Middle school - no dating high school -no dating college -some can date ,some :no dating until later after college -you aint married yet ? What is wrong with you ?

@zzxxbbaa9900

8 жыл бұрын

+linvy kriselle It feels that way right?

@shapiquan

8 жыл бұрын

Agreed! My parents said no dating in university as well, but they changed their views a year ago to "you may only date Asians", and recently when we got into a fight, they screamed at me about why haven't I gotten married yet (but they have been talking about wanting grandchildren seriously ever since I turned 18...)

@sunnyfrenchcoffee

8 жыл бұрын

+linvy kriselle I got married at 34 to a 5 year younger better educated cool looking guy. And I never compromised even though I was growing realy discouraged. Well, I looked for a man, and prayed to God and Jesus for a good man. And God answered the prayer. Pray girls, pray and pray and pray, and God will answer your prayer too. best wishes girls - do NOT marry under pressure!

@lranieri1

8 жыл бұрын

+linvy kriselle I never felt pressure, but in my culture there really isn't any either. The only pressure is that women put on themselves, and each other, but I never followed that. My only regret is not dating more, because being lonely at any age is not healthy for the mind or soul!

@JohnOBurke

8 жыл бұрын

+Irena Ogirl "God" had nothing to do with it.

Youd think some of the men would at least rock up wearing a decent shirt to an event like this...

@MK_ULTRA420

4 жыл бұрын

T-shirt/polo with jeans is my casual attire and I'm a hermit. I could only pull off that look at a dating event if I was a billionaire who no longer cared about the opinions of the masses.

@elizabethbradshaw9729

3 жыл бұрын

Right? All.the women look amazing

I doubt that 35 civil engineer is a millionaire. . but in the western world she would be considered an amazing catch! Smart, beautiful, independant. . she has everything going for her. Chinese guys. . you outnumber the ladies. . if you want to be so picky you will be single for life. Too bad you can't access youtube in China to read these comments.

@orangedac

9 жыл бұрын

i don't think she's beautiful but hey what do I know. thank god we all don't like the same things or we'd be killing each other.

@MrBoo1963

9 жыл бұрын

I agree with what you posted. I live with my wife as an equal, and we get along fine. She use to be submitting to me because that was how she was treated. I don't agree with that. If I were single, I'd love having one of these ladies as my equal. So they have what I don't, but that's not what it's about. A strong woman is the way to go.

@orangedac

9 жыл бұрын

Usually that ends in a divorce.

@MrBoo1963

9 жыл бұрын

orangedac That's the reason for an understanding from the beginning.

@orangedac

9 жыл бұрын

there's no understanding. do not mess with nature by trying to be a she-man.

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@khmerso4043

7 жыл бұрын

All hot girls ааaаre hеre => twitter.com/5b52018ac2b324ef1/status/801992405775826944 China s Feееmale МMillioonаireеs are in a Matchmаking Freeeеnzу

The civil engineer is pretty good looking..

@HappyMagicalMan

8 жыл бұрын

+Thomas Fridrich Indeed.

@zelda67love

8 жыл бұрын

+Thomas Fridrich She's actually gorgeous, especially in the interview part.

@donnyc2165

8 жыл бұрын

+Thomas F She is hot. I told her to search for a husband beyond China.

@pjallen78

8 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same lol... And a millionairess too. People are fools

@HappyMagicalMan

8 жыл бұрын

Its very interetsing however that most of my college students 18-21y/o Chinese Students openly mock this kind of ideal and find it insulting and stupid. (So maybe there is hope)

unfortunately theres not enough tall dark and handsome male billionares

@Bublegumz101

8 жыл бұрын

+David S Why would young girls even bother marrying you as all you seem to care about is appearance? Who the fuck raised you to think so ignorantly? Honestly that's disgusting. Seeing men that like dependent, submissive and young women rather than determined and strong women makes me sick. You are ridiculous.

@dawne5139

6 жыл бұрын

Personally I have never considered the tall and dark type to be handsome. I prefer light men who do not tower over me. Nothing worse than dancing with a belly button.

For god sake, the leftover women are not leftover at all. They just don’t want to marry down:

@randomdude2287

4 жыл бұрын

Simple and true. Hypergamy backfire.

@eternalspace668

4 жыл бұрын

Which is why they use this term “leftover women” to pressure those who haven’t found a partner to marry.

@olblue3478

4 жыл бұрын

Rich men don't care about a woman's financial situation 🤣

@Dj_Realest

4 жыл бұрын

The women who dont marry down will slowly start to go extinct because they don't procreate. The internet has caused pickiness to go up/ lust to go up which will make these women go extinct, hopefully get rid of hypergamy

@departedcloud

4 жыл бұрын

Chirag Gandhi incel

no offence. The guys need to dress up better for the matchmaking event. Im a chinese myself and im ashamed.

@cesarromulo2991

4 жыл бұрын

Realmente eles se vestem muito mal, parece que vão a uma entrevista de emprego e não a um encontro.

@shio9517

4 жыл бұрын

I know right!? These men just want a well-dressed beauty but they don't even think about having a good hairstyle or wearing some decent clothes. However, most women at the match-making scene dress pretty formal though.

OMG a market for matchmaking in a park... now that is really different. China takes it to the next level.

@synigmas

10 жыл бұрын

I've been to that park with my girlfriend, it was beautiful, but strange in purpose.

