These are some prime examples of why you should be willing to believe someone when they say someone is abusive to them, even if that person is always nice to you. Doesn't have to be a murderer, it's just that bad people can show entirely different sides to others while terrorizing their intended victims.

@Cassiopea525

Ай бұрын

Yeah. It can be hard enough to open up about it. Having people deny there’s any chance of a problem can make them afraid to try telling anyone else.

@user-ch5vq7om6v

Ай бұрын

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Ahh polygraphs the absolutely best way to determine nothing

@meteorwalkergg

Ай бұрын

EDIT: body language analysis is the same way! Not at all conclusive but an important brick in the meta-narrative prosecution is trying to paint about you & the crime -- The polygraph itself is a tree & the entire interrogation room is a forest: the issue for you in that moment isn't whether or not to take a poly - it's whether or not you self-snitch before you get legal representation. If you're answering to a poly at all - yes, no, maybe, anything... - without a lawyer present - it doesn't matter what that test shows. It's just a canvas for prosecution to use to paint a picture of criminal intent + making the entire jury character witnesses (as a poly takes a while to set up & go through). They'll always spin the results, it's literally them doing their job. All that really matters at the end of the day is prosecution using your decision-making processes against you. From the second they ask if you'd take one to whenever they're done with the interrogation - how you behave will be hyper analyzed & debated in court. In short, polygraphs exist to demonstrate & reinforce involuntary behavioral patterns not to actually "lie-detect". The common myth that polygraph results are still being used for "lie detection" (when, like you've claimed & I agree, their results are dodgy at BEST) is still a REALLY useful ritual to repeat for investigations, interrogations, & prosecution because intent is traditionally difficult to show evidence for & prosecution's entire case centers on showing the judge+jury 1) your knowledge of whether or not you can determine what you did was right or wrong 2) any obvious tells & signs that you're attempting to hide evidence or fake any mental state you might be hiding behind. A polygraph test being brought up by anyone after maranda rights have been read - just don't answer at all. Demand your lawyer, first.

@subliminal-damage

Ай бұрын

It is a tool that can be wielded expertly or not. Like the previous commenter said, it's more about if they can get you to confess. Remember kids, there is never a 'I'll just explain my side' when it comes to cops. If it's a possibility that YOU go down for the crime you shut up and ask for a lawyer.

@Resavian

Ай бұрын

@@subliminal-damage I understand that but OP made it sound like the polygraph was some unerring tool and his father (from memory) was a master with it. Yeah now a days the results are known to be utterly useless and it is just another tool the cops use to nail you to the tree regardless of your guilt.

@scottlemiere2024

Ай бұрын

@@Resavian the results were known to be utterly useless from almost day 1: the guy who created it TOLD people it was useless.

@TaterKakez

Ай бұрын

@@ResavianI took that to mean he’s an expert in body language and knows when to lean in and ask questions, and back off and go to another topic. It’s a lot of interpersonal nuance.

Ok, I’m glad someone pointed out that a lot of people who lack empathy (antisocial personality disorders, narcissists) actually have good social skills and are VERY charming. Remember that charm is NOT an indicator of whether someone is a good person. A lot of monsters use charisma to hide what they are; it’s camouflage. Conclusion: either too many corrections officers don’t know enough about human behavior or I know ENTIRELY too much (probably both tbh)

@Drakeslayer99

Ай бұрын

That's how most serial killers come off as, killers like: John Wayne Gacy, Ted Bundy, Edmund Kemper, Jeffery Dahmer, etc. We're often well-liked in the community. Edmund Kemper had to confess to his murders three times before the police would take him seriously.

@feistsorcerer2251

Ай бұрын

It's interesting and depressing to me that some of the best most genuine and kind people are the ones that don't have good social skills, so many people are put off by them and think the worst. Meanwhile the abusers and predators are great at charming people so people think they're great.

