Sadly, as a whole (always exceptions) it feels like men and women simply do not want the same things anymore. I know so many good hearted women that are stable and ready but cannot move forward with their desire to have a family because they simply cannot find a partner. Your channel has encouraged me so much and has definitely offered an alternative to still be able to have a family ❤️

@Po0pypoopy

3 ай бұрын

women are so picky....they usually want a man to be 6 + feet tall, big "package", rich, etc. go figure....

Ahhh I’ve always wanted to do this but people are so quick to say, wait for a man, wait for this, you need a man. No you don’t, love this ❤️. I like that you’re giving us information and insight.

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly friend when do people not judge or have something to say? It's unfortunate but reality that folks are miserable within themselves and their own lives that they are quick to pass judgement on the next. You have to want to do it for YOU despite what others may say or think. Life doesnt always go as planned no matter what it entails and you must pivot and adapt as needed. Do tons of research, read SMBC books/blogs, connect with many of us in the community to get a sense of the pros/cons. Trust you'll know what God has planned for you and if its this route you will be covered throughout

@FreyaEinde

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like being in no rush to make everything happen makes you better at choosing partners because you're not trying to make them good for everything. If that makes any sense.

@serenasimms1400

3 жыл бұрын

They always say wait for a man I’m not shaping my life around a man I get one life I’m not wasting it on the worst of the human race 😭💀

@BigShowDoG

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@anjelicameshae

2 жыл бұрын

@@serenasimms1400 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

I am 42 and I tried waiting on the husband and look where that got me....childless. My partner of almost 3 years was going to do IVF with me, but he's chickened out twice now. He did all the testing, but freaks out because he feels that IVF isn't "natural"; even though I have a low AMH and he has male infertility. Anyway, I am wavering but suppose to start the IVF process this week...taking the meds. I can't sit here and watch my dreams end. You are so brave to be your 20's and I look forward to watching more of your videos.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you so much friend! Praying for you and sending you all the love! Please know I am a resource and YOU GOT THIS! 🙌🏽

@shalonw.472

2 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice thank you so much.

@auwalkhalid6539

2 жыл бұрын

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶➖➖

@socialitarobotica

2 жыл бұрын

@@auwalkhalid6539 how much do they charge?

@francoiskuate6215

2 жыл бұрын

I can't stress this enough....DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUUUUU sis cause at the end of the days these are your dreams maybe not his!! Kids are the most beautiful blessing! Follow your dreams!!💕💕💕💕💕 Good Luck

I'm in my twenties and I'm planning to become single mom by choice. I feel you girl.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

You got this friend 🤍

@auwalkhalid6539

2 жыл бұрын

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

@theartofmgtow4204

2 жыл бұрын

Move to a 3rd world countries n see how easy single moms got it vs a humbled woman who would rather keep her man n be a whole family lol

@l.n.9462

2 жыл бұрын

Just interested what r ur reasons for choosing to be a single mother? How many kids do you want? Best of luck on this journey:)

@Evettecord

Жыл бұрын

@@theartofmgtow4204 aren’t men everywhere hating women & marriage? Aren’t they saying that a woman is old after 25? I’m glad that more of us are moving on. Why stay in an abusive dynamic?

I heavily advocate for people to only have kids when they want them and can adequately provide so I absolutely love this !!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching friend!

I'm 35 (almost 36) and have been dating for nearly 20 years with no luck. I've had to get on antidepressants because of my desire for a child. I always said that if I didn't have a child/partner by 37, I would begin looking into a sperm donor. People always talk about infertility (which I sympathize with greatly), but no one seems to talk about the simple fact of how hard it is to find a partner. I commend you for doing it at such a young age! Thank you for this video and information.

@user-zb6vy3su7f

Ай бұрын

If u did get a guy does he want to be married or want children. In hindsight I wish I had of done everything as a forever single woman n never got married, it was a nightmare being married....he was a horror...