@fisherchen7801

10 жыл бұрын

I remember the first time I saw this kind of market is in. Shanghai people's park. I feel extremely Interesting at that time. Maybe hundreds of seniors there tried to find a partner for their children. I guess for them all the meaning of life is seeing their children get married and have a grand child. :)

@synigmas

10 жыл бұрын

Tell me about... my ex girlfriend's parents are also damn brainwashed zombies, acting so desperate since they want her to get married asap. God, what idiots. Talked to her today and she really hates the pressure. :(

@KirkMcLoren

10 жыл бұрын

Chen Fisher As an old duffer I have learned it is ALL about kids and family. Children are blossoms. They make a family. They wont save a bad marriage but they will bless a good one.

@pnojazz

10 жыл бұрын

Confucius say: Woman who partakes in park matchmaking permits herself an easy getaway if he's not her Prince Charming.

If I was a millionaire like these woman, the last thing on my mind would be man, I'd be too busy spending that money 😆😭😂😭

@wowso4

9 жыл бұрын

Lol just kidding, I really sympathy with these ladies because it's really difficult finding someone special nowdays as a single lady who wants to get married I totally understand but I wish them all the very best. 😊

@CryptoChanakya

9 жыл бұрын

Same advice to men.

@JARRAEDIEZ

9 жыл бұрын

Sandra Jefferson thats exactly how you go broke

@wowso4

9 жыл бұрын

@ricoswacey lmao so true, well I guess that's the reason I'm not rich lol

@kagome2420

9 жыл бұрын

Well I guess they have so much money they got sick of spending it. I am like its like eating, u get bored of it too after awhile and it become normal.

A lot of this women would have no problem in the US or UK..........

@SeldimSeen1

8 жыл бұрын

+Sierra Bird This is true. American men do not seem to mind marrying wealthier older women at all. It is my understanding that it is now stylish for younger men to date older women in Korea.

@StuninRub

8 жыл бұрын

+Sierra Bird Yea, but the men in the US and UK would have trouble getting with them.

@tze-weilim1632

8 жыл бұрын

+Zhida Zhou Online dating.

@StuninRub

8 жыл бұрын

Tze-wei Lim It's not about that, it's about Chinese sensibilities.

@tze-weilim1632

8 жыл бұрын

Zhida Zhou好多华人跟西方人在一起的啊。

If they are millionaires they can find a bf or husband from all over the world wtf is wrong with not sticking with ur own race plenty of fishes in the sea

@DiegoRevs

10 жыл бұрын

***** sooo true!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@nocatnowaco

10 жыл бұрын

Cross culturing sometimes does not come out as easy as ones think, that is why ones still stick with their own race. In other word, some want to show off their new style of clothes they buy, and some are proudly happy with the same style of clothes they comfortably like to wear. While some people have experienced two, three, or even more times of marriages in their lifetime, i believe that the divorce rate and adultry in Asia is lower compared to the rest of the world.

@tim123barry

10 жыл бұрын

It's not about race but they're upbringing/culture. For eg I think you would be much more comfortable with a Brazilian raised in your society rather than one born and raised in Brazil. Cultural differences can be significant not to mention language barriers.

@Dream9116

10 жыл бұрын

Except every men from other race forbid their women to date outside their own race.

@DiegoRevs

10 жыл бұрын

urmed khongor Dude, i am not a racist.. a hate everybody equally!!! JK..

That 36 year old engineer could easily find a man in london or even the USA. She's still fertile, so she should not be considered leftover. These are some fucked up societal norms.

@MacKenTayomoJ

8 жыл бұрын

+kk P In a America most older guy especially older guys who are rich marry younger women. They will not marry or settle for women their own age or a few years younger. Check out our Hollywoood older guys, they always marry a younger women twice their age. What do we in America call women in their late thirties, forties and fifties who men reject here in America? Think about it. How do you see societal norms, now? We have our own scale too. Just that we like to showcase other countries norm as just too contrast to ours. But, do not be quick to sorry for our older women because when they were young and hot they rejected and refused every men who knock at their door or they had too many criteria which could never be filled. But, now they are older and they bemoan being young again.

@MacKenTayomoJ

8 жыл бұрын

+MsYogaGrrrl Actually am this kind of man who believe women have earned their place in society. I came from a family dominated by women. Therefore, I have observed some of my women family members rejecting guys who I thought were credible. But, as years go by these same women family of mine ended up living alone despite their attainment and position in society. Most single individuals today are very picky about having a companion. Nevertheless, I appreciate your feed back.

@boadecia1433

8 жыл бұрын

+MacKenTayomo J That's an extreme assumption. Women are tasked with choosing a mate when they are the most attractive, but least equipped to choose well. We are also expected to earn our keep, rather than leverage our looks to gain wealth through men. So we live life, develop our character, are discerning with our time and focus on creating an enriched person. Men seem to only see women in the context of how women benefit them. If we're young and pretty (when men want us the most) then we should be what They want us to be....theirs. Think of your words and then apply it to your fellow man...you'd never think of them so callously.

@boadecia1433

8 жыл бұрын

+kk P The problem is with how women there are valued. They are valued based on something they can't control. It'll be interesting to see how the future pans out with so many more men than women in the next generation.

@SergioGreyKnight

8 жыл бұрын

+MsYogaGrrrl I point to consider: you are allotted a certain amount of time and a hand of cards to do with as you wish. If as a man, I choose to not pursue a successful career, develop my character and mature then it would be foolish of me to whine if I end up a loser at 50 who had no skills, no education and no prospects. If you as a woman decide to prioritize your career into your late thirties or forties instead of creating and fostering a bond with a good man at your level when you are young and can do the choosing then you cannot be surprised if no one comes knocking when you are on your way to menopause to start a family. Women are perfectly entitled to pursue their own destinies as are men, but you have to lay in the bed you make. These "leftover" women are concerned because now well into middle age and well past their reproductive prime and they cannot land any dates, but they still have very, very, very high standards for what they will accept. This does not jive. The 48 year old furniture saleswoman cannot demand a hot 20-some millionaire. She does not have the cards with which to do so. But on a side note I will offer one thing: what pushes away men is not strong independent women, it is women who have no desire to prioritize them as important (and men DO make their women priorities in their lives when they have them). Consider this for a moment; you are hardwired to want to protect and provide for your mate as well as want to be looked to as a source of strength and comfort. But your partner has ZERO desire to look for you for anything like that, AND she prioritizes her work achievements instead of creating a family with you or cooperating together as a team. That is shitty and its why men are typically uninterested high powered career women. But if it is her decision to pursue that path, then by all means. But she will suffer the consequences of prioritizing work over family as will any man who also works so much he alienates his wife and kids.