@kristen8954

Ай бұрын

They come into contact with the worst people, and they do understand this way more than anyone gives them credit for, but it does shock you when these types end up being some of the worst people. Plus it’s not always charm. Sometimes they’re genuinely respectful and most people who commit crimes, even violent crimes, aren’t complete psychopaths or sociopaths, so they have empathy and still have actual emotions, which throws people off. There are people that, outside of their crime, are parents, siblings, children, functioning members of society with jobs and families, and those behaviors they had with them don’t just vanish. Especially if it was due to a substance that the crime happened. Sometimes it’s a one time thing, especially if substances are involved. You have to understand that people usually also inherently have hope for other people, so it’s not that they don’t know enough about human behavior or you’re some unsung genius at it, it’s simply people not assuming the worst about strangers, even in jail.

@theaceguitarist

Ай бұрын

@@kristen8954 I was more concerned about the stories that came out to ‘they were so charming and polite, I was shocked that they were actually a horrible person!’ than the ones that came out to ‘this otherwise chill dude had a one-off violent outburst’ Also, never claimed to be an unsung genius. Just the daughter of two survivors of childhood abuse with a longstanding hyperfixation on psychology. When I say I may know entirely too much, I mean *entirely more than is normal or sane,* at least for someone outside of the profession

@finalfandussy7

29 күн бұрын

I would also like to add: not all people who lack empathy, and not all people with aspd, npd etc are automatically bad people. It's when the disorders they have are unchecked and the symptoms get too much to handle when an individual becomes dangerous, but with professional help anyone with those disorders/symptoms can be emotionally intelligent and fully fine people.

1st story, sometimes when someone is so obsessed, they will follow their victim to other towns

@InfamousX1000

Ай бұрын

@@summersnow2130you know, people don’t need to have personal experiences to know about odd human behavior right? Like there are countless testimonies and books written and even videos available due to the fact that our species has existed for over 10,000 years and this behavior is not isolated to our modern time? Understanding psychology is probably one of the best ways to survive human life

They say Edmund Kemper is very affable, polite, and an exemplary inmate. He teaches classes for other inmates, narrates audiobooks and had regular interviews with the FBI when they started the Behavioral Science Unit. Charm, politeness, and intelligence can lure people into thinking someone is genuinely nice when the reality couldn't be furthwr from the truth.

@Just1Nora

Ай бұрын

Ted Bundy was also very charming and polite. One of his female co-workers said that at the end of the day he would walk her to her car and warn her to lock her car doors and be careful on her drive home. I watched a video yesterday of an AMA with the psychiatrist who worked with Bundy and others. Lots of people with APD are very kind, polite, and seem like nice guys. They have had to study human behavior so they can blend in. They know what society expects of them and they will usually be that until they snap. I saw one of these reddit videos about people who knew people with APD, and one guy said he really liked his APD friend because he was polite, well mannered, easy to get along with, and he always knew where he stood with him. I think it's important to know that APD and being a serial killer harve strong correlation, but it's not causation. One can have APD and never become a serial killer, or be a serial killer/extremely violent killer without having APD.

Story #1... Dude was a monster, predator...a true psychopath...he acted charming with everyone...that was the mask...his true self was known to his victim....

@Matthew-ix1mq

Ай бұрын

This is what happens when the citizens are unarmed. Like the family should move?!?!? How about let him break in and finish the situation

@alphamaccao5224

Ай бұрын

@@Matthew-ix1mq Ok you malicious murderhobo. You can hide your boner at the thought of killing someone now.

@sol_and_luna

Ай бұрын

Honestly, the actual issue is that documented stalking was left completely unchecked, and he was only ever punished for attempted breaking and entering. A restraining order and/or punishment for stalking in and of itself was in order after 5+ years, and for reasons unknown it was never treated as anything important.

@herstoryanimated

29 күн бұрын

​@@Matthew-ix1mq What a stupid comment, if the family can own a weapon - so can he! Just would've given him better abilities to kidnap/unalive her - which seems to be what happened in the end. What was needed were better laws stopping stalking and harsher sentences, perhaps he should have been forcibly moved to a different area far away and only been allowed day release. At the end of the day the family probably should have moved, I appreciate how unfair this is, but realistically the guy was always going to go back, knowing where they lived he could always find them. Unless strapped to a police officer there was really no way to stop that with the laws at the time (or even now) until after the fact. I feel so sorry for her that she couldn't escape that situation and live her life just because some old man decided he wanted her.

