit that.

@darwinjaevidavin8916

3 жыл бұрын

He admits it, but then proceeds to present an outlier and a very specific case in order to further his pointless point of "Every one's a little bit psychopathic". It takes a smart man to admit he's wrong, and a good man to actually do something to correct himself.

@16m49x3

3 жыл бұрын

@@darwinjaevidavin8916 He purposefully provided examples that pushed in both directions so as to not present any conclusion.

@TheBuddyLama

3 жыл бұрын

Bragging about intentionally being deceptive is the trait if a good person? Really? Or is it more psychopathic?

@16m49x3

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBuddyLama I think you are reading too much into it. All Journalists look for sensationalism to sell their writing. You don't hear about all the days a nuclear power plant is doing just fine. You hear about that time one of their pumps malfunctioned. If you write a book about someone, you won't write about his days were nothing happens. He is saying that his job is to look for things to write about, which happen to be when things are off or wrong or exceptional. And that having this incentive if followed to obsessively can be very deceptive for those listening. Just look at media today, all news channels on the planet suddenly got obsessed with finding sensationalism to the point where they want something horrible to happen so that they can write about it.

@crystaltrees4188

3 жыл бұрын

A bit like what lawyers do.

Who puts a biography of ted bundy in a prison??

@daisyflowers9334

4 жыл бұрын

Emily Herbert.. I would call that nutty, but because someone on the prison library staff thought it okay, it was okay. This the real craziness that goes on. Jon Ronson is so right, our society today cannot deal with grey areas.

@blondwiththewind

4 жыл бұрын

People should be aware that not all psychopaths in a prison are the ones that are behind bars.

@daisyloumisakidondu6159

4 жыл бұрын

Um psychopaths aren't exactly known for their honesty lol

@ZingaraJoe

4 жыл бұрын

Good observation, that one had slipped by me, having a Ted Bundy biography in a prison library is insane.

@gfox9295

4 жыл бұрын

@@daisyloumisakidondu6159 Neither are people in general. Everyone lies, as Dr. House says.

If you're watching this video and feeling like you're at the end of your rope, please know that you're not alone. It's okay to reach out for help, whether that's through therapy, medication, or just talking to a friend. It can be a long and difficult journey, but there is hope and healing on the other side. Thank you to the creator for sharing their story and shedding light on this important topic.

@charlesharrison3207

Жыл бұрын

This is such an important video highlighting the importance of discussing mental health and overcoming the stigma associated with depression and anxiety. For those who may be struggling, it's essential to know that there are resources and support available. You may want to check out @Dr.healingstrain, a mycologist who uses mushrooms to help people overcome depression and anxiety. They provide valuable information and support for those dealing with mental health challenges, and their work is worth exploring.

@charlesharrison3207

Жыл бұрын

On Insta iG

@dr.karidouglas1312

Жыл бұрын

Depression is feeling down but having no control over your body. You continue to smile on autopilot but deep down you are screaming in constant torment.

@dr.karidouglas1312

Жыл бұрын

I have researched and found out that shrooms are very helpful , it has really helps to reduce anxiety and depression . I would love to try magic mushrooms but I can't easily get some , Is there any realiable source I can purchase one

@moisesodette7286

Жыл бұрын

iG ☝️☝

A mentally ill ex friend of mine once screamed at me for being happy to find out I was autistic. He was upset with the idea of labels, I was explaining to him that my whole life was hindered by my inability to understand why I was so different from others. I didn’t understand why I functioned differently, thought, and felt differently. When I found out I was autistic it changed my life. I was able to accept myself and fully understand myself and begin to understand others. I functioned better in life, I socialized better, and I finally went to college. He screamed “your a Pisces! That’s all there is!” But my friend was too far gone in his illness to realize that he was upset with himself for being ill. I had to stop talking to him for my own health. My point in telling this small story is that sometimes the labels can help you understand and overcome what your going through, and you don’t have to be bound by them.

@hobosnake1

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I have ADHD. No question about it. I found out at 22 and it really put a lot into perspective. I always described myself as lazy, stupid, burnout. Turns out I have a mind that requires constant stimulation. I am doing better now. I am none of those things I thought I was. I am nicer to myself. I am less anxious and resentful and outwardly upset since I figured out what was wrong. I'm doing more to grow as a person now. The ADHD isn't going to define me, but the label helped me. Thanks for sharing. The labels can be harmful or useful. It's best we all reflect on them.

@user-vi1dl3xg4g

10 ай бұрын

@@hobosnake1 me too, thank you for writing your experience :)

"Can I buy you a drink in a bar?" Only if you promise not to start a fight with me and end up in jail another month.

@boring5718

7 жыл бұрын

BlackManiaGaming Hi

@iahelcathartesaura3887

7 жыл бұрын

BlackManiaGaming "No, I won't have the drink with you bc I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder and dude you're kinda making me feel anxious!" Lol He TOTALLY should've had the drink with Tony imo. For a thousand really good reasons in favor, which one or two reasons against the idea could never gain validity over. If I was this guy, I'd do everything I can to find Tony and have the meet up. My situation had contributed to me losing touch with tons of people and connections in my life, and it SUCKS to let that happen! EVER.

@mysterio952

7 жыл бұрын

U from Ireland or Scottland? :D

@gloriawhite2565

7 жыл бұрын

Boring www.

@UniQueLyEviL

7 жыл бұрын

XD

"It could be carnage by the end of the night" Everyone: *nervous laughter*

@JBird-bv6zp

3 жыл бұрын

The lady that sat up and adjusted her legs didn’t laugh and it def sent off red flags 😂

@wonton5016

3 жыл бұрын

Upstream53 ........irrelevant?