Your child is so blessed to have you as a mom❤

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

You’re too kind, thank you friend 🤍

I’ve been nervous because of my age, how people might judge me but honestly seeing this, You gave me so much motivation to just do it. I’ve been feeling the exact same way for a very long time..very depressed and feeling like a failure😕 I really relate to your story and I respect you so much for putting this out there. I’m 23 & I’m planning to go through this process in a couple years from now. Thank you so much for all of your advice! I was able to follow this thoroughly & take notes✨😇 god bless you and your beautiful family!!💜

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Friend you must do what makes YOU happy. Trust regardless there will be folks wanting to express their 2 cents and you dont have to subject yourself to listen or take heed to it. I get attacked daily on here and my social media platforms regarding how terrible I am for making this decision. They dont know my story and that's okay because I dont owe them any explanations nor do I care about how they feel about MY decision. You got this and know you're not alone in this. I am always a message away

I've just chosen my donor and I can relate to everything you've said! Jeez it was like listening to myself. I've been hurt so many times before. Being a SMC via a donor is the best decision I have made. Thank you so very much for your video.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing friend!! You're not alone and I am so proud of you for doing what's best for YOU! You got this and please know I am cheering you on and always a message away! 🤍

New subscriber here. I am older, my AMH levels are the only hormones that are low. It is literally a race at this point. I have full support from my family as well. This is so encouraging. Thank you for sharing your story!

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome Tiffany and so very lucky to have you join the family! It's truly incredible to know you have a solid support system because its beyond needed throughout the challenges/journey. You got this queen! Trust, claim, that its already done and will work out as its suppose to for you

@shannonsellers4888

3 жыл бұрын

There are some vitamins to help with those levels

@Tiffanybacquel

3 жыл бұрын

@@shannonsellers4888 yes! I have my next appointment with my Dr. next month. 💜

@shalonw.472

2 жыл бұрын

@ Shannon Sellers Do you decide to move forward with it? I am glad that you have your family's support.

@Tiffanybacquel

2 жыл бұрын

@@shalonw.472 yes, I am in full swing. The first thing they had to do was balance my hormones. I’m very hopeful. ♥️

I was married by the age of 25 and separated by the age of 29. Now that I am 30, I want children but I don't want to rush into another relationship just yet, so I am taking the sperm donor route. Not to mention I have endometriosis so the sooner, the better for me

@Kiki-AndBeyond

Жыл бұрын

Go for it. I'm 37 and I wish that I started this process sooner.

@gailainsley6939

Жыл бұрын

Right. I’m not sure why people think marrying before 25 is the thing to do. Studies show that those who marry by 25 are back on the market by 30. Also, the women are most likely to not marry well so they end up as single mothers anyway. According to studies Longer lasting marriages happen after 28 and it’s also the average marrying age for women in the west 28-35+. Yes, marriage can come later but as a woman, it’s better to be safe. Many are looking at other options to have a baby just incase.

Just came across this video!! I’m 20 and started thinking about it because i feel like me being a single mom is better for me and you made me make my mind up to go through with it when I turn 25 I love this video. 💜💜

@theartofmgtow4204

2 жыл бұрын

Welfare is what u want n force to bio to pay child support lol

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

How about you educate yourself more because making this decision makes you ineligible for child support. With your oh so smart ass!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Hi friend! You have time to weigh out your options on what's best for you! Just know you have an entire community behind supporting you!

@jaydencarter1666

Жыл бұрын

same here girl!