@Matthew-ix1mq

28 күн бұрын

@@herstoryanimated what a moronic comment! You even state that the perp was always going to come back thus demonstrating that the only way to deal with him was permanently. Then the statement that unless stopped by a LEO there was no way to stop him? You have thoroughly made my excellent and reasonable point. The icing on the cake? The bather that if the family can own a weapon so can he! Yeah,then the family would be able to protect themselves ( of course you meant firearm since knives,clubs and other weapons are commonly available but an unintelligent person would not have specified that). My rational words stand proven by you. The notion that any person should acquiesce to a criminal by being driven from their home rather than having the means to defend themselves is horrific and downright disgustingly ignorant

My brother was a CO for almost 30 years. When he first started, he would read the files of new inmates, but stopped after a few year because he didn’t want their crimes to have any effect on how he treated them. He treated every inmate with respect and in doing so, was treated respectfully by most of them in return. He has never revealed anything he saw, but he has said that he couldn’t comprehend how people could even come up with some of the sick, depraved, cruel, heinous things they did to their victims.

Story 1 reminds me of my crazy uncle. He was everyone’s favourite uncle, except he was obsessed with me. Showing up to my house when he was told he wasn’t welcome, my job, hundreds of text messages, letters that were 10-20 double sided pages that would get hand delivered to my mailbox, to my windscreen on my car or my drivers side door. Would walk past my house late at night and when I would call the police and he got trespassed/slapped with a protection order/put in jail - it was all my fault, definitely not his. 🙄 Took a while to convince people in the family what was going on unfortunately because to everyone else, he was the favourite

@Bellaknightmare

Ай бұрын

Oh god I’m so sorry. I hate when family members just not believe what you tell them. There are many sides to people that some never see. I’m guessing it started early, so what would be a reason for you to even lie about it? Not only are you traumatised by his actions they just added a whole lot of shit onto that just by not even considering it to be a possibility and dismissing you. I hope they see now that your uncle is a creep, and I hope you are safe.

Story 3 4:31 Forcing a one year old, should automatically go directly into hell

@klixbeckworth3604

Ай бұрын

or something equivalent

@swordracer

Ай бұрын

Well not immediately: don’t want the afterlife to have all the fun 😈

@skullsnbones_

23 күн бұрын

​@@swordracerhell would be too kind. he wouldn't see the geniune disgust and hatred his family, friends, and everyone else around him would feel. he wouldn't get pushed around and neglected by inmates and staff and realize it's all because they can't even deal with the _thought_ of being around him for any period of time.

@swordracer

23 күн бұрын

@@skullsnbones_ on the contrary physical torture combined with the extent of his damage for years to come playing over and over in a way he is forced to watch it but can do nothing all while in hell

11:00 "Chester" -- short for CHild molESTER. Even the most hardened criminals hate those guys.

@jasonjohnson4646

Ай бұрын

Apparently the Chesters have to be in a completely different area than the other inmates because they'd possibly get killed for what they did

@Just1Nora

Ай бұрын

Huh. It used to be Chomo. Chester is actually a name, though, so it's easier to slip into conversations and claim that you were talking about a friend/acquaintance with that name.

@Just1Nora

Ай бұрын

​@@jasonjohnson4646 Lots end up in solitary (23 & 1) confinement, otherwise if their crime slips, either from a guard or themselves, they will usually suffer an extremely violent death at the hands of other inmates. The inmates can be gang members or hit men who have killed lots of people, but even they don't accept child abuse.

I had a stalker, and you would have to be their personal therapist to understand why they do it. They are all very different. In my case, I “dated” the guy for three days when I was 12. He went AWOL until I turned 18, turns out it was because he got caught s-xually ab-sing his younger sister and had been in prison. He was convinced that I was his soulmate, and that we were in love. He would countless accounts to harass me. I’d call his PO and she would never answer, even when I left voicemails telling her what he was doing (he wasn’t allowed to have internet or social media access). The cops said they couldn’t do anything. The worst part is that since he was a minor when he did it, he no longer has to register as an offender now that he’s over 21.