@shirleywright8759

3 жыл бұрын

If I laugh evilly at that part thinking it'd be fun, what does that mean🤔

@JBird-bv6zp

3 жыл бұрын

the doors of perception def normal 😂

@dkjcb3993

3 жыл бұрын

one person at the back row: *excited laughter*

his behavior would be normal in a regular place, ex. at a coffee shop, but is extremely inappropriate given where he was, a psych ward. imagine how uncomfortable a suit is when you're supposed to wear it - what would drive someone to go through all that effort, at a place where no one else was dressing up?

@jafaralawad1507

2 жыл бұрын

Suits are not for everyone. I used to hate wearing them. But then i started working in sales and they required me to wear a suit everyday. after 2 weeks it became the most comfortable thing to wear. now i wear them even at home cause i like the weight, the pockets, and how tough they are. they work for winter and summer. I hate how much i like them now cause i really hated that job and quit after a month

One of the issues with this is that being a psychopath is not in and of itself something that a person should be institutionalized for. It doesn’t make someone a killer, it doesn’t mean they’re violent or dangerous. It’s also an inherent trait that cannot be “cured.” Institutionalizing a person because they’re a psychopath is actually kind of messed up.

@guitarszen

11 ай бұрын

Something a psychopath would argue, a rationalization. Did you even bother to look at a list of traits for psychopaths before writing that? A couple of key traits: a lack of empathy, especially for the suffering of others; cruelty, in particular to those weaker, smaller, more vulnerable. These together constitute a constant potential to murder or torture other living things. You wrote it yourself "...an inherent trait that cannot be cured".

@Rachel-yj2ze

11 ай бұрын

@@guitarszen I agree it’s not a good thing- there’s a reason it’s a diagnosis and not just a character trait. About 1% of the U.S. population has psychopathy. That being said- your list of traits is partially incorrect. What was described in this video is a set of traits associated with Psychopathy, but the DSM defines it as being “callously unemotional.” This can result in a diverse set of other traits and issues, however, things like cruelty or violence are not guaranteed. Psychopathy is considered a risk factor for violence, but it is ONLY a risk factor. My point is that people should be institutionalized only when their mental illness has gone beyond their ability to manage it in such a way that endangers their life or the lives of those around them. To presume that simply because someone showed traits of psychopathy is as messed up as institutionalizing someone simply because they are bipolar.

@picture-you

11 ай бұрын

Finally someone actually gets it. Bizarre to me that most people seem to be lacking critical thinking skills to be able to understand this. I do not have psychopathy myself, but find it sad that the world is convinced that psychopath = 100% evil. I can’t even imagine how stigmatized those diagnosed feel on a daily basis. I have loads of empathy for that. People fail to understand that it is a disorder (a rare one at that) and not an inherent moral failing. You can’t help the way in which your brain is from birth. It simply is the way it is.

@guitarszen

11 ай бұрын

@@picture-you you really have no critical thinking skills. Psychopathy is linked to cruelty, sadism, murder, lack of empathy, etc. Just because someone is born that way doesn't mean everyone has to accept them and be subjected to their disorder. You can't even understand the potential harm a psychopath can do.

@Liberty_Freedom_Brotherhood

4 ай бұрын

“Psychopathic” some might say!

KZread: "Recommended for you" me: What are you implying?

@jadeingels3475

5 жыл бұрын

Hmm, I think you might have a case of severe paranoia disorder, on account of the belief that a website algorithm has conspired to convince you that you're a psychopath.

@jessarose2288

5 жыл бұрын

@@jadeingels3475 it's a joke.

@saucemonster7137

5 жыл бұрын

@@jessarose2288 THAT was a joke

@davidhuynh5600

5 жыл бұрын

lol u'r ok

@fredericks1035

5 жыл бұрын

@@jadeingels3475 ī890)pparķìnson

According to the "Check List" my cat is a psychopath. I knew my parrot was, but my cat?!?

@marylynne9104

4 жыл бұрын

Patrick Martin - aren’t all cats psychopaths? I knew mine was before I heard the talk! 😆

@MartinFluteCompany

4 жыл бұрын

@@marylynne9104 I think you may be right. All this time I was thinking my cat was simply aloof, lol

@cakeules

4 жыл бұрын

I noticed your psychopathic parrot perched dangerously close to your head... Are you sure that's a good idea?

@MartinFluteCompany

4 жыл бұрын

@@cakeules Not to worry, my parrot heard the story about the rattlesnake that bit me. After a lot of agony and periodic throws of uncontrollable pain the snake finally died.

@politereminder6284

4 жыл бұрын

ALL cats are psychopaths. 😸

Your talk was absolutely fascinating. I agree that psychologists and psychiatrists over label people, me included. I was and still do experience clinical depression, but one psychiatrist that would only see me via video chat and had a heavy Indian accent was bent on labeling me as bipolar, which I am obviously not and had been seeing doctors for years and showed absolutely no signs of bipolar disorder. I told her she was crazy and asked for a different doc. She was totally demeaning and refused to transfer me to a different psych doc. I had to find a different clinic and start all over. These docs are megelomaniacs at times and do more harm than good and if a patient is weak willed can be harmed irrevocably by them and the medication they prescribe. I dodged a bullet I believe.

@chimrichalds5205

Жыл бұрын

Exactly - people need to be aware that it's not abnormal nor suspicious to try a different Doctor, for any reason. There are pressures/madates to hire certain people that would otherwise never be considered. Some are blatantly incompetent, some are intolerably smug and dismissive, etc. It's a demoralizing experience with bad treatment, but, there's also good Doctors out there who are intelligent and actually care about your outcome.

