Buying Donor Sperm...What they don’t tell you |TTC JOURNEY|

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Choosing my sperm donor has been a journey! I've chosen several donors and have lost several of them due to their vials being sold out. Even though I'm not inseminating yet, I do plan to purchase my vials ahead of time to make my IUI day as simple as possible.
Let me know if you have any questions about purchasing your sperm vials in the comment section below!

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  • @naturallynikki1098
    @naturallynikki10982 жыл бұрын

    I know that this is an old video but thank you for it. The love of my life just passed away unexpectedly so I’ve been considering this route.

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss hun 🖤 I wish you all the best on your decision making and possible journey 🙏🏾

  • @briaunamari

    @briaunamari

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss! Wish you the best on your journey

  • @starcharlie1880

    @starcharlie1880

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry. Wishing you the best. ❤️

  • @samantazinaspada6822

    @samantazinaspada6822

    Жыл бұрын

    I am in the very same situation, the man that I choose to by my side passed away suddenly. So I am strongly considering this route. thanks for the video x

  • @Football-cl2hj

    @Football-cl2hj

    Жыл бұрын

    I donate contact me

  • @postscript09
    @postscript093 жыл бұрын

    Ugh thank you for posting this! I am so incredibly frustrated with this process. These companies do not care about the women paying thousands of dollars. They keep the donors interest in mind, not women, and not the kids. It’s so infuriating. I hope things have gotten easier for you in this process.

  • @engien460

    @engien460

    2 жыл бұрын

    The company is responsible to do not have too many sperm to ve used across same ethnic group ,town or country even ..... in 80's they run testing of population of London (one aeria) they found out that 8 % of population is from insest without even knowing it . Over decades later it was 25% as kids of this insest kids mixing schools and pubs with other of them cousins .... same thing happen in Arab countries they use if as result of having too many same dna and closerelashion ppl ....its dark secret of Arab world that they have biggest in the world centers for deform and demented kids who nobody don't want . They showing womans doctors having 52% results of pregnancies (even in womans old as 50) but they only gone is to have more girls genetically ready to carry them genes without genetic problems . I see documentary about this ....but they desapier very fast from net or you will not found them out of Europe in any browser (but if you search them they will show you similar theme 😉 but lead you in other direction). I ones ppl who pass through this pain of having kid from IVF and have kids but in age 5 or 6 they start having problems (who you will sue later...ghosted company or non existing dad - some men who weave parental rights ). Home insemination ???? Its an procedure on your body why you will put yourself in risk to do it home??? Better study law of donorship before decide and with fresh head like you will run a bussiness ...no emotions .... think 20 years from now .... all this stories of helping womans its absolut bs for me . [... fertility doctors have done that. Dr Jan Karbaat in the Netherlands fathered at least 75 children with oblivious patients; Dr Donald Cline, in Indiana, fathered more than 50; Dr Cecil Jacobson in Virginia; Dr Jan Wildschut in the Netherlands; and Dr Norman Barwin in Ottawa, Canada, whose patients and children were recently offered a £7m settlement - the first time any victim of “doctor conception” has won compensation. ] PAGES OF HOME DNA TEST WAS LEGUSLATED AS THEY DISCOVER JUST RECEBTLY OVER 44 DIFFEREBT LINK WITH FERTILITY CLINIC WHEN ILLEGAL INSEMINATIONS TOOK PLACE FOR DECADES WITHOUT WOMANS CONSENTS . IT'S DEVIATION FROM NATURAL SELECTION OF GENOMS BY NATURE ITSELF ( I LOST KIDS BEFORE AND I NOW UNDERSTAND HOWEVER PAINFULL IT WAS BLESSING FOR THEM TO DO NOT SUFFER UNIMAGINABLE PAIIN -NATURE US SMART BCS ITS COME FROM CREATOR NOT LAB). pre screening of sperm come from previous cases of doctors run illegal test on humans by selecting trades what they want test on ppl not to save them from .... its crazy yo think that giving right of decision over your own body to dozens of strangers will bring you peace .... you need look for other doctors and other treatments .... stop stressing about money and take a breack from all of it to clear your mind and get PERSPECTIVE. Insemination us nit just medical problem or procedure its also legal problem ...don't think you are on safe side its not 60 abortions allee but it's now Internet selection ,hight precision crimes ...what ibwould only compair with Nazi crimes agains woman and humanity. Ppl forgetting its no HUMANITY in this .