All the ones that did stuff to kids are always nice because they are terrified of the other inmates

I used to visit a close relative in prison. One of the old guys there was really nice to me. He would greet me, give me random things and since he was in the gardening program, would give me boxes of produce for really cheaps which I liked because i was a broke ass college student. I ask my relative about his crime, he was in for killing his father and stepmother and was on the deathrow but the country scrapped death sentences, so he's now in for life. He apparently was the oldest and worked on a different town than his family so he comes home once or twice a month. Then one of his sisters told him that the stepmom was pimping them out for money with the blessing of their dad. He came home one night with a bolo and hacked the couple to death in their bed. Took thwir heads and went to a ranger station to turn himself in. Worst of all, his sisters stopped visiting him decades ago. And he had been in jail foe over 40 years when I met him. I recently heard he had died in prison.

@Just1Nora

Ай бұрын

That's actually not super uncommon given the way our "justice system" works. Unless there is heaps of provable evidence, people can treat their kids in absolutely awful ways, but the one who won't tolerate that behavior is at fault for ending it. I'm guessing his sisters were probably fed a bunch of bs about his crime and how he was "crazy" and "couldn't be trusted" when the truth is that he loved his sisters enough to make sure the parents couldn't keep doing it. Perhaps you reminded him of one of them in some way, or perhaps he was just kind to everyone. It's sad that those situations turn on the one who solved the problem themselves instead of letting the innocent suffer while trying for months, years, or more to get the cops to do anything, if they even tried. I bet that he never regretted sparing them unknown years of abuse and mental anguish. He would've probably spent the rest of his life without hurting anyone had he never been incarcerated. I'm sure plenty of people would disagree with releasing him, but I think that's where the why behind the crime comes into play. In the USA, despite what the law says, prisons are for punishment and not rehabilitation. All you have do to figure this out is look at how most prisons are run. Sadly, the recidivism rate is incredibly high, especially for people who have spent years or decades in prison because they can no longer function in a society that has passed them by and still continues to punish them by making it nearly impossible to find jobs or function under rules that they don't understand or can't adjust to. If you suddenly remove a person's rights, but then years or decades later just drop all of those rights and rules back in their lap without help or instruction, then of course they're going to relapse or do something to return to the life they learned to be comfortable in. Should some people be removed from society for committing terrible crimes and to keep them from committing more? Yes. Should there be no exceptions for situations like this? I also say no, but it's easier to appease the masses by removing all offenders than to spend the time and resources checking up on them and making sure that they don't do anything again. I'm glad that he helped you when you needed it, and I'm glad that he is now free.

Former CO, the nicest guy in the dorm was a cartel hitman.

The sound of babies crying is supposed to distress people, but sometimes it really does just make people see red. I know people who, when they hear a baby or toddler cry, they get so angry at the baby and I just can't help but think "never have children". Some of these people are my friends, but I would never let them babysit (I don't have kids yet, but even if I did I know which people I would never leave alone with them), and in every other respect these are some of the nicest people I know.

@finn_in_the_bin5263

Ай бұрын

100% agree, I feel like it shouldn't be controversial to say some people aren't wired to properly raise and care for a child

@HeidiSholl

Ай бұрын

@@finn_in_the_bin5263 It's sad but yeah, some people just aren't. And not because they're particularly nasty people either, they just don't seem to have the same instincts, which is fine.