@bellaluce7088

8 ай бұрын

I'm sorry that happened to you. I've had similar experiences and it's so frustrating. On a separate note, it would be a kindness to remove the reference to the doctor's accent since many people with accents are made to feel ashamed for them. Unfortunately, I know firsthand that clinicians from every kind of background can exhibit the kind of bias you experienced. : - (

"It's a lot harder to convince people you're sane than to convince them you're crazy." *That was my constant mood thorough my teen years.*

Reminds me of a story about a man who was visiting a friend in a psychiatric hospital. He couldn't find the right ward when he spotted a man watering the garden and asked for directions. The man gave him the information and then said "I'm actually a patient here, you can see that I'm quite normal, could you put in a good word for me, because I don't really belong here." The visitor agreed to do so, then turned away to walk off. Suddenly he was hit in the back of the head with a brick, and the man said "Don't forget now!"

@Mxrk_Hxshim

3 жыл бұрын

Then what?!,I found your story in the cliffhanger...

@LSHFT_Eido

3 жыл бұрын

amazing

@emmettkasey1087

3 жыл бұрын

we need a part 2😂

@greywaren6034

3 жыл бұрын

Wut

@jackfrost2146

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mxrk_Hxshim Does a sane person throw a brick at someone's head to get their attention??

It would have been bone-chilling if in the end he was actually Tony.

@lepetitloic68

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah that could be a real good movie plot !

@jnanakirti4993

6 жыл бұрын

And this video was taking place inside of an asylum 😶

@guha9692

6 жыл бұрын

dude this comment got me shook

@siharachavarin3460

6 жыл бұрын

MrSirBossMan psychopaths are just as bone chilling because they are still capable of awful things. It's just like an alignment. If a psychopath is Chaotic Neutral or Chaotic Evil, they do as they please and kill for pleasure

@daria9170

6 жыл бұрын

um, he did murder someone when he was 17.

"But the grey area is where you find the complexity. It's where you find the humanity, and it's where you find the truth." That's a beautiful quote, and I've felt that, believed that, my whole life. That quote, that realization, is a gem. "He's a gray area in a world that doesn't like gray areas." I also like that one because it too is very true.

As over-quoted, as he is, the story reminded me of this “The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”-Marcus Aurelius

Plot twist, the speaker has schizophrenia and Tony is a imagined character.

@victoriataylor5168

4 жыл бұрын

hahaha

@kpopping3488

4 жыл бұрын

Plot twist again he is tony😂😱

@lionessprowess3581

4 жыл бұрын

Lol😂

@j.k.2257

4 жыл бұрын

*an

@rach3496

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

The dsm gives several symptoms of psychological disorders. The reason why everyone can relate to those symptoms is because, at healthy levels, they're all mostly normal human behaviors. They only become disorders if these symptoms interfere with your ability to live a normal life. (By normal I mean live a functional live)

@simulateduniverse9373

2 жыл бұрын

When a mental disorder crosses the line of being disruptive to your life, it becomes a mental illness. That's why psychopathy isn't classified as a "mental illness" because most sociopaths or psychopaths live fairly normal, productive lives. Since psychopathy is not an official mental disorder, the condition experts diagnose it as ASPD.

@SimranRawat260701

2 жыл бұрын

yes! in fact you can only classify something as a disorder if it is all of the following: 1)dysfunctional 2)dangerous(to self/others) 3)deviant 4)distressing

@Launicaliz

2 жыл бұрын

Spelling counts

@brucegelman5582

2 жыл бұрын

Define Functional

@qxob2123

2 жыл бұрын

What's a functional life though

I read Jon's book years ago and enjoyed it very much. A fascinating subject in which I was interested. Further research into Psychopathy showed a scary world in which these folks walk among us and have absolutely no empathy for other people. I've known them socially as well as in business and they are frightening. Much better to avoid them whenever possible.

Wow. That was one of the greatest TED talks I've ever seen.

I started therapy properly a year ago after a pretty intense period of self-hatred and self-harm. My psychologist was very clear in letting me know that I showed *traits* of Borderline Personality Disorder. I fit the bill, I could tick off on a lot of the 'symptoms,' I related heavily to others I met with BPD, but she didn't want me to diagnose and *define* myself by that. After a year in therapy, there's been certain traits I don't fit at all anymore, and some I never did, and sometimes a trigger will have me acting exactly like that. But she understands that grey area- and the focus is on managing the triggers, never the disorder being What I Am.

@silviasegura3742

3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant! And congratulations Amelia

@findparadise

3 жыл бұрын

@@silviasegura3742 Thankyou :)

@Nikora.Biddle

3 жыл бұрын

@Milly May what are you, 12?

@arachnidfingers

3 жыл бұрын

THIS. this talk does do a great job of pointing out that looking at a list of symptoms in the DSM (or anywhere for that matter) can lead to feeling like you have one or multiple mental disorders. the degrees to which one feels symptoms, the frequency in which they’re felt, the pain or disruptiveness they cause, when they began, and what prompted them all matter, too. it takes an trained (and ethical) professional to help interpret symptoms, make a diagnosis if one exists for you, and identify the level of care and type of intervention that’s needed. in thinking about this, the “everyone’s a bit x” statement is both true and untrue. yes, all people can, and likely do, exhibit symptoms of certain disorders. it’s forgotten, though, that these symptoms exist on a spectrum of the human experience. for example - everyone experiences anxiety. it’s a natural reaction which we evolved to help protect us from danger. it only becomes a diagnosable disorder when it begins to interfere with ones life and shows up at times when it shouldn’t. sorry for being si long winded, but my point is that your therapist handled your case as it should be handled. people don’t fit neatly into boxes and it’s the job of a good professional to understand that and ensure their practice reflects that.

@hey_its_abs

3 жыл бұрын

You have a very good psychologist!!