I feel for this Katherine girl. I am engaged at 25 so I can only sort of empathize but it kind of drives me crazy how some people here just seem to get married or have kids only because it seems like what they're supposed to do. When I got engaged, my boyfriend and I had been living together over five years & if I had a dollar for every time I heard "Finally!" or "It's about time!" I'd have a lot of wedding money. Why are we conditioned to get married and reproduce as quickly as we can? I have my whole life to be married & I will only have my youth once. I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to force a child to share it's youth while I'm still having mine. And her parents sound like my mother. She always told me never to depend on any man or need a man to financially support me and then once I actually became an adult, she couldn't handle me dating anyone without a fat wallet. I was like, "Wow, nice contradiction there, Mom."

@LuisTorres-dw9qy

5 жыл бұрын

lol, life should be enjoyed while you are young, age is a number. Not a death sentence.

reading through the comments. I think some people need to go out more

@Thirtiesguy

6 жыл бұрын

+New Wave Comedy Projecting much?

I married a Taiwanese left over woman from Taiwan. She had her own import export business. I was a Fireman in Southern California. I brought her back to the states, we had three beautiful and very intelligent children. I highly recommend , left over women :)

@kimchi_taco

6 жыл бұрын

Stephen Puckett leftover woman changes their standard to western male. Lucky for u

@rainandpetalsss6244

5 жыл бұрын

@@vaporizers101 WOMP WOMP

@tednguyen8310

4 жыл бұрын

you are also a left over loser ...u had to go do a mail order from asia

@KoolAidSquirt

4 жыл бұрын

Ted Nguyen yeah but is he happy? Yes sir

why don't these ladies look outside of China ???

@taylorscott5767

9 жыл бұрын

+barry graham Some of them do...

The problem with these woman with money they are looking for someone with the same level or status in life. While a man does not care about that really. Also why would a man be intimidated by a smart wealthy independent woman? When it comes to love money should not be the determining factor. So what if a man is not as wealthy or good at business as you are? At least someone is making the money to take care of the family.

@Pitchoo973

10 жыл бұрын

You don't have their mentality that why you're saying this. It might be true in western countries. Men will be intimated by independent women because they're afraid to not have control over them, it seems medieval, but it is the reality of chinese society. In other western developped country, society has accepted the fact women could be independent like men. If women are not submissive, you're not a man, quite shocking but it was like the same thing in Europe 30/40 years ago. Men going work while women are doing chores and raising kid at home. Love isn't the first factor in chinese society, wealth it is, they're materialistic people. Contrary to us, we marry someone because of love not because they have a huge bank account. You can see many chinese couple (talking about my parent generation and immigrants in foreign country) who last long seems to be joyful and etc, but the reality is they don't love each other (not talking about every couple, but there are many of them), it's all about the face even if within is rotten like hell. Marrying someone and have a family is more about a duty than the natural way of loving someone. But it might be true some of them are looking for the same statue. But let's remind you something, it might be shocking to hear some facts in China, but we in western side, we pass through the same thing, I mean about our industrialisation, our revolution, giving the right to speak for women, right for the laborers etc etc, anyway our history, we passed through it within a good amount of time, about a century. There is about 15 years China wasn't that developped like now, their evolving so fast that creates a huuuge gap with the former and the present mentality. The contrast is so huge that is shocking to us, chineses didn't have the time to adapt this evolution, that why it seems to fcked up to some people. As you can see older than 28 is a left over, in western country if you think like that your lapidate right away lool, it's because past 10 years ago and still in the country side, young ladies (teenage girl) were married to other guy in the same village, it wasn't about love, but the duty of the girl, they didn't take opinion of the girl. The chinese boy's parent give to the chinese girl's parent some cows, chickens or money, and it was deal.

@t-rexrobertson7106

10 жыл бұрын

I understand how society at large affects relationship so I will simply say China's men and woman have to mature to the realities of the times just like all societies. With all the knowledge that is available in this world today there is no reason for stagnation social or other wise. Like you said even in the western world social changes have occurred and the people had to adapt. Everything you wrote does not negate anything I wrote and most of your points was making excuses for why the society is the way it is. We are in an information age with knowledge of all kinds is now available but every individual is responsible for their own learning. The real failure in China's society is your government that tries to limit what Chines people learn to keep their control over the people. That is why China's social growth is being hindered. Also people in China have not gotten to the point of even pondering the evils of money in a society yet. That is why money is so important to them. It is still a childish mentality really. Nothing is shocking to me any more when you really start to understand life itself called the human condition. Even in China money is being concentrated in to fewer hands that will cause major strife in China's society that will lead to the government genocide based on China's past history in my opinion. China's government want to keep society like children to guide their thoughts anyway they want and these so called leftover women are the new casualties of China's lack of societal growth.

