My husband had an entire SAGA of failing to propose. He kept having plans and then something went wrong FOR SIX MONTHS until he just decided to give up and turn to me one day and tell me "before something happens again, will you marry me" and gives me the ring

@aokyoutsuki7744

11 ай бұрын

Daww

@adiazrue5776

11 ай бұрын

Please tell us what shenanigans that made your husband fail to propose to you

@Arissiah

11 ай бұрын

@@adiazrue5776 oh man, I don't want to write a whole book in the youtube comments but I'll give a few examples. (I only found out about these events keeping him from doing it after he finally proposed) Looking for the ring in December, picked out a beautiful custom ring I would have absolutely loved ->jeweler immediately goes on vacation before he can order it (He ended up asking me what kind of rings I like and just got a different one though) In January he took me to see my favorite band in concert -> forgot the ring at home My birthday is the end of January, so he wanted to do something simple and bring me a giant teddy bear with the ring -> gets out of work that day and all the big teddy bears are sold out and he spent so long searching for one I was getting sad, so not the best mood Was going to try again around valentines day -> his car broke down and was down and out for the whole month of February. Couldn't really go anywhere and that repair bill was pretty bad And it just kept going like that until like around June or July when he turns to me before going to work to ask me that, and then after he got out of work, he said he wanted to do it right at least, so he took me out to a nice dinner and got on one knee then and asked me again. I told him he could have even done that from the beginning but I loved all his effort anyway (Oops that's still pretty long)

@thisrandomdude_

11 ай бұрын

That's adorable and hilarious ahahahah, would you mind sharing some of those failed stories? I'm not alone when I say I'd love to know :3

@HelloOnepiece

11 ай бұрын

"I keep proposing but God does not want me to" brand new Light Novel first volume almost sold out

The bois: "That's diabolical." Chris: "Nah it's genius."

God this was sitcom level insanity

@notfabio9858

Жыл бұрын

Legit, the whole “leading them astray” thing usually doesn’t go well in the sitcoms lol

@7thHourFilms

Жыл бұрын

This was literally an episode of Friends.

@ThePatxiao

Жыл бұрын

@@7thHourFilms I was replaying when Chandler was lying his ass off to Monica. Somehow Chris was WORSE as at least Chandler didn’t make Monica CRY and start laughing

@aokyoutsuki7744

11 ай бұрын

​@@ThePatxiaothe fact that his response to "what're your opinions on marriage?" Is "marriage cringe inn'it?"

Chris’s plan to play it cool and throw Sharla off the trail is literally the same plot twist as when Chandler proposed to Monica in Friends. It didn’t go well for Chandler either.

@bakaichigo

11 ай бұрын

Omg :'D

We need sharla on the podcast now to tell her side of the story.

@TheOtakuDude

Жыл бұрын

How the hell did you comment this 3 days ago?

@skellyglob

Жыл бұрын

@@TheOtakuDude time traveller!

@yxngkarim

Жыл бұрын

Bro what this video came out 15 min ago

@Darkrezta

Жыл бұрын

@@TheOtakuDude I think member get privilege for early upload, I guess.

@Rhythm162.

Жыл бұрын

​@@Darkreztathat makes a lot of sense, I was sooooo confused

Connors would be in a crane game, and you have to win the ring 😂

@DragonEdge10

2 ай бұрын

Gets one of the workers to sumimasen for him and grab the ring lol

I still just can’t believe Chris’s thought process, it’s sounds like the goofiest shit on earth, it’s almost like an evil plot.

It's okay Chris and Garnt. I effed up my engagement too. I took my fiancé around memory lane took her to lunch where we had our first date. Had some of her favorite food for dinner did some other cute things but I planned too much for the day and it got so late that the park I was going to purpose at, where we had our first kiss was closed off as well. This was in Bangkok near Chulalongkorn University. Who closes up a public park!? My wife sussed me out too and I was acting aloof as to if I'll ever get a ring saying I'm broke or whatever but made her walk to an abandoned park and sneak in late at night, almost missing the mrt before they closed, it was too dark to take a good picture but thankfully she said yes.

