Can ABORTION be justifiable?
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00:00 Intro
01:22 Abortion is murder
13:31 Abortion is justifiable in situations of rape and incest
22:33 Abortion should be legalised in Nigeria
39:59 It’s okay for the biological father to insist on/dictate the keeping of a child
51:25 There are enough resources to successfully raise a child in Nigeria
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How can you compare rape to getting artificially inseminated? That's wild to me...
@alugirl93
15 күн бұрын
my mouth is still wide open
@Amiebaybiee
15 күн бұрын
Very insensitive
@bluebird4815
14 күн бұрын
These people are wild and talk too much without actually saying anything sensible.
@ugonnanwafulume3478
14 күн бұрын
I’m not going to lie, it’s very wild!!
@jordanpatrol7753
14 күн бұрын
Very wild , it’s crazy
“A child that can become a doctor tomorrow” what if he becomes a thief?
‘A child that can become a doctor tomorrow’ the child fit dey smoke igbo tomorrow too
@pelumiolalere360
13 күн бұрын
True
@lifewithchigor
8 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂That talk off me, this comment even off me pass💔
If you do not have the means to take care of a child, do not have a child. That simple
@xss67
15 күн бұрын
What if it's r*pe???
@nickisson372
15 күн бұрын
Yes
@boochi7087
15 күн бұрын
Period!
@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632
15 күн бұрын
That’s what the abortion is for smart one.
@user-pq2nv7lt8n
15 күн бұрын
rape? molestation?
19:19 "Leave the rest for God" is our biggest problem as Nigerians. God will not come down from heaven to do anything if you don't make the best decision for yourself first.
@simplye.l.
12 күн бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@user-qq6br5pz4b
12 күн бұрын
Jesus*** God is everyone. I agree u tho. But u see eh? Abortion is UnGodly. So that girl is right.
@ShareDmoney
11 күн бұрын
Exactly, even the bible said faith without work is dead
@zyiacoleman1364
4 күн бұрын
Thank you
there's no way this woman said a child from rape is the same as a child from a sperm bank.
@monadonalds
13 күн бұрын
It's the same human being. The difference is the process. This is discrimination
@Goldie-lx
12 күн бұрын
@@monadonaldsyou have to be joking though.
@ShareDmoney
11 күн бұрын
@@Goldie-lxit's the same cause irs a kid . But the process isnt
@__dhinma
9 күн бұрын
Omo e shock me oooo
The adoption argument doesn't work, especially in the context of Nigerian society. Many Nigerian families, no matter how badly they want a child, will NEVER adopt. We see children that are adopted as illegitimate, lesser than biological children. I know this to be true because my mother has a lot of friends that struggled to conceive, and for them prayer was the first option, adoption was the very last (only one of them actually adopted a baby). Not only that, but the process of adoption in Nigeria is overly complicated and those who do adopt are most likely to adopt a baby, so if the child doesn't get adopted within the first 2 years of life, they will probably never be adopted.
@chantelnatalya6433
13 күн бұрын
That is very true
@user-dc6tn3iq7d
13 күн бұрын
This is very true. The rate of adoption in Nigeria is very low and have a bad mentality about adoption. And some that do mostly treat the children badly after having their own children.
@serahdonald
10 күн бұрын
Yesssssss
@kiniudokang1809
10 күн бұрын
@@user-dc6tn3iq7dwow so sad 😞
@kiniudokang1809
10 күн бұрын
It’s a pity,you are right.
The teacher 😂🤣🤣🤣 “I want to tell u the gravity of what you just vomitted”
@day_vid3606
14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@pelumiolalere360
13 күн бұрын
Honestly the English is to much
@thebloomplatinumtv
10 күн бұрын
I love it 😅😅😅😅😅😅
@olayoonuidrisoo
10 күн бұрын
he should tell him actually....
@prexo8192
6 күн бұрын
The thing tire me oo😂😂😂😂😂
She keeps saying give the child out, I will adopt.. madam how many kids have you taken cared of??? How many have you adopted? How much do you have that you think u can take care of how many kids for at least 10 years???
The lady that said that thing about taking a life removes 5 years from your life is so dull. That implies that the woman in her story that has done 20 abortions has removed 100 years from her life. Let’s say the woman is currently 40 years, does that means she was meant to live for 140 years? Some people open their mouth and vomit senselessness. Talking about “You need to read”
@aestheticallyayomide682
15 күн бұрын
honestly, I could not believe my ears! some people are so lost😭
@galacticos2678
15 күн бұрын
she definitely doesn't speak with facts but rather hearsay. if we use are logic, what about people who killed others in war?😂
@nanaamapay9632
15 күн бұрын
That's when they agrue base on sentiments, beliefs and preconceived notions
@vinceeee6728
15 күн бұрын
PLEASE…That was so dumb ! 😭😂😂
@folaodeyemi6949
14 күн бұрын
I was so furious when I heard her say that.