@pacentho8042

10 жыл бұрын

noobenstein Agreed. I need to open a school where i educate bitches on all of these stupid euphemisms for "complete cunt". For instance, :"strong woman", "independent woman", "liberated woman", "a woman with her own brain." These are all euphemisms to cover up the fact women who usually employ these titles to themselves are insufferable cunts no men want to be around. Women who nag and complain, nag and complain. Men aren't scared of these whores, they're TURNED OFF by them. Dating a "strong independent woman" would be like forcing yourself to date an elephant. The idea of dating an elephant is literally repulsive, same as dating any of the bitches in this video. Men need to be in charge of the relationship in order for it to work. Anything other than the man being in charge=2 people merely tolerating each other for the sake of being a "politically correct" couple. There's a reason bitches like these have trouble getting a man. MEN GET YOUR BALLS BACK! MANHOOD101. COM

@r6guy

10 жыл бұрын

Pitchoo973 You're actually completely wrong. In traditional chinese culture the woman is the one that controls the money and household in a marriage. Traditional chinese women are NOT submissive at all. It's actually not uncommon for the male to help cook and clean either in traditional households. It's very different traditional judeo christian cultures where the male has tyranical control over every aspect in the relationship. BTW, I would take these journeyman pictures "documentary" with a grain of salt. They clearly have an agenda to push. The translating, especially in the tortured beauties video, is so wrong it's almost criminal.

@Pitchoo973

10 жыл бұрын

r6guy Yeah I'm wrong, Yeah my dad and uncles have all his wealth holder under their name, my mother who need my dad's permission to use any cent is quite controlling the money. And yes I'm pretty sure your traditional males who's helping my mom and aunties doing chores and cooking are laying on the couch helping them mentally. Idk from which textbook your traditional chinese woman is leading the family, but I'm pretty sure I'm wrong no ? And it was the same bullshit with my grandparents ! I''ve asked my mother why she didn't want to divorce, it would be better for her. She said you married once in your life, about family, tradition and image. It's quite beautiful right ? It's from that bullshit you can feel the real sens of chinese's marriage. Even when she's suffering like hell, they are still together. All this bullshit is because of the chinese culture and society. I know some aunties who have divorced, and I can tell you, the chinese community is looking down and trash talking on her because she divorced. But I'll tell you one thing, she's far better without her ex husband. All this shhit which happen to her is your traditional chinese. And your description, it is not the traditional chinese, it's the second generation who was born in a foreign country (precisely in an advanced country like europe or us) who knows about their parent culture and their new culture (where they were born).

This isn't just an issue in China, it's happening all over the world. Women put off serious relationships to focus on their careers, and once they hit their 30's and their youth starts to fade, they find that they don't have the choices they once did.

@SpeedDarlingtonTv

10 жыл бұрын

Haha.......! .

@natillefox1

9 жыл бұрын

White and Asian lady's yes, after 30 the infertility rate increases. Many age very quickly also when having a baby in there 20's. Sad

@friendlesswhore7454

7 жыл бұрын

Many of these women are not interested in having a relationship even after their thirties.

@KurtBP75

5 жыл бұрын

Then there is the issue of biology - which if central to their desire to start a family, their prospects for safe child birth goes downhill in the mid-30s to very poor in the mid-40s . Nature/biology did not consider our modern social, material and educational pursuits as priorities to reproduction (one of the fundamental purposes of life). In the end...you can't have it all. P.s. I am not suggesting that men don't have to consider age when planning a family, it is just that nature allow (viable) sperm production for a much longer time. Hence why you have Larry King at 80 with a young teenager

@Its_Me_see

5 жыл бұрын

ooooosh

People nowadays are often working too much and not leaving themselves enough time to actually live life.

People today, all over the world, want to choose others looking at appearance only, bank accounts, status. They forgot to meet each other, romance, feel, talk... The heart speaks no language.

@gamingwithsamir1238

5 жыл бұрын

Mark Molson your right 100%, nowadays you see people in various matrimonial apps, come to find true love, but in reality they after your wealth or balance, you need proof of ur income, basically! Materialism people long lost of feelings, love, meet-up, introduce to each other, no feelings of love, people getting old because no-one helps no-one. Lack of mutual respect is lost, loving & caring for one other is lost, basically trust, respect, honesty, honour, all good manners is long gone, nowadays hatred, jealousy, envious, arrogance, ignorance etc is gaining more popular. People don’t want to get married, because they want a perfect spouse.

The civil engineer lady is beautiful. I would marry her in a jiffy!

@Nyocurio

9 жыл бұрын

Are you young, educated, rich and handsome though?

@hitsongsa

9 жыл бұрын

Ancurio Yes

@Xilosphere

9 жыл бұрын

Jenny H Also note that in Chinese beauty standard, anorexic is the best type of body. No thanks.

@canis77

9 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with "The Zone" she's lovely. I think every culture has it's quirks which seem strange to outsiders though.

@theuglykwan

9 жыл бұрын

Novakira Sato Young people prefer thin. Parents will prefer them to have a bit more meat on them to give them chubby grandkids! lol

most asian people are ready to get married and dedicate their lives to their families, take up obligations and responsibilities of a full adult before the age of 26. the reporter said 26 as if that is a very young age, but it is considered pretty old in most other places in the world, especially for women. the song was pretty funny, but people seem to mistake the intent of the song, in places that are highly competative, like almost everywhere else in the world, many people will sell love for money, even men will be careful not to marry a poor girl, because many poor girls will marry a rich man for his money, leaving him a poor sad pathetic man who cannot earn a woman's love on his own. however having a woman OR man, who is in the same class shows that they are not marrying you for greed or selfish ambition but for proof of genuine affection. this makes a lot of sense, if you want equality in terms of gender, the world it should be this way.

Men put beauty as first priority , while women put money as top priority .