@finn_in_the_bin5263

Ай бұрын

@HeidiSholl exactly. While I believe that obviously being a good person will make you a better parent more often than not, being someone who isn't right for parenting doesn't make you a bad person. If anything I think its a sign of being a good person to recognize that in yourself and decide not to have kids at all for their sake rather than just 'try anyway', it means you recognize that you might give a kid an unhappy childhood and decided not to put any kid through that, it's very mature and good imo

I did a year in prison for drug possession. Got a job working as a teachers aside helping inmates studying for the GED test. Another inmate I worked with was just so nice and lovely. When I found out she had helped her bf murder a pregnant woman by....ahem... inserting a hot curing iron into a particular orifice, I really struggled to reconcile that with the woman i had gotten to know. It was so uncomfortable

I worked in a Jail, and we had a guy that even the warden said was too nice to have done something like that. He burned down his house killing his wife and daughter and they were trying to give him the death penalty.

Used to work in a jail. Guy who is intelligent and personable most of the time (this wasn't because he was deep down a good person but highly manipulative) killed a man in a shootout at a car wash. He thought he would get off on self defense because the other man fired first. This went out the window when he dropped him, went back to his car to reload, mag dumped him again, reloaded once more, shot him again, then ran him over. Self defense ends with the threat and the downed man clearly wasn't a threat anymore after the first volley.

My mum used to be a nurse at the local mental hospital, one night she had to go through a mens ward to get to her post. One of the men, stark naked, got out of bed and asked her for a dance to which she agreed to as long as he went back to bed afterwards. They had one dance and he went quietly to bed. When she got to the nurse posted outside the ward door she told the nurse what had happened and was shocked when she was informed that if she had no, and had just sent him back to bed, there was a high chance he could have attacked her. Never found out what he was in there for. It's not just criminals in mental hospitals, my grandfather was in the same mental hospital, at a different time, for what would probably be called schizophrenia/bi-polar/depression nowadays.

My former step father was a prison warden. He would tell stories about inmates, all the same way as here. How they were and then name. One I remember: Inmate was friendly, funny, gave good solid advice, very intelligent, earned degrees in prison. Charlie Bronson. His best story was about a prisoner named Paul Reed. He was in for drug offences. The best part wasn't what he did but his father: Oliver Reed. The legendary hard drinking nutcase actor. During visitation, in the visiting hall, everyone was silent and Oliver Reed completely lambasted his son without pause or repetition for the entire visit. Everyone just enjoyed the show. He was brutal, harsh and intimidating but also made it funny. As for Paul, it worked and he turned his life around.

@TheDopekitty

Ай бұрын

Charles Manson? You said Bronson

@radeakins

Ай бұрын

@@TheDopekitty Yes, Bronson, not the actor, not Manson. He changed his over the years. He birth name was Michael Gordon Peterson.

One of the most haunting thing I've ever read was a research paper done on the people put on trial during the Nuremberg Trials, basically a profiling of as many of them the study could get and what they found was not only did a lot of them believe they were doing the right thing but many of them were community leaders or otherwise well liked by their peers, some religious leaders even. These people were and are monsters, obviously but the realization that otherwise ordinary people could commit such horrific acts if the circumstances were to warrant it is something I wish we would better understand in the way we approach crime. How the wrong set of ongoing circumstances and the right amount of pressure and influence and we're not so far off from the very worst of ourselves. I think we all like to think we would never commit such atrocities but we barely understand how our brains work, how easy it is for our minds to break in the worst way and we become the unthinkable. Prisoners like these just reinforce that concept to me.

@KailaKysies

Ай бұрын

There are so many historical figures that are celebrated, who in reality were horrible people, that committed massacres and genocides. Criminals are only monsters as long as we recognise that their victims are human.

@intrinsicallylast5246

Ай бұрын

@KailaKysies Fair enough but through the lens of historical accuracy, not through an objective analysis at the time. It doesn't excuse the horrible things they do, it's to say that the issue is broader and more terrifyingly complicated than it just being a horrible person. The right circumstances, pressure and societal outset could potentially turn anyone into a monster. It's not to lesson the historical reality of what we've and they have done but a warning that if we don't recognize and change course we can always fall down that same rabbit hole and you really can't predict who will fall until it's too late.

First story: No disconnect. He’s a psychopath with charisma.

