What to Do When Someone is Lying to You

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  • @WGPower_Nonchalant_Cafe
    @WGPower_Nonchalant_Cafe10 ай бұрын

    So awesome how Black swan doesn't just give you robot phrases but actually teaches you how to think...

  • @xGINGERxBREADx
    @xGINGERxBREADx3 ай бұрын

    "Tone of voice, human commnication.. it's a perishable skill, are you practising? Take notes because hand writing processes differently than typing" - SO valuable!!

  • @allan640
    @allan64010 ай бұрын

    Most people are rarely honest, and most people don't like an honest person.

  • @phanikedhara1310
    @phanikedhara131010 ай бұрын

    My man Chris ❤ you literally changed my life. In both personal and professional level. Personal : I am an assertive and my relationship with my mom was not good before. After reading your book and consuming your content in videos, I controlled myself and changed a lot. Labels work on my mom insanely crazyy. And now I am happy with my mom. Professional : I started an agency and struggled a lot to get clients. At last I booked a meeting with a prospect and I was very nervous (I don't have sales experience) I made him talk and used - Accusations, Labels, and got That's right from him and he didn't even checked the presentation. He said, send a demo and you will have payment. Literally that was crazy for me haha it feels like now I can successfully throw the presentation in the GARBAGE. Gathering money to take your advanced courses. Thanks a lot Black Swan group and Chris Voss for all the free Value 🎉❤

  • @HowtoRestoreHeadlights

    @HowtoRestoreHeadlights

    10 ай бұрын

    Sounds like you’re out there getting it!! Keep up the great work AND stay open to learning new things like this. Seems like you’re excited to continue with your training with Black swan Group!

  • @phanikedhara1310

    @phanikedhara1310

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@HowtoRestoreHeadlightsThat's right. This might sound crazyy and you might think to yourself that this is the shit that doesn't work. Would it be too much to ask to be in touch with you and practice with like minded people....?

  • @stevepest4143

    @stevepest4143

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@phanikedhara1310lol I've heard the story behind that phrase. Made me laugh because I recognized it but nicely done.

  • @sankaranarayanan901

    @sankaranarayanan901

    10 ай бұрын

    Any examples of how it worked with your mom would be helpful.

  • @sankaranarayanan901

    @sankaranarayanan901

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@stevepest4143sounds like you really like jokes.

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage102010 ай бұрын

    What he says about handwriting is REAL! Your body's muscle memory reads each letter with it's own unique character, but goes to sleep feeling the same reps of smooth plastic rythmic keystrokes or thumb touches on your glass phone screen. You get a deeper connection when you hand write. From your body. It has to move in ways it may have forgotten lately and that sparks fresh neural connections or reopens old bridges mentally between ideas.

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    That's Right!

  • @HowtoRestoreHeadlights
    @HowtoRestoreHeadlights10 ай бұрын

    Love seeing these new clips 🙌

  • @HowtoRestoreHeadlights
    @HowtoRestoreHeadlights10 ай бұрын

    The transition to Sandy was perfect!!!

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters858210 ай бұрын

    You get far more with honey than vinegar.

  • @sankaranarayanan901
    @sankaranarayanan90110 ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot. Learnt a ton.hand written notes, work ethic, collaboration are my favorite.

  • @fitnesssoup7553
    @fitnesssoup755310 ай бұрын

    People aren't always honest. That's an understatement!

  • @jabezkikurui

    @jabezkikurui

    10 ай бұрын

    You seem to think its an understatement to say people are always dishonest?

  • @fitnesssoup7553

    @fitnesssoup7553

    10 ай бұрын

    @@jabezkikurui That’s right! 😅

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage102010 ай бұрын

    Not yet had the pleasure, but seen lots of videos and read Voss' work. Effective. Sharp tack. Knows how to play the soft game to find workarounds and pivot positions quickly without beating anyone down. I'd invest in him again.

  • @icysurfer1
    @icysurfer110 ай бұрын

    Thx again folks

  • @catherinedachtler2823
    @catherinedachtler28233 ай бұрын

    i could spend a year with the chris and still need more time 😊

  • @hinteregions
    @hinteregions10 ай бұрын

    I am a designer, I've often thought that in dispute or negotiation the parties instead of competing, trying to defeat each other, should work together to resolve the problem as in a design collaboration. And here it is, this is what it looks like, with bells on too. Thank you.

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    You're Welcome!

  • @anthonygizze
    @anthonygizze10 ай бұрын

    Excellent content

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it

  • @JoannaZng13
    @JoannaZng1310 ай бұрын

    👏🏼 congrats! On your continued success Chris and host #thebest 🤩

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much!

  • @answer979
    @answer9797 ай бұрын

    I love negotiation brooooooooooooo soooooo coool pleas do more of this

  • @rofo931
    @rofo9316 ай бұрын

    cool stuff

  • @jamescampbell-gray3203
    @jamescampbell-gray320310 ай бұрын

    I wish I had the ability to take advantage of your latest deal, Chris. I know those who have won't be dissappointed. Thanks for sharing the oppourtunity.

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    Than you for being a loyal supporter of our channel. We see you!