@NorthForkFisherman

9 жыл бұрын

bob burger No surprise there. Males want a female who can produce healthy children. Women want men who can provide for those children. Just our genes at work.

@camilleluong2226

9 жыл бұрын

NorthForkFisherman finally someone who understands. thank you. we need more people like you.

@NorthForkFisherman

9 жыл бұрын

Camille Luong I had good teachers who asked me hard questions and made me think about my responses. Thank them.

@TVBFAN11224

9 жыл бұрын

Jim Marcum Exactly right , thanks for the examples.

@TVBFAN11224

9 жыл бұрын

***** Most men , well pretty much all straight men put beauty which includes feminine features as first priority and most women put money as top priority cause they want stability , and know there beauty won't last long.

I say they should all come to america OR consider dating outside their race . people outside of china have a different mindset and are starting to marry in their late 20s.

I need to go here, I wouldnt mind dating a 30 yr or older Chinese woman.

@stevegwizzle3560

8 жыл бұрын

***** Damn right and I am not ashamed of it...lol...were your words supposed to hurt me or put me down? I actually like mature women also...poor idiot

@mizzum478

8 жыл бұрын

+David S It's more like "Hey I don't want a submissive girl. I want someone with a mind of their own, who can live their life - and their life isn't 100% surrounding me"

@stevegwizzle3560

8 жыл бұрын

Mimi floridalolz Mimi are you Asian? Chinese?

@mizzum478

8 жыл бұрын

+Mimi floridalolz I don't argue with dogs. Sit.

@sunnyfrenchcoffee

8 жыл бұрын

+Steven B My husband is 5 years younger and married me, when I was 34. We look good, "click", do stuff together, got each others back and have best sex ever. What is the problem these Chinese men having??? Insecure they are!

Its actually not about beauty. It is about how she expresses her femininity. But that is not something you do or learn. It is how you feel inside and it should come naturally. A woman who doesnt have the feminine fire in her eyes is just a person, just like a guy. A woman doesnt have to be picture perfect as long as she oozes with femininity. But in todays feminist society this feat has slowly been lost. And the men doesnt really recognize this and instead goes for age and looks. And trust me, when a good man sees the feminine fire in a womans eyes, its brings out the best of him.

@Nyaahful

8 жыл бұрын

Lol

@pjallen78

8 жыл бұрын

What a bunch of craps lol... What about its just about a lot of men are just afraid of a successful woman. You find them intimidating. A real man would appreciate a woman who's doing her own thing without been stigmatize by society as a feminist. There's nothing wrong with been a feminist. What's wrong is men trying to keep a woman submissive, as u call it "feminine"... Haha.. Just admit that ur one of those who's scared of a strong successful woman instead of beating around the bushes.

@Ahldor

8 жыл бұрын

Pascal Bolivar you have really missed the point if you think femininity is about a woman not being strong and doing her thing. A woman can be a leader AND feminine but todays society (old men?) has put femininity=weakness which makes women act more male like in order to succeed in their carreers.

These successful Chinese women are very smart, busy, and active like other women of rest of the world. If Mr. Love and Mr. Match are not coming by, they will stay happy singles rather than marrying a couch potato. They are not the leftover nor unsold.

Let's talk about the guy that believed that Chinese girls mentally age faster than Western girls... he wanted to bag a millionaires under the age of 26??!

@Nga-1984

8 жыл бұрын

I don't think he have seen a western girl.

200,000,000+ how in the hell it's that many single rich Chinese women and it's 50,000,000 more Chinese men than Chinese women in China.

@marcushunter6847

5 жыл бұрын

He said there are 2million singles...not rich singles...

LMAO the song @3:10 should be called "the gold digger song." It's fucking perfect!

@AaronChen91

10 жыл бұрын

i see what you mean AHAHAHA

@esml373

10 жыл бұрын

That's stupid, they have their own money, they're not digging anything, they just want a man that's not living off them.

@runhorun

10 жыл бұрын

Esmee DC More like No romance before finance. Ha.

@MikeBarbarossa

10 жыл бұрын

actually , that song perfectly sums up the match making game. The lyrics basically say " I've brought a lot to the bargaining table. You have to match what I've brought, for it to work" This is true of ALL relationships. Money, beauty, youth-you have to demand an equal to what you have to offer from any potential mate.

@Big-guy1981

9 жыл бұрын

Esmee DC They want a man who does better than them. The thing is these men prefer simpe women who will have time to raise their kids and follow the traditions. Then, these women who have few prospects since they won't "marry down".

This is the case in many parts of the world. Many societies expect women not only to be beautiful, but also to be mated by the time she has hit her mid 20s. As in being married. Used to be even in America if you were not married by the time you were 21, you were considered a spinster a few decades ago.

At 6:25: 180 men for 100 women on the dating market and yet Chinese men are partially to blame for the "leftover women" phenomenon because they are "picky"?

@ctynwbraygalm

5 жыл бұрын

118

The song at the 2:45 mark is called, "No Car No House". With one of the hardest hitting/hard to argue against lines in my opinion is, "If your not well off, why should I accompany you into poverty?". #Ouch!

@lekhosicele4476

10 жыл бұрын

funny thing is men marries poor women all the time, hell a man will marry a poor woman with kids while he is single. women on the other hand will generally marry up if they can't find a rich dude they will blame men for being afraid of 'independent' woman.

@mentalelley

10 жыл бұрын

Lekhosi cele women are burdened with giving up time and resources for children. Men find meaning and motivation in having a family to provide for.

Money is not a consideration...... my ass

Enjoying these series of films. Kudos, well presented and interesting

If you're older than 28 you are considered a left over? what? what? what?