Congrats! I'm 38 and have thought about this since I've hit my 30's. I met my current partner 4-5yrs ago and so far we've had 3 miscarriages. So now I'm looking at gestational carrier but my partner is freaking out about that. Trying to get him to understand that I DON'T HAVE TIME for his uncertainty 😒

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Hi friend! Thank you so much for sharing, I am saddened to hear about your losses. So proud of you weighing out your options and looking into gestational carriers. That's such an incredible way to also create that family you're seeking to obtain. I do pray your partner comes around and understands the value and blessing that could be for you both 🤍

@lindsey5137

2 жыл бұрын

im 42 and single and feel so lost

@Po0pypoopy

3 ай бұрын

have you tried praying? God listens....don't lose faith and perform things that are not acceptable by HIM

Honestly, it’s good to know that I’m not the only one that has decided to take this route. You making this decision doesn’t make you a failure at all. Take me for example, I have my life together and attractive but…I don’t see myself doing the whole being married thing because that’s not what I want for myself. I also don’t want to live in constant fear of separating and possibly fighting for custodial rights. I don’t want to deal with any of that negativity.

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You're not alone and I agree, we must take the path that is best for us. You got this friend 💕

Congratulations sweetheart!! 💜 Your whole attitude, positive vibe and strength is very inspiring!!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much friend, you're too kind.

Thank you for this vid. Ive been thinking seriously hard about maybe doing this one day. It is extremely comforting to me to know that I don’t need to WAIT on a man to “save” me and give me a baby! This world is not a Disney movie! I truly hope I can be a mother one day and I want to at least actively TRY while my biological window is open. Im happy to know that when my window starts closing, I do not have to passively wait for a man and I can take charge of my own destiny. THANK YOU AGAIN!!!

To all the women: Please don't wait I'm 41 with no kids because I was waiting for the dude to get it right. He still hasn't done right by me after 16 yrs sooo yea DON'T WAIT.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that friend! Sending all the love your way 🤍

@z7z766

Жыл бұрын

Leave him, do this journey. there is a woman who was above 40 who did this

@user-zb6vy3su7f

Ай бұрын

No such thing as a g8 guy for everyone. 😢 I had 2 kids shocking marriage and never saw what he was really like till after married....lots guys see marriage certificates as ownership papers sad but true

i’ve made the decision after two years of thinking it over a few months ago, my journey officially begins in june!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Omgg how exciting!! So so happy for you friend! Please know you are not alone and if I can be a resource of info or support know that I am more than happy to be! 🤍

You are amazing! You video made me feel so much better. It truly gave me hope and strength!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much friend! So happy you enjoyed 💛

What makes you such an inspiration for me, is that you are young and beautiful and owning a choice that feels right to you. I look forward to digging into your videos to know your story.

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

You're too kind friend, thank you for tuning in and following this journey alongside me! It means the word to me xoxoxo

So happy for you! I have my transfer on the 12th. Hoping for a stick baby! Blessing for a safe pregnancy!❤

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Happy transfer day friend 🥳 Sending you all the positive vibes and baby dust. Claim it, this precious baby is already yours! don't forget to kick your feet up, be lazy and get those lucky mcdonald french fries!

@naturalsouthernbelle4327

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice thank you!. 🍟was the first thing I ate lol. I will be resting for the next 3 days!

@naturalsouthernbelle4327

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice I got my BFP this morning. I'm praying for this baby to stick around for 9 months. I can wait to finally be a mom❤👩🏽‍🍼

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

@@naturalsouthernbelle4327 omgggg yayyyy congratulations mama! I knew you would 😍😍 all glory be to God! Trust that baby is snuggled right in and is not going anywhere. You’re pregnant and staying pregnant. Periodt!

Great video. I want to add that you addressed the race subject in a delicate, knowledgeable and classy delivery.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much friend!

@bjohnthomas

2 жыл бұрын

While Alicia has decided not to disclose the race she chose (and I respect that), research has shown that white is the preferred race and only outdone by the patient's own or partner's race. Until the black community and society stop assigning a higher status to lighter skin tones, black people will continue to be marginalised. So while it wasn't a factor for Alicia, it has been a factor for many other IVF patients.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

@@bjohnthomas this is totally true! I did a paper on this when completing my masters!

