Timestamps; 05:32 The hardship of being a girl in India 11:10 - Understanding Ego and parenting 15:34 - Parenting as an identity 26:57 - How to regulate stress when you’re a parent 32:13 - Consciousness journeys 38:06 - What are the biggest mistakes that parents make? 45:45 - Parents who are too attached to authority 48:55 - What is most effective long term when educating our kids? 56:24 - How to discipline our kids in a healthy way 1:02:02 -Boundaries with kids 1:05:03 - Preparing to become a parent 1:12:00 - What is unhealthy enmeshment? 1:21:11 - Best piece of advice for parents

@hadramik7932

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Kerwin, great podcast as usual. Tickets for Dr Shefali's Aus Tour can be found at www.flourishandco.com.au 👍

Thank you for this in depth interview. I’m so enlightened. Everything Dr. Shefali says resonates with me. I’d just like some more pointers on “getting off the bandwagon of being a mother”. It’s very hard to do. Once your kids have become young adults, you still feel like you want to know how they are doing. Especially if they don’t talk to you often. How do you converse without wanting to know about their well being? That’s hard for me to let go of.

This was a very good listen. Thank you both. In conclusion, I now want to be a pillow.

One of the best interviews ever.. Kirwan at his best and totally in the zone.

Thank you Dr. Shefali for handing us the tools to heal through your work. And then healing generations and generations to come. Surrender is the key

I’m so happy that she’s out there! Natural, wonderful, beautiful in and out...just love her!

@farhanazm

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agree more

Mind blown after watching this. Has seriously fueled me to learn more of and start my own conscious journey with my daughter and myself. Thank you.

@KerwinRaeSydney

4 жыл бұрын

Love that you have found it helpful Anna🙏

Teenagers need to be who they are , that's their First Foray into their Power!!

I appreciate her so much. She’s beautiful Inside and out.

Dr. Shefali you are a "Rockstar" Luv! Luv! Luv! your wisdom! ❤️💜💖

She is amazing 😍 , I listen to it whole and saved it for listening later . Such insight and truth and so your inside story . Totally loving it .

Especially in India and parents from India...they never want to abdicate their throne (speaker excluded of course!)...even when you are in a "full adult" body now.

Best parenting talks ... always felt enlightened by Dr Shefali's wisdom of being a conscious parents .. Many Thanks, Mr Kerwin for being a good interviewer, too. Five stars for both of you. Great job + great effort. 👍👍❤🙏✅

@KerwinRaeSydney

4 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it ♥️

What a wisdom and great inspiration!

What an extraordinarily beautiful and intelligent woman!!!

At 50:55 you mentioned dr Gabor Mate. Shefali said she had an interview with him. Is it possible to find that interview on KZread or elsewhere? I would love to hear the two of them talk. Thank you!

two of my heroes together

Love her listened all

What an Excellent interview! Top class!

Absolutely brilliant 💝

49:28 Simplicity parenting, Slow down parenting, slow cooker parenting

Heal yourself and the rest will come. 🙏🏻💕💕

Once a small kid asked his Dad, "I feel I am intelligent now, where did I get it from"? Dad: Must be your mom, son, coz mine is intact.

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Is there a link to the interview with Dr shefali and gabor mate mentioned in the interview? I would LOVE to hear that conversation!

Nail & sail it . very insightful , interview 🙏🏻

@KerwinRaeSydney

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Diva, what was your biggest takeaway?

@Deepa16

4 жыл бұрын

@@KerwinRaeSydneyall in all conscious living 🙏🏻 thanks I m a fan of hers.

@KerwinRaeSydney

4 жыл бұрын

@@Deepa16 Thank you for sharing 🙏

55:06 Teenagers prerogative To be rude , annoying , apocalyptic about everything , to be one up over you. That's their First Foray into their Power !!

In India the social system or caste of one’s family decides whether a woman is given equality. Beautiful and wise 👌🏼⭐️.. you do look Indian .. not First Nation people’s of India tho ..

I am curious. I have an neurologically atypical 14 year old son. Diagnosis is combined typer ADHD and anxiety. He doesn't remember to shower and do his homework. How would you manage that scenario? I'm struggling with balancing coaching him through things and allowing him autonomy.

Insightful interview, however I feel confused as to where to begin as a parent

@ashleythomas1607

Жыл бұрын

I would recommend journaling and being aware of self. Write down where you want to be in the next few years. Not materialistic but characteristically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. Really envision that. Then day to day start being aware of what you do now and how that contradict what you envision. Then make the conscious effort to change. Hope this helps. Peace and love.

@Kerwin please try to interupt lesser and let the speaker complete their point

At 45:45 she explains about we feel threatened and it's about tyrannical power and regain of control, That's so primitive

I really love her talks , the way she motivates and she is good no doubt about her but but I have a request please do not lie or spread hatred about India , you would have left India and gone to us to make money but that doesn’t mean you need to blame India for anything ... India is a wonderful Country and there are lot of opportunities for women out here .

@antsinpants86

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! I adore her and her work. Also understand that this was HER experience in India growing up. But there is no need to generalize this negative opinion about India. It is a diverse, beautiful, accepting country.