Idk why but I was thinking "This could be a great movie."

@cynthiab7007

4 жыл бұрын

gmmg ABSOUTELY OMG

@eaint6889

4 жыл бұрын

mindhunter on netflix is pretty much on the same lines as this, and it's really good.

@nsrlegaltech

4 жыл бұрын

Same thought ...Option this now! Who do we cast as Tony?

@antonniemi8164

4 жыл бұрын

its pretty freaking good book

@donnajohnson236

4 жыл бұрын

They did make a movie about this - called "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest."

It's 2022, and this is still one of the greatest Ted talks ever

My consultant once sat me down to just talk about the reasoning of medicine - amazing clinician; works as an oncologist but ran the spectrum of knowledge from philosophy to psychology to clinical medicine. As we were talking about diagostic reasoning he laughed (very kindly) about some of my attempts at trying to breakdown symptoms and diseases. "When you have a hammer, everything looks like a nail." He'd say. He retired this year and I don't get to see him much anymore. But I think that's the point this video tries to make. Clinical medicine is deeply complex and we try our best to box things up because patterns emerge in random events but individual events are inherently random. The DSM and Psychology isn't witchcraft and white coat doctors trying to label everything they can - and it's worth remembering that the reason that DSM grows isn't to try and label everything as abnormal; but to try and tease out the complexity and nuace of what is abnormal and try and sift through the wheat from the chaf. Physicians are fully aware of the pitfalls - that's why the training to become a psychiatrist takes so long. It's not about memorising the DSM - it's about understanding the grey zones where most people lie.

@antonialovrencic4347

Жыл бұрын

The only sane comment in this section

That hit pretty close. I Imagine a psychopath never cried themselves to sleep, that simplifies the test a bit.

@yogurLAPIZ

3 жыл бұрын

But they can fake so they have their way

@danielhayes8348

3 жыл бұрын

I've cried myself to sleep bc I realise Im all the things on the checklist...

@Human1337

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielhayes8348 so you're not a psycopath? Sorry, I can't make myself cry, cool if you can lol

@Human1337

3 жыл бұрын

hmmm......I can, but only when I think of sad things which isn't relevant to the discussion, are there other ways of making yourself cry?

@yaimart4268

3 жыл бұрын

@@Human1337 actors do it😐 its quite amazing i wanna learn how to do that

This is honestly my worst nightmare, not being able to prove I'm sane.

@SylvesterLazarus

5 жыл бұрын

Hey! It's Dr. John Smith! Please stop acting like you were not in our asylum. All you do all day is sitting by the wall and typing on an imaginary keyboard and looking at an imaginary screen. You even imagine that you have a doctor called Dr. John Smith.

@natashagalt6631

5 жыл бұрын

@@SylvesterLazarus Dr John Smith is my beau. Stop being such an impersonator 🙄. Blocked, reported and moving on.

@Jiyukan

5 жыл бұрын

@@natashagalt6631 Come on Pineapple! If you would be insane, the voices you hear in your head would most certainly tell you!

@natashagalt6631

5 жыл бұрын

@@Jiyukan #WhenPeopleSayYouHearVoices #ItsJustMyFriends lol

@freedomrider266

5 жыл бұрын

That's the issue: No one should be allowed to require you to prove that without you having done something criminal that relates to mental state.

One of the best talks I've seen, can't believe it's a 10 year old video and I've not seen it until now.

If somehow, you can crack the faces they've hidden just by a feeling of discomfort or just by a gut feeling that this person is not what they seem, trust it with all your heart and up your guards to maximum. Calm, cool and collective is the key. The consequences of being manipulated by someone might just be the end of you, either psychologically and physically, it just truly just an horrific and traumatized experience, and it WILL get downward from the moment you knew you hooked.

"Grandiose sense of self... which would be hard for him to deny because he was standing under a giant oil painting of himself" 😂😂😂

@jackmac2226

3 жыл бұрын

Plus he was a Leo.. so 🤷🏻‍♂️

@theblandcharlie822

3 жыл бұрын

@@jackmac2226 hey >:(

@Pepechu

2 жыл бұрын

@@jackmac2226 Astrology is meaningless

@jackmac2226

2 жыл бұрын

@@Pepechu How long have you studied it?

@jackmac2226

2 жыл бұрын

I dont need to google a random biased experiment. I've studied cosmic correlation theories for 25+ years. You're basing your opinion on someone else's findings. It's an esoteric science that has been around for several thousand years and unfortunately for the less erudite of the subject became muddied through the simplification and popularizaton of sun sign or "star" sign horoscopes in Germany prior to WW1

4 out of the 5 voices in my head liked this video.

@marilaucher9989

4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant.

@dragonlvr069

4 жыл бұрын

The four walls in my room said I should watch this, the roof told me not to. I don't think I trust my roof anymore.

@MrAlucard1964

4 жыл бұрын

Stephanie Logan "Selective Mute"

@MrAlucard1964

4 жыл бұрын

Stephanie Logan There is no "We" in Bacon.

@MrAlucard1964

4 жыл бұрын

Auspicious Legend Sorry but, I don't watch "TED" as a rule. Can't really comment on past videos. I have a life and KZread is for when I can't sleep.

wooow the storytelling, the background music and the animations gave me goosebumps. amazing! i was so immersed in the story.

My mothers friends child was diagnosed with autism when he was 6. He didn't respond as a normal child when he was spoken to. Always kept to himself and didn't speak for the most part. Once, when they came to us, my mother was gentle with that kid. As she always is, she started to pet him, was gentle and cheerful. Called him by his name and spoke to him as if he was a normal child. She noticed that the child reacted to her words and looked at her in a focused manner. I don't really know how she persuaded those parents, but they stoped the treatment. Started to spend more time with that kid. Found a child psychologist that helped them find mutual language with one another. That child is 13 now. He is fine. Going to a normal school, having friends, normal life. I have a couple of stories like that in my family where believing doctors ment hurting yourself/relative. The lesson for me from all of these stories is this - doctors are not you friends, not authority figures that you follow unquestionably. They are tools to fix the problem. You decide wether to use them or not.