OMG IM 25 AND IM A MOM ALREADY BUT WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THIS AS A SECOND GO ROUND.....MY SON WILL BE SIX AND I WANTED IVF BEFORE I MET HIS DAD🤦🏾‍♀️ BUT NOW SEEING YOUR VIDEO IM EVEN MORE INTERESTED

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Hi friend! Such exciting news to hear you're thinking of undergoing IVF. It's such an emotional rollercoaster and financially, physically and emotionally daunting but so worth it in the end. Do tons of research, find the right fertility clinic/staff and ensure you have your solid support system. You got this

@mateaukalua4426

Жыл бұрын

Can you afford this? You had a kid at 19.

Wishing you all the best! I am also wanting to become a single mother by choice. Keep shining, beautiful. 💜💜

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much friend truly appreciate you! Super exciting to hear you're also considering the path to motherhood by SMBC. Please know I am here for any support or insight that I can provide to you

@giannacina3726

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice THANK YOU! 🥰

Congratulations! You're glowing girl! Gorgeous!

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sister!! 🤍😘

I turn 40 next year. I plan to do this after I return from my deployment with the goal of being pregnant before 41. I'm too old to be worried about marriage, but I am still open to it.

I’m 27, and have been thinking about this process recently. I’m planning to be a single mum by choice.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

You got this friend! It wasn't a decision I made lightly but it was the BEST decision I could have ever made 💛

@9sxxa

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 22 and I am doing research on this because my faith in men is very low and I want to have children between the years of 30 and 35, I have always wanted children and I will do it with or without a man, it's empowering to see other women have the same mentaloty

New subscriber here. I'm thinking of starting my path next fall !! Congrats

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Hi friend! So great to have you beauty! That's super exciting to hear you're considering starting your journey next fall. It's one helluva ride but I would do it a thousand times again! You got this and please let me know if I can support you in any way possible.

Thats very good decision,I hope you make it!😊 The reason we have children is to help one another when we are old and also when we are in danger and also not to be alone. I also want to have children artificially. And also to be a loving mom. 😄

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Well said friend! I've always been destined to be a mother and its a dream come true! I would make this decision over and over again! You got this!

@nanaouzumaki6044

2 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice And also to be a mom.

I have a few family members that are against it, as it is different for them. They had their babies with their significant others and so they feel it’s taboo to have a baby with a stranger. Some say you never know if you’re having a child by a psycho or not. While that is true~ with the right amount of love and care, you could raise a fully sane and healthy child. I could understand their concerns somewhat, but still, I just want your support. You don’t have to understand or agree with my decision... I just want you to be there for me.

@alyssablase417

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I'm 18 and have always been one to "rush" into things, as other people like to call it. I think things over early so it looks like I jump into things but I just am much more ahead than people my age. I can't see myself getting married or wanting it at all. I just want kids. My family HATES my wants of using a soerm donor

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

Amen! Exactly..preach friend 👏🏽

Today is 11/23/2023 (Thanksgiving here in USA) …and am in tears because I want a baby sooo bad .am 33 and not even dating .i have so much love to give and I have always wanted to have kids .i feel like this is the route am going to take .Thank you for sharing your story .

@wshelby83

9 күн бұрын

Have you still decided to go this route?

Thank you for sharing i belive you will be an amazing mother! I appriciate you speaking about the topic because many arent, im considering doing this when im older but that is just a thougth i got plenty of time, but i just meant to say i find you really inspiring, good luck in life take care and merry christmas!❤❤❤

I have a couple questions. (1) what age did you start to accept that it’s okay for you to do this process to become a mother? (2) would you go through this journey again to have another baby? (3) do you regret anything? And what advice would you give a women who’s thinking of starting this journey?

Ur not a failure ❤️

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

🤍 thank you beauty

@drinkmeplease6224

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice But the child will be.