@ErikPT

6 жыл бұрын

Cassie bellamy And yet in US we are witnessing youthful like me (17-38) refusing traditional marriage very sad.

@johntalbert491

6 жыл бұрын

Cassie bellamy . you all are beatifull

@richarddiaz5165

5 жыл бұрын

After 30 80%of your eggs is already dead.

Chinese people are very realistic, don't you see. There are so many marriage market in chinese cities, where mostly are the parents trade with their sons and daughter.

It is a shame that there is such a stigma regarding older single women, but I can understand why and the concerns. Being single and never married at an older age raises questions--it is almost better to have been divorced--that would be regarded as normal. The thing about being still single is that one gets set in one's ways. Being single and never married, I dated a divorced Chinese woman. Initially it started out great. Then she asked, "why have you never married, what is wrong with you?" I said, I have told you all about my life and my dating history already, so what is wrong with me. She said, she did not know yet, but surely there must be something, any man older than 35 and never married must have something wrong with him. I asked where from the over 35 rule, she said she read it on the Internet. I asked, so tell me, what is my problem? Is it my looks, my body, my education, my profession, personality, habits or what? She said no, not that; she has not discovered it yet, but there must be something wrong and she will find out. Then I said, you know, I could say the same thing about you--you were married for only a short time and then divorced, so there must be something wrong with you too. However, I am not questioning you and seeking to find out, but just accepting you as you are; so why are you looking for problems and reasons to break up rather than to be together. She got really pissed off.

@chien-shengtsai8626

10 жыл бұрын

***** That is true. Or die trying. That woman also asked me the "if your mother and I both fell into the river off of a boat, whom would you save first." I thought it was ridiculous question. Only later did I find out it was a "classic" question posed by Chinese women.

@calvinblue894

10 жыл бұрын

You said the wrong thing.. trust me.. When she was wondering about you.. it's because she did like you to a certain extent.. but when you challenged her.. you insulted her.. hahaha.. you need to understand woman better.. take it as a lesson..

@Iamyourdoggie

9 жыл бұрын

Chien-sheng Tsai I virtually any society (save perhaps the US with it's spousal fetish) the clear answer is "Mom" of course. Hey, who gave me life?

Dear Journeyman pictures, What is the music from 00:23 to 01:00? Thanks.

Hope Chinese tradition start to change and be more open minded about ages.

@richarddiaz5165

5 жыл бұрын

You cannot change biology.

@Dj_Realest

4 жыл бұрын

You cannot change biology

the Chinese version of tlc's song "No Scrub"!!! lol

@brandonrichards6701

5 жыл бұрын

Hello beautiful

@Journeyman Pictures what time of the year does this happen?

lol. where can I find a video of this song they are playing?

That music video made me laugh my ass off XD

OOooh Come on! that furniture lady does not look 22! I thought she was 30!

@shuyiwu2681

10 жыл бұрын

she isn't 22 she's 42

@irfanguclu3416

10 жыл бұрын

Shuyi Wu chinese women looks younger than others,, having chinese wife is might be a good choice :))

@shuyiwu2681

10 жыл бұрын

I am chinese, and I was told I looked 20 when I was 11. Maybe its just me.

@irfanguclu3416

10 жыл бұрын

Shuyi Wu that s maybe because too much clever for your age... it s usualy said to young people as a compliment.

@shuyiwu2681

10 жыл бұрын

T_T I can live without that particular compliment.

In China, is the Yuan, or the U.S. Dollar is used as the currency benchmark to determine who is a millionaire? As of July 26, 2014, $161,493 U.S.D.s equals 1 million C.N.Y.s. Perspective is always a key component in any situation.

Is there any event like this in the uk? I would like to attend :D

haha aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh what a fucking headache, cant we just go back and live in caves?

Rich,handsome,educated, no wonder they are leftover's.....

success is different for many, as I create my dream business, I imagine a partnership may form between many individuals who enjoy creating successful idea's. Learning can be a Challenging, yet worth it !!!

What's the name of that song tho at 2:50 ?

the western beauty craze is out of control. I like older people, not stupid young ones.

@HulkSmash315

10 жыл бұрын

That's nice to hear.My arthritis makes it tough to type but would you like to go on a date?

Half of those guys are there for the money..

Woah that's crazy... The lady at 10:00 would have no problems getting a date anywhere else.

@xpabz

10 жыл бұрын

I agree, I think she is attractive.

I am flabergusted when I read all this , but what about upper age ladies ? how do they get on ?

those womens are so boss. yes. standing up against the usually traditions.

@MsMarshmellowie

9 жыл бұрын

fact of the day: women don't need a man to be happy in life

@awabelmahe9700

9 жыл бұрын

MsMarshmellowie They do.

i love it when they bring the most cutest girl on the show and when she say that cannot find a man. hilarious

@Notcognizant

7 жыл бұрын

you dont know chinese people buddy.......... like real chinese people......

@Cindy-jy1lv

7 жыл бұрын

hahaha, hi I'm Chinese and in first generation, i know how it's like considering my parents try to connect how they did it back when they were in china and what they hear from our relatives.

insightful

[skip inro] button annotation at the begining is brilliant! keep it up!

就是这种“不良”的社会压力，迫使很多年轻人稀里糊涂匆匆忙忙的结了婚。他们中很多婚后并不幸福。。。

@asdzxc191

8 жыл бұрын

+Yu Qiu 八零后离婚率百分之五十

Excellent presentation and subject. A lot of facts given. A little light on the attitude of Chinese men toward Chinese women that are successful. The men are afraid of the women, and the women aren't about to give up their independence and careers for a marriage where they are not an equal partner.That view based on personal experience. The Civil Engineer would make a very interesting relationship as she has not achieved the 'wealth' status of the others.and therefore will not be so zealous in holding onto her wealth.