My proposal was literally as Chris said. "Sitting on the couch. Marriage, innit." :)

@thisrandomdude_

11 ай бұрын

That's hilarious hahahah, congratulations to the both of you :>

@MajorMalfunction

11 ай бұрын

@@thisrandomdude_ Well... She took off with the kids and 65% of my worth.

@thisrandomdude_

11 ай бұрын

@@MajorMalfunction ayo wait what the fuck, that sucks to hear D:

@MajorMalfunction

11 ай бұрын

@@thisrandomdude_ I feel sad for Garnt. He's such a simp. His missus is a shark circling. I give then 3 years.

@overthewebb

11 ай бұрын

@@MajorMalfunction Hahaha, great post mate. I love all the guys on here, but all of them are simps. I know it as I used to be one. It's sad when you can see it, but if you point it out you get attacked by crazy feminists and other simps. Take care mate, hope it works out later for you

My engagement was my now husband had been taking the piss over the years (he worked on the bins) by bringing home empty jewellery boxes and "proposing" until 6 years of it he actually proposed for real in our dining room both still in work clothes and my response was f**k off you're taking the piss 😂

@_marou_

11 ай бұрын

It became the norm lmao

@Jin-1337

11 ай бұрын

He's a keeper❤

had to end at, "Sendai very fuck", genius clipping

@jc3drums916

11 ай бұрын

Natsuki, aka Chris's other spouse, lol.

Guys don’t joke with engagements, happy surprises are ok but if they cry in sadness you went to far

Well i'll make this short, when i proposed to my fianceé, i did it on new year's eve, it was the count down, and obviously when we hit the "happy new years" celebration and scream i kneeled down and at first she thought i was getting a really bad cramp on my thigh (this happens once a month in the middle of the night, it's a thing for me) but then she saw the ring and she cried and all went well.

damn Chris really tried the Chandler Bing technique

It's nice and sweet how Garnt and Chris went for that sweet middle ground when proposing and yet they still made it super memorable and funny. (Poor Sharla the trauma but it was def made up to her!) But no joke, a treasure hunt as an engagement moment does sound kinda fun.

13:15 She didn't even say Yes Classic Tsundere

That's the most Barry Chopsticks way of proposing I can imagine.

My wife is super basic in the best ways she loved Olive Garden we had our first real dinner date at Olive Garden so I like Garnt was like perfect we will go and I will propose it will be awesome. It’s of course packed as normal but this is good I want the spectacle you know. So while there right after I order a bottle of wine for us some mofo two tables over gets out of his chair and proposes the restaurant patrons all go nuts and clap….. meanwhile I’m pissed like how is this guy stealing my shonen moment. So of course I can’t do this now so we clap congratulate this couple and eat our food. We head home and I’m stil mad she could tell I was upset. 1 I had this shit planned 2 she was heading home the next day. So I was like f it we get back to my place I had a load of laundry in the trunk from the night before I was like babe could you pull that for me. She gave me dagger eyes of course but she went a did it anyway and when she turned around with the basket I was on a knee ring out. Anyway 13 years later we still married with 2 kids and hey we have a story to tell!

Welcome to the UK, all we have is rain, wind, rocks and scaffolding

@Kae-Lexi

Жыл бұрын

I kept watching some UK magnet fishing channels, and without fail, every spot they ever fished in they would pull out a goddamn scaffolding clamp... or 5

This is unironically an ingenious way to propose, disregarding the crying bit.

Lesson learn boys don't propose in the UK lol

It is heartening to hear others proposal hiccupa. When I proposed to my wife, I took her up to a place we loved, middle of autumn, since we loved the harvest and halloween goodness. ...and when we got up there is was raining buckets. So we go from tent to vendor tent over sodden muddy ground...and finally I find a big one, lit up and dry. While she looks around the store, I bust out the pumpkin id carried around in my backpack with "will you marry me?" On it. But the stupid ring is stuck in the bag! So i panick, rip it open, slide it on stem, whip around, put the pumpkin down and get on one knee. Utter silence. My heart is hammering in my throat, my knee is wet and muddy, and im about freaking panic. Then, she finally deciphers my terrible handwriting and says...yes. She didnt even notice the ring on the stem and couldnt read my "serial killer" handwriting, as she puts it. She was more worried I was gonna bury her in a field out back or something, giving her a permanent marker scribbled pumpkin way out away from civilization. 😆😅

I studied meteorology and I got an unnecessary amount of excited when you talked about the wet bulb temp!!

