Chris Voss Explains the "Accusation Audit" to Jordan and Mikhaila Peterson
Chris Voss (co-author of Never Split the Difference and former FBI lead hostage negotiator) explains what he calls an "accusation audit" and the importance of admitting your faults.
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This is the sharpest Dr. JBP we've seen in a very long time. Praying for him to keep pushing, we need him in 2021!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Peter7966
3 жыл бұрын
He looks a lot better... like himself again... which always sounds silly... because he's always himself.
@piperdoug428
3 жыл бұрын
@@Truth_Unleashed most wouldn’t know the “great reset” is real if it hadn’t been for our inept witless leader up here in Canada blabbing on social media
@kratos.8151
3 жыл бұрын
@@Truth_Unleashed has JP said anything about COVID being a Hoax yet?
@customsongmaker
3 жыл бұрын
@Emanuel Alvarez - his daughter now controls his life and his money and his youtube channel. She has a vested interest in keeping him sick. Before she put him on a diet of her own devising, he didn't have crazy sickness from normal foods. Now he says a cup of tea can make him ill (as if it was poisoned).
@piperdoug428
3 жыл бұрын
@@customsongmaker Buy allot of tinfoil there bud? hahaha
To admit and bear your flaws... so nobody can use them as a weapon against you
@austindenotter19
3 жыл бұрын
Also is a step towards self-healing when you can admit your own flaws.
@Telendil
3 жыл бұрын
Admit and bear your weaknesses ... and then make them your fucking strengths!
@civrn368
3 жыл бұрын
The truth will set you free.
@michaelnice93
3 жыл бұрын
As Terion the Dwarf would say, wear being a bastard with armor and nobody can hurt you.
@ciri151
3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelnice93 Shouldn't it be ''as armor''?
“If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you but answer, "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone.” ― Epictetus
@logant44
3 жыл бұрын
I like it.
@ImEverythingYouCrave
3 жыл бұрын
wait can you explain this for a dummy like myself
@peggydeffley2194
3 жыл бұрын
Well done, you!
@GeoCalifornian
3 жыл бұрын
@@ImEverythingYouCrave -He is MINIMIZING the 1 fault that is spoken about him, -by mentioning that there are OTHER FAULTS not known by the idiot accuser ... Clever, huh? /Lonewolf Liberties
@christophekeating21
3 жыл бұрын
That's basically the Tyrion defense in Game of Thrones.
Dr. Peterson, I was a pretty decent student till last year and academics were the primary meaning in my life. After covid-19 though, that all came apart because I just could not focus on studies in an online platform. I also felt extremely lonely sometimes as I couldn't be with any of my friends. I built a destructive tendency and voluntarily gave up on studying, I took classes and everything but my mind was never in it. It is also very easy to be distracted while taking classes over the internet. Overall I was in a bad place and I was very irritable and moody and sad. I was full of self pity and anxiety and extremely resentful but I discovered you and started watching your lectures and man, it has made so much difference. You have motivated me and helped me out of the worst time in my life so far, THANK YOU. Wishing you good health.
@LTR2022
3 жыл бұрын
Keep happy my friend and keep reading/learning wherever you are 👍
@johnhoude1340
3 жыл бұрын
Time to let go of the "So far" comment and belief Jyotimay. Change the story to "The best day of my life so far." A voyage without waves is a swamp!
@jyotirmayagrawal3680
3 жыл бұрын
@@johnhoude1340 I agree completely.
@Ryhvfyubn222yyu
3 жыл бұрын
Keep it up my friend! Great job!
@matthewnasl4
3 жыл бұрын
Ditto
He sounds so much better!!! He struggled so much in that last video. I hope it’s not just a good day, and that he’s feeling more like himself.
@achavez78
3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! I was stunned watching this video-- the sharpest we have seen Dr. JBP in a very long time!!!
@joanl2057
3 жыл бұрын
God Bless these 3. They are so REAL within their hearts.
@persistentapparartionkitty5830
3 жыл бұрын
Quitting Benzodiazepines was a smart move!
@rubensnogueira5838
3 жыл бұрын
He didn't look good at those selling ads... I still think there is something wrong with them.
@sydneyshaw6781
3 жыл бұрын
@@rubensnogueira5838 something is going on. I would suspect some foul play on the part of his daughter.
Mikhaila truly adores her father. She so protective of him because he is fragile and vulnerable now. Nice to see that Mikhaila wants to be strong for her daddy, and you can sense how proud she is of him. Here the thing, If your kids love you so much, then you surely did something right in raising your children. Peterson appears to be a very good and honest daddy. Respect for him not trying to be someone else for impressing others, but to be his authentic self with all the shortcomings and flaws.