I was waiting for him to say he was actually Tony

@arraikcruor6407

7 жыл бұрын

Same but that wouldn't have made sense.

@armando429046

7 жыл бұрын

wouldve made him seems insane talking in third person and writing a book about being a psycopath from a different point of view

@timewave02012

7 жыл бұрын

That's how the M. Night Shyamalan version ends.

@reinaaqua685

7 жыл бұрын

SAME LMAO

@LydiaKelso123

7 жыл бұрын

JayPG that would have been great!

“15 of you are psycho-paths” *small woo’s in background* I think I found them.

@stefanfyhn4668

4 жыл бұрын

That's not something a psychopath would do.

@djmystery7235

4 жыл бұрын

I know, most psychopaths don’t know if the are psycho’s.

@meinctutw8261

4 жыл бұрын

@@stefanfyhn4668 thats something a psychopath would say

@stefanfyhn4668

4 жыл бұрын

@@meinctutw8261 I'm a Cynic, that's different 😝

@meinctutw8261

4 жыл бұрын

@@stefanfyhn4668 thats not something a cynic would say

This is hands-down my favorite Ted Talk. I've watched this at least six times.

During my psych rotation at a state institution, one of the docs explained that it was much harder getting out than getting in. No doc wanted to sign off on someone they believed was sane. Regardless of sanity, there was always the chance the ex resident subsequently performed a criminal act, and they (the doc) feared that they could be sued and held liable.

I was looking for the strange answers to the psychopath test.

@Naixatloz

7 жыл бұрын

Me too. Very disappointed, not what I came for, 1/10.

@briankelly8697

7 жыл бұрын

kilroy987 me too

@finbarmurphy6740

7 жыл бұрын

I expected it, but wasn't disappointed!

@hanashie1520

7 жыл бұрын

" Everyone's a bit psychopathic "

@muushoo4772

6 жыл бұрын

especially Sherlock and Hannibal fans

"He is a gray area in a World that doesn't like gray areas" --> so true. Everything must be either black or white...

@Cliew5473

4 жыл бұрын

And ironically, that's typical of people with bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder -- thinking in terms of black and white :/

@omgitsyoubaby

4 жыл бұрын

@@Cliew5473 I have BPD with high functioning bi-polar. Unsure about anyone else, but I could see the black and white thing true for many of us, but now I dont mind that I'm supposedly in this gray area. To me that is like being centred; black and white, right and wrong, good and evil: we all experience these things, but woudl never know one from the other if we didnt see both sides.

@aljonmercado7339

4 жыл бұрын

how about asians?

@dannykeuerleber7419

4 жыл бұрын

@Uğur Kaan Komanlı everything is about race now

@daviddas6846

4 жыл бұрын

@@dannykeuerleber7419 Yeah I can do a 100m pretty fast

This man is funny! It’s very difficult to joke about such a intense topic.

This is one of the best TED talks ever!

Only a psychopath would have the background music that high while giving such a presentation.

@Doctor_Eightball

5 жыл бұрын

He's deranged.

@thatsweetlilthing2

5 жыл бұрын

It was intentional for an entertainment presentation. Context ma dude

@Doctor_Eightball

5 жыл бұрын

@@thatsweetlilthing2 I find nothing entertaining in the suffering of others. [Insert rape joke] 😀

@Doctor_Eightball

5 жыл бұрын

@@thatsweetlilthing2 I guess he got the "E" part of TED right, then.

@homesculptor

5 жыл бұрын

It seems to create a lovely grandios effect.

I gotta admit that this dude got mad presentation skills, with the background music, effects and all that.

@ceIIardoor

4 жыл бұрын

The background music was much too distracting, and his voice delivery was a bit awkward...he failed on that last revelation - awful delivery.

@michaelledger3677

4 жыл бұрын

@@ceIIardoor totally agree some interesting things were said but fell flat because of his lack of presentation skills, but gotta give the man credit he isn't a natural and stood infront of 1500 I think he said, pretty nerve racking for people who are not confident in that sort of thing.

@Abbyabee

4 жыл бұрын

Cellar Door i agree that last bit could’ve been delivered much better, but i didn’t find the background music distracting at all. it added to the tone of the whole presentation imo

@darrellmeadows3713

4 жыл бұрын

Hrz meditation

@josephmccarty3740

4 жыл бұрын

Abby I use this video for my business school classes, to demonstrate the very subtle distinctions between high-quality, multimodal delivery and over-the-top, pretentious mooching. “This is the kind of embarrassing presenter you would be,” I tell them, “if your instructor gave you a list of tips and general advice but no

Edit: I wrote just "personality disorder" when I really meant "antisocial personality disorder". Huge error, my bad. This is why the term "antisocial personality disorder" is used now rather than psychopath or sociopath, because antisocial personality disorders exist on a spectrum, and it makes room for all the different types and degrees of people that would otherwise be labelled psychopaths. Most people with these personality disorders can live normal lives once diagnosed. They just have to monitor their empathy harder, like many other mental illnesses. Also, I came up as ~40% psychopath on a few psychopath quizzes because there's overlap between personality traits associated with autistic people and personality traits associated with "psychopaths".