Man that can decide to leave anytime will be the one to dictate 😂
@inegsfrancis8531
11 күн бұрын
That's why we have the court to put things like this in check
@LiveloveJemi
10 күн бұрын
@@inegsfrancis8531 How will you get someone to sign papers or go to court if you have no way of contacting them?
@irechukwunwosu408
9 күн бұрын
And woman to can decide to leave anytime
@Januaryof28
8 күн бұрын
@@irechukwunwosu408they are more attached your mom teaches u everything u know
@tarzandaniel2770
3 күн бұрын
Therefore the baby takes the heat because of that?
This discussion had the biggest plot twist. The anti-abortion team had someone who aborted. Pro-abortion had someone who didn't abort.
@iloveloveloveelizabeth6884
Күн бұрын
That of the pro-abortion is still justifiable but that is the anti-abortion isn't simply because the pro-abortion might have not gotten her self into a situation where she does have to get one.
A lot of people from the older generation follow this pattern that "I believe in this thing, therefore it is right" rather than "this thing is right, therefore I believe in it"...I think it's a very unsmart way of trying to understand the world
@oluwapelumiolagunju2930
13 күн бұрын
well said
Pro lifers will judge you regardless. I kept my baby and was being shamed by a pro lifer for being a single mum. Let God be the judge!!
@tarzandaniel2770
3 күн бұрын
Forget what people say, they would still say that if you didn't have a child. Now, look at that baby, would you have removed it?
Aborting a fetus is morally wrong but taking the lives of millions during war is okay just because they’re from a different country.
@SamuelObafemi
15 күн бұрын
Those are different scenarios. They cannot be in the same sentence
@theCreativeSav
15 күн бұрын
@@SamuelObafemi I’m just bringing to light the fact that it’s acceptable to kill in some scenarios and it isn’t in others.
@boochi7087
15 күн бұрын
@@SamuelObafemiIs a life not a life or are we saying that the people killed in war are not alive? 😂
@angeleyes3396
15 күн бұрын
@@SamuelObafemi Either you are pro-life or not.
@michealchristian2844
14 күн бұрын
That is a different argument. People that are killed in war have in the back of their mind that is either they kill their opponent or their opponent will kill tham. Either way dey know that they have two options kill or be killed. Now for Abortion the baby (zygote) which ever you want to call it. Does not have an option to say if he or she should die or not. Now this where you Argument is defeated of comparing people that die in war knowing fully well that dey will die or live to killing a Zygote whose decision to either live or die has being decided by the mother. One has the power make a decision While The other person (zygote) the decision has already being for him. People that die war is not the same has killing Zygote.
Children by choice and not by chance. Period
@judahsawyerr9348
13 күн бұрын
Meaning u don't like the child ,u smoke it😢
@pascalinebaylon
13 күн бұрын
@@judahsawyerr9348 It's crucial to approach this topic with compassion and understanding, rather than judgment. No one should be shamed or stigmatized for making a decision that is right for them. Remember, everyone's circumstances are unique, and it's essential to support and respect individuals' choices regarding their reproductive health. Let's continue to promote empathy, understanding, and inclusivity in our conversations about this important topic!
@Kasiemobi_udemadu
9 күн бұрын
The Empathy should be from the point of saving the lives of babies
That girl in the yellow braids has no idea of what she’s talking about
@Occ_okeosisii
10 күн бұрын
She’s annoying 😂
Find me the bald lady, damn She's so smart and she killed every prompt given
@amanaliendealwithit
13 күн бұрын
Me too am looking for her???
I would have loved it if a medical personnel (a medical doctor) is actually part of these individuals.
@jointhecruise
15 күн бұрын
We reached out to a couple doctors but they won’t speak on the topic due to its legality in Nigeria.
@iyuncephas2487
15 күн бұрын
@@jointhecruisemaybe if yall keep them anonymous and sign some NDAs I thing you guys should be good to go cus it will give more depth to the topic .. all in all good job cause we need to have such discussions such as this
@michaelchilaka3113
14 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯
@adebanjogbemmy7027
14 күн бұрын
@@jointhecruise I dig. I am actually a pharmacist and to an extent, I am knowledgeable. Some abortions are actually necessary cos it’s life-threatening and a medical doctor would even request a patient goes for abortion. For example, a case of ectopic pregnancy.. Nevertheless, a very good job 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@simplye.l.