@livingthedream8539
3 жыл бұрын
Ho God...She put him in this state in the first place. She is totally insane. He made a bad judgment listening to her and her crazy medicine alternative that almost killed him. She desperately wants to be famous and is using her father to get there. Going clubbing in the pick of the pandemic wend her mum was fitting to beet cancer was another Mikhaila insanity act . He is losing me as a fan because now a see a old full man blind by love. Sad ...
Take negotiation seriously. For, whether you like it or not, life is negotiation.
@elektrotehnik94
3 жыл бұрын
Especially negotiating wit yourself; your competing goals & desires, to make a balance of them every day so that the day is good/ better. When you master that, you can master negotiating with others
@rona3697
3 жыл бұрын
Elektrotehnik Great point
@NyalBurns
3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that what he said?
@superfluityme
3 жыл бұрын
So I should take life seriously :)
@samgamblewhite8600
3 жыл бұрын
Most of what you do is barter
Thumbs up if Jordan Peterson is the BEST INSTRUCTOR.
@PREISINGPRODUCTIONSsince1912
3 жыл бұрын
Guys, check it out our latest videos on cell phone espionage! The truth is coming out!
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
3 жыл бұрын
Yes.. I am learning a lot here . And so smart sympathic charismatic Daughter 🧡
@YS_Production
3 жыл бұрын
Are you 12 years old?
Wow, great person to talk to Jordan! I’ve read his book several times over.
JBP words open your mind while seeing him getting well swells your heart.
I recently discovered Dr. Peterson and I just want to say I have immense respect for you and your work. Wishing you the best Sir!
I would love to see Jordan start bulking up, looking healthier.
@datsumcrzysht
3 жыл бұрын
You do realize his recent health issues and his dietary restrictions correct?
@shoobydubois1
3 жыл бұрын
I'd like to see him with a mustache.
@Shadow__133
3 жыл бұрын
@@shoobydubois1 Lol a Dali mustache would be awesome!! 😆
@nabeelhakeem3593
3 жыл бұрын
@@datsumcrzysht what
@Troyance
3 жыл бұрын
@@datsumcrzysht you can easily build muscle on carnivore you’re getting all the nutrients to build muscle....
I was reading, "Never Split the Difference", and I googled ;"Accusation Audit" - and THIS came up - what a treat
In these conversations on Mikhaila's channel, we get to see JBP interrogate guests in a way that many people might take as aggressive. But I see this mode of conversation as intensely valuable and I crave it in my life.
@customsongmaker
3 жыл бұрын
This is now Mikhaila's channel
@brittney6396
3 жыл бұрын
I think it’s the difference between an insecure, weak, defensive (whenever something might conflict with their beliefs) person and an intelligent, confident, open minded person. It’s a good quality to have.
So basically it's what Eminem did in 8 Mile, but in a courtroom.
@trmnatr21
3 жыл бұрын
Ayyyyy. What up, King?
@farq1440
3 жыл бұрын
i thought this too
@richardscales4569
3 жыл бұрын
I am white, I am a fucking bum.
@RichLuciano1
3 жыл бұрын
8 Mile was referred to for this technique in another interview with Voss by the interviewer.
@roythomas7079
3 жыл бұрын
@@richardscales4569 I do live in a trailer with my Mom!
I have been waiting for this conversation for a long time 🙏
Glad to see your doing good. Godspeed.
The quality of Dr. Peterson's external processing is remarkable.
@artygunnar
3 жыл бұрын
what do you mean by external processing?
@TrevorAngell
3 жыл бұрын
@@artygunnar He is actively thinking, out loud, outside his head. I feel like I need to think before I speak but he speaks as he thinks and his thinking is really fast.
@artygunnar
3 жыл бұрын
@@TrevorAngell interesting, I am opposite, my thinking is internal and takes a long time
@j.m.s.5901
3 жыл бұрын
He´s literally verbalizing his comprehension of the subject so that he´s sure he understood.
Excellent points, thank you!
Fascinating collaboration.
So powerful. Thank you.
Just finished up Voss' Masterclass. Good stuff! Glad to see you guys link up.
I bought your book years ago Chris. Great read! Taught me a lot in my sales job and in life. As for Jordan, well you're the G.O.A.T. Glad you and your family are doing better. Keep it up an thanks for all you do!
HE'S BACK! When Dr. Peterson looks upwards with his eyes as he concentrates on being as precise as possible you know something very wise is about to be said. I've never gotten the feeling he's B.S. anybody. He's a very authentic human being.
Thank you for another great vid! It's been a treat for me to see "mental updates" happen in real-time as Jordan dropped "thought-bombs" of powerful Goodness... And _you can _*_see the love shine_*_ in Mikhaila as she looks back to her dad._ Such a profound & unexpected sequence of "updates" for me too; IDK if I'm just projecting something into nothing, but that was the best 2 & a half minutes of my day! (Notably beginning around 1:17)
My two most favourite people right now (besides hubby and son of course). Thanks for bringing this together.