I was SA as a kid. When my father found out, he told my mother and she tried to leave. He beat us and i remember him choking my mother and hitting me with a paint can. I was very young. My father found him. He and his brother beat him til he was unrecognizable and left him for dead. He got arrasted. Luckily for my dad, his best friend was pretty far up in the police force. Because both my dad and brother had committed the attack it turned out to be lighter sentence. To be honest, I don't even remember my father serving jail time. I remember how other officers were telling my mother how nice and kind my father was and how seeing what he did to that man was shocking. I think he only spent a few months in jail and got out on good behavior. I never seen or heard from that man. To be honest he could have died, i really dont care. I still struggle with what that man did to me.

@jamiethal1319

24 күн бұрын

Doesn’t sound like your father was so great to you and your mother either. Probably should’ve been charged with psychically assaulting the two of you as well. Good for him though for standing up for you maybe??

I was a patient in a mental hospital, got along with most of the patients but this one story has always stuck to me. I can’t remember his name for the life of me, but he was the sweetest guy you’d ever meet. He even taught me how to play poker with crayons (since that was the only thing we had in bulk). Turns out he tried to unalive his father. He was a homosexual, and his father was not very happy about it and had intimately violated him probably hundreds of times over his life. I felt terrible for him, along with most of the patients. All of the patients, including myself, had been through any and every form of abuse. You name it, at least one patient had it. Younger generations now a days are absolutely fucked up. The amount of abuse that happens to my generation and people my age is absolutely mind boggling (not even going to mention the shit I’ve had happen to me growing up). Still think of that kid a lot though, I hope he’s doing alright.

The commentaries on people that dealt with ex-spouses in an ugly divorce or the guy that got rid of his daughters problem, and very specifically the guy that beat a hitman and then fixed the possibility of that happening to them again, these opinions that what those people did was somehow impossible to understand or that they deserved to be in prison forever, absolute bs. Its extremely understandable, commendable in a few cases, but at a guess, they received life for the fact that they probably werent sorry for it and would do so again in the same circumstances. As would a not insignificant proportion of the population. These people are polite because theyve come to terms with the situation they placed themselves in, and have decided that while what they did was right or at least not indefensible, it is legally wrong, and as such, just accept the legal system as it is, nothing to be gained by being belligerent about it.

Such a misconception that a “shot caller” is unintelligent or illiterate. Given different circumstances, many of those guys would have succeeded as CEOs of big Corps.

the greatest of evils are the ones you don’t recognize as evil

@lydiapetra1211

Ай бұрын

Because they are so charming... nice.... friendly...but it's a mask...

@RedHeadForester

Ай бұрын

Describes my ex accurately...

@bradentheman1373

Ай бұрын

it reminds me of this saying “The devil doesn’t come to you with horns and a spiked tail, it comes to you as everything you’ve ever wanted.” and it’s like wow, you never know what evil you could be seeing

I'm always terrified of people who look too. Normal to me. They are the most terrifying person in a room.

The stories of revenge murders are so morally ambiguous. Making sure someone who tried to ruin your life doesn’t get the chance to do it to someone else seems like it could be framed as a good or bad thing. Like those who took revenge on the person that assaulted their child. Do they really belong in prison? I’m not too sure.

@hotel_arcadia

Ай бұрын

I wouldn't blame the killer considering how broken the justice system is.

Story 28: sure wish they keep that kid detained until he’s in his 80’s.

Thanks for this video.... thanks for all the stories sent in... what an eye opener...charm is definitely deceitful....if one has no soul...no conscience...no guilt...no remorse...they are capable of horrific and heinous crimes....the sociopaths and psychopaths.. All the innocent victims who were violated and abused...or murdered...very heartbreaking....

Remember, there are no women or children in men's prison

Had a client at my job that was the nicest quietest man I’d ever met. Only to find out he 🍇d a 2, 6, and an 8 year old. Only served like 10 years. Also met a nice couple too who had apparently murdered their infant. My sister always asks me why I’m so untrusting of people. That. That is the reason why.😭😭

The Jewish guy who took care of his daughter's bf performed a mitzvah with what he did.

My bfs mom and step dad are COs too. The only one i know of is one my bf told me about. An Amish guy beat his wife to termination with some sort of metal tool. He wasnt too sure what. He was absolutely nuts and liked to paint on the walls with his feces.