@tessiepinkman

4 ай бұрын

All personality disorders don't equal someone being a sociopath or a psychopath. I have a personality disorder; BPD. It's got nothing to do with being a sociopath or a psychopath. I also have Complex PTSD, debilitating anxiety and depression. I only tell you this because what you wrote is simply wrong; It's *only* Antisocial personality disorder _(sometimes, not always, in combination with Narcissistic personality disorder)_ that's linked to sociopaths and psychopaths.

@haroldp.sadwood1181

4 ай бұрын

@@tessiepinkman You're absolutely right! I meant antisocial personality disorder, but I only wrote personality disorder. I've editing my comment.

As someone studying Abnormal Psychology and needs to find a public speech to critique for a separate, required course, this presentation is perfect!

A grey area in a world that doesn't like grey areas. So true.

@izebichkoune3283

6 жыл бұрын

The world sure liked 50 shades of grey

@daemonCaptrix

6 жыл бұрын

The world LOVES grey areas. People love grey areas so much it's become the excuse of choice to ignore the true black and white nature of the world. Everything is black and white. The people telling you otherwise are trying to cheat you.

@knes167

6 жыл бұрын

daemonCaptrix Eh? I disagree with that in the way you put it. If everything is varying degrees of black and white them each is a different shade of gray

@daemonCaptrix

6 жыл бұрын

knes167 - There are degrees of how acceptable something is based on how much it helps or hurts. But don't confuse that with the action itself having degrees of black and white. Whether you accept something or choose to do something about it is your opinion. It's not part of the nature of the action you're responding to. Things are either 100% good and 0% evil, or 100% evil and 0% good, or 0% both. Also, just because each situation has different actions which may be good or evil, that doesn't mean the actions themselves are partially good and partially evil. Bad people want to confuse you into thinking that so they can get away with murder, but it's not true.

@knes167

6 жыл бұрын

daemonCaptrix Polarizing things is flawed imo, it just leads to hyprocisy. For example murder is wrong and would make you a criminal, but killing someone like a serial killer or terrorist would make you a hero with the same action. Good and evil are honestly just subjective depending on the environment you (grow up) develop in. Depending on the town/country the parameters of good and evil change, that proves its not concrete as we'd like to believe

When I was in school for psychology, a female patient was described as "manipulative" because she was cutting up & making a suicidal man laugh, & some other patients joined in. I said I didn't see the manipulative behavior, why is she manipulative? "Because she must be because she's a drug addict & they're manipulative". I said "her file says she's in pain management, most people in pain management are not addicts, & there's no evidence that she's an addict". The Dr got exasperated & said "Well, she must be SOMETHING, or she wouldn't be here"..that didn't seem right, starting with the fact she's getting help & labeling her from there. I determined she was there due to being depressed about being physically ill, & neither an addict or manipulative. The psych profession does leave a lot to be desired, especially when people are being treated in groups & they don't really read the file. Sometimes it's simple & obvious, but the person doesn't get help due to being mislabeled.

@noxure

8 жыл бұрын

+December Leigh Yes, that's scary. Reminds me of the Rosenhan experiment. Dr Rosenhan did an experiment in the 70's where he send several volunteers to several psychiatric hospitals, who were considered to be mentally stable. They were assigned to act normal; except that they had to tell the doctor they sometimes hear a "thud" sound in their head. Despite this being a trivial matter that is not any cause for alarm, all of them were diagnosed with all sorts of mental disorders and detained for average of 19 days, forced to take anti-hallucinatory drugs as a condition to be released. All of the psychiatrists are biased. Just because they're in a mental hospital MUST mean that they're something seriously wrong with them; and the psychiatrists basically just see what they want to see (delusional?). Then after Rosenhan revealed this, one the hospitals was offended and challenged Rosenhand to send more fake patients, confident that they could identify them immediately. In the following weeks they fired 41 of 190 new 'pseudopatients' from the hospital. Rosenhan didn't send anyone that time; so that means that at least 1/5 of the patients being detained for no reason.

@username7735

8 жыл бұрын

+noxure Rosehan, you da real hero

@greimalkin

8 жыл бұрын

+noxure confirmation bias people see what they look for

@gymnast2890

8 жыл бұрын

noxure Yes, that experiment was with pseudo patients, one of them Rosenhan himself! & they were all diagnosed with schizophrenia! Except the one private hospital, but that one was diagnosed with manic-depressive psychosis, still very bad. They acted normal once in the hospital but took notes, & 1 Dr even said the note taking was pathological! Spitzer said the study was flawed. Most of the hospitals were under funded, etc & Drs spent an average of 6 min a day with a patient, but this doesn't account for the dehumanization, abuse, and severe over diagnosing, these pseudo patients were not allowed to leave until they admitted they were mentally ill & took anti-psychotics, very dangerous in the 70's! The argument compared it to medical medicine & faking symptoms, but they reported no symptoms other than the initial ones, on that basis alone were diagnosed with schizophrenia as it was defined then, but Rosenhan said they did not present symptoms consistent with psychosis at all to get in the facility, & about 1/3 of the PATIENTS thought they were faking & there as journalists or something! Anyway, it cannot be compared to medical medicine, that's just stupid, we know less about the brain than any other organ in the body BY FAR, and that was the 70's. It was classic expectation bias. The real crime is the way patients are treated in a subhuman manner, & all nurses, who really have the contact, should be required to be patients first, although this would make some of them even more mean, some people actually work in a place like that in order to feel superior or more powerful because they lack security...the same mentality of a child molester, actually. Anyhow, yes it's definitely expectation bias to the extreme....the truth is almost ALL diagnosis were off in hospitals in the 70's & a great deal of them still are...you can go to 3 different Dr's & get 2 different diagnosis, then there are overlapping diagnosis, actual over lapping of conditions, etc etc. Thanks for the reminder on the study!