Looking well Dr. Peterson! Glad to see it!
So awesome to hear you speaking like this again. Glad you're doing better, Dr. Peterson.
You guys interviewed Chriss Voss..... Awesome, I got his book exactly 1 month ago...... haven't found time to read it yet though.
Interesting. I’ll have to watch the whole discussion.
My two favorite mentors you both are incredible people that this world needs
I am thankful he's back! Dr. Peterson please (if you want to) talk about what went on with you. I take same med daily. There is concern. With deep compassion, David
Two of the best!
Just good to see you both and Jordan doing what he does best x
Mikaela is slowly bringing her dad back to life. She is an absolute queen .
@taylorlibby7642
3 жыл бұрын
I was just considering what it must have been like growing up in that household.
@jonah2047
3 жыл бұрын
@@taylorlibby7642 make your bed. your life depends on it!
@taylorlibby7642
3 жыл бұрын
@@jonah2047 😂🤣
@lucasmaloney3283
3 жыл бұрын
Why is she sleeping with a human trafficker
@dleimkuehler
3 жыл бұрын
And so nice!
Best to you Jordan's ❤
My heart smiles at his recovery looking very sharp Jordan and would love to hear you’re true thoughts on what is going on currently, love!
She is such a good kid for supporting her father through everything he has been through.
@RyderSpearmann
3 жыл бұрын
She is truly amazing.
@TheMRBboy44
3 жыл бұрын
Saved him from the belly of the beast . We didn’t except less from her
@DrDeusExMachina
3 жыл бұрын
What else would she do?
@michealjaymurphy
3 жыл бұрын
Gotta make that money
@epylypiuktomlin2102
3 жыл бұрын
This is what a soul relationship looks like. Daughters have much to learn from Fathers and vice versa x
God bless you Sir Peterson. I am glad your health condition is improving. I have you and your books to thank for my own rise back to life. ❤
So happy you are back!! Praise the Lord🙏 Mr. Peterson you are a gift to us🙏 and the world.
I’m glad you’re back on it. The whole world needs a lot more Jordan Peterson at this time in history.
Thanks
expectation: chris voss explains accusation audit reality: Dr. Peterson explains accusation audit
@TheAIToolsmith
3 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this. Didn't take that much time to find it ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Nothing but Love and admiration for you Professor Peterson. I’m in no position to place judgement on how you choose to present your podcasts, KZread channel, or any other platform you choose to express your points of view, many of which have helped me for the better. I find it beautiful that you have your daughter involved in your work alongside you, but I have to be honest. I feel very distracted from her presence, and I don’t see the value in having her involved with the discussion. With all due respect, you are the one who has amassed so many of us, and in a way I am reminded of what you said about Justin Trudeau and his rise to power.
You're really legend💫
The beginning of 2021 with Jordan Peterson is most positive things during this rough times. Looking better day by day! Love you JP 🇺🇸🤠👍
As brilliant as ever!
Yes! Chris Voss and Jordan Peterson. Two of my favourite authors in the same video.
Love Hearing JBP Talk
Best wishes to Mr. Peterson and the entire Peterson family.
Hey Jordan, Great to see you and hear you sounding like your old self!!!! It's like you never left!!
@achavez78
3 жыл бұрын
Man!!! We just got a glimpse of prime Dr. JBP!! 2021 off to a great start
So great to have you back Dr Peterson. Best wishes with your health, and to Mikhaila and Tammy. We've missed you and care very much about you!
Can you ever imagine a hollywood celebrity or politician doing this?
@CamRebires
3 жыл бұрын
You tell me George
@coledibiase1777
3 жыл бұрын
Idk George, can we?
@PwntifexMaximus
3 жыл бұрын
Hey! I was the one asking the question!
@carlosgaspar8447
3 жыл бұрын
i think kanye did that a number of times; but the list is long.
@KnotsOfWonders
3 жыл бұрын
Keanu Reeves?
Good stuff
Nice, I love Chris Voss and Jordan Peterson.
Hope you are both keeping well.
Nice one. Makes sense.
Glad to have you back man
Listened to this dude for the first time on h3h3's podcast, man was i ever hooked fast. Dudes incredible and sharp as a knife.
Great to see Dr. JBP looking healthy! I sincerely love this man. P.S.: Chris Voss looks a lot like Michael Franzese.
Good to see him getting back at it.👍
Happy new year 2021
Great to see you returning to form. I don't need to say any more than that!
I appreciate your honesty, your integrity, your wisdom and the that the creator was kind enough to have blessed our lives through your well articulating and thought provoking lectures and perspectives sir. My vocabulary is incapable of assessing your impact on my journey. Thanks my friend.