  • @orcanimal
    @orcanimal3 ай бұрын

    It's interesting to see Chris play the negotiator, because his angle of questions and the way he appealed to emotion and logic was very interesting. It's a shame the host was so focused on just not engaging with him at all and just focused on the timer, which isn't how a real person in that scenario would react. Watching Chris actually talk to someone who would engage with him in that role would be incredibly interesting.

  • @dancanwaiharo2169
    @dancanwaiharo216910 ай бұрын

    Nice

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage102010 ай бұрын

    Did he just say, "There's enough ethical business people to make a difference"?!?!? For real?!?! Whaaohw. Learn something new every day. Thanks!

  • @garyfrancis6193
    @garyfrancis619310 ай бұрын

    We are being lied to all the time.

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    That's why it's so important to use the skills.

  • @bendover666999
    @bendover66699910 ай бұрын

    Chris Voss has saved me tens of thousands pound's beg steal borrow even buy his book. His master class is better than the book because there is less fluff but still excellent

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    You should try coming to see us live! Here is the link to our upcoming events: www.blackswanltd.com/live-events

  • @bendover666999

    @bendover666999

    10 ай бұрын

    Come to the uk! And it’s a deal!

  • @lorellamessana2346
    @lorellamessana23466 ай бұрын

    Gesus ….world I have time and timer for collaboration and happy New Years afther or before 😂 fortunately

  • @TammyTaylorNailsSouth-Africa
    @TammyTaylorNailsSouth-Africa10 ай бұрын

    Thanks from Mel Viljoen

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    Hello my friend! Thank you so much for being a Super Supporter!! Let us know what you need help with. We are here!!

  • @bedadays1763
    @bedadays176310 ай бұрын

    Can some of the questions be used in dating/seduction etc?

  • @mustafa.kamaly
    @mustafa.kamaly10 ай бұрын

    Hey, there is something i didn't understand. should i use them just on important negotiations like buying something? Or should i use them entire day and my daily life? I couldn't find a way to use in a normal day for some techniques Sorry for my bad English :D

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    These are conversational skills. If you practice them everyday throughout the day in any conversation or even mental reps while watching tv, they will become natural to you. So when those important conversations and negotiations come up you will be better and see better results. Start with the Quick 2+1. (Labels, Mirrors, Dynamic Silence)

  • @mustafa.kamaly

    @mustafa.kamaly

    10 ай бұрын

    @@NegotiationMastery Then, When i finished the book, shouldn't I try every technique same time right? I think , I should choose some of them according to situation.

  • @mustafa.kamaly
    @mustafa.kamaly10 ай бұрын

    I still don't know how to make Dj voice. listened but didn't understand. Can anyone send me any examples. I don't know english so I just listen that voice. Can't understand the conversations .D It's like just speaking slower and little bit deeper or just slower and lower? Must i speak all the time like this or just end of the sentence?

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    You should be in your Accommodator's voice 80% of the time and you're Analyst voice 20%. We have several videos on our channel talking about how to use Tone. Here is a link to Troy Smith's short about it: kzread.infoJfM6Edj9t5Q

  • @almmason7

    @almmason7

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you, this was very helpful! ​@NegotiationMastery

  • @liroiter6002
    @liroiter60026 ай бұрын

    9.30 11

  • @jamescampbell-gray3203
    @jamescampbell-gray320310 ай бұрын

    Who knows if I could calmly respond this way if actually faced with this test, let alone the real situation... I wonder how affective or ineffective this response to "I need a car in 60 seconds or she dies." would be: "Hi my name's James." "I don't care what your name is, give me the car in 60 seconds or she dies.." "What's wrong, with 6 years.. and she lives?...

  • @NegotiationMastery

    @NegotiationMastery

    10 ай бұрын

    Sign up for one of our LIVE events! Let us know which one you're coming to and we will record it for youtube. Here is the link: www.blackswanltd.com/live-events

  • @lorellamessana2346
    @lorellamessana23466 ай бұрын

    😂🎉

  • @portal432
    @portal43210 ай бұрын

    Wow nice to see someone with the last name Voss have teeth

  • @pseudomonarchiadaemonum4566
    @pseudomonarchiadaemonum45665 ай бұрын

    This first interviewer totally ruined the "60 seconds or she dies" roleplaying by being unrealistically stubborn...

  • @MrsAnson7777
    @MrsAnson77778 ай бұрын

    Sooooo RUDE when a host who is interviewing a guest looks down for longer than 2 seconds while the guest is talking.( UNLESS they Tell the guest in advance "I'm writing down what you say, I'm listening")... They clearly show that they aren't listening carefully because they aren't interested...!! ie the one with the glasses

  • @charlotteiliu
    @charlotteiliu10 ай бұрын

    The host is doing so very poorly. Wow it is eye opening.

  • @AnaRanja
    @AnaRanja10 ай бұрын

    Ii dai de inteles ca stii ca minte si l lasi sa minta dar te retragi din relatie

  • @bmk4851
    @bmk485110 ай бұрын

    Wtf is "suicide by cop" lmao, it sounds like a contrived way of just saying a cop killed and murdered somebody

  • @Suite_Jimmy_D

    @Suite_Jimmy_D

    8 ай бұрын

    It is when a person intentionally behaves in a way that is sure to elicit a response where the police shoot to kill, fully intending to die as a result of their actions

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