14 күн бұрын
@iyuncephas2487 yeah like in the scammers video
I’m anti abortion but I also understand circumstances like rape . That sperm bank analogy was wild
@toodope_kay
13 күн бұрын
Like how do you even say that…that’s two different things lol
@Tamny_pp
10 күн бұрын
then ur pro
As a young boy, I don't understand why A MAN is allowed to even TALK on a situation HE can't UNDERSTANDDD🤦♂🤦♂
@natachauwimana1607
15 күн бұрын
Coz it takes 2 to tango. They have all the right to be there.
@SteamyTVDU
15 күн бұрын
Do you think we should talk and make laws on criminals, or do we not understand/haven't been through lawbreaking so we cannot discuss them as a matter?
@onokorame
15 күн бұрын
Because babies can't be made without men lol 😂
@queenofthej
15 күн бұрын
It takes two to tango but then it takes only ONE to have it. Men abeg. For this one conversation in the whole world silence yourself. Just stay quiet 😂 abeg!
@user-qq6br5pz4b
15 күн бұрын
I think the main argument pro abortionist give is “ What if she was raped” meanwhile rape isn’t even the number one reason abortion is big
Mehn this pro-abortion people came up with real facts mehn 👏. They won the debate hands down 💯
From now on, when someone says something ludicrous, my response will be "I marvel "😂
@liyahchannel9145
15 күн бұрын
Frrr 😭😭
@user-hv6ut1sp7q
15 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 😊
@graciousepelle1463
14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@rebeccalukusa3538
13 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 the best response
@aisikuandrea8211
13 күн бұрын
You amaze me!!😂😂
The teacher feels his articulation equals wisdom 😂 My opinion tho
@user-vq5kl7kl4w
Күн бұрын
Too true... The man just dey spew rubbish with grammar
Comparing rape and sperm banks is crazy
@tegalicocious
14 күн бұрын
Do you get????????? Like THATS THE WILDEST!!!!!!!
@Lois-babe
14 күн бұрын
Like sounds really ignorant if you ask me
The lady with yellow hair is always off point 😂💔
@EniolaArowosegbe-zu4ko
13 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@evelynagyemang319
13 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂She even asked.... "what is the difference between equal say and dictating"... I was like sis why did you vote without knowing the meaning of it🌚🤣🤣🤣
@destinyrachel2719
13 күн бұрын
Likee😂
@user-dc6tn3iq7d
13 күн бұрын
You no see her wig and the band when she take hold her brain 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pelumiolalere360
13 күн бұрын
Likeee
The amazing thing is they agree Nigeria isn’t a good place to raise kids but they want to keep bringing kids to Nigeria?
@zoe-mv6ji
11 күн бұрын
Immigration isn’t a choice for everyone that doesn’t mean they should be limited from living their life and getting married having children etc
@Iamgasio
6 күн бұрын
And are people not getting out of the country
for every abortion you reduce 5 years of your life...goes ahead to give an example of a woman who has had 20 abortions! 5*20=100 years...how is that lady still convinced that she is making sense?
@simplye.l.
11 күн бұрын
No fr! I was hoping someone would point it out
The man with glasses took this debate too personal
@mariantenzagh8120
14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@favourrrr1998
12 күн бұрын
E be like say e mama wan abort am
@ChallangeAcceptedd
7 күн бұрын
@@favourrrr1998 favour 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If presidents and military generals who sanction wars and civil suits aren't jailed, if universal health care isn't given and people die, in fact in ghana our light issues are so bad that 3 children have died in incubators and all these people haven't been put in jail , then abortion is the right of every woman. Abortion is healthcare. It is not by force to have life. Being a mother shouldn't be forced, rather it should be a role women should be proud of. Forcing a woman to be a mother brings problems.
@Princess_Orla
15 күн бұрын
I believe abortion should be allowed in the case of rape, incest and where it threatens the mother’s life. But, when you engage in an activity knowing fully well the consequences, then you can’t just run away from this. Use protection or go for family planning. There should be education on these alternatives so that people don’t have to opt for abortion. Lastly, abstain from sex else, face what comes with it.