Marriage to the right person is great. So glad you guys are making a commitment. After my boy friend graduated from college.......Me, Should we get married? Him, I thought we would. That was 50 years ago.

Congratulations on the engagement, Chris!

"Marriage, innit?" "Y'know what.." 😂

grant 's proposal story is my fav..... can't wait to hear Joey's proposal 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🔜

@alejandroblue4675

11 ай бұрын

Grant is one of those people that has to 1up everyone. I don't trust anything he says

Ah... having a bit of a durdle at durdle's door. Broad you dog.

It's awesome you got engaged at Durdle Door! I love Dorset it's my home county. I truly believe Bournemouth, Poole, Christchurch have the best beaches in the UK by FAR

The apostrophe police will never catch Mudan. Thanks for knowing how to use one.

15:53 That's an actual Yakuza 0 subquest for Majima. Good stuff.

Connor is already playing it on hard mode, which is not having a girlfriend. And existence of 93% makes it into something out of a Gal Gun.

@saddocatto9245

11 ай бұрын

@@motoristacaduco bald connor ain't that bad... lol

Garnt's story is so wholesome.

I said to my wife, you wanna get married? iWe havnt bought rings yet and thats 7 years later

joey taking notes lol

Chris did a f***ing chandler.

I just asked my fiancé if he wanted to get engaged cause I knew we wanted to marry. And then I was like... There's a ring at this shop I know it's like a third less than normal rings I will pay for half!

Well, at least your versions turned out ok. My plan A and B were squashed early, and I guess plan C wasn't good enough.

Taking notes from your boys

Lol... "Can't imagine a guy just being calm... " ..yeah, that was me... I planned for months, coordinated people, and only needed a small audible.

What I learned here is that Connor would make his proposal a Mr. Beast challenge. :'D There better be content from that when it happens some day, it sounds hilarious lol

I told my fiancé to f off, was totally in shock 😂😂

2:29 IT IS COOL OKAYY

1:08 2:00 chosen one

wasn't it Chandler Bing's idea as well, Chris..? 😅

@7thHourFilms

Жыл бұрын

Ah! You beat me to it! Chris never saw Friends apparently!

Reenactment of the first date! That's how I did the proposal too!

Connor gamer boi sweat stinks 😩

yeah.. once a week if that is his hairtype.. be happy for him!

May this be the ONLY time you make that wonderful lady cry. 😞

what a plan!

Nice

I’d love to start a treasure hunt to find the ring with my boyfriend

The idea of recreating the first date is good but is it truly enjoyable when you have the proposal in the back of your mind all day?

13:35

Trash taste boys: it sucks here Me: come to florida the most humid while also hot places where 90s are normal temps besides in the weinter

@akumasstorytime3910

Жыл бұрын

90!?? mate how the fuck have you not boiled.

This is as good as TV

"We went out for dinner and the price came to exactly 7777¥!" "Congratulations on getting engaged!" "Oh yeah that"

A bunch of lies

They complain about construction but fail to realize without it theese "lovely places" would not be around for long lol.

@leilei49-51

Жыл бұрын

They know that, they aren't fucking idiots. It's just that brits love to complain. Plus it was shitty timing for them.

@jc3drums916

11 ай бұрын

1) It doesn't do them any good at that exact moment in time; 2) It isn't relevant to the story, so there's no point in mentioning it. Doesn't mean they don't realize it.

I would have been careful with this whole “leaving sharla astray” when it came to the proposal cause the way this story is being told kinnda sounds like gaslighting 😬 I really hope this wasn’t the intent but the whole manipulation tactic and how bad she responded to it gives it not a good feeling in my stomach. I would have picked a different conversion 😅

We need @SharlaInJapan in the podcast. Also calling Joey Bizinger aka Joey the An1meMan when are you popping the question. 😂😂😂😂

Omg plz get Sharla on the pod!!!!