  • @wiamhaddani

    @wiamhaddani

    2 жыл бұрын

    just tell me when and where women's and kids' best interest is prioritised?

  • @tse93s
    @tse93s3 жыл бұрын

    Rooting for you! Currently looking into the process to start donating

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! I wish you the best of luck!

  • @auwalkhalid6539

    @auwalkhalid6539

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶➖➖

  • @cheetocairo
    @cheetocairo10 ай бұрын

    I'm going through the same process with California Cryobank. I was surprised by the limited number of donors I would have to choose from based on my preferences. It came down to about 4 and I just chose one. He has one recessive gene which ended up stalling the whole process with Kaiser because I have to have a phone call with a genetics counselor 🙄 On the surface, it seems like it should be pretty easy, but going through Kaiser has slowed the whole process down. And I agree that the cost of the vials is pretty steep. I got 6 just because I'm anxious the donor I fell in love with will run out. I decided to go with an ID disclosure donor for my child to have that option if they choose. Good luck!! I'm also doing this as a single mom. 🙂

  • @yesno4749

    @yesno4749

    9 ай бұрын

    How much was each vial

  • @cheetocairo

    @cheetocairo

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@yesno4749about 1800 for the donors with full genetic testing

  • @Bootyeater999

    @Bootyeater999

    2 ай бұрын

    What would you expect? 😂 Your preferred preference aren’t beating off in a cup.🤡

  • @ArielCookie325

    @ArielCookie325

    22 күн бұрын

    As of now the vials are 2100​@@yesno4749

  • @nunupon1359
    @nunupon13592 жыл бұрын

    I found my dream donor and pulled 4 vials for about 3K. I like cryo International but it’s a limited selection with donors.

  • @kellymaresha
    @kellymareshaАй бұрын

    This is where I am. I have somebody in mind. But I don’t want or need him involved in any other way besides donation. And will be drafting up formal paperwork that will terminate his rights. But I can’t say anything for sure until he signs. So I do respect this young man for thinking like this. It is a very thing to think that you have a seed out there that you’re not responsible for it. This is a real man. He will been a great LEGIT father!

  • @xo.iiamHER
    @xo.iiamHER2 жыл бұрын

    Black donors go fast, Cryo let’s you buy 1 vial. I’m going with a fertility clinic because I know chances are slim doing home insemination. And you don’t have to use all of your 1 vial. I didn’t have to send any info to Cryo only my doctor and that was to ship to the clinic. Cryo use to be around $845 per vial. Now it increased again in May.

  • @KassyGO
    @KassyGO2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this! I just purchased sperm and I won't be trying til next year. The donor I fell in love with only had one vial so I'm thinking I'll probably have to choose another donor down the line... I'm just going to do at home insemination so the chances for that one vial working seem pretty slim ^^;

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    I highly recommend getting familiar with tracking your ovulation this year so it helps with those odds! I hope he donates more before your time comes 🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @uinisefoochong5917
    @uinisefoochong5917 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video

  • @swiley9844
    @swiley98443 жыл бұрын

    I used International Cryogenics and they didn't have one black donor. In fact, all of their donors were International which is the reason for their name. Your first black donor u found may have met his family limit. They only allow so many separate families per donor then they retire the donor after they reach that limit, but keep vials available for siblings of the same family. I like my sperm bank cause they only allow donors in law or medical school or who are already a doctor or lawyer. My donor was already a doctor and come from a family of doctors and all the genetic test was done on his sperm as well. Good luck hun.