@jemimahkwakuyi7879
14 күн бұрын
@Princess_Orla sex Ed professionals even know that telling people to abstain is not going to work. And you're here mentioning birth control and whatnot. Africa is a place where their definition of sex Ed is to scare women into not having sex. This abstaining thing is not sex education, not everyone can abstain but everyone can have sex education! Now these people are deprived from the necessary sex education they need because Africans put God God God into everything. And you forget that getting birthcontrol is uncomfortable for people. Because some health professionals still judge women who come for birth control. Women aren't properly protected, women aren't popularly educated, and you wonder why there are so many teenage and underage pregnancies! Doctors literally only recommend birth control to married women with medical conditions! Abortion is will reduce when everyone is properly educated and not given that abstainance lie. Even birth control fails! People have gotten pregnant with IUDs and condoms on and everything. A woman's body, whether society likes it or not, is not for society, its hers. The baby depends on her organs and everything to survive. She can take away its right to do so, because she also has autonomy. And say what happens to her body and who gets her nutrients. So if you want there to be less abortions, start educating women, and stop telling women what to do with their bodies.
@judahsawyerr9348
13 күн бұрын
It's not by force to have life but it's ok to take the life of a baby
@ShareDmoney
11 күн бұрын
I dont believe its healthcare, if that is healthcare then what else is ? Everything is healthcare then
i heard someone say pro life people are just pro birth, because the way those people who made you keep the pregnancy disappear after birth with no help to render is crazy, everybody with their choices; God have mercy on all of us
@chantalle2507
15 күн бұрын
honestly. and the way that woman kept bringing up adoption as if those children don't also have immense trauma already.
@Ytulipss
15 күн бұрын
Neither of these two comments takes nothing from the fact that you’ve taken a life…own it
@densplayz9750
14 күн бұрын
@@Ytulipss would you take the life of a stranger to save your own?
@ilerilawal6026
13 күн бұрын
@@Ytulipss Yes but sometimes, it's the mother's life vs the fetus' life. You take a life to save a life. It's not an easy decision but it has to be made sometimes.
@Nmbongeni
13 күн бұрын
@@ilerilawal6026those r very few cases
How many have you adopted ma? And how many of these kids on the street can you adopt??
"every life you take shortens your life span" she thougth she cooked something there
@ChallangeAcceptedd
7 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just like the lady said, illegalizing abortion won't bring a stop to it. It will just make it more dangerous for women. The same ppl that yapp about " its all life" should have the same energy with the bills with the raising of the child. Our own parents look at us with filth if we accept those "consequences". Abeg, every woman should decide what she wants. Its her uterus.
Do you know what PREGNANCY IS? LABOUR PAIN? AND THEN, WITH NO SUPPORT. I WILL NOT BRING A CHILD TO THIS WORLD 2 SUFFER 4MY UNPREPAREDNESS NEVER! GOD HAVE MERCY🙌EVERY CHILD DESERVE 2COME FROM A SANE AND SOUND MOTHER. Period!
For every life you take shorten your lifespan…there are serial killers out there either rotting in jail or enjoying their life in freedom how did their lifespan shorten 😂
@justadaeze6322
12 күн бұрын
Just ignorance showing face there
Abortion is needed in certain situations whether it’s rape, incest, medical conditions or if the mother of the child is a child herself. The way the pro life side is talking is extremely incriminating towards the women who aren’t mentally or physically to have a child is saddening. And as a woman myself it’s even more disappointing.
@akinibitoye7908
15 күн бұрын
Less than 1% of abortion come from rape. If you don't believe me go and check it out online. Tell me how it's justifiable to end life while the child is in the womb but someone suddenly wrong when it's outside the womb. Rape is a terrible thing but do we need to punish that child's life because of what the father did. Since pro choicers life to say use the rape argument do we need to only give abortion for rape victims because the pro choice people I know would say no and would argue for abortion in all cases.
@akinibitoye7908
15 күн бұрын
Also regarding medical condition you can go and verify by many doctors as abortion is never used to save the woman's life when she is pregnant as abortion takes time before that child is killed and when the pregnant woman is in danger its stupid to do abortion because that woman would die before abortion even kills the child. What often happens is that the pregnant woman has a c section which is quick and easy to do. People need to do their own research before saying that abortion is used when the woman is at risk of losing her life when pregnant.
@Angelikah1
15 күн бұрын
Let God decide that not a human. Refer to he’s word. I knew you before you where formed in your Mothers womb Jeremiah 1:5. You lot have the enemy deceiving you.
@prettyk1d
15 күн бұрын
Because u got raped does not justify you killing an innocent child, if you dont want the child there is adoption or other methods to give someone else the responsibility, don’t deceive yourself
@niyoleo
15 күн бұрын
@@prettyk1d Lmao. The funny thing is the same ppl who believe a woman that was r@ped should just have the baby and give it away for adoption don’t even go and adopt any of these parentless children. Na all talk no action dey go preach.