That was the worst plan. You know what would have been better then telling her he never planned to get married and it was rubbish? Saying nothing. Just having a nice trip. What a twat.

I know I shouldn't say this.....I REALLY know I shouldn't, but Chris has always rubbed me the wrong way. I've thought this for years and need to say it somewhere, and I'd like to know what others think about him His eyes are never kind, and he seems so grumpy all the time, like any little thing can put him in an incredibly foul mood. I knew a guy like this who dated my friend and I immediately caught it... Wasn't a happy relationship because of him...I'll just say that. I'm not here to spread hate, and in fact I want the reality of Chris to be that he is a kind and good person, but hearing him getting engaged to a girl who had her world crumble due to her previous engagement breaking apart has me worried for her. It doesn't help that Chris's engagement plan was done on purpose to put Sharla in distress, all because he found it funny. Maybe he's just incredibly socially awkward, or maybe he's just an ass who doesn't care how he affects other people, I don't know. It seems like I'm 100% alone on this though, so I could believe that I am wrong. Before anyone states 'It's because he's British'...I'm British, born and raised. I'm experienced with British people. This isn't British humour/quirks, it's just red flags.

@Steve-xo5pq

11 ай бұрын

That's interesting you perceive him that way. I consider myself a pretty good judge of character and I'm also pretty sensitive to mean vibes due to past trauma. However I have never seen a video of Chris where I thought "this guy is giving off red flags," and I've been watching him for quiet a while. Personally I never even try and gauge somebody's personality based on looks (ie, their eyes). There's just so much nuance to that and much of it is beyond he person's control. As far as his actual demeanor, it's pretty clear to me that his humor (in particular, his sarcasm) is very much joking. He never crosses any lines as far as I'm concerned, and to me, it's always clear that it's just a joke and it never feels mean spirited to me. I have someone in my life who has a similar sense of humor, and sometimes people who don't know him misunderstand, so maybe I'm just used to it? Anyway that's my perspective. Personally, in my experience, perspective and personal experience can really skew things. My rule of thumb when it comes to entertainment (such as watching KZread) is I don't watch anything that makes me feel bad, since entertainment is, you know, supposed to be fun! I recommend if Chris's content leaves a bad taste in your mouth, just don't watch it, but also I wouldn't recommend reading into it too much because that can also make you feel bad.

@jessicacunningham7021

11 ай бұрын

Not sure why my original reply was deleted, possibly a bug, but here we go again. I'm sure a lot of people would also state that they are a great judge of character, but the only person in my life who I can give that credit to is a friend of mine, whose gut instinct was never wrong. He should be a criminal psychologist he's so good. Like I said previously, I may be wrong about this, especially as nobody else seems to share my thoughts on this matter (at least for now), and it's not like I want to be right about him, but given my previous negative experiences of not speaking up sooner, I've come to worry if not speaking up sooner is worth the backlash I might get. In regards to what I said about his eyes, I thought it was a pretty well known ideology that the eyes are the Window to the Soul. They reveal what you're actually feeling, wheras a smile can easily be a lie. Gus from Breaking Bad/Better Call Saul is a good example, and the actor made the choice to never smile with his eyes, so that when he goes from faking a smile to dropping it, you can see his eyes never changed, and only upon seeing Gus frown do we realise his eyes were always malicious. I'm surprised more people don't pick up on this. Once you notice it in one person it can be disturbing how many people are hiding their anger/irritance/sadness by just smiling. Just so we're clear, this is the only part of his looks that I am judging, his eyes alone. As to me not watching videos of Chris. I don't. After he started to make me uncomfortable, I stopped watching his channel years ago, but I do watch Trash Taste, however I avoid any videos where Chris is featured. The only reason I clicked on this video was because of the title. I obviously hope I am wrong about him, especially as Sharla seems nice and sweet and doesn't deserve another heartbreaking engagement breakup. Do you agree that Chris's choice of proposing was worrying? He clearly wanted Sharla to be worried/upset at the idea of him not wanting to get married, which, for me, is pretty messed up, especially for Sharla and her previous experience with an engagement. He clearly didn't expect/hope that Sharla would agree to marriage being bad as he was indeed planning to propose to her, which of course leads to the only conclusion that he wanted her to feel bad.