Basically most of these stories are about men who seem absolutely normal, respectable, friendly, educated, completely adapted and blended into society/social life, but have killed or beat or raped or stalked or kidnapped or tortured (or all of this) women, children, animals, easy and weaker targets. And often within their own family or loved ones. And people still wonder why women get scared of men. The worst is, not all them are well disguised/socially skilled sociopaths or psychopaths. Some of them arent manipulators and are genuinely "normal" people. They just dont even recognize certain categories of beings as actual beings. Just like soldiers will stop seeing their targets as anything more than their targets, or how nazis were so convinced jewish people werent even people. Some men just dont see women as human beings. Or dont recognize animals or kids as breathing thinking feeling beings. And its much more common than we think.

Its interesting how each prison is so similar but so unique. My friend who is in and out for drug charges (he cleans up and relapses. So many charges he gets long sentences) told us the child harmers are called Gazelles.

As soon as I heard Rose West, I knew who they were talking about. Crazy stuff

Ex-Juvi resident here. Not proud of my record, but going to share it anyway because I'm doing my d@mnedest to be better than I was then. Every single one of my case workers or therapists tell me that they're surprised to hear that I have a (expunged and almost decade old JUVENILE, currently 25 years old) Domestic Violence record. I beat the sh*t out of my mom and identical twin sister, and it's taken me until adulthood to get to the point where I can recognise I'm getting angry before I get violent. Super friendly, considerate, perky, and happy people that you pass on the street are just as likely to have that record. I am working HARD so that I don't hurt the people I care about ever again, but not everyone with my record has remorse and regret for hurting people.

I'm an ex correctional officer. I'm not surprised by any of it. The nicest ones can be the sickest ones.

I think "normal people " try too hard to separate and distinguish themselves from those in prisons. People are people. They range from mild to wild and some either don't have the same moral code, or are abused/treated in a way that permanently changes them. They aren't monsters. They are still humans. Are there some people who will always be a danger to others if not put away? Yes, but most commit crimes when pushed too far. If they aren't pushed to that extent again, they may never commit another serious crime. We need to change the system to actually help people instead of just locking them away and treating them like animals under the guise of rehabilitation. Most prisons are for punishment not rehabilitation. Change behavior, offer help and resources, and reduce punishment/increase therapy for future minor offenses, don't let smoking or dealing pot put someone immediately back behind bars.

no one knows why stalkers pick their victims. especially the victim. they just tend to obsess after seeing or maybe a random interaction, sometimes one date.

Story 3: turn that guy down and do not employ him.

Story 17 thanks for that mental image.

The minute he said, "Had to pass a polygraph to get the job" I knew the story was complete bullshit: it's illegal under federal labor law to require a polygraph for a job in the US.

@LoganRogue1

Ай бұрын

No it is not. Some private sector jobs that have government jobs attached require it. Also depending on your state in order to get in to the academy for the state troopers a polygraph is needed.

@toolatetothestory

Ай бұрын

@@LoganRogue1 Sounds like bs, everyone and their Grandma has known for decades that polygraphs are useless

@ketmakura

Ай бұрын

@@toolatetothestory "Subject to restrictions, the Act permits polygraph (a type of lie detector) tests to be administered to certain job applicants of security service firms (armored car, alarm, and guard) and of pharmaceutical manufacturers, distributors, and dispensers."

@swordracer

Ай бұрын

@@toolatetothestoryok I know how imma come off with this wording but I mean it in a helpful way I just don’t know how to word it better for the intention: please look up the lie detector episode of mythbusters.

Only humans can be monsters.

So #22, what was his crime? I don't really see why he is behind bars.

@jamiethal1319

24 күн бұрын

He killed the guy who assaulted his sister.

Heard a story about a Nice inmate, super quiet, in jail because he found his wife cheating. Murdered his wife, shot her dead and raped the other guy before he killed him too.

First guy sounds charming 😒

When and why has this "un-aliving" term become prevalent?