35:42 WE ARE ALREADY IN AN INSANE SOCIETY!!!!!! Thank you my dear! Let’s stop acting like Nigeria is moving with sense.
Ajeeeeeh I love that bald lady 😅😅😅😅😅 She dey give me joy shout out to the beard guy, he is super smart. And who opened the door to the studio for the confused lady that said 5yrs is removed for every life taken? Who let that toddler in???😂😂😂😂😂😂
To me abortion should be legalize And those willing to undergo abortion should meet with a medical counselor (psychological therapy) to help them make better choice This will reduce the death rate and complications that comes with abortion
@s.o.1699
15 күн бұрын
Absolutely, because women should be able to make informed decisions either way
@Kingofthenet2
15 күн бұрын
I agree. If it isn’t legalised people may risk their health doing it illegally
@akinibitoye7908
14 күн бұрын
Tell me how it's okay to do abortion but once the child is outside the womb you will be punished for killing them. Makes no sense. Even amongst people who are pro choice do you agree that we should should be allowed to kill a baby just before it's born?
@fjack9508
14 күн бұрын
Women will continue to do abortions. Whether it is legalised or not... I know of many living in countries where it is illegal. So, I say make it legal where it is safer
@tarzandaniel2770
3 күн бұрын
So, you're basically arguing that murdering the most innocent babies on earth should be legalized? Are you kidding me???
I love this show so much I watch all the ads fully just so you all can get your money! Thank you for bringing up these discussions!
@jointhecruise
15 күн бұрын
This has to be the best comment we've ever received on this channel. This videos are so difficult to produce!!! especially in a place like Nigeria. God bless you! We won't stop! ❤️
@Occ_okeosisii
10 күн бұрын
@@jointhecruiseI’ll start watching
Funny enough the same people that said you should keep the child will be the one to stigmatize you for it and you will be living with that trauma for life..Even the part that say's the father should dictate in either keeping it or not isn't right cuz that same guy will still leave you at the end of the day and you will carry the burden alone
In some developed countries, when you go to the gynaecologist to check if you’re pregnant, one of the first questions you’ll be asked is if you want to keep the baby and if not an option for abortion is immediately asked
My own is that if u are bringing a child into this world be prepared to take care of it,and if u can't pls dont.
In abroad you can’t abort a 8 months pregnancy except it’s life threatening…you can willingly do it up to 3 months. Abortion should be legal but with some policies governing it.
I struggle with the argument at 29:19 because in Nigeria at the moment our quality of life and the value placed on the everyday humans life is infinitesimal. The high rate of kidnapping, murders, armed robbery, and the plasé attitude of the people that lead us on these matters proves this. Our weakest, most vulnerable and sickly citizens aren’t cared for in the slightest. So can someone show us where this value is so we can see 😃
@boochi7087
15 күн бұрын
👀👀 Who wan answer?
@Amiebaybiee
15 күн бұрын
Thank you!! Abortion is a lesser evil. But If the government want to avoid abortion though they need to start from the root, the education system. Too many Schools in Nigeria dont teach about consent which is one of the reasons why women are being raped and considering abortion, Religious schools only teach about abstinence to prevent unwanted pregnancy instead of teaching about condoms and birth control, they also need to make contraceptives and condoms cheaper and more accessible for people to avoid having to go through an abortion. Too many children are hawking on the street in Nigeria or working as house help as such a young age because their parents couldn’t afford to have them and abortions arent legal🙄.
In islam, the fetus does not become a human soul until about 4 months. Abortion is permissible under certain circumstances. However it should not be used haphazardly or as a contraception tool. God forgives all sins once the one who commits the sin repents. There are remnants of sin, however, and those need to be addressed through therapy, and fostering a closer connection with God. I really enjoyed this episode.
@zoe-mv6ji
11 күн бұрын
Isn’t it 40 days …
@BasiraLawal-RN-BSN
7 күн бұрын
@@opocoyo No, please. It is 120 days equivalent to 4 months. Google is free. The Qur'an is as well.
@BasiraLawal-RN-BSN
7 күн бұрын
@@zoe-mv6ji No, please. It is 120 days equivalent to 4 months.
The fear of God is the beginning of WISDOM.
Oreofe is gorgeous and so educated! Would love to have a conversations with her more because she's so insightful.