I am so pleased to see these three discuss anything. As far as this specific tactic it sounds to me that you want to tactically remove surprise from the situation as soon as possible; since surprise is the emotional amplifier. The last thing you need is a negative emotional response amplified by surprise when you are seeking a reasonable resolution.
J.P. is a great man. I listen to him as much as I can.
Looking much more vital and even sharper there, Jordan! Good Luck and Optimal Development to you ;)
Love this guy!!
Keeping getting stronger sir.
I once did a two-session job interview with a boss that reviewed my references negatively. After the first interview I decided not to take the job, but my mother convinced me to go to the second interview. At the outset of the interview the man asked me if I’d thought over anything from the previous session, and I said point-blank that I felt very strongly I wouldn’t be a good fit for his team. The instant I said that, he gave me the job. I have no idea how to explain this. It’s like, either seeing things exclusively from his perspective or expressing a lack of self-confidence. Either way, I worked a few days and decided not to continue with the company. Food for thought.
@vanny8641
3 жыл бұрын
Why did you decide to not continue working for the company? Just curious
@ambrose13
3 жыл бұрын
You dodged a bullet
Looking good!!
Looking really good man. 2021 is the year of epic. This time, when I walk the world where those have failed before. This time, when I close my eyes I'm so unsure. I cry my tears, and see no longer through the coloured light. This time, the mistake I made I can't describe. I believe, there are remedies we cant conceive. I believe, that all our problems now we will be with. I believe, we are ascended from a galaxy. I believe, I belieeeve!!!
I really, really enjoyed this podcast.
@candisesmith4704
3 жыл бұрын
@Oskar Johansson 🤪
Guys 2021 is now done! Loved this
Holy shit, Chris Voss? I love this guy.
i wonder if Jordan reads the comments, but if you do, I just started reading 12 Rules of Life, and I am really enjoying it! Great Book! :)
We are Praying Dr We are praying
That's somewhat similar to what Eminem did in the last rap battle in 8 mile
@uppityglivestockian
3 жыл бұрын
Well dang, that's right. lol
@unit38421
3 жыл бұрын
That's not just similar, that's exactly what he did. He knew he had to go first, so he came out ahead of everything that could hurt him. Well spotted
@nicholassantos5119
3 жыл бұрын
Haha fr that was a cheat code 😂
In my thinking, it would seem that if more potential mates (for those seeking one) are honest and can use this technique... wouldn't relationships be much better! Great interview!
Jordan B Peterson, I've got say if you were my neighbour I'd be round with beers every night to put the world to rights. You're the most honest, straightforward person I've ever come across although it be digitally. Teach the world
Jordan your the smartest guy I know. I'm a huge fan an fcb I've been watching since I was 14 years old
He is visibly better!! yay
I think Dr.Peterson's selection to topic is great sense to this topic. It is to invoke ideas by watching people's opinions, of course, it is contribution if maintained supporting feeling. BUT unnecessity situation, otherwise opinions I can understand too. In practice, suffocated experience and systemic oppression I have been experienced, there is the limit other people can help out. So, this kind of topic is best effort other people can do for the man/woman. I admire Dr.Peterson this way.
Doctor Peterson, how do you possibly seem just as youthful as ever? Ya look phenomenal good sir!
Jordan has this amazing ability to find hidden gold and added value in other people's reflections! Gotta love it!
I thought mr Peterson was alone in a world full of people wanting GOOD by doing BAD. That’s what I’ve seen in my life. Thanks for sharing. 💯✌️
I Love you JP. Christ has used you incredibly helping me understand my identity in Him, my created value, purpose and destiny in this life. Thank you.
This is good-useful
0:16 Seeing the copy of 'A long walk to freedom' reminded me a gain of 'A short drive to freedom' by Koos Kombuis -- The rock alternative. Also a good read.
So happy to see this beast of a man well and strong again. We def need him in 2021 (will be praying for you). Can't wait to get Beyond 12 rules for life. (Love the 8 mile metaphor in the comment section).
Man. I am loving that couch
Happy new year Sir. And 2 u Mikala plus ur boi. Hopefully 2021 will be better eh😰
I am going to use this in job interviews
@elektrotehnik94
3 жыл бұрын
Just make sure you have more good things to say about yourself (80%) after you say all the bad stuff first (20%).
This is great to see... not so much for the content... but this is more like the JBP we know and love. Having your true self reemerge after significant life events is, in the end, what life is all about.
Best duo on the Internet.
I like how JBP can articulate the concept better than the guy himself... great to see you back in action Dr. Peterson!
Besides his intellect and honesty I used to love his wit and sense of humor. Can't wait to see him burst into a smile soon.
Looking better, Dr. P
He’s back! The Jordon we all know and love!
Love this stuff! You might think I'm a huge jerk for bringing this up but the audio quality is quite low. I am interested in your podcast, but for long format the audio quality needs to be better to fully enjoy it.