@gymnast2890

8 жыл бұрын

Ess Thank you,that's so kind of you to say, is so true though, we know very little about how the brain works or even how medications work to "fix" the brain, patients are treated like lab rats. So much confirmation bias. That branch became too much for me & I work with kids in sports psychology in helping overcome problems & raising self-esteem. Frankly, I don't see how anyone with a conscious can maintain between the evil pharma co's lying to sell their meds & the horrible stigma placed on mental health patients, whether or not they even have a disorder in reality! If they do, the LAST thing they need is to be dehumanized by mental health workers & stigmatized by them & society at large. Stigma with mental health patients & addicts got to be real hot issues for me, & still are, I like feeling like I'm doing something positive & accomplishing something, lol, not spinning my wheels for money.

Well, since 7th grade everyone has been jokingly calling me psycho, nickname stuck with me for nearly 20 years. Until life brought me at the wrong place the wrong time. Long story short, i had to get psychiatric evaluations which went horribly wrong. Even started doubting myself. It is indeed a lot harder to convince people you are sane

Nellie Bly, a woman newspaper reporter (very rare) for the Pittsburgh Dispatch went into the city's insane asylum to report on conditions. They had a VERY hard time getting her out! She invented investigative journalism. Oh, just discovered this has been made into a movie: Escaping the Madhouse.

14 years in a nut house would damage anyone, sane or not.

@Doctor_Eightball

5 жыл бұрын

That's a long time to nut

@blu4085

5 жыл бұрын

Don't ever move to Finland.

@blu4085

5 жыл бұрын

@@AbominableHuman It was more of an ironic statement ..so, i wasn't really thinking you were planning on it. Just saying that Finland feels like a nuthouse most of the time these days..then again, most of the world seems like one, also.

@andrewadams3111

5 жыл бұрын

I would kill myself seriously.

@maschaorsomething

5 жыл бұрын

@@AbominableHuman D'aw, you just had to ruin it by being a fucking idiot.

Faking Madness for fun is what a pshycopath would do. Faking Madness to avoid going to the jail is literally what any sane person would do.

@babatundeojerinde

3 жыл бұрын

But normal people tend to be bad at faking madness. In my own opinion, one has to be a psychopath to be able to act out different personality traits to different people under different circumstances.

@kimjongun3890

3 жыл бұрын

@@babatundeojerinde he says he has read books and such. Any people could fake it with some help

@J_Kwan

3 жыл бұрын

Babatunde Ojerinde don’t be silly, anyone could have a latent talent for acting and pathos, regardless of where they fall on the psychopathy spectrum. Unless you believe every broadway and Hollywood actor is a psychopath? In my experience, psychopathic kids tend to be diametrically opposed to the ones that call themselves “theatre kids”

@shalinisathi6526

3 жыл бұрын

most sane people would probably try to stay out of jail

@kimjongun3890

3 жыл бұрын

@@shalinisathi6526 haha yeah but no one is 100% sane

I do feel the most harmful and frequent form of psychopathy is the need to pigeonhole others. They say psychopathy is on a spectrum like most disorders that effect humans but “professionals” often play the flagging game because of one tiny detail of a person that may happen to find its way into conversation and fit the bill. Psychological evaluation for any disorder can verge on being criminalising in this day and age as it is done belligerently and even atrociously.

@hannahmiller5515

Жыл бұрын

Psychological evaluation like at a mental hospital? Or a different context?

@Callummullans

Жыл бұрын

@@hannahmiller5515 Well I think that it was Alan Watts that pointed out ages ago, people are being encouraged to psychoanalyse themselves and each other. I think the emphasis on mental health disorders in society has become unhealthy and considering Carl Jung’s theory on psychological viruses it could even be suggesting and driving mental health problems. Mental health problems definitely meant a lack of credibility just decades ago and it still lingers as a nuance because we’re humans and it takes generations for an attitude to actually dissipate.

My therapist always said, that she had ideas of how to label my illness, but she did not see the merrit in talking about the indication - she wanted to talk about the situation. So I know that I most likely had severe depression, but in therapy we did not talk as a depressed patient to a therapist. We talked as two humans who trust each other to open up. To tackle things together one at a time. To take off the pressure and go into ways to express yourself and cope with the world as it is. We should never forget that indications are only important for the society and for explanations, to give impulses of treatment and give the patient something to hold onto. But you should never be treated as your indication, you should be treated as a human with a wide range of emotions and different impulses on different days. As a depressed person I had days which were perfectly normals, even weeks in which I had no symptoms whatsoever. And never forget that being transgender was labeled as a mental disorder until very recently. Always question the diagnose, always look behind the checklist. A psychopath - even if you have no sympathy for him - should be allowed to live like everyone else, if he doesn't hurt the people surrounding him and shows no signs of unusual violence. That doesnt mean we have to share his morals and views, but we cannot keep everyone who doesnt fit our narrative out of the story.

Wtf do they have the biography of Ted Bundy in a prison????

@belindabiggs4055

3 жыл бұрын

He read it before and got the idea from it

@deniaridley

3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I thought. lol

@aboodabulaban2867

3 жыл бұрын

thats what the psychopath (tony) have said, he was lying.

@wellthen4128

3 жыл бұрын

I like the attention

@reihan7493

3 жыл бұрын

Because he's famous XD

I don't see what the all fuss about cycle paths are.

@Lilbme2day

4 жыл бұрын

Thankyou Miss Emily Litella...Never Mind.

@REmcoo36

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@GrizzleyBearington

4 жыл бұрын

IKR? let people cycle.

@Tennysystem

4 жыл бұрын

Nobody uses them, they ride in the damn road and clog up traffic

@thankyounext7727

4 жыл бұрын

Ugh people these days don’t care about others. 🙄 Why is the cycle paths such a problem?