8:38, it feel like that those weren't personal, he must have just accepted his fate

25:32 ok but why was he in prison

Just because you do crime doesn’t mean your a bad person

1st guys joe goldberg

YES TRACKMANIA GAMEPLAY ❤❤❤❤

Is there an end to that track?

Abusers apply to be police all the time the fact you find this unusual is very telling about your naivety

I had to grit my teeth every time the word “unalived “was used. What’s wrong with the word killed?

@MatthewMaddox-ss3zp

3 күн бұрын

Its becauss they won't get monetized and the algorythym will assassinate their video. Thats why they shit out these videos is to get monetized

4:07 7:16

1st story is weird. seems like a contradiction. karmic past life perhaps? seems weird, nice with everyone else, but destructive with his obession? weird

Reaxtion to Story 3. You do not know many people in low level law enforcement do you?

I am like number 487

You do know that unalive is not a word?

@thomasstinson603

Ай бұрын

If you use the proper term, instead of the nonsensical Deadpool reference or another obtuse euphemism, KZread can and will pull your video.

ai generated

Interesting, but I couldn't listen to the whole thing. Hearing the word "unaliving" over and over again to censor normal words finally got to be too much.

un alive? lol we all know what word you actually mean. I can't believe ads actually don't get Demoz anyway just because of the concept of the video instead of what is said in the video.

Ex-corrections here. One of my coworkers had a kid with addiction issues. The kid stole from his parents, his mother‘s wedding ring blank checks stuff that he could get money out of easily. Then mom got Alzheimer’s and his dad had heart issues even with the heart issues. His dad called the cops on him. Cops arrested him. He was tried and sentenced and sent to prison during this time. His mom called sicker with the Alzheimer’s and ended up, dying it time for his dad to retire and so he dead a month later they found his body in the house. Father had a bad heart, finally quit beating. Unfortunately he’s been dead a couple days before he was found went to Michael, who is in prison even though he had stolen from his parents. He was still their son and he could inherit. I got to meet Mike polite personable great smile that that Mike. Mike eventually came to a unit that I worked in and so I said oh Mike I knew your father he was a nice man. He said yes he really was a nice man. Your mother was very nice too. I told him yes yes she was. She was a very nice woman . Occasionally, Mike would have problems and he cried because he was 30 something almost 40 something-year-old man crying that he didn’t get things because he was on orphan. He stole his mother’s wedding ring. Anything he could sell he also got a hold of a checkbook and went crazy with that . But in person if things weren’t right, just remember he was an orphan and he didn’t have anything. That man could turn it on with the waterworks about his pal, dad and mom how sad it was that he didn’t have anyone in his family that could help him ever again w his family .

God I hate the term "unlive" grow a pair

@Kai-wn2xm

Ай бұрын

The video could get taken down that’s why they use different or slightly different words to mean the real thing.

@anonuser1279

Ай бұрын

Grow a pear and tell that to the KZread CEO.

Holy sh**😅

@Meaterbeater420

Ай бұрын

Holy sh**😅

@indigofeilds9520

Ай бұрын

Holy sh**😅

@jasonjohnson4646

Ай бұрын

Holy sh**😅

yoooo i’ve never been this early before

3rd

Commenting for engagement. 6th

ok the whole "Edit I'm a women" thing in the story is just dumb, like lady if your gonna be a police officer, hit the gym and get some muscle and stop using your biological sex as an excuse

@anonuser1279

Ай бұрын

Gross.

The evil psycho who kidnapped,violated and burned alive a 12 year old girl.... judgement day is coming for him...not in this world but the next one!!!! My heart aches for what happened to that little girl...I wish I could have saved her...🥹🥹🥹❤️

My ant works as an RN in a prison. To my knowledge, she is higher up in her position.

@iheartpeoplescom

21 күн бұрын

I need to get some of her stories. I know she has more, she's told me some, but I don't remember them.

All of the “surprisingly, inmates are just like us” realizations are insane to me. “They’re just regular people who did some bad things” ? It’s almost as if they’re human beings.🫨