@Will.Flavell

4 жыл бұрын

Those Chinese woman that are successful and independent don’t need a man and also those Chinese men don’t deserve wives

Richer man does not mind marrying a less richer woman. Richer woman does not want a less richer man. That is the main difference and problem.

This is a very interesting documentary. Bravo Journeyman for delivering it very well. I'd like to compliment the furniture businesswoman. She has a very positive attitude and a man would be lucky to have her as a wife. I like what she said in the last where they may not turn out to become boyfriend and girlfriend but she made friends. That's a very nice outlook of her.

These women appear strong, smart, self-reliant, and very pretty. Why are there not lines of American men there that like thes attributres?

@MrTynanDraper

9 жыл бұрын

They don't mention it. .but they absolutely expect their would be husbands to be every bit as successful and rich as themselves. . if not richer. I know from experience that Chinese women do not "marry down" in terms of socio economics. . or if they do they will forever be putting their husband into a pressure cooker to improve his career and earnings to surpass their own.

@Big-guy1981

9 жыл бұрын

Daniel Tynan Words of wisdom. Women want to marry up but in the modern world, women are doing socially better than men. That's a catch 22

@Big-guy1981

9 жыл бұрын

That's why they are taking over America as the Wold leader; japanese have more freedom but their country is losing pace compared to the 1990s. There is no free meal

@aspieotaku3580

9 жыл бұрын

We men admire such strong independent and wealthy women most of us don't care if they are richer than us they just want happiness and company and an extra plus we don't have to worry about her being a gold digger shes already rich! We just want company and are less likely to mooch of of rich women due to our male pride we will always be there only scum are only in it for money!

@Big-guy1981

9 жыл бұрын

Aspie Otaku How many women have you been with? You talk like somebody who has a purely theoretical understanding of women

If i were rich i wouldnt even tell the girl im dating. its none of your damn business honestly.

@takenaschitt6818

8 жыл бұрын

+DrunkenMadman If you're a rich man you don't have to tell us, we can tell. And it's just as easy to spot the men who play like they're rich but haven't moved out of their mom's basement yet.

@DenorrisBanks

8 жыл бұрын

Takena Schitt We have a personality expert over here, everyone can go home now.

@DenorrisBanks

8 жыл бұрын

Atheist Avenger Fuck those people.

@SergioGreyKnight

8 жыл бұрын

+Deno Me neither. There are videos floating around youtube of guys dressed in regular clothes, you know "the average joe", and they strike up conversations with girls and ask them out. When they get turned down they hop into the Ferrari or sporty BMW they rented for the day and drive off. Some of these girls reactions are astounding. OH WAIT SHIT!!!! LETS GO OUT!!!! YOU DO HAVE MONEY!!!!!

@DenorrisBanks

8 жыл бұрын

SergioGreyKnight lol exactly. I wouldnt want a woman whos a gold digger

what currency are they using?

2:44 Wow, that is one of the most creative and introspective songs I've ever heard in my life.

Women rarely marry down now in the west its about social status more than love. Google women and Harvard university the New York Times said women just go there to find husbands, a career was a second consideration. Its as tough here in New Zealand, mens economics are falling behind womens. I'm a independent man, thank god.

I want to marry a chinese female millionaire sugarmomma.

Great documentary

I live in Chiang Mai,Thailand where in recent years there has been a Chinese tourist boom in the city. I see LOADS of young,extremely beautiful mainland girls wondering around like lost sheep...they seem to be looking for something....or someone?...hint,hint....

Your money, your bank accountant, your bank, will take good care of you when you get older .. goodluck

All I want in a woman is one who would cook homemade meals for me and is loyal. Honestly as long as they take care of their body and aren't fat then I could easily tolerate them as long as they aren't to demanding. Men really are this simple. We don't really care about money (but should a financial issue arise, some help would be nice). Thats really it.

@SpeedDarlingtonTv

10 жыл бұрын

Totally with you on this one.

@minstrelofMir

10 жыл бұрын

I think the piont is they dont want to be someones hand maiden,and really thats what they hear when you say thoese things,they want what you want,errm would you want to be the cook who smiles and is ready for sex when she gets home,with no dreams that could take you away from "his meal times"(only for a few days mate)the advantage of being singel for years is we learn these things and hopefully Evolve

@SpeedDarlingtonTv

10 жыл бұрын

SMH.

@SpeedDarlingtonTv

10 жыл бұрын

All they want is a man they control.

@mentalelley

10 жыл бұрын

Great, now you just need to be extremely wealthy, handsome, young and educated! If they meet your demands then you have to meet theirs.

Intresting!:)

What was the name of the free dating site?

Omfg the girl in the blue dress is so pretty O.O and unlike the others in the vid, she seems very well educated and well thought out. I think that there is no such thing as being "too independent". They are all adults, and should be fully capable of taking care of themselves even after their partners leave. For me a full (so everything until a masters I guess, no matter their grades) education, an open minded spirit and a rational personality is a must in a potential partner~

@chocoribbon5035

9 жыл бұрын

You cannot be sure what it means by "too independent". Sometimes the term refers to people who don't give a fuck. They just simply do not care about you or anyone else for that matter, other than themselves. The other word for it is selfish, or arrogant. These people make mistakes and offend you, and genuinely feel that it is okay, because if you don't like it you can fuck off for all they care.

@dareliciouz

9 жыл бұрын

Chocoribbon hahhaa well said !

So finding Mr Wong would be finding Mr Right? Sorry that was so bad.....

@joelmoore169gmail

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Paula

rich women should not get married. Its always a bad deal for the woman.

What's that song called?