Not a psychologist, but a lawyer who works with the public across all of it, it’s understandable that humans try to frame things in patterns that are convenient or feel safe. The reality is that everyone is a unique individual. Applying names and characterizations may help us discuss the patterns, but it doesn’t help individuals much. Best to take each person as a unique individual, including in therapy and in law.

Believe me when i tell you those 18 minutes were absolutely worth it!

Man, poor Tony is probably really bummed that he thought he had a friend and then got rejected because someone STILL thinks he’s a semi-psychopath

@kirstenpalmer661

4 жыл бұрын

Umm, did you miss the fact that Tony had recently gone to mainstream jail for being involved in a brawl in a bar? Psychopath or not it's called logical deduction.

@MaxwellHero

4 жыл бұрын

Man, at conclusion he said thats everyone is a psychopath, by not going to bar with him, he just confirmed his psychopath reputation, understand now?

@pttj9947

4 жыл бұрын

I think you can both wish that someone is not locked up and also wish not to be his friend... While everyone has a gray area in their personality, they also have a gray area (or a spectrum) of how much they tolerate others

@slysampss

4 жыл бұрын

Or is Tony one of the supposed sound guys wanting to stay anonymous, but agreeing to go on stage?

@wailinburnin

4 жыл бұрын

and then went on Ted Talks to tell everyone about it. Good Leftist though, I like this guy’s politics, that part was totally true or has he confused psychopaths with sociopaths? A rose by any other...

darn.. I hoped so badly that he would say that he was actually Tony.. that would be an awesome plottwist..

@khaleelr5995

8 жыл бұрын

He's John... or is he?

@scwfan08

8 жыл бұрын

+Khaleel Rahman No. He is Jon

@khaleelr5995

8 жыл бұрын

scwfan08 Damn

@grimreaper1058

8 жыл бұрын

+scwfan08 OR IS HE

@jotakiepie

7 жыл бұрын

I was thinking that too!

I have a common disorder. It’s called mysphonia and it is a sensitity to sounds and means that the background noise in this talk tends to drown out the substance of the talk. Thank science for Subtitles

I wish all judges at all courts watch this video Thank you for those humane insights

The saddest part is at the end when he didn’t go to the bar. I feel bad for Tony.

@user-cm9lz1rn3w

4 жыл бұрын

Yes essentially making him victim to value judgement yet again & thus dehumanised.

@alizeynalzade8111

4 жыл бұрын

2019 october squad

@elladovee

4 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Segundo when you consider the multiple instances in bars he got in trouble for... i wouldn’t meet him at a bar either

@PhenomenalWonOne

4 жыл бұрын

Tony deserved better you psychopath!

@elladovee

4 жыл бұрын

Dustin Hehmann tony is quite literally a psychopath.

When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

@faith9196

4 жыл бұрын

True

@valdbagina2273

4 жыл бұрын

*I'm holding my hammer but where's the nail?*

@bkshr1172

4 жыл бұрын

@@valdbagina2273 look at your hands

@bkshr1172

4 жыл бұрын

@@valdbagina2273 just that its not a good idea to hit those nails

@shaundreabrown8595

4 жыл бұрын

I actually feel that on like a cosmic level

I am in love with this guy. I mean, I can't hear enough of his chapters. His voice is so funny. Audible has plenty of him.

This is such a fascinating and unique perspective of viewing psychopathy. I've read Kent Kiehl's book and it says that he has found with fMRIs that psychopaths's paralimbic system shrunk. But even though that is true, the volume of grey matter which should be in the paralimbic system is not defined, every individual is different, we don't know when does quantitative change turn into qualitative change which make the psychopath a criminal, so there must be a large grey area where most of people may fall in.

@Badass_Brains

4 ай бұрын

The white matter tract (uncinate fasciculus) which connects amygdala and prefrontal cortex is also damaged or undeveloped in psychopaths. Very interesting!

We must also remember that not all psychopaths are murderous! Some of them just like to see people suffer in non-violent ways, such as a psychopathic CEO that likes to threaten his employees.

@bobbysnobby

8 жыл бұрын

+UmCaralnteressante Psychopaths arent masochists they just lack empathy.

@edi9892

8 жыл бұрын

sandersona756 Not self-harm, but pain or submission. Self-inflicted wounds and other auto-aggressive behaviour is an entirely different story. However, both could speak for self-hatred or atonement; not exactly things psychopaths are famous for.

@troynelson8896

8 жыл бұрын

+kilian phillips Sadists you mean.... also that's not right either because you like so many others here think psychotic and psychopathic are the same. They are not....

@bobbysnobby

8 жыл бұрын

Troy Nelson psychopath as in psyche as in an issue with the mind its nature something your born with Sociopath as in social as in environmental as in trauma experienced in life why do you think they have those names?

@edi9892

8 жыл бұрын

kilian phillips The meaning changed over time and now they are basically interchangeable.

“And I didn’t go” somehow that hurts so much

@pareesgillard

6 жыл бұрын

Milliene Xu why didn't he go?

@ThanhNguyen-rz4tf

6 жыл бұрын

Even Tony just semi psychopaths, but he was sent to prison and then to hospital for beaten an in a bar, who want to risk his own life to meet tony in a bar?

@claiminglight

6 жыл бұрын

The suggestion, I think, is that he might be a "semi-psychopath" himself.

@jimhughes1070

5 жыл бұрын

Milliene Xu well you know those Brave journalists

@hastyz7325

5 жыл бұрын

my guess is that he no longer had a purpose to see Tony anymore so keeping contact with him would do more harm than good. typical exploit and discard strat.

I’ve re watched/ listened to this 10+ times just for how well this guy tells the story. Good stuff.