@theinfamouswoodnypmh1367

3 жыл бұрын

@@drinkmeplease6224 why u all in her comments hating ?🤨

Some people are so judgemental. Some woman wait for marriage, husband happily ever after and when they realize it is not happening it might be too late to be a mother. There are so many STD diseases out there while trying one relationship to another. I know of a lot of children that was born in perfect marriages that ended as total psychos and criminals. Single parents can raise children that will have a great impact in society. There are good and bad in every situation. I'm so so happy we woman have the opportunity to experience motherhood even if we don't get the happily ever after from telenovela.

@auwalkhalid6539

2 жыл бұрын

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

OMG friend! I am speechless because you took it ALL out of my mouth. Well said

Hey Alyicia I’m so happy for you.... 🥰🥰🎉🎉

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much beauty 😘

Much love and support to you!!!

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much friend 🤍

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

I'm so glad i looked this up.

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoyed! Always know I am an open book and can always message me for anything 🤍

Alicia, you are my hero! thank you so much for this info! What a beautiful soul 🌹🌹🌹🌹💖!

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

You're too kind, thank you friend

@drinkmeplease6224

3 жыл бұрын

@Art Loves She's your hero but your child won't look at you as one.

At 35 I understand but at 21 I do not. I had my kid at 22 with her dad (he ended up being useless as a man) and it is HARD! I hope it works out for you really

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Hi friend! Thanks for your message, I am actually 30. I honestly feel like despite someones age it can be and have its hard moments. Its beyond a blessing when someone has a supportive village behind them.

I love your journey ❣️ you give me so much hope.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad! Thank you so much for watching

I’ve been seriously considering this! I’m currently in a relationship but I’m debating on if I want to end it or continue. Leaning more towards ending it at this point. But if I do I definitely want to do this cuz I do want at least one child and I don’t mind doing it on my own. So glad this is an option.

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You will make the right decision no matter which path you take 🤍

@gingerandspice1209

11 ай бұрын

End it

@wilsmith3898

9 ай бұрын

The other kid around your child will be here because their parents loved each other.. or at least knew who they were... your child is going to be conceived through artificial means...if at all. Thats sad

@DRay4eveZ

9 ай бұрын

@@wilsmith3898 Men have the luxury of not losing the ability to procreate while women do not. If I’m in a relationship that is not secure and don’t meet someone soon enough to have kids with, should that mean I don’t ever get to be a mother? Ofc it would be ideal to have a partner but I’m keeping my options open. I’m not going to just have a baby in a relationship for the sake of my kid knowing their father. As long as children have reliable adults in their life they will be fine.

I thought if you were CMV positive, that means you could choose a sperm donor who was positive or negative. It's only if you're negative that you're supposedly supposed to only use negative cmv sperm. Although most people who conceive the "natural" way, don't test each other's cmv status prior to making a baby so I think it's probably not necessary

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

That’s correct and so because I was positive my donor could be positive or negative and so happen he was negative. 🤍🤍 but I totally agree with you when it comes to most people who conceive the natural way typically don’t know one another’s cmv status

You are such an inspiration thank you so much for sharing all these videos with us I’m honestly about to go on this journey myself and it’s something I thought about for the longest and finally decided it was the best thing for me. Watching your videos was very informative and calming for me. Once again thank you May God keep blessing you.💕🙏🏻

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

That's so exciting friend! YOU GOT THIS! Don't allow anyone or anything deter you from this journey to motherhood (even if it is alone). I am an open book and always a resource for you! Cheering you on mama 💕

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

It's totally natural to feel that way, heck even after having my son I find myself in those feelings. However, its NOTHING to be ashamed of. Life isn't perfect and not everyone gets that fairytale in that order. Detours happen and its what makes life so grand. The perfect one for you will be for you. Without force, without finding them, watch and see :)

@auwalkhalid6539

2 жыл бұрын

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

I have just started the journey - im on 2ww super excited and super nervous please keep me in prayer, i really want a ssuccessful and healthy pregnancy

I have just started the journey - im on 2ww super excited and super nervous please keep me in prayer, i really want a successful and healthy pregnancy

Hi love, just wanted to state being CMV positive actually means you can choose a CMV positive or negative donor because you already have the antibodies present in your body :)

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes, so with me being positive my donor could have been positive or negative and turns out he was negative ☺️

@LindseyDanielslindseypindsey

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! My positive and so is my donor ☺️

I’m happy you’re saying this. I’m unhappy and my last relationship just ended. Like a train wreck. I’m in my 20s but I don’t know if I want to wait for a man anymore. Even if I end up miscarriaging I just want to atleast try. I’ve always wanted to have the experience and I cannot wait anymore for a man as the men I’ve been seeing are all useless. Im putting it lightly.