@cypriansunday21
15 күн бұрын
Insightful in what lol? Which one is she's gorgeous. What she said didn't even make sense
@jazisajoke8688
15 күн бұрын
@@cypriansunday21 that’s your opinion if you’re anti abortion ofc you don’t agree lmao
@cypriansunday21
15 күн бұрын
@@jazisajoke8688 If you admire someone who has little care of human life then it says something deep about you. You just want to have s*x and do abortions without filling guilty. Hence your desire to support her. Nothing about you supporting her is genuine. Nothing. You said She's gorgeous and insightful but you can't really mention one thing she said that's insightful.
@eleosa7698
15 күн бұрын
Insight as in she said can make and take life ...hmm wetin musa no go see for gate
@mariantenzagh8120
14 күн бұрын
Do you mean Rita? Because Oreofe didn't make any sense
11:32 "Do you know how many hooligans are out there...do you know how many nuisance...do you know how many bad People?"11:32 ---* 9:20 "Where has Morals gotten us?" 9:20
This teacher guy loves to hear himself talk. Always claiming "moral justification." According to what moral theory? Until he can specify that he should keep quiet about moral justifications.
@Chizzzyy
11 күн бұрын
Don't mind him, loud and wrong with his big grammar.
This was a really really good watch. Living in the UK I feel so thankful for women’s rights and having control of our bodies. Countries need to remove religious beliefs from human rights.
@_jessica.peters
6 күн бұрын
That last statement >>
@sammyosifeso
5 күн бұрын
Religious beliefs was what brought about human right in the first place. Have you heard the story of how slavery was abolished in the USA
@bimmer3081
Күн бұрын
@@sammyosifeso have you heard the story about how slavery came to be in the united states? (Yes, christianity)
@juliusfishman7222
Күн бұрын
You a clown making up your own history , no sane person can say christianity is responsible for slavery @bimmer3081
Wow, 45:45 was so vulnerable, I really appreciate how deep she was willing to get. Beautiful point.
Rita is such a lucid and informed speaker.
@tarzandaniel2770
3 күн бұрын
No. She's not. Her points are laced with fallacies...
This is a great content. Thanks for this Cruise. Please keep it up
“In some cultures, including where I come from, abortion is considered very wrong. If someone has an abortion, there are beliefs that the person will suffer unusual consequences, such as barking like a dog. Additionally, the aborted child must be buried in the same way as an adult, complete with a ceremony, to prevent mental illness in the mother. Ultimately, I believe the decision to have an abortion should be a personal one. Thank you, I really enjoyed the show.
No uterus. No opinion.
@Justkarenn
15 күн бұрын
😂😂
@phantomghoul2846
15 күн бұрын
why?
@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632
15 күн бұрын
@@phantomghoul2846 because you don’t make children simple until you give birth then you don’t have an opinion on the topic.
@emmanueladeoye2959
15 күн бұрын
Sounds like a stupid opinion
@KingofgraceSARA
15 күн бұрын
It takes spermatazoa also sooooo
Human life has no value in Nigeria at all. Constant kidnappings, killings in the north with the perpetrators still at large are evidences to this fact. These are fully grown adult humans who die like chickens on a daily basis. Mr teacher should go and sleep abeg. Oreofe was right in saying that all women were not designed for motherhood and should be forced or compelled into having kids they’re not equipped to handle, thereby perpetuating the vicious cycles of pain, trauma and brokenness. Our current society is a picture of what happens when kids are brought into this world without requisite preparations on their parents part. Let’s stop being sentimental and face facts here! Morality is too parochial a reason to bring a whole human into this world you don’t want. Children know they’re not wanted even when it’s not verbally articulated to them. Feelings of abandonment, rejection, and neglect show up in adulthood as depression and sundry other mental health situations. People will not stop having sex. That’s a given. Legalize abortion so that we stop losing our ladies and girls to unnecessary deaths on the table of quacks. Oreofe is very pragmatic! Very pragmatic! We bury our heads in the sand in this Nigeria and hide under the toga of religion and culture. It’s not helping any. Men have no say in what happens to our bodies abeg. They should shatap🙄
Best speaker for me is Oreofe and Tony
The woman with yellow hair is cracking me up🤣😭
This is an amazing video as a foreign viewer Thankyou for the subtitles make it easier to see what they say!
@jointhecruise
13 күн бұрын
You're welcome 😊
Hello! I think you should make your videos available as audios also like podcast. It'll really gain you more popularity like the honest bunch
The guy comparing human foetuses to chicken eggs is wrong. Most eggs we eat are unfertilized. Even if they weren't, they are eggs. Not human foetuses While I don't support abortion due to recklessness, I believe that a woman should have the choice. For example, in case of rape, I believe the child could be kept, but in the case of incest, I strongly believe the child should be aborted. And since it's already happening anyway, I believe it should be legalized for the safety of the woman.