Shit I'm going to be a "leftover" woman in 4 years >.

@zxn-hn4tv

9 жыл бұрын

fate will bring yr man closer to you

@maximuscollaguazo9902

9 жыл бұрын

Move to USA plenty of young handsome men available for you.

@aspieotaku3580

9 жыл бұрын

:( I wish you find the right man or the right man finds you rich or poor! i know that feeling myself as a man!

@gwangvatar

8 жыл бұрын

marrying a dildo

@zxn-hn4tv

8 жыл бұрын

Kammy Pan you can try south east asia man they are poorer than others but will love u sincerelymy best advice

1:42 We all know you want a sugar mama :D

8:12 - Visual concept of the internet, that is funny!

That is absolutely right! What I can say is that tradition is powerful! I come from China and 24, but now I am forcing to get married. BECAUSE MY GIRLFRIEND IS OLDER THAN ME, I have to take responsibility to the tradition!

The online dating guy: ''Women are picky too! You know... They want a man *to be good....To be good to them* " Because you know, if you're not saying yes to the first guy ever, you're choosy.

an older woman who is successful and single is not a bad thing.

They should look beyond China. There are a lot of guys like me looking for a wife....I am looking at women who are about 26-28 minimum, as younger girls have no clue who they are or what they want.

What was the name of the pop song?

Sorry ladies, looks like feminism has backfired, no sympathy for you here.

@mikan1998ful

7 жыл бұрын

DJ239 Go back to your western bubble you ignorant fuck :)

@GuiltyFaT

7 жыл бұрын

AwesoMESS actually he is right it has backfired dramatically not just in China also in the West more and more Western males are no longer even wanting to get married and United States alone males from 20 to 31 years old and not only sworn off marriage but I have also said they don't want to get married at all.

@mikan1998ful

7 жыл бұрын

Joseph Rosario Ok here's the thing. 1. Ever since they passed the one child policy in China in 1970's, it resulted to (on worst case scenario)- a)female infanticide or b) parents giving girls up for adoption because exclusion of girls from workforce have been institutionalize for so long so every parents know that if they want to be taken care of when they grow older- they need a boy. This led to hundreds of Chinese girls abandoned in orphanage, unwanted and alone. In comes the modern age wherein abortion will just do the job. Now, the policy has been revoked and China is pushing for more gender equality because women can actually bring in capital (gasp!). China's (and other country such as Yemen, parts of India and Pakistan etc) fight for gender equality is literally a fight for the worth of a woman's life. This guy's reaction reveals that he is either a) a mysoginistic fuck and frankly, a horrible human being or b) an ignorant, loser who's all talk and no brain trapped in his own little bubble. I suspect the latter. 2. The real deficit in the USA is not of men wanting to get married but men attending university. College application shows that women who have degrees outnumber men by at least 2:1. University of Georgia for example have a 2:3, male to female ratio. Naturally, university educated/white collared women prefer white collared men. That's where the trouble comes in. More women are getting better jobs and higher education. Men, fewer in number, who are in par with these women and thus more sought out, have more choices and unlikely to get married- or atleast until much, much later on. Source: Date-onomics Book

3:10 onward =that song should be every business, gold digger and/or 'escort service' women theme song here in LA. XD lol

@orangedac

10 жыл бұрын

all rise for the gold diggers anthem

@SABOTAGEit

10 жыл бұрын

Gold diggers don't have their own money. Why would a guy live off of the girl if she is digging the man for money? Lol It's a song for women who make their own money.

@TheRockyCrowe

10 жыл бұрын

Cassie Stevens YES. But HOW they make it is another question..lol,

@SABOTAGEit

10 жыл бұрын

Haha, did you even watch the video? One girl sold furniture and became rich. It's not like they whore around to get millions of dollars. These girls are SINGLE and "leftover".

@TheRockyCrowe

10 жыл бұрын

Cassie Stevens Dude, dude.. I KNOW...I'm just saying that song can represent gold diggers and 'escorts' way of thinking as well.

Love that song. Could pretty much apply in any country in the world.

Whats the title of the song? I bet it will be an international hit!!!!

Very interesting. I've seen other documentaries regarding the *leftover* women before, but hearing about the *marriage markets* held by the parents was fascinating. It also says a lot about how traditional sum of these men are not wanting their wife to be older or make more money than them. Here in America, sum guys would be all over the sugar mama thing.

@esanchez3232

7 жыл бұрын

Jonelle Pemberton fuck yea I should take a trip to china find me a older rich woman to date or marry cash in on all the benefits.

"Women want to marry up." These simple words I heard from the Comedian Chris Rock sums up the problem. And the: "Theory of Hypergamy" for the smart sounding version.

what is the name of the song?

@kitsand

8 жыл бұрын

+Ankit Malik I would like to know as well.

@echin3754

8 жыл бұрын

+Ankit Malik haha, it's called "No Car No House"

these women remind me of black women in America. Very independent, single and have a SUPER DIFFICULT TIME FINDING A HUSBAND!

Our worth should not be defined by our marital status, with such a high divorce rate, being single is so underrated, one gets to decide on one's own happiness level and it's not dictated by how your partner treats you. I was married once, and now I'm a happier 28 yo single lady.

catherine - wouldsmash/10

rich, handsome,beauty, educated, good background ??? wake up people!!! you can only find that on korean drama ...

To my Chinese sisters: You are beautiful. Those who are independent are beautiful AND independent. Those who are educated are beautiful AND smart. Those who are over 28 are beautiful AND experienced. You are worthy of attention, respect, and love. My hopes and prayers are for your happiness and fulfillment. Peace.

@fzfr9717

6 жыл бұрын

PalemoonTwilight hy