O. M. G. I literally just favorited that same donor 😳 (and for some of the same reasons) what a wild coincidence!!!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

OMG - that's trult a wild coincidence lol but such a GREAT choice 👏🏽

@auwalkhalid6539

2 жыл бұрын

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

i’m also choosing someone i would date. i want the donors description to be someone i think i’d be attracted to. it doesn’t make sense for me to choose someone who i wouldn’t even look twice at!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Totally can relate to that and that's why I had my non negotiables as things I wanted the donor to obtain because I'd want it to be someone I would indeed date and not the total opposite.

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies?

So far I’ve found 8 donors and 2 are available.. so I’m still searching. I plan to do ICI in February 2023😁

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

How exciting! Sending you all the positive vibes friend! It’s definitely an experience.🤍

@iamasia_perez

Жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice Thank you! xoxo

I want try this I been cheated on by every guy I dated. My ex boyfriend lied saying he wanted to have a baby with me. But cheated on me twice. I had close the door, what option do you think I should try?. I’m in California. I want to be a mom. Facts I’m not worried about race I’m also mixed to.

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing friend. I've been there more times than not unfortunately but I didnt allow that to keep me from my ultimate goal of becoming a mother. I would best recommend finding a fertility clinic/doctor and working with them on the best route/options available for you. Which will consider a variety of factors: medical history, blood work, etc.

The biggest reasons men donate is 1 money most of them are in college and just need some pocket change or 2 they truly want to help. I’ve rarely heard of someone donating just so they can feel like they’re amazing because they got bio kids running around.

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@z7z766

Жыл бұрын

Belive there are creeps who are sending women in donor fb groups to give then their sperms just to get off the fact that they are "spreading their seedings" bs

I have really been thinking about this for the last couple years. i’m 26 and i’m really considering it.

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You got this friend, no matter what decision you make 🤍

Omggg God bless you. Thank you for this info

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Always friend 🤍🤞🏽

I had my first sperm donor in 2020, had my healthy princess in 2021, now she's 3 years old and I'm ready for back #2 🥰

This has given me hope that I’m not crazy and losing hope in relationships but I feel as tho I’m already 21 have never been in a committed relationship and each guy I meet is either not what I want or just beyond childish and can’t see myself with long wise. Although I’m going to wait 1 or 2 more years stay my bread and see if I do get into a relationship and if not 22 or 23 it is for me I’m letting what I want be known to get the best options

I want to become a single mom by choice in the future. I was thinking about adoption but I want like to go through the full process of being a mom

Oh girl u got 2 babies n house ur not even 35 I’m so proud of you

where did you get your ivf done at please whats the name of the clinic and location please

I am seriously considering this

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

It's not a decision I made lightly but one I wish I would have made so much sooner!!

I’m 30 my son is 12 years old. I’m ready for another baby but dating 😬🥴 I haven’t had any luck sooooooo I’m definitely looking into getting a donor to have my next child 🥰…

ty for sharing your feelings..i am totally feeling like a failure all my friends are married with kids..i feel so depressed

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You're on your OWN journey friend! Sooo often I used to compare my journey to those around me and I had to stop. We all have our unique life purpose and the journey will look different for each. Trust I am so glad I stopped comparing and did what was best for me and my life because most of those friends if not all are now divorced, single parents themselves and in a coparenting nightmare situation. You got this mama.