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sandra Wiley Thank you for letting me know! I had no idea and that could easily be why his vials were no longer available. Good luck on you’re journey too 🤗

  • @postscript09

    @postscript09

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh which sperm bank is that!?

  • @Tuamotu

    @Tuamotu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, can you please share the details of the sperm bank you used? I’m looking for a reputable sperm bank.

  • @abenamensah2801

    @abenamensah2801

    Жыл бұрын

    How much did each vial cost?

  • @feoniathompson6478
    @feoniathompson6478 Жыл бұрын

    Oh lord help along the way. So many things to consider.

  • @erykahhoney588
    @erykahhoney5884 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾💕

  • @ghostfilebish5758
    @ghostfilebish57583 жыл бұрын

    Just had the same thing happen to me, found the dream donor and he pulled all of his vials. Super stressed about coordinating this whole thing, being in AK and being told I have to schedule my IUI within 24hrs of a surge just doesn’t seem realistic for shipping. Blah 😪

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that’s definitely hard! If your ovulation date is fairly consistent I say order ahead so it arrives on time. My sperm bank puts enough dry ice in the cryotank to keep it safe for 5 days and more can be added. I recommend trying to get in touch with the lab personnel and asking if something like this could be done.

  • @auwalkhalid6539

    @auwalkhalid6539

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶➖➖

  • @itubemember

    @itubemember

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m in Alaska

  • @chicchi19771

    @chicchi19771

    Жыл бұрын

    How much does it typically cost to buy a vial? Is a vial only good for one IUI attempt?

  • @itubemember

    @itubemember

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chicchi19771 most donors charge shipping supplies and postage.

  • @markbriggs7132
    @markbriggs71322 жыл бұрын

    very informative, thanks

  • @auwalkhalid6539

    @auwalkhalid6539

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶➖➖

  • @pollyannaprinciple5860
    @pollyannaprinciple58603 ай бұрын

    I donated sperm to a woman I found in an advertisement. I took genetic tests and STS/HIV tests. She did not want the donor to be part of the child's life which I was okay with. After a few donations, she never contacted me again. Just assume she got pregnant. I'm older now, but I would still do it. The only problem is my sperm count is lower now that I'm older.

  • @Nadia-ql5yq
    @Nadia-ql5yq3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I am trying to find a bank that does not cost an arm and a leg. IUI is already so expensive, having to spend $2000 (two vials) on donor sperm is making it so that I may only be able to try one or two times before I can no longer afford it. If you have any resources or lower cost donor sperm please let me know. Thank you.

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a few sperm banks that were recommended by my former reproductive endocrinologist. Good luck! California Cryobank Fairfax Cryobank Seattle Spermbank Fertility Center of California

  • @Nadia-ql5yq

    @Nadia-ql5yq

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @dominiquegladney5665

    @dominiquegladney5665

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Nadia-ql5yq Cryos bank in Florida they have sperm around $300 dollars.

  • @Nadia-ql5yq

    @Nadia-ql5yq

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dominiquegladney5665 Thank you.

  • @williamsfamily7024
    @williamsfamily7024 Жыл бұрын

    Where did you go? are you doing this home? or?

  • @gritsnwavy3059
    @gritsnwavy30592 жыл бұрын

    Are those bundles behind you? 😍😍 Is that loose deep?

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol yes and yes! I’m developing a hair company that I’m launching so those are wefts and micro links behind me.

  • @crystal7743
    @crystal774311 ай бұрын

    Hey, how are things going? Did you end up having a baby 👶?

  • @asmr-relaxe.tiktok
    @asmr-relaxe.tiktok3 жыл бұрын

    They provide photo too?