@chromberries7329

11 ай бұрын

This is so parasocial. I thought his engagement story was quite cute and showed he put a lot of thought into making it a romantic surprise for sharla, it's just things didn't go to plan. I've watched Chris for some time now and he never struck me as a bad person, he's just very blunt, similar to sharla imo!

@jessicacunningham7021

11 ай бұрын

@@chromberries7329 To be fair. I remember seeing some comments about Ned from Try Guys (before the scandal), about how his general attitude rubbed them the wrong way. How they wondered if he actually did love his wife as much as he claimed (his whole thing was him constantly talking about her). And if his whole I'm Such a Good Guy personality was fake. A lot of people were against these comments, stating that they thought Ned's attitude and actions were cute and how he makes for the best husband, and how the original commenters were just haters. But then a lot of people changed their tune when the scandal happened.

@Steve-xo5pq

11 ай бұрын

​@@jessicacunningham7021 no I don't agree. Sounds like an honest lapse in judgement. I've been doing therapy for a long time and one of the things they teach is is to take things in the most benign way possible. There's no reason to assume that he wanted to hurt sharla. Also to reiterate my point, there's nothing you can do in this case. Speaking up isn't going to do anything. Chances are neither sharla, Chris, nor the trash taste guys are going to see this, and even if they do, I can virtually guarantee they disagree and won't act on what your saying. My point about not watching Chris wasn't about ignoring your feelings and not speaking up, it's literally that you can't do anything about it, that's why I suggested you don't read into it too much. Your going to make yourself miserable if you care that much about online personalities. Same Goes for real life. It really helps to take a step back and think "do I really know enough about this person to come to any conclusions." I also agree with you that many people seem to think they are good judge of character and aren't. I'm always skeptical of people who think they can see someone's future actions for example. What I mean when I say I'm a good judge of character is I know when someone bad their sh*t together because I've been around a lot of people with mental health issues (including myself). You start to see patterns after a while because people who hurt others are often times not doing too great themselves. Anyway again I suggest not watching Chris and not over thinking it too much. I hope this helps

As someone who worked at a hair brand for years I do and will defend Connor continuously about the not washing your hair too often thing 🫡

@lodevijk

Жыл бұрын

My hair has never been more healthy ever since I stopped using shampoo

@fireroum

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely not. I get fungal infections if i don't wash my scalp regularly enough. It really depends on the individual. Don't wash your hair, wash your scalp.

@anasianemo

11 ай бұрын

@@fireroum Yes, it does depend on the person. It could be every other day. Or every two days. Some people wash it every day or twice a day, even though it does not get greasy/they have textured hair and then they wonder why it’s so dry. Dandruff is indeed often caused by the overgrowth of the Malassezia fungus/yeast. They feed on the oils/sebum on the scalp. But if you’re not someone who deals with that often and your hair texture can’t handle it then it really is not needed to go as far as washing it daily. It’s also important that people are aware that ketoconazole shampoo is used to treat the fungal overgrowth and realise that by just washing their hair more often it doesn’t get rid of the fungus. However if the persons job causes their head to get oily, sweaty, smelly, dusty etc then yes washing it is important, as long as it is a gentle shampoo. So bottom line is: figure it out for yourself lol and if Connor says his hair is okay then it probably is and people shouldn’t judge.

@anasianemo

11 ай бұрын

@@fireroum Oh and in addition. Yeah the fungal scalp thing sucks. I deal with that too, but I also have textured coarse wavy long hair THAT IS ALSO BLEACHED AND DYED 💀 so if I do wash it every day then rip… so what you said about washing your scalp is really true. One hairdresser tip for that is to load your ends with conditioner or a good mask and put the shampoo or treatment on the scalp and massage it in WELL before even thinking of rinsing it through.