@tamiausten873
15 күн бұрын
Don't mind these vegetarians. If they want to compare us, why the most useless and stupid bird ever?
I love this channel so much, every video is a high-level production, which is extremely impressive especially in Nigeria!
'Do you know, for every life that you take, you shorten your lifespan' *silence* 'Can you prove it?' 🤣🤣🤣
@day_vid3606
14 күн бұрын
Na when she Google it, i know say that girl na finished werey 😂😂😂😂😂😂 what a toddler 😂
@ambungafaith4876
14 күн бұрын
Chaiii😂😂
that man has no interest in protecting the sanctity of human life, his ultimate desire is to force women to have children. all his arguments point towards that. how can you say both parties should have a say and in that same breath go on to say that if the woman doesn't want the child, the man should dictate to her that the child be kept? calling people ignorant and insane for wanting people to have a choice when it comes to unwanted pregnancies is absolutely wild behaviour
@sunb6402
15 күн бұрын
Then use family planning than aborting
@chantalle2507
15 күн бұрын
@@sunb6402 abortion can be part of family planning. If couples decide to have three children with three year age gaps between them for a multitude of reasons, they are well within their rights to opt for an abortion if it is in the way of whatever ultimate goal they want. I know someone who is married with twins and decided to have an abortion with the next pregnancy because it didn’t fit in their plan. This person later went on to have two more babies when they were ready. There are quite literally a plethora of reasons why people would opt for abortions. Also lots of people use contraceptives but still end up with unwanted pregnancies. I personally have no interest in being a parent in any capacity and I take steps towards that but if a pregnancy still happens, I’m going straight to the clinic.
@journalforkeena
14 күн бұрын
@@sunb6402people using contraceptives and still get pregnant. Contraceptives don’t provide 100% protection from pregnancy
@akinibitoye7908
14 күн бұрын
96% of biologist agree life begins at conception. (Go and check it out. Some studies say 97% or 94% but most say 96%) Tell me why it's not wrong to kill a baby in the womb but suddenly wrong when it's outside? Most abortions happen because people don't want to be responsible at all. They open their legs and know that there is chance that the baby will be born and go kill it. Most people that have abortion is due to both parties agreeing to sleep together and not rape. Rape is less than 1% of abortions. (If you doubt me check it yourself online). It amazement how pro choice people will say that oh abortion should be allowed for rape victims but yet won't be happy if only abortion was only made for those cases and also that these cases are a minority. If you want to argue for something don't be using something that is rare but use the moderaty.
@flymingotv18
12 күн бұрын
He just wants to be right
51:23 "Do you get it now?!" "... I don't." 😂😂Chinonye is too hilarious
@AmerieFanbase
14 күн бұрын
That was funny, not gonna lie 😂
shorty at 31:11 is so sheltered Oh My God! Why do war criminals live to 95 then?
@ekg891
15 күн бұрын
Not sheltered, just dumb. She was trying to act like she read this information in a report when it was just some traditional healer who told her and she ate it up lol
"One of my super power as a woman is that I can give life and I can take it" Wicked people fill this earth. Well God will judge them in hell.
20 abortions multiply by 5 years is 100 years of her life gone already, the maths no clear
@ekg891
15 күн бұрын
She's not a very smart person
I honestly love that a topic like this is being talked about.
Rape is the same as getting sperm from a sperm bank has to be the most unintelligent thing I've heard this year
29:58 all these big English can be solved with proper counseling rather than stigmatization…Nigeria avoids any form of counseling at allllll costs and love to bask in fear
Thank you oreofe .. you've made a good point..
so interesting. so important for community, discussions like this
The craziest point here was about the incest saying terminating the baby would solve the issue after stating that the lady loves making love to her dad😂😂 i now wonder what man would continue with a lady that loves making love to her dad even if she isn't pregnant for the father
If the zygote doesn't have a heart beat, it's not a baby and can be aborted, therefore I can't consider that as murder.
@Wisdom.Phoenix
15 күн бұрын
So if someone's heartbeat stops, they should not be resuscitated and just be declared dead? And what is the sense of heartbeat and life? What of people on machines for circulation?
@BlueIvory4
15 күн бұрын
@@Wisdom.Phoenixnot the same since the person who’s heartbeat stopped is already born and seperate from another body. A zygote isn’t born and is dependent on a host (the mother) to keep multiplying.