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes a lot of donors have baby photos but that’s not always the case. Some Sperm banks include the baby photo for free while others may require you to pay for them

  • @emmascogh2968
    @emmascogh296819 күн бұрын

    Am black man,from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @mermaidmonroe1947
    @mermaidmonroe19472 жыл бұрын

    So pretty

  • @sirrykr1679
    @sirrykr16792 жыл бұрын

    This sounds like such a rip of. Money scam to the hilt.

  • @Bootyeater999

    @Bootyeater999

    2 ай бұрын

    Because it is 😂

  • @dsylla5064
    @dsylla50642 жыл бұрын

    Why not check banks in other countries? Especially countries with more black people

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    It all boiled down to ethnicity not being important to me. What’s important is genetic abnormalities and hereditary medical conditions. My donor had perfect family medical background and a good biography so I didn’t feel a need to look anymore. Sometimes you just find The One and know

  • @Tinkatinka254

    @Tinkatinka254

    8 ай бұрын

    Currently doing exactly that. It requires patience but Grateful for Team communication. Perhaps can share on this process in the near future once I’m close to the finish line

  • @theduncans8720
    @theduncans87203 жыл бұрын

    Is there a different approach i should take if im doing at home incimination?

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    It depends on if you’re choosing to use a known donor or go through a sperm bank. It also depends on whatever you feel more comfortable with.

  • @daphnealston2886

    @daphnealston2886

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi my name is ms ALSTON Really need that listing that u are talking about iam new to ur web site in need of info please CONTINUE how can I can follow u on ur VIDEOS. Trying to GET the Process Started .

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@daphnealston2886 Hey Love! So sorry I’m just seeing this! If you look in the description box for this video, the sperm banks and their websites that my reproductive endocrinologist recommended are listed. I upload every Sunday so hit the subscribe button and the notification bell so you can get a push notification when I post a new video. Hope this helps!

  • @guelbrentwood2469

    @guelbrentwood2469

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pineapplemommy6293 What About The Childs Birth Certificate! Normal A Birth Certificate Has The Mother And Fathers Name On It. Now If You Go To Sperm Bank And You Don’t Mow The Sperm Donor! When the child is Born...Who’s name Besides Yours Goes On The Birth Certificate! If You Don’t Now The Sperm Donors Name!

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@guelbrentwood2469 there simply would not be a name for that portion. If you use a donor but have a partner, they will need to file adoption papers as a second parent and they would go on the second parents line. Birth certificates have the traditional mother and father line but there are alternatives that list up to four parents to be more inclusive for “non-traditional” family makeups than the traditional birth certificate model.

  • @armandoacevedo6978
    @armandoacevedo6978 Жыл бұрын

    Is your child going to be in contact with your donor’s other children?

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe that is one of the options available to them with a known donor, so it’s a plus

  • @janedope9909
    @janedope99092 жыл бұрын

    Are you doing at home insemenation?

  • @pineapplemommy6293

    @pineapplemommy6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @uinisefoochong5917
    @uinisefoochong5917 Жыл бұрын

    Anemia ruins my day I get tired and it's all bad

  • @MaryM-zr4xc

    @MaryM-zr4xc

    2 ай бұрын

    There’s a good supplement called mega food (iron) it has helped me a lot so far. A midwife recommended.

  • @Iamnikkibrand
    @Iamnikkibrand7 күн бұрын

    Yes in 2014 thats what i wanted a donor i actually knew , i am going to the bank waste my time

  • @ronaldtyson-jx6qm
    @ronaldtyson-jx6qm11 ай бұрын

    Protect ur seed black man stay away from these banks

  • @Omega2322

    @Omega2322

    11 ай бұрын

    Females are weird

  • @Jay-qk6cl

    @Jay-qk6cl

    4 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @TheeCookingChannel

    @TheeCookingChannel

    3 ай бұрын

    I found some Black American donors. I wish more Black American males would donate.

  • @nanapearlpearl2696

    @nanapearlpearl2696

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Jay-qk6clwhy 😢

  • @nanapearlpearl2696

    @nanapearlpearl2696

    3 ай бұрын

    @@TheeCookingChannelme too

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