Currently pregnant with my IVF donor miracle and I am so happy! 2 prior children 23/18 wanted another child but didn’t want the horror stories of co parenting connect to this child! I’m very happy with my decision and don’t give damn who doesn’t like it! I’m the happiest I’ve ever been and prepared to love my child without conditions ❤

I'm glade I'm learning from this🖤🖤😃

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! Thank you for taking the time to watch friend!

Most women want a tall man. It's weird how everyone acts like they're the only ones who care about height. Messed up part is you can't control height.

Do you know if I only have to complete an H1 form for at home insemination shipment or do I have to have the A1 form too. I heard I only would need the H1 form. I’m looking to go through cryobank.

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

I am actually unsure of how at home insemination works as I underwent treatment at a fertility clinic. It would be best to contact the cryobank you select to confirm if that form or any other documentation is needed.

Thanks for sharing your journey! Please were the donors test results shared with you before you selected the one that would match well with you? Thanks

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

Yes ma’am, they give you an entire deep dive into the donor, their labs and more 🙌🏽

2:17 even if you had all of that by 25. Chances are high that you would’ve been single with kids and in a worse off financial position by 30 anyway. Younger marriages end sooner. There is no guarantees. This is probably the best option. No headache. No drama.

i plan to do this when I’m a little older! I’m honestly not interested in being in a relationship. it’s just not for me. I’ve always wanted children though.

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You got this friend, no matter which path you take 🤍

I am curious if she used the same sperm donor for both children? Was this an option? Was it preferable?

Where there profiles where the donor was not ideal? like would they say hes average looking or only a high school graduate type of thing?

I totally believe blood type really matters and huge comparability

Beautiful queen .... interesting topic 🇯🇲

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@abbistalkermom

2 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice you're welcome

Love da Tongue pierce

How can one fact check to know whether or not the profiles are accurate?

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

This is such a good question and honestly I have no idea. I would equally love to know the same.

At 37 just looking at my options and I’m getting my health check now n freezing eggs before my 39th bday I am 37 now but Injave no partner and I believe in having longer relationships meaning a couple years before baby is for sure needed due to my age and time where will I find a man I want kids with . It’s impossible

I disagreed with the college part because I felt like you were deciding your child’s future. I’m a college graduate and depending on your major, college can be overrated. College isn’t the only road to success. But good luck on your journey, I’m looking forward to watching. 💕

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

This is true, but of course we all have our preferences 🤍I couldn’t agree more that college is overrated, honestly for more reasons than not and it isn’t the only road to success. I’ve always just been so keen on continuous education and my biggest fuel for even obtaining my masters was because neither of my parents went to college. Sadly, I have to admit that a lot of my professional success had a lot to due with obtaining a degree and oftentimes I wish it wasn’t solely based on that but allow ones work ethic and overall skills speak for itself. I truly appreciate you sharing your perspective and following alongside me friend ✨

@Mixedbeauty11

3 жыл бұрын

Hey I’m college education to, I want to start this journey but learn as much I can.

@nanamensah3730

Жыл бұрын

Same here I disagree about the college part. Both my parents have college degrees but I don’t.

I haven’t finished the video yet but I just DONT understand why would someone ever choose a relative 😭😭!?

@YayaUnicorns

2 жыл бұрын

A non blood relative maybe.

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

It's typically a non-blood relative, I have support friends who have gone this route. It looks different for all of us :)

I think the race question was asked because it's difficult to find certain races

Glad i found this video..

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

🫶🏽🫶🏽

Im 28 seeking to do this as well. Im nervous because single motherhood is HARD but would love to have a child within the next two years.

Not related to donor sperm. Was wondering what do you use to prevent stretch marks

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Hey friend! I am currently using The Spoiled MaMa Tummy Butter for stretch marks and I mix it with Bio Oil Skincare Oil

@cassandredevalcin6811

3 жыл бұрын

Thk you

Very useful information.

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Know that I am always a message away and an open book.

I’m wanting to this so bad I’m 38

The reason some people want to know the race is because other black women are looking and want to know if the option of a black doner is great or slim

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

The pool for black donors was and continues to be extremely minimal unfortunately. This was another reason my selection journey was prolong because of the multiple cryobanks I had to filter through domestically and internationally for a black donor that also met the non negotiables I had in place. When I do come across them I share them on my IG story to bring awareness to other black SMBC 🤍

@bluetrees6388

Жыл бұрын

Wait, I'm confused.....did she use a black donor or not??

Thank you for sharing!

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Always, thank you so much for tuning in!

I'm not paying the subscription too because one I want dont have any adult photos

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree!

You are a great help

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Always 🥰 thanks for watching

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

Is it possible to determine if the donor has knock knees? Lol, I'm sorry...seriously not trying to be superficial but that is something I wish could be informed on...lol, also mental illness history. Oh! And cancer history.

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

Hi friend!! 😭😭 your message took me regarding the knock knees because I am knock kneed and didn’t even think of if the donor was or not but you’re provided a full health history (of not only the donor but family health and it entails cancers/diseases) as well as any mental health issues 🤍

@NDWest

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice oh!! Omg, lol!! I so hope I didn't offend you!! It's just a tiny thing I have 🙆🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I so admire your journey and letting us know how you're going about it. I'm single, 38 and have been seriously thinking about this for myself. I'm in Canada. Please stay safe and wishing you well!! Love your personality and openness 💜💜.

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

I keep looking this up because I really want to have a baby, I'm 24 and I've always wanted to be a mother however I don't have a man in my life so I'm considering doing this for myself

@drinkmeplease6224

3 жыл бұрын

Why u don't have a men I your life? What's stopping you have one? You know a child needs a father right?

@TrinandCo

3 жыл бұрын

@@drinkmeplease6224 wrong, a child needs a female and male figure in he/her life, those figures do not have to be mothers or fathers, those “statistics” on single parent children are based off of children who came from broken single parents, father leaving them, father dying, etc.

@drinkmeplease6224

3 жыл бұрын

@@TrinandCo You wouldn't say all that if you just read my statement?😑

@TrinandCo

3 жыл бұрын

@@drinkmeplease6224 you said father, not “a child needs a male”

@drinkmeplease6224

3 жыл бұрын

@@TrinandCo well..... Yes I did and?

Do any say “our staff consider this donor unattractive” lol

@AliciaLatrice

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 nope! But I truly wish they would lol but of course they’re trying to sell us the donor regardless 🤔

@SaraLea

3 жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice lol, I know... I just thought it would be funny if they were brutally honest. But of course a lot of donations would be skipped over then lol.

Looking at the database there’s tons info on the men but I did choose. A man who I would date the race the heigh weight range and tells u their jobs hobby passions education etc. so o choose men who would be the type I’d dare physically and race of men I usually date

I want to do this if I don’t meet someone by age 30.

Hi AliciA, Can you refer the IVF company you went through please. Don’t care about state

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I went to AspireHFI here in Texas

@sigerg82nwtbs71

Жыл бұрын

@@AliciaLatrice thank you

I am 19 and I want a baby with IVF ❤

I absolutely love this video. I appreciate you taking time out to share your thoughts on the process and your rationale on picking your donor. I'm looking at a donor at cryobankamerica. Have you heard of the company? They are based out of Texas and they are new to many of my groups. Please share any insights that you may have. Thanks 🙏

your awesome tyyy so much

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

@AliciaLatrice

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Did the donors say in their profiles why they donated?

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, my donor actually gave a well thought out answer that sold me on him even more :) Some barely give a reason.

@drharrison5770

2 жыл бұрын

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

This is a good idea cus you have options its like shopping for Gucci 👛 purse 😆

@AliciaLatrice

2 жыл бұрын

It was so freaking overwhelming 😫😫 i thought it was going to be fun and it was the furthest thing from it lol