@OlamideAwe-jg1xn
14 күн бұрын
@@reeya_ella a baby's heartbeat starts in the womb. About 20-23 days after the zygote is formed. Please get your facts right. And your statement is quite ambiguous. Do you mean it is 28 weeks after birth that a baby's heart starts beating? Because you mentioned incubator and things like that. Incubators are usually needed in premature births, because the baby's body, systems and organs are not fully formed and cannot automatically adapt to life outside the mother's womb.
I was happy when the man mentioned that abortion leaves people with trauma as well. Most people dont know this, but when a woman aborts a child, the body doesn't just go back to normal... It continues to exhibit the signs of pregnancy for months, and the absence of the child leaves a mental scar.
@whatsyourname948
14 күн бұрын
This needs to be the top comment.
@user-ev5zg9pl8t
14 күн бұрын
bro, it needs to be done when it needs to be done
even if you agree abortion is wrong or whatever, rape victims should not have to deal with that trauma for the rest of their lives. that’s not fair to them at all, it was already a situation they didn’t choose.
@achonyeginika2195
15 күн бұрын
Okay? What about the child
@Princess_Orla
15 күн бұрын
I agree. Abortion is wrong but in this case it should be allowed.
@INOOR777
15 күн бұрын
@@achonyeginika2195 The child won't mind. Remember it won't know the dad. Unless the man claims the child & the woman. if he admits his wrong to the community maybe they can marry & get along. In any other case the child will hate the mum for not getting an abortion.
@naomib9989
15 күн бұрын
@@INOOR777Why would anyone want to marry their rapist?
@journalforkeena
14 күн бұрын
@@INOOR777imagine marrying your rapist, that’s another level of dysfunctional behavior!
Oreofe God bless you, you spoke so well
I'm glad to see this channel is about to hit 50k subs, they really wanted to hit in Q1, but better late than never. Truly want to see them hit their new target of 100k before the end of H1.
@jointhecruise
15 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️, thank you for your support! We’re almost there 🙏🏾. Now next is 100k 🌚🌚😊
@danieladebajo7974
15 күн бұрын
@@jointhecruiseI absolutely love your content, it's something I can truly relate with cos I'm a Nigerian. Rooting for this channel to grow much bigger.
I believe that it’s not a black or white topic. There’s a lot of gray area. However, it should be legalized with policies to prevent individuals from abusing it. The benefits outweigh the demerit
@scorpiojuice
13 күн бұрын
Thank you for your opinion on this
I enjoyed this video 💯💯 Well done 👏🏼
Chinwendu the lady with yellow hair has very little sense. You are explained what dictatorship means and she agreed it should not be that way and still, she's like "she doesn't get it" after asked if she understands "dictatorship".
I appreciate our progressive constitution in South Africa.
I love the way Oreofe explains these things👏🏾
Opener was so well cut!
Everyone is on fire 🔥🔥 I love this group
Omo I love the submissions of the lady in red.
Equal rights is different from dictate
Thank you for letting me know that ,not every old person got wisdom
i am 1 min in , and i feel this is going to be some personal war than an intellectual conversation.
@thedonutlady
14 күн бұрын
Oh my God you read my mind , both sides asides from the lady in wine or maroon made any sense
I love this line up, everyone is on fire. "Dyu get it now? No i don't," really made me laugh
Oh What a life 😔.. All i can say is shout out to my parents ❤
This fair lady can lie. How was an eight-month-old pregnancy aborted? No doctor will agree to do such. No sane person will agree. Wetin remain to born am? First, eight months was an exaggeration. Secondly, na the abortion she do dey torment her.
If abortion(🤮🤮) would be legalized it has to be on strict rules… Nigeria can not obey ordinary laws what makes you think they would follow the rules
I think there should be eduction on family planning and abstinence. Abortion should be allowed in the case of rape, incest and where it threatens the mother’s life.
@KingOfGamesss
15 күн бұрын
Also try Mutual-Masturbation (Look together...no touch)
@mariantenzagh8120
14 күн бұрын
💯
I like Rita sense of reasoning and the way she coordinate her speech
@mariantenzagh8120
14 күн бұрын
She is so coherent and intelligent
This convo was the best by far!! Well done
@jointhecruise
15 күн бұрын
Thank youuuuuu . We’re glad you love it !🥰
Abortion is wrong,yes.However i believe it should be regulated and guided.Before the abortion counselling and therapy should be given before the abortion to understand the situation and to make an even more informed decision.