Dating After Betrayal
In this video, Dr. Karl Benzio provides insights into navigating the dating scene after experiencing betrayal. He categorizes men and women into distinct types, shedding light on potential pitfalls in relationships.
Types of Men to Watch Out For:
Self-Centered Narcissist:
Characteristics: Me-centered, lacks empathy, often appears caring but focused on personal needs.
Relationship Approach: Tends to be short-term focused, bouncing between relationships without long-term commitment.
Overly Selfless Guy:
Characteristics: People pleaser, lacks confidence, seeks control for a sense of power.
Relationship Approach: Struggles to say no, may engage in affairs as a way to gain control or power.
Types of Women to Be Aware Of:
Narcissistic Woman:
Characteristics: Views sex as a tool for power, lacks connection or understanding of healthy relationships.
Relationship Approach: Focuses on personal needs without considering emotional connection.
Compassionate but Undervalued Woman:
Characteristics: Kind, compassionate, desires a loving marriage but feels undervalued.
Relationship Approach: Might withdraw or seek attention outside the relationship due to a lack of fulfillment.
Dating Advice: What to Look For Early On:
Observe how your date treats you: Are they attentive, sacrificial, and willing to prioritize your needs?
Watch for impulsive behaviors, especially regarding sexual boundaries.
Be cautious if substances play a significant role in their life; it may impact decision-making and emotional stability.
Red Flags to Watch Out For:
Lack of Accountability:
Trouble admitting mistakes, avoiding apologies, and pointing fingers instead of taking responsibility.
Excuses and Avoidance:
Tendency to make lame excuses, avoiding accountability in various situations.
Substance Dependency:
Regular use of substances (alcohol, drugs) impacting emotions, decision-making, and long-term thinking.
By staying vigilant for these red flags, you can navigate the complexities of dating after betrayal and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Don't forget to subscribe for weekly videos supporting your marriage and healing journey.
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Betrayal by the person you trust most feels like weathering an unrelenting storm in the dead of night-filled with secrets, worry, fear, and insecurity. The loneliness that follows can be overwhelming. We've been there ourselves, and we know it's a tough journey that can feel